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Red Pill Examplemassivewang/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 10:34 PM
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Field Reportmassivewang/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 01:19 PM
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You’re correct although I think you’ve slightly misinterpreted him. The “nice guy” is a people pleaser who doesn’t directly state or pursue his needs. He instead indirectly tries to make people happy thinking that they’ll make him happy in return (I.e. the covert contract). What he’s talking about here is a very basic principal - be direct about what you need and want. And in fact it’s ok to be direct about those things. It’s one thing to say “we are eating tacos or GTFO” vs “hey it’s been a whi…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 12:25 PM
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A meaningful/fulfilling/happy life is kind of like a pie chart made up of many things in my opinion. Sex and relationships are only a part - 10-20% maybe? Once you get passed the initial anger phase and see the fruit of work you put in to grow you realize that sex isn’t that big of a deal. I think we feel the lack of something and suffer far more than we are able to enjoy the reward. What I mean is that if you can’t have sex and are alone you can feel quite miserable. But if you’re with someone …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 10:59 PM
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Game can overcome a looks deficiency. But being super attractive is something else all together. I have a short skinny pale white friend who has phenomenal game who slays. At the same time we have three friends who are all American beefcake athletic alpha male 1%er (in terms of looks). My short friend runs circles around them in terms of game, but it doesn’t matter. They don’t need game, they just need enough confidence to not drop the ball (they have the aloof idgaf attitude which works just fi…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 10:28 AM
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Yeah he’s a fucking moron for marrying her for any reason other than some weird marketing business type of thing. Just goes to show you not to put anyone on a pedestal. Even genius type successful people do stupid shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 08:30 AM
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Once you've improved and have achieved some level of "success" you realize that sex/dating is only one part of your life. It's an important part, but only one (let's say 10%?). You still have 90% of shit to figure out and pursue. So I think as I learn/grow I realize that quality of life consists of many things that include but are not limited to: Physical fitness Companionship/sex Money Family/friends/meaningful relationships Community and a sense of belonging Hobbies/passions/interests/etc So i…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 06:56 PM
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To her credit atleast she’s honest and somewhat self aware. That’s more then you can say about s lot of women. I enjoyed the podcast for q variety of reasons, but I definitely noticed the confirmation of Red Pill ideas/themes/etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 10:32 AM
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There’s no real easy answer per se. If you’re religious it’s relatively easy to find a local church/mosque/temple/etc to find like minded people of your sócio economic group/status. The closest thing I’ve found outside of religion is BJJ. With that said building meaningful relationships takes time and happens as you live life. I’ve been living in Brazil for work for six years and I certainly don’t have it figured out either. I am seeing the fruits of some close relationships finally developing a…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 11:29 PM
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Yeah that is some autistic kind of thinking. The anger phase of the Red Pill is real, it's a motherfucker to wake up and have your paradigm smashed in an instant. With that said what the men on this subreddit need to realize (if they haven't already) is that sex and relationships are only one part of life. While they are an important part, they are only one part (let's say 10-25%). Yes, there are plenty of "assholes" and "losers" slaying tons of hot chicks and that certainly is infuriating/envia…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 10:51 PM
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I’m all for enjoying the fruits of your labor, but I hope if you’re making pent house and Lexus money you’re also saving/ investing 30-50% of your income or more. If not, your lifestyle inflation will fuck you hard in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 01:00 AM
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This woman lacks self awareness to the point that the only conclusion you can reach is that she has some sort of emotional/mental/psychological disorder and or illness. Forget hypergamy/TRP/whatever else, one thing you need to learn is how to figure out is the root cause of the bad behavior - is it a lapse in judgement and an emotional outburst - or is this person mentally/emotionally ill? This will save you a ton of suffering in any area of life - at work, social settings, etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 11:29 AM
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I mean it was clear to me/pragmatic that I only had two options: 1.) accept the brutal truth and do my best to improve 2.) whine and bitch and be a victim. Only one of these offered any real hope. As hard as #1 is, it’s worth the result. It’s just that the results might take years of hard work.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 02:49 PM
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There’s a two prong approach here: Pragmatic right now - for example what are your hobbies and or interests? Are there any local clubs/meetings you can join/go to to meet people? deep dive long term - are you socially awkward? Lack people skills? Then you’re on the long term path to understand why and what you need to do to fix those root issues. Your approach will involve both of these things - there will be pragmatic steps to fix your long term issues as well. It will be a journey and it won’t…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 11:34 AM
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Hard work over time pays off. When I TRPed at 27 I was fucking pissed, disgusted, distraught, frustrated, etc. I spent ten years as a people pleasing overly zealous evangelical Christian, 10-15 hours a week doing religious activity. I thought during this time I was improving myself and becoming a man, but in reality I did nothing to address the underlying issues. I thought I had wasted my life and was overwhelemd by the ugly truth that it might take years to turn my life around. With that said a…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 10:09 AM
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It all depends on what you can handle. I’m 35 and was over training so I found what works for me. If I do certain stuff in the gym I found I feel it later in BJJ. If you can do strength and hypertrophy 4x a week with BJJ and no adverse affects go for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 08:35 AM
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5-6 days and I lift 3x. I try to keep my intensity down for BJJ so I’m not so beat. In terms of lifting I focus on strength only and don’t do a ton of volume/body building type exercises - my body can’t handle it. I definitely encourage lifting, the strength will help overall - bench, pull ups, deadlift, squat, rows, military press.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 08:14 AM
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I’ve noticed my joints feel better with omega 3. I do BJJ/lift and have more aches when I’m not supplementing omega 3.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 10:52 PM
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Yeah I guess I am pathetic after all. Maybe if I suck your dick and swallow your jizz I’ll become an elite income earner through osmosis.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 04:03 AM
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400k in cash and investments earn a 120k a year 30 countries visited became bilingual ate age 30 train BJJ 5x a week for two years (winner of several local tournaments) lift 3x a week no lack of sex I play video games Is my life pathetic? Do you have a passport OP? What’s your net worth? How much do you earn? How many languages do you speak? Are you physically fit? What about your life is not pathetic? What makes a life pathetic? What makes you qualified to determine who has a pathetic life and …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 10:00 AM
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It's all nuanced and people will need to find out what kind of live they want to live, what makes them happy, how they define success, etc. The point is that video games and netflix aren't the devil. You can be happy, have "success", etc and still have leisure time.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 01:56 PM
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Yeah I think this is a bit extreme. You should give up gaming, Netflix, etc if you’re addicted to them. Or you should avoid certain games. I went cold turkey with video games when I was in college my junior year. One of the best decisions was not buying WoW my sophomore year as I would’ve been addicted. At any rate at 34 I play pc games. I also: learned a new language (Portuguese) train BJJ 5x a week lift 3x a week earn 120k/yr 400k in cash/investments, no debt been to thirty different countries…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 01:43 AM
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Little acts of kindness go a long way. I work as a contract for a company and there are key people who I depend on for a variety of reasons: - A woman in HR for documents (I work internationally, sometimes I need a notorized employment contract etc asap) - A woman in Finance who I contact when my invoices are overdue (and gets it squared away real quick) - A brilliant engineer who is the lead test designer who I contact when SHTF and there's nothing left I can do. - A few office coworkers - engi…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 01:25 AM
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I think the point that needs to be continually reinforced is that sex is just one part of our lives, let's say 5 or 10%. It's an important 5-10% but there's the other 90% of life to live. So Yes, swallow the TRP, improve yourself, maximize your sexual strategy. But also figure out that other shit - who do you want to be, how do you want to live your life? What do you value? What does a fulfilling and meaningful life look like for you? That's an answer you all have to figure out. Roosh decided on…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 12:24 AM
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This is what a narcissist and master manipulator does. They strike first and try to control the narrative so that the “victim” is assumed to be at fault. This shit happens all the times by narssistic leaders in churches, cults, special interest groups etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 01:30 PM
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Well what do you know, a nuanced comment! I think up until this point what you describe is correct, they’re a team, making it work, and growing together. I think many men here take AWALT to assume all women are crazy irresponsible sluts who will leave their husband first chance they get. AWALT is true in the sense of knowing the nature of women/what they are attracted too/etc. AWALT is not true in the sense that women’s behavior, life choices, etc can vary greatly. The single mom with four kids …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 09:57 AM
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I think the point is sex is a big deal when you're not having any. Once I increased my N count and lived the party/pick up/etc life style I found that it's not that fulfilling and doesn't add much value to my life. Sex is x% of my life, there is still the remaining y% to figure out. I think the most important aspect of TRP is being aware, accepting reality for what it is, and then acting accordingly without naivete/illusion. Some guys are going to be happy spinning plates, other guys are not goi…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 06:26 PM
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Isn't this Red Pill 101 though? Understanding hypergamy and what women are attracted to. I think the sub has been quite blunt about the discrepancies between billionaire betas (I.e. thrice divorced elon musk or the recent steph curry wife post) and "loser" Chads. What is your distinction beyond what's already been discussed? I'm not being facetious, I'm just not getting it.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 06:00 PM
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Man it's funny as hell. I'm an american expat living in Brazil. I've had a relationship with a woman who loves me (she's 28, I'm in my mid thirties). I broke it off with her for a variety of reasons (most of which are pragmatic and RP based). I.e. logistics, she loves me in brazil because we travel, will she love me in the midwest with snow 5,000 miles away from family etc etc etc. When I share my reasons why i broke it off with her with women in their 40s - married, divorced, etc they all get i…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 05:37 PM
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I think it's a fundamental misunderstanding about life. Like getting pussy is just one part, being Chad isn't the end all be all. At the end of the day you still have to live life. We talk about it all the time, the CEO/genius/etc who's a dweeb with women, while there's some junkie banging a hottie in his 1 bedroom shit hole somewhere. While it's easy to be envious of the junkie's ability to bang, I certainly don't want nor envy anything else about his life style. Once you are able to have succe…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 12:38 PM
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If you’re the annoying nerd and you’ve redpilled then this potentially is a part of your process of overcoming your deficiencies. What’s the mantra that’s constantly repeated here? “Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better.” One of the most frustrating and challenging parts of redpilling is realizing that it may take you YEARS to overcome your issues. Simultaneously it is one of the most inspiring/hopeful aspects as well because you eventually will overcome them if you’re consistent. In th…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 07:20 AM
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The book changed my life. My biggest takeaways were: I have needs - physical, pscychological, emotional, etc There is nothing wrong with meeting said needs and being "selfish" I am the only one who can meet my needs and I am the only one who has my best interest in mind I have to pursue the things that are in my best interest/make decisions regardless of how other people react.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:48 PM
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A long term assignment overseas will do that for you. You get paid more, the company pays your housing usually, and your expenses are low as a result. Easy to stash cash when you're making more money and spending far less. Also invested my money, typical stuff nothing fancy (index funds, etc).
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 12:02 AM
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Me at 27 recently swallowed the TRP: virgin giant people pleaser 30 lbs over weight no hobbies, no idea who I was 15k net worth Me at 34 : Living in Brazil for work on a longterm assignment N count of 18 have established good boundaries lost that thirty lbs, lift/bjj 5x a week hobbies - shooting, beach, bjj etc been on once in a life time trips - World Cup, olympics, backpacked Europe, etc. Bilingual (learned Portuguese) 300K net worth I've grown a fuck ton in the last seven years. I'm no Casano…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 06:23 PM
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In Portuguese the word gringo literally means foreigner.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 09:34 AM
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Gringo literally means foreigner
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 11:14 AM
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Culture is different in each region to AN extent. I.e Deep South vs NYC back home. North east: beach, warm weather more African influence higher levels of poverty South colder climate higher European influence far less poverty Go to Fortal next year or travel for a weekend for a big concert (Safadao etc) in Recife, Fortaleza, praia da pipa etc. You can experience it first hand. Also I think being a tourist presente it’s own challenges. The fact I’m living here and speak Portuguese makes a big di…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 03:26 AM
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North eastern Brazil is a different world my man. Porto Alegre is hard mode, very similar to the USA. In the north east women go out wanting to be approached. They're very friendly and open. They also make their IOIs quite obvious. Most of the time I have a positive interaction when I approach here. I went to we <3 POA a few years ago and I found the women to be incredibly cold/difficult. It reminded me of being in the USA to be honest (except everyone was fricken beautiful unlike the USA). Ther…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 07:25 PM
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Most of the time in cases like this local men are not going to be on your level. This will be amplified depending on local culture as well. In my case as an American expat living in Brazil I benefit from the fact that: I earn a very high income compared to local Brazilians (4-5x as much) I’m well traveled I learned how to speak Portuguese My approach is the total opposite from local men, who are hyper aggressive and borderline harass women. More women than men, often more women doing better than…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 08:46 AM
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I'm no alpha chad but I think the point is that if you have your shit together, as you grow older you improve as a man. So in my case in the last six years (ages 27 to 33): Moved to Brazil for work Learned how to speak a new language Traveled extensively (backpacked europe, trekked patagonia, olympics, world cup etc) Doubled my income Almost 400k in assets Lots of personal growth and development I'm in a much better position overall in every way possible - physically, emotionally, financially. I…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 01:29 AM
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Amal clooney isn't even that much of an outlier, she's still 15 or 20 years younger than George. That's what's so fucking funny/ironic about the feminist celebration when George Married her. In fact not only is she 15-20 years younger than George, she is also THIN, and while not my cup of tea you can argue she's objectively attractive!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 01:19 AM
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There's not a lot too it. I was a bit fortunate in that I was given the opportunity to move to Brazil for work. That doubled my income and gave me some unique opportunities to experience/do things I may not do otherwise. Other than that, it's just hard work. Diet, exercise, going out to meet women, trying new things, tutor for new language, etc. Boring stuff that just takes a long time. It's a process, the reality is that it may take you one, two, three, five years to get your shit together and …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 11:21 PM
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Low t, small penis, and I'm a mongoloid. Life isn't fair :(
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 10:57 PM
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You're right, I'm a total loser. I'm going to lay in the fetal position in the shower and cry now. It took a few years for me to figure it out. I had a few relationships, and I don't particularly care for/feel the need to go out and bang new chicks all the time. My n count certainly could be higher, I'm not interested for notches for the sake of notches but to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 07:44 PM
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After swallowing the pill I was so angry and disgusted. I was such a naive people pleasing nice guy and an overly zealous evangelical Christian. I spent the ages of 17-27 giving 15-20 hours a week of my life to Christian activities. Doing things that I thought were valuable and making me into a man only to realize most of it was worthless. I was angry and disgusted because I realized that I could’ve been using that time to make something of myself. I could’ve been in the gym, getting an MBA, etc…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 01:07 PM
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Props man on the hardwork, Lifting is magical. I moved to Brazil long term for work several years ago. I arrived a virgin and was one year into my TRP journey. I'm going on year 6 at this point and I'm no longer the bitter/insecure fool I once was. With that said, lifting is the one thing that has exponentially increased the amount of attention I get from women. I put on some size last year and it's nuts. I get comments from women, I get props from my buddies/respect from dudes. Women that I kne…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 12:25 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/BkrFzwDFIwI/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=34grrozegi1o
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:11 AM
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Would I choose wrestling solely for self defense? No. Would a wrestler win a street fight if he found himself in that situation? Nine times out of ten yes. Person with training beats person who isn't trained, especially when it comes to grappling. Take the fight to the ground and your opponent is in big trouble.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:36 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scholastic_wrestling The type you do in highschool, college, the Olympics. Not WWE.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 02:39 PM
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I’m not expert but in my humble opinion I think grappling has tremendous value - wrestling, judo, BJJ, etc. Really almost all wrestling throws and several wrestling takedowns seem to have evolved or come from judo. I think a trained grappler wins 9 times of ten, especially when the adversary knows nothing. People are not prepared to stuff takedowns.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:48 PM
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Learn self defense, the most important skills as listed by a retired navy seal (whom I agree with) 1.) Concealed carry 2.) Jiu jitsu 3.) boxing 4.) other types of striking and other types of weapon fighting https://youtu.be/SGpDVCkhtD4 Boxing, Thai kickboxing, jiu jitsu are probably the top three options you should consider.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 03:21 PM
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Once I started building the framework of my life, collecting positive accomplishments, the anxieties of the duplicitous, evil nature of the modern western woman and the frustrations of how things ought to be melted away, I began to feel contentment. I started to have a clear head. I am properly insulated from the psychosis of others. I know how to filter the good and bad into and out of my personal existence. I have learned how to game life in its complex levels. I'm relatively confident that I …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:10 PM
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What's funny is that a 16 year old with a few years of wrestling could literally beat the shit out of most men assuming the size disparity isn't outrageous. People are so damn confident in their ability to fight not knowing they're a double leg take-down away from a visit to the shadow realm.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 03:58 PM
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You're 17, don't sweat it. Your world is quite small as a high school student/recent grad. It expands exponentially in college and the work force. You're about to meet all kinds of people, some of whom will be at at your level or higher. Keep doing you, keep your eyes out for good dudes to connect with, and have patience. I'm 33, I TRPed when i was a 27 year old virgin. Everything has radically changed in the last six years of my life. Be disciplined and be positive because consistent effort pay…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 03:37 PM
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We use to go to church together (we stopped that a long time ago) and were roommates. To be honest I really don't know how you build relationships like that. They sort of happen organically. All you can do is position yourself to meet people and make an effort to connect with people you get along well with. I think there's something to be said about being authentic/real. It's worth reflecting/diving deeper to see why your "Alphaness" is preventing you from connecting with friends on a deeper lev…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 01:53 PM
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In our circle there are three other guys who are handsome as FUCK. Two of them are in the upper five foot range fit but not huge, the other guy is like 6'3 and is fucking JACKED. Chicks swoon over all of them, they don't have to do a damn thing other than not fuck it up. I've never seen anything like it. They kill it on online dating apps and are consistently with the hottest women. I am nowhere near them in terms of looks. My buddy can out game the lot, but it's funny because he has to work for…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 12:30 AM
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I just know the basics. My game is nothing at all like his. At any rate it's a relationship I'm thankful for. We've had different upbringings and different personalities. There's a level of mutual respect/admiration/appreciation because we both see the best in each other and are both aware of our own flaws. I'm a bit more plan things out and he's far more go with the flow, so we tend to bring good perspective to one another.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:21 PM
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I think there's something to be said about your personality. Intrinsically he's a social guy and his mind leans toward the hustle/problem solving. Otherwise just like anything else, you get out there and you work toward improving it. I don't envy my friend, I think part of his success is because he had a choatic upbringing and he has been on his own since 17. He's quite resourceful, bold, confident, etc as a result. Though at the same time he is quite impulsive, prone to drink, act out, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:17 PM
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I’m tall and my buddy is short. I see the dynamic play out often, not only do women give you a hard time when you’re short but dudes do as well. I’ve seen plenty a man mess with my buddy/overstep boundaries simply because he was short. I’ve had to step in a few times to get them to back off. With that said my buddy has an eccentric sense of style, impeccable game, and has quite the package. He kills it with women because his personality/game are on point. He’s the most socially intelligent perso…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:40 AM
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Lifting is important, especially for those who are trying to turn things around and struggle with set confidence because: 1.) Within 3-6 months and up to a year you can produce amazing results and transform your body 2.) the satisfaction/pride coming from seeing the fruit of your hard work/consistency/dedication is high and incredibly rewarding 3.) Having muscle/being fit makes you more attractive. 4.) Having muscle is good for you. Helps you burn more calories at rest. Strengthens your bones, m…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 01:56 PM
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Luck plays a part per se, however only for those who are prepared/willing are able to take advantage of it. I'm on a longterm work assignment in Brazil that has been an incubator for growth for me in every way. I was offered the job because the manager loved the work I did with him on a project several years prior when he was just a lowly engineer. I never planned to have this kind of opportunity, it appeared out of left field. I am "Lucky". With that said, if I did not impress him with my work …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 04:03 PM
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You don't need to be super jacked to change your life, burn fat, and get fit. I lost thirty pounds in three months doing IF. I went from 0 chinups to 8 in six months. I developed late, arms, shoulders/traps, my chest/upper chest without PEDs. Don't need to be "huge". Consistent effort every day in any area in which you are focusing to improve will lead to progress. I'm six years into my RP journey and I've overcome. I've seen the results after years of hard work in every area of my life - financ…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 04:42 AM
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I moved to Brazil for work a few years ago. I had just TRPED about a year prior to my move. During my first few months I met a beautiful woman (friend of a friend) and we began seeing each other. To make a long story short she was playing me, talking to her ex the whole time she was “seeing” me. She went cold/mixed signals and so I had the “are we dating and are you interested or not?” Conversation with her. She got engaged to her ex soon after, got married, and has a kid. Four years later I get…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:33 AM
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I post cool pictures that I take of the things I am doing/have done to social media. I travel/have traveled quite a bit, guess what often happens to her interest level when a girl I meet asks me for my Instagram and takes a look? It increases. Social media isn't black and white. It has a place, you can decide to be on it or not for whatever reasons.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 10:25 PM
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STEM working as an "engineer" in manufacturing. I work supporting/maintaining a system in an assembly plant. I go to the plant floor every now and then but mostly work in the engineering offices.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 11:52 AM
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Another good piece of advice, arrange the logistics to make it easier on yourself rather than harder. For example: I pay more to go to a gym that is in my neighborhood that I can walk to. I have no excuse to not go lift. I don't keep "junk food" in the house even for guests, because I'll eat it at a weak point I chose a hobby/activity that I like (BJJ), which is also serving a dual purpose as a fitness/cardio enhancer. I HATE cardio for the sake of it via treadmill/running/etc, but LOVE BJJ and …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:39 PM
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Anything in particular you'd like to know? In general: YES, they are as sexy/beautiful/flirtatious/afectionate/endowed with big asses as everyone says they are Culture here is much better for men, the average Brazilian guy does much better than the average american. Men and women take better care of themselves, as a result there re more fit/attractive women than land whales. Typical concert/party/night club interaction where two people meet and are into each-other involves making out - which bre…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:35 PM
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Bull market, 100K+ a year, frugal, saving 40-50% of net per year. Company pays apartment and car while I’m in Brazil
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 08:07 AM
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I was 27 when I discovered TRP, I’m now 33.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:38 AM
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Spot on, shit just takes time, though it’s not necessarily complicated or difficult. It just requires consistency/discipline. Before TRP: virgin 15k net worth “nice guy” no back bone overweight/weak no sense of self/hobbies Five years later: 30 lbs lighter (did this almost immediately with Internittent fasting and StrongLifts, took three months to shed the weight) bjj/shooting/traveling/lifting as hobbies I like learned how to speak Portuguese slept with 15 women awesome travel experiences - Wor…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 03:32 AM
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I know three guys who have top tier dead sexy model looks. When we go out women approach them, give them their numbers, try to pick them up/seduce them etc. it’s nuts! They’re all typical all American confident athlete types, but none of them have particularly fascinating/complicated game (and why would you when it’s that easy?). The genetic lottery is real!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:57 AM
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Narcissism is dependent on a self identity, it's not dependent on enabling from the outside world. It is, however, susceptible to narcissistic injury from it. Touche, that is what I was referring to. Ever see a narcissist challenged? He does not react well, flips his shit, loses frame, etc. In my experience it seems that he "needs" the validation/acceptance of his superior and the moment it is threatened/he's exposed as incompetent all hell breaks loose.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 01:14 PM
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The narcissist is dependent upon his narcissstic supply. Edit: In other words to be a narcissist is to be dependent, specifically on a narcissistic supply. As a result, Narcissism is not the opposite of dependency, but is in fact dependency.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 12:55 PM
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The term is typically used in a negative sense, describing a pathological or excessive need for attention or admiration from codependents, or such a need in the orally fixated, that does not take into account the feelings, opinions or preferences of other people. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_supply
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 12:16 PM
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As I TRPed and began working on myself the book "No More Mr Nice Guy" was instrumental for my journey. The biggest take away was that I needed to make decisions that were in my own best interest regardless of how other people respond. Because at the end of the day only I know what is best for me, and only I am capable of doing so. Do what you need to do and fuck the haters. I have cut out all contact with people who are not authetnic and who do not want what is best for me. For any negativity I …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:39 PM
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I was in the "anger phase" of TRP my first two years after swallowing the Pill. I was angry that I was so foolish/naive, at the wasted time, that I was such a giant pussy, etc. I made a "fuck you/the world" spotify playlist and would let the anger fuel my lifts. It was a challenging time but it was good for me, I needed to let myself be angry/feel anger after having been such a "nice guy" for so long (who thought being angry was never an acceptable response). Anyway five years post TRP and the a…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 01:11 PM
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I avoid situation two by not ducking with an acquaintances stated intrrrst. Once he communicates he’s into her, she’s off limits to me. It’s not worth the hassle. Just because I can sleeep with a chick when he can’t, even though I’m in the “right”, I don’t do it. That is my take however, y’all are grown ass men and can choose your own way. There’s no right or wrong answer. Part of abdunance mentally for me is knowing there are always more opportunities, so I prefer to keep it cool with the acqua…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 06:15 PM
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Was dating a drama queen for a bit myself. On a Friday night I invited her out to celebrate a friend's birthday. She texts back "My sister is sick, I'm taking care of her. I had a hard week at work and I'm mad at you. You didn't ask me about any of this. Leave me alone and don't talk to me for a few days" I reply "OK" I proceed to go out for the night and have a ball (including a few chicks of the group being into me). Anyway I get a message the next night from her asking to talk. I show up at h…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:22 PM
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I don't think it's a standard do or die kind of rule. I think the first date being drinks or something inexpensive is a good idea to figure out if she's going to be into you or is just trying to hustle you. I live in Brazil for work, I was a virgin when I arrived here so basically I learned how to do all of this during my last five years in country. I always pay when I go out, mostly because: It's cheap as fuck with the exchange rate I like certain food which is not inexpensive We've already mad…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 11:59 AM
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TLDR: Same shit we've heard before, lifting isn't everything, neither are looks Lifting is good/encouraged because: Most betas have shit bodies You can produce great results in 3-6 months and totally tansform your body within a year Women respond positively to fit men The results boost confidence/day to day feeling etc It's important to remember that: Lifting is just one aspect of physical activity You can do BJJ, MMA, run, cycle, do calsthenics or body weight fitness Diet is the most important …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 01:23 AM
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I really blame TRP for making gyms a miserable experience for those who lift for themselves Da Fuq? Where are these autistic homosexuals lifting weights? 1.) The vast majority of people I encounter in public are kind and courteous, yes even straight jacked steroided dudes in the gym. In fact the guys who lift in the gym understand what it's like needing to get a set in and if you ask "hey can I jump in" they'll let you most of the time. you never see them talk to a guy just starting out or tryin…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 02:28 AM
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Another shiny thing that brings no value outside of impressing others. Why can't you just admit that you want validation and jealousy, son? There's nothing wrong with that. Not exactly true, it is the best car in it's class of compact rwd sports sedans in terms of luxury/interior. If you're shopping for a car in that class, it's certainly at the top of the list depending on your priorities. With that said you can buy a comfortable car with great utility/value for far less money. At the end of th…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:24 PM
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NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR SELF IMPROVEMENT, and more specifically, nobody cares about you. Internalize. Then work from this frame. How do you deal with the AWALT but not AWALT aspect? For example I've found someone "special" because: She is drama free Comes from a rural city, and as a result is family oriented, sincere, cares well for the people she loves Hard working, understands the value of money, not frivolous overall sweet demeanor, fun to be around etc. I'm no chad destroyer of worlds but i …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:15 PM
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I consistently post the same comment on these threads to show what progress over time accomplishes, and how I fully expect to experience what OP is talking about when I'm his age. From 27-32 (RPED at 27) thirty pounds over weight to Lifting, etc Doubled my income from 55k to 110k Living in Brazil long term for work 230k in cash/investments (from 15k) Took ownership of my life/emotions/etc - am much more confident with better boundaries Banging hot Brazilian chicks (virgin to n count of 13) Trave…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:01 AM
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Now that is some serious ROI. What have you been doing? Saving 50% of my net pay SEP/IRA in VFIFX ($84316) 600 shares of AAPL in a Brokerage account (currently $93,287, bought in with $60k total) $58k in straight cash homie I wish I could tell you I had some sophisticated strategy, but it's nothing special to be honest. Doubling my income + low expenses + not being frivolous has allowed me to accumulate. The SEP/IRA is in VFIFX for the sake of simplicity. I was fortunate to have the foresight to…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:58 PM
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In the past five years (where I trped at 27 and am now 32) everything about who I am has improved: Lifting, etc Doubled my income from 55k to 110k Living in Brazil long term for work 230k in cash/investments (from 15k) Took ownership of my life/emotions/etc - am much more confident with better boundaries Banging hot Brazilian chicks (virgin to n count of 13) Traveled the world - backpacked europe, trekked inca trail, patagonia, tour de mont blanc, tour of Japan, etc. Learned how to speak Portugu…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:49 PM
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The anger phase is a bitch, but the best/most important thing I've ever done was take ownership for my life and put my best effort forward. Regardless of what I was not taught, who failed me, or whatever disadvantage I had, once I accepted reality (and the harshness of it) and took ownership, my life improved drastically in five years. A year after I swallowed the red pill my work took me to Brazil, in the last four years: Doubled my income from $55k to $110k $15k to $230k in cash/investments n …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 05:46 PM
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Blue pill advice, looks don't matter as much as you think, the difference for me was just game, and that was because I focused on women specifically, learn what they really wanted. Looks matter all day, but they're not the only thing that matters. I have two friends (former D1 athletes) who have top model all American beef cake looks and they pull the hottest chicks left and right with no effort. In fact hotties APPROACH them. Neither of them have game that is particularly special, but they're f…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:13 PM
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When I first got to Brazil I started dating a girl who eventually went cold and feed me some nonsense about not wanting to be in a relationship. Turns out she was talking to her ex the whole time and had decided to go back to him (she ended up getting engaged to him three months later). Five years later I'm at a bar one night with some friends here and i get a message from her friend, which is a photo of all three of them saying "Hey we remembered you tonight". Surprise suprise, trouble in parad…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:40 PM
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1.) I make six figures and say I make six figures.... 2.) or they're shrewd and don't want fuckwits who live paycheck to paycheck to hassle them.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:24 PM
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I don't know. The kids are old enough for it not to matter. I think he's just comfortable and is willing to put up with the bullshit for whatever reason.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 05:57 AM
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Can't blame you. Though it's not "hopeless" per se. I think you can find someone to have fun with and share some companionship - just can't let yourself get balls deep into it. Nonetheless easier said than done on both fronts - finding someone who's a good companion and not getting balls deep.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 03:09 PM
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He knows. Not in front of him. I agree, my only guess is he's tapping side action.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 12:54 PM
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Got a friend who is a VP of sales and pulls in 75k bonuses. Wife is a SAHM who is goes off the rails - gets drunk and makes out with random dudes, tells him to shut the fuck up, calls him a fucking loser. It's a mess. She's crazy as shit but she has redeeming qualities - she does a good job as a SAHM, is great at caring for her kids and people in her community. This may seem like quite contradictory, but it's important to understand that people are complex/complicated - not black and white. At a…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 12:40 PM
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Alex & Mary. Alex is: A helicopter pilot for the state police jacked as fuck honest hard working a good man faithful Mary marries Alex, one year later they have to move to his home town due to work. Mary decides to divorce Alex because she can't adjust to the isolation/challenges of new town. Mark & Beth. Mark is: handsome as fuck and physically fit (we're talking top 5% of looks) star athlete in high school high earner - 150k/yr comes from a great family Mark & Beth were high school sweet heart…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 08:23 AM
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Awesome man! I found TRP at 27 and that book as well, changed my life. I'm 32 now and I've grown a ton, almost s complete 180 to who I was. I still struggle and am no means alpha male God, but it's night and day. Do the hard work, celebrate the small successes, and don't lose hope. In a few years you won't believe who you've become and how far you've gone.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:33 PM
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That's awesome. I still think It's s a useful tool for social proof even if you don't need it to bang.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:27 AM
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My instagram is for social proof. I've been to 29 countries, I use it to post cool photos I've taken/ take from/on my trips. My instagram is in my opinion quite interesting but I only have a few hundred followers. With that said I've been able to generate interest via instagram with women I know. Show them don't tell them / swapping instagram accounts is a way for them to see that I'm interesting and I travel/do cool shit. The only thing you need for thousands of IG followers is to be a cute gir…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:01 AM
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Exactly. The issue is that women like number two are getting harder and harder to find, and women like number one are a dime a dozen.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:14 AM
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I don't know what the hate is all about. AWALT but NAWALT. Meaning hypergamy affects all women, but not all women are incompetent crazy useless bitches only good for sex. In my anecdotal experience my two recent "girlfriends" (I am an American living in Brazil): Number one: bat shit crazy, insecure, jealous constantly flipped out about me not talking/texting her enough a constant health issue but never took the proactive steps taking ownership of her health in debt negative constantly complainin…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:02 AM
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In so much as they're human I'm sure marriage is on their mind, because They are lonely and desire companionship/affection/sex. At the same time I think the 35 year old single nerdy gamer type has no delusions about what he's capable of pulling. He knows hot girls go for the Don Draper types, and he's still repulsed by fatties. So he goes it alone. I've got a friend of a friend who's a computer programmer killing it financially. He's religious, and the very definition of a "good man". He's also …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 09:28 AM
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I think most men are blue pill and would marry if they could. I think a big part of the issue is that they're not getting married because women don't want to marry them.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:32 AM
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Props man for grabbing life by the balls. I'd suggest a used car if only because you can get a better car for less money. I'm looking into buying a 3-5 year old used car that has an MSRP OF 60k+. I've got options at 20-30k with 30-50k miles all day - CPO or at CarMax with some extra crash for their warranty. Instead of buying a new ford or chevy, I can buy a used BMW/JAG/MERCEDES/Cadillac etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 06:40 AM
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I posted this comment before: RPed at 27, I was: a virgin who only kissed one girl a giant fucking people pleaser 30 lbs overweight with shitty style no hobbies no real understanding of who I was or what I liked earning 53k a year with 15k in net worth At 32 years old: slept with 13 women, I have established boundaries and can say no lift 5x a week, lost that weight, improved my style have hobbies (shooting, roller blading, lifting, trekking) learned another language (Portuguese) earning 120k, 2…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 02:40 PM
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My ex girlfriend was the most beautiful girl I've ever dated/been with. For me, it doesn't get more beautiful. She loves sex, loves to be around me, and I really enjoy being with her. With that said, she's childish as fuck, dramatic, and a bit crazy. There were many times where I'd rather be with her than deal with the bullshit of being single/pickup/bars & parties until 5am. Anyway I've been "dating" another chick for a bit who's not as beautiful, but fuck man she's an adult. She doesn't compla…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:13 AM
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I don't think it has much to do with a bitch shield in so much as just having boundaries and being willing to say no even if people don't like the outcome. You caved in these situations because you didn't feel comfortable setting a boundary and saying no. This is classic "nice guy"/people pleasing behavior. The book "No more mr nice guy" has been instrumental in helping me get past that. The number one life lesson I learned was that I'm the only person who has my best interest in mind. As a resu…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 11:51 AM
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It's not that they don't want to per se, it's that they've bought into a lie and are heavily invested in it. They've believed the lie so long that to admit is a lie is to face a harsh ugly reality - that they have nothing to offer and have wasted a ton of time/effort. They're basically unwilling/incapable of accepting the truth because it hurts to much. The anger phase is a bitch, that first 1-3 years post red pill is challenging to deal with. I remember feeling like I wasted 10 years of my life…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 05:28 PM
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http://www.narcissisticmother.com/ Sounds like a batshit crazy narcissist to me. While AWALT is true, NAWAN (not all women are narcissists). This is important an important distinction. At any rate my mom is a batshit crazy narcissist piece of shit evil bitch as well. While I did not suffer to this extent, I did suffer nonetheless. I cut her out of my life five years ago and am glad I did every day. She was the biggest source of negativity in my life and my greatest adversary. At the end of the d…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 04:19 AM
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I was a gigantic people pleaser up until the age of 27, which was compounded by the fact that I became an overly zealous evangelical Christian at the age of 17. My career sort of fell into place on its own, I lucked out in that I studied stem, and that by working hard and doing my best I was able to land this assignment in Brazil. This was 100% unplanned and unexpected. In terms of what I focused on: 1.) Attacking my people pleasing tendencies by learning how to: say no to things I don't want to…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:40 PM
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Studied STEM, transitioned to being a contractor which doubled my income. Living overseas adds perks (housing/car paid/income tax exlcusion, etc).
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:48 AM
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Me at 27 recently swallowed the TRP: virgin giant people pleaser 30 lbs over weight no hobbies, no idea who I was 15k net worth Me at 32 : Living in Brazil for work on a four year assignment N count of 13 have established good boundaries (still a work in progress - but I'm doing awesome thanks to "No more mr nice guy" lost that thirty lbs, lift 5x a week hobbies - shooting, beach, etc been on once in a life time trips - World Cup, olympics, backpacked Europe, etc. Bilingual (learned Portuguese) …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:50 PM
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Satire VI is not merely a diatribe against women, but an all-out invective against marriage. .. This decaying of Rome’s social and moral standards has caused marriage to become the offspring of greed and corruption. Men have become weak, and allow women to challenge male supremacy so that marital power relations now favour women. That's from the wikipedia article. Sounds eerily familiar eh? Funny how human nature doesn't change.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:55 PM
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Developing countries present their own challenges. I live in Brazil for work and while women here are a dream compared to Americans (though still difficult and crazy), the country is a mess. Nothing works, everything is expensive, there's no order or organization. The level of English is quite poor. I understand the allure of foreign women, but developing countries are hardly utopian. Even as they grow and improve, their underlying systems are quite fucked/corrupt. A middle class American lifest…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:02 PM
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Fuck people. You got hit, unprovoked you were assaulted and you defended yourself. Everyone who doesn't agree can eat a dick. You've done nothing wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:49 AM
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You sir, win the internet today.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 06:23 PM
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Yeah the lack of self awareness is so telling. Literally everything is his fault, she's not to be blamed for anything. "I barely recognized myself. I had turned into a trophy wife — and I sucked at it. I wasn't detail-oriented enough to maintain a perfect house or be a perfect hostess. I could no longer hide my boredom when the men talked and the women smiled and listened. I wasn't interested in Botox or makeup or reducing the appearance of the scars from my C-sections. And no matter how many hi…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 01:52 PM
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I think we've all agreed that there are plenty of men who piss excellence as an athlete, businessman, etc but know fuck all about women. I suspect Elon is one of those men.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 01:51 PM
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Whatever it is; her behavior changed. I didn't expect it to.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 03:13 AM
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I think it's a testament to authentic and meaningful relationships. My friend and I are fortunate in that our relationship with them and each other is deep and real. We've known them for 8 years now, and have seen their kids grown up/have been a part of those moments. My friend has a special bond with both of their children, sort of like the super awesome/cool fun uncle (who also gives good life advice for those sticky situations that mom/dad don't understand or will kill you for). Also I think …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 05:29 PM
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It's crazy isn't it? I am really good friends with an older married couple, husband is a G. He's a bit overweight but other than that he's making bank (70k bonuses 2x a year), hunts, fishes, can fix anything in the house, etc. I've been over there with his wife cussing him out and calling him a loser. My buddy and I had to sit down with her and tell her "You can't talk to him like that around us. He's our friend and we love and respect him. Furthermore we can't understand why you have the audaci…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 08:30 AM
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Remember too, most of the people in a medium sized place don't know you except by email signature. Attaching a face to you makes it much harder to people to sluff off your requests. You should be making face time at the office as well, but it's a great opportunity to practice your LOP. I'm an engineering contractor (nothing special tbh). I am on a long term assignment in South America and I often find myself having to ask my HR or accounting lady in the USA for assistance of some kind (a special…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 11:13 PM
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Yeah I figured it was popular in Dagestan/Chechnya and the like to due Khabib in the UFC. Wasn't sure if it was a national pass time or only super popular in certain parts of the country. I'm the USA wrestling certainly is much more popular and common in some parts versus others.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:57 PM
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Is it safe to assume most Russian boys have participated in wrestling? Or is it just some parts of the country where it's popular?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:28 PM
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I'd like to think that being a beta is closely related to, if not interchangeable with being a people pleaser. People pleasers get disrespected because they don't know how to say "no". They don't know how to handle conflict, so they just don't. They take a lot of abuse and bullshit from people because they're naive, weak, unempowered, etc. As a result, people then disrespect you because they can. Your classmates, co workers, friends, family do and say what they want to you because you won't say …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 08:51 PM
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You have to wait and see, it depends on whether or not she decides to file charges. If she does, then I imagine the cops will call you and try to pressure you to give a formal statement. At that point you tell them to contact your lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:35 AM
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Yeah not only does she has a kid, she has a kid with a rough and tumble alpha thug master rapper named Future...
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 03:29 PM
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Society gives the seal of "approval" to blue pill behavior/ideaology, however there are no rewards. The rewards you speak of are pats on the back and flattery.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:16 AM
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You did the right thing bro. She's bat shit crazy, a chick like that will ruin your life. It's ok to feel guilty/lonely/sad, but those are just the short term emotions you'll need to wrestle with. You made the best decision for your life!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 08:39 PM
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I mean it depends. If you're not going to places where people dance very often, I agree. In my case I'm not in love with dancing but there's value in learning it. I live in Brazil for my job and when we go out a lot of the music is local and has dances that go along it. I've learned a little bit, though the complicated stuff has escaped me. I'd like to take lessons because it's just a great opportunity to meet women. I love to talk and meet new people, but dancing can open doors in ways conversa…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 03:54 AM
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Went on a costume pub crawl with some friends. Afterward went to another club with one of the single guys who is a dance instructor. He was wearing a goofy ass Cupid outfit in a club where everyone was dressed up. We met his dance friends, including a few of his students who were fucking hotties. The minute he starts doing his crazy sweet dance instructor shit with these hot broads, every hot girl in this place was fixated on him. They were all fucking him with their eyes, bumping into him when …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 03:51 AM
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I'm living in Brazil for work. I recently changed my first picture on tinder to photo of me on a trail in front of a mountain. I'm wearing a tank top so you can see my arms are a bit muscular (nothing crazy). Anyway, after this change, my like rate has gone up exponentially. I don't think I'm any more handsome in that photo vs the others. I have had a similar photo of me on a trail as well but I was wearing cold weather gear. So yeah my guess in this case is the photo of activity maybe signals s…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:45 PM
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It's funny how we do this shit. We look at other people and we think they've got it all figured out. Obviously some of us are more insecure than others but at the end of the day we're all tucking human trying to live life and figure this complicated shit out.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 02:58 AM
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Anybody who spends more than five minutes reading a post on liftign or making money can easily discern that the TRP is not about an easy fix, being black and white, or that there's only one way/requirement to improving your life and situation with women. A detailed post on lifting, finances, style etc is just that. None of the quality posts I've seen on the topic have ever implied that the only way to succeed with women is to only do that specific thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:00 PM
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Another shit post. Nobody here is saying lifting is enough. Lifting is one aspect of personal improvement that men can and should pursue. no one has said this is black and white ever. Lifting, earning more income, pursuing your passions, establishing strong boundaries, learning how to say no, etc etc etc etc are all part of TRP and the growth required to become a man.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:25 PM
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Let's just say there are far more male virgins than female ones.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:16 PM
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I was an overly zealous evangelical christian for all of my youth (17-28). I did not party, I was a virgin, and I was committed to Christian activities 10-15 hours a week. I became a christian at 17 because I was lonely, had low self esteem, and felt totally lost and unprepared for adulthood. The church was an instant community and sense of purpose (it was one of those big mega churches as well, so it was pretty "cool" compared to the traditional church I grew up in). Anyway in my late twenties …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:43 PM
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I met up with a chick I had met during a parade the week before. I invited her to a small sushi joint I like. Anyway she got dropped off by a friend and we drove back to her car. We made out in her car and then she invited me in, but she said "you can come in but no sex". This was the first time I've heard this, but I remembered from a lot of TRP/PUA/etc that usually when a woman says this sex is going down. Anyway I said "sure, no problem" as we entered her home. She immediately led me to her b…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 12:26 AM
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Awesome breakdown What's great about many of these steps is that they are really pragmatic and healthy. It isn't about being a game wizard in so much as it's being a man who values himself and has good emotional boundaries. I think these are really practical things men can focus on as they transition from BP to RP. The "game" side of things can feel a bit overwhelming because it seems like you're playing chess without knowing the moves. But being a strong/confident and emotionally healthy person…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 10:23 AM
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Don't know why you got down voted. I think you're right in that most "suffering" is just consistency. Going to the gym for an hour three to five times a week, a meal plan, frugality, etc. All of these things aren't difficult, they just require consistent effort over a long period of time. I think it's better to highlight the correlation between sacrificing and suffering. If you're not willing to sacrifice comfort/convenience/etc to be fit, financially stable and so on, you will suffer.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 12:01 AM
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No big deal, you live you learn. I'm no Casanova, and I've fucked up plenty of times. The fuck up come less often, and each fuck up presents itself as an opportunity to learn and grow. You've already had good suggestions, I think the best two I've seen are: 1.) isolate her 2.) befriend the group/win over the betas Though #2 can be a challenge if they're invested in her and will shoot you down anyway. I think isolation is the best in this specific case.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 05:23 AM
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Church is a great place if you're a Christian alpha male. Really it all just boils down to being attractive/alpha. In fact I would argue that I'd you're a high value alpha male church is one of the best places to find a spouse. I use to go to a certain type of church back in the day. All of my friends were alpha males - handsome, fit, charismatic, made good money, etc. One by one they each married beautiful Christian women who are quite lovely to be around. And they are all living the fucking dr…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:54 PM
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As a former overly zealous evangelical Christian, I'm here to live my life, not go on a crusade for any idealogy - TRP or otherwise. The narrative is stacked against you, engaging in debates on this shit is just going to get you labeled as a psycho.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:49 PM
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Any time I've ever had a female friend want to set me up with their "hot" single friend, she's always been ugly. At this point I always decline, sight unseen. I have not regretted it once.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 08:31 AM
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I've been reading about how women like rough sex, hair pulling, ass slaps, dirty talk etc for a long time. I was a virgin until three years ago, so it's all pretty new to me to begin with. With that said I'm not a natural at these rougher parts of sex, so they're a bit weird for me. A girl I've been seeing here loves dirty talk. It comes out for me when I drink a bit, so she's always thrilled when we bang when I'm buzzed up. The first time I pulled her hair when I was hitting it from the back sh…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:10 PM
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Main reason why Nice guys fail at life and are miserable. Source: Former nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 07:31 PM
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The main thing for me is that it just doesn't matter, I don't care. If I have to do it all on my own, then what do I need God for? He's not going to help me become a better man. He's not going to help me: overcome my emotional baggage dead lift 500 lbs land a hot girlfriend with financial success find and maintain fulfilling and deep relationships with a successful career I have no use for scriptures, prayer, or any other spiritual practice at this point in my life. I'd rather spend the time lif…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 04:09 PM
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Yeah, part of the book talks about how people pleasers constantly make decisions out of fear of fucking up or making people mad. The reality is that most of the time: nobody gives a shit People are cool with you doing what you need to Even if you make the bad decision, the consequences are nothing serious.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 01:05 AM
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It's a combination of several things. The first is upbringing, which affects how you develop emotionally/psychologically. I never learned as a child/teen that I what I wanted or what I needed mattered. Never had the guidance I needed as a youth that empowered me to take ownership of my life. Dad was emotionally absent trying to provide and keep it together, mom was a satanic evil crazy whore bitch narcissist who ruined our family and made our lives hell. The second is that I became an overly zea…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 12:51 AM
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Takes time buddy, years. One step at a time. I remember I went on a trip for work shortly after reading the book. I arrived in Brazil and at the client site around 1pm. The client asked me if I wanted to eat at the cafeteria, I did because I was starving. Nice guy me was saying "no he already ate you should start working and suck it up". But remembering what I read, I said yes. So we went to the cafeteria and chatted a bit while he watched me eat. I got to work on a full stomach and not be pissy…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 09:13 PM
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People pleasing. Doing shit you don't want to do to make other people happy. It's a fucking miserable way to live. It's how I lived my life up until 27. I miraculously swallowed the pill and started to move forward. It's some empowering life changing shit when you realize you can say no and choose to do whatever the fuck you want. No Mr Nice Guy changed my life, best book I ever read.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 04:32 PM
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His problem is he probably succumbed to the pressure of his family/friends. His first response was right, but I'm assuming he didn't have anyone affirming his decision. In fact I bet everyone was telling him the opposite. So he succumbed to believing the lie. His sense of self probably wasn't very strong to begin with either.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 04:06 PM
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Red pill aside, it's a good example of a complicated life situation that requires emotional maturity/intelligence - and most conflict avoidant spineless betas would just crash and burn here. I'm not one for marriage anyway, but if he was It just seems like an unhealthy situation. It's one thing to care for a sick/dying/crazy unfortunate parent who fucked up. It's another thing to care for parents who had the means to secure their futures and did not. Who knows what the dynamic is like between th…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:11 PM
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For sure, it's his epiphany moment. He's "woken up" in a sense. He's got a long hard road ahead of him, but he does know how to handle something like this better in the future.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:00 PM
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Of course he always had "control". The point is he was beta and was either: unaware he had the control/power to change things felt obligated to care for her to due his betaness whatever other fucked up unhealthy mental/emotional/psychological shit he believed. He's awaken and now he knows better, let's celebrate that instead of imply how much of a little beta bitch he was. The book No More Mr Nice Guy was instrumental in my growth OP, read it and embrace it. Recognize that only you can meet your…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 06:48 PM
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I was "living the dream" back in the USA, basically doing the same work. It all depends on what you want to do really, our situations don't have much in common because I came down here for work so there are a lot of different dynamics at play. What are your goals/budget? Are you wanting to live in a city for a few months and experience life there? Do you want to travel throughout South America and experience all kinds of different things? (Inca trail, Patagonia, Galapagos, Buenos Aires, Rio, San…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 11:55 AM
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Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring has been huge for me. I got presented with an unexpected long term opportunity to live/work in Brazil, and it's changed my fucking life for the better in every way. It's helped that I TRPed about a year and a half prior to leaving. AT any rate my time year has helped me grow tremendously and has given me a lot. I did not plan for it to happen, it came out of no where. So really it gives me a lot of hope for the future because you never know.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 05:23 PM
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I'm 32 and my life is better than it's ever been after trping at 27 and busting my ass to get to this point. My finances kick ass, I live in tropical beach city Brazil for work, bang brazilian chicks, am the strongest I've ever been. I look forward to seeing the results/benefits well into my 30s and 40s. Especially if I stay here in Brazil.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 05:07 PM
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I am 32 years old working in stem (manufacturing engineer). My job has been the silverlining of my beta pre TRP days. I TRPed just before I moved to Brazil on a long term assignment for work. In between when I trped, moved to brazil and now: I doubled my salary am saving more than half of it anually at 200k in net worth (cash/investments, had about 15k before) started lifting (still do 5x a week) improved my style tremendously (like /u/ShowerTeamCaptain suggests) worked on my emotional issues (N…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:59 PM
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I think the part of authentic friendships is that you don't need frame and all that. I didn't need to discard my most valuable relationships as I TRPED as those closest to me understood and cheered me on. I'm certainly not top alpha male or the most interesting man alive. While I've made strides and have had and will have interesting experiences, I'm still a goofy motherfucker. I still play PC games and make dad jokes etc. My friends don't feel threatened or alienated by my improvements, they ch…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:00 PM
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I agree at face value that there's something wrong if you truly become an "asshole" to your friends.But I doubt that's what happened. What is likely is that he went from spineless nice guy to a man who set boundaries and learned how to say no. I'm assuming his "friends" started putting him down as he tried to improve himself as well - as noted by this woman who is dismayed by the fact that her former orbiter is now a man with a life of his own.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 06:40 PM
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My favorite comment from that thread I know of only one person who explicitly supported The Red Pill, and unfortunately he was one of my best friends in college. At first it seemed positive as he became more assertive and more fit through healthier hobbies like running and kickboxing, then it became clear that he was into something bad when I realized that he went beyond that and became a condescending, confrontational asshole. Sure he definitely picked up more girls that year (probably more tha…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 05:07 PM
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There's a difference between whining and having authentic conversations with people you value about life. Sometimes it's therapeutic to be able to talk with a close friend about what your struggling with. Sometimes your close friend is dealing with the same issue, or they have insight/constructive criticism that is very valuable. Relationships and people matter. No one is God, no one is an island. It's invaluable to have the kind of close relationships where you can talk about anything and every…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 11:17 AM
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Man I can't imagine being in debt 40k. With that said when I was earning 40k a year as an entry level engineer with 25k of student loan debt I was driving a fifteen year old beater and wearing the same clothes from college. I made $1500 student loan payments each month and got out from under that shit in about two years (interest rate was about 7% at the time). Been debt free since then, and it's great.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 06:12 PM
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I'm just not consistent. I haven't reached that level where its second nature to me. Still requires a lot of effort/luck. Don't get me wrong, I'm worlds a above where I was. But I have a long way to go.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 03:03 PM
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True, although it's a subset of social skills. I am super out going, it's my personality. I love meeting new people and I'm sincerely interested in getting to know them. I have no fear approaching groups. Here in Brazil (where I live for work) my boys all give me props. I approach groups of chicks no issue, get them laughing, have fun, etc - but I'm not the best at converting. My buddy's all say they're jealous and are amazed at what I do, but at the end of the day they are making out with/bangi…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 01:27 PM
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He fucks his share of girls who are a mess. He also fucks his fare share of girls who are bright and have their life together for the most part. He's a mess, but he's the most fun person I know. He's also got a high level of intelligence in the context of life situations. He's a problem solver and socially savvy. Had his upbringing not been a disaster, he could've been a CEO or reached a high level of success in the corporate world. He's got the intangibles all day. I think the contrast is what …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 08:44 AM
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I think for me what these stories illustrate is that having money doesn't make you good with women. While it's true that alpha's can still be cheated on, i think the point is that being rich doesn't make you immune to hypergamy. It also reinforces the fact that TRP/game/attitude can trump money. I've got a friend who is: broke unskilled laborer impulsive a border line alcoholic constantly living with some sort of crisis every six months short pale skinny In comparison I am: 6' 2" an engineer ear…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 08:22 AM
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No doubt. That's why TRP is so fricken important - You can check off all the boxes - wealth, looks, fame, and still not know what is true/get screwed.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 07:23 PM
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Was married and got divorced, then met Talulah Riley: http://www.vanityfair.com/news/2016/03/elon-musk-talulah-riley-divorce-again BP all day. Gets divorced by her and goes back for seconds and thirds.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:04 PM
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Beta bucks even when you have billions - Elon musk is another example of it. You can be a badass businessman, and a fool when it comes to women.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 02:55 PM
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Of our last three directors each one fucked a female employee promoted female employee to manager level each one was/is incompetent and not fit for management. Corporate america, land of mediocrity. It's a shit show out here folks.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 09:37 AM
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Granted I've never been on TV, but learning about agree and amplify has done wonders for me because I use to get butt hurt or defensive whenever anyone insulted me (even if I was unable to decipher what was a joke and what was real). So I feel like this is a case where Jonah could've used AA: "Yeah I don't blame you, I'm a fricken land whale really and my penis is the size of a wet baby carrot. I don't know if there's a woman alive who wants to have sex with me" Or "Hell I'm great friends with C…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:09 PM
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Only you can meet your needs, and only you can live the life you want to live. You owe nothing to no one. You get to decide who is in your life and who isn't. You already know this, and are living it, this is just an encouragement/affirmation Live your life as you see fit, fuck the haters. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 02:18 PM
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Taking ownership of your life is spot on and it is part of how to kill the beta. Part of betaness, and extreme betaness is being the "nice guy" which is basically being a people pleaser or conflict avoider. Instead of pursuing what you want, you pursue what other people want. I'm in a similar boat to your med school friends as I work as an engineer, and was sold that path since my childhood. My parents were immigrants, and all they instilled in us was work hard and become engineers. With that sa…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:12 PM
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Had to look it up, I'm sure I'm not the only one who doesn't know the acronym. Thanks for expanding my knowledge.: "A key performance indicator (KPI) is a business metric used to evaluate factors that are crucial to the success of an organization. KPIs differ per organization; business KPIs may be net revenue or a customer loyalty metric, while government might consider unemployment rates."
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 04:09 PM
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My experience: http://www.narcissisticmother.com My mother was a batshit crazy evil bitch. Her only redeeming qualities were that she cooked and cleaned excellently. Other than that she treated us like shit. We existed only as a part of her narcissist supply, or in other words to validate her and meet her needs. She was never loving, nurturing, or gentle with us. After realizing she was never gonna change, and she was going to continue to be the biggest source of negativity in my life, I cut her…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 04:03 PM
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It is also important to differentiate between constructive criticism and people who are just trying to tear you down. You should be willing to take criticism from people you know support you and have your best interest in mind. Otherwise agree and amplify is a great thing to use when people try and tear you down. I.e: "Hey bro, your belly is getting pretty big, you pregnant?" "Yeah, triplets actually. They're due in two months" etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 01:47 AM
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I was beta Christian bitch from 17-27. I was a virgin until I was 28. I walked away from Christianity at 26 for a variety of reasons. At any rate I was nervous about having sexing for some time after because I was still indoctrinated in the sense that sex was some profound emotional experience. Anyway after I had sex for my first time I thought "WHAT THE FUCK WAS I SCARED OF AND WHAT THE FUCK WAS I WAITING FOR?!". I don't think you're missing our per se, but the reality is that as long as you do…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 02:03 AM
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6% CAGR gets me to the lower end of 1 million in eight years time at my current savings rate/income: http://www.joshuakennon.com/mail-bag-return-assumptions-in-your-about-com-articles/
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:18 PM
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Hoping to have 1 million in 8 years and then retire (4% withdrawal rate). Let's see what happens!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 08:02 PM
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Over five years Virgin to count of 8 $10k saved to 170k $50k a year to 100k a year 30 lbs lost, lift 5x a week weak spineless nice guy to good man with boundaries I'm not a master of anything, but five years of hard work and my life has improved in every way. It's a long game, sometimes it's frustrating and you feel like you'll never improve or win, but consistent effort and forward motion pay off!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 07:37 PM
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My best bud is: Short as fuck Pale as fuck Broke Impulsive Border line alcoholic He slays pussy left and right. His game is unreal. He is super witty/socially savy. He can read situations/people like no one I've ever met. He always knows how to have fun in the moment, and knows all of the fun/most interesting spots in town. He wrestles with book smarts and his life is a mess. But I suspect that if he had a different upbringing he could be an exec somewhere making big bucks. He's got the intangib…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 10:34 AM
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Wooh another spergy black and white shit post. Nobody is saying bodybuilding is the end all be all and the only way to get girls. Looks/fitness aren't the only thing that matter, but they matter. There are a lot of things out of your control, or a lot of things many of you will enver accomplish. Most of you won't be bad ass billionaires or politically connected. However, most of you can be physically fit and use that to your advantage. TL:DR - Stop with the fucking retarded shit posts. TRP self …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:09 PM
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NO DUDEBRO SELF IMPROVEMENT IS ALL YOU NEED!!! /s Sorry couldn't help myself. We've got some fucking spergs on this sub who can't comprehend that being a "high quality male" doesn't mean a whole lot when it comes to women. They somehow are forgetting the maxim "alpha fucks beta bucks". Game matters. Frame matters. SMV matters. Being a hard working, honest, physically fit, wealthy - can help but there are "lesser" men fucking hotter chicks.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:00 PM
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But I think it is an example of game: he's entertaining he's socially intelligent and understands the dynamics I.e shit tests, indicators of interest, how to handle a group, how to win over friends, etc he has eccentric style which makes him stand out (aka peacock) he is confident, doesn't give a fuck, practices amused mastery and dread I think what it high light is that it is not a zero sum game. "Alpha fucks beta bucks" right? So there are successful betas who've accomplished a lot who just do…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:05 PM
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I have a good friend who is: Short Skinny Pale as fuck Broke Impulsive Border line alcoholic Personal life is an absolute mess, always a major crisis every 3-6 months. And he slays pussy left and right. He is fun as shit, knows all of the fun/interesting/cool venues in town. He is witty, outgoing, and one of those guys that either everyone loves or hates. In the context of "self improvement" I fucking own him: I'm tall (6'2") Make 100k+ Have traveled to 30 countries Live in Brazil for work Go on…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:53 PM
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It's not a zero sum game. Most of us will never hit Leonardo de caprio status SMV. There are guys who don't lift, who don't make a lot of money, and who have "game" and are slaying it with women. Learning how to pick up chicks and improving yourself are not mutually exclusive. You can do both at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:49 PM
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The book "No More MR. Niceguy" has really been instrumental in my transformation. Part of the book talks about how the niceguy makes decisions based on fear, specifically the fear of failure and or fucking things up. I realized that I was afraid of how people would react to my decisions when I would say no, I was afraid of how people would feel if I made a decision/did something and they didn't like it, and I was afraid of what would happen if I made a decision and fucked something up. Anyway wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 05:07 PM
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Yeah it's not black and white binary. I use facebook to stay in touch with friends, events, etc. I also share my instagram pics for social proof (which show me in exotic locations etc). So whatever. Do you like social media? Do you like video games? Do you like watching sports or other forms of entertainment? Do you consume other forms of media? Great. Do whatever the fuck you want and spend your time how ever you want to spend it. If you're unhappy because you spend forty hours a week consuming…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 10:40 AM
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Yeah you're spot on. It's just a pet peeve of mine, hence the rant.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:56 AM
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Man women are fucking on the regular with this shit, it never ceases to amaze me. With every girl I've ever dated I've had this go down in some form or an other: Me: "I am doing and/or need to do thing x at time y. It is important to me. Come join" Her: "Sure, great!" Close to the time of the event or on the arrival of the event she is running late, asking me if I really want to go, or is complaining about the fact I want to go. Bitch I told you what was happening, I invited you, you agreed. Kee…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:07 AM
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There's a difference between parents who neglect their children or are unhealthy/negative, and parents who don't know any better. I resented my father for a long time because I felt that he failed me as a man in the sense that he did not prepare me for the world. I did not know how to handle life situations. I was taught to listen to authority/obey, work hard at school, and be a good person. I wasn't taught how to deal with bullies, the challenges of social situations, etc etc etc. Anyway it was…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:12 PM
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I've got a great friend who is short, skinny, and pale as hell. He has eccentric/incredible style and game like a motherfucker. Never at a loss for words, knows how to have fun, is banging all kinds of hot broads even though he's short, impulsive, reckless, and broke.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:54 PM
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I keep bringing her up, my friend's ex-wife: Married at 22 (high school sweet hearts) Both virgins Religious community She is: Sweet feminine beautiful religious hospitable outgoing hard worker The very definition of a beautiful, sweet, loyal dream wife unicorn Left my buddy last year. Was fucking her boss at her sales job for the last four or five years. Also had an affair with a mutual friend in our social circle with whom she is currently with (who is a joke compared to my friend). All women …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:52 PM
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What is it about people that makes them bend to the whim of another person and have no self respect? It's a lack of pyschological/emotional development. This shit is ingrained deep in the psyche of people. A healthy family environment will enable a child to grow and realize that his emotional/physical/psychological needs matter. His parents will help him develop boundaries, understand that his feelings and choices matter, etc. The sad fact of the matter is a lot of people are emotionally retarde…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:37 PM
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The sad truth is that sometimes the people who should support us the most are often support and believe in us the least. My mother is a narcissist and for a long time it broke my heart that she never believed in me, encouraged me, trusted me etc. Even though everything in my life showed that I was comptent/succesful/trustworthy she never had anything positive to say. One of the most freeing moments in my life was realizing that she was a narcissist, and she would never change. She would always b…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:31 PM
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personal finance is yet another area where it is important to break free of the Matrix of social pressure and "common wisdom". This is a great quote. Take control of your finances, live below your means, and pursue your financial goals as you see fit. Some of you want to make crazy money, some of you are content to live on 15k a year. Whatever the case, pursue the money on your terms to achieve your goals. The funny thing is that most people not doing the bare minimum in saving/investing 10% of …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:21 PM
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Welcome to the ugly reality. At my own company, of our last directors, all three have: fucked a female employee promoted her to a supervisor or manager role which she was clearly not qualified for My friends ex wife was an account rep who was killing it. Every six months she was getting a promotion, until she had a company Benz and 30k bonuses with a six figure base salary. How do you think she climbed the ladder so quickly? She was fucking her boss the whole time.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:11 PM
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This is a great lesson. You fucked up, you feel like shit. Own it, feel the feelings for now, let them fuel you, and then move on. We all fuck up and make mistakes, now you know. Now you can focus on yourself and improve. You're in a tough spot now, but a few years of forward motion and you can be in a completely different scenario. Don't lose heart. Bust your ass for the next few years and everything will be alright. P.S. Don't go into debt for anyone or anything. Live below your means, be frug…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:58 PM
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You are playing a long game. You are making a lot of progress, but it may take a few years for that progress to build upon itself. One year doesn't erase a lifetime of neglect, bad habits, etc. Continue to put in the work day by day, learn from your failures, and build upon them. You will slowly see tangible success and results, which will give you the confidence to pursue and obtain greater results and successes.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:51 AM
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Lab will be done this week. I do .5ml/100mg x2 week Nothing but test cyp for now.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 08:36 PM
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Fortunately the motivation to be consistent in the gym was there prior to TRT. Though I have noticed that I have a bit more energy for my workouts and my endurance has gone up a bit. With that said I'm on a cut (down 15 lbs, 30 to go) so I haven't realized any potential gains on strength/muscle building. I will most likely run a cycle of gear in 6-12 months after a proper bulk and cut.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 01:45 PM
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I read about TRT from various TRP/sphere blogs. I was interested because I was struggling with mood/borderline depression. Now I wasn't sure if it was T because I think I had a lot to be upset about. Anyway I'm 14 weeks into TRT (1mg/200 ml test cyp per week) and it has changed my fucking life. My mood has normalized, I no longer struggle to feel fine or happy on a daily basis. On top of that I am much more alert and have more energy on a day to day basis. The effects have been far better than I…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 01:24 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/Anabolics-E-Book-William-Llewellyn-ebook/dp/B005II5Z7M/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1469712111&sr=1-1&keywords=anabolics+10th+edition#nav-subnav A pretty thorough/good one.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 01:22 PM
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Yeah, right on brother. Seriously what the fuck is with all of these black and white binary haters. You powerlift and put up huge numbers? AWesome! You body build and focus more on physique? Awesome! Does powerlifting help you achieve your TRP aims? Does bodybuilding help you achieve your TRP aims? YEs? GREAT! Damn, people want to label people, put them in boxes, and tell them there is only one way to salvation as if they were fucking jihadists. Life doesn't work that way people.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:55 PM
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Props man for figuring this out at 21. I didn't wake up until 26 or 27. My mom is a crazy selfish evil bitch narcissist, and my father was emotionally absent (he did the best he could, but 4 kids and a narcissist is not easy). My issues were only exacerbated when I became an evangelical christian and descended further into my self denial and people pleasing ways. Anyway since RPing my life has changed tremendously for the better. Keep doing the hard work, cut those evil bitches out of your life,…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 10:47 AM
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Props for getting out of your place at night and seeing the town. Really props for all of it. Grabbing a hold of your life and moving toward progress.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:59 PM
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He's saying that brazilians love foreigners, and that was the primary reason why she liked me (not because of my game). Eu sei que eu tenho esses beneficios (sou gringo, sou americano, sou exotico), mas muitas brasileiras nao gostam tambem. Eu tentei pegar muitas brasileiras e falhei muitas vezes. Na realidade tenho muito mais falhas do que sucessos. Nao eh tao facil so porque sou gringo. Eh melhor e mais facil aqui pra mim do que EUA, mas eh dificil ainda. I know that my foreigner status helps …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 02:21 PM
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Well I think the main takeaway is that you need to develop proper boundaries, learn how to be confident in who you are, and make your needs/wants a priority. But these black and white shit posts are getting out of control, and they're complete and utter garbage. Just a few off the top of my mind as of late: GOTTA CONQUER WOMEN OR YOU SUCK LOL TRP IS ONLY ABOUT MAKING MONEY AND LIFTING WEIGHTS OMG PARTYING AND BANGING CHICKS IS AN UNFULFILLING WASTE OF TIME !!M!M OMGWTFBBQPOPSICLES!!! WORKING 9 t…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 03:20 PM
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We thought my boy had a unicorn. They were married at 22, both brought up in a religious part of the state. Both virgins when they were married. She was: Beautiful Kind Hospitable Feminine Sincere/empathetic Outgoing Friendly Fun Basically the unicorn. My friends and I were like "Damn where can we find someone like that? John has a unicorn, lucky mother fucker!". Four years later she leaves him under false pretenses saying he needs to change. Really she never intended to return, was having an af…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 12:03 PM
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I've got a friend who married a girl that none of us can stand. He had several good friends and people that he loved/cared about and love/care about him say she was not a good fit for him. He went ahead and married her anyway. She's insecure, fragile, and has alienated him from many of his friends who aren't afraid to tell him or her like it is. The sad part is that he dated some really wonderful women before marrying this dud. I have another friend who dated, married, and knocked up a co-worker…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 12:01 PM
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Just adding an anecdote to the conversation up top about the play boys living at home still slaying chicks.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:43 PM
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I don't see what conquering men has to do with anything. I do not wish to conquer men and really I do not need to. One can live in relative peace with men. Men are easy to get a long with, women are not always so. Not all men are leaders, entrepreneurs, CEOs, managers, or conquerors. Just like not all men are engineers, doctors, mma fighters, soccer players, etc. Learn how to not get walked on by women and pursue the growth you need to score to the extent that you'd like. But it has nothing to d…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:49 PM
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Oh yeah, and because women date down none of these men would be considered dating material. Maybe if they were hot and into fitness. But definitely not husband material. I've got a good friend who's an unskilled laborer. The most he's ever made is 40k in year working as a retail manager. He spends every fucking dollar he earns, has an endless amount of clothing, he drinks excessively, and has a life/emotional crisis every six months. There is nothing stable about him or his life. And he absolute…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:08 PM
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Saw a cute girl in a local Brazilians steak house giving me the eyes (living in Brazil for work). I walked over to her table, chatted up her group, then asked if she was single and got her number. It was one of my proudest moments (considering my blue pill background). She said she thought I was charming, and was impressed by how ballsy I was. Her sisters were sitting with her and were quite shocked/impressed as well. They call me the "americano corajoso" - the courageous American. Obviously you…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 01:23 AM
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I am experiencing something of a renaissance. Amen brother, amen. I too am also experiencing this, finding TRP around 27 years old (now 32).
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 12:13 PM
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Awesome perspective, thanks for posting this. Definitely something to consider.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 11:45 PM
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Shit man you're kicking ass. Well done!
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 10:38 PM
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Unless there's a zombie apocalypse, I trust in stocks: "Going back nearly two hundred years, if you had invested $10,000, reinvested any dividends, interest, or other gains, and left the money alone, how much wealth would have today in real, inflation-adjusted terms based upon the asset class you selected? Stocks vs Bonds vs Gold The stock investor would have turned his $10,000 into $5.6 billion. The bond investor would have turned his $10,000 into $8 million, and the gold investor would have tu…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 04:29 PM
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I met a friend of a friend on a costume themed pub crawl in the city one night. Short, thin, decent lookig dude. We went out after the couples in our group bailed at midnight. He mentioned he was a dance instructor, and we were meeting up with his dance friends at the club. There were two HB9s in his group with some other 7-8s and dudes. They all danced fucking amazing. Only myself and he were wearing costumes, everyone else was in their club attire. Anyway once he started dancing with these 9s,…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:57 AM
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I think the main take away here is found on the lessons learned. I think the author goes a bit of course in the body, but the point is that this shit is not black and white. Ultimately we all TRP as a means to improve our life and achieve what we want, and that is the focal point. Some of us want to party and have casual sex, some of us want to get straight jacked and make 150k or more a year. Some of us just want to have the ability to have some companionship with a woman here and there. Whatev…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:32 PM
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Money isn't the end all be all though. Or are you ignorant of the maxim "Alpha fucks beta bucks"? There are lots of investment bankers, doctors, etc who are beta to the core. There are "broke losers" with game drowning in pussy. Money has utility and money can provide freedom and options. However each man needs to decide what kind of life style he wants to live, and what he is willing to do to live that lifestyle. It sounds to me that the philosophy prof didn't manage money well. It's possible t…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 11:25 AM
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Sometimes at a party or festival here in Brazil I'm only left with a fruity drink because I don't like the other options. All my boys give me shit and call me gay, I just agree and amplify (joke in a gay voice, make effeminate gestures, drink with my pinky out etc) and we get a bunch of laughs out of it. IDGAF, I'm there to hang and have a good time. There isn't no Brazilian woman who has turned down my approach because I'm drinking a Pineapple caipirinha instead of a beer. Like he said, drink w…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:37 AM
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What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with religion and everything to do with mental/psychological health. A muslim is no more immune from NPD than a jew Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder, characterized by exaggerated feelings of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.[1] People with the disorder are often perceived as arrogant, callous, envious and tend to be exploitative in their interpersonal relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 06:49 PM
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My mom and her sisters are all like this. My mom is the worst however. When I first read that link I felt the same way. I could never articulate how she was crazy. And whenever I said "My mom is crazy" most people would patronize me. It's amazing to be able to clearly articulate what the fuck is wrong with her.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 06:08 PM
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She's a narcissist, so she's always innocent and any issue in a relationship is caused by the other party. She is fucking nutso bro, been like this my whole life as long as I can remember. To be honest with you I'm amazed that my siblings and I have survived and flourished to the extent that we have. With that said, it fucks with you. With my narcisstic mother and then being an overly zealous beta bitch evangelical christian, I've really had to work on personal growth in the emotional/psychologi…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:32 PM
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http://www.narcissisticmother.com Sounds like my bat shit crazy selfish bitch of a mother. Mine is definitely a narcissist incapable of empathy. It fucked with me for w long time until I realized she is a narcissist and will never change. She will never be more than a negative, toxic leach who wants to suck the life out of me. I cut her off a few years ago and will never talk to her again.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:50 AM
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Frugality should be used to enable you to accomplish your goals or live your desired life. You can use frugality to: retire at 40 or earlier instead of 65 by saving 60% of your income or more work a lower paying job that you actually enjoy and find fulfilling travel and have experiences instead of nice stuff (or in conjunction with nice stuff) Really it all depends on what your goals and your passions are. I think being frugal also helps taper the pressure and the temptation that society places …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:22 AM
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Great, but there's a better way to articulate that than simply implying that the RP is about muscles and cash as /uNeoreactionSafe has mentioned. From what you've shared, it seems that you have a unique and interesting life experience. Please take the time to share the specifics of your experiences and perspectives with the sub, I'd definitely be interested in reading about them. I think the biggest failing with this post is that you're making a binary assumption and at the same time not offerin…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 01:38 PM
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This post is garbage. No one is implying that weights and a high income are the only means to success with women or a fulfilling life. They are however practical areas in which one can pursue growth and see measurable results. None of this is mutually exclusive, get the binary worldview and equations out of your mind. Earning six figures and spending an hour a day in the gym does not prevent you from: Connecting with people and forming/maintaining fulfilling relationships Traveling Having a heal…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 01:14 PM
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Islam and Allah will not fix your life. Only you will. Only you can meet your physical, emotional, and psychological needs. The Koran, fasting, or any other spiritual/religious practice is not an answer to your neglected body (fat or skinny), your computer addiction, your loneliness, your lack of income, or any other problem that you face. You will be happy when you grow and become better. If you find purpose and fulfillment in Islam, good for you. But Allah won't grant you a six pack, a good in…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 06:54 PM
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The benefit of a high paying job is that if you're frugal and invest, you can set yourself up for life. You be frugral and save a lot, while still being able to enjoy a few nicer things here and there (I.E. taking that trekking trip to patagonia or drinking that $70 bottle of bourbon that you love instead of the $25 one). Invest 50k a year for 10 years earning 6% on average and you have 700k. 10% is 875k Invest 50k a year for 20 years earning 6% on average and you have 1.9 million. 10% is 3 mill…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 10:07 PM
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That book changed my life. Articulated what I felt and knew was wrong for so long. It's been four years since I've read it and I've grown tremendously. Still got a long way to go but it's been awesome so far.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 02:08 AM
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Me at 22: Fresh out of college 30K in student loan debt "Nice guy" No style No sense of self etc earning 40k My twenties were fucking hard. I hated my life out of college, didn't know who I was, and was a religious zealot who lived for jesus aka didn't make my own needs a priority. Me 31: Earning six figures $170,000 in cash and investments Debt free (paid off my student loans two years out of college, been debt free since then) Traveled to 28 countries Have done some cool shit - backpacked euro…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 02:48 PM
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Being out going doesn't make one alpha. It is definitely an admirable trait and being charismatic/friendly/like able can get you noticed and a reputation as someone who is pleasant or fun to be around. As a person who is outgoing I do sincerely enjoy talking to and meeting new people. I've learned that people like it when someone takes an interest, and inquires about things that they enjoy or are important to them. I recently went to a music festival with some friends in the south of Brazil. We …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 11:51 PM
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It is for all intense and purposes a dysfunctional shit hole. If you're rich enough to enjoy the best life has to offers, Brazil is a blast. Living day to day in Brazil as an average joe is nothing you have a frame of reference for as an American.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 11:24 PM
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I do the reverse pyramid method, which helps me track progress, to illustrate: 60kgx6 (~135 lbs) 2 minute rest 55kgx7 2 minute rest 50kgx8 Current progression: 66kg x2 (~148.5 lbs) 60kg x3 55kg x4 Basically when you hit 6 reps on your first set, you up the weight 10% and continue. It's been a great way to lift heavy and track progress/gains. I like it a lot. Whenever I'm doing a compound lift this way and feel like I can't progress, I start to do drop sets. Basically after that third set I decre…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 05:28 PM
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I hate running as well, I prefer cardio as an acitivity (roller blading, stand up paddle, boxing lesson, etc). Is there an activity you can get involved in? Flag football 2x a week? Club soccer? MMA gym? Crossfit? As it stands I do a five day split in the gym and the idea of adding 30-45 minutes of cardio is not pragmatic as I'm already at 75-90 minutes with warm up, stretching, and weights. What I've done is altered my warmup. My 15 minute walk at 4mph now includes a 10% incline, which ends up …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 05:02 PM
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Unless he's got money sitting in bank accounts in London that the government can seize, I imagine she's not getting a dime.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:21 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy https://www.amazon.com/dp/0762415339/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_tDyzxbCNCRKYS
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:39 PM
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Instead you need to get the getting paid part out of your fucking head. If your girl needs to file some forms and it's not worth your time, you're not going to be worth her time either. What the fuck good are you, Mr. Alpha, if you have no utility at all other than fucking and you're going to go out of your head if anyone suggests they have something else necessary in your life other than fucking you? Having some utility is not a bad thing. It's generally considered being a man in a lot of place…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 12:35 AM
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I'm injecting testosterone under the direction of an endocrinologist and it's changing my fucking life. Low T has fucked with my mood and energy for years. I feel awake and alert like never before, my libido is up, and my mood is stable. Before T therapy, every day was a battle to not be depressed even though objectively I had no reason to be down. Any benefits that come from this in the gym are a cherry on top.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:43 PM
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I didn't have anger due to getting played by a girl, but I had anger because I was a blue bill religious beta bitch from the ages of 17-27. I was a virgin until I was 28. I had no sense of self, and believed all of the blue pill lies my church and society fed me. I was FUCKING PISSED OFF when I snapped out of it at 27. I'm 31 one now and a lot has changed. The anger has subsided greatly as I've begun to see and enjoy the fruits of my labor. There are times when I still get pissed off, but it's n…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:22 AM
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Exactly. I have a friend making $1 million a year now. When he started his business he went ape shit business mode for two years and worked seven days a week. The amount of hate was relentless. Needless to say he's the one who is laughing now.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 04:52 PM
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"That said, when we talk about “cash-generating assets” we aren’t just talking about businesses or stocks. The world is full of things that make your richer just by owning them because they throw off cash. The perfect cash-generating asset is one that produces a stream of money for you and your family to spend or reinvest and that increases its value every year to maintain pace with inflation. There are members of my own extended family that made money by owning car washes and storage units but …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:33 PM
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Ultimately you take ownership for your life and you play with the cards you have dealt. With that said, the cards you are dealt matter. Winning a hand with pocket aces is a lot easier than winning a hand with 2 7 off suit. I was beta for a variety of reasons, my own ignorance and foolishness included.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 07:34 PM
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Sure, it's a balance. You shouldn't live on either extreme - saving 70% of your income, eating ramen, and you've never left your home town. But at the same time you shouldn't YOLO and spend every dime you make. Because who wants to be 50, broke, and struggling because you can't find a new white color job due to ageism? You can have one million dollars in thirty years by investing $5,000 per year in an index. If you make $50k, that's ten percent of your income. Ten percent is easy! It's not rocke…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:21 PM
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I was a beta to the core, a virgin until I was 28, and a people pleaser without any sense of self. The only saving grace perhaps was that I got an engineering job out of college, and I lived below my means. It's a long game and so in the past three years I've been working on self improvement and growth. There are times when I am still discouraged and feel like I've made no progress, but that's the challenge of dealing with your emotions. Your feelings are not fact. I did not plan it, nor did I s…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 12:40 PM
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Suburbs often have jobs and cheaper housing. But yes, you're right they're not exactly the same thing as living in a city. I suppose that's the paradox, low cost of living and bored. Or high cost of living but with lots to do. Unless you find a burb with the right mix.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 01:51 AM
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Live below your means invest 10% or more of your income Do this for 30 years and you'll have a lot of money If you don't know what to invest in, index funds are perfect for you. http://beginnersinvest.about.com/od/mutualfunds1/a/Top-5-Reasons-Index-Funds-Might-Be-A-Better-Choice-For-The-Average-Investor.htm Sometimes a little inconvenience is worth it. Think about total cost of ownership - a used $25,000 sports sedan that gets 20 mpg vs used $5,000 b-car that gets 40 mpg. FlowChart that demonstr…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 01:29 AM
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In a manufacturing megacorp the promotion from engineer to supervisor isn't much of a benefit. You can go from 100k/yr to 120k/yr with a car benefit, but your bonus is lower and your overtime is gone. Really supervisor is just the step to manager, where the salary becomes 150 and the bonus much higher. I think the promotion game is for those of us who are ambitious and can't stand to sit still. There are a few men who want to perform and produce results to the best of their ability. They are not…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 03:55 PM
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Did you have a chance to read the other articles as well? The point is not to be a miserly old man with 8 million dollars who never spends any of it. The point is that ownership of cash generating assets results in wealth. A little bit of money saved/invested over time in said assets can result in a massive amount of wealth. At the same time this is actually actionable advice, instead of the over the top motivational speaker "Be a bad ass owner entrepreneur with a cut throat attitude". Most of u…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:32 AM
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http://www.joshuakennon.com/janitor-ronald-read-leaves-behind-8000000-secret-fortune/ Anyone can become a millionaire, the only factor is time. Cash generating assets are key (aka ownership mentioned above): http://www.joshuakennon.com/how-does-someone-start-creating-passive-income/ Anyone with a middle class income can become a millionaire. Certainly if a janitor can accumulate millions of dollars into old age, anyone making 50k or more can as well. The only issue is how long you're willing to …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 09:21 PM
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TL:DR - Was a christian for 11 years. TRPED. I only get what I work for, so why does spirituality matter? I was an overly zealous evangelical christian for all of my youth (17-28). I did not party, I was a virgin, and I was committed to Christian activities 10-15 hours a week. I became a christian at 17 because I was lonely, had low self esteem, and felt totally lost and unprepared for adulthood. The church was an instant community and sense of purpose (it was one of those big mega churches as w…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:45 PM
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I think there's a lot of nuance here. The fact of the matter is that corporations are cess pools of mediocrity and incompetence. Things at the worker level are fucked, procedures aren't followed, nobody knows how to do their job, etc. The environment is one of blame shifting and finger pointing when an issue arises, instead of collaboration/cooperation. And this is due to the inevitable bureaucracy of such a huge organization. Most people show up and do as little as possible to collect their pay…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 11:49 PM
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Nothing in life is black and white. Drinking can be a harmless social activity, or it can be an addiction. There's a wide scale here. I abstained from sex/alcohol/partying until my late twenties. I then moved to Brazil for work, which has a pretty phenomenal party culture. I've picked up women at festivals sober, I've picked up women at clubs drunk. I've had a blast day drinking with friends at barbecues, parades, etc. I've also partied until 5 am every day for five days during carnival. My thou…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 07:09 PM
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I'll never get married because of what I see when I look around me. For example: I am living in Brazil for work. I have a Brazilian friend who we'll call Alex. Alex is: Jacked A police officer A pilot for the police Possesses all of the qualities of a good man (kind, hard working, not a push over, etc). Alex was married to Jennifer. Jennifer decided to divorce Alex because she was not able to adjust to the new location work assigned Alex to (family in another state, difficulty meeting new people…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:21 AM
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Relevant https://www.facebook.com/TimFerriss/videos/10153699147052241/
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 10:34 AM
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You don't pick you cards is all I'm saying and being dealt 2/7 is a fuck ton more difficult to deal with than pocket Aces. That's all I'm saying. He's got a long hard road, he's taking ownership, at the same time he's acknowledging he's got a bad hand and he's working out from a deficit.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 11:50 PM
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It ends at the point where he has to decide what to do with the hand he has been dealt. He most certainly has to take ownership of his life and move forward, because that's the only way he'll ever get out of the pit he's in. With that said, the reason he's in that pit to begin with isn't entirely his fault. What he does in the pit now, is up to him.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 06:25 PM
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The idea that the neglect he experienced from his parents, and the subsequent effects it has had on his development are somehow his own fault is absurd. He is most definitely behind the curve as a result of this experience. As far as I can see he is self aware and knows that he has to work and is responsible for improving his life. With that said it's rational that he would feel depressed and hopeless at times given the pit he has to dig himself out of. At any rate don't give up buddy. You will …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 06:08 PM
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I work as an engineer for a multinational corporation that has manufacturing facilities in Brazil (STEM FTW BITCHES!). The book No More Mr. Nice guy was instrumental in my growth in this area hands down. There were three big realizations that occurred during the initial process: 1.) I am the only person who truly gives a shit about whether or not my emotional, psychological, and physical needs are met. 2.) I can make decisions that people don't like. 3.) Women like a man who has a spine and who …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 11:15 AM
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The rules of the game are no different for the zealous/religous crowd. I was hyper religious to the point of being a virgin until my late 20s. Any beautiful woman I ever saw in our circle was either married or in a relationship with a Christian alpha. A guy who was: Physically fit Handsome Great sense of style High income earner/on a solid path Charismatic Popular etc. I have seen not seen a religious unicorn without a man who is alpha in my ten years of overly zealous evangelical Christianity. …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:14 PM
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Spanish is super useful. I am living in Brazil for work right now and wish I had a base in Spanish, as it would've made learning Portuguese much easier.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:52 AM
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I think my only question is why aren't high earners who work their assess off to make $$$ quit more often. There's been a few more publicized cases of this going on The banker who quit because his daughter wrote him a letter and said he was never around The NBA player who left something like a 20 million dollar contract behind because his heart wasn't in it The google guy who retired at 50 or so because he felt it was time for him and his wife. I'd do the same thing if I were her or any of those…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 06:10 PM
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Kids. She's a got a crazy/mean side to her, she's also got some great qualities about her. I say that as a friend, not that AWALT doesn't apply, or that it justifies her behavior, it doesn't. I don't know why he puts up with it, I sure as hell wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 01:03 AM
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Keep it up brother. It's a long game just like TRP and self improvement. I'm at 150k, I'm hoping to be at 1 million + in 10 years depending on how my investments go etc. It's a long game and it's hard, but it's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 04:30 PM
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Props my man for breaking free and taking your own path. I know an exec who makes 100k bonuses with a wife that constantly disrespects him. She literally tells him to "Shut the fuck up" when me and my buddy are over and he's explaining something cool to us. She also calls him a "fucking loser". Sorry lady, anyone who makes 100k bonuses is anything but a loser... ME and my bud are good friends with the couple. And she has redeeming qualities, but at the end of the day it's a picture perfect case …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:48 PM
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Listen bro, as long as you're limited to Christian women, you're fucked. AWALT. With that said, ever notice that the hot Christian girls are married to Christian alphas? And that the majority of the single girls at your church are plain or unattractive? Your best bet is to become alpha as fuck and pray to God that a hot single girl walks in and you can be the best alpha. Really, it's not much of a solution.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 12:18 PM
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I've had a girl I'm with try to pull the same stunt. "we should have sex without condoms, it's better". Of course it's better, who the fuck would think otherwise? The point is I'm not trying to knock your ass up regardless of how many times you want to tell me you're on birth control.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:22 PM
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I'm not being facetious - what are some resources you think I should look into? I get that I may not have 1-1.7 million in 10 years (6-10% CAGR), but at some level should I not make an assumption based on historical average returns? "To put it more directly: It is not a mathematically inconsistent nor historically unreasonable position to posit that a basket of stocks bought today with a lump sum would produce 6% to 7% nominally over the next ten years due to present valuation and that a dollar …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:33 PM
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http://beginnersinvest.about.com/od/mutualfunds1/a/aa080804.htm http://beginnersinvest.about.com/cs/mutualfunds1/a/071003a.htm http://beginnersinvest.about.com/od/stocksoptionswarrants/a/Should-I-Invest-In-Individual-Stocks-Or-Index-Funds.htm http://www.joshuakennon.com/mail-bag-index-investing-vs-picking-individual-stocks/ http://www.joshuakennon.com/why-i-never-bought-an-index-fund-but-think-they-are-probably-your-best-bet/ http://beginnersinvest.about.com/od/investing101/u/investing_basics.ht…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:48 PM
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And I continue to invest, and when the market rebounds I'll come out ahead. Just like anyone who continued to invest during the 2008-2009 recession. Volatility is real, that's why investing is a long game, and why the rate of return is an average over 10-30 years.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:10 PM
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For the next ten years, sure. It may more likely be 6-7%. Over 20-30 years, it's not unreasonable at all.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:09 PM
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"o put it more directly: It is not a mathematically inconsistent nor historically unreasonable position to posit that a basket of stocks bought today with a lump sum would produce 6% to 7% nominally over the next ten years due to present valuation and that a dollar cost averaging program started today will produce 10% returns over the next 25+ years as the regular purchases and reinvested dividends averaged out the highs and lows of market volatility." http://www.joshuakennon.com/mail-bag-return…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:09 PM
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Yeah this is the challenge, even forty of fifty sounds unappealing to me. However worst case scenario I'll take 4 million at 50. Relevant article: "That general sentiment is a central theme that runs through many of the questions and letters I receive from readers. The “red ring problem”, as I call it, can be summed up as follows: What is the point of saving money or investing money if I’m only going to get to enjoy it when I’m too old to care? It is a legitimate concern. Everyone needs an under…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 02:03 PM
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http://www.joshuakennon.com/janitor-ronald-read-leaves-behind-8000000-secret-fortune/ Anyone can become a millionaire, the only factor is time. Cash generating assets are key: http://www.joshuakennon.com/how-does-someone-start-creating-passive-income/ Anyone with a middle class income can become a millionaire. Certainly if a janitor can accumulate millions of dollars into old age, anyone making 50k or more can as well. The only issue is how long you're willing to wait. If you live below your mea…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 11:42 AM
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Brazil is easy mode. It's night and day compared to the states. Women are approachable and friendly, especially in the north east. It's nothing like the USA where women seemed bothered or are adversarial. If you meet a woman at a party, club and there's mutual interest, you guys make out that night. It doesn't mean you'll bang on the same day, but it knocks down the walls and hanging out afterward is easy/assumed. It's a whole new world, especially when you live there as an expat.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 03:26 PM
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The whole no sex before marriage, and the fact that she's a single mother who's ex boyfriend is an unstable bad boy doesn't help either. If Wilson isn't being pushed around, stands up for himself and what he believes in, more power to him. But from the outside at face value I think you can see why people would imply he's is beta or is getting played.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:47 PM
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I was hyper religious until I was 28 (a virgin as well). You could consider the churches I was a part of post college as cult like. While not as extreme as your situation, I had a lot of issues. Namely that: I was a Virgin I had no success with women even though I was the "good Christian guy" that everyone wanted was a spineless nice guy overweight by 30 lbs lacking any sense of self or boundaries. When I found TRP at 26 years old, I was in anger phase like hell. I felt like all of my time as a …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 11:44 AM
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Fighting is fucking stupid. You don't need to know how to "fight", you need to understand violence. That violence exists, and that you may find yourself in a violent situation that was not of your making. When violence is the last resort to get out of a situation, you need to know how to be violent to save your ass/the people you love. Relevant: https://www.facebook.com/TimFerriss/videos/10153699147052241/ http://www.recoilweb.com/a-training-roadmap-one-instructors-suggestions-37199.html
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:46 PM
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You're spot on. Who: Shovels the snow? Cuts the grass? Maintains the vehicles? Setups and maintains the technology (wifi network, laptops, phones, etc) Fixes/maintains the house/plumbing/electrical? The husband of course, along with some other typically male chores that I'm sure I've forgotten to mention. That is of course on top of the 60-80 hours a week he may have to work for periods at a time. These broads are nothing but whiny and entitled. I've seen my fair share of wives who are disorgani…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 08:05 PM
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I went out on a st Valentine's Day theme/costumed pub crawl. There were a few single guys and couples in our group. One of the single guys was a professional dance instructor. Anyway around midnight the couples want to go home while us single guys are still on the prowl. The dancer says he's got some dance friends at a bar nearby, so we arrive and meet up with them. It's a mixed group of six people, half and half. The women are HB9s. Once the dancer starts pulling out his moves and dances with t…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 11:20 PM
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I don't think it's unreasonable to enter into a marriage wanting to know the state of your future spouse's finances. Even though the guy had been hit hard by divorce, his spending patterns seem to be erratic and indicate a lack of budget/planning/etc. I don't think her position is completely unreasonable, nor is this a case of blue pill/feminist/societal indoctrination. If the roles were reversed, and people were giving the man shit for wanting to know the financial condition of his fiancee, the…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:13 PM
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Step 3 is useful. A janitor died with 8 million dollars. If a blue collar janitor can amass a fortune into old age, the average man can. Really, you should be saving and investing far more than 10%, especially if you want to retire earlier than 65, but to each his own. http://www.joshuakennon.com/janitor-ronald-read-leaves-behind-8000000-secret-fortune/ http://www.joshuakennon.com/a-visual-picture-of-the-kennon-green-enterprises-business-model/ http://www.joshuakennon.com/how-does-someone-start-…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 03:50 PM
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Besides ownership and sales, it is necessary to be a knowledge worker in the future economy. The days of being a manual laborer are numbered. There will be no living wage for low/no skill workers. "With the rise of the knowledge workers, the manual workers are endangered again. Their economic security is threatened. And their social position and status are rapidly diminishing. In the developed countries, industrial workers see themselves as severely deprived. They are defeated, losers, before th…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:45 PM
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Mike is fucked. His medical device selling wife is traveling all the time, hitting conferences, and all that shit. If she's hot, sooner or later she's going to bang her boss, her boss' boss, or the top performing smooth talking salesman in the company (if she ain't already). I've witnessed it with my own eyes, it wasn't even fucking NYC, and none of us expected his wife was even capable of cheating. Her husband wasn't even beta - handsome as fuck, making 150k, masculine hobbies. She's the very d…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 01:00 AM
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Exactly! In my blue pill days there was one girl who said this to me, only to enter into a relationship two weeks after, and eventually get engaged to the guy (which she later broke off). Women just want you to orbit but they don't want you to pursue them sexually, so they leave it ambiguous to string the hopeful pedastalizing beta along.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 11:50 PM
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There are two types of women in the world: Those who can fly Those who fuck And if she ain't fucking you, she's fucking someone else.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 11:44 PM
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Relevant comments and thoughts for those who are interested: You are the only person responsible for your defense, the defense of your family. The police may or may not come to your aid, if they do, they may be far too late A firearm is an excellent tool to defend yourself with, however it is not the only tool. You should seek some level of training and think about the scenarios you may face. If you have a CPL and carry a pistol, you're an absolute fool for not taking training courses (assuming …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 02:04 AM
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Relevant: http://www.joshuakennon.com/the-importance-of-frugality-in-building-wealth/ http://beginnersinvest.about.com/od/stocksoptionswarrants/a/Should-I-Invest-In-Individual-Stocks-Or-Index-Funds.htm http://beginnersinvest.about.com/od/making-money/a/Dividends-Interest-Income-And-Rents-Are-The-Key-To-Building-Wealth.htm http://beginnersinvest.about.com/ His blog is awesome, I really enjoy the insight. Long story short: Live below your means (rent a smaller place, have roommates, buy used, Max …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:17 PM
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Japan has excellent public transportation, low crime, great infrastructure and civil services. Brazil is one step above a dysfunctional third world shit hole.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:03 PM
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Carnival in Salvador is fucking amazing. Salvador has some beautiful beaches. The city is a joke, not even close compared to rio. With that said there's tons of parties/concerts going on to meet women at, though it may be challenging to navigate if you go down without help not during carnival. You really need Portuguese to get around in Salvador. Women in the northeast tend to be more friendly/affectionate/approachable in my experience. With that said Brazilian culture is that when you meet some…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:44 AM
2

The % of income tax may not be higher, but the cost of living is far higher all around. It costs 500 BRL to get a license in brazil. Gasoline is 4 BRL per litre. an iphone 6s is 4,000 BRL. A pair of nikes can cost 400-600 BRL. Literally the cost of almost everything - housing, food, utilities, consumer goods is outrageous if you're earning a salary in BRL. An engineer earning 70,000 BRL is paying those prices, it's absurd. Imagine if you had to pay $4,000 usd for an iphone or 500 usd to get your…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 03:57 PM
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Hit up the Sargento Pimento bloquinho the day that it is going down. There will be a ton of people, it'll be a blast. Overall there will be a shit ton of people out on the street during carnival around copacabana, ipanema, lapa. So really you'll have your pick of what to do. Rio during carnival has an awesome atmosphere, there's always something going on, besides the available tourist stuff (sugar loaf mountain, the Jesus statue, etc). Buy a money belt that you can wear under your shorts, put yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 03:50 PM
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Get the fuck out, Toxic family bro.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 04:56 AM
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Interesting take from Scott Adams. "On the 2D playing field, Trump appears petulant and whiney. Maybe narcissistic, fascist, and a little bit of Hitler too. And as FOX cleverly pointed out, negotiating with foreign leaders won’t be easier than Megyn Kelly’s questions. So Trump loses badly in the second dimension. Let’s shift to the third dimension and see if the view is different. For starters, tell me what you learned about all the other candidates today. Nothing? Trump sucked the oxygen out of…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 01:55 AM
2

True, but again not every woman is has narcissistic personality disorder, is bi-polar, etc. There's AWALT and then there's being clinically crazy, and not all women are clinically crazy. This is spoken by someone who has a narcissistic mother. If I told you a tenth of the shit she's done in my lifetime you wouldn't believe it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 10:03 AM
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It's not meant to be dismissive. Some bitches are crazy, clinically diagnosed crazy. Some are BPD, some have narcissistic personality disorder, etc. I've seen a good friend date CRAZY bitches. I've also seen him date not crazy women. There is quite a difference in the way they behave. One set pulls all kinds of crazy ass stunts as noted in the story, the other set does not. Yes the tenants of game are true, dread, hypergamy, preselection, etc, I'm not arguing that. What I'm saying is that there …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:54 PM
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Isn't the answer to question number 2: Both A & D. She's crazy and feels justified.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:18 AM
1

We will never look anything like Brazil. For one their women are hot as fuck with massive asses. For two that place is beyond fucked up. Day to day life in the USA is a fucking dream compares to Brazil, even if it gets worse, it'll never be like that shit hole.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:51 AM
2

I was a virgin until I was in my late twenties. I had all of these insecurities and more. I RPed hard and it wasn't easy. But you can improve/learn/grow and overcome. You can be attractive and there are women who will find you attractive. Play the long game, don't focus on your immediate emotions.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:17 PM
1

It's strange in the northeast, it's hyper sexual yet there's still this culture of "respect" in public (I.e. Touching your girls butt in public is a no no). At the same time you see a lot of couples where the woman is beautiful and the guy is just an average beta or much worse. Stuff you'll never see in the USA. I think it's partly because of economics (life is much more difficult in Brazil, cost of living + bureaucracy) and partly because it hasn't quite hit western feminism full swing just yet…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 04:57 PM
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I live in the Northeast of Brazil for work. I've been here three years, I'm in my mid thirties. I've done well as a former super beta who's growing (amused mastery, lifting, not being a push over, just basic stuff but it has helped tremendously). My gringo status gives me an allure, though it's hit or miss - either they love it or they hate it. With that said the first Brazilian I banged was definitely looking for the meal ticket. We had an incredible weekend getaway in an idyllic beach paradise…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 03:09 PM
1

Totally legit. You're spot on in that you can't remain in the anger phase forever. Life wasn't fair, you were lied to, but now you've got to play with the cards you've got and make the best of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 09:42 PM
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The anger phase is a result of time wasted. Most men prior to red pill ingestion have invested their time and money doing things that they thought mattered or were beneficial for their lives. Only after ingesting the red pill do they realize that they were wasting their time, that the things they thought were beneficial to them were detrimental. Some men are pissed off because they've literally wasted a DECADE or more of their life living under blue pill indoctrination. Ten fucking years or more…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:23 PM
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She's not, especially not in South America, which is a fucking dream given the ratios of women to men, and the amount of hot women. I work in SA in manufacturing, and while there can be the golden pussy effect at the office, the bars/clubs/parties are loaded with women. When you meet someone in said club, and you both like each other, you make out. It's a fucking amazing compared to the USA, in terms of women/tropical beach paradise. Otherwise it's a dysfunctional shit hole.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 11:49 AM
1

Several years ago you would not have been able to find an evangelical more zealous and committed to their faith than myself. I became an evangelical Christian as a teenager due to a religous experience. Due to a lack of self esteem, poor home life, and all of the typical teenage angst, the local evangelical megachurch youth group was very appealing to me and tugged on my heart in all the right ways. For the next twelve years I spent ten to fifteen hours a week doing all kinds of Christian shit. …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:56 PM
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https://m.facebook.com/pat.rogers.336/posts/589653334409146?fref=nf Food for thought: Shot after a carbine training course, left his pistol in the car. "Carry your fucking gun All the time."
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:40 AM
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The idea is consistent with aloof/idgaf/etc. although I think it can be nuanced depending on the guy's personality and scenario. I'm super out going in group settings, tend to meet/charm everyone, and remember all of their names. Girls tend to notice and some give off compliments and IOIs as a result "OMG you're so social, you know everyone" etc. Anyway while the theory you're proposing is consistent, I think in my case remembering and saying her name can reinforce the fact that I am the outgoin…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:18 AM
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LMR takes different forms though and sometimes it's just token words. I am living in south America. I met a girl during a festival and we made out there. Then we went out on a date a week later (I don't remember, but apparently I grabbed her phone and put my number in it). We made out in the car in front of her place and then she says "you can come in but no sex". She then leads me to her bedroom and we're literally making out on her bed, again she says "no sex". Repeat ad naseum until we're tot…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:43 PM
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Mad props brother. Awesome work, way to persevere and pursue personal growth, 115 to 162 lifting heavy is incredible work. Some game concepts that have helped me a lot (I'm not a master at all) are "amused mastery" and "agree and amplify". I tease/joke with the girls I am talking to a ton, and when they accuse me or shit test me I never get defensive or apologetic. The biggest thing that's helped me the most is what you've done. Making yourself a priority, setting good boundaries, and pursuing i…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 11:34 PM
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http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy-ebook/dp/B004C438CW/ref=sr_1_1_twi_kin_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1445296952&sr=8-1&keywords=No+More+mr+nice+guy The book changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 11:22 PM
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Are you sure she isn't a batshit crazy narcissist? Don't get me wrong AWALT, but not all women are narcissists. http://www.narcissisticmother.com
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 12:40 AM
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I've been with a plate for some time. She is in her mid 30s and has already been through a divorce. I've been red pill the whole time so I already know the red flags. Anyway she is pleasant enough to be around and loves to bang. With that said, she always talks about being sad that she doesn't have kids. She also tries to get me to bang without condoms... These broads are nuts.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 10:41 AM
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The job was definitely the downfall, being on the road so much plus being around high status alpha, and the rest is history. No sales job, no affair? Probably yes. Unfortunately it's just like we say, right alpha, right opportunity, and she'll cheat.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 10:31 AM
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shes not going back, she's running off with another Chad she met after fucking the boss.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 10:29 AM
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This all day. She basically shit on the guy and made him think it was all his fault. Her family shamed him, his family shamed him. It wasn't until she had it all blow up in her face did we learn about the affair. She is being a total vile bitch about all of it. The shocking part isn't just that she cheated, the shocking part is she is doing what we've all read about - re-writing the narrative with her husband (he never loved me!). Completely rationalizing her affair, and not taking responsibilit…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 05:36 AM
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I don't know if you need to run for the hills per se, I'll let the gp explain that. However when a girl says "I'm not like other girls" or "I normally don't do this" it's just bullshit. She is like other girls, and yes she does do anal or suck dick regularly. She's just trying to convince you she's special, she's not, AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:15 AM
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Looks and physique matter, game does too. With that said, get in shape, look good, and there's one more thing working in your favor.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:12 PM
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Let's just say they have a tendency to immediately put your wang in their mouth when sexy time begins.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:03 PM
1

The church is fucked because it assumes that all problems are spiritual in nature, and that all solutions revolve around Jesus. The alpha males who lead large and successful churches are the kind of men that would have succeeded in "worldly" pursuits. They are often handsome, charismatic, intelligent, hard working, problem solvers, etc. However, they do not publicly admit these things to their church goers - whether it is naivety or malice, who knows. They accredit their success and happiness to…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:20 PM
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