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It's really hard for me some times to come here (or other sources) to learn game because it's so directed towards getting laid when I, like a lot of dudes who come here, aren't looking to just get laid, we're looking how to get into a relationship. But that's the first stigma we have to get over: following a plan to get laid only stops with that part if we want it to. So I'm glad you wrote this post. It reminded me of this point and motivates me to keep trying and improving.
/r/seduction06/07/17 05:44 PM
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I've had this problem more times than I can count. I've definitely come here searching for an answer on this. Here's the most common thing I've heard and experienced: Don't give her any kind of reaction: Move on. If it's a game of "cat string theory" that she needs, she'll come after you and you make the decision if you want to give her another shot or not, but the truth is, like others have said, this is a sign that she's just not interested and immature. And, as others said, talk to other girl…
/r/seduction30/08/16 04:09 AM
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How do you compliment a woman's walk?
/r/seduction27/06/16 10:45 PM
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January. I was dating the hottest woman I ever dated. Doctoral student, latina with curves in all the right spots. Great with kids. A body in shape due to a strict gym regiment and diet. She was a lot of things I liked. Then I lost my job due to budget cuts. Told her a couple days later and I wanted to see her. She lived an hour away and told me I'd have to go to her. Fine, don't care I want to see her. Then she blew me off the day of the date. Pissed me off. Next day I tried to call and talk to…
/r/seduction25/06/16 06:06 AM
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This so much
/r/seduction10/03/16 05:51 AM
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I'll meet you halfway here: IF I were willing to meet her for coffee, a few things I would need to know first before doing it: 1) She lives an hour away. If she wants to meet for coffee, she should come here (she has a best friend who lives in my town anyway. I don't see why this should be a problem, especially since this was part of the reason I dumped her because she didn't make an effort to see me even though she had more than enough reason to). Fair thing to require, correct? 2) I'd want to …
/r/seduction09/03/16 04:05 PM
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Let me ask you another way about this because I'm afraid my last response may come off aggressive to you when it's not meant to: Should I get together with her for coffee or not? I've heard both sides for and against doing so. To be honest, it's hard for me to believe that she would have matured in 6 weeks. I would love to be wrong (honestly) and for her to be better than what I'm perceiving. Can I interpret from the texts that maybe she is apologetic for what happened, or that she's just wantin…
/r/seduction09/03/16 04:49 AM
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Honestly, since I got nothing concrete that makes me think she's apologetic for what happened (unless I'm reading the texts with blinders on. They are word for word what the texts say, btw), my head is telling me it's the ego boost thing. As for time management, who knows? Women are fickle as fuck, man. Maybe she needs an emotional kick to the head to get it out of her system, or maybe she'll stay the same. I don't want to go back into this situation unless there's a possibility that it'll be be…
/r/seduction08/03/16 09:44 PM
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I feel dumb asking this, but is there any scenario I should consider giving her another chance? Someone mentioned to me in another post this is her making an effort to see me. Admittedly, my emotions could be clouding my judgement, but rationally, I don't feel like anything she texted is actually apologetic. There's nothing clear enough for either scenario
/r/seduction08/03/16 09:02 PM
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What's the point?
/r/seduction08/03/16 08:16 PM
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I want to say thanks to Op and to the people who posted in this thread. End of January I lost my job due to budget cuts. I was seeing a girl for 2 months (literally hottest girl I ever dated). Same week I lost my job, I dumped the girl because she was being flakey as fuck about seeing each other that week (I felt like I needed it badly. I was going through a rough time because I needed emotional support but I was getting it from friends and family). Day we were supposed to meet, she flaked. Got …
/r/seduction08/03/16 07:44 PM
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But what's the endgame with this? Just revenge or getting her to be more respectful of your time and staying with her? If it's just petty revenge, I don't need it. I just need a happy life even if that means one without the girl in question :-/
/r/seduction08/03/16 07:30 PM
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You know, as a dude whose generally a very gentle, sensitive and caring person I learned pretty well that when it comes to the bedroom: Be the man. I've always kept it in check so as to not become violent or let out aggression in a negative way (trust me there's a right way and man is it AWESOME in the sack), but women want you to be a dominant, in control and be the boss dude in the sack. It's not about degrading, humiliating or insulting your woman. It's about getting the job done right and ge…
/r/seduction27/09/15 08:44 PM
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"Hey you need help doing the dishes? Don't underestimate them, dishes be crazy"
/r/seduction08/06/15 12:49 PM
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This sounds mildly insulting. Is this acceptable?
/r/seduction07/06/15 08:20 PM
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I just said "Hey" She attacked my face with hers
/r/seduction25/03/15 04:40 PM
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This. If you were both 10 years older maybe, but these stages of life? Look at her as a port in a one night storm and then ship off.
/r/seduction21/03/15 04:28 PM
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Admits faults. Ok, upvote
/r/seduction04/03/15 05:28 PM
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"I use to do steroids" WTF? Who says this to a girl?
/r/seduction03/03/15 12:15 AM
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Now at what point did "best" become synonymous with "perfect" or "unflawed" in my blurb? :)
/r/seduction03/01/15 02:41 PM
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And that's why you should be single
/r/seduction06/12/14 12:13 AM
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I made a post on here a week or so ago about not valuing a woman early on which is what you're doing. It's hard not to be excited at a new prospect, but you need to adapt a mentality that a girl has to convince you why she's worth any investment of emotion and time. You have a good time talking? Cool, will she be around for date 2? 3? 6? Will she be there in a month? What are you a month after you met? Until she's actually your girlfriend, she's just another girl. Don't run. Walk. If you do, you…
/r/seduction16/09/14 05:16 PM
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I posted a current day example in hopes this helps others. Good luck guys.
/r/seduction11/09/14 02:55 AM
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you don't need to think you're the best. you just need to not be worse than anyone ...(ಠ_ಠ)
/r/seduction09/09/14 11:24 PM
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Notice you get angry when all I told you is "You got problems, go fix that first." I hope you can get over it, but you're not gonna get what you need here. Nice talking to you, moving on bye!
/r/seduction09/09/14 09:08 PM
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You're coming here with deeper problems than just women. You're coming here with depression and probably a list of other shit I couldn't even guess. You're not going to get help here for what you need because you got too much preliminary work you need to do on yourself. Stop wasting your time, focus on your own shit first, then try. Seriously, stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:52 PM
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Then get over yourself and try. Until you get the desire to try, just stop looking here. You're wasting your time until then.
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:44 PM
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but they've never had to deal with not getting any too so. eh idk. I had no idea dudes were born already fucking women
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:41 PM
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but it's almost like you didn't even read what I wrote. Quoting you for effect. Why does the woman have to know you're inexperienced? You don't tell them that, you're trying to talk to them. You're not pretending you're experienced, you're talking to them with confidence and not giving a fuck about the outcome. Like I said, no girl is going to think you're the shit up front unless you're an adonis, you have to talk to them with the confidence of one and not give a fuck if they don't believe it. …
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:17 PM
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Then you're not ready to date. Or be with any woman. If you're not going to value yourself and believe that you're worth it and the best out there, you have a LOT of self confidence to build up. And never kissing a woman isn't an excuse. you can easily say "There's been no one worth it yet, prove to me why you should be the first." Just like virgins, your own mental block is what's going to make you fail before you even see the next attractive woman.
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:04 PM
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Reread until you get it
/r/seduction09/09/14 04:01 PM
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I'm hoping my post didn't annoy, I genuinely just want to help other guys that feel the same frustration I felt for so long
/r/seduction09/09/14 01:53 PM
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You're under the same mistake: she doesn't see you for being anything more than a friend so why are you valuing her more than that? Stop. Don't waste your time or energy. Why is she awesome? Doesn't matter it's not going anywhere so show her she has no power over you and you're going to get someone else.
/r/seduction09/09/14 01:00 PM
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Celebrate this bro right here
/r/seduction09/09/14 11:24 AM
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So what? The chances of finding the right one are naturally low, at least this helps you weed out all the bullshit in between
/r/seduction09/09/14 11:19 AM
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Love this post
/r/seduction09/09/14 11:18 AM
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you can care to try, but you can't care about the result. It's not about accepting rejection, it's accepting there's other possibilities and this one's no good. do you remember every girl who rejected you 3 years ago? How much does it matter now? Do you remember an ex you broke up with years back before another ex or current gf? How much do you care about them now? My examples may have some time gaps in between, but the point is that they don't matter and the sooner you realize that, the sooner …
/r/seduction09/09/14 02:43 AM
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I got blown off today after being asked if I was available tomorrow for a date. Shit happens. Girls flake. Give them 0 value, there's always another. Glad I helped :)
/r/seduction09/09/14 02:03 AM
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So op, I just had this situation happen to me. Talked to a girl on match, she was very interested after only 2 messages (today) and when I asked her out she said she was even available tomorrow if I wanted. I texted her about an hour ago to say hi "Hey [girl]" "Hii mc2157, how was your day?" "Good, glad Monday's over." "Ugh, me too. I went to the gym afterwards and it made it better!" "The gym is therapy for me, especially on bad work days lol." "So are you still free tomorrow?" No response. I f…
/r/seduction09/09/14 01:21 AM
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