Former doormat here getting divorced and trying to be better. Anyone know any other good channels like SSM?

GlitteringPlatform79 · 2025-07-13T06:01:13+00:00

Understand the exhaustion, but you need to fight for long term relationships. The money is separate from the kids. You will regret.

probebeta · 2025-07-13T01:10:37+00:00

AMS is entertaining on YouTube. Rollo, rich cooper, George Bruno, taraban. I wouldn't dwell much on how ruthless the world out there is though. It sure does help spot the BS though, and there is A LOT of that.

Far_Baseball_8037 · 2025-07-11T23:07:14+00:00

My brother is what you would call a doormat, but his wife absolutely adores him. She’s kind of the same way and to be honest i wish i had that. I left my wife of 10 yrs because i stopped being a doormat, what I didn’t realize was I wasn’t a doormat to her. I was a doormat to my job and blamed her for it. I wouldn’t read any books, you’re already in a good place to start again. I found love instantly, and she finally accepted the fact it wasn’t her fault. If there is anything I would do differently was to continue to show up for her. She continually did that for me and I was horrible to her, she even paid me back for every dollar I gave her in alimony because my new gf had 4 kids.

Ok-Cause1108 · 2025-07-11T04:52:29+00:00

I'd skip all the red pill garbage being suggested if you want to be successful with women.

Instead checkout Corey Wayne or Doc Love (lots of overlap bewteen these two). Once you understand women and how they communicate it is life on easy mode.

playerknowmore · 2025-07-11T01:08:18+00:00

Lost Love Chronicles has a lot of stories for men looking to level up.

blinkyvx · 2025-07-11T00:12:52+00:00

Read no more mr nice guy by Dr. Robert, glover

Upstairs-Pizza-1843 · 2025-07-10T14:30:25+00:00

John Griffin (Life 2.0)

Able_Buy_7859 · 2025-07-10T10:52:52+00:00

I don't believe it's possible to have a modern relationship without being a doormat. It's how we men have been brainwashed and it's what the women expect from us. I am done with being a doormat for women. I can't do it anymore.

Sad_Beautiful9183 · 2025-07-10T05:08:04+00:00

Orion Taraban

It's not always pleasant, but it is always accurate.

Noobinpro · 2025-07-10T04:33:04+00:00

Aaron Clarey, Rollo tomasi, rich cooper

No_Pen_3200 · 2025-07-10T03:46:46+00:00

Try coda. It’s a 12 step for codependency. The only requirement for attending is wanting a healthy loving relationship.

1millionBURNINGsuns · 2025-07-10T01:42:34+00:00

I’d be careful here. Maybe listen to some The Happy Wife School podcast episodes - also on YouTube but I’m old so yeah.

When we as men start putting the onus of our wives deeply felt unhappiness on ourselves we’re not improving ourselves and giving ourselves the real love and respect we deserve.

Helpful-Paramedic463 · 2025-07-10T00:37:13+00:00

I really like Better Man on TikTok.

Odd-Yoghurt1869 · 2025-07-09T23:20:07+00:00

Mark Sing. The Unapologetic Man Podcast.

He gives hands on, practical advice. Not just "be confident", "approach her", yada yada, but real responses like what to do when you see a hot girl with a fat friend that is cockblocking. Like literally what to say: "you remind me of my cousin, is your name Linda?"

Go, right now.

Able_Buy_7859 · 2025-07-10T12:02:05+00:00

That's a good call. I'm terrified of modern day women. They are dangerous.

Title	Former doormat here getting divorced and trying to be better. Anyone know any other good channels like SSM?
Author	miami2881
Upvotes	13
Comments	40
Date	July 9, 2025 11:17 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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