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these pair of QUEENS 😁😁😁😁 so young and so clever at the same time 😂❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 12:00 PM
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Spencer Tracy was an alcoholic too, and horrible mood. Katherine Hepburn was a pickme, why she was the side piece of an old married alcoholic man during 30 years? I prefer my life, seriously 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:12 AM
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So right you are❤ but i was so dumb when i was young too🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:19 PM
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The one who needs help is the 22-years old😬😬😂😂😂. The one who is writing just escaped a scrote, she just need to realize it, she is very lucky of only wasting two years in that idiot🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:13 PM
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we must not forget recurrent yeast infections, my vagina was literally shouting at me😬😬😂 and my acne completely disappeared after i sparked him💅🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:48 PM
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You have to stop talking with him, asap, he is trying to manipulate with the tears and guilt. If you dont have kids with him, dont comunicate with him any more. Congrats!!! cause you escaped a miserable life 💕💕❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 10:34 AM
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young women didnt want them 10 or 15 years ago🤔😎 why young women would want them now? Maybe if they have a solid position/job/money nowadays... but there are younger men with money from family or good careers too🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:14 PM
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To the prision or police station, please 🤓😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:51 PM
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can you talk about the red flags you realized? I mean if it is ok for you, and not triggering. Could be useful for other women. All my strengh with you❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:15 PM
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you can do much better girl, he doesnt respect you a 1%, bothering you again. They always do this for his ego/dick/appearance in social circles... Redirect those mails to trash without reading, so it doesnt desestabilize you. Dont delete the mails cause it could escalate to harassment, and you could need proofs in future. Dont discuss your life with your friends, they sound naive/pickme. Only that only friend sounds more reliable. No man has your best interest in mind. You sound clever, but youn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:59 AM
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You live, you learn ❤ Dont torture yourself, i was more stupid 😂😂 we know better now, we do better😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:16 PM
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My grandmother was conducted to police station round 1940 for making a hole in a mans tight with a knitting long pin/needle, he needed minor surgery. She was only 17. In the police station allowed her to go when her father picked her, like making her a favour. The trying rapist got zero consecuences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:06 PM
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A girl who is 31 should not either use 4 years waiting for a man to decide if he will marry her or not. Dont feel yourself less than a 31/32. I waited from 26 to 29 for boyfriend to decided and i dumped him, he was doubting yet. I should have not wait more than 1,5 years. My husband proposed in 9 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:27 AM
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You rock it 🤩🤩😂☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:23 PM
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In Spain, women dont go on leave at 5 month in pregnancy, most part have to work til last month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:30 AM
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This wise lady ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:15 PM
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I would say they know it in the first 3 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:19 PM
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You sound very wise, lady 🥰🥰 Thank you so much for sharing your experiences so detailed🤓❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:14 PM
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That is totally true, they get shocked face when you answer sharp in their language. I have foreign appearance where i live now and accent, but i speak the language without problems and i have a good job and married with a native. Clearly they dont expect that when they approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:12 PM
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who cares about the opinion of those idiots🤯😂 if you dont like bj, dont do them, never do anything with a begging-coercitive scrote, he doesnt respect boundaries. anyway you live, you learn. dont mortify you more with the subject, you know better now. just take care about your life and more interesant things that you have for you❤❤❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:11 PM
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"all these past dudes..." he is negging you. Please, never answer back again to him and block his number. And never discuss your past with a man, you dont owe explanations to nobody. you were super clever avoiding that trip❤❤❤❤ wish all the best for you🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:37 PM
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Clever not-creep male teachers dont allow female students alone in their office or they leave the door completly open. It was 2000 and my first year in university when i went to ask some questions about a difficult tema to a male teacher who was like 50 or sth like that. It was very good weather so i was not wearing a lot of clothes. He was busy when he told me to enter and i closed the door and sitted, without thinking about it (naive, young and used to school) He look at me serious and told me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:09 AM
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You should be proud of your family whatever, specially if they have been lovely good parents. Not every parents had the same job oportunities, and a HVM will not judge that. If a man put down your family cause poverty kick his ass forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:38 AM
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she sounds exhausted already, he doesnt respect her boundaries, i would drop him like hot potato and run 🤔🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:58 PM
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They are not his friends either, the friend commented cause jelousy, and probably is secretly happy now about the boy who lost the girlfriend. They are just a bouquet of losers, OP must take the highway1🤓She deserves much better and she handlet this like a queen 🙏🏻😂🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:27 AM
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This scrote is a shame for his own mother, first of all 🤯🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:43 PM
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I had my first ex reapearing 17 years later. He sounded surprised i was married, 3 kids, muuuuch better life than his. 😂😂😂😂 How i dare to not wait crying for him during 17 years 🤔🤯🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:37 PM
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I have 3, i had the last one when i was 38, and maybe i should had have them younger, but previous bfs were not apropiated. I advise you decide yourself 100% when to have them, cause you will do the 90% of the effort, even if the dad helps, my husband works hard, but the pregnancies and birth destroy you, mine were normal and i am ok again, but those months were hard. Get married before get pregnant, secure a good economic position for you and the kids before doing anything.❤❤ edit cause misspel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:02 AM
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Hi lady, you sound naive for being 25, you must awake and protect yourself, never tell men about your traumas and insecurities. And you dont keep a man with the sex. I advise you reading about "catholic guilt or shame" ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:54 AM
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you will not getting any closure if you reach him, he will just not answer but get silent satisfaction about the fact that you care yet. His ego will make him think you are dying for him yet. I know the irge you feel is like withdrawal from drugs, but the calm must come from yourself. Is like he robbed your dignity and he is the only person who can give it back to you, but this is not true, youur dignity is inyourself and he is an ingsignificant parasite. What worked for me was to write the lett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:02 PM
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you cant compare with a women who never have been married cause a semi-normal man can find at least some women interested in marry him. He was overpicky and stringed the past girlfriends along during years. After 30-35 ALL HVM that are marriage-orientated are out of market. Never married after 30 is yellow flag, never married after 35 is red flag. I am 39(married) and i know a lot of men this age. After 35 is muuuuch better a divorced/widow man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:51 PM
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be careful with hormonal birth control a d dont take it just cause your boyfriend wants it. i dont advice sex out of a comittent relationship, and then maybe tou dont need that control. To all the young girls, the pills have a price that only the woman pays, with her future health, be awake about it. Dont take hormons for have sex if you dont benefit clearly from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:24 PM
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A lot of abusive men have prominent positions in their communities, doctors, lawyers, volunteers in poor countries. Who cares if he is thenextCarlSagan, who cares about his life, nobody cares about his life, he is a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:39 PM
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block him, you are not his therapist🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:32 PM
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dont be unfair, they are willing to pay 4$ latte for the sex 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:18 PM
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i didnt know anything of these women 😥 i see they were incredible beautiful when young the two of them, they were abused and cheated for years. It is so important to chose well your man, dont date projects or students, date the man wich has an established career already. A man without a good position should be working, not losing his time with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:53 PM
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This girl is a quuueeeen😂😂😂😂🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:24 PM
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then pornsick too🤷🏻‍♀️he was a catch😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:34 AM
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He is not your friend He thinks he can get a girl more beautiful than you, he thinks he has more level than you and meanwhile can use you just for sex. this sounds harsh and horrible, it is what is inside of him, doesnt have anything to do with who you are. this happened to me once when i was young, 20 years later i am doing waaaaay better than him, and i can see the loser he was. use your time for improve your career, appearence, friends and enjoy your life, dont talk to him never again, he wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:43 PM
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I am sooooo happy for you that you have left hat loser behind🤓 These zombies bother me too from time to time😂😂 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:42 PM
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can you enroll in some military program or sth like that? that it gives you a place for leaving? or as a waiter in a hotel very away that they provide sleeping for employess too? you think he is your only option cause he has been eroding your selfesteem, you have to escape. i would prefer eat very little than stay with a nvm like that😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:08 PM
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Hi lady, if you have them big is normal they look a bit falled, natural big boobs are not perky if you are older than 14 years old, that idiot had the brain absorbed by porn and fake boobs. I have big and got negged by first boyfriend too, but nowadays i know i have beautiful body, and of course when i was 19 too, he just was a loser like your idiot.🤓🤷🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:08 PM
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you queen😂😂😂❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:02 PM
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so impolite the man, i am sure you can do muuuuuuuuuch better(infinite better) ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:33 PM
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it is true that a man expect sex if you invite him to your home, the reality is ugly but is that way. The book is correct about it, dont invite men home if you dont want to have sex, that is not rape-culture, is the nature of all the men, even if we don like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:44 PM
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uggh, so disgusting, just ignore him from now, which kind of question is that? he just contact you for trying to put you down? Is he retarded? 🤯😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:45 AM
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ufff i would prefer to clean my princess's cat-toilet than to talk 10 mins with that idiot😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:51 PM
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I agree with you totally, i have a friend with a boy from previous marriage and her actual husband pay for the boy all, like he does for the little girl they have in common, he does much more than her, so he pays much more of all, included the kids, my friend pays a little of the common, she has reduced hours(she has her mother sick now, and will long a bit yet) This husband is proud about covering for it, probably for him is a way of demostrate he is doing more than well. The dad of the boy giv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:09 PM
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he sounds extreme inmature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:42 AM
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I would never date/marry a man that says he will not cover a previous kid. He can try that shit with a more ugly woman. I am married and we have 3 kids, if sth happen to him i will only accept a man who takes care of us, what is the point if the man is not helping really??? for that i would happily live like a widow the rest of my life😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:03 AM
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thanks🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:11 PM
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sorry, what is a "cop out"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:36 PM
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Hi, you dont have to love sb just cause "he is a good person", you are doing well following your instinct. Maybe is too early for another relationship, you could wait a year or two and process all the trauma meanwhile. Wish all the best for you🥰❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:32 PM
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i feel embarrassed i dated them in my naive-pickmeisha days, so i never investigate about them, if some common aquitance try to talk about them i just avoid the tema, i feel real shame nowadays 🤯🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:00 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:03 PM
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If you were a man, he would not be texting you in that way. Block him, avoid him and forget about him. For strange men you are not interested in "You have already a boyfriend, sorry" Those weird men can be dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:57 PM
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One of my friends went to report a robbery in her car, and one of the polices contacted her days after asking for a date🤯🤯🤦🏻‍♀️ she was young and naive and didnt report him, but she didnt date him either, she got scared, all this in an european country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:52 PM
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Why the blue area is much bigger than the pink area? must we believe that the total smv of a man during his life is bigger than the smv of a woman?? Cause that is clearly impossible 🤯🤯🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:27 PM
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the people who knows you, if they really care about you and are good persons, they will not talk about it, they will be repectful. The ones who talk about it, embarrass you, they are using it for putting you down, toxic friends, you have to avoid those persons in your life. Great if they show their true colors, just answer them sharp and delete that person from your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:12 PM
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you are a queen 😂👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:52 AM
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Could be sth more interessant and worth of the effort than "knowing your self"??? who cares about dating🤦🏻‍♀️🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:31 PM
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the girl is trying to level up and you drag her down?? who cares about a bit of photoshop!!!!🙄🙄See her face, for lord's sake!!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:42 AM
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I needed these words too, i hold a lot of anger against myself yet and regrets about being stupid and wasting my time with a pair of idiots. I like to think this is the final phase of the recovering, i am not sad or suffering anymore and is great, but the anger takes a part of my mental energy yet, and is a waste of it 🤦🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:39 PM
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54 year old? can I ask how old are you? these men so old expect to have sex fast too? i mean they can have sex normal yet with a woman that is almost a stranger?? I ask out of curiosity and with all my respect🤔🤔 i see how the prospects or the respect dont get better with age🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:09 PM
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"-He said that the idea of only ever being with one person physically for the rest of his life makes him nervous. He said having sex with me is kind of like having "the same meal every day" because we're so familiar with each other. I didn't know how to respond to this." This is the only reason☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 He thinks he could do better than you and he wants to fuck around, he has been with you cause you didnt give him problems and he has the sex secured, "AnYWaY hE nEeDs to EaT eVEry daY" Dump …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:21 PM
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you sound nice and scared, you should go with human resources and open a file formally. If he doesnt need to talk to you for work, he shouldnt be talking to you, that is harassment, sugesting you should have sex with him, the company MUST guarantee your security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:57 PM
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Amen to these words, i am married and happy, in my case my goal were the kids, more than the marriage. Oh god!!!! we have 3 kids, and they are precious and all but i have my normal previous worries plus normal worries about the kids all the time 🤯😂😂 and that without happening anything bad, cause really we are very lucky, with job, health, grandpas alive, nice country... Soooo, enjoy your single life ladies!!🤓💃🏽❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:45 AM
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Somebody can redirect her here? I dont know which degree of diastasis she has or the therapy she folliws, but i had, and i have improved incredible with "low pressure fitness" i am not sure of the name in english. Of course she should divorce asap and get the money back, that man used the money in drugs, prostitutes or gambling, or the three things at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:37 AM
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which country is that? no taxes? no health inssurance? he lives in the basement of his widow pensionist mamma??🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:24 AM
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🤯😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:22 AM
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This was my life too, but i learnt (after errors and suffering i would have prefer to spare). Children? Now I have 3 BOYS 🤯😂 and i would say boys mothers educate them for taking and fighting. It is incredible how it had appeared naturally in me, yes, respect women but never invest in a girl you are not interested, always invest less as possible... My parents educated me for being nice, sweet and polite, i wonder if they would have educated me the same way if i were a boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:05 AM
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I see you zooming the pic for check the glasses😂😂😂 so your gut was telling you from before that sth was off. I dont see a man worth of these worries... sure you can date better prospects, you handle it super well🥰🥰❤👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:39 PM
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The popcorn sentence, that killed me😂😂😂 never moved my ass for a man anymore💃🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:29 PM
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We can not simply believe she ghostes cause he says it. Maybe she just dumped him clearly and didnt took his harassment after trying to go back. The entitlement in these dudes is big. Months after and how she dares to get married? For sure he must send things to her husband to punish that bad woman🤢🤢🤢🙄🙄🙄🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:41 AM
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I have 3 kids and could not be more happy about them, but dont have kids if you are not super 100%sure, cause is a neverendingwork. I consider my husband HV and we have ok economic conditions, but anyway is a lot of work. I dumped a previous "nice" ex cause he didnt eanted, gave me excuses about not having kids... so i was very sure i wanted to be mother. But anyaway IS A BIG JOB, and you are never again yourself anymore, you are the mother of..., is like a 99% a new life😂😂 so i am very respectf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:17 PM
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There is always a why, be cautious about that therapist. You should not date and use the time in yourself, where is the hurry about dating again so soon?❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:55 PM
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it is sad, but the most safe is to say you are married. Say no firmly and with face of smelling shit, a bit agressively, and tell you are married with a nasty look. If they insist cause they dont believe it and tell you look 18, tell i am 23, i am married and we have a baby 1 year old, stop harassing me or i call the cops inmediatly, and you go, or do what is the safest for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:01 PM
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this👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:15 AM
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Bfffff, is not more easy for you to find a proper man if you search out of muslims? Or he has to be your same religion? i ask from respect and totally ignorance, i am catholic and my husband is protestant, zero problems with religions, but is true we dont care so much about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:55 AM
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rumors about how he treats women sexually? Sound like a rapist for me. BLOCK and RUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:58 PM
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you handle it like a queen 😍😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:29 PM
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They are just negging, if you would like music or games(male interest) they would tell your music or games are dumb and less intelectual, cool than theirs. My two first exes where this way, the most abusive, triangulation, negging etc... My third ex and my husband were totally respectfull about my hobbies and interests, and much more respectful and better persons in general. If for example i have knitted sth, my husband just comment, wow is cute or it looks complicate, or i dont like it(if he do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:07 AM
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That comment is trying to bother the ex and make her insignificant, more than courting the new woman. He should not care about the ex, or at least be clever or elegant for not showing it. For me he is LVM, i dont care if he is local famous or he lives in the gym, he is not handsome in the face, and that a gym cant change it. The new woman is real pretty, she should know better and run away. He is zero elegant disrespecting the two woman and not clever enough behave different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:44 AM
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i think he is trying to neg you about your work too, first thing🙄 what a garbage you escaped lady❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:58 AM
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Hi, when i was 29 and after dating for 3 years, my ex who was 29 too, was giving me excuses for not marrying me, or living together, in some years, when we have better job, when we have more money... til one day he told me her older sister had her kid when she was 38, and he thought it should be our plan, ohhhh BOoYYy 🤯🤯 i runned like the wind, he tried to trap me again, even some friends telling that i would regret, alone forever, "he is a good person", he always played this card about being a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:46 PM
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To me, it sounds like an abuser who lovebombed you. (I dont want to disrespect how you feel now)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:30 PM
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you dont owe explanations to any man, or anybody about this❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:57 AM
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it is incredible how during relationship they were busy and when they see you dumped them and are doing very well without them, they become the Master of chasing and texting, annoying🤢😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:44 AM
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Trying to pressure and shame you for having boundaries and opinions, what q catch!!🤯😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:22 PM
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In my last twenties i began to recover my selfesteem and any man who was not courting like he adores me, began to be a big turn off. when i was younger i was naive, almost stupid and was neglected as kid, so being a very pretty teenager i didnt know about it, zero selfesteem, suffering a lot of negging from first boyfriends and not going away... ohh boy!!! in my last twenties i awaked and any man who tried to neg, make "jokes" about my appearance, career, tastes, friends, hobbies... those men be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:59 AM
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This was just that Mercury retrocesed that you are always talking about😁😁 the audacity of this man 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:15 AM
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hostilities 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:08 AM
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he is not your friend🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:59 PM
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just pretend they are not them, because they dead time ago. Is that my ex? no, is not possible, he was caput, i dont know you scrote, and you walk away and keep on with your bussiness💃🏽😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:58 PM
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totally abusi e, i had one like that too, if he discovers we have sb in common, he doesnt lose oportunity about tell i am a whore and cheated in him and left him. He considers cheating when i began to date others, months after i escaped from him, cause i am his property forever. Great i have hom blocked in all places so he cant see my friends in facebook for example, i have my lists of friends private anyway, this king of men do often fake accounts for stalking, so is not enough to have him bloc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:24 AM
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congrats lady😍😍all looks very beautiful and comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:31 PM
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could be 17 years later and when you are expecting your third kid, happily married to a super hvm, the scroote with this face 😵 surprised about the woman who got a life anyway 😂😂😂 dont ask why i know this history😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:24 PM
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That is how men are, the way to prevent being used is to make him invest MONEY and TIME, so his resources can not go to persuing other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:03 PM
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the shitty friends probably were just doing the same and covering each others 🤢 this happenned to me too sis ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:59 PM
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you score here, probably he was cheating with the 21yearsold and the wife discovered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:21 PM
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LOL 🤯😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:30 AM
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we could bet who is doing the 95% of the household chores too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:29 PM
3

ltr with abusive idiot during my twenties, yeast infection super frecuently. Dumped the idiot(for other reasons, my brain begginned to work again or whatever) yeast infection maximun once a year and very mild, having 3 babies in the last years and sex with husband 🤷🏻‍♀️ i had another bf after the stupid bf(before husband) and not yeast either. my body was screaming to me when i was with the idiot🤯😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:11 PM
3

The old man wanted to show her that he can walk without stick😂😂😂 Seriously, i am 39 and married with a 44, and is the maximun age gap i would consider. You can have any man under 33, dont waste time with men who prey in youth.❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:57 PM
2

i hope that filth of man is dragged by the cops soon🤢🤢 all my love and support for the girl😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:59 PM
4

10$/fuck? any woman can get 200$ per fuck and doesnt need to wash his undies, more worth to be a prostitute 🤷🏻‍♀️😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:08 PM
1

this☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 happenned to a friend lately, she is the weetest person, clever and hardworking, and super beautiful, but she is comes from a more poor childhood in east-europe. She is well educated and doing good at job here, but the husband was 10 years older ⛳ and partied toomuch⛳ and not doing enough with kids/house. My husband using this friend of him as example of having a "reasonable cool wife" 🙄🙄 now they are divorced and my husband has stopped talking about him😂😂 I am very happy for her, she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:37 AM
13

lady, dont talk to him anymore, you dont need to talk to him for reflect about the relationship/abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:34 AM
7

or 8 years😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:06 PM
6

ufff, so envious guy 🤢🤢 how that woman dares to be atractive and travel often, she for sure has not job and own money, or friends to stay free with, or a family who pays for it, ShE hAS tO Be a ProsTitUTe 🤯 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 12:47 PM
9

He is frustrated cause she is very atractive(he told that)😂😂😂 he could try with what he considers "less atractive"... but no, he is entitled to a hot queen who must go 50/50🤯😅 goodluckscroote 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:36 AM
3

it was not casual he disnt commented about his girl before, he only wanted to be sure that he is doing better than you, for his ego, never entertain him again. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:30 AM
2

He suggested you becoming his fwb=free-prostitute? Bye Felipe 🤷🏻‍♀️ You deserve the world, lady 😍🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:34 PM
1

thanks, i check now😍🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:48 PM
53

many males use coercion in stead of agression, if you feel bad, always feel your intuition, avoid males and those situations as long as you are young/naive. almost 99% of females, we have suffered some degree of that situation, if you dont want to do sth, get even agressive and go away from him, avoid any male that has a minimun vibe like that, even nice guys can wait til you are drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:15 PM
8

what a queen!!!😍😍😂😂 i wish i had seen this when i was a dumb teenager🤓🤦🏻‍♀️😂 can i get her instagram? is about dating/levelup too??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:58 AM
2

i think you should concentrate in improve your living conditions, he makes you waste time that you need for yourself, only use time in this man if it helps you really now, even economically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:10 AM
10

pffff, he was snuffing around searching for an easy lay, you are not an easylay so he is not interested, this rejectuion is a compliment, girl😂😂 i feel you are low in your life, just get busy with yourself😍😍 in future, when you will be in a better mindplace, you will be embarrassed about worrying now about that idiot. Dont ask why i know this 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤯😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:45 AM
2

even if you want ons, get a man who drives to you. if you are searching for ons, the queue of available man could reach Russia 🤯😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:09 PM
6

Nothing in the world can pay for a pregnancy or giving birth to a precious kid, the man must provide always, dont waste your time with losers, if he tries to argue about this, just NEXT🤷🏻‍♀️ Any girl can get a provider, if not the girl is better alone than with a man that is draining her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:09 AM
2

My husband is HV and he has done a lot of work about rebuilding the house and some furniture, it spares a loooooot of money and the results are excellent, cause is in his best interest so he tries hard. It is not his field, he is engineer and i didnt suspect he was so crafty before we married, but anyway is a clear green flag if a man is this way. I cant help comparing him with my stupid exes who smoked weed and were good for nothing🤯😂😂 And the table looks awesome, even better than many from the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:24 PM
15

He is trying to be a fuckboy?🤯😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:34 AM
2

The chapter when she talks about offering popcorns, if you feel generous, saved my life years ago😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:10 AM
3

i think he is trying to set you for a fwb-thing, i would ignore him totally from now, he doesnt sound interesting, you can get a man who wants a relationship with you. ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:54 PM
2

Wow, this could belong to a psycology phd 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:38 PM
2

He doesnt cut you totally knows you like him and doesnt want to lose the possibility of sex, but not too near cause you could think he wants a relationship. And OMG how could you think that, "he knows he can do muuuuch better". Block that disrespectful idiot🤓 Sure you are amazing, and with all your live in front of you 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:31 PM
23

This sounds naive, we can not think a man strings along a woman during 10 years with the best intentions. The marriage gives to the woman and the kids legal and financial security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:52 PM
2

Lady, all my heart with you❤ Screen shoot and keep copys of all of the messages in some other phone or device, (you can send the shoots to your mother) Then go to HR and tell that this happenned, show the messages and tell that you have been in police before and they asked you if your company has HR and polity about sexual harassment at work and if they have done sth about it, that they encouraged you to fill legal prosecution too, but all these must be known by the company cause could be that h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:18 PM
3

Dont guilty that Mercury thing, they do stupid things cause they are stupid scrotes. The poor little scrote is alone and the OP must go running with legs open to him, how she dares to behave in another way 🤯😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:58 PM
3

Sure he has thousand of girls trying to date him.🤯😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 01:33 PM
3

Great, cause he sounded negging, so he could be insecure(cause he sees you too atractive) or even abusive. Red flag those comments and so unpolite 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:21 AM
4

I agree 100% with you, surprise me the audacity they have, thinking their shit is meaningful🙄😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:40 AM
5

I have HVM and a cat, and sometimes I even prefer the cat 😂😂😂 Meanwhile my husband doesnt come with half death rats to show me love 🤢 and he is nice with the catprincess 🐱😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:44 AM
10

but they sound like a narcissist scrote, who cares about his place, who cares about his life? who cares about his opinion about you? Why is he so entitled to you wasting your time listening to those patethic nosenses? 🙄😂🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:37 AM
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Hope the best for you, but sometimes we have toxic persons in our family too, she sounds abusive, it is not important that she is younger than you if she is not a kid anymore, you dont deserve that mistreating❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:10 AM
2

Congrats!!!🎉😍 I feared he was trying to trick you with the house😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:21 PM
26

Megan Fox has commented before she has problems for comunicating emotionally with other people, this could make her more vulnerable to the abuse, when this happenned maybe she thought nobody would believe her, if she feels herself isolated... She deserves aknowledge, as any other woman or girl who has been harassed. I dont know about her work so much but she behaves always very polite, and looks like a good person in my opinion. Of course she is stunning beautiful too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:49 AM
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pfff, you escape from a loser, he just need attention, he doesnt care from which woman🤦🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 08:10 AM
1

you dodged a canonball, lady 🤦🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:32 PM
1

wtf!! she has been serious sick!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:31 PM
2

dont put a coin in that mortgage if your name is not in the property, dont live in that house if your name is not in the property. He buys the house before marry you???🚨🚨⛳⛳⛳ Hope you will be fine, but i fear he is trying to trick you. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:03 AM
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typical boyfriend who never had time to text or to call, after he becomes exbf he tries from time to time crawl back, phone and blocked, text and blocked, myspace and blocked, wtatssapp and blocked, facebook and blocked... he communicated much better as nasty exbf than as bf. Last time he tried i was married and waiting my third kid 🤦‍♀️🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:38 PM
3

an idiot ex told me that my cousin got a better job cause she was hot(she is hot but she graduated with honors) i threw the sandwich i was eating and went, he paid in the cheap cafe(first time in 5 years he paid my food, i was a stupid 50/50) and followed me shouting in the street. I realized if i taked the train he would come with me so i passed the station and when he realized, he began to shout me more. I walked 1 hour til my home(as i suspect his lazy ass would not follow me walking) and tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:56 AM
1

that guy sounds disrespectful and not very clever, you should avoid him, dont answer or lose your time with him 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:53 PM
1

in which country is that outfit fashion now??🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:25 PM
2

They are super beautiful, i like specially the elephant, looks hyperrealistic and magic at the same time 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:46 PM
4

I would stop answering him, you can find better men, he sounds disrespectfull. Great you didnt send anything 😘😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:12 PM
1

block and delete, he is not paying you for losing your time listening to him. the audacity they have🤯 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:04 AM
2

you did right, he could use your trauma in future for dismisse your opinions or manipulate you. For example if you dont want to do sth, he telling you that it is cause you are damaged and then your preferences are not valid. I encourage you to heal in peace and dont share your trauma or past with men, you dont owe any explanation to men. I learnt this the hard way in past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:10 PM
2

Shout "DONT TOUCH ME" or "STOP TOUCHING ME" or whatever equivalent in your country(i am not english native). Make an incredible scene and shout all at him, so rest of people shame him. They are abusers and predators, specially in young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:35 PM
1

AMEN☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:42 AM
3

get the money nd dump him the next day🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:58 PM
11

this never happen😂😂 at least not to me, i wast the most stupid pickemisha choosing men in the past🙄🤢😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:11 PM
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ignore them, if you have been ignoring him and you have bad luck like me, and you meet them in the street🤦🏻‍♀️😂 you answer short with a smile that you are so busy that you forgot totally and go your way. before i was more stupid and they manipulated me with guilty, but nowadays i dont have 2 second of my mental energy for use in thinking an answer for them, i dont answer and i dont think about it again😁🌞🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:09 PM
5

uggg, so impolite that man, block him please🤯😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:03 PM
10

the expression of your face has to be like smelling shit, and dont be shy about not answer, being rude or say clearly that they are bothering you. they use our politeness for force us to answer to them, from i was 11 to 12 was my first horrible year with this and i got very skilled in scare scrotes, no man that i dont know needs to talk to me in the street, happily i am 39 now and goes better, i am fit yet(that is a problem for this) but usually i go with some of my kids and i look super serious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:40 AM
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sounds like he thought that he could get a"better" girl so he didnt pay attention to her. After 3 months his alone ass crawled back to her and the girl was gone🤯so strange that happened🙄🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:29 AM
2

Girl, i would say, only if the other girl asks, then send a pair of screencaptures and just tell her that you are not interested in him anymore, no good man and you dont feel well lying to her, in that way she can decide by herself with the truth too. block that idiot, he is not your friend, he has been just using you, he wants you down so he can use you again. dont lie for him, dont text or talk with him again, block him and live your life, the world is full of men. ❤❤🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:22 AM
2

what happens with Sags? or it is only about Sag men? I am a Sag and i consider myself normal-decent person😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:05 AM
5

avoid them like plague and dont drink or eat anything that comes from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:47 PM
10

some friends of me were sharing a flat when we were in university, one night one exfriend came back from the bar with two guys she didnt know from before cause she liked one of them. the other two girls were sleeping in their rooms, at some point the other guy tried to rape one of my sleeping friends(she was deep slept cause drunk from another party that night) anyway she reached to make noise fighting back and the other sleeping girl(no drunk cause she had exam soon) apoeared and stoped him, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 12:07 PM
2

so great you didnt marry him, a horrible life would you had, so retarded that man, and i feel sorry about his parents too, they felt ashamed about his behaviour for sure too🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:44 PM
1

I have 3 kids and i would say the best is to wait from 3 to 6 months, you are in risk of infection, stroke, permanent damages or incontinence in future... anyway you sleep so little the first months that you are exhausted and the same for the man if he is helping correctly. any man who insist in sex too early or doesnt help properly is a negative value man that is better to dump soonest as possible🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:04 AM
3

this happened to me too and my selfesteem got damaged, great you run away too❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:20 PM
2

he could take a screencapture who shows that is you sending the nude. you must be carefull😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:18 PM
3

yes, a megan fox who never ask for anything, goes 50/50, has a good salary, cleans all the house and make food every day, and Do tHreEsOmEs and waTcHeS pOrn 😁😁 goodluckwinnerscrote🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:11 PM
2

What means "fat dont crack"? I am not english native ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:01 PM
2

they sound all great🥰☀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 09:32 AM
2

i am very happy for you❤ one ex i had, always made a tantrum the previous day i had an exam in university, nowadays i know this was not casuality, but i was very stupid then🤦🏻‍♀️😳😂 after i left his controlling, abusive, draining ass, my studies/career went like a rocket. i had never that problem with my husband who i consider HV🥰😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 09:28 AM
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i am at this point too, i am married and happy but i feel that regrets and anger about past relationships take too much of my mental energy. I think icould vet men well now or see all the red flags and dont stay if i see nosense, in case i would be dating. so maybe we are just in the last stage, and we realize all the stupid things we allowed, hope is just the end of the recovery.🙄🤦‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:53 AM
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dont send nudes, have you never heard about pornrevenge? i would stop to answer him back and think seriously about dump him. this is -50 in value 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:40 AM
2

they do it for having you as fwb and get the sex, not cause they are scared about reject you. They are men, they dont think like a woman, if i reject a man i am not thinking about use him for sex, i tell him idont want a relationship for avoid conflict or not damage him. Men use that sentence for not lose de sex, in 90% of the cases they come back trying a fwb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:02 PM
4

he knows how to comunicate, he just want to shut her down😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:30 PM
1

i think you should blick him and stay some time alone. take months or years for investing in your mental wellbeing. you sound vulnerable(great you realized) and that attracts predators. hope you find your own way❤🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:54 PM
2

I know that feeling sis❤ I found some years ago a birthdaycard a ex made for me, this ex gave me excuses for not marriage or kids, and we were fighting all the time about it, the card was a pic of hiis little nephew toddler that i didnt know so much, with some smurfs painted over, that was my birthday card 🤯🤣🤣🤣🤣 soon after i dumped his ass. after 10 years, now he is in crappyjob, with a forevergirlfriend, not living together, not kids, i am married with 3 kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:43 PM
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In addition, with "dumb fox response" we dont teach him how we discovered they are LV, and they dont get better in their tricks with the next girl. It ia a win-win 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:48 AM
2

i was that way too🤦🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:45 AM
6

you should not waste your time in answering, maximun "not interested, sorry" what an arrogant idiot dude🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:22 AM
6

And they forget that a pickme always will be a worse mother than a HVW, and she will not be able to take the best decissions for his own kids. A hard future is waiting for that family, not a great legacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:01 AM
1

🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:19 PM
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you were super clever, incredible he trys even shame you for asking a common sense question. dont lose a minute more of your time with him, not even answering back texts. ❤❤🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:12 PM
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ufff, he wanted to propose sth really sophisticate probably🤯🤣 he can try to get sex in first date for a price under the worth of the makeup/outfit the woman wears, maybe he is lucky trying in other placee🙄🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:04 PM
2

queen🥰🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:21 AM
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I see worse idea to lose 10 years with an idiot, and be left with nothing after. I agree is too short time but if she divorces, she has her rights and her kid(much more and only 1year wasted), she has not lose 10 fucking years providing free sex, emotional labour, cleaning, cooking for an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:39 AM
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is an abuser who was futurefaking so you provide the sex. your gutt knows it, cause of that you feel anxiety round him, is not love. his behaviour looks unstable cause he is not able to behave good/normal during a complete day🙄🤣🤣, the real him is horrible🤢. final clear thing i see: he has been lying you about everything, dont believe a word from him, who he fucked, how many, if they were virgins, if they were tested... its all lies🤮 you sound like a great lady, but young and naive, you must awak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:04 PM
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Nowadays i never comment anything about my past or traumas with any men, not sexual history, nothing. We dont owe any man a explanation, not the true, i learnt this many years ago. Not with my husband even, I consider him a HVM, he never asked specially about past or tried to digg, he doesnt care, he is busy with his own life❤ some previous boyfriend tried to digg, now i consider too many questions from a man, a red flag, they pretend to be empathic and listen for get information, nd later they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:40 AM
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Lady, remember that it was a facade, he looked like the perfect HVM cause he knew that he only needed to keep that behaviour for some weeks for hooking you. Then you feel you have lost sth valuable. The real thing is that you escaped a dangerous situation probably, that tactic is very common in abusers. Stay strong ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 10:37 PM
3

that new girl has dumped him before the quarentine ends🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's just a girl who is bored cause recent broke with her boyfriend. I think you dodget the bullet of your life🤯 Please dont take him back, you see how he thinks he can do better than you, these men are delusional, they dont have two brainceller together 🙄😳😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:13 PM
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my husband is suportive but my previous boyfriends criticized all my achievements, academic, artistic, appearance, even my friends or my hobbys🤦🏻‍♀️🤮 LV men jealousy... Men who are suportive are like fresh air🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:51 PM
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ugghh, happened to me too🤣🤣🤣 loser exboyfriend who dumped me when i was 19, he didnt know i was married expecting my third kid😂😂😂😂 and which husband and family i have! his brain just🤯 Seriously i felt super embarrassed about having sth with him in the past 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️i was so stupid😳🤣 (edit for explain, that it was round 17 years later in my case)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:27 AM
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Crappy body he has🤮🤮, Brad Pitt is older and has much better body, my husband is 44(i am 39) and has hundred times better body, with a flat belly🤦🏻‍♀️🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:37 AM
11

exactly, i dont know the husband of Bar, but Gisele husband is hooooot, hundred times more than Dicaprio😁😁😁☝🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:32 AM
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This is cause new girls know what happened with Gisele, Bar and Blakelyy, young girls only date him for a year now, just for getting famous, they know is not a hvm for a future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:31 AM
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maybe she was sleeping in the beginning and whe she decided she didnt like him she stopp, she didnt talk wiith him for months... sounds like the guy keep stalking her til she answered asking him to stop and telling him she has a boyfriend (months after).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:55 PM
5

you are being abused, you must run away and block him, your post has 1000 redflags🤯 you deserve a good life, lady ❤ and your dad and family deserve all the respect in the world🥰 RUN and BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:30 PM
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this is the first book about this tema i read and helped my a lot, many years ago. I think she was a "pioneer" so some things could need a update? About the dumb fox, i understand it like let the man be himself and observe him, why lose your energi with confrontations? if you dont like what you see just dump him. You dont owe explanations or even the truth to any man, this made me more clever about shut my mouth and listen carefully and observe how the man behaves. The same about the relationshi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:16 PM
1

that was a good invest 😂😂❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:31 PM
2

an abusive ex of me threatened to kill himself each time i tried to finish the realtionship. The last time he was at camping with another girl during his phone harassment to me. He pestered this girl during five years after i left, we similar threatens each time she tried to dump him, after this girl he got another super young and did the same. Probably rightnow is doing the same with his n-girlfriend. 15 years since i dumped him, and is a partyday for me every year, the aniversary of my runaway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:27 PM
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dont throw the white top, it was super cute and you looked great in it ☝🏻😍😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:14 PM
8

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:12 PM
3

i was 3 years single, cause i realized i never was alone since 16, and those long relationships didnt give me anything of value, drained me, made me eat unhealthly, one of them put me down... During those years i had to say no to a lot of men, was difficult to be alone the first year, cause i didnt know how to be without boyfriend. Later went very well, and nowadays i think those three years were much better than all my previous years with boyfriends. i was so happy alone that my actual husband …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:14 PM
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Follow these standards would have saved me from draining exes, you are in the best path ❤❤ Disgusting men, i tell two sentences to this underage girl, and sure i get sex 🤯🤦‍♀️😂😂😂😂😂he was optimistic at best🤮🤣🤣🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:35 PM
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Sounds like in the beginning when he was behaving very well with you, that was lovebombing for hook you, not his real self. AND SURE HE WAS SHOWING OFF FOR BOTHERING HIS PREVIOUS GIRLFRIEND.🤢😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:12 PM
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sounds like an idiot who has been wasting years of womens life just for use them as temporal free sex/emotional labour/ego. he thinks he has you already hooked and "you will fight for his love" or "you will prove that you are better than the other girls" you have to RUN, he sounds abuser. think if a man says that to your best friend, what you would advise her... the audacity of some idiots is incredible, dont believe a word he tells you, i am sure he lied to the previous girls too, you can do mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:54 PM
6

you were right, 3 friends of me shared a flat when we were in uni and one of them was stupud pickme, one night this came back with a boy and a friend of him from the bar, like 2 am, one of the other girls was sleeping and the friend tried to rape her(she was deep sleep cause half drunk from another party before) she avoided it cause the third girl awaked with noise(this had exams and was not drunk) they called the police even, he giving excuses and the pickemisha exfriend of us asking if she was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:50 PM
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she was putting you in danger of rape murder, never share a flat with women so stupid for doing these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:09 AM
11

He has 2 cell brains, dont feel embarrassed that you dated him, all we have done stupid things in past. Now you know better so you do better. Block that unpolite man. He didnt got your attention yet and he is trying to put you down already. I think is impossible your next man is worse than this shit, seriously, i am laughing, hei unimportant stupid girl, i dont remember about you, i just write you just for let you know i dont remember abut you.🤮🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:49 AM
4

disgusting as his hairline🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:30 AM
1

i think he was lying about his degrees and probably some things more. Lady, keep him blocked, he sounds creepy, specially the part asking if you live alone🤢 ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:21 PM
1

block him in every part, he could try to get you back. You are success and with your shit together, only date men with your level or more ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:28 PM
4

you were a kid, you must not feel guilty or shame. Nasty pedos know how to manipulate, corner and threaten, probably he usually does it. You could ask in police station or social services about it, maybe they will be happy about having him in their list of possible offenders, even if you can not take legal action cause a long time is gone. Police have teams working in pedo offenders and searching the web for these criminals continuosly. If you are over 18 now, your family doesnt need to know any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 12:35 AM
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this happened to me and i dumped him when i was 29, after 3 years, nowadays is 10 years later and i am married with 3 kids, i could not be more happy about running away from that "nice" mediocre man who used all kind of excuses for string me along, after me telling from 1 day that i wanted a family. My husband (who is much better in ALL the areas) proposed in 10 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:09 AM
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that bragging about massage is creepy and zero original, you are right lady, was your instinct telling you: RUN who knows what those exes would have been telling if asked 🤮😂😂😂 sure some idiot in the world is telling right now that his ex(me) loved his massages 1🙄🤢🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:43 PM
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ufff, what a selfish idiot, block, delete and dont use a minute more of your mental energy in thinking about him. The rest of your live is in front of you 🥰❤ this was me years ago, happy i blocked, i am happy married with three kids now, doing super well after the sucking energy vampire was left behind, super similar his behaviour, must be some kind of condition they have 🤦‍♀️😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:34 PM
1

she should not wear a diu being so young and without having been pregnant before. Anyway, she should kick his ass, why is having sex with an idiot that doesnt care about her and gives her rude answers, makes her pain, and probably enjoy with it🤮🤮 what a piece of shit that boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:26 PM
2

If he is HVM he would not be with a woman that is not the best for him, cause he knows he is losing his time. So if he was LV with you is not cause you were not "The one", it is cause he is a LVM, he will be LV with the next ones too, even if it looks HV from out of the relationship, i would feel sorry for the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:37 PM
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To have or not to have a university degree doesnt make a man LV or HV. Maybe he makes a career in a field where it is not necessary, like Chef or Athlete... He must have a career, a goal that he likes, and he is working hard in it and being successfull, that is HV in professional area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:33 PM
3

smart, your mother💅🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:27 AM
2

When i was 20, my second boyfriend bullied me about the fact that i had sex with a previous bf. My count was 1 plus him and i was already a whore🤮🤮🤮😂😂😂 i should have dumped him directly and save myself years of mistreating in other areas, that was the first red flag. Never a man asked again, even my husband has not questioned about it, but i would have not answer and dumped the man, preventing future disrespect, what kind of question is that!! i learnt that lesson well. I have a very low number …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:26 AM
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i think he is trying to talk with his exwife and convince her to come back together during the calls. Its crystal clear for me. My kid who is 5, talks with me maximun 10 mins in phone, and the 2 years, like 5 mins. And i am the Mammiii... soo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:51 PM
2

Can somebody tag this young lady here? That man sounds abusive, she should dump him soon as possible🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:21 PM
1

count this like sexual abuse from a stronger male who cornered you and coerced you in it. block him and if you see that trash in street again by casuality, refuse to talk to him and say you just dont like him or have a boyfriend. abuse is the only way a lot of unsuccessfull male can get sex, dont believe a word he told you about he getting other girls, he tries the abuse or worse with all. what a piece of trash🤮🤯that man... you sound young, you must learn to protect yourself, you could get kille…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:14 PM
2

Most part of them hit the wall when they are 5 years old, its the last time some woman approach them😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:57 PM
2

Lady, you have done my day with this story🤯😂😂😂😂😂 I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:11 AM
2

i dont think you are fair with this, there is a lot of countries where the scholar system is more adapted to girls features. I think girls are like 2 years more mature when they are kids and they focus better. I have 3 little boys, they are clever but they are very physical at the same time, so ot is more difficult that they sit for hours and paint or read, they are less patient, and that is a good natural thing in a man. We are lucky that in this country the schools respect a lot the kids and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:07 AM
2

he was expecting to use you til he finds sth that fits better with his family??🤮😮🤯😂😂😂what an idiot, he sounds brain retarded, seriously😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:57 PM
2

he had a car accident in 2012, give him nudes so he can trust you 🤯😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:38 PM
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Thanks for sharing❤ You sound so full of common sense and strenght. Never is late for having the life you really want🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:13 PM
2

That was my experience 99% too. But i have hopes for you, when i finally dumped him i was 4 years alone. In the begining was very difficult for me to be alone, since i was 16 i went from relationship til relationship. I recovered and later met my husband that is a great man. Be happy that you escaped and just begin to work in yourself. I had previous damaged selfesteem(which allowed abusive men go in my life) and after last ex i had 0 selfesteem left. I feel very proud about myself, recovering f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:32 PM
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it is so great when the garbage takes itself out 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:36 PM
3

It is a pandemia and a pair of exes and some prospects (even not exes) have reached out lately. WTF!!! they use the pandemi for trying to re-fish women??? I have been married for years and i have 3 kids!! Some of them probably dont know, but anyway... it is a crazy thing. How you avoid it affects you self-steem? i mean, for a second i think they must believe they have a 1% of possiblities with me🤮🤮 I have not answered anything(10 years ago i would have been even happy in my pickemishadays😂😂) Now…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:22 PM
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lady, i had one like that and lost 5 years in him, great you saved 3 years, they never change. Weed, gambling and gaming mut be the new "Dark Triad"🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:37 PM
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Girl, you are lucky about realizing how he really is. Sounds abusive to me, he guilty your pets or other stupid reasons? you really dont know why the other girl dumped him, maybe he treated her crapily too. i think you should never answer and block him, he sounds awfull. Keep your mind in peace and enjoy your life without idiots. ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:36 AM
2

that atractive cat😍 in the back deserves all your love😂, dont lose a minute more with the idiot forever boyfriend you have 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:15 PM
2

I realize now that when a man showed me attention in the begining, that was like a hook for me, so maybe its true the dopamine is there. First bf i didnt think he was atractive even before he tried, and later the positions changed and he behaved bad and me like "the definitive pickemeisha"😑😑🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:29 PM
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Sounds pathetic, even as a friend, if you dont allow your friends to put you down why you allow him. Dump him, one ex of me was that way too, it will damage your self-esteem if you keep the relationship. Nobody cares about his opinion about your tastes, is just an idiot. You can do muuuuuuch better.❤😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:55 AM
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thank so much for link, sis ❤❤ i feel like they attack our self-steem with all that shit, it helps me to understand what happened to me in past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:40 AM
2

Great you escape that garbage🤮😑😂❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:26 PM
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you should not have contact if it is not about work, think that you dont treat that way even a random person. what kind of idiot has to degrade the hobby of a person that it is supossed he "apreciate". pathetic put downs for try to be over you.🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:18 PM
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you should complain formally and he loses his jobb, for harassing clients. Its incredible, he gets paid for bothering the clients🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:54 PM
2

dated you my exboyfriend?😂😂🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 11:24 PM
2

Lady, even i am writing you and i dont know you, that ass cant answer an ok, even! he has manipulated you, only met twice and you wasting your mental energi on him. Not worth of the effort😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:56 PM
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" I may not be a model, but I'm still a human being" what is this??? I am sure you are more than beautiful❤❤ and those kind of idiots try that with all the women, hoping they fish sth, is not cause you werent gisele bundchen. you handle it like a queen, welldone reporting his ass, the only thing is maybe you should have done it after the "head to your house after" he can not wait for ask for sex even?? not very clever the dude😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:43 AM
4

wtf! she is just honest! if he is a cheap old man, why she should lie?😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:01 PM
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hope you sparked that ass, sis 🤮🙈😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:10 AM
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probably he was pressuring the exwife for doing poly and it exploded in his face😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:37 AM
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Serous sick and depressed dad when i was kid, so i felt abandoned, mum had to work all the time. Abusive first boyfriend. I am ok with my dad now, but yet working in my self-esteem and pickemishas tendencies🙈😂 My grandad saved me from worse damages. Married, with three kids, so i want to be 100% mental comfortable with myself for raising them best as possible too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:21 AM
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that is the hook they use, if not they couldnt get a girl, it was not the real him 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:59 PM
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I dont understand why this happen and how is so common. My ex left me when i refused be degraded to fwb, i was 20, after 2 years of a pathetic relationship when he compared me with other girls, famous girls... some years later he tried meet up and i refused, i was married expecting second kid, he was very upset and surpraised lol, i have three kids and my husband does 4 times more money than him, and has hair. My ex is bald, single and with crappy job, i always answered polite and friendly cause…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:54 PM
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if he keeps harassing you maybe you should take legal action, sounds totallly creep-mentalsick man 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:12 AM
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Thanks for sharing❤🤓taking notes right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:52 AM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:16 AM
2

Lady, is all red flags, exhausting, sounds horrible, futurefaking, you need to block him, and begin to pamper and work in yourself. Read all the information here, in the index, i am doing it myself now, this subreddit is helping me a lot with past abuse. We see it super clear, cause is about a third person, but for me is 1000 red flags, if you are doubting yourself, you have to work about it, maybe trauma bonding or being very young. You are worth of the best always ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:13 AM
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and realize that your ex was presenting himself as "a super good person" too, showing "desinterested" concern for the kitten, not only trianguling you. Hell manipulative, lol those idiots 😂 ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:11 AM
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maybe you were victim of his manipulation, stringing you along..., dont be hard in yourself sis❤ i should advice begin to study the glossary here in fds, it is what i am doing myself right now😂😂 i am married now and happy, but i feel stupid from time to time about things in a past relationship, so i am trying to levelup, i think it will help us in all the areas, and in marriage too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:05 AM
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hope that cat got sth from it at least 😂😂 lol that idiot, great you are out of that mess🤮😂🐱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:38 PM
2

Le pones cualquier excusa y te vas. No tienes porque gastar tu tiempo en hablar con cualquier hombre que se te acerque(y menos si fue descortés contigo anteriormente). Si tienes que entretener a cq hombre random sin estar interesada, pierdes mucho de tu tiempo. Los hombres están acostumbrados a que les rechacen la conversación con algun pretexto, ninguno se trauma por eso. Si te insulta por no hacerle caso da igual, cq ve que es pq no le has hecho caso. Es mas valioso tu tiempo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:30 AM
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Lady, i agree 100% with you, impossible better explained. I am happily married now but i feel stupid yet for things i alloweed in other relationship 15 years ago. Much better used that time in improving your life or your appearance, those two hours you wasted in cooking and getting dress for that undeserving guy... could have been 2 hours in the gym making your ass look perfect (more possibilities of attract a better man)or whatever... Ladies!!! use your time and resources wisely. And women with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:04 PM
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