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DISCUSSIONmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:11 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨melonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:08 PM
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NAH, SISmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:27 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:33 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:53 AM
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#JustLVMThingsmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:35 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:23 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:46 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨melonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:28 PM
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LIES MEN TELLmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:48 PM
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NAH, SISmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:48 AM
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DISCUSSIONmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:08 AM
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DISCUSSIONmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:25 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:31 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:41 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:30 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:05 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:59 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:41 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:39 AM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:36 PM
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NAH, SISmelonmagellan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:32 PM
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I give it a month before she's crying herself to sleep.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 04:45 PM
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Don't worry, the oldest is already totally parentified.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 04:44 PM
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She looks like she has six kids and six teeth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 04:42 PM
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They banned me months ago and still won't tell me why. I have to assume it's because I'm going to marriage counseling instead of getting a divorce. Ironically, I participate here because of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 01:41 AM
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Damn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 04:48 PM
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God. Your vag honestly isn't even totally healed at that point and you want strange dick in it. A lot of women have postpartum symptoms for up to a year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 05:00 AM
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I don't think it should be normalized for either party to gain freaking 50lbs+ in a relationship. If I became obese, I'd 100% expect my husband to be grossed out by it. Not that most women would accept being told that without having a fucking heart attack. It is my opinion that, generally, gaining 10% body weight from when you married is the acceptable margin barring major illness. You would have to be very, very underweight or tall to gain 60lbs and not become an amorphous, hideous blob. This i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 04:53 AM
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"The View from Nowhere" is an interesting concept. I hadn't heard that and looked it up. So thanks for that :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 05:59 AM
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Also, what the fuck is an ambivert?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 07:15 PM
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What I don't understand is why these women are SO proud of their downward spiral and inability to take action to help themselves. Also, your comment got a snicker out of me and I'm having a crappy week. So thanks fo that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 07:13 PM
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Yes. I also only like to befriend black men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 02:49 PM
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I generally agree with you. Sex acts have to meet certain criteria to constitute rape or SA. "My boyfriend found out I was cheating" certainly doesn't. You're also correct in saying I don't ever bring it up. I have no interest in putting my trauma on full display.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 07:40 PM
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To be fair, I didn't report my rape because I didn't want to go through the secondary trauma. I was also too young to have any clue how court proceedings would go.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 07:10 PM
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It has to be a fetish thing. She is making herself look as blobbish as humanly possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 07:04 PM
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She's on the verge of needing a reaching claw to pick up things she drops on the ground.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 07:03 PM
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She looks like those pictures were taken at gunpoint.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 07:01 PM
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As if they won't just end up in prison.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 05:41 PM
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When I was dating, I intentionally posted unflattering pictures of myself. That way when I showed up for the date they'd be pleasantly surprised. Under promise and over deliver.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 07:09 PM
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I was forced to listen to some woman my friend met on Tinder ramble like an idiot for 20-mins about how it "doesn't really matter who the biological father is" because "he still will get to be a dad." Like it's a gift she's giving him 🙄 What prompted this ramble? A situational joke I made about pregnant woman dating (which I frankly find repulsive). Who knows, maybe SHE was pregnant. I wanted to tell her he bangs 10 girls a month off of various dating apps and would never call her back after sle…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 07:06 PM
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I just got banned from a sub I don't even post to for being a member here. Specifically, being a member of a "hate sub." Idk when people got too stupid to tell the difference between mockery and hate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 06:54 PM
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I wonder who wrote this garbage all over her. It clearly wasn't her boyfriend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 04:37 AM
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I honestly wouldn't even sit next to her at the DMV. I'm sure she has scabies or some other disgusting ailment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 04:57 AM
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You forgot completely toothless and doesn't own dentures apparently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 03:13 AM
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I'm in my mid-30s and this woman looks 20-years older than I do. There is no way she's a day under 60. The picture in the hoodie is frightening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 03:12 AM
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You're forgetting the fact that 27 is 57 in stripper years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 03:50 PM
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They're the norm now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/21 08:05 PM
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They calculate child support on your pre-tax income here (which is also total bullshit for like five different reasons).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 07:54 PM
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I worked with a guy who was exactly the same. He had a decent job but loved to knock up crazy alcoholic women and abandon them. He probably has five kids at this point. All with women who all closely resemble late-stage Amy Winehouse. He's 50 and has kids that are toddlers! However, the jokes on mom(s) because he owes the IRS so many back taxes they already take 50%. I think he has truly accepted that he will only take home half of his income for the rest of his life. Thus he doesn't give a fuck…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 06:15 PM
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By "trash" I mean she generally sucks across the board. In all catagories.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:42 PM
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You're more mature than I am. I've paid more money in legal fees than we'll ever see from her. And I really don't care. It's the principal of the thing. If I could have her thrown in jail I would. Child support fraud is stealing from myself, my husband, and her own child! That money was enough for like 1-2 years at a state college. Literally none of it was spent on the child. Verifiably. And family court let it happen for like two-years. Unacceptable. If my husband didn't pay he would have went …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:01 PM
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We are suing my husband's trashbag ex for approximately $15k of child support fraud. The Department of Economic Security already gave us a partial "refund." I would pursue it. They can garnish her wages for next 20-years if that's what it takes. And she can be the one to go to jail if she doesn't keep up on back support payments. She must be malicious as well as a complete moron to not understand you need income to live so you can keep a job to pay her. Family Court in America is sickening in 20…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 04:53 PM
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Oh, I know. I'm just saying if these women plan to rip off a guy with ten kids for child support... Not going to happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 02:15 PM
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"And more" refers to her status as a big beautiful women, obviously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 01:40 PM
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All I had to read was "asserting my worth" to know she's trash. If you have actual worth you don't need to assert it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 01:39 PM
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They can only garnish so much of your wages. In my state it's 50% or something. And child support is first come first serve. So, if these women have some loser's 6th kid they will get absolutely nothing out of him. Dumb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 01:35 PM
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This could easily backfire if they just give up and commit actual suicide.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 01:33 PM
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It always disturbs me how close these random dicks are to a literal fetus during their Tinder hookups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 01:37 AM
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Idk, tell it to the mods. What would you like me to do? Stop posting?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:06 AM
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What is your intent?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 09:01 PM
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Np. This realization was a game changer for me with recognizing red flags in new friendships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 05:21 AM
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You're right I shouldn't insult Riddick that way. He did all right despite getting chucked in a dumpster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 05:19 AM
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I think you mean liquor store dumpster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 05:07 AM
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Definitely worse for men. You can't even abort it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 04:43 AM
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Fair. I think the worst thing in the world, potentially more so than dropping dead, is having a kid with a loser. The pulling out may be overboard, lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 04:18 AM
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She probably avoided service enough times to deserve the embarrassment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:24 AM
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Nowadays men need to protect their wallets more than anything else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:23 AM
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Yeah, I contacted the mods before I even started commenting on this sub to see if it's cool. They said it's totally fine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:16 AM
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I contacted the mods and asked if I should even post as a woman. They said to go for it. I also comply with the rules. I've also never received any inappropriate or "white knighting" type comments from the users here. Frankly, I've dealt with thirstier men on cute animal subs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:13 AM
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Education = DCS parenting class to get your kid back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:12 AM
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I work and have no kids but am the oldest of five with my younger sister being 13-years younger than me. I used to care for her at age 15. She was a toddler. I have no earthly clue how you can be a SAHM with one kid and even fill your day. Facebook doesn't count. And with a dirty house on top of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:11 AM
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If I were a single man in 2021 I would get a vasectomy, wear a condom, and pull out. Maybe give a fake name.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:10 AM
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It's called "leading with trauma" and typically people with unresolved psych issues try to use trauma to form relationships. Rather than healthy things like shared interests.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:07 AM
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The problem is it's always a story we've already heard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:06 AM
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I'd also like to know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:06 AM
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Calling yourself a single mother, from a social perspective, means you raise your child 100% of the time with no help. It also greatly implies you don't receive child support. Being divorced doesn't make you a "single mother."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:20 AM
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I mean... I don't see what's wrong with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:20 AM
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You're onto something. They definitely want the pity and an excuse to avoid accountability and/or responsibility. "I can't work because of my trauma."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:09 AM
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Yeah, exactly. I hope at least some of them have the decency to feel bad about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:05 AM
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That or the thought of watching this cow give birth to yet another kid he didn't want made him run for his life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:02 AM
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To make themselves seem more interesting because they have no legitimate interests to talk about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 10:54 PM
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Because she is a gOod cHRistIAn wOmAn 🙄
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 10:45 PM
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AKA "my baby trap didn't keep my husband around and stop him from divorcing me. I'm still married because I refuse to sign the papers before I have a new guy to drain dry." This was my husband's ex-wife. She was so desparate to stay married she refused to sign the papers. The court ultimately granted a default judgement. Sad. We have been married and together for FIVE years and she still posts shit online about being married to him. It's seriously unhinged. And no, she never even had one date or…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 10:40 PM
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I like how she thinks posting lingerie selfies is a positive attribute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 07:23 PM
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My rule is that I don't allow myself to weigh more than 15-25lbs from when my husband met me. I expect the same from him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 07:22 PM
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Still that I way in AZ. It's disgusting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 08:07 PM
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I normally would agree with you but the sad, desperate tone of this post leads me to bel she was upgraded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 04:14 AM
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The fact that she's dripping in desperation probably doesn't help either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 08:20 PM
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She means sleeping with a man who will actually hug her and not just go for 5-minutes of doggy style and then leave.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 08:08 PM
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I've never had an ex from a LTR that I still wanted to fuck. Kind of pathetic if they are the ones who left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 08:04 PM
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This is one of the very rare instances where I feel bad for one of these women. Her body is going to end up being found in a dumpster if she doesn't get a grip. The whole tone of this is pathetic rather than overly entitled. I'm sure her husband dumped her off like a bag of trash for a woman that actually takes care of herself. I'm going to go out a limb and say she sounds overweight/unattractive as well. She doesn't specify but this also has single mother written all over it. Imagine having suc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 07:58 PM
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The love bombing happens after the abuse to make her stay. Rinse and repeat until he gets sick of her and/or finds someone else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 09:22 AM
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That's a good point. I just assumed, with all the demands she is screeching, that she would feel that's far too old for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 01:16 PM
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I'm a woman in my 30s and seeing pregnant women on dating apps blows my mind. Maybe I'm too old to get it but I honestly find it revolting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:34 AM
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Someone should call CPS (cat protective services), lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:13 AM
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Honestly, she should be dating men in their late 50s or early 60s. Men in their 40s tend to date younger women. I'm almost 10-years younger than my husband. He also looks great for his age and has a good job. We don't have kids and don't want kids but I'm still of childbearing age, if we change our minds, which she has clearly passed. His primary attraction to me has never been my job which seems to be her #1 selling point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:12 AM
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It's called presumption of paternity and it's absolutely bullshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:07 AM
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Seriously. Why the fuck would I carry a baby, which will irrevocably change my body and life, for some bum?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 12:07 AM
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Why do they all supposedly like mudding?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 12:02 AM
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I'm a woman and I don't get why you'd want to do that to your body. She must be physically a mess. Your vag is NOT the same after having seven kids. I wonder if she collects $150k a year in child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 12:01 AM
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Understood. Also, I edited it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 06:05 PM
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Christian = recovering (or not) alcoholic and AA frequent flyer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 05:33 PM
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From the perspective of a 30-something, CF, married woman... Being a stepmother was literally the most thankless, hellish job of my life. I'm glad I escaped with my sanity. The ex-wife is likely fatter, older, less successful, and less attractive than you. She will hate you for this and make every effort to turn her unwanted brat(s) against you. I'm CF and for some reason she felt she was depriving me with a bond with her precious daughter by slandering me🙄 It will be very difficult for her to u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 04:53 PM
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If you have joint custody you're not a fucking single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 03:51 PM
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She was born with baby weight then. I sincerely doubt Chad would even stand next to her when she was in her prime.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 03:49 PM
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Translation: "Any type of way" means expecting to be an authority figure vs just an ATM. I'm sure disciplining her out of control brats is "abuse" to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 03:49 PM
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That was in my mom's top 10 greatest hits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 03:47 PM
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It annoys me. As an actually curvy woman I now only have the option of saying I'm thin or obese. Neither are true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 03:36 PM
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An "idol" is a strong ask.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 06:03 AM
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She probably doesn't want to be honest and disclosure her decision because that would prevent paternity fraud.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 11:43 PM
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I personally chose cats over kids because I don't think I'd be a great mother nor do I like kids. I don't know how women pretend they get pregnant accidentally (often multiple times!). You can literally triple up BC methods. That said, I no interest in baby trapping a man and my husband could care less either way about having a kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 11:41 PM
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She'll probably end up raising an identical man to the men who won't commit to her. That or a male feminist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 11:39 PM
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Hopefully she lives in a meth town in Appalachia with a population of 25... Otherwise I don't see how a human man would touch her. Also, who knocked her up?!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 01:00 PM
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Female Dating Strategy sub. Pretty much a subreddit dedicated to female superiority to the extreme. There is also a large focus on how all men are trash. Especially those who won't date a single mother or a larger woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 06:37 PM
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I think that's pretty bang on. The only way to overcome that face would be with a glowing personality... Which she obviously does not have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 05:58 PM
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I don't even know what the fuck "medium ugly" means.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 05:13 PM
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This woman is literally following the FDS bible and I don't think it's going to net the result she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 05:12 PM
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How to admit you date guys that don't wipe their ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 08:57 PM
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I'm a woman and squarely on the side of Family Court and DCS reform. The current system is robbing men blind and failing children across the country (RIP Gabriel Fernandez).
/r/MensRights27/08/21 02:15 AM
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Naturally. The entire Family Court system is a fucking mess. As is DCS.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 12:43 AM
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It's a policy from a time where women were entirely dependent on men... Which is horribly outdated.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 04:42 PM
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Also will throw a tantrum like a child if not given what she wants immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 08:14 PM
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Don't disrespect taxidermy in that manner sir!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 07:50 AM
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Easily 45-50.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 01:26 AM
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I won't say it wasn't very hard on our relationship. We are definitely headed for marriage counseling. My disgust for the child's mother and the state far overwhelm my issues with him though.
/r/MensRights23/08/21 08:49 AM
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Watching my husband go through family court, after knocking up a one night stand years ago who refused to get an abortion, was really all that I needed to see. Everything mom said was "credible" even though she lost custody of her child multiple times to the state. And everything we said was apparently irrelevant. She also is a drug addict and has many, many mental health issues which apparently didn't matter at all to the state. They awarded her $400 a month for child care that she wasn't using…
/r/MensRights23/08/21 08:36 AM
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I don't think it's an excuse at all. And I don't agree with it. Which is why I actually read this sub.
/r/MensRights23/08/21 06:50 AM
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I'm a woman. And my experience, a lot of that is just bitterness about being single or having been treated badly by one man. It's literally their own selection process that caused the issue.
/r/MensRights23/08/21 05:06 AM
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I'm a woman and they were pretty mean to me. I'm not sure what their goal even is.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 04:19 AM
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Dude is cute. I'm sure she's not even approaching acceptable looking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 11:22 PM
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The assumption she waxes is wildly optimistic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 03:33 PM
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Implying she got into an actual university.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 03:31 PM
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I doubt she remembers all of their names.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 06:41 PM
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My husband's ex-wife just refused to work. His options were to put her out on the street and see his kid once a week or tolerate it. It is often a unilateral decision. My dad's pretty trash but I was just making a point.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 06:10 AM
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As a woman in my mid-30s, who has been a working professional for a decade, I can safely say no one has used the phrase "career woman" since 1985. Additionally, the minor tasks you mentioned (all of which I did while actually working), do NOT take 8-hours a day. Scheduling appointments? Give me a break. As a mom of school-aged children, if you don't let your home get filthy, you have ample free time. I have had three SAHM stepmothers that validate this fact. Sorry, it's not the "hardest job in t…
/r/MensRights16/08/21 10:01 PM
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That's a very generous view. I assume you're a SAHM.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 02:44 PM
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You do realize that she had 8 free hours a day the entire time the kids were in school, right?
/r/MensRights16/08/21 09:13 AM
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I'm just a woman who doesn't like condoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:28 PM
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Quick to Anger - Bad in bed Lack of Hygiene or Basic Housekeeping Skills - Bad in bed Cruel or Dismissive Toward Animals - Bad in Bed Watches Porn on a Recurring Basis - Bad in bed Vain or a Braggart - Bad in bed Rants About Feminists - Bad in bed Wants a Dom/Sub Relationship Dynamic - Bad in bed Dates with a Huge Age Gap - Bad in bed Brags About His "Body Count" - Bad in bed Resents Sex Toys and/or Masturbation - Horrible in bed Talks About How Bad in Bed His Ex Was - Horrible in bed!!! Run whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:54 PM
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It's so absurd that I don't know how he has the audacity to not feel he's a piece of trash. Oh wait, I do know. Classic LVM but rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:57 AM
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I think the only way to get a win in this situation is to go public first. Far before he can get his ducks in a row.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:12 AM
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I'm not mad at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:12 AM
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Yep, in progress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:16 PM
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In college I legitimately had an LVM on a group project throw a giant tantrum and refuse to present with the group, which caused him to earn a score of zero, because I did every single slide and didn't ask for his approval before submission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:57 PM
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I don't know how he's managed to record so many songs that are literally identical and continue to get accolades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:46 PM
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That looks like it tastes like hand soap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:37 PM
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Oh, totally. My husband is not cheap but extremely abusive. I have to do a mental rundown of all the things he's done for me recently to even understand and justify why I'm in the relationship. He's also good looking and has a good job. So I tell myself frequently that he must be a good guy. Also completely untrue. It's extremely delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:36 PM
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Time to leave and collect child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:32 PM
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Probably not. She is pretty, idk, assertive leaning toward aggressive. Johnny Depp appears to be legitimately afraid of her. She's also far more wealthy than Grimes which gives her more leverage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:29 PM
52

My douchebag husband is so unpleasant that when he's home I have the libido of a rock. When he's on business trips I masturbate like twice a day. My example is extremely obvious but there are a lot of factors to play into libido. Any form of emotional detachment or distress also kills my libido as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:17 PM
2

I find looking at them once and rolling my eyes, then looking away, to be highly effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:35 PM
1

Abuse has nothing to do with emotions. It demonstrates a flawed value system, and lack of respect, which is infinitely harder to correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:35 PM
12

Because I value agency and autonomy which is the primary reason for my divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:26 PM
12

My STBX, who is and was highly abusive, called my need for basic information "clingy." Yeah, I'm clingy because I want to know where you've been with my car for four-hours 🙄🤡🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:25 PM
40

Seriously. I'd rather watch a documentary about the history of toothpicks while masturbating (and I really don't want to watch a documentary about the history of toothpicks at all. Ever.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:22 PM
185

The police took my abuser's side after I pepper sprayed him and accused me of assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:10 AM
8

Why even have a mattress when you can make a nest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:53 AM
5

My mother would faint. It was absolutely required for us to change our sheets every Sunday growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:53 AM
31

Whoever did her lip filler did her dirty. I cannot wait for that trend to die. Her point is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:48 AM
3

My STBX makes this argument about porn. It boils my fucking blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:53 AM
1

It's a very sinister looking pic as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:19 PM
13

Thanks ♥️ As stupid as it is, and as abusive as my husband is, it's still hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:14 AM
2

I think it's a wonderful solution... Without the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:49 PM
3

Hair loss and bad teeth... I can't tolerate looking at either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:48 PM
4

The most annoying part is that men are so dusty they have no idea how much it costs to actually take care of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:47 PM
2

Seriously. Men can't even wear fucking deodorant half the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:45 PM
5

I mean, most people like walks. They just aren't dates. Idk why this is so confusing to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:40 PM
8

And we all know hoes don't act right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:38 PM
51

Realizing I need a divorce and starting my job search.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:33 PM
3

Thanks dude ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:43 AM
12

We are currently having bad moment. I'm super sick and he doesn't give a shit. I spent the whole night in, feverish and sweating horribly, while he was getting drunk. He then has the nerve to call me a lazy, stupid bitch for taking a nap. I feel beaten down and exhausted. But, I'm following through this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:27 AM
45

Let's not forget how awesome he sounds when he's Mansplaining to kids. This is a guy that only gets invited parties out of social obligation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:55 PM
4

I mean... Read the handbook? We are not pro-porn here. One of our biggest goals is to end sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:05 PM
6

Or just treat him like you're his mommy too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:34 PM
7

If have velvet gloves I'd wear them 100% of the time with my bad bitch vibe... #prettyasswitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:31 PM
6

Please explain this velvet ball touching and with gloves, why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:00 PM
16

I can't do anything but agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:49 PM
29

I'm sure some pedo pervert would say "If she looks like a grown woman than she is one. She can make her own choices."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:47 PM
6

That one might be true because most pornsick, inexperienced men have no idea what real sex is like, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:44 PM
37

I looked 15 until I was 22-23. I told my partner at that time that it made feel so creeped out that men hit on me constantly thinking I was young. Edit: One 30-year old asked me where I went to high school. Literally. I was 24.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:37 PM
40

Dolphins are the "Chads" of LVM animals. By "Chad" I mean they will not take no for an answer. They will rape a dead fish. This little guy seems to accept rejection and then just go 'take care of himself...' With zero porn or rape. I'm not mad at it. Plus, he's a cutie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:36 PM
34

Men should be mad at Cosmo for justifying their bullshit that's giving them raging ED and low T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:46 PM
18

If I were a wild optimist I'd assume it was satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:40 PM
66

You hit the nail on the head when you said erotica does not require exploitation, just imagination, which makes it completely ethical. I've struggled to articulate my very similar position on this issue to men in the past. So thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:29 PM
116

Seriously! Illegal means minor children and/or animals. If you see this shit... Run, don't walk, to the police station. Oh wait, sorry, he's not deviant! He's just "being a man" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:08 PM
84

My husband of almost five-years just was caught watching porn by me, yet again, after promising to seek help for his "addiction" and just fucking stop. Instead of wasting my breath, I bought a bunch of sex toys I wanted and am setting up our guest bedroom. I'm applying for jobs as well. Somehow the sex toys are adorable and abstract... And don't look like real body parts. It's creepy as fuck that men want a completely realistic labia to jerk off with. It's serial killer stuff. Women aren't holes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:07 PM
35

I'm shocked Cosmo even still exists. It was getting lame when I was in highschool and I'm 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:57 AM
131

I can only assume a depraved old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:42 AM
84

This is the number one post on Google when searching "why I shouldn't care about porn." Shit is ridiculous. Although, they do very bravely tell you to "have a serious talk" about CP if you find any 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:34 AM
45

I think she's very talented I'm just not much of a pop music person. I also totally agree. She probably could have went on to be the highest paid choreographer ever. She apparently taught her own backup dancers everything and was great at it. She was sick of preforming but loves the industry. She could have done so many things to have joy in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:40 PM
56

Omfg they need to free her. I'd march on that at this point and I'm not even a fan of her music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:42 PM
10

I've never had kids and have a very closed cervix. Getting my IUD inserted was more painful than breaking my finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:38 PM
16

Damn. There is queen energy all over this video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:35 PM
30

I completely agree. The one point I want to also make is untreated bipolar can lead to insanely sexually inappropriate behavior. To a point that is repulsive. He needs to get help before he hurts someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:32 PM
11

This type of man WILL murder and/or assault you. It's just a matter of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:30 PM
24

I think men prefer women who "don't wear makeup" now 🙄 AKA have on a full face of neutral makeup. I think part of it is shaming women for being self absorbed and "high maintenance." Because lipstick totally means that 🙄🙄🙄 That and the Kim K social media trend drove everything being fucking neutral or beige. Forget that I have the exact opposite complexion and am more Snow White than Kylie Jenner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:57 PM
24

My one HVM boss ate a super healthy diet and ate diner with his family every night. He even cooked and went grocery shopping and his wife is a SAHM. The man picked up his own dry cleaning and said it wasn't his wife's job. He made all of his own medical appointments. He was also almost 60 and probably from a dying breed of man. He was legitimately surprised when a male coworker mentioned porn as he felt it was for young and unmarried men. I think he said, "I have a wife. Why would you bring sand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:06 PM
10

The point of this post is pretty much that you saw an endangered animal in the wild... The elusive HVM 🦄 🐅🦕🦉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:03 PM
30

Unless he has some sort of disability, which he likely doesn't, which should have been mentioned prior. He's probably dating multiple women and he's trying to keep them straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:56 PM
7

OP would be my hero if she/we could actually think of 78.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:53 PM
15

Sadly, I read your comment and immediately thought of autoerotic asphyxiation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:11 PM
18

Now they are saying kinks are biblical? Great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:11 PM
12

The chainsaw is particularly worrisome. Especially given I recently saw a guy on the discovery channel or something using one to butcher a frozen side of beef.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:09 PM
12

The head injury or brain tumor thing gets trotted out WAY too much in advice subs. It's ridiculous and .01% likely to be the issue. Or less. That and early onset dementia. Dude is 28 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:07 PM
11

Memory problems? Lol. Even the stupidest man alive would know that sounds absolutely ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:05 PM
29

The most respectful thing a man can do, that actually cares about you, is make it clear his attraction to you is based as much on who you are as what you look like. Other than that, meh. Like someone else here said, men will fuck a melon if they're horny enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:01 PM
55

My husband doesn't like bold lipstick. I do. Knowing that he doesn't like it has really sucked the fun out of it. I really shouldn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:00 PM
1

Dumb question... Is that above complications from birth or is it in its own category? Like, leading cause of unnatural death or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:46 PM
2

Well, after reading this thread, I've come to the conclusion that my abortion may have saved my life. The "father" was a NVM who lived with his Muslim parents and had never worked at age 30. I'm white. That was NOT okay with them. If we had a child they may well have cut him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:42 PM
6

Well, that's good. Sometimes there are these stupid loopholes like, idk, "his name is his brand and therefore his IP."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:36 PM
4

This goes without saying probably but maybe not in 2021 America... He's not profiting from this at all, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:45 PM
12

Do you know if there is any sort of quality reading material on radical acceptance? At this point, it's becoming critical to my life progression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:54 PM
10

All you've mentioned in this post is that this man spends money on you. Great, he's not broke, but LVMs also can have money. Elon Musk is a NVM. Still none of her business and it is in poor taste for her to mention it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:02 PM
28

It's not out of the question. He was extremely wealthy compared to similar artists of that time period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:59 PM
16

Ages 14-15 seem to be his sweet spot. All his victims are in that range 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:58 PM
20

Which one is it? I currently have nothing to do and wouldn't mind being outraged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:57 PM
17

Let's form a club. I've always been shamed for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:19 PM
23

I'm glad I'm not the only one. As a woman who hates to sleep-cuddle I've been called "cold." Maybe I just prefer to sleep alone. This is treated as an incredibly hostile statement by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:59 PM
40

But wOmEN aRen't funny!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:56 PM
38

I think that I'm going to do that this weekend. I'm sick of sleeping with my husband and I have my own bedroom/office for my personal stuff anyway. A bed would have to be crammed in but whatever. I'm always exhausted because I can't function getting woken up constantly. He gets up every other hour to pee, etc. I'm a light sleeper to begin with. He's thrashes around and wakes me up constantly all night long. It's more than a newborn would wake me up. Literally. Being sleep deprived 24x7 feels lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:51 PM
9

It's kind of lame but I don't have a lot of friends and am super isolated atm except for therapy. It's nice to be able to talk to people who aren't judging me and just want me to improve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:48 PM
30

But wait! That's the wrong way to look at it. He's providing for the woman by using his late wife's life insurance to pay for dates. What a gem 💎🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:41 PM
7

They had me at the eye roll in the first scene. Epic eye roll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:32 PM
53

I never sleep well when I'm not alone. Like, I never reach relaxed deep sleep. Maybe mother nature is watching my back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:30 PM
83

"Must Be Viagra, ED, and Pornography Friendly." "Please understand I can rarely bathe because my mobility is limited".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:29 PM
45

There is always one comment in these threads that makes me actually LOL. This is that comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:29 PM
63

I swear I'm a great guy. #notalloldmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:28 PM
5

I'm actually thinking about making a post for an FDS rescue... For myself. My situation is not great at all and I'm struggling to change it. I think the support of the awesome(!) ladies on this sub, and ideas about my specific fears/concerns, would be helpful. I'm at that place where I'm questioning my judgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:13 PM
7

I'm working on the plan. I'd say I'm safe. Physically at least. I'm becoming more of an anxious wreck by the day. I'm just so demoralized I'm having trouble getting started. I'm financially dependent which he totally orchestrated. I'm depressed. I've gain a ton of weight (to me) which I'm never allowed to forget. Etc. I'm currently attending group therapy which is helpful. Thanks for asking ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:06 PM
62

Dead worm, omg. Disgusting and accurate 🐍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:45 PM
48

So bad that it should be a hate crime to subject a woman to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:44 PM
8

That's comforting to know. I feel like a total loser about the entire thing. Me five years ago would NOT approve of current me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:42 PM
8

I agree with that. Testosterone probably doesn't help. Although, who knows if they even have that going on. If they watch porn daily, they likely don't. I think that what I was more trying to say is that an entitled man simmering in sexual frustration is more dangerous than your average entitled man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:19 PM
7

When pregnancy becomes a kink you know they are pornsick beyond redemption. I don't think men are even in touch with reality anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:18 PM
7

I do feel like lack of sex plays a role. Most men seem to actively hate women that deny them sex for any reason whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:04 PM
4

I'll look for it when I get a few mins :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:56 PM
5

This seems on the nose. My abuser didn't start the worst of his shit until I had no job and was dependent. It's a really position to be in and I understand why they call it financial abuse. It paves the way for all the other abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:55 PM
20

Seriously. This is horror movie worthy stuff. Even actual fucking serial killers don't seem to frequently, if at all, target pregnant women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:52 PM
12

"A pregnant woman will be very submissive in an abusive situation to avoid any harm to the baby." I hadn't thought of that. It's very disturbing to think of a mother's love being used that way. Abusive men have used this shit for decades apparently without getting kicked to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:50 PM
4

That makes a lot of sense. Excess testosterone does cause major anger issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:47 PM
25

"trust me, she's usually ruminating 24/7 on how she can "fix" the problem, get him to stop or do xyz, fix the relationship" Shamefully, I can confirm this as fact. It's been my life for the last two years. At last at this point I'm waking up to a lot of harsh realities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:46 PM
15

That rings very true to me. I've been in relationships where I've never been relaxed. Like, not even relaxed enough to sleep deeply. It's sick that women can't even be vulnerable at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:40 PM
10

I think I just can't wrap my head around the fact that men actively want women to be weak enough to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:38 PM
12

"But deep down they know they're not being a man and they feel emasculated by their own actions, but choose to blame it on the woman and resent her for it." That's really insightful. I think my most abusive relationship was centered around that fact. It's easier to hate someone else than to hate yourself I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:37 PM
87

That sounds spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:24 AM
3

I read her book. She was like 10 years old and informed her mother her younger sister has filled her vagina with rocks, or she did it to her sister I can't remember, but a 10 year old kid can't be a child molester IMHO. She also wrote about masturbating next to her sister as a teen, while she was asleep, because she was a hormonal idiot. IIRC she was like 15 or 16? She was never attracted to her sister or did anything remotely sexual to her. The sister herself confirmed this and has fully suppor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:11 PM
3

Sex is like getting a bucket of warm dumped on you. If it's hot it burns, if it's warm it's pleasant, if it's cold it's jarring and you're freezing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:47 PM
1

Although pretty much everyone on planet earth seems to hate her, I like Lena Dunham's podcast. I also think she is really unfairly demonized for being unattractive. Yes, I've read her book and essays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:46 PM
12

Jay Z has looked an old lesbian, without the feminine charm, for over a decade. She can definitely do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:33 PM
37

Considering I lost my high paying job due to relationship issues, approximately $180k. Honestly though, I blamed myself. The entire thing was preventable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:23 PM
2

Why? Because they refuse to abort? I don't even really understand the motive behind killing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:00 AM
35

Did you eat well while you were pregnant? Just curious. This thread is freaking me out! I honestly had no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:44 PM
40

I basically have 3x the amount of hair as your average person. Does it thin dramatically regardless? My hair is one of my favorite things about my appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:43 PM
1

I haven't used a man's towel that I don't know well since college. The worst part is the musty smell getting on your wet body 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:28 PM
4

Or just go to a dog groomer and ask of they'll sort him out for triple the rate 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:27 PM
3

I had to tell an actual grown man at work to stop wearing sandals because the smell was making us sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:25 PM
3

Can we just go crazy and also ask them to wash their musty clothes and sheet's?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:24 PM
15

I've only ever had BV after sex. Never once has it just popped up on its own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:23 PM
7

How did he not reek of shit?!? This thread is giving me more questions than answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:23 PM
8

I imagine he wallows in his own filthy sheets daily. Or his "nest." Who knows at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:21 PM
4

Yet men cannot wait to be all up in our asshole. Their logic is what again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:21 PM
4

I read that men think soap running down your body means you don't have to wash your junk, legs, or feet 🤢🤢🤢 Adult men think this? Do they not have parents?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:20 PM
4

Reading about butt crumbs legit blew my mind. Like, this actually happens?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:19 PM
5

The dentist is not fooled you gross scrote. They just can't be bothered to lecture you about it yet again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:19 PM
2

What percentage of them have hygiene that bad I wonder? I'm being overly optimistic and trying to assume less than 25%. I hope. Please God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:18 PM
8

They have the silkiest hair. I love them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:17 PM
20

Yep, my vag is healthy. The weird part is that I only really actually smell myself when I'm out the house. I just filter it out at home most likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:15 PM
7

His mansplaining is longer than a short story. He needs to get a life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:09 PM
9

You really start to realize, as you get older, that other women are the only ones who stick around. Also, all the pornsick old men that are now in elder care have gonorrhea and will still try to stick their dick in anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:07 PM
19

What the fuck. Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:01 PM
29

I'd love to know the answer to this. Like WTF is the reason I can always smell my vag. Other people can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:01 PM
40

You have just resolved a major source of anxiety for me ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:00 PM
29

I guess I also wouldn't trust them to take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:28 AM
26

Did they get sick more frequently or just refused to buy it due to side effects? If it's side effects, I'm enraged. Hormonal BC led me down the path to actual mental health issues. Luckily I was able to get an IUD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:27 AM
20

I'd get this engraved on a plaque.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:14 AM
20

Sunscreen, eating decent food, trying to stay active when I can, hydrating well, etc. I definitely did drink too much in my 20s which I regret. Also, too much stress in my life from shitty relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:30 PM
78

I think most things sound cool with a Russian accent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:13 PM
8

Very true. He seems to stroll in with his stupid cheese at like 11pm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:08 PM
23

I'm was absolutely triggered when she actually QUIT HER JOB at the end of the movie after she was given a huge opportunity. It was total bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:07 PM
7

I hate the scene where Miranda makes Andy get the unreleased Harry Potter novel. Her character is NOT a spiteful hag, as I guess they are trying to communicate that in this scene, and would not participate in that LVW behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:04 PM
87

I honestly see no real reason male birth control, aside from condoms, isn't on the market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:01 PM
31

The obsession with girlhood + calling girls women... Combined, the two are even stupider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:00 PM
30

I'm 36 and I don't feel old at all. So weird to me that I'm perceived by others as "old." I've aged well and honestly feel like I became an actual adult at age 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:59 PM
5

This rang incredibly true to me. It's the most concise way I've heard it put.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:57 PM
3

Two of the girls, in my trauma therapy group of eight, do OF and strip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:32 AM
4

Right? He hasn't even done a single braid at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:28 AM
35

This reminds me of my idiot ex-friend who ruined a whole carton of eggs meant for a group of us because he wanted all the whites. I was pretty infuriated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:25 AM
89

He doesn't give her oral, he encouraged her to mutilate her labia, he requires DAILY sexual servitude with no exceptions... I'm 5,000% sure he is horrible in bed. Like, completely horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:19 AM
54

As someone on my third marriage, I agree with all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:00 AM
48

At this point, I'd like them to just assume I hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:02 AM
20

The same dudes calling women gold diggers with no gold to dig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:59 AM
1

I was laughing out loud reading this... The guy is probably the laughingstock of the entire neighborhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:36 PM
1

At least the first comment is "why are men like this???" and not "cOmmUniCaTe."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:36 PM
2

By the time I read the justifications I knew it was going to be mortifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:35 PM
1

I'm not totally sure what you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:11 PM
11

Yeah, it's weird, every video online starts at the divorce conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:16 AM
30

She's literally slapping him in the face and screaming "get off me Jordan." She just sort of gave up and told him she wanted a divorce afterwards. I 100% disagree that it was consensual. "Naomi is dismissive. She’s checked out months ago. Jordan pressures her into having sex. What occurs is consensual but reluctant. " "All The Times I Felt Gross Watching The Wolf Of Wall Street | BW/DR" https://www.brightwalldarkroom.com/2016/04/14/all-the-times-i-felt-gross-watching-the-wolf-of-wall-street/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:09 AM
33

He rapes her and she tells him she hopes he enjoyed it because it's the last he's ever going to get from her. I actually remember the scene pretty vividly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:50 AM
48

It's depravity to the extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:12 AM
6

I split the difference. I wear leggings that are comfy but make my butt look good. I wear oversized shirts with a cute neckline, etc. I like skincare and makeup and I'll wear a bit around the house. The makeup is for me. My husband could care less about that. I'll wear a headband, they suit me, or a bun vs just a ponytail or something. I wear like one small necklace. I don't want to look at him sitting around in stained sweatpants either. He generally wears nice house clothes as well. Mark Weldo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:04 PM
194

"You knew what I was when you married me." Her best line from Wolf of Wall street delivered while dumping Leo's now broke ass. Rape warning for that scene if you Google it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:02 PM
3

They care way too much about what we think for people that don't value our opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:56 AM
9

I'd love to see lingerie in this style. Like, a sexy forest witch. I'd buy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:36 AM
2

McChickens?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:49 AM
7

Reconstructive plastic surgeons are pretty much the ones I respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:54 AM
28

Or she puts ten bucks in the jar every time he does something considerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:07 AM
7

This is so absurd it seems like satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:00 AM
34

I've started actually correcting people on this. They don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:47 AM
8

"But Why?" Give me a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:39 AM
38

The disturbing part to me is that "free use" is enough of a thing to have a name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:14 AM
14

It also send the message that skinny scrotes can "get" hot women by stalking them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:13 AM
20

I now read the same corny romance novels I used to tease my grama for reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:12 AM
5

I don't feel this conversation is productive at this point. You clearly are doing that by saying, in a nutshell, "they'll never have to pay and there are no consequences."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:30 AM
14

He's not. Jail isn't prison. Most are in for contempt, CS arrears, nonpayment of fines, failure to appear, etc. Also, it's a damaging message to convince women they can't use the court to get the money they need to support their child. The court absolutely will enforce CS orders. Nonpayment is contempt of court. It's more whether the juice is worth the squeeze at some point. I'm not going to court five times a year for $300 a month from a deadbeat man I hate. My mother had no understanding of ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:51 AM
9

My husband was in jail, in Arizona, for a DUI at one point and he said approximately half of the guys there owed child support arrears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:35 AM
2

Her eyelashes ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:15 AM
26

I'm not being contrary but many men in jail are there for not paying child support. The court will also seize/terminate passports, professional licenses, drivers licenses, etc. if mom pursues the nonpayment in court. Interest is calculated on child support arrears and it's fairly high. The real issue is these LVMs don't have money and are not capable of earning money. This means the amount they have to pay, which is probably imputed on minimum wage, is meager. It's also an ongoing hassle if you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:13 AM
10

He hit the wall going 100mph. Although, after I saw a recent picture of Jude Law I've concluded no man can hit the wall harder than he did. He looks like a mentally ill, bald, homeless man now. He hit the wall in a rocket ship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:08 AM
11

Harrison Ford.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:05 AM
5

I agree that he hasn't looked good in like... 30 years. For me, this is just always the image that pops into my mind when I think of a good looking man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:13 PM
9

I cannot seem to find a high resolution version of this. This is in the 70s and is pretty much a timeless look. Also, please don't tell me Harrison Ford is a pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:37 PM
9

He was such a sweet kid in Marvin's Room too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:42 AM
4

100% want this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:42 AM
3

She's totally wretched. There are recording of her laughing and admitting to lying, etc. That's not as to say he isn't wretched too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:41 AM
10

Talented Mr. Ripley... Dude was hot 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:39 AM
49

Angelina leaving him was the beginning of the end for him. I didn't expect him to go downhill so fast. She still looks great btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:39 AM
24

What the fuck? I'm shook. Is he homeless and mentally ill now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:37 AM
19

I don't know how HE is the one who stayed the most attractive of these three.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:33 AM
6

Truth. The same dude who won't "let" his wife buy a new bra won't hesitate to buy himself a $600 gaming console.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:18 AM
28

I'd be well omw to being a spinster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:02 AM
2

Who probably owns no soap and one pair of ratty underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:57 PM
2

Otherwise known as "a scote roleplaying." I hope to God no woman typed that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:56 PM
7

And as he gains stability she loses it. SAHM, unmarried, with multiple kids? Girl, run while you're still employable! This gives him all the control in the relationship. And he clearly doesn't want any legal obligation to her in the way of shared assets, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:54 PM
2

I'd love to live somewhere where I didn't need a car. I HATE driving and it's so expensive. Car maintenance, car payments, insurance, gas, securing parking, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:50 PM
6

How does he even have time to cheat? He describes himself as the busiest person alive. On top of that, he claims to read more than five books a week 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:48 PM
4

You're absolutely right about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:41 PM
11

She is empirically, by any actual measurement, attractive. Calling her ugly is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:41 PM
10

Idk, scrotes love to compare women to animals. Pigs, dog-faced, unicorns 🤢, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:39 PM
38

When I was dating, if a man even let me go for my wallet it was a fail. They should not only pay, the should demonstrate clear intention to pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:36 PM
20

Who doesn't use soap?!? Even the lowest value LVM has to understand you need to wash with soap. God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:22 PM
21

They definitely are reusing stinky clothes. Dirty clothes + damp body = an ungodly stench.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:20 PM
21

I live in Arizona, an absolutely bone dry climate that dries my towel minutes after using it, and I still only use them twice before washing. I also 100% agree with your assessment. I'm from a very humid area of the East coast and damp towels get GROSS there. Mildew, mold, etc. I'm sure these scrotes are covered in literal mold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:18 PM
6

Masks have me straight up looking into false lashes for the first time ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:06 AM
7

I did almost a perfect bitten lip the other day. Then, my mask got put on 🪦⚰️🦇🥀☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:04 AM
12

I think I need to wash my masks with something different. I use fragrance-free detergent but I think that's still leaving a film.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:02 AM
28

I think she was literally 13 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:26 AM
48

Wearing mask breaks me out :( I also feel I'm not getting value out of my hundreds of lipsticks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:18 AM
1

He's very physically attracted to the idea of pregnant me but like, that is a temporary state and who's to say how my pregnancy would go. I could be on bed rest the entire time for all I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:26 AM
11

Hopefully he's 12 and not an actual adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:38 AM
29

I think my husband wants a child, at least to some degree, to see me pregnant. He doesn't consume porn but it's a bit unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:33 AM
4

Please don't tell me he's a perv. I actually like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:09 AM
6

I hate his squinty, beady, black little eyes. He seems like a mean spirited guy. I'm on team Matt Damon all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:08 AM
51

I unfortunately googled 'rectal prolapse.' I'm not sure if my eyes will recover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:06 AM
14

I just met a new female friend. I'm way too happy about it but I've had like NO friends since I ditched all the NVMs, LVMs, and pickmes in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:14 AM
2

Daily self care. Skin care, healthy food, cute clothes, a little bit of makeup. Also, continuing to attend therapy (I go three days a week atm) and work on my PTSD and all its associated issues. Zero alcohol or fast food. I'm really just trying to level up my health. Both of those things make me feel actively ill lately. I'd also like to foster a child so I'm working on getting certified for that. Oh, and I have my training for participating in the Big Brothers Big Sisters program this week. I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:13 AM
18

Literally the least desirable substance on the planet. No one wants your sock jizz scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:10 AM
6

The only thing they have going for them is they can always grow a beard to hide their crusty faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:07 AM
3

I rare to never shave my body because I couldn't care less. I don't wear a bra if I don't feel like it because I don't need one. I love skincare and makeup but wear my eyebrows naturally. I will never wear high heels. Sorry scrotes. If you want to see this shit so badly feel free to shave your entire body and buy yourself some 4-inch heels. I just take the things I like from modern beauty standards and discard the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:51 AM
8

I just Googled some pics of them. I didn't realize he was so hot. She also looks extremely happy. And it looks like she's correcting some of her failed plastic surgery. She looks younger now than she did 10-years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:06 PM
2

After reading the entire post, I'm convinced this is a disgusting fetish for this guy and totally fake. "My penis was covered with a yellow, clay like substance" is the most cursed sentence I've ever read🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 Why the fuck is he pulling back his foreskin for the first time in two decades in the bathroom at work? Why also does he magically realize he had this problem from not following his dad's penis washing advice exactly? How did he never smell himself previously? You know, before he had this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:38 AM
11

Because so many women are bitter that they got forced into the role of wife and mother before they had a chance to realize 'single' or childfree was an option. Also, so many men profit from the domestic labor women provide. Why would they want to fuck that up? The American family is a dumpster fire at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:29 AM
50

Seriously. Two parents but only one vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:09 AM
13

Yep, this. Marriage is a legal contract that grants each party rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:58 PM
28

And if you don't you're lazy. Blood boiling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:23 AM
21

A whole bag of dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:22 AM
1

Never let any man help you carry groceries or do anything that would give him a reason to enter your home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:46 AM
28

That was a jarring realization for me... How he is at work vs how he is with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:37 AM
3

Why vegans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:09 PM
82

Period sex, accepting of body hair, gives good oral... These are all requirements for a HVM imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:04 PM
13

DM me never please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:59 PM
7

I cannot even imagine the smell. No one will ever convince me this man doesn't reek in person. Mildew, BO, rotten ass, etc. I wouldn't be shocked if a roach fell out of his pant leg at some point in his life. Also, WTF is his toothbrush contaminated with? If he even has one. I could also imagine rotten teeth and horrible breath. JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:56 PM
10

Manchild is a slur now?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:53 PM
10

With a dash of BV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:52 PM
13

I'd never be able to touch this man again after this. I imagine he smells like mildew and BO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:51 PM
27

Your have to pay me over $10k to shower in there. I'd be emotionally traumatized just standing next to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:50 PM
22

The show Hoarders probably accurately describes this cat-piss saturated hovel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:49 PM
21

I'm out of the loop on dick dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:48 PM
11

After Sookie got her "fairy powers" I was so done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:05 AM
14

I'm honestly only familiar with her from True Blood. Probably something interesting to read up on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:46 AM
11

It's nice to read that so many people have been in my same position. I've felt for a long time that I'm just terrible at relationships because there is something wrong with me. I have a much more positive take on myself, and these situations, now. I read this sub daily and I love the brutal honesty and support here. For me, my biggest issue is establishing boundaries and my personal worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:09 PM
2

Some "will only say when they REALLY trust you after like 5 years. Even then, they never say the full story." I don't agree. This honestly sounds like shady, bizarre LV behavior with an arbitrary period of time assigned to it. If you can't be honest and forthcoming with someone in one-year, what changes at year-five? You absolutely have to protect yourself but I can't see myself not sharing my story or ever telling the full-truth to people I really care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:33 PM
26

Thanks ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:11 AM
134

It's like... I had leveled up too much to stay in a shitty marriage but not enough to stop marrying them 🤡 Working toward leveling all the way up this time. This sub has helped me out a lot and brought issues to light that I didn't know I had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:25 AM
18

I wish. I'd be a millionaire 🤢🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:20 AM
153

I actually did. Not proud of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:15 AM
28

And because of the porn induced lack of sensation, "as long as it takes" is an hour and a half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:09 AM
77

And men who actually live in an attractive/clean space are called gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:06 AM
140

We should carry an arsenal of supplies to freshen up before a ONS. Apparently these scrotes expect you to take a mini-shower, in their filthy bathroom, before 2-mins of terrible sex. Also, keep an outfit in your car to avoid the "walk of shame." Why should we always be ashamed again? A ONS is charity from my POV. Half of their magazine is about screwing random dudes and the other half is how look good for random dudes. Also, how to get the random dude you just screwed to marry you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:01 AM
20

I was in the process of posting that. Why do I still even remember?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:55 AM
23

I looked like I was 15 until I was almost 25. Total babyface. Even as a PickMe, I was disturbed how much adult men liked it and commented on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:11 PM
86

I mean, sometimes I just don't get super wet even if I'm turned on. I think it's hormonal. I've always been self conscious about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:47 PM
30

The answers would probably be hilarious. The level of delusion would be off the charts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:55 AM
5

Took me way to long to see I needed to figure out my own life and priorize my health and well being. Better late than never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:15 PM
24

My husband is the only one around here who mentions a baby. I have no doubt the narrative would change if we had one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:11 PM
31

I hate having my personal space invaded, period. I hate being pawed all the time. Husband or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:57 PM
9

Don't worry dude, we do NOT want to date you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:52 PM
1

Yet we are also stupid. How can a stupid person be calculating? Like most LVM propaganda, it makes no logical sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:34 PM
2

I think a man being "sad" about an abortion is always a pity grab. Either from the "she killed my baby" angle or from the "I just wanted to raise and love my child" angle 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:31 PM
4

I'm not buying the sweet potato. Too healthy and doesn't stink enough to be considered LVM cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:22 PM
6

That's a hate crime against you. The smell 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:20 PM
8

Well, at least it's less disgusting than 3x meals per day of fast food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:19 PM
40

They always know these girls aren't 18. They just want plausible deniability. This guy seems pissed he got caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:18 PM
4

Hopefully it motivates him out of shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:15 PM
13

What's with the nose blush? Should I be doing that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:09 PM
3

What are these women's names? I've never heard of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:51 PM
44

Does saying "allowance" make it not prostitution somehow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:35 PM
9

He's "not good at" folding laundry? I'm sure he uses that to excuse doing shitty job so she'll do it herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:31 PM
19

I found it highly annoying that he lied about his number to the bitter end. Why? At that point, you've already admitted 30, what does it matter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:53 PM
15

She is referred to as the most hated woman in Canada.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:39 PM
70

It baffles me to this day that women crush on him. Why?!! I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:48 AM
7

If they can get it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:44 AM
3

If that's how it worked, I'd have a new BF weekly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:08 AM
2

Frantic isn't the word I would use but whatever. I just do not see any leveling up here at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:35 AM
2

I'm sure the mods already are. They are on top everything in this sub :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:26 AM
5

OP has not leveled up and is giving bad advice, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:24 AM
10

Honestly this is "That Happened" fodder. I'm wouldn't be surprised if a man posted this for content on "gold digging." "You can't see even get a fucking cat with her without paying child support!" etc. The only this missing is people clapping after her 50% raise for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:57 AM
15

You're not confused. It makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:13 PM
11

Fuck you fund is needed. For men, shitty jobs, and sometimes toxic family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:55 PM
6

In my experience with NVMs, the pet tactic is always manipulation. Sorry loser, they are my "property" and legally I own them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:52 PM
16

This is also known as fiction. She references some form of plot to do so and also how she "lawyered up" preemptively for a boyfriend and dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:51 PM
17

You are not receptive to advice. It's an issue. Why even post here? Also, so many excuses disguised as "reasons."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:48 PM
6

Taking the dog and/or cat is the thing to do. I made sure I paid all the vet bills and was the adopting party for this reason. I have the legal high ground. Not like any NVM cares enough to go to court unless forced. Like men give a shit about pets. They don't even care about women or children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:46 PM
6

Well, good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:37 PM
11

I mean, if you can't afford a dog then you can't afford it. What if she has a medical emergency and there is a $4,000 vet bill. Will he pay it? Are you going to go to court over it? My cat died of a horrible auto immune disease and his medical treatment for this was like $6-7k alone. My border collie was similar when she developed a heart issue. That's on top of general care for as much as 15-years, depending. My animals are my family, but, they aren't children and need to go to the person that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:32 PM
22

I've never heard of that working out long term. Do you want to see his face for the next 10-years (or however long)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:19 PM
7

Are you coparenting the dog?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:08 PM
55

I've said many times, smug is the worst thing a person can be. For me anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:59 PM
7

Great. Porn is literally going to give this woman a heart attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:58 PM
4

I agree. And women need quality plastic surgery providers, who do quality work safely, for when THEY want a procedure. Women self-decide to have surgery for many reasons. I'll personally get Botox when I "need" it but probably no actual surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:56 PM
19

I think for some talented surgeons, including women, plastic surgery can be kind of an artistic outlet. You have to have a good eye, and skills to match, to get a good result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:52 PM
24

Pretty much the same as a tattoo artist with integrity. They will refuse to do anything harmful or actively terrible in design.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:50 PM
26

Seriously. It helps heal the years of gaslighting and abuse. Like, wow, I'm not just crazy and bitter! Men are really doing these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:48 PM
14

Balding is the first thing, that and bad teeth, that totally turns me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:46 PM
3

Literal junk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:16 PM
5

Ug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:11 PM
5

The slug story is actually horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:22 AM
11

What we need is a sticky post with a scrote GOAT hall of shame. The nest, butt crumbs, etc. must never be forgotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:04 AM
20

Spot on. The guilt tactic lead me to almost have a nervous breakdown because my anxiety got so bad. Panic attacks, everything. So, I was constantly seeking affirmation from him and gave up all my personal power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:58 AM
159

How could you sleep next to a man you knew was molesting your daughter every night? And probably have sex with him yourself. Repulsive. Your mother is a poor excuse for a woman. This is why PickMes are a danger to their daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:55 AM
20

I have four half brothers and sisters and an army of steps. The thought of being physically inappropriate with any of them makes me want to puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:53 AM
13

Don't forget the wife said she actually was sleeping IN the butt crumbs. Unbelievable. Definitely a PickMe Hall of Shame moment. Nearly as bad as "the nest" or worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:51 AM
5

Google "butt crumbs reddit FDS." You may never be the same after reading it. Don't say I didn't warn you, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:49 AM
18

He just seemed so... Happy and well adjusted. No alcohol, no drugs, always working on a new project. Funny in a way that was not mean spirited or degrading (RIP Pinapple Express since I can no longer enjoy watching it). Financially set. Killer smile, obviously. It's like, God dammit, him too?!! What can I even watch anymore that doesn't feature creeps, perverts, r@pists, or pedophiles. If I hear Wes Anderson or Bill Murray is a creep I'm done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:39 AM
22

I was so disappointed to hear James Franco is a predator. He always seemed like a stand-up guy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:32 AM
8

I got you... 🤦‍♀️🤣😂🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:39 AM
61

Lol, I just made a "heart on his sleeve" post. Chris Hemsworth's wife is 44. I sense a potential HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:19 AM
41

I'm glad these young women will not have to go through what I did. They're starting out life with the right idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:08 AM
9

I believe that I do as I have sat in many therapy groups for mental illness and have been misdiagnosed as Bipolar II. But like I said, I take your point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:39 PM
10

In my experience, LVM will explain away the transition from delusional, inappropriate enthusiasm to complete depression as being "sensitive" and "emotional." YMMV. They also refuse to seek medical help and manage their illness. They just put the burden on their mommy-therapist wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:32 PM
14

I personally have professionally diagnosed OCD, anxiety, and PTSD. So, I get it. I also have depressive episodes. However, I go to therapy, take my meds, and do self-work to the extent I can. When I don't, I'm a mess. I'm being literal. I literally mean rapid mood cycling which is generally a bipolar thing. When untreated, it can be scary to experience. I speak from my personal relationships. I didn't mean to offend you and I also agree with what you're saying. Mental health is still very stigma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:21 PM
21

Love it. I'll generally say "how can we have a more productive, professional discussion?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:16 PM
34

Seeing a man cry for attention at work has to be so cringe it's hard to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:30 PM
31

Totally. If this alleged empathy existed we'd notice. They wouldn't have to tell us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:24 PM
44

The scary one for me is them using it to mask raging untreated mental illness. Get therapy and meds, JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:23 PM
32

Three day ban for reporting a WAATGM post that was a cross-post from FDS mocking OP. Calling her a pig, fat, gross, etc. Yeah, I'm the problem. Also, once again for me l remarking on this sub about trash men's "butt crumb" issues and general repulsiveness. Stop reading FDS if you don't like it. Creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:21 PM
50

When he abandoned her during an actual earthquake, and saved his bong instead (!), it was the definition of LVM behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:47 PM
10

Hot garbage on a summer's day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:26 AM
11

Yeah, I look at FDS daily and look at this sub occasionally as well. Frankly, it's probably a form of self-harm to even read it. However, it really makes me see over and get her how much men actually hate women. It's an empirical fact. These guys very clearly and specifically hate the women of FDS. Proof of concept, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:25 AM
13

Certainly not a useful penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:29 AM
75

I'm not sure if you're aware but this was reposted on the "where are all the good men" sub. Idk if you can report it or what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:47 PM
8

Today I'd get up and leave. Not worth the UTI from extended jackhammering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:20 PM
18

I hate when they last forever, your vag hurts, and they think it makes the sex great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:07 PM
10

I kind of like this, I am a woman obviously, but I only really like 5-mins of PIV after foreplay anyway. That's assuming there is quality foreplay. Otherwise, I prefer zero minutes of PIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:42 PM
24

I said that men can't wash themselves properly and got a warning for "hate." I wish they hated butt crumbs as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:23 PM
1

I generally use it over my leggings and on my pubic bone rather than my clit. A+ results without being too intense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:23 PM
4

I have the wireless model. They started making one awhile ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:10 PM
9

I'm feeling this hard right now. I gained like 30lbs and I feel worthless and lazy. It's like, my weight should not shape my core beliefs about myself. I'm still ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:37 AM
13

This sub should be accessible to as many women as possible, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:36 AM
41

He's also a gay black man which he frequently and openly discusses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:38 AM
25

Gross. Jesus. The only thing LVMs are capable of is lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:22 AM
25

I missed a job interview today because the prospective employer got the time wrong. This is what my female recruiter had to say (image). I did successfully reschedule the interview btw. I'm sure in large part because the recruiters were so positive about me. My old boss would have bitched me out for an hour. He was devoid of empathy. I used to be a PickMe and not "one of those girls." Having women around you is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:48 AM
4

He probably wants to borrow money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:12 AM
101

Whenever I hear a woman is in a relationship with a LVM, and is having twins, I legit want to cry. Take all the physical trauma of child birth and multiply the responsibility for another human x2. I just feel the struggle she'll have. Two sets of diapers to change. Two feedings many times a day. Caring for her own body. The crying of two newborns. You'd have to be a superhero to do that with a NVM dragging you down and probably constantly insulting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:11 AM
19

I was at group therapy today and Derek, who seems like at least a mildly HVM, said I don't need a kid because it sounds like I already have one (my husband).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:07 AM
14

My husband and I have been having a hard time. He mentions a baby a lot lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:06 AM
4

Her voice is so soothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:16 AM
47

The use of the word "sausage" confirms this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:34 AM
17

I have both been this friend and been befriended this way. It never pans out well. PickeMe culture has no place in female friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:47 AM
10

I stopped reading when I began to get queasy. The blowjob description is like, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:42 AM
6

Ripley, specifically in Aliens, was my absolute favorite growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:38 AM
1

I meant that the perception that all female sex workers make a ton of money is false.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:08 PM
17

Idk why he's pretending to want kids. He knows what he wants... A bangmaid who makes more money than he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:54 AM
21

People would probably pay not to see it. Like, "here is $5. don't show me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:11 AM
28

I think he's pushing boundaries at this point. The result is the same. It's not a viable personal relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:07 AM
23

I'm in my 30s. I also believe 0% in "male friends." Like, ask yourself, if they did not want to sleep with you would they even think you had personal value? He was just grandfathered if before I gained self-worth. Gay men are the only men capable of actually, and sincerely, befriending women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:03 AM
21

I think the perceptions I formed about him, a long time ago, probably are making me view him more favorably than I should. This really hurt me. That he even asked. He probably wanted to watch my OF vids, if I had any and I don't, which is way creepier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:55 AM
7

Also, something I didn't consider but seems true 🤢 This emoji is doing work for me in this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:51 AM
11

Yeah... It's hard to reconcile the man you personally known with the man he is in when out in society. Also, this sub makes the point over and over, that men only are frightened for their female family members because they know "how men are." AKA, they will assault and use you if they can. Just like they would do to random women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:43 AM
33

You're right. I can't believe he even asked me. Like, 1.5 decades of friendship for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:36 AM
9

Yeah, I can't say I've ever seen him treat women like human beings that he isn't related to or are me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:35 AM
30

Seriously. I think he considers it his intellectual property. It's gross. He also only dates single moms in their 30s. I assume to some degree it's because they're "desperate." If they are, it's because they have yet to learn men are nonessential. I agree, if people wanted to pay to see your dick they would. The woman is the draw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:32 AM
23

I didn't even think of that 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:29 AM
8

Yeah, I think he has always understood the challenges I have as a woman from his perspective as a large black man living in the US. That was a lot of our bond. My family is biracial and I am a woman on top of that. Like, wow, society treats us like shit. He also would murder a man, not literally, who ever did this to his sister or nieces. So it's like, damn dude, not you too?!? Like I said, I'm at least happy he requires consent. However, if he didn't, all these women have no power to stop him f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:23 AM
54

That's the most perturbing part. He believes in consent. He's a good guy generally (still a man). I don't think he'd ever post anything without consent. He treats his mom and sister like queens. His nieces too. He just "doesn't understand." He already knows it's shitty behavior which is why he asks for consent. He understands. Young women, never do sex tapes or porn/OF. You lose all personal power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:11 AM
89

Yeah, it's sad. After my family had major issues, including illnesses and deaths, he was always there. Never a pervert. Always a good, platonic friend. It's like, wow, even men I trust are like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:09 AM
4

At least he asked for consent, I suppose and never has posted anything without consent. But, he could and that's the point. Also, by "more drugs" I mean more than those I take for complex PTSD and OCD... And obviously anxiety. All caused by, or made worse, by assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:55 AM
45

Die or get raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:49 AM
38

But they have a porn addiction! It's not their fault 🤢 Women need to help them work through it (porn-sick men... Not even once).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:48 AM
22

Butt crumbs. We need to make that a sticky on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:47 AM
2

It's on Amazon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:41 PM
22

Her facial expressions are goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:39 PM
5

What the fuck? Someone needs to literally rescue her while he's at work. And he'd never get that kid. He sounds like a broke joke and a horrible parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:52 PM
6

Not to mention shit like thinner hair, skin discoloration, etc. All of which they consider hideous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:36 PM
17

Men also respect you less once they have you under their financial control. They think they own you. Financial Control is like a serious abuser's third step in the total isolation protocol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:35 PM
5

This is the best HVM post I've seen on this sub. Prime example of the cliche "love is an action, not a word."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:33 PM
28

We all need to band together and tell the world "ugly guys are often insecure losers and the biggest abusers." They aren't "nicer."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:32 PM
33

Because women are too nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:10 PM
29

What a total loser. Imagine being this threatened by your own wife. $10 that he was the one constantly cramming food down her throat so she couldn't or wouldn't leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:09 PM
58

Men that age come different with clothes. They always look like they're going to church. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:06 PM
12

And financially ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:05 PM
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I'm not trying to be negative but this does not read as true. Almost fanfiction or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:27 AM
2

I made the exact same post. It's ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:32 PM
48

Don't forget the part where she moves back in with her mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:10 AM
48

I think most of them are so bad at it they're doing everyone a favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:07 AM
9

Totally. Just logistics at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:42 AM
20

I'm being abused. Not just, idk, getting into reasonable arguments in which I'm always wrong because I'm an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:05 PM
12

Are you me? My gift was still in the Amazon box this year. I also got the gaslighting and self-pity speech almost word for word. Including how full of gratitude I should be over my amazing life. Edit: Then an effort to get laid disguised as apologetic affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:01 PM
25

Satan himself would tell men to get their grimy, pitiful bar out of his personal space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:47 PM
23

What you really need is a glare that makes them feel like you're stabbing them with daggers. Everything else they just try to overcome in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:45 PM
3

This is why I take screenshots of any photos and use those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:59 PM
11

Ug. He is richer than God and could easily do that without being stinky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:53 AM
8

Yeah, she's just chill about it. I think it makes a bigger impact, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:51 AM
29

She's also child-free. Probably didn't hurt. I also like how open she's always been about it without making it a huge issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:48 AM
25

No one has ever aged better. For real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:40 AM
25

Only one word to be used here... "Loser." No one wants the money you don't have, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:36 AM
3

No joke, I once had a man-child client hire a stripper (dressed as a cop!) to walk into a Monday morning meeting. He was also a "cool bro" type who owned his own business where he drank beer all day. He paid her to give her elderly father, who just had a stroke and was totally out of it, a lap dance. I wanted to puke. Of course his fellow bros egged him on because it was so fucking hilarious. It was not taken seriously. I stayed at that job for way too fucking long. He paid us like $50k a month …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:44 AM
7

Honestly, my experience is that men who were raised in a religious home but do not continue to practice religion as adults are more likely to be porn-free. They maintain old school values without overdoing it to the point they end up "in the closet" porn-sick creeps out of repression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:40 AM
141

Brad Pitt was always so drunk and high Angelina had to kick him to the curb. What a dream man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:56 AM
13

Yeap. I even did this with my own father who abandoned me so he could get his doctorate of engineering (good for him... not really, so selfish). I thought he was SO GREAT for years. I recently went no contact with him and started reconnecting with my mother. You know, the person who worked two waitressing jobs to raise me. She is problematic is a lot of ways but at least she was there. I also understand the crippling amount of pressure she was under now that I'm now an adult myself. She also had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:03 PM
2

You make a good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:58 PM
2

If he can admit his part in the failure of the relationship, and is a good father if he has kids, then he's not LV in my opinion. That is, if he's done some self-improvement in an effort to correct his flaws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:15 AM
4

I think it's fair to pick up the minor expense if he paid the major expense. Snacks at the movies are a decent example. That said, it still looks cheap as fuck and my husband would never ask me to (even when dating).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:13 AM
3

My husband has his issues but he has stellar hygiene and does household chores without asking. He also has a good job and is the sole provider in the home right now until I can get back to work (which he doesn't bitch and moan about).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:09 AM
45

I'm childfree because I refuse to ruin my body, deprioritize myself, sacrifice my mental health, and be chained to a man for two decades. Said man may or may not be a good father and/or pay child support, if he gets kicked to the curb, putting all the emotional and financial burden on me... For a kid that may or may not grow up to hate me. I also like disposable income and sleep. And a clean-ish house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:05 AM
1

What I don't understand is how they justify to themselves as normal or healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:40 PM
2

My old roommate had an actual adult tantrum about the amount of TP I used. I wanted the ask him if he just used an old sock or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:15 PM
2

I love how their websites touts they are "challenging gender stereotypes." No, you are literally doing the exact opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:12 PM
1

Or get the vapors when you realized how manly he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:09 PM
3

No they don't! That would be gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:08 PM
2

This is both totally believable and disgusting as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:08 PM
2

Not any soap? Did you ever ask him about it???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:16 AM
12

Unfortunately, I think they already are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:22 AM
10

If your goal is to make women celibate... You've succeeded. WTF do they do? Just let water hit the crack?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:22 AM
8

Seconding the request for a link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:11 AM
23

I refuse to buy a pink sex toy ever for this reason. Lime green or nothing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:11 AM
12

I assume the bigger the slob the bigger the "product" needed. Maybe they even wipe themselves down with them instead of showering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:54 AM
36

Just get some tinted moisturizer and pretend it's lotion if you're that emotionally frail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:21 AM
25

Old Spice and Axe? Make sure it reeks as much as possible. Also, dries out vaginas at 50 yards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:20 AM
31

Seriously. They are like $5. All to convince men it isn't gay to wipe 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:51 AM
49

This is literally ridiculous to me. They aren't wiping their asses because it isn't manly enough?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:36 AM
3

Aside from all the other obvious issues, he isn't even her stepfather if they aren't married. He's her boyfriend. The use of "partner" would suggest they aren't married. Yes, be worried if your boyfriend sexually harasses and grooms your daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:38 PM
9

My favorite therapist to date has been a gay man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:33 PM
5

I couldn't watch these videos. I have no idea why. Just wouldn't load.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:21 AM
8

I think that women who can pull off short hair REALLY pull it off. You probably are one of those women. Myself personally... My pixie cut made my head look like a pumpkin. I've rarely felt less attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:11 AM
3

Most men aren't able to be capable parents imho. It's a fact that a majority of domestic work and child rearing is done by women. I'm not willing to run the risk of being chained 24x7 to a child until they are old enough to be left unattended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:40 PM
31

Other than oral, I pretty much need a vibrator to orgasm no matter how good the sex. The worst is men who try to shame you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:15 PM
7

$10 this was in Florida. Moving was the best thing I ever did for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:13 PM
39

I'm sure it was unprotected sex too making it even more ridiculous. Maybe baby #2 is on the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:13 PM
37

They are also, quite often, in a lot of physical pain which makes the idea of being alone even more scary. And the idea that they'll have to leave their infant at a daycare vs being a SAHM (if that was their plan).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:12 PM
38

This is why I'll never have a biological child. Walking out isn't as simple and you're stuck with this scrote for almost two decades. Not to mention the struggle of single parenting while essential begging for child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:11 PM
27

A swing and a miss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:59 PM
19

Just simple jealously most of the time. Crabs in a bucket and all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:58 PM
3

I haven't shaved in like six months. Bras have been out of the picture since March. Make up, never heard of her. I have so much more free time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:32 PM
57

$100 that if she changes her name she starts telling people she's married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:13 AM
8

I think he just pulled the hard drive out of an old laptop that wouldn't boot. Regardless, this is fake AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:33 PM
24

It's super immature. At 35, I wouldn't even ask. That is something I'd have cared about in my early 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:28 PM
13

The only valid reason I can see is decades of financial abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:26 PM
8

The fuck did I just read? This is somehow creepier than a blatant assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:24 PM
2

Talk about rubbing salt in a wound. Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:21 PM
5

I honestly wanted to say that this stuff doesn't happen outside of child abuse or the creepiest of porn. However, I sensed I would get rabidly attacked immediately. After I certain point, I couldn't tell if it was gaslighting or a disturbing look into the depths of the delusions these women create to cope with their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:33 AM
1

All the adults on that sub need to work on the relationships. Stepmoms often report "competition" but in reality their SO is probably just being slightly more indifferent toward them than normal and spoiling their kid to look like Super Dad. I honestly don't believe I can trust anything they report as fact at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:30 AM
5

If I did I certainly don't now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:34 PM
3

Most puzzlingly, the biggest "nude cuddling" defender was a woman from the US midwest. She claimed she had never lived in a home where everyone wasn't nude all the time. Yeah... That is definitely one of the more conservative parts of this country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:58 PM
3

I'd say almost no one on reddit, as a generalization, needs to be here as much as the stepmoms on that sub. I read a post from a woman the other day stating, casually, her stepchild "jumped her" (i.e. assaulted her) on camera as a joke. Of course the kid posted it online as well. The child's father didn't see fit to punish them. There isn't a man on this planet worth that type of routine treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:56 PM
4

Totally wanted the FDS perspective because for a minute I was like, "am I the totally unreasonable one here?" I didn't feel like I was getting a well rounded opinion from self-aware women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:54 PM
3

It was definitely an olympic level PickMe event.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:50 PM
7

When I read that my thought was "so he paid her mother to hold her captive." Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:46 PM
27

Rape and sexual assault. Also, grooming and predatory behavior. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:45 PM
5

I for some reason didn't think it was problematic if it was your own post. However, I'm not worried about it either way. I was learning nothing of value there, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:43 PM
3

I thought the answer was going to be that people generally agreed with me on at least most of it. I wasn't prepared for the outpouring of people defending a 16-year old's right to be casually naked in the home all the time. As long they don't "leave a butt print on the couch."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:41 PM
6

What you described is totally reasonable. I don't think I did a good job of establishing that these behaviors are inappropriate for older teens, when combined with other problematic behaviors, in the context of competing with the stepmother or in any way that implies grooming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:39 PM
3

I totally agree. I think establishing and enforcing boundaries is completely the parent's responsibility. However, it quickly became apparent to me that on that sub they didn't know what appropriate boundaries are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:37 PM
5

I think a lot of women make the mistake of assuming their SO is actually parenting their children. Then they get roped in and end up doing 90% of the parenting, during "his time," while simultaneously being cast as an evil nag (with the added luxury of vitriol from the child's mother). This causes a lot of resentment which is wrongfully redirected at the child. I think many younger women have no realistic idea of how thing will actually play out when they start dating a man with kids. I'd never …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:35 PM
3

The overall defensiveness in that post was a bit much. The ban was like, whatever, there is nothing of value to be gained there anyway. FDS!?! Someone probably clutched their pearls. I did have people PM me and say that they agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:31 PM
3

Even minus the cuddling, the absolute insistence that a teenager walking around completely naked is normal, frequently and in a casual fashion, was ridiculous to me. I wouldn't WANT to be naked around my dad. It's bizarre all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:29 PM
6

Yeah, permanently banned. Pretty ridiculous as I was respectful to everyone imo. I just didn't agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:27 PM
6

Yes to the last part. I'm speaking on this behavior within the context of dad holding his daughter's hand in public while his wife is the third wheel. Comes up all the time there. Hand holding, hugs, backrubs, and the occasional nap in bed is whatever. My dad has a custom bed, like 1.5x a king, and we both love to nap. We would both fall asleep occasionally while binge watching shows. No touching, spooning, or cuddling occurred. I always wore clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:36 PM
15

Same concept. Why wouldn't a 45 year old father tell his daughter to put her boobs away and establish loving, healthy boundaries? A teenager waking around naked in the home not normal or healthy. It's just not. To me anyway. Again, maybe I'm a prude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:31 PM
6

Also, double response because you make good points, most of this does sound like grooming to me. Being honest. "Be comfortable showing your boobs to your dad and uncle." Like, what???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:15 PM
6

I 100% agree is it the adult's responsibility to set boundaries. It just seems on that sub, no one is doing that at all... And then just excusing and normalizing creepy behavior or SD acting inappropriately toward her father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:12 PM
22

No, he isn't. I'd never allow it and he wouldn't do it. The reason for my post was because people normalize these behaviors daily on that sub. I think my post, with all the downvotes, made my point. These women will normalize anything to stay in denial. In reality, this stuff is creepy as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:07 PM
5

In the situation I was discussing, bio-daughter to the dad with the stepmom in the mix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:04 PM
11

I'll give on that one. My point was more if dad, stepmom, and daughter are in public the SD insists on holding hands. It comes up all the time on that sub. So, the wife is now essentially trailing behind her husband and his girlfriend. It's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:55 AM
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I feel like most women there excuse everything their SO does, no matter how inappropriate, which is why I made the post. It is not acceptable and most of them are excusing LVMs at every turn. I was not prepared for how many people lashed out or disagreed. I thought this was a no brainer. The troubling part was that they don't wonder about lack of boundaries. "I hAd no iDea thEre was seXual aBuse gOing on." Sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:49 AM
22

What I wanted to say in that thread but didn't... This type of garbage is the basis of 50% of porn. I am actually kind of shook at the responses. Hence, the FDS check. Am I crazy or is this shit literally perversion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:47 AM
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This is my own post so I just linked it. Am I being a crazy prude here? I'm very positive toward the female body and woman's issues. I am totally grossed out by the responses I got to this post. Literally, some made me want to puke. If you don't agree, and I'm the problem, I'm fine with that. My mind is just blown by the responses in this post. I just think, WTF, no 16-year old girl should be laying nude or cuddling nude with her father. Or just waking around the house nude in front of her fathe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:27 AM
11

Or he's too lazy to bother to remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:23 AM
8

It's the same deal as even a small dog protecting you because they make you aware of the perpetrator's presence and cause a racket. They don't need to be able to fight off the attacker. Even a 90lb woman is "protection." I felt safe walking alone at night with my 35lb border collie. RIP Lemon. Best girl ever for over a decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:11 AM
10

That is probably one of the most prevalent male delusions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:08 AM
7

Without the "more." Unless more means a walking date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:08 AM
7

I wish someone would say this shit to my face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:07 AM
13

I bet that chair, the only tolerable thing in his entire apartment, was purchased for him by an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:06 AM
8

I was forced to watch this in a meeting by my creep boss because it was SO FUNNY (there is a video associated with a chart). That was five years ago. Today I'd just walk out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:52 PM
27

I don't appreciate any comment on my appearance by a friend, coworker, or stranger other than "you look nice today!" or the equivalent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:50 PM
4

I talk about abortion with my sex partners. That's about it. I want to to be very clear that ultimately I'll do whatever the fuck I want. I'll also entertain body hair preferences, if I'm in the mood, that aren't creepy or uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:48 PM
31

Or they finally realized how much cooking and cleaning you were doing. I'm sure my ex-husband did miss me when he woke up to seven-day old dishes, moldy towels, and an empty fridge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:45 PM
18

I had one BF that consistently gave me BV. He had good hygiene. I think our body chemistry just wasn't compatible. Ultimately, I just stopped having sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:12 AM
1

Imagine being this delusional. Also, only he describes her as "cute" and brags about her being underage. Probably a unemployed basement troll in ripped underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:59 AM
14

At least it allowed me to see he was too lazy and inconsiderate to give a fuck. If I'm looking for a positive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:43 AM
41

My ex-husband got my a turtle cheesecake, his favorite, for my birthday. I'm allergic to pecans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:21 AM
7

AITA is a mix of creative writing exercises, troll posts, and 12-year olds pretending to be adults. That and somehow questions from many, many millionaires about inheritance. You know, the huge demographic of wealthy adults on reddit 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:01 PM
83

Also, painful sex that renders her unable to walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:52 PM
19

Whenever I see a woman with this skin tone I am immediately jealous because I know they can look stunning in every color that makes me look like I have jaundice. Orange, yellow, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:50 PM
21

I love how they call it a "claim." No bitch, it's a fact. She now has the burden of proof for her own opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:49 PM
26

And get called names, degraded, and sexually coherced to top it all off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:17 AM
198

Same. I thought she just wasn't a "cool girl." I wish I had befriended her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:16 AM
10

It can have a very real impact on their health if their father has genetically linked illness(es).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:17 AM
10

Or get a vasectomy and wear a condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:43 PM
7

I agree with paternity testing, prior to birth certificate signature, for the following reason - children deserve to know without a doubt who their biological father is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:36 PM
18

One of the shittiest men I ever dated was a clean freak. However, probably just part of his pathology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:03 PM
77

Totally. Men aren't ever this self aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:02 PM
1

Idk why my generation has the recurring thought of "I'm committing a crime so I should film it and post it online." Dumb. At least these creeps are essentially telling on themselves. I hope it is sufficient evidence for police. Also, that someone has made her aware the film exists and is online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:26 PM
7

After what he did, she should have honestly just punched him in the face. This is why I'm very much in support of self-defense and martial arts classes for women. So they have the ability to effectively physically combat, to some extent at least, someone larger and/or stronger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:59 PM
12

And who is the audience for this?!? That's the truly disturbing part to me. It's not one random creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:16 PM
12

The worst part is I'm sure he had four other men behind him egging him on and filming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:15 PM
3

I still see it but maybe my phone cached it. I'll delete the post if the link is gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:14 PM
41

Women assaulting men is so rare it makes the news. That should say something in and of itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:06 AM
45

The assault is horrible enough on its own but the fact that he also went for an actual pussy grab... That's next level audacity and depravity. He should be in jail. He also can't even pull up his fucking pants for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:04 AM
2

My favorite is asking what he wants for dinner and the answer always being "I don't know." I'm fucking cooking it. At least try to make a suggestion. God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:43 PM
2

I'd eat it but I wouldn't be impressed, to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:59 AM
4

This has to be mental illness of some kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:40 AM
5

I think we need a master post, with a poll, to actually choose our Pick Me queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:54 PM
9

I think men hate her because she's down to earth, gorgeous, educated, and they can't even dream of a universe in which she'd talk to them. So then she becomes a StUpId hOe. Edit: I forgot to mention rich. LVMs can't even call her a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:53 PM
7

Well, I can't fault you for telling the truth :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:01 AM
3

Directly related to my post on the desire for chocwit. Also, I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:23 AM
21

Cardi is the Pick Me queen. She is their one true leader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:20 AM
9

I perceived that lyric totally differently. I think she said "I'm not looking for a beating but I like pain." I took that to mean "I don't want to experience violence, I want you so do what's pleasurable for me." I'm not always right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:18 AM
16

I love Meg and hate Cardi. She and Offset deserve each other IMHO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:16 AM
54

I love Meg. I don't love all her songs but she seems like someone I'd want to be friends with. She's also gorgeous and knows it which I like. Too many women feel pressured to downplay their own attractiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:15 AM
25

It's a term designed to make any emotional connection to sex seem like a sexual orientation. It is absurd that people feel this way or think this is a thing. It's called being a human being, that isn't addicted to pornography, and who wants to experience connection and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:12 AM
7

I told an ex "if a woman acted the way you are she'd be called a bimbo." It was effective. He was highly intelligent but allegedly couldn't figure out the simplest task without fucking it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:54 PM
3

"A Victorian Flower Dictionary" is a good place to start IMHO. $20 on Amazon and a beautiful, hardcover book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:52 PM
30

I'm sure it's both. Humiliation for her either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:40 AM
7

His mommy appears to think he's just fine and this is far better than husband fucking "19-year old whores at a bar." His mother can buy his ice cweam. She's as gross as he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:28 AM
10

It's a term used by the biggest loser scrotes on the planet, 4chan, I have no idea of the origin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:22 AM
38

The "twinkle" comment is what repulsed me beyond my limit. Is he a fucking perverted Santa?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:20 AM
11

This is why women are leveling up and men are degrading. Exposure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:19 AM
6

God, I see how we ended up at FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:17 AM
44

And of course it's her responsibility to beg him to go. And probably drive him. And buckle his seatbelt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:57 AM
8

I own a couple of books on the Victorian meaning of flowers. It's such a romantic concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:56 AM
15

I personally think the most thoughtful gift a man can give is planning a quality trip or overnight to somewhere I love. And actually make dinner reservations, etc. My current husband did this for my birthday, to Malibu, and actually sprung for a house on the beach in like 90210. I'll always remember it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:55 AM
23

Or in a best case scenario "realization."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:53 AM
37

Or just hand me a Sephora gift card. Or a gift card for a brand I actually like. Stratia, Drunk Elephant, whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:52 AM
12

I recall my mother throwing away a similar gift in front of my stepfather's face. They are no longer married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:51 AM
37

A lot of them become so hyper-masculine, I think, because they are so ashamed of their childish and/or feminine tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:44 AM
19

Either that or kink-rape her once he wears her down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:49 AM
31

"No babytalk" non-negotiable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:49 AM
29

And can seem to use a totally normal voice all day at work per the OP of this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:47 AM
29

That worst part is that's the least embarrassing thing he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:46 PM
52

My favorite episode is when some moron claims they didn't steal the Plaintiff's dog and then proceeds to bring the dog to court with them for some reason. Judge Judy orders the Defendant to just put the dog on the floor. The dog immediately runs to the Plaintiff. Totally a common sense driven judge with no time for nonsense. Judge Judy for President.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:43 PM
23

"Judge Judy Interview on Her Life and Career." It's like two hours long. And yeah, she's richer than God at this point. Much like RBG she also has a super supportive HV husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:40 PM
6

I think the entire thing is on YouTube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:27 PM
42

It bugs the shit out of me how nearly everyone on that sub feels it's a medical issue. As though it's not in the realm of possibility this dude is just a revolting creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:05 PM
55

Or he wants a "hilarious" breakup story to share with his scrote friends. He's either doing this related to his kink or to force a divorce. Imagine her humiliation trying to explain her reason for divorce to a judge. She would sound like a nut and he'd deny it. So hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:01 PM
48

The use of "tendies" makes 4chan suspect as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:59 PM
47

I pretty sure that's the case too. So, in addition to forcing his disgusting kink on her, he's forcing it on the general public at the supermarket. Including actual kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:58 PM
29

This is the only time in my life I have wished that someone had a brain tumor. Otherwise, I have to acknowledge it's intentional 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:57 PM
102

The worst part is I'm sure this actually happened and this man thinks it's funny. It's fucking mortifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:40 PM
51

I may literally die from secondhand embarrassment for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:39 PM
32

She is the best ever. I watched a documentary on her. I cannot believe everything she's achieved in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:30 PM
2

This dude doesn't have a sex toy. He has an actual sex doll?!? That's a hard "no" from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:57 PM
2

On some deep level, he probably has no respect for himself. And certainly not for women. Don't be too hard on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:56 PM
2

It was probably his mother's car and he wanted to seem like a player.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:54 PM
24

Who could be doing this to men I wonder?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:53 PM
22

I'm 35 and think almost all male/female friendships are inappropriate aside from childhood friendships. Or I suppose a couple that you double-date with or something. In my 20s all my friends were men. We can all guess how that turned out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:51 PM
12

She could easily be a Glossier model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:49 PM
9

I'm so glad, at 35, that I never had a kid. Literally shackles you for life to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:48 PM
29

Or praising a man for learning a skill that is totally unnecessary and only for your pleasure. In this example, it may well be baking. That would be incredibly HV imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:47 PM
11

Me too. And his hair and beard game is on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:27 AM
44

What a fucking man-child. If I didn't already know an adult man wrote this, I'd have assumed it was a kid in 6th grade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:20 AM
2

Ironically from scrotes making fun of it in another sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:17 AM
1

Probably because they don't call it rape. They call it some stupid garbage like "premature postnatal intercourse."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:05 AM
4

I'm in my 30s and semi-disgusted at myself for needing this pointed out to me. Almost every marriage book recommendations it. Therapists even recommend it. So gross. We are being sold a bill of goods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:03 AM
2

Like these scrotes have $2. The prize is probably marginally less verbal abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:02 AM
2

I totally agree with that. This post actually led to some heavy realizations for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:01 AM
2

Threesome entitlement. Watching porn during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:00 AM
4

Men who freak out about periods and body hair are all horrible in bed. You can get oral thrush from yeast. WTF is wrong with these men. He can also get an asymptomatic yeast infection and keep giving it back to you. I suppose as long as he's happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:58 AM
3

I've had to explain explicitly to my husband why make-up sex isn't a thing. "My pussy doesn't get wet from your shitty attitude or being called names." "Calling a woman overweight will never make her want to fuck you." We are currently having problems "with communication" in a major way. I stopped having sex with him or masturbating with him totally until this situation is resolved, one way or the other. What's baffling about him is he has so many HVM traits yet also "episodes" that are self-est…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:53 AM
8

This is sickening. While these women may be the biggest Pick Mes of all time, this dude is monstrous. This is the most extreme version of love bombing I've ever heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:39 AM
2

Idk how they take that amount of abuse without just having a breakdown. At least my SD is almost 10. In eight-years her mother will be forever out of my life. If I make it in this marriage for eight more years. Hopefully sooner if we manage to get her parental rights severed. She is catagorically unfit and poses an actual threat to SD who is now terrified of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:11 PM
4

Omg, those are the worst posts. Knowing you aren't a priority or "as good as" is so damaging to the child. That and the posts where the husband is so negligent he allows the stepkid(s) to physically assault and scream at his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:06 PM
6

"Divorce and Child Support" is the answer to 90%+ of the posts on that sub. If I could go back in time, I'd not have married a man with a child. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband, but blended families are HARD and being a stepparent is thankless work... Especially if you're a woman. We try to make it work but it has been very hard on our marriage to deal with his ex. She is so mentally ill that she has actual psychotic breaks but won't stay on any medications. She does nothing to help hersel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:58 PM
12

The woman in question was raising a step-son that she thought was her husband's child for over six years. She later found out the kid belonged to a random dude and that bio-mom only even dated her loser husband for like a month. She just saw him as an easy option for a meal ticket I guess. He's in no way even legally the father. Yet this absolute trash man not only tricked OP into raising the child, he allows bio-mom to constantly abuse her in all ways possible, and run their entire lives. And h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:44 PM
14

The dudes obsessed with anal also can never seem to take no for an answer. Definitely seems to appeal to rapey, pornsick creeps. I won't argue that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:14 PM
12

Not to be crass but I "self explored" before I even was exposed to porn. Some women actually do get physical enjoyment from anal play. I am one of them. However, I think men like it for different and highly problematic reasons. Porn, humiliation, degradation, etc. Unless the woman brings it up, I don't think it should even be on the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:03 PM
10

My point was that I find it mildly enjoyable, from the perspective of feeling pleasurable sensations and not the "domination" aspect, but I don't like it enough actually engage in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:54 PM
15

I messaged someone about this sub for the first time this week from /r/stepparents. I literally could not believe the bullshit this woman was tolerating. All the while, insisting her husband was the best guy ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:49 PM
22

I personally kind of like it but not enough to engage in it. My husband never brings it up. I'd be repulsed if some creep was bugging me for anal daily even if I loved it. And if he dared to poke me in the "butthole" I honestly can't say I wouldn't haul off and slap him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:46 PM
7

Not coming is annoying, even for me as a woman if I'm almost there, but who gives a fuck? I would never infer with someone's bodily autonomy to get off. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:24 AM
3

I bet even he even goes down on her, the quality is 0/10 and he bitches about any shred of pubic hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:22 AM
12

She looks scary-skinny in every recent pic I could find and totally out of it. I'm 99.99% sure he's to blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:11 PM
16

I actually like giving oral. Just not to entitled toads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:57 PM
42

My motto is when man says "I'm a good guy," you should run away like he wants to wear your skin. Good men don't feel the need to say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:00 AM
41

My last unsolicited piece of advice, take exactly 50% of every dollar in your shared account (s) when you leave. Grab your bag, go to the bank, go to a friend's, call your lawyer. The lawyer you already have because you planned ahead! If your STBX does any remotely crazy stuff, get a restraining order. Stuff like calling you over and over and over definitely counts. If you can only pack limited stuff prioritize sentimental items. You can buy new clothes and shampoo. Those are the items he will u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:40 PM
48

This also protects her safety. Who knows what the fuck he will do if he starts to suspect she really is will leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:37 PM
30

I'll add don't tell him a god damn thing until you have physically removed yourself from the home. Leaving is when most women are battered and/or murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:36 PM
36

I can remember exactly one in that age range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:34 PM
45

The pathetic part is you sometimes can't tell if they're trying or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:33 PM
15

"I can't get the fish smell out." I wanted to vomit and simultaneously die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:22 PM
9

It's probably worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:05 PM
14

All that would initiate with me would be a look of dick withering contempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:44 PM
9

I wonder how many enormous, cheap dildos he bought her that she hates using.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:43 PM
8

That's a win from my POV. Maybe he can go live in a cave to avoid us until he dies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:42 PM
10

Dude definitely has a small dick. That's what he's really talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:41 PM
45

This makes me think of the "pussy snorkel" which I legit can't remember if was a joke or a real thing. Update: It is an actual fucking product. Update II: If anyone can find a testimony of a woman who experienced oral from a guy wearing this... Do God's work and post it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:39 PM
40

I go with "I don't think I can come again."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:38 PM
13

The only reason I can remotely justify her doing this is that some people are pickers. Not my thing but some people go nuts to pop a huge zit or cyst or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:37 PM
10

Then vaginas should be closed too IMHO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:10 PM
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Maybe I'm too old and stupid but I don't get the FaceTime "because of Covid" to PIV transition in a rapid timeframe. What's the point? I know... Men don't have to pay for a date "cause Covid" but then want you to lick the inside of their mouth. I'd rather risk, idk, going out to dinner at an appropriately socially distanced restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:16 AM
2

Off topic... I live for her hair and makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:56 PM
42

She's great. Female action star, not ashamed of her stretch marks, refused to get breast implants, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:38 AM
74

I just went with not having children at all. This is a dying world anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:35 AM
6

You're not wrong. Oh but "they are all 18." My ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:09 AM
10

The depravity! This is from men who watch rape porn and jerk off to teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:46 PM
26

These are the same morons who don't understand nearly all women have cellulite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:40 PM
6

I had no hesitation to whip out my vibrator, finish myself off, and never call these losers back when I was dating. He can jerk off alone at home with his precious pornography for all I care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:38 PM
16

WTF is even going through her mind during these encounters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:36 PM
5

The grossest part is they had to paw through the rest of my clothes to get to the underwear and then they actually put them back in the dryer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:20 PM
5

Back when I used to have to use a shared apartment laundry room in college, some perv stole all my underwear. I guarantee you it was not a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:08 PM
4

My dad would have better served me by leaving and never coming back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:25 PM
25

I once had a maintenance guy go through my underwear drawer. My vibrator was also in the drawer. He didn't even try to make it look like he didn't rumple through it with his gross hands. Male entitlement and depravity all day. Not even safe literally in my own home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:48 PM
16

Fat and chronic diarrhea mixed with bloated constipation. Hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:10 AM
2

I don't even have to see the comment, it was deleted, to know what it said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:08 AM
5

I hope to raise a child with this much gratefulness. Male or female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:03 AM
38

On top of being considerate, he also had the skills to execute. Most modern men are skilled at two things... Gaslighting and video games. I guess also watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:27 PM
4

I cringe daily thinking about all the losers I dated and how I let them treat me. I'm pretty and have a good job. Also, I'm educated. Like, how was my self-worth that fucking low? Oh yeah, social conditioning and shitty parents. Also, low value friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:23 PM
54

"I also drive to his house an hour away for all of our depraved sex meetups." "He did buy me McDonald's once though guys."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:21 PM
12

Yah, "we" made the decision. This dude is a predatory piece of shit old enough to be her father. Oh and she's also mentally ill even classier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:16 PM
48

I'd file for child support and full custody, file to change my child's last name, and ready myself for the move. He can commute 10-hours to see his kid... Spoiler, he won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:54 PM
10

As a woman, I wouldn't date a single father. I think it's fine to have a preference that your partner not have children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:31 AM
8

What purpose is this self-important ramble supposed to serve? Does he think he is educating people or providing a valuable perspective? The audacity is in full force with this cretin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:26 PM
76

I don't know why men think we will want to fuck anyone who calls us gross, fat, etc. How stupid can they actually be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:22 PM
1

Do you have any detail you can add here? It would greatly help me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:26 AM
1

I'm thinking I over. I am learning a lot from this sub and rediscovering myself. Since he is ready and willing to attend therapy, or see a psychiatrist, whenever I ask I think there is hope. He also has many HVM traits with a dash of LVM lashing out and insecurities. Willing going to therapy is a good sign I think. As a couple and alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:48 PM
29

If abortion becomes illegal I will have my tubes tired. I'd ask my husband to also get a vasectomy. I already have an IUD but I would not feel that was sufficient if abortion was made illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:41 AM
15

FDS helped me to fully internalize the idea that I don't "owe" my husband sex if he's treating me like shit. No matter how much money, etc. he provides he does not get to emotionally abuse me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:36 PM
4

Truth be told, I'll never read Hemingway with the same feeling again knowing how utterly terrible he was. Especially since his main characters are all tortured heroes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:47 AM
24

Men just want any excuse to talk about battering us in a public forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:31 AM
25

And Hemingway called him a bitch, basically, for loving Zelda too much. Hemingway always gossiped to all their mutual friends about their marriage. Hemingway even told friends Scott feared his penis was too small which Scott told him in total confidence. Hemingway's comments regarding his marriage actually drove their friendship into the ground. As well as Scott realizing Hemingway was a total douche who just wanted to self aggrandize at all times. However, the popular version of the sorry is wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:13 AM
9

Their shoes might lose some rubber on the sole if they had to walk!$! Hopefully their mom can drive them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:54 AM
12

If these losers are actually getting laid, which sadly some of them are, they would probably need a Visio diagram to try to track down the source. Like the world's least fun game of Clue. "It was my Tinder date, in the backseat of my car, without a condom."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:51 PM
56

You would think since men care about their penises above all else they'd have incentive to get checked and not let it rot off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:27 PM
57

And just pure laziness and cheapness. That and you just aren't worth the hassle to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:27 PM
36

I did not change my name when I got married and I'm child-free. Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:26 PM
12

Since my parents refused to take me to the doctor as a child, unless I practically was dying, this was not an issue for them. Being frank, my mother was as bad as my father. She never should have had children... Let alone three. Her sex-ed talk with me consisted of "if you get pregnant get an abortion." They are why I need FDS. I had zero positive role models growing up and moved out on my own at 17. Due to that, I was used and abused by men for over a decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:47 PM
41

I picture someone chasing a family member out of the house while flailing a broom when I hear "domestic violence."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:58 PM
29

If I ever say "intimate partner violence," I want someone to send help immediately because I either am being held hostage or have brain damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:56 PM
39

This term actually makes it sound like women are the primary abusers imo. You know, because we are so "domestic." The proper term is man on woman violence or man on child violence. Or both!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:54 PM
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Even the term "domestic violence" in no way directly implicates men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:17 PM
24

This is probably one of the most well moderated subs on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:35 PM
46

True and completely gross. The fact that women assign enough worth these men that they can bring themselves to date and/or sleep with them is why FDS is needed. This dehumanization of women is so troubling. The fact that I used to let it happen to me makes me sad and angry. And sometimes downright infuriated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:36 AM
49

This includes gas. If he won't even drive over to see you he legitimately doesn't give a single fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:18 AM
22

Audacity is the only word. You know it's scraggly, busted men that view a woman's appearance as a reflection of them too. Yeah, she's really making your neckbeard look patchier bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:17 AM
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Her cosmetic surgery is terrible, her butt being the worst, and in candid photos she looks far heavier by at least 20-30lbs. Which is not a bad thing! She still appears to have a healthy BMI and whatnot. This post is illuminating even if it doesn't have the most respectful tone - https://betches.com/this-is-how-kylie-is-editing-her-instagrams/ It is an in depth look at how she uses photoshop. It bugs me how many young girls are internalizing this as realistic. Kylie had a baby. I'm she at least …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:55 AM
5

It is literally an attempt to make yourself into a sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:54 AM
3

The only advice I agree with here is "masturbate." If you have a dog for companionship and a vibrator you will be 500% happier than if you were dating a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:53 AM
3

Being "sex positive" in my 20s gave me nothing but negative views on sex that I am still unlearning in my marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:50 AM
11

I'm mostly here for the personal experience/growth posts. Also, to hear from married women on how their maintain their relationship boundaries over time and continuously vet. I did a wonderful job vetting my husband prior to marriage and then majorly let myself slip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:43 AM
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It blows my mind that there are men out their that will have sex with a woman but won't take her out public. You just put your PENIS in her. Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:41 AM
10

My husband was so moody I asked him to see a therapist and psychiatrist about it. Turns out he has adult ADHD, which he now takes Adderall to manage, as well as a mood stabilizer. He's still super emotional at the drop of a hat but it helped a ton. Meanwhile, I'm the "logical" person in our marriage who approaches things systematically. Who'd have thought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:32 PM
5

This is destruction of property and is a crime. Small claims court at the very least. I'd cry if someone killed my 7-year old, difficult to maintain plant pal as a "prank." What a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:45 PM
8

This comment pretty much says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:31 PM
6

Of all the things that give me extreme second hand embarrassment, incels who think they're the joker are in the top five.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:31 PM
2

There are even Gif recipes, and a whole sub dedicated to that, if whatever LVM seeking to improve himself only has 45 seconds to learn an essential life skill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 12:19 AM
8

Finances are tricker. You can love someone and not be on the same page about money at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:25 PM
8

Seriously. Google, Youtube, and books are your friend. Idk why these guys can't buy a cookbook and follow the recipes. Especially since they all are self proclaimed geniuses. And who the fuck needs to be taught to sweep? A four-year old child can sweep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:13 PM
22

And somehow working women still end up still doing a majority of domestic work, child rearing, and household maintenance. Meanwhile a dude can work 20-hours a week, making 50% what she does, but expects to do literally nothing around the house. Most men should be mailed a monthly bill for services provided. Personal chef, house keeping, childcare, etc. Perhaps then they could actually value her contributions whether she works outside the home or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:08 PM
3

They can garnish it for all the public services deadbeat mothers use and get their money back.
/r/MensRights06/09/20 02:22 AM
1

Well, you seem to have it figured out. Best of luck with whatever you decide.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:54 PM
1

Except many states do not even acknowledge common law marriage - https://www.ncsl.org/research/human-services/common-law-marriage.aspx
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:43 PM
1

Whether they feel that way or not doesn't make it true. Marriage is a legal union and not "just a tradition."
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:42 PM
2

https://www.theknot.com/content/benefits-of-marriage Legal paternity established independently of biological paternity, tax benefits, social security benefits, legal decision making in the event of a medical emergency, division of assets in the event of divorce, financial protection in the event of divorce (spousal support if appropriate, etc.), benefit of ease of establishing custody and child support in the event of divorce, right to inherit if not counter to the will, etc. I agree with most o…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:34 PM
2

You just don't get the same amount of legal protection as an unmarried mom. It's up to you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 10:24 AM
2

My opinion is not to have children with someone who won't marry you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 05:05 AM
2

My ex-fiance sucked a dick due to social pressure as a 13-year old. The kid was his peer. I never really looked at him the same. Yes, I'm a horrible bitch for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/20 09:31 AM
2

We are in the same boat. Probably because being stuck in the house is depressing and doesn't give us an opportunity to dress up and go out. Dates and trips have always been a huge part of our marriage and attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 12:15 AM
1

This entire post is so full of idiotic misinformation I don't know where to start. Sex doesn't make you loose. That would mean all married women who fuck their husbands regularly are loose. It is true that some women have bigger vaginas than others (just like penis size). That does not mean they have had a lot of sex. Doing kegels is definitely effective and is something every woman should consider doing regularly. Big labia do not mean you're a whore. Sex does not make your labia bigger. You ca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 03:23 AM
1

She has always said she's ugly without makeup.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 03:11 AM
1

Smoking weed while pregnant is not a good look.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/20 04:26 AM
1

She probably gets $3-4k a month in child support on top of every government benefit humanly possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/20 04:24 AM
1

They very much look like a man's legs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/20 04:20 AM
8

I'm pretty sure she just wants dudes to proactively know her body is a mess vs freaking out when they see it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/20 04:18 AM
5

If you keep in mind that her tits have been destroyed by her kids, and she can't be bothered with basic self-care like wearing deodorant, maybe you can overcome it. You don't want to miss out on this prize specimen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 09:48 PM
31

By coffee she means coffee liqueur. And by coffee liqueur she means plastic bottle vodka.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 02:45 PM
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But she's so quirky. A lisp AND two different socks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 02:33 PM
6

Or at least once by some desperate slob.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 05:14 AM
10

"Popularity: Very Low" Also, I think she's using filters over filters on all of her pics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 05:13 AM
2

I'll make an exception for men named Leslie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 08:54 PM
8

I hate the name Lesley/Leslie with a burning passion. I've never met a tolerable Leslie. Leslies are like white trash Karens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 02:10 PM
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Are you sure he's single? Three hours is not a long time to hangout. A three day weekend is a long time. Especially if sex is included! He has to text/look at phone/leave immediately after sex. His "friend" could easily be his wife. The entire thing sounds odd to me. Either he's not that into you or there is some other driver causing him to disconnect.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 02:03 AM
1

I'm just saying, that's the argument someone would make to not date you. Single mother with drug addict ex-husband. I understand addiction.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 09:46 PM
3

The argument there is that you chose an addict which shows poor judgement.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 07:19 PM
1

Yeah, but in what amount?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 03:20 AM
2

What did you end up having to pay her? I'm from the US. Just curious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 12:17 AM
7

How the fuck can you be a SAHM if you're single?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 04:43 PM
1

It means she's in AA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 05:19 AM
5

Clean your mirror you gross bitch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 11:34 AM
2

There were four of us. She's not a cat so I don't think that applies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/20 06:18 PM
2

My mom didn't go through menopause until she was almost 60. Just saying. However, she got married in her 20s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/20 11:15 PM
1

Yeah. I do not believe she is getting death threats. Sounds like a mental health crisis.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 09:10 PM
5

This is pretty spot on imho.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 11:45 PM
2

Organizing AHA/BHA (I'm an AHA gal), HA, vitamin C serum, Tretinoin and good moisturizer into a workable routine will do wonders. Also, as everyone already said SPF is critical.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 01:11 PM
1

100% on the meat thermometer. Changed my game entirely.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 10:02 AM
1

Find a cook basic cookbook and try a new recipe each week. You can build up your base of simple recipes pretty quickly that way. I also critique everything I cook so I can do it better the next time.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 10:01 AM
2

I'm starting with 30-days of zero alcohol and cooking at least four to five times a week. Also, not spending money on items I don't need because "shopping is fun." I need to appreciate what I already have. I also just graduated from college and am working on getting a few professional certifications. Regarding my fiance... Stop being a nag and appreciate his good traits vs nitpicking his weak areas.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 09:58 AM
1

Health is a core value that can make or break a relationship. If he's a health nut, it's his primary hobby as well as an activity. I wouldn't want a partner that didn't share my core values or my hobby(ies) and you probably don't either. In the long term, it will wear on you both and breed resentment. Try it. If it's not for you, the relationship probably isn't either.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 09:50 AM
3

https://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/seven-can-soup/
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 06:32 AM
1

This doesn't really address how hard it is to get back into the workforce after you have an eight-year gap on your resume from being a SAHM.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 08:26 PM
1

was 700 sq feet... with 4 kids No offense but this sounds like an awful experience for the kids.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 08:23 PM
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I agree. Also, don't do it OP. Being a booty call after being the girlfriend is humiliating... Take my word for it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 11:49 PM
3

I prefer to use products that were made in a lab but also contain natural ingredients... Drunk Elephant is good
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 02:29 PM
8

No offense but this sounds legitimately gross... I don't want lard on my face
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 03:24 AM
18

Skinny with good skin... No sun damage, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 12:01 AM
89

1) Don't get fat. Harsh but true 2) Have a solid skincare routine including sunscreen every day (I personally use a physical exfoliant, gentle cleanser, a chemical exfoliant, sunscreen, Vitamin C serum & Retin-A in a well balanced AM & PM routine) 3) Invest in your mental health... nothing says "I'm old and used up" like being bitter and depressed 4) Keep your sexuality in focus. Orgasms keep you young in my humble opinion and regular sex is key in any long term romantic relationship 5) Focus on…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 10:34 PM
3

I agree about sex and bonding. I don't even know how a male-female couple can be emotionally intimate without a physical connection.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 02:25 AM
3

"Honey I love you and I'm super attracted to you. I've been reading online lately that female orgasm is an essential part of the sexual experience and will bring us much closer together as a couple. Can we try a few things? I found a few books with fun suggestions (there are million books on female orgasm on Amazon you could just buy any of those with high ratings). I'd really like to get even more pleasure out of sex and I would love for us to both orgasm together. What are your thoughts? Does …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 02:23 AM
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Depending what kind of guy he is this could result in a soul-crushing rejection for OP Or a really fun time and an eye-opening experience I would tread lightly and really think about what kind of man your husband is OP before executing against the steps The kind of jerk that can go a a decade without getting you off could easily be the kind of jerk that would laugh at you for doing something like this
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 02:15 AM
1

It does but I wear sunblock daily, as everyone should who wants to prevent skin damage, so it's not a factor for me.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 07:10 PM
2

I'm an AHA gal (makes me glow) & BHAs destroy my skin. Really illustrates was a personal journey skincare is
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 09:04 AM
2

I have combination skin leaning toward dry. I also live in the desert with zero humidity :) My goals are to have soft, glowing skin and slow the signs of aging. I'm 33. Reminder... Stay hydrated!! The essentials really include, from my POV, the following: Cleanser(s), physical exfoliation, chemical exfoliation, moisturizer, SPF, serums/retinoids Morning: *Water splash *First Aid Beauty 10% AHA serum *FAB five in one moisturizer with spf or Marula oil + Supergoop sunscreen Night (cleansing is alw…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 09:02 AM
2

They rate 95% of people as a 5... Many of which are a real world 7-8
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 09:09 PM
1

It is highly assumptive to say she is "eating like garbage" (she says she has a healthy diet) and "putting in minimal effort" (she simply said she could push herself more). To OP... I'd recommend that you give keto + calorie counting a try. Many people with hormonal issues report great results on keto (especially those with PCOS).
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 03:12 AM
1

This is super patronizing and dismissive. Do you have the same medical condition as OP?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 01:39 AM
3

Your description of your appearance was pretty cringe-worthy and conceited. Also, your special snowflake syndrome is out of control. A lot of women have a diverse array of interests. A little modesty & humility never hurt anyone. I feel as though you just posted this to tell us how hot and quirky you are... not cute.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 08:47 PM
1

I also have bipolar disorder. I actively do the following: take medication that I found works for me (took some trial and error), visit a psychiatrist and therapist that I like, practice self-care such as weight management and taking care of my skin, attend school in addition to having a fulfilling career and generally try to be a nice person. I'm very open with my guy about managing my issues and he accepts them. We both prefer to talk minimally about the past and accept each other the way that…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 11:25 PM
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She probably means your egomaniacal explanation of how fantastic in bed you are and how great your ass looks. As well as the fact that you're intelligent, artistic, passionate, beautiful, etc. Very off putting.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 11:20 PM
3

It sounds like your BF is an unpleasant, beta mooch that (successfully) is trying to convince you that the issue is you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 01:06 PM
3

I don't think it's smart to give up your financial independence when you have no firm commitment and are not even engaged... Just from a practical standpoint. Is it possible to accept some help and reduce your hours without quitting?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 12:58 PM
3

It's verging on incoherent, honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 05:17 PM
0

There's no way to put a good spin on being with a guy that thinks you're so gross he needs to fuck you in the dark and doesn't want to touch your body. Maybe the problem isn't you hitting the gym. Maybe it's your relationship. However, whatever you need to believe. I assumed you posted here because you wanted honest feedback.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:50 PM
0

You seem to lack self worth totally and view yourself as A) fat B) worthless C) disempowered D) incapable of change. This isn't attractive. Also, the desperation dripping off every word of this post (to keep a man that has to sleep with you in the dark!!!) is pretty off putting. He doesn't sound like a quality guy with high SMV or why would be stay with a woman he finds so ugly? Why do you stay with a guy that makes you feel so shitty? The way he treats you is at best extremely thoughtless. Do s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:35 PM
0

If he were attracted to you on a primal level 15lbs wouldn't cause this level of disinterest. I doubt it's even the weight.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:22 PM
1

Yeah, it's almost like women are human beings with autonomous free will or something.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 07:35 PM
1

To be clear, I've been 100% honest with my own boyfriend. I just feel that is a personal choice OP also has to make. I think reading RP redditors trot out their string of tired, PUA style bullshit phrases such as "hamstering" is probably the saddest thing in thing in this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 02:46 PM
1

Seems like a waste of mental energy to even care enough to bother.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 12:11 AM
3

I married a virgin. I broke her hymen. I wouldn't have had it any other way. Is this symbolic? A lot of women don't even have them or break them playing sports.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 10:26 PM
1

All seem true to me. Luckily most of those things put you in a registry somewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 10:11 PM
12

I've said pretty consistently in this thread that no real RP guy has the time in his busy day to call women online cunts and whores (or THOTS for that matter). he simply wouldn't give a shit enough to bother. My CEO, husband, brothers or father aren't making time for this garbage... I'll tell you that. Also, I'm okay with the "you are your mistakes approach" as a generality so long as the man is willing to present me with a metaphorical resume including his employment history, finances, workout …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 10:06 PM
2

Yeah, a ton of bitter trolls in this thread spouting ignorant garbage. No real RP guys has time in his busy, successful life to invade a women's sub and call them cunts and whores.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 10:01 PM
1

It's a natural thing that's wired in our biology. This is not good science. Definitely not proved or agreed upon among biologists that humans are wired to be monogamous animals. It's a social construct and a matter of values.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 09:58 PM
4

She doesn't have to lie to not disclose. She could simply choose not to.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 09:56 PM
1

You will never feel the feeling of making love and knowing that both of you desire only each other, and will always continue to do so. Science doesn't support that this is natural human behavior. I prefer not to be selective with my science. There are myriad opinions on the topic biologically. Also, even I only fucked one dude, I would not only desire one dude. There are a ton of attractive men in the world and women watch porn too. Definitely no contract anywhere that says women with an N-count…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 09:53 PM
4

I'm not sure I agree that how many people you've had sex with reflects on your character. Your values, certainly, character not so much.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 09:49 PM
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I posted a pretty detailed reply. I don't know everyone in this thread is assuming... OP has to lie to not disclose the number It 100% must be discussed in a detailed, granular manner ALL high quality men will care OP is fucked for life, will never have good sex and is a piece of used goods and garbage... um, no? I'm having the best, most intimate sex of my life in my 30's and I have a "high N-count" Jesus Christ. I like to participate in this sub for a lot of the content but threads like this t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 05:36 PM
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You're a piece of shit. No other way to say it. I'm sure you stumbled upon redpill in /r/incel.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 05:33 PM
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In your boat I'd say, "I'd prefer not to say. I've had multiple partners and I prefer not to discuss past sexual relationships in the context of my current relationship as I think it promotes jealousy an unhealthy dialog." Hey, that's how I actually feel personally. Nothing good comes of talking about who you used to fuck with who you're currently fucking. I don't want to hear about my SO's previous lovers. It just makes me wonder if they were better than me, etc. I decline to even hear about it…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 05:28 PM
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Is it 90 or 9? This is critical information. Some people here make these posts about having had sex with 11 men...
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 10:19 PM
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It sounds like he's being such a jerk about it that's it's basically making you too awkward to relax and figure it out.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 05:00 AM
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This so perfectly communicates what I want that I'm saving it. I'd like to add a husband that's a total pervert so we can fuck each other like crazy with total love on a regular basis.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 08:56 PM
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If they aren't "keeping it alive" at four months than she needs to examine her situation.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 08:54 PM
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My pussy may never get wet again having just read this. I normally find the sex posts on this sub to be hot/correct but this misses the mark so much it's actually kind of funny. I'm so sure you're ugly and this is all conceptual.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 08:17 PM
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Disgust and revulsion are super extreme words. This is the comment that gets me to leave this sub. You sound nuts. The answer is, I think, take responsibility for your own libido (masturbate, be happy with your body, etc.) and also tell your SO in a sexy way you want more dirty talk. Being told to to talk dirty to someone who clearly doesn't desire sex would be super awkward for him... think about it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 03:38 PM
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Her 5 minute tutorial is great for beginners
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 03:57 PM
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What about how women "age out," lose their SMV by 30 (thus becoming totally undesirable) and are only "riding the cock carousel" if they have multiple partners. I find all of these assertions demotivating and gross, myself. Makes me feel like at 30 I'm destined to die alone even though I'm successful and attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 10:26 PM
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Step 1 is starting to like yourself. Step 2 is no longer allowing words like that to come out of your mouth. Step 3 is identifying the good things about you and working to enhance them. You forgive yourself by just doing it. Recovering alcoholic person here. Hating yourself just leads to more bad.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 01:07 AM
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Get into a good place with you appearance and self esteem and then find a guy who actually sees you as a human being and values you. This man is bad news any way you look at it. Cheating, lying, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 03:51 PM
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Also, if you're seeing a therapist and getting help already (sounds like you are), put off dating until you're ready. You do NOT sound ready now.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 03:48 PM
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"to the best of my ability, being ugly" This is your issue in a single sentence. Work on your appearance and self confidence... you have to at least feel good enough about yourself to not openly refer to yourself as "ugly." Cripes, how unattractive. Also, go for guys in your league. 8/10s are not into dating "ugly" girls long term. Problem solved. "At this point in my life, I already am a psycho bitch." Jesus Christ, is this a troll post? No one wants to date an ugly, psycho bitch. Get yourself …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 03:45 PM
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If you had to give a one sentence summary of the changes you made, what would it say? Woman here and curious :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 03:42 PM
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Right? The other comments in this thread are alarming to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 08:27 PM
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You say "her" baby a lot. They're both this child's parents. Also, you suggest that he is paying child support in your post. According to the OP he stopped his payments. No one stopped this dude from wearing a condom or having a vasectomy. Birth control is not 100% the woman's obligation. In fact, you'd think a red pill guy would be all over wearing protection to prevent knocking up a "dumb slut." Finally, birth control does fail. It's not 100% no matter what method you use. From how her post re…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:57 PM
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"Women live the most protected, sheltered lives. They are safe from almost all danger- war, crime, and violence." This is a really inaccurate view, especially on a global scale.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 05:45 AM
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You're describing a 50 year old woman here. Most women aren't turning into withered husks at 30.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 07:43 AM
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Is this a real thing with cats?? I somehow don't think so.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 07:17 PM
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