I’m very active in daygame, and talk to many people including flirting with women. Though I usually get a lot of phone numbers, that usually lead no where. This has led me to reflecting on my approach, and seeing what I think must be improved on. Here I want to talk about voice tone.

There is a popular post on RP( one of the best ones) that talks about 3 types of voice tone. As a result of conditioning and being around liberal groups, I have noticed my voice may tend towards a voice that is seeking rapport. This may have been a cope towards rejection (being kinder = girls giving more numbers out rather than rejection), but again these numbers don’t lead anywhere.

My voice has been described as being friendly and calming. I am told I don’t act like a player. I would say I am a calm, confident, and friendly person rather than having to put on a fake player facade that feels unnatural to me. The only time where I speak much more sexual, deeper, and slower, is often I can tell there is strong sexual chemistry between me and a girl.

My question is this: how should I be using those 3 voice rapport types and at what frequency? Does this change throughout the interaction? Is what I am doing currently I am wrong? ( I am quite friendly in my interactions not like gay best friend but just friends but try to make my intentions known). Please let me know, thank you