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in terms of coming across as a confident person simply acting confident will make you appear more confident than someone who says they wish they were more confident. the caveat to that is you can never verbalize any trait like confidence because you then instantly lose all credibility concerning that trait. this is why arrogant people who brag about themselves are seen as insecure.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 12:41 AM
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this is just a shit test buddy i’ve had girls go from calling me sis to calling me daddy before it shouldn’t bother you in the slightest
/r/askTRP22/11/20 12:54 AM
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i don’t play that game no
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:17 AM
5

don’t play those games they see right through it every time somehow reply when you can but you should be busy enough that you can’t reply to your texts instantly all the time
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:13 AM
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if you’re worrying about coming across as butthurt you’re in her frame which is much worse than coming across as butthurt but not caring what they think
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:49 AM
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if a girl really wants to sleep with she will make it as easy as possible and if they doesn’t work and she still wants to SHE will make it happen don’t overthink it brother
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:22 PM
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this is your answer
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:58 PM
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until the exclusivity talk initiated by HER comes up you’re not obligated to tell her anything this is all amoral so whether you want to tell her straight away you’re not looking for something serious is completely up to personal preference
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:09 PM
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walk away
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:21 PM
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this is it if you’re worrying about what she thinks you’re in her frame and not yours
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:44 AM
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i take everything as compliment it’s especially fun getting their reaction when they didn’t mean it as a compliment
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:09 AM
14

i would never talk to a girl about politics and if i gave any response it would be in a jokingly manner
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:53 AM
2

not worth it even as a plate there is already too much baggage and she’s causing a boat load of drama in your life on to the next brother
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:13 AM
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do what you want to do and stand by it dont worry what she might think also know that this girl should be disqualified from any exclusivity as you met her on tinder regardless of the good girl vibes it’s a red flag
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:07 AM
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definitely shows huge confidence i can tell you without a shadow of a doubt not many guys have the balls to do this
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:03 AM
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you’re not doing anything wrong and it’s actually a sign you’re doing something right if you buckle and apologize and change the way you behave because she gets in a mood about it you will have big problems down the road as she will see you as weak and wont respect you treat it as if you would a little kid who was complaining about this
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:01 AM
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if you have abundance you wont care about the outcome and certainly wont care if she thinks you lack abundance worrying about how they will see it already puts you in their frame
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:57 AM
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you’ve just gotta do it brother you might surprise yourself and be a natural if not it will just take some experience
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:54 AM
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if you’re implying setting up boundaries means telling them verbally i would say never do that with a woman because it simply doesn’t work they know when they’re behaving good or bad and they know they to behave good for a man they want if they do something you don’t like you withdraw your attention and affection and they will know what they did rubbed you the wrong way they will either straighten up and act accordingly or they won’t and you know they don’t respect you and think you’re weak and …
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:34 PM
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you’re overthinking this and worry about what she will think and that means you’re already in her frame so stop worrying if you think it seems desperate and do whatever you want to as for the kino stuff i really don’t think you need a plan to stick to anything you have let things flow and happen organically
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:23 PM
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don’t communicate overtly with women it doesn’t work aka don’t verbally tell her you’re going to stop hooking up with the other girl all you have to do is stop hooking up with her if you don’t want to and that’s it brother
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:10 PM
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if you aren’t even going to consider an exclusive relationship and would never become attached you don’t have anything to worry about if you would i would be wary as most likely it would be so she can win some power back by getting with you and then dumping you
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:29 PM
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her feelings are not your responsibility simple as that but just know if you’re doing this to get her jealous so she will get with you it will backfire at some point so just keep that in mind
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:23 PM
1

thinking of a hobby that’s good to meet women at is the wrong way to go about it a hobby is for you to enjoy and improve yourself in any number of ways in every single hobby you can think of there will be awesome men and women just get out there and have as much fun as you can while working to improve yourself
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:19 PM
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you’re out of practice simple as that if you spend most of your time socializing you’re gonna be way better at it than even someone who has a natural charisma but hasn’t socilaized in a long time it’s basically like the saying hard work beats talent when talents fails to work hard
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:14 PM
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always focus on yourself first and foremost no matter what if you have spare time to go out and meet women or use a dating app or whatever way you want to meet women then do that as well just make sure you don’t get into a situation where all of your focus is on getting women and you start wasting your time women are a compliment to your life never the centre of it always brother always
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:04 PM
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in my opinion dating is that also but the one thing you didn’t specify is if you were talking about exclusivity i personally would never agree to an exclusive relationship there is no reason not to start hanging out and mating with women right now the more experience the better brother
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:51 PM
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what do you define as dating
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:43 PM
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it absolutely benefits guys who posses lots of alpha traits especially in short term but it also ruins the prospect of ltrs and marriage is completely out of the question as a male nowadays so basically like anything in life it has its pros and cons
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:24 PM
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here to help my brother
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:18 PM
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your biggest problem here is that you feel like you need to prove yourself and that makes you worry about what they think of you and puts you in their frame put yourself first and above everyone and if they don’t like or accept who you are then they aren’t worth your time which is no different to women either this doesn’t mean accept where you are as a person and stop improving either always be improving yourself for yourself
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:10 PM
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put yourself first and above everyone else for starters reading the sidebar and rational male etc will also obviously help a lot but there is nothing quite like real life experience so go and get that experience with women
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:05 PM
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i would personally not agree to that because i would state im not looking for anything exclusive and she will either accept that and try harder to win you over or move on obviously you are not looking for an exclusive relationship at this point as she has not proven anything and you haven’t had a enough time to vet for red flags if you agree you’re basically giving your power up for nothing and now she will think you’re weak and easy and so will the friend and now neither of them will find you a…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:18 AM
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when a girl says im not looking for a relationship right now what she actually means is she isn’t looking for a relationship with YOU at all just keep that in mind in future as for what now just get really busy with your hobbies and studies and work and look for other girls who are interested
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:14 AM
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it’s just an excuse because she isn’t interested on to the next brother
/r/askTRP04/11/20 06:29 AM
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long distance relationships don’t exist you will only be her texting buddy one or both parties cheat in a so called long distance relationship every single time by this post i know that you probably wouldn’t cheat but she would so you just have to move on a find girls that are near you
/r/askTRP04/11/20 06:01 AM
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if they initiate anything i treat them the same way i would treat someone i don’t and not interested in getting to know so unless they try to talk to me i wouldn’t even acknowledge that they’re near me
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:12 AM
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extremely competitive and get more jealous on average than men but they wouldn’t tell you straight up that they’re jealous they would just try harder to hook you
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:09 AM
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i would probably say thank you
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:07 AM
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sounds good brother keep doing you
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:05 AM
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it’s her job to ask for exclusivity so just keep doing what you’re doing and make absolutely SURE she has no red flags and if you find even one of them don’t ignore it disqualify her from an ltr
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:10 PM
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don’t communicate verbally with women like that it will backfire and you will look insecure they know how to behave and will respond to your behaviour and act accordingly if they’re interested and if not they’ve lost their opportunity in this case you made the mistake of asking her to lead because you feel like you’re doing all the work to set it up some women are like this and that’s why it’s better to find easier girls to deal with and have ones like this on the back burner to hit up when you …
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:09 PM
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a girl is ALWAYS the worst option out of anyone you can go to to talk about things like this
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:03 PM
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if you’re only looking for something in the short term there is no reason to tell them things like what career you have etc and this is where dark triad traits come into play one of the reasons people with a lot of dark triad traits do so well in the short term is because they will straight up lie to seem like a good short term option but all in all what it boils down to is your frame and what you’re not willing to accept ie if she starts slowing down to much you show you’re not gonna wait aroun…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:01 PM
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yes
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:56 AM
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she found someone who is better fitting her needs at this time dont starting putting in more effort but leave the ball in her court as there is no real reason to burn bridges here
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:38 AM
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keep doing what you’re doing if it’s working simple as that the worst thing you can ever do when all is well with women is change what you’re doing
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:36 AM
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frame is always in play in every situation
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:33 AM
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only time this really happens is if they were with someone else and feel guilty for not replying so in their mind this is a way to ease that guilt so yes you were right keep her around and go get other girls aswell
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:31 AM
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this wouldn’t even bother you if were talking to other women and had a busy life so i would say get busy and talk to other women
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:40 AM
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this is textbook stuff as to why you should not move in with a girl you can’t get mad about it and never bring it up verbally to her that will always backfire if not immediately then it will later on when she denies you sex you have to be unbothered and unphased by it just act like it didnt even happen next thing you need to do is get busy with other stuff so you naturally give her less attention and at this point she will either straighten up and act accordingly or it will be over unless you’re…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:38 AM
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don’t pursue her anymore than you did in the past when it was going smoothly if she doesn’t straighten up the plate is basically broken also she is not ltr material so don’t upgrade her if she starts pushing for commitment
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:33 AM
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the second part of my comment was more or less saying do what you want as well you just have to stick by what you do and not worry about the outcome but yes definitely talk to other girls aswell brother
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:23 AM
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my bad i miss read that part
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:13 AM
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if you have any attachments to her and could see yourself falling into a relationship with her ghosting her is your best bet if you are completely unattached and know you can stay that way there’s no need to burn any bridges and just plate her until she breaks
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:41 PM
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you’re overthinking this and worrying about what they think meaning you’re in their frame and not yours play it however you want to and stand by it brother
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:34 PM
1

completely agree with all of this another thing to keep in mind is that they all know how to act like a good girl and this is why it’s extremely important to vet and once you find a SINGLE red flag completely disqualify her from ever being more than something casual however i choose not even bother with exclusive relationships at all to keep it simple and easy
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:02 PM
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it’s not your job to do this women already know what they need to work on and its up to them if they want to do it or not
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:34 PM
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it’s a bit of a contradiction because you can’t try and convey it once you try you’ve started caring how they see you i’ve never really cared what people think and i actually thought i was subtle about it until i heard through other people that a lot of people actually talk about how i come across like i dont care what anyone thinks
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:32 PM
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oh brother what a mess you’ve stepped in completely ignore the one who’s being aggressive towards you and dismiss what she says in the same way you would a child
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:58 PM
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don’t reach out again and you shouldn’t have followed up with you can let me know when you’re free i don’t think i’ve ever tried to set up again after the first root if they’re interested in pursuing they will make it happen believe me when a woman is truly attracted they will make it happen by any means necessary
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:40 PM
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you shouldn’t ever have to tell a woman how to act she should act accordingly to how you’re behaving with her brother
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:37 PM
1

you’re overthinking this and by wondering what she thinks you’re in her frame and THAT will be a bigger blow to the attraction than your SMV
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:35 PM
1

always better to try inviting them over too early than too late brother
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:33 PM
2

put yourself first and above everyone else and just do you best to avoid getting emotionally attached to women constantly looking for red flags and once you find one you know not to get attached
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:32 PM
1

obviously not ltr material first and foremost secondly this has happened with me a few times because im nonjudgmental and they can sense it so they tell me all this stuff this is an absolute blessing for you as it really opens your eyes towards how women actually act this is why i choose stay out of exclusive relationships
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:30 PM
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you better believe it does biggest difference is that usually when they’re at this point in life they’re looking hard for a beta bucks to lock down so they’ll try much faster and harder to lock you down on average just something to keep in mind
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:23 PM
1

always give plausible deniability especially if you haven’t slept with her yet
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:20 PM
1

as soon as she said she found another guy better than you etc it was an attempt to gain back some power and it worked like a charm on you this time next time a girl tries this at that point it’s already over do not respond to it and move on to the next
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:19 PM
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tell her the truth simple as that her feelings are not your responsibility and she might try and guilt trip because that’s what they do to manipulate you if you’re worried about how she will respond you’re already in her frame
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:16 PM
2

tell them once and only once why and do not respond to any other comments on the subject if you don’t want to talk about it if it was another topic i would say don’t respond at all but in this type of situation it’s best to at least tell them once you’re exempt like you did
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:14 PM
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if you have no problem with it go along with it and if you have a problem with it reschedule it could go any of the ways you’re thinking but in my experience having their friends around has never been problem
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:11 PM
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sending them is not bad in and of itself however you said you’re trying to get them to think of you etc because of that it will come across as forced and contrived dont ask me how but they will know you’re doing something planned like that and at that point you’re already in her frame
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:09 PM
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gives them a sense of power all relationships have a power dynamic and in most of them these days its swung ridiculously far into the womens hands because men dont know their worth and are willing to put up with stuff like this don’t put up with anything you find unacceptable and stick to your boundaries
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:06 PM
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in my experience if they cancel on you and don’t follow through with a reschedule they aren’t interested in you other than to be an orbiter and that’s when they’ve lost their opportunity
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:08 AM
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if they don’t reschedule they either have found someone else to see or they just straight up changed their mind whatever it is if they don’t offer a reschedule they aren’t interested so best to move on to the next
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:40 AM
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i personally don’t text after seeing someone until they reach out unless i have something relevant to say and in that case ill just say it at that moment dont get caught up on things like this because at that point you’re caring about what she’s thinking and therefore in her frame not yours
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:38 AM
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first of all you can’t change the past second of all i would say that you actually need to work on your leadership skills because if your friends saw as a leader type figure you would be able to convince them to come along with you and have fun at the end of the day what you need to do is put yourself first and do whatever it is that you want to do and if someone doesn’t wanna come along thats ok
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:30 AM
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everyone is going to have at least some of the traits so the more you see the further away you stay that being said if you’re not looking for an exclusive relationship and you’re clear on that you should be fine for the most part
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:13 AM
1

if you’re keen get back to her whenever you can faking being too busy or purposefully taking longer to reply never works dont ask me how but they always know that you’re just playing games
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:01 AM
1

read and or listen to the rational male
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:42 AM
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if you don’t want to go in the morning don’t do it if she wont reschedule for a time you’re willing to accept unfortunately she loses the opportunity
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:41 AM
2

don’t get super hung up on something like this but if you find yourself speaking with a seeking rapport inflexion when you’re not even asking a question all you need to do is focus on and practice saying things with a rapport breaking inflexion it will be forced and contrived at first but the more you do it the more natural it will become and before you know it its your new default
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:39 AM
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simply put yourself first and above everyone else some people will call you an asshole but even though you’re a self confessed nice guy i guarantee that someone thinks you’re an asshole already anyway so who cares what anyone thinks
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:36 AM
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on to the next brother
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:33 AM
2

just make sure you set the logistics right so it’s just you and her and do your thing always give them plausible deniability but especially in this case if you get with her and they know about it will increase your SMV
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:34 AM
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you’ve already really made up your mind and she will find out eventually so if you’re gonna do it just go for it as you normally would girls talking about it will do you a world of good too by the way
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:13 AM
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straight up hey works best because lines come across as contrived and forced
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:53 AM
1

you did well by not taking the bait to argue over text the only problem is that you ended up arguing about not arguing next time something like that happens just say once you dont argue over text and leave it at that
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:51 AM
1

anyone trying to dance seriously on the dance floor is the one who looks stupid just have as much fun as possible
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:45 AM
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actions not words if she doesn’t act accordingly to your new behaviour then shes no good for you
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:43 AM
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overthinking you wouldn’t care so much what she thinks of that if you had abundance mentality
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:41 AM
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