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6

Less drinking and more working out. Less being alone and more time with friends/family.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 07:23 PM
3

Just wait a few months for the relationship to probably peter out
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 02:21 AM
2

Is BM, Baby Mama?
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/26 02:23 PM
1

Congratulations on your first steps to upcoming peace and freedom! The divorce is going to be rough but it will all be worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 03:45 PM
1

Any tips for dodging future bullets? I’ve come to find I’m still pretty naive with this stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 08:11 PM
2

Are you selling loans or something? Or are you truly giving these men money with no strings attached?
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 08:09 PM
1

I thought she was better than this but I guess you really never know 😭 any tips at getting better at judging their character? Do you think it was a mistake to share that? Or it was good so that she would show her hand?
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 08:07 PM
1

I definitely made the mistake of moving too fast. I even suggested exclusivity in the heat of the moment which happened but she pushed back on a few days later. I distanced myself from her after that to which she came with a long paragraph about how much she likes me. Then this happens lol
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 08:05 PM
2

On the .000001% chance this is legit, I love seeing people help people. I don’t need child support help but know a bunch do.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 07:37 PM
1

I don’t think she was lying about her feelings. They just seemed to rapidly shift after any sign of imperfection showed. For the best.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 07:28 PM
3

I would just simply celebrate Father’s Day before they leave or after they return
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 01:29 PM
1

Sounds like I should start cutting them off immediately if it even gives them a little bit of pause?
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 09:37 PM
1

I can absolutely respect this Gold digger. She always wanted to pick the expensive restaurants so I shouldn’t be too surprised. My ex-wife still pretends to be married to most people 😂 still has my last name on the socials and such a year later.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 09:36 PM
1

So basically I was in the sauna and saw this random guy texting a girl. This dude was like 50 and had big font. The text said something along the lines of “hey, I liked our date but we are coworkers so I think we should just be friends”. I thought it was funny so I took a screenshot and shared it with her. She thought it was funny too and said “why do you think he said that?”. I didn’t respond for a while because I was at the gym and then she went into therapy. I gave a long and probably too ser…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 09:10 PM
1

Oh for sure, this should be and is nothing compared to the divorce after a ten year relationship. I guess this one is giving me pause because it was just a bit surprising is all.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 03:21 PM
2

The yacht was crazy. I guess I respect the honesty but sheesh. She works for a South Florida marketing company so you might be onto something lol
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 03:07 PM
1

Why did you have to gradually step up in the first place?
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 03:05 PM
5

Get divorced brother. My ex cut off the sex too. That’s the unspoken version of infidelity. I got divorced last year and couldn’t be happier now. Regarding the debt, that will come out in discovery. Regarding the child, I have a kid too and she’s happy as can be. A good divorce beats a bad marriage. If you stay together for the kids, the kids will resent you for it when they get older. Getting divorced is the best decision for you and the kid.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 12:06 AM
2

Sounds like you need to make some new friends then. Join your local recreational coed sports league. I did Club Waka where I’m from. Doesn’t have to be a sport but choose something that is reoccurring weekly.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 11:04 PM
3

Congratulations on your upcoming freedom!
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 10:43 PM
2

Have you gone on dates and hooked up?
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 02:07 PM
1

I appreciate the kind words but I can definitely tell you are not a divorced man haha (not that you have to be)
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 05:23 PM
1

Not at all. I am sooooo happy now. I’m dating a girl I really like and likes me. But even if I didn’t, I am happy being with just me.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 02:57 AM
1

I got divorced last year so I’m still new to the scene as I was in a relationship for 10 years previously. I’ve only just had hookups and FWBs mostly for the last 9 months. Finally, have a girl I actually like for the last month and likes me. I had her join us for a walk by “coincidence” in the neighborhood. I didn’t make a big deal of it or even say her name. I just said she’s a friend or neighbor. Basically just another person I would talk to on our walks with the toddler. But I’m thinking it …
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 02:45 PM
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Sure, that makes sense. I would have thought 4 months was enough but I guess I’m wrong. I guess I just didn’t think people got to the boyfriend/girifriend stage that quickly and often.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 02:17 PM
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What is the reason to wait for so long?
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 01:36 AM
3

Staying in a bad marriage for the kids is a terrible decisions and your kids will resent you for it when they get older. Good divorce > Bad Marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 05:01 PM
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Get a great dating profile. I can give you some tips if you want. Just shoot me a question.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 05:31 PM
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Easier for all parties. Chads had it easier than average men even before dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:58 PM
1

You hire someone literally one time and then you can use those pictures for years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:08 PM
1

The photos are something you need to do literally once for 2 hours. Once you have them, you are done. Sure, you have more work perhaps than in the past from this one event. But after doing the work, the dividends pay for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:59 PM
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Right, there is a certain type of picture you’re supposed to take. More of a candid out with friends scenario. Not the LinkedIn head shot professional picture. You want a photographer that knows how to take dating app pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:17 PM
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So a women decides who they want to go on a date with based on prompts? I don’t think so. In regards to the playboy example, yes, women don’t want to just look at hot guys if they aren’t actually dating pool material.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:14 PM
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That’s crazy. Did the photographer know the pictures were for a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:02 PM
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I was wondering if there was going to be any correlation between pills versus who agrees/disagrees. So far, no obvious connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:26 AM
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That is true but there are still many that don’t have that filter set. Especially because I’m fairly certain it’s a paid feature. Yes, being shorter makes it harder but there are still plenty of short kings out there that have tons of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:23 AM
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That’s fair. Do you feel it’s more difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:20 AM
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I don’t think being a good photographer in general and being a photographer for a dating profile are necessarily the same. Knowing what to put on dating profile versus linked in vs instagram are all different. The buddy’s sister either doesn’t know what she wants or more likely, doesn’t want to be honest. She doesn’t want to say that picture looks too nice guy and feminine. She doesn’t want to say she likes a picture with a motorcycle or a cigar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:18 AM
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I feel like that’s an excuse you guys like to use. You just have to get 6 great pictures. Really is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:13 AM
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I’m saying an average looking guy can be a great looking guy with the correct conditions. Get a good haircut, wear the right clothes, and get the right pictures for the profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:08 AM
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Be a good man not a nice guy 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:52 PM
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Get different outfits and pay a photographer to give you a local photoshoot. The difference between a good looking man and an average man is just presentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:21 AM
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How is dating not easier than ever? You have apps that didn’t used to exist and men that don’t go up to girls anymore. You can succeed with both methods if you do them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:55 AM
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Sure, as we all know, women love the nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:54 AM
1

That’s why fishing is a good analogy. You won’t catch fish by just sitting in a boat. But you also won’t catch fish by diving in the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:04 AM
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Complaining about showers is wild lol. Did you sleep on the same floor as the League of Legends league?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:33 PM
1

My only slight disagreement is saying it’s “men’s fault”. I think it’s each individual’s responsibility rather than some sort of collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:23 PM
2

I agree. People need to take more responsibility for their life problems and stop blaming “society” or whatever other scapegoat people like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:05 PM
1

Do you have a link to this data? I would love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:35 AM
3

Do you have numbers to prove otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:16 AM
3

Just based on my scrolling of the Hinge feed, I see about 40% conservative, 40% liberal, and 20% moderate/unlisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:57 PM
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I have been on dates with many conservative girls just this year so I don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:50 PM
3

This is not true at all. There are tons of conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:32 PM
1

Probably true but still beyond the point haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:49 PM
3

We separated right before Christmas last year. I am now happier than ever. Good times are coming!
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 01:41 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 10:51 PM
3

I meant specifically using intimacy as a weapon to use so you get your way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:22 AM
1

I am sorry to hear that but plenty of men have also been fucked over personally by their worthless wives. You are projecting your small sample size to represent all men which is just ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:09 PM
5

Wanting to have sex with your partner makes you a sex craved animal? You sound absolutely miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:38 PM
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You’re actually delusional. Have you ever actually met human beings? There are plenty of good and plenty of bad people in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:50 PM
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Absolutely based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:25 PM
4

This is excellent advice if you want to destroy a relationship and be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:46 PM
1

That’s wild. How does she even get the pictures?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 12:20 PM
1

The biggest positive I see is that I essentially use FB and IG as a photo album of memories. But I could solve that by simply posting them as Close Friends so that I still can post them but limit who sees them heavily.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 08:23 PM
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I do love it now and didn’t like it last year. I was just starting the separation then and now I’m divorced. I’ll bet by this time next year, you’ll love it again.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 06:58 PM
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I’m a man in this sub that finds women over 30 attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:26 PM
1

Exactly, be the change you want.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 01:31 PM
1

Who cares dude, it’s Reddit. Really not that serious lol.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 03:32 AM
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Sheesh, a bit harsh to someone that isn’t being antagonistic at all
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 03:24 AM
3

Talking to you about the future is him telling the truth. He’s not withholding anything from you that you would need to know (probably) and I can assure you there’s no secret plan. He just wants a nice girl that he can connect with and after plenty of time has passed, introduce to his kids. Not any deeper than that.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 03:23 AM
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Thinking guys have a “secret plan” means you don’t understand men at all haha. Talking about his kids to a girl he’s dating just feels weird and he’s not ready. It’s not personal against you, he wouldn’t talk about them to other girls he’s dating either.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 03:17 AM
1

In regard to the matches, do you have your distance limited? Aka do you use the “dealbreaker” function on hinge? I keep mine with dealbreaker on for 20 miles and usually get a like a day on Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:54 PM
1

Not when read receipts are off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:53 PM
1

The part that stuck out to me is that 12/15 girls had read receipts on lol. Idk where you’re from but nobody I know under the age of 50 uses read receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:15 PM
3

First, you try couples therapy. If she refuses, that tells you all you need to know. You then get divorced. This is actually that simple.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 09:00 PM
5

It’s a burner account, what does it matter?
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 06:34 PM
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You guys need to stop acting like such victims, this is so dramatic. Don’t get married, problems solved.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 11:43 PM
1

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. You need friends outside of your relationship. I think your best friend should probably be your same gender. This is for many reasons such as you can relate to each other more. Men will never truly understand what it’s like to be emotionally driven just like women will never truly understand what it’s like to be logically driven. I don’t think one is better or worse but they are different.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/25 11:41 PM
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The fact is both sides won’t change their mind on the kids. Even if you stay together, one side is making an extreme sacrifice and will build animosity towards the other. Just time to get out now before it gets worse. P.S. On a side note, your SO should never be your best friend.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/25 11:20 PM
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If he means “dress nicer” then I guess he’s technically right. But described dressing nicely as “gayer” is super dumb. Dressing gayer means dressing more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:23 AM
1

This is completely wrong, horrible advice. Obviously don’t be homophobic but that doesn’t mean act homo. Women want manly men, period. Ask men that are bisexual how many girls they pull on Hinge when it’s listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:20 AM
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This immediately came to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:42 PM
7

What! No! You’re telling me Belichick and his girlfriend don’t love each other??? I’m sure Belichick being rich and famous is only a coincidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:06 AM
3

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:43 AM
7

I think waiting is a bad idea personally. More likely to want your ex in that case. The don't date advice is just off the basis that you'll jump into another relationship. Do not do that and you will be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 09:18 PM
4

Don’t get remarried, problem solved.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 08:09 PM
0

People cheat all the time for various reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:41 AM
1

You know women cheat too you know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:50 AM
6

You should tell the other guy, be a bro.
/r/seduction22/10/25 06:29 PM
1

Nice guys are people pleasers. Good guys have a moral code they follow regardless of how it makes other people feel or react.
/r/seduction14/10/25 01:28 PM
4

This sounds incredibly well thought out and mature. You got this man 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 08:39 PM
1

Love hearing the real stories like this. Well done!
/r/seduction13/10/25 08:01 PM
2

Just don’t say anything too overtly sexual and you’ll be be fine. You should get touchy but ever so slightly. Move your hands when you’re talking with her and have your fingertip barely brush her shoulder or hand. Do it subtly enough that it seems like it could be an accident and don’t acknowledge that you did that. Then just invite her to do something.
/r/seduction13/10/25 07:25 PM
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Right, my point was moreso that money is something that can be faked to a point
/r/seduction11/10/25 12:15 PM
5

A girl doesn’t look at your bank statement so why would money actually matter?
/r/seduction11/10/25 11:54 AM
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Paying for high quality photos to add to your profile is a superior investment to paying for the apps. P.S. Congrats on the new freedom!
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/25 07:40 PM
5

Do you have any friends and family you could ask for help with?
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/25 07:09 PM
9

Be a bro and tell her boyfriend
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:06 AM
1

You don’t go from shoulder to the vag, that’s for sure haha.
/r/seduction06/10/25 08:11 PM
2

Enjoy the new girl but don’t let her live with you and don’t get married again 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 07:01 PM
5

Do you also go to the bar and wait around for them to approach you?
/r/seduction02/10/25 06:25 PM
6

I’ve been on great dates (and bad dates lol) that wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t message first
/r/seduction02/10/25 06:03 PM
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Women like a confident and masculine leader. Not messaging first can give weak vibes.
/r/seduction02/10/25 05:04 PM
5

You don’t message first? How often does this lead to just matches leading nowhere? I think not wasting money on first dates is great. But not messaging them first ever is odd.
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:45 PM
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Coach Kyle talks about this a bunch. Move your hands while you’re talking and just barely have your finger tip touch their shoulder or hand. Make it so subtle that it could be seen as an accident. But don’t bring attention to it. Then next time you do it for a hair longer and gradually escalate from there.
/r/seduction02/10/25 02:59 PM
4

Never lend money to anyone. Either give her the money or don’t.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 08:13 PM
1

Paint me a better strategy then. I assumed girls liked it when guys take charge like that.
/r/seduction28/09/25 01:25 AM
10

Congrats and get ready to enjoy your freedom my friend 🎉
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 01:15 AM
0

In other words, you tried to get a BJ at the moment when she wanted sex the most and was unsuccessful? Would she just say "no"? I would say teasingly "I guess no sex then ;) ". Of course that could backfire into actually not having sex but fortune favors the bold haha
/r/seduction26/09/25 06:44 PM
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32M. I’m no pro at this by any means. I just had my first BJ in 7 years after getting divorced recently lol. BJ girl was like a 5/10. Before this, I went down on a 7.5/10, she got wet, and then wanted sex. We had sex but no BJ. This context is important as it has led to my plan for the future. My plan with this extremely attractive girl (9/10) I’m going on dates with now is to make it gradual. Go down on her, make her want sex, then when she wants it most, I’ll say “my turn first” referring to a…
/r/seduction26/09/25 04:42 PM
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Also ironically, men care more about looks than women do.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:02 PM
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“Just let things happen naturally” no, you have to put yourself out there and make an effort to make connections.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:43 PM
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You should tell her boyfriend she is flirting with you. Help a brother out.
/r/seduction22/09/25 07:36 PM
2

This was helpful OP, thank you. The other day I was supposed to meet this girl towards where I live but she had a bad day and I ended up going her ways. I’m still trying to learn her, it’s been less than two weeks. But now I know if I can’t get her to drive up my way, it’s a sign of a red flag. I’ll be trying that this week. Any other tests you can think of? I’m not really trying to split the bill but I guess I can pay attention to see if she actually says thank you.
/r/seduction21/09/25 02:06 PM
4

Invite the worst case scenario, it will just be a funny story you can share later.
/r/seduction19/09/25 10:28 PM
2

Nailed it. Listen to this man, OP.
/r/seduction18/09/25 04:04 PM
1

She clearly has pretty obvious interest. Girls, appreciate a guy who is bold. Sounds like she’s testing your courage a bit. Just invite her when her friends are around, who cares? But don’t make it a big deal. Maybe even invite her to something you were already going to do with your friends regardless on if she goes or not. Then you can ease into hanging with just her after the event, go for food with her or something. Just be casual and act normal because her accepting your invite should be the…
/r/seduction18/09/25 03:43 PM
4

You’ll be saying the same things as me before you know it. Feel free to reach out any time for advice.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 04:55 PM
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Sure, I’m extremely open. I’m 32M. First four years of the relationship were great. Then I bought a house in 2018, moved in together, and the problems started. That’s when I should have got out but I didn’t. Tried to plug up the issues with a dog, marriage, and a child. To the shock of nobody, each of those only made the problems worse. Nothing I did was good enough. She was always unhappy. I became a doormat. And she shut off the bedroom. Then finally, December 2024 comes and it’s her birthday.…
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 03:00 PM
3

I also got divorced when there was no infidelity. I am extremely glad I did. I could not be happier now. Do it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 02:40 PM
1

I disagree. Not acknowledging the obvious makes you look weak.
/r/seduction17/09/25 12:51 AM
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Hit them with “I can tell you’re overwhelmed by my charm and struggling for words 😉”. This one has a pretty good success rate.
/r/seduction16/09/25 08:53 PM
5

Dude really lol. This isn’t going to work. Go out into the real world.
/r/seduction16/09/25 08:25 PM
2

Yes, that’s when you start getting more selective
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:07 AM
4

Girls would largely prefer you to just not talk politics at all. Dating is supposed to be fun and there’s nothing fun about politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:54 PM
3

I’m proud of you my friend. If you happen to live in the West Palm Beach area, we can go hit the bars and wingman for each other 🫡
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 09:14 PM
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Agreed, my divorce was agonizing because I had to live with her. Luckily got it taken care of in mediation. Now I have the house and my dating life has been wonderful. Only been about 4 weeks but I’ve been extremely happy. Got my first blowie in like 7+ years 😭
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 09:10 PM
3

That sounds incredible, don’t get me wrong. I just think I have a different definition of “seduction” than you. To me, seduction is that actions you to take to get to the sexual actions. Once you’re at the sexual actions (which I would consider 3rd base personally) then the seduction has already been accomplished.
/r/seduction14/09/25 02:51 PM
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Right but once you’re at the point of a blowie, I would say the “seduction” quota has been more than met lol
/r/seduction14/09/25 01:02 AM
9

I love how you respond seriously to your original joke suggestion lol
/r/seduction14/09/25 12:51 AM
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Even people with exciting lives can sound boring when they explain it. You’re right, it’s all in the presentation. Just have fun and don’t take every question so seriously.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:49 PM
5

Get warm ups in before jumping straight into the main event. Just say hi and keep walking. Or just ask someone the time. Get the social juices flowing.
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:15 PM
1

That’s enough internet for today
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:02 PM
2

I never understand why people say that, it’s odd. They act like a bar is a strip club lol
/r/seduction10/09/25 10:37 PM
1

Bar is the best way to meet people unplanned. But the greatest way to meet people period is organized and recurring social events such as a coed sports league.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:06 PM
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Go to bars at night. Use apps as a supplement not a primary.
/r/seduction10/09/25 03:14 PM
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I think my answer is probably. Things would be nice if I didn't have to be witty every other text. Would be nice if I could just say my honest thoughts. Would be nice if my ex wasn't insanely controlling once I showed any signs of weakness. But that isn't the reality so I'm not going to waste time wondering how it could go. I am not going to complain about the rules of the game but instead spend time learning the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:25 PM
2

I’m sorry my personal life decisions bother you so deeply lol
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:27 PM
1

I didn’t make the rules
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:14 PM
2

I’ve kind of trained it over time too. I trained it to not bold, use quotes, or those long dashes to make it not obvious it’s Ai. But yeah, sometimes I just roll with the corny because why not lol
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:02 PM
4

I ask it to give multiple options and usually get a good one when I ask it to be flirtier.
/r/seduction08/09/25 10:23 PM
2

ChatGPT is free, I don’t understand? I take a screenshot of the conversation. I will either have a potential reply typed up or I will have it come up with one for me depending on the context.
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:08 PM
54

This is where the downvotes come in but I use ChatGPT to come up with like half my replies lol. Having to be clever so frequently gets exhausting. Also make sure to not reply too quickly. I follow the “half time” rule. Meaning I wait at least half the time it took them to text me back to text them back. If they took two hours to reply, I wait at least 1 hour. If they took 2 days to reply, I wait at least 1 day. You can’t seem too eager.
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:07 PM
137

Women are emotionally driven. The worst thing you can do is bore them. Unfortunately, almost every other text will need to have some sort of whit, flirtiness, or spark to it. Even just 2 or 3 vanilla texts in a row and they can be out.
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:49 PM
27

You don’t need to dedicate 3 hours a day of self grooming to smell good
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:39 PM
48

This seems excessive lol
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:04 PM
87

Nice guy = weak = friendzoned/ghosted I want to be known as a good man not a nice guy. Nice guys are people pleasers. Good men do the right thing according to their moral code regardless of how it makes other people feel about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:47 PM
1

What difference does it make if he is 6 feet or 6’6” lol. He’s tall, period.
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:42 PM
18

I think that’s a pretty strong move on their part and you are supposed to make your move. I don’t really know how much race has to do with this as much as being attractive.
/r/seduction06/09/25 12:42 PM
2

This is most certainly not the case in France for example lol
/r/seduction06/09/25 12:32 PM
77

“How tall” bro is even getting hit on in this comment section 😂
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:19 PM
574

You should be a bro and tell the girl's boyfriend that broke up with him about that situation. You could be saving him from a future terrible marriage.
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:01 PM
2

Right haha. If he was saying something like “no pick up line will magically get the girl to like you”, I would agree. But then he veered into some weak nonsense.
/r/seduction04/09/25 04:21 PM
5

My man, don’t make an insta just to give women an insta. Just roll with not having one, it makes you unique and mysterious.
/r/seduction04/09/25 02:15 PM
12

You are completely wrong. If all you do is take care of the women in your family, you are more likely to be seen as soft and get friendzoned.
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:43 PM
7

Not all cold approaches are created equal. Coach Kyle goes into this but many guys just go "hi, can I have your number?" and that's it. The goal should be to extend that interaction as long as possible. Why schedule a date for later if you can try to turn that moment into the date?
/r/seduction03/09/25 08:23 PM
3

I understand that but you need to understand that he has his career at risk. A girl can feel uncomfortable at any time and report him to HR. He’s in a precarious situation where if him asking you out goes badly, his entire life could be destroyed.
/r/seduction02/09/25 05:18 PM
2

The winky face has a pretty universal meaning as being flirtatious. You say you don’t like games but you not telling him directly that you want him to ask you out IS playing games lol
/r/seduction02/09/25 04:54 PM
6

He sent you a winky face in a text, right? That's your greenlight. If you want to be less direct, invite him to join you for drinks. Then just be touchy with him when you're there. A male is much more at risk asking out the female coworker than the opposite. That being said, if you think your job is at risk here than that's another consideration to maybe do nothing.
/r/seduction02/09/25 04:31 PM
33

Tell him you think he’s cute and you’d love if he asked you out. With the current climate of work and dating, you’re going to need to be explicit. No hints.
/r/seduction02/09/25 04:21 PM
7

Yes it is
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:59 PM
3

lol scam verified
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 06:09 PM
3

Agreed, talking with dudes too is fun as well in different way
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:26 AM
1

Solo is arguably even better. I did it on a business trip about 2 months ago. You can come and go on your time without worrying about anything else.
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:21 AM
1

You go into the bar and see if there is a girl that interests you before ordering. If there’s not, you go to the next bar.
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:19 AM
18

Great story, good stuff. If I were to add something I did that helped me improve this is locking eyes with random people throughout your day. Just get more used to it with old ladies and then you will be used to it when the real moment comes.
/r/seduction29/08/25 08:06 PM
5

I find it extremely attractive when a girl is super into me. I would love if a girl asked me out but it’s never happened. I guess the positive is that I’ve never had to deal with the guilt of rejecting someone like girls probably feel. Or they get immune to it and don’t care, I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:48 PM
2

Well there’s a ton to unpack here. First of all, you should get divorced regardless of this woman. Second, being in love with this woman is a terrible idea. Being in love is a bad idea in general but especially bad when it is someone you aren’t dating. Third, since you still need to get divorced first, you should focus on yourself and dating other women (when appropriate). If this woman comes back along then great but she’s 18 years older dude. I’m sure if you started dating some girls in their …
/r/seduction29/08/25 04:48 PM
18

Say “hi, I think you’re cute”. Just don’t give hints because some guys can be oblivious.
/r/seduction29/08/25 01:29 PM
16

I think getting nonalcoholic drinks and food are fine in my opinion. But yes, other than that, you talk to people.
/r/seduction28/08/25 08:37 PM
11

“Listen buddy, I’m not interested in being your friend. Got it, pal?”
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:26 PM
20

I don't think there's a wrong answer here. I think you've done all the right moves up to this point (except maybe the movie date because you cannot talk but that's more personal preference and not really the point here). I would tell her what you said here that you're not interested in friendship or a texting buddy. I would give her one more chance and maybe even tell her she only has one more chance. If she brings up the ex again, you're done.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:24 PM
1

Interesting, good to know. Do you call one of the girls cute or do you just talk more platonically?
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:18 PM
1

I have a similar problem. I get too scared to talk to a girl when she is with a friend.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:06 PM
8

Make her feel comfortable and safe. Bring her to the couch first and not the bed. Kissing should start on the couch and elevate to the bed.
/r/seduction27/08/25 10:54 PM
2

On to the next one my friend. Just use this as a learning experience.
/r/seduction27/08/25 03:49 PM
16

I mean that was four days ago so we will see lol. She is making me dinner at her house tonight so off to a good start.
/r/seduction27/08/25 12:32 PM
15

Well, I met a girl from hinge and we talked for a week before we finally met. We met on Saturday, had a 10/10 date, and then did the deed. Does that not count because I was messaging/texting for a week? Or are you only referring to cold openings?
/r/seduction27/08/25 12:10 PM
12

This just comes with experience. You’ll comment on what she said and bounce off of it. Keep the conversation about her. You’ll get better the more you do it.
/r/seduction27/08/25 12:20 AM
2

Could very well have just been nothing you could have controlled. Go find another girl more interested 🤘
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:07 PM
1

This commenter is just a miserable jerk, ignore them.
/r/seduction25/08/25 07:45 PM
0

Something about the interaction just made her not that interested. Maybe you were too eager and too available. Regardless, onto the next one my man!
/r/seduction25/08/25 07:36 PM
9

Couldn’t you just ask your roommate for his number or did you not want your roommate to know? But yes, asking him to help you with something will totally work. Proximity is power, just be close to each other and display interest through touch. This will be simple.
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:33 PM
74

You’re a girl, the chance of being able to pull this off is quite high. But you should reach out to him and ask if he wants to hang. I wouldn’t just try to leave hints, guys are terrible with that stuff.
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:27 PM
1

Sometimes I just have it clean up my replies I came up with on my own too before sending them
/r/seduction22/08/25 05:03 PM
1

I do and it works wonderfully. They give you multiple options and then just choose the one that works for you. But I also don’t write erotica lol
/r/seduction22/08/25 03:11 PM
17

Girls make rules for weak guys and break rules for chads.
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:19 PM
57

Check out. They will lower their standards if they are into you enough or she will be gone and you aren’t wasting your time. Never change who you are.
/r/seduction21/08/25 06:35 PM
-1

Ask ChatGPT to help you with responses. You want to flirt and tease but remember the goal is ultimately to get a date. Once the date is secured, there is little reason to keep texting them. You can only mess things up from there.
/r/seduction21/08/25 01:24 AM
4

Correct, that’s an excellent attitude. Try different things and take mental notes on what does and doesn’t work. The hardest part is just starting the conversation. If you at least talked to them, you have my respect regardless of the outcome 🫡
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:38 PM
9

Go to bars, game ultimately is what matters. And game just improves with experience, anyone can do it.
/r/seduction20/08/25 06:23 PM
2

Guys that do it in the morning usually have a schedule that doesn’t involve them getting up that early would be my guess. But I don’t usually ask my bros when they fap. The fact that you know when your dude friends jack it as their women friend is actually hilarious.
/r/seduction20/08/25 01:07 AM
15

This is the best post of the week. Normally as a guy, we just ignore it. We don’t usually fap in the morning, you’re too tired and have to begin your day. You’ll just continue on your morning routine and not think of it really. The boner will just naturally go away as you brush your teeth and such. But if you wake up with a girl, well that’s a whole other story 😏
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:47 AM
11

Do you try to kiss your bros?
/r/seduction19/08/25 11:14 PM
1

Gradual escalation. She probably doesn't have strong feelings of putting you in the flirty or friend zone yet. In regards to your second question, I wouldn't worry too much as long as you take it slow. Maybe a couple of your other coworkers can go for after work drinks and you can invite her. Invite her to something you were already doing. Don't make the plans for her.
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:40 PM
2

I understand my man. Try to surround yourself with friends and family. You might lonely otherwise in this transition period.
/r/seduction15/08/25 09:56 PM
57

Walk away. These problems only get worse over time, not better.
/r/seduction15/08/25 03:18 PM
3

I can see that. I’m more about the gradual build up personally but I definitely respect it 🫡
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:55 PM
7

What scenario are we talking here? A random man walks up to you in the streets, says “let’s fuck”, and you would be about it?
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:44 PM
6

No. And if I did, it wouldn’t have worked out. Women want to feel safe with the guy they are with. Being that blunt that early on just screams red alert for them.
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:32 PM
20

What girl is going to give positive reviews to a guy she didn’t end up with? That would be just admitting she fumbled the bag.
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:21 PM
4

That’s probably due to some “nice guy” weak guy vibes you might be giving off.
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:32 AM
3

I mostly agree but you should still try to keep yourself a mystery I think. Keep the topic on her and less on you IMO.
/r/seduction08/08/25 12:57 AM
0

I believe it haha never really thought much of it because it doesn’t apply to me
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:16 PM
-1

You might be right. I don’t play music but always thought that girls liked instruments like that.
/r/seduction06/08/25 07:36 PM
-2

Idk, sometimes you don’t want to jump right into the banging, right? Netflix and chill usually at least has a few minutes of Netflix, doesn’t it?
/r/seduction06/08/25 07:24 PM
1

This reads like it was written by a 12 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:14 AM
8

100%
/r/seduction02/08/25 02:46 PM
1

Think of texting as only for setting up a date. The more you talk, the less interesting you’ll see.
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:45 PM
1

I’m not concerned about how my food feels about the situation. I’m pretty sure me eating them is pretty nonconcentual lol. But I do want the person I hook up with to actually want to hook up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:57 PM
1

Thank you, I’m new here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:17 AM
2

I agree with all except “she will make the conversation easy”. Some women are just terribly boring conversationalists lol
/r/seduction28/07/25 12:15 AM
1

What does “men are not a monolith” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:10 AM
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<image> “Is actually beneficial for us”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:55 PM
2

I love the chase, it’s all part of the game. I don’t like to just skip right to the final boss. It’s all about the journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:29 PM
15

That’s not something I would do because half the thrill of getting sex is knowing that you had to get a girl to want to do that with you. If you just paid a girl, I feel like it takes away all the sense of accomplishment. To me, it feels like using pay2win in a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:04 PM
1

Nailed it
/r/seduction27/07/25 09:18 PM
7

Exactly. She’s also under the impression that more men are red pill than aren’t which isn’t true either. I would say 80% are either blue or purple. I was purple until my divorce changed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:55 PM
16

The point of red pill is not to be involuntary single lol. The point is to just not put women on a pedestal and disrespect yourself for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:27 PM
1

Parents I get. But having your boyfriend pay those bills is absolutely disgusting. I’m sure they never get repaid either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:35 PM
5

You’re going to have to explain that last one to me lol. You had a guy you were dating pay your student loans?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:43 AM
2

77% of women ages 18-30 have reported wanting to be approached more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:10 PM
1

Are you even a real person? Every single man I know would love that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:08 PM
1

I’ve watched some, great videos. I particularly liked the one about how most men mess up the first date.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 12:58 AM
0

Am I unable to join this sub? I’m unfamiliar with what quarantined means really.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/25 07:45 PM
1

Am I unable to join this sub? I’m unfamiliar with what quarantined means really.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/25 07:45 PM
1

Regret getting divorced? No chance, I just cannot wait for it to be over. Living together is awful.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 12:39 PM
7

Considering a great number of this sub is against marriage (myself included), I wouldn’t worry. I’ve never seen any post about religion other than this one.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 05:32 PM
2

Option C- Neither. If you take back a girl that dumped you, she will never respect you. And the girlfriend doesn’t respect you enough either to show up for an important event. Respect yourself and be single.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 02:12 PM
2

Just watched a Happy Wife School video, good stuff! In your opinion, what makes this not red pill content? Or is your point moreso to find content that maintains the right balance?
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 12:52 AM
2

It’s in the list 👍
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 12:45 AM
3

Pyschacks is the channel, right?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 11:18 PM
2

Thank you 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 11:17 PM
1

Never stick around a cheater. They will only lose respect for you and think they can get away with anything. You’ll be a doormat.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 03:26 PM
2

Congratulations on your upcoming freedom! You’ll only be happier when it’s all said and done.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 03:20 PM
2

I’m still under the divorce process and wouldn’t have don’t much differently. I just will never get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 03:19 PM
1

This is excellent advice
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 03:17 PM
2

I’m shocked at the amount of people here that don’t just sell it lol that’s my plan
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 03:13 PM
3

How was the final straw not the day you found out she cheated? Screw her. Congrats on your upcoming freedom! Mine is coming soon too 🤞Your life is only going to get better my man!
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 03:10 PM
5

I’m also not living with someone ever again either other than my baby daughter. I’m excited for the upcoming freedom!
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 11:54 AM
6

I’m not getting married again 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 11:19 AM
3

Thank you but right now I don’t want to ever be married or live with someone ever again
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 10:57 AM
1

What should I be careful of?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 10:47 AM
4

She’s mentally ill, it just is what it is. I have a daughter too and I couldn’t imagine ever doing anything like that. My STBXW has mental issues but I am thankful that loving our daughter is not one of them. Some people just have the wrong screws in their head.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 01:12 AM
2

I’ve only watched one video but so far I like him. He balances the fine line of not being a sleezeball like other pickup artists and not being a pushover like with blue pill content.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 12:47 AM
1

Much appreciated my man! Any videos in particular I should prioritize?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 12:18 AM
3

Just subscribed and am watching now, thank you! Starting with the most popular videos 👍
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 11:39 PM
0

Great story man. Half the battle is just being there. On a side note, her instagram story would have told you if she was actually going back to Boston the next day probably. Not that it matters lol
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:50 AM
1

That’s good man! I’m mid divorce now and my STBXW cut off the sex years ago. Outside of having our child, it became an annual occurrence.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 01:24 AM
1

Congratulations, this is great news! You are free! You now can do whatever you want in your life without worry or judgement!
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 08:21 PM
2

Your job is not to make her happy. You both have a responsibility to make yourself happy. Do you have a dead bedroom? That is grounds for divorce. You not being happy is grounds for divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 08:12 PM
2

There’s no point at all. One bit of power men have is the power to walk away. Don’t let the government take that from you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 07:55 PM
3

I want to do this after my divorce is done 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 04:28 PM
1

I hope things have improved 118 days later my friend
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 01:37 AM
4

That’s what they call “when your smile doesn’t reach your eyes”. Puts on a face but she is unhappy on the inside.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/22 11:37 AM
1

My comment is sarcasm.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/22 04:03 PM
2

I imagine this is how most people try to be. Keep the good and drop the bad.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/22 02:50 PM
11

Agreed, I’m different than my parents in many ways. But I’d say statistically you are more likely to be like your parents in more ways than you aren’t. This of course isn’t 100% of the time by any means. Also this isn’t a serious comment.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/22 12:46 PM
257

We don’t date them, they don’t conceive. They don’t conceive, they don’t make more of them. Keep playing the long game fellas.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/22 11:52 AM
3

You’re both cringe.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/22 08:46 PM
20

No, we break the windows.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/21 03:09 PM
2

He’s a murderer, he instantly loses any benefit of the doubt. This doesn’t belong here.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/12/21 01:36 PM
3

I won’t let you down. Probably. Maybe. I hope.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/21 01:09 AM
77

This isn’t directed at the OP but instead the comments. Don’t play the victim card otherwise you become what we insult.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/21 06:33 PM
8

99% sure that’s a guy
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 10:18 PM
4

There’s really no person worse than one that gets offended by a comedian.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 11:36 AM
1

You guys don’t understand how this works. Sure the pussy pass might get denied but the almighty dollar never will be.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/21 12:17 PM
2

You know she started out pretty mature texting that. Until well, you know, her response and posting it. Most would just ghost someone though. Had to give props where props were due though.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 05:04 PM
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