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| 1 | Warrior WednesdayLearning to defend myself - Started muay thai 1.5 years ago, best decision I have ever made It is an incredibly liberating feeling knowing that you could take ~95% of the population, and also that you can recognise skill in a fighter very quickly and perhaps decide to get out of a situation. I think this has a lot of subconscious levels behind it. I never feel threatened by the physical presence of another man now - I feel calm and collected knowing that I can handle myself. Boxing or muay thai … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Why social circle is the best path for most guys on here.I'd appreciate a look at the guide too - I've made a lot of headway over the past year with making more male friends through martial arts but a look at your guide might help! Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsThanks for the reply - I will check out that video now! Look forward to reading more about the topic in the near future. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsMike, I enjoyed this post. An area I am trying to improve on at the moment is acquiring the mindset that "I am enough" Having the opposite mindset (that I need to improve) has been useful and driven me to do great things so far, but it's getting to the point now where it is a little crippling. Instead of going out to day game recently I think "it would be more beneficial for me to stay in and work"... Can you give me some advice about steps you took to cultivate this mindset of "I am enough" - h… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 12:16 AM |
| 2 | When other people meet me after our first contact being on the phone, they say "I didn't expect you to look like that"...Respect bro | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 11:11 AM |
| 3 | When other people meet me after our first contact being on the phone, they say "I didn't expect you to look like that"...Yeah exactly - I can tell she thought I was hot. Thanks for taking the time to write such a detailed response OmLaLa but it is definitely the other way around! As I mention in the post, one person said "I thought you would be shorter based upon your voice", ie you are hotter than I thought you would be... Essentially, it's definitely something about that interaction on the telephone. I spoke to my bro about this though, he's a pretty sensible guy. He told me I was reading too much into it - that… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How to express/develop an AF raw sexuality.Started reading... I like it, a lot! Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 01:30 PM |
| 2 | How to express/develop an AF raw sexuality.Good answer, thank you | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Monday Field reports - been a while, what do you got?Respect dude. Comment saved for when I go to Vegas... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 07:58 PM |
| 1 | FR: A repeating problem I've been encountering lately. Issues with getting hard.Pretty sound medical advice here, also it's certainly worthwhile having a blood workup, particularly blood glucose for diabetes, and testosterone level. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 07:38 PM |
| 2 | FR: A repeating problem I've been encountering lately. Issues with getting hard.Just get 50mg sildenafil (viagra) from your doctor - I use it when I'm with a new girl, and all is good. Don't need after the first few times. It just gives you a little more confidence. I find that the more hard I am, the more aroused I feel, because I feel more powerful. That may seem the wrong way round, like the cart leading the horse, but that is what happens for me. Also it's definitely worthwhile just getting a full bloods workup, particularly blood glucose, particularly if you are middle… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 07:36 PM |
| 2 | How to ask ""naughty"" pics to a FB contact?This has fucking nothing to do with game. This should not be here. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 07:15 PM |
| 1 | What is the fastest way for a 23 yo girl to get laid for the first time in her life?Yeah, any guy giving this any more than a passing glance needs to man the fuck up and improve their game. This post is a pathetic troll attempt, and if it isn't, it shouldn't be here. | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 07:04 PM |
| 3 | I really applaud you guys. Seddit is hard work and I'm exhausted.I think the difference in approach here is a lot to do with personality. It sounds like I am quite similar to OP, everything I do from work, to hobbies, to seduction is formulaic, about improvement, and I like to focus on it and put energy into it. I have tried to learn to enjoy the process a little bit more, and I think that does make a difference - so I think your advice is certainly valid. I never go out with the sole purpose of getting girls - I go out to have a good time with mates and just… | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Damn it, you people and your goddamn eye contact almost got me cut.You know, I think in the beginner stages it is good to practice maintaining eye contact with everyone, but I certainly think there comes a point where you go beyond that and only make eye contact with someone when you need/want to engage them - arguably this is the more "alpha" thing to do. Sure this guy was a psycho, but holding eye contact is an incredibly intimate/intimidating thing, and if you feel your game is good, perhaps tone it down to girls as you say. | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Lessons from strong inner game when a girl turns up late to a date. [part-FR]Very interesting that you came to a similar conclusion, thank you for sharing, I prefer the way you have formatted this actually. | /r/seduction | 28/10/14 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Presidential AMOGAs well as being absolutely hilarious, this is an inspiration of the kind of frame we should be aiming towards. He was witty, funny, never lost his temper - a strong man who is confident in himself. That first line is fantastic - "now here is an example of a brother who is just trying to embarrass me for no reason... no reason at all". I don't know why you've been downvoted. | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Is literally everyone in here in college or what?Hey dude, yeah I have a professional career working on average 50 hours a week, but can range up to 80. I keep this stuff out of work (obviously), generally use daygame when I am going about my day to day life and I see an attractive woman, and nightgame whenever out. Wish I had known about this in uni though, sheeeeiit I would have cleared up. | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 08:08 AM |
| 8 | My Interview With an Attractive Woman (whom I banged in under an hour)You need to see a psychotherapist. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 01:25 AM |
| -6 | My Interview With an Attractive Woman (whom I banged in under an hour)Not entirely sure why this has been downvoted... it must be too cerebral for most of the clientele on this sub. I am starting to realise that this sub is populated by inexperienced <18 year olds as opposed to men with life experience who can appreciate a post like this. Thanks for this post Goldmund - I just got my copy of Narcissus and Goldmund through the post after reading your article on the book, and I'm really looking forward to reading it during my week off next week. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 01:24 AM |
| 16 | When to lead vs when to act coolI've found that when a girl is truly interested in me, even when she is busy she shall make an effort to reschedule eg "I have ___ to do tonight, but how about tomorrow?" However, if a girl is not interested, you get answers without them offering any rescheduling options... "Sorry, I'm busy tonight." I would say always lead, but if you are getting clear signals that she isn't interested, move onto the next girl - ABUNDANCE! | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Some girl gave me a fake number. Jokes on her, turned out to be the number of one really cool dudeNah man, pick your battles. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 11:33 PM |
| 109 | Some girl gave me a fake number. Jokes on her, turned out to be the number of one really cool dudeSeriously, if she gives you the wrong numver, just take the hint and let it go. Next time create more attraction. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 09:11 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Approached at fucking McDonalds."Je nais se pas quand" - Slang for "je ne sais pas quand" - "I don't know when", as in "one day you're going to translate this message, I don't know when." Nice report though, I really like your thoughts on the origin of wit, and also modelling a character to make yourself charming/witty. I'm going to look into this. | /r/seduction | 07/10/14 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?Haha I'm surprised at how well this went! Fair play to you brother, you pulled it off. Keep us updated on progress down the line. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 10:55 AM |
| 169 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?Dude... say no. She has now changed the time, which you agreed to, and is now going to take her mate along... Please don't agree to this, it will make you seem desperate. You need to write this: "Heya, I know you don't know me very well, but that's the point of this hang out! I want to get to know you, and I don't think your roommate being there would help." Then put in some cheesy smiley. If she refuses this, you shouldn't meet her. Just say, I'm sorry to hear that, nice meeting you. She'll be … | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 11:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Warm-up game, and barista attempt (audio)Dude respect for posting these, it was difficult to hear the girl speaking so you could maybe "normalise" the audio, but still really cool. I have recently started recording audio and I have learnt a lot from it so kudos. Respect on finding a technique on getting over the initial AA, I think it's quite a ballsy approach for street game RE polldancing class, but I remember when I first started I used to say something a bit out there too, just to get the adrenaline pumping. Regarding the bookshop … | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 10:52 PM |
| -3 | [FR] A successful/unsuccessful freeze out in action - is this approach to LMR old fashioned?Not entirely sure what you mean by "actual good girl"... she was very open to talking about sex and had been in several long term relationships. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 07:05 AM |
| -4 | [FR] A successful/unsuccessful freeze out in action - is this approach to LMR old fashioned?I love these comments that add nothing positive - next time at least try some critical analysis - it might help both of us, rather than putting down the guy who has made the effort to analyse his experience ;) | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 07:03 AM |
| -3 | [FR] A successful/unsuccessful freeze out in action - is this approach to LMR old fashioned?This is bad advice. You can't "talk" a girl into getting intimate with you. She either wants to or doesn't. At least I had the balls to be polarising, and not supplicate to her. My frame was that I was physically attracted to her, why should I change my frame? In the end our frames didn't align so she went home. Let me know how it goes when you are in this situation and you try to reason with the girl. I bet she finds it really attractive. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.Of course not. I'm just saying we've all said stupid uncalibrated things that we later regret and therefore learn from. Hopefully none of us threaten rape and murder in the same sentence though. | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 02:03 PM |
| 2 | How can I try at a bar if I don't drink?I ordered a sparkling water the other night, and when some alpha prick saw me do it, he turned to me and said "big night then, mate?" in a real sarcastic fashion. I completely blanked him, didn't even look at him - he was pissed and said "well fuck you then" and turned around. A guy with a response like that has issues - I don't need to make them my issues, so I didn't. BOOM. I was drinking non-alcoholic mojitos another night because I wasn't in the mood for getting drunk (work etc). A couple of… | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 01:09 PM |
| 1 | So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'?So glad to see girlschase.com being posted here, this website is full of incredible advice, about life in general too. I also love the way that Chase uses scientific articles extensively. | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 09:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Escalating when I didn't feel like it... because I felt I should.Haha - I've heard a good way to get around this is to just sleep and have sex in the morning... I've never had the situation though where we've not had sex and I stay. I usually feel like I keep some self respect by having the nonchalance to get up and walk... but maybe it's something worth trying. | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.Yeah the paragraph was a bit of a stream of consciousness but fuck it - it worked for Hemingway. | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out to do the weekly shop, instead I instadate a blonde beauty and head back to her flat to watch a movie.Yeah dude, thanks for keeping an eye out - I posted another field report about it, although it didn't get much attention :( http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2hxwir/fr_escalating_when_i_didnt_feel_like_it_because_i/ She's coming round mine tomorrow afternoon... pretty sure I'll be sealing the deal, and if not, I've got another date lined up for the evening, to my friends' disgust. Abundance is the way forward! | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Quitting the gameSeriously fuck this man. The very fact you needed to broadcast this and then are replying to the comments indicates to me that you are feeling sorry for yourself and want some attention. Your attitude stinks. I could point out several things straight away that you could start working on but I'm not going to bother. If you want to admit this is bullshit and start improving yourself again, let me know and I'll be here to support anyone that needs it. But I'm going to sit here and masturbate your e… | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 01:44 AM |
| 0 | What's the appropriate response to "I don't think I should"? From a girl who's already in a relationship?This has worked before for me, and even when it doesn't she still likes it and it lightens the mood: cheeky smile throughout "you're right, we shouldn't be doing this" kiss on the neck. "And we definitely shouldn't be doing this" kiss on the cheek "and we most certainly shouldn't be doing this" kiss on lips or boobs or whatever As long as she is still laughing, smiling, giving good vibes, I would continue this, but if you feel her stiffening up or getting uncomfortable stop. Obviously no means n… | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 01:04 PM |
| 3 | How to smoothly eject from a failed approach?I always say "have a good day" or "have a good evening". Just wishing people well is a type of metta meditation. I think it just shows you are not a bitter guy and it's a great way of explicitly showing outcome independence. I've read other guys say that sometimes later in the nights, girls you have left like this will come find you - this has actually happened to me once, which was awesome. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Is tiredness a good reason not to game?Haha I had a similar experience tonight except it was with escalating - I've documented it in a FR here. I'm waiting to see what people think, but I think that the answer is that as a strong man, you should only be doing things you want to do, when you feel like doing them... At the same time, when you are learning this stuff and there isn't too much to lose, I think you need to push yourself as far as you can go, to avoid bending to your scumbag brain which can rationalise your inaction, and al… | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 12:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] F-close second time we meet, then unsure of where I stand upon the next time around...Sounds like she is now trying to trap you in a relationship dude... when dealing with her, you need to make sure you have plenty of other options going around, and if she does that whole LMR thing next time you see her, it is my opinion that you need to be ready to walk at the drop of a hat. That's the only way to retain your power and self-respect. I've just had a LMR experience, I'll see the girl once more, but in the meantime I'm going to try to increase my options so that in our interactions… | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 12:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm Vadim from Honest Signalz. Ask me anything : )Sheit brah, I'd never heard of you before but you now have a new follower! The first 15 seconds of my daygame is similar to yours, but then you are 10 times smoother for the rest of the interaction, I think I'll learn a lot from watching more. Loved the whole "most interesting man in the world" theme hehe | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 12:10 AM |
| 5 | An update on my experiment: AKA, how i stopped being a "nice guy"Sounds like you are making some deep identity level changes. Nice job. I similarly learnt the hard way that no one wants a follower - you have to lead all decisions in your life, and if some people don't like you leading, well fuck them. You have to cause friction, another way of saying polarise I suppose. | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 11:31 PM |
| 17 | What Makes People Boring?This was useful to read. About two years ago, I read how to win friends and influence people - although it was initially quite successful, I started realising that although the initial part of the conversation was engaging, people soon got bored, because (a) I would keep them talking about themselves (b) I wouldn't say anything to contradict them (c) I wouldn't give to many of my own opinions. I realised that this was not interesting over the past year, and since I've been much more natural, jus… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.Let me know how it goes dude! Wit can come later, the opener just needs to be charming ;) | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.This guy probably wasn't a serial rapist - that's the thing. He was probably just a normal guy who had started recently, and was saying uncalibrated things like this, thinking saying crazy shit was the way to stand out. In no way am I laughing at this poor fucker. Yes, her saying that to me gave me a bit of an ego boost and perhaps that's partly why I posted it. But the main point I was trying to make in this post is that I wasn't that different to this guy back when I started - the only thing t… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.See my reply to /u/i4k20z3 below | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.I almost always use the same pattern when I approach during the day. It goes something like this: "Hey, I was just walking past you/tying my bike up over there/whatever when I saw you walking by and I just had to come over and quickly say hello". I say this slowly and in a measured manner, and I follow with a cheesy charming smile (self-proclaimed charming). When they say hello I then introduce myself with my first name and shake their hand whilst holding good eye contact. I then normally ask th… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.Sheeeeeeeiiiit boi, I have never seen that before... I don't even know if I am impressed or disgusted. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.Good point, as you build trust, you get into the zone where you can start teasing more than before, this process I think is probably a little slower in daygame, although obviously this isn't the rule. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.An example of negatively polarising but not creepy, and a simple line that I use the whole time is "are you single?". Almost all the time girls will apologise with no, we'll smile shake each other's hands saying bye. No creepiness, just pure intent, most girls respect that. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Interesting female opinion on being approached and creepiness during daygame approach.I get what you are saying, believe me I get blown out by many girls during daygame, but much less than when I began. Some have boyfriends, some are in a rush, some are just not in the mood, however very few stop, engage with me and are creeped out. Obviously, a rare few do intrinsically find the notion of being stopped on the street "creepy", perhaps they tell their friends about me "the weird guy" who stopped them. But that's cool with me as long as it is a minority. Nightgame is a little diffe… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out to do the weekly shop, instead I instadate a blonde beauty and head back to her flat to watch a movie.Thanks. Going to go for a jog with her tomorrow and grab some food afterwards, keep the momentum up. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 11:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out to do the weekly shop, instead I instadate a blonde beauty and head back to her flat to watch a movie.Thanks man. The only lines I can think of are the couple I have mentioned above. I've been listening to the blueprint decided by rsd, so my main focus was not going into my head and analysing things as they were happening - this meant that I was quite mindful I think, and you know when you are in a really good conversation you can hardly remember the individual parts, just the whole - it was kind of like that. I think she must have felt that vibe too. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Please don't ask seddit to help you with one specific woman.This is a beautiful thing... well done. I had never really thought about it that you guys must have to delete loads of specific posts. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 02:40 AM |
| 11 | changed approach, instant positive response. blows my mind.Agreed, this is counting your condom wrappers before they've... hatched? | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "what"?Thing is, you're doing this with girls you know (I assume if they are in your class), and if you've never done it to them before, what you are doing will seem "not like you" and girls are extremely sensitive to that, it seems weird to them when someone is acting like themselves, it seems socially uncalibrated. Compare that to holding strong eye contact with a random girl walking down the street - she is unlikely to say what. She will be thinking woah who the fuck is this guy who's staring at me … | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The Fappening Inspired Post - What is your opinion on sexting and texting/snapchatting nudes?It's interesting, I think girls only do this for guys they are attracted to and have had a bit of a thing with... You see those retarded videos by that Downton Abbey actress, she was all like baby this baby that.... I think these people are at least in mini-relationships, the chances of getting a girl to send this stuff to you without that context are slim. This may be my self-limiting view though, I never really bother try with girls I haven't been intimate with... will be interesting to see if… | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | At 30 years of age, I feel past my prime. Therefore I have a constant sense of urgency, leaving me completely outcome dependent.Dude - just look at krauserPUA. He is mid-thirties, bald, has a Geordie (Newcastle) accent - in other words, he's no George "ageing-like-a-fine-wine" Clooney, but his motto is "YOUNGER, HOTTER, TIGHTER". He's absolutely smashing it, and he's only getting better supposedly... This is his most recent blog entry http://krauserpua.com/2014/08/01/prague-closure/ Also click on the part of his site called "flags" http://krauserpua.com/flags/ Fucking hilarious. Have some confidence in yourself. As long … | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 01:41 PM |
| -1 | The line that always finishes the night. 95% success on my part.Trying this tonight, what a fucking excellent line yo! | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 02:52 PM |
| 2 | RSD free tour - Has anybody been/is anybody going?Thanks for the replies. I'm a gonna book on. | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 12:04 PM |
| 2 | How to hook up with a girl at a house party/bar?I would always go for the F-close first, and then if there is a logistic reason I can't (eg no room available etc), go for the #-close. Why go for a #-close automatically? If you have set the right frames, whereby you are not judging her for being a slut, whereby you won'y blab to other people at the party, you should be able to go for the SNL (single-night lay), and nothave to settle for a #-close. | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How to hook up with a girl at a house party/bar?You should be making sure to convey a degree of sexual intent throughout the interaction. It's more than just "touching", it's the intent behind the touching that you must convey. Otherwise you are in a situation where she sees you as a non-sexual guy who provides "good conversation" and then suddenly you start trying to hook up with her - her alarm bells go off for lack of social calibration. However if she knows from the start of the interaction that you want to fuck her, she can choose to sta… | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 12:24 AM |
| 2 | dear r/seduction, please help me learn to flirt-text!!!If you were a man, I would tell you don't waste your time flirting in text - save it for in person. If someone is attracted to you, why are you wasting your time texting. As a man, I tell the girl where we are going for a date within 2-3 texts. As a girl, if you are finding a new guy flirting via text with you, you should be asking yourself whether he is really a strong enough candidate to be worth your time... but then again, I don't know what value you portray. It is not crucial to get to know… | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle a girl who says she's not ready yet after a breakup?I agree with this. It doesn't sound like she developed much attraction for you, and then you left to hang with your friends. If both of you were really attracted (if she was attracted to you), things would have escalated there and then. You should have worked on pushing the interaction there and then if you felt there was any sort of chance, not going to hang with your friends. | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Second chances at past failures?I catch myself thinking this sometimes. It's natural to look back at past failures with captain hindsight, however this is just a manifestation of a scarcity mentality. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Response to the post about cutting bait if you don't get a kissThis may be true, but I feel like mods should post more constructively. PUA_Baddie, two things - if you do have a "shitty personality", make sure you have an interesting lifestyle, don't make girls your main focus. Job/hobbies, family, friends - these should come first and the girls will follow. Secondly, remember this is a numbers game - you go through runs of shitty lows, and then incredible highs. Persistence distinguishes winners from losers. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Response to the post about cutting bait if you don't get a kissI'm the OP of the above article... Thanks for taking the time to clear this up. I think this is the best answer to the question, because it isn't one rule fits all. I now see that one has to base it upon your previous experience with the girl. I met the original girl through daygame - and we then went on a two-three hour date. I suppose it makes complete sense that she hadn't quite made up her mind about me, and she needed a little more time to get to know me - I was a stranger from the street. … | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you probe for a boyfriend?May I be even more nosey and ask how many girls with boyfriends you have successfully had sex with? I'm not asking this to test you - rather to test my own prejudices. I generally walk the moment a girl says she has a boyfriend, because I am of the mark manson models school of thought... | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:56 AM |
| 3 | How do you probe for a boyfriend?Ok, if you are getting indicators of interest, that is a good sign that you would b safe to ask. Otherwise, you are not on her radar and you are probably safer leaving it... This is what I would do. Someone who is more of a risk taker may however argue that by being the one to lead and ask, you are putting yourself on her radar. I suppose it depends how much of a gambling man you are and whether the risks outweigh the benefits with each individual girl? Maybe write out the possible cons vs pros … | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:53 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Continuation for the girl who I met at the bookstore who has a boyfriendDude, two things. First of all stop feeling sorry for yourself - as a man, your job is to take shit and remain stoic, otherwise how will emotionally labile women ever rely on you to be their rock. Second of all, game is all about numbers and statistics. Yes you will go through meeting a run of girls who have boyfriends or turn you down. Shit, I was day-gaming the other day and must have approached 10 in a row that had bfs. Your job is to remember that every failure is leading you towards your su… | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:47 AM |
| 6 | A girl wouldn't kiss me on the first date - I debated asking her on a second date, until I read this link.Dude, that's a great suggestion - I have a couple of second dates in the pipeline and some pho might be just the trick. I often use a walk and ice cream as a second date, around my neighbourhood, so logistics are sorted. | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:37 AM |
| -2 | A girl wouldn't kiss me on the first date - I debated asking her on a second date, until I read this link.That's for your take, it's good to hear people's thoughts on this - I wasn't sure if I was being unreasonable or sensible. | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:33 AM |
| 0 | A girl wouldn't kiss me on the first date - I debated asking her on a second date, until I read this link.If a girl tells you she "doesn't kiss on the first date", what is your take on that? Would you go on a second date? How so you react? I'd like to point out that I had really good signs from her, I did a caveman kiss, pushed her against the wall and went for it, but she wormed out of it... | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:20 AM |
| 2 | A girl wouldn't kiss me on the first date - I debated asking her on a second date, until I read this link.I completely agree with you and I only ever take girls for a casual drink, a hot drink or a walk... my specific question was regarding the validity of a girl saying she "doesn't kiss on the first date"... I have now decided that such a girl is probably not worth a second date. | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you probe for a boyfriend?How much of your time does this waste though? In daygame, I aim to screen for girls who are receptive, and spending 10minutes flirting with a girl who has a bf is counterproductive to that goal. | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you probe for a boyfriend?Out of interest, how often do you get to a point where she tells you she has a bf quite far into her set, and things stop there? What do you use to try to counteract that and what is your success rate? | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How do you probe for a boyfriend?"Are you single?" No - "Nice meeting you, have a great day." (With a girl you probably won't interact with again). Yes - "cool" continues conversation It's not her responsibility to tell you this. Girls with boyfriends fucking love getting a little attention and flirtation - they rarely get a chance. And they don't give a fuck if they are wasting your time, because they don't consider this for a moment. You need to take responsibility for the precious resource of your time. If you don't respect … | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 12:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you learn from reading some "female game" advice?Well... I am generalising, but my impression is that most of them do, particularly as they approach the age of my cohort, mid-twenties... | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What do you learn from reading some "female game" advice?Hmmm... possibly the only time someone has called my mom a c*ksck*r and my response has been "interesting". | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you learn from reading some "female game" advice?This post is about how my paradigm has changed - but it will not be new reading for a lot of people here. I have found that as one understands game better, one cares less about the quantity and more about the quality. As this thought had started burgeoning, I read the above article, which is rather fascinatingly game advice for women! It blew my mind. This guy is directly recommending women NOT to sleep with guys on the first date- whereas up until now, if a girl didn't sleep with me on the firs… | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Tips for going out solo?I've noticed that the second I leave my car, I have to speak to the first people I see. The trick is to get your social momentum up before you even get to the club/bar. The reason being is that you don't want to spend any time in the bar not speaking to people because of AA - girls notice shit like that subconsciously and you suddenly become one of those weird guys on the sidelines staring at everybody - worst feeling in the world. Or if you can go to some piece of shit bar to warm up in, then h… | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 10:36 PM |
| 19 | Oneitis to the point where I feel like throwing upGo out and approach 25 women in daygame. Come back here and tell me whether you still have oneitis. You won't. http://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls Hope that helps bro. I feel your pain. | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What's up with girls who says "you're too young for them"?This may indicate that you're not building enough sexual tension... | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Movies with alpha males?Ryan Gosling in Crazy Stupid Love http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWJd1jaYaeU | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 10:24 PM |
| 4 | [FR] I was practicing my IM game on a girl I met in the library, when a female friend told me "that's no way to talk to a lady", so I let her take controlNot to make you feel bad, but genuinely both are bad. Firstly you are using IM to form rapport and a connection, and there is nothing worse than IM for connecting. For this reason, it is a waste of time to practise it. Your single aim with IM should be to try and get a girl in person, where you can actually look into each other's eyes and perhaps something might actually just happen. Secondly, in both conversations (I'll talk about them as if one person wrote them because they are similar), she … | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Are there any active sedditors from London here?This is awesome, I'm signing up now. You been to any of their meets? | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Are there any active sedditors from London here?I would prefer that too, but my bros are either in relationships or don't believe in this stuff (and remain to be AFCs). Can you tell me the details of any lairs you have heard of? I have googled this, but I wanted to hear from people here what their experience was first. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 11:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Wanted - opinions/tips for what should have been an F-close. Good game at the start of the night - terrible game towards the end.I suppose I wanted to take it further, and thought my chances were good. But you're right, I was acting like a complete AFC. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 07:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Wanted - opinions/tips for what should have been an F-close. Good game at the start of the night - terrible game towards the end.Hmm, this is certainly valid. It's very hard to remain unfazed though - this comes back to the outcome dependence stuff. I think I should have been more flexible, the moment I got bad vibes from my approach, I should have changed it/lightened the mood and approached a different way. I became too set in my approach... | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 04:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Wanted - opinions/tips for what should have been an F-close. Good game at the start of the night - terrible game towards the end.What do you mean "my first suggestion"? | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 04:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Wanted - opinions/tips for what should have been an F-close. Good game at the start of the night - terrible game towards the end.You know what, that's a really good point. I'm best at one on one planned dates, but she kind of turned it on its head by saying she wanted to dance - I should have controlled the situation better by bouncing to a more suitable place. At the same time, is it valid for me to use the excuse "it's not my thing"? Surely if one person can do it, anyone can do it, and I just need to become comfortable in that arena and learn its skill set... | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 04:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Wanted - opinions/tips for what should have been an F-close. Good game at the start of the night - terrible game towards the end.I'm 24. Started reading seduction community material only in the last few months so probably I am using a lot of terminology. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 04:43 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Wanted - opinions/tips for what should have been an F-close. Good game at the start of the night - terrible game towards the end.I'm here because I am learning - pretty sure most people are, right? I know I have weaknesses in my approach. But I'm going to find them, then research the shit out of them, and improve them so they never happen again. In this case outcome independence - a word I have heard bandied around, but never studied. I had an extremely successful seduction two days ago, where I had a first date F-close. Perhaps this is part of the reason I got frustrated that things weren't moving that quickly, but I am … | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 09:24 AM |
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