He E-Mailed me via school account, legit had a panic attack but what I'm scared of the most is my friends buying it (asking for advise)

MissCandid · 2021-03-27T02:16:07+00:00

I would see this as a boy who knows no boundaries, and who absolutely should be avoided. I would talk to the administration at this point, or a school counselor, or an SRO. They should help you.

AyemHerself · 2021-03-27T02:26:40+00:00

If he really cared about you, he would've respected your wishes after being blocked everywhere else. You're having panic attacks over this man, his feelings are irrelevant.

You can't control what your friends think, but you can put up boundaries. No more talking about your ex with them, and reconsider any friendships with people who side with him.

somegenerichandle · 2021-03-27T02:52:56+00:00

Some even found the insistence AFTER ALL THE BLOCKING evidence that he really does care.

Yeah, i'd take it as evidence he doesn't care or want to respect your boundaries.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-03-27T02:48:58+00:00

If someone hasn't experienced it they wont get it. Full stop. Its not that they dont care about you. Its just one of those things, unless you have been through an abusive, head fuck, emotional, psychological trauma relationship. You will not understand it. You will only alienate them by trying to explain it. chances are you will know at least someone who gets it. I would only confide in friends that have been through something similar

_queeeen_ · 2021-03-27T07:35:02+00:00

If you can’t block him there, just archive the emails unread. He doesn’t get access to your emotional life anymore.

The_Pyramidion · 2021-03-27T07:54:08+00:00

If you are using Thunderbird, you can create custom filters that automatically redirect these into trash. I think it should be possible with most mail clients. Don't even bother with him, he's lonely and bored bc of the pandemic and thought he could weasel his way back in. Don't listen to the fresh pickme shit from your friends.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-03-27T10:03:14+00:00

I would tell myself that he's just a wolf in sheep clothing. Why was he not as nice all the times he made you cry and treated you badly?

If he cared he would feel so disgusted and ashamed about how he treated you that he wouldn't dare circumvent all the ways you've blocked him lest he makes you uncomfortable.

Ask with your school to explain this is a special case and that you want him blocked. If you really don't want to talk to him, maybe the school can send him an email saying that the user blocked you, and that further attempt to communicate would be reported to the police for harassment? I think this is worth suggesting to the school.

Rely on the friend who was suspicious for advice about him, because obviously your other friends live in fantasy land.

flowerpower102938 · 2021-03-27T19:08:06+00:00

This guy sounds obsessive. Please be careful. And DON'T REPLY!

thecrazywitch31 · 2021-03-28T13:04:48+00:00

I would still say, nah, don't get back with this guy. Even Pre-FDS. Relationship that causes you so much pain in not worth it.

meanemad · 2021-03-29T11:59:52+00:00

you can do much better girl, he doesnt respect you a 1%, bothering you again. They always do this for his ego/dick/appearance in social circles... Redirect those mails to trash without reading, so it doesnt desestabilize you. Dont delete the mails cause it could escalate to harassment, and you could need proofs in future. Dont discuss your life with your friends, they sound naive/pickme. Only that only friend sounds more reliable. No man has your best interest in mind. You sound clever, but young, begin to put yourself first always, that man doesnt deserve even your courtesy, people who did you wrong in the past dont deserve even your good manners. Dont explain yourself to nobody, not even your friends, smile and ignore or play dumb. Read about dumb fox, it will save you a lot of effort. If he continues, warn to you school once, if they do nothing go directly to police.❤❤❤❤

Title	He E-Mailed me via school account, legit had a panic attack but what I'm scared of the most is my friends buying it (asking for advise)
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Date	March 27, 2021 2:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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