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Could be many things. In addition to what you've identified a strong contender is you were over invested and not outcome independent
/r/askTRP12/06/20 12:35 PM
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It's not abnormal in the modern context. Look how many guys are on here and either are or have been in a similar position. If you've got the money paying a good CBT therapist can help you deal with this. But it may be better for you do it on your own. I don't know you. But from what I've read you seem to be able to self reflect and modulate your affect. It will be better for your self-esteem/ self image if you overcome this own your own. You've learnt you can survive the rejection. It's no real …
/r/askTRP26/01/20 08:33 AM
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His argument while not worded in a way that eased your anxiety is fairly sound. You should learn from your response to it. You noticed your leg was broken and you fixed it within an hour. You are your own doctor. Don't get me wrong you could see a therapist if you wanted. But you have proved to yourself, or you should have, that you can do this. Why did you panic? Where the thoughts and emotions reasonable? Did they reflect the reality of the situation? These are questions you should ask yoursel…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 08:15 AM
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Read about the psychoanalytic concepts of transference and object relations theory. You're walking around with negative expectations (transference) of how your objects will respond to you. Due to trauma you need to come to terms with this by accepting them and then changing how relate to your external world
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:40 PM
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Imagine you didn't write this post. You've just read this post, that someone else wrote. You've read the sidebar. You have the knowledge, how would you reply to this post? What would you recommend the op do?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:33 AM
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You need to read up on frame my friend. You not only entered his, you cleaned and polished it for him
/r/askTRP03/08/19 10:11 AM
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I second your psychologists claim of emotional instability
/r/askTRP28/06/19 09:56 AM
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Well if you don't want to colour it. It's what you've got, accept it, and dgaf. As you've said, no one else has said anything about it. It's all in your mind. So you've got to fix your mind. Idgaf mentality
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:11 PM
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Time. Just keep at it. Keep focusing on yourself and improving your life. It will be slow. ​ Probably not what you want to hear. But the truth is, if it was easy no one would be depressed.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:26 AM
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Day Bang has got great practical advice. And answers OP's questions.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:41 PM
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Read roosh's day bang
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:11 PM
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Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, imagine her taking a really loose, absolute stinking shit.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 02:39 PM
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You've read enough for now. Get out there and get some experience. ​ Then return to reading for some fine tuning, when you have some experience of what your strengths and weaknesses are.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:51 PM
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Yes, it's normal for a wife who doesn't respect her husband to treat him with disrespect. As apposed to, treating people who she respects with respect.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:11 AM
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Awalt? While there is some variation due to cultural factors, woman are still women. Their nature predates culture by hundreds of thousands, if not millions of years. Woman want to get fucked by a man. That's not the same as a human who happens to have a penis. This is my last reply. As I've said many times now all the answers you need are in the sidebar. Make the sidebar of trp your Bible. Learn it by heart and you won't need to ask these questions
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:41 PM
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The sidebar is the same in all countries. It's the community info. If you're on a lap top or desktop it's all the info on the the right-hand side of your screen. If your on a mobile, on the top left corner there's a little button, push it and select community info. Read everything on the red pill sidebar, then read all the top posts. Then start testing out what you've learnt, and only then start using ask the red pill.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:13 PM
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Have you read and fully understood the sidebar?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:39 PM
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Yeah same answer as before but add setting a sexual frame. Damn just read the whole side bar and all the top posts. All the answer you seek are there. Reread and reread if necessary.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:34 PM
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Well since your the common denominator, it must be something you're doing. I get the impression you're somewhat conscious of this as you're asking the question. But I think you're also trying to shift the blame. You're the man. They will go where you lead them. I suggest you (re)read about escalation, anything on the sidebar or top posts pertaining to escalation. Also the dicarlo escalation ladder, may need to generally search the web. Also, and I think probably more importantly, anything on shi…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:02 PM
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How are they communicating they don't want sex? Are you escalating? Are you getting anywhere with these girls? Kissing, feeling them up, blow job?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:26 PM
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Go to the gym, tease her, kino, fuck her
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:37 PM
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You're only a orbiter if she's getting something from you, but your not from her. Are you driving her around? Do you give her validation?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:47 PM
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Agree with everything you said but it's also the way he conducts his business. I'm recalling this from reading about it awhile ago. Microsoft and Apple were trying to buy some land in Africa, lots of minerals on the land. But neither could finalize the deal because two people claimed to own it. This dragged on for years. Elon walks up and owns it in minutes. Easy, pay both of them. In South America somewhere, the local government were trying to fuck up his operation, probably wanted a payout or …
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:29 AM
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22 years depression is just about overcome for me. Fuck that feels good to write. Follow everything the red pill advices. Lift, eat right, meditate, learn about yourself and how the world works. But be aware it can be a painfully slow process. My journey out of depression started with counseling around 5 years ago. I was a depressed and functional drug addict. Around 3 years ago discovered the trp, I was to cinical to be as blue pulled as a lot of new comers here seem to be. But did effectively …
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:57 AM
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No, he didn't say that. He was suggesting (I think) that obsessing about it isn't helping you. Focus your thoughts on strategies for increasing your smv not what your smv currently is.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:52 AM
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read the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:06 AM
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You're probably deriving validation from it. If so, you should work on that.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:34 AM
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Routine, lists and discipline. With regards to not having a nagging feeling that you're wasting your time, make sure you're clear in your mind why you are doing everything you are doing. Spend some time thinking about it, write your reasons down and refer back to them if necessary.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:01 AM
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Using sources from 1850 and 1890 does not in any way 'state the world hasn't learnt anything new in over 150 years'. If I was to tell you about gravity and used Isaac Newton as a source would this completely invalidate my point in your eyes? Come on! this is pretty basic stuff. -'and definitely not a negative thing' Who said it was negitive? I can't even be bothered reading the rest, you've let your emotion get the better of you (and that's got nothing to do with you being female) The majority o…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:23 PM
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Responding to your first paragraph I suggest you read this with an open and undefensive mind https://no-maam.blogspot.com/2012/06/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in.html No there's no easy answer. From the men's perspective, it's simply about making yourself the best possible version of yourself, learning about female nature so you're (as the man) able to predict and prepare for the effects of hypergamy. Most men on TRP view LTR's and marriages as zero-sum games that are not worth entering, beca…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:21 AM
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-'I have a hard time understanding who and what states that a certain -man is on level 7 or 4. Or a woman a 5 or an 8.' The smp decides. The laws of supply and demand. And at the same time it's about your interpretation of the mans value. Coke is more popular than Pepsi but some people still prefer Pepsi. -'If I have dated an alpha male that ranks around 8, how will I know if -the next man is higher or lower rank?' Well, do you prefer him? If you can't tell, he's probably about the same, at leas…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:53 AM
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You don't have to verbally respond to someone to enter their frame. Your frame exists in your mind, your mind is focused on her frame
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:20 AM
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You respond by not entering her frame. Which it looks like you failed as you're posting questions about it on the internet.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:33 AM
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you pretty much repeated what I said but with an angrier tone
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:04 PM
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Your only option for a two-parent family is to become an MRA and try and change the law and societies view of the family. Even if you achieve this (very unlikely as for the foreseeable future human society will remain gynocentric) it's not likely to happen before your an old man. So as you say, surrogacy or single parent adoption are the only options I see. Sorry, this reply probably wasn't very helpful but it looks like you've thought about this situation enough to know this would be the respon…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:32 PM
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You couldn't get any more in her frame if you used a crowbar
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:16 PM
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If you believe this reply? then why do you want to also 'overcome' this. Seems like a problem related to having a weak frame.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:17 PM
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Eat at a calorie surplus and try Strong Lifts 5x5.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:45 PM
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This is just adrenaline. It's your bodies way of preparing you for fight or flight. You can learn to control and/or alleviate it. Try CBT and mindfulness
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:51 AM
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It depends what other options they've got. How high your SMV is.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:25 AM
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Do you live with your sister?
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:23 AM
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You should start by reading the sidebar on TRP
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:20 AM
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"Would a woman feel ashamed if she lied to me" most wouldn't, but do you really want to be judging yourself by the standards of women? You are a man, and you should do what you think is right. The fact this is on your mind enough to post on Reddit about it, should answer your question. If it's making you uneasy stop it. In your case, the truth really will set you free (from worry at least)
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:13 AM
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Ghost as much as possible. If she catches you somewhere, be polite and end the convo asap and get out
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:56 PM
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Continuing the training analogy, if you want the dog to sit you give a treat when it sits. If you want it to roll over you give it a treat when it rolls over, but not when it sits. So it depends what you want from her, if you only want sex, then yes only give her attention when she has sex with you. This is much more difficult in your situation, as the relationship has operated differently before, she may not take to it now and move on. You want to start a relationship likes this not implement i…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 10:13 AM
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Don't explicitly tell her your boundaries. You have to train her like a dog using your attention as the treats. At the moment you're giving her treats all day no matter what her behaviour, via the texts. You know what to do but don't want to hear it. You've set this post up in your mind so anyone telling you "it's an ex, move on" is not a 'serious response'. Unless someone is telling you "this is what you need to do to keep THIS girl. You are going to dismiss it as invalid. You seem to have some…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 08:10 AM
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If you're good looking? Call boys earn good money and there are lots of rich gays around.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:46 PM
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No. It's inherent but not evil
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:14 PM
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hope is for people incapable of rational thought
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:08 PM
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Can you link to the archive please?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:51 PM
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The unanimous advice is, she cheated on you. But you don't want to hear it. You've got oneitis and don't want to believe it.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:21 PM
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Dude she cheated on you. Tell her she has to tell the police. Tell her he's dangerous and might hurt someone. She definitely won't want to go to the police because there was no crime. Tell her you're going to go and confront him about it and she will say "no don't he wants you to think I'm cheating on you" So you just have to believe her Come on
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:18 PM
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No reason apart from the hickey on her neck
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:11 PM
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So he told her not to tell you what happened, but he also wanted you to think she was cheating?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:08 PM
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Did he ask her out, she said no, and then he assaulted her. Or he asked her out before (say 2 weeks ago) then he sees her again and attacks her?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:05 PM
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Why would he want you to think she was cheating?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:56 PM
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No, not yet. Wait until she presses her left boob on to your right arm walks around the other side and the presses her right boob on to your left arm. This is internationally recognised signal for wanting to fuck.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:08 PM
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What happened with the kidnapped girlfriend story? any updates?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:38 PM
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Write it down on a bit of paper, get really drunk and then hide it somewhere. When you sober up you won't be able to find it
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:10 PM
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It depends what you want? You've probably got a chance to fuck her. How big a chance that is, depends on how she views you, do you display high enough SMV, is she horny that evening, how good your game is etc next time just escalate, if she rejects you, you just move on to the next chick. Learn from this experience and do better next time
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:52 PM
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but after touching her arms you need to move to touch her face or hair. You escalate in terms of intimacy. You don't go from touching arms to kiss. Read up on the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder O.K normally TRP advice is don't fuck around with co-workers. If the job isn't important and you can deal with a bad reputation or losing the job maybe that advice can be ignored.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:06 PM
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All you can do is try again. You won't know otherwise. Do you know the escalation ladder? You don't want to dive straight in and grab her tits. Start off by touching her arms or lower back. If she is receptive move on to her etc etc etc After re-reading your post I see this girl works with you. Is this job important for your career? or is a part-time thing while at university?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:47 PM
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This girl had a boyfriend. But was away from home and took the opportunity to have some fun. etc etc etc Under the right circumstances AWALT. Or there are no unicorns
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:36 PM
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She's fucking chad and you're her emotional tampon. You know what you did wrong. You didn't escalate. It's up to you if you want to try again or not
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:31 PM
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"I hope there is a better one" re-read about AWALT
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:01 PM
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If you've read it all you should know what to do. Stop texting her, you've giving her validation without her having to work for it. Move on, there are plenty more fish in the sea
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:33 PM
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Read up about why LDR don't work and why texting should only be for logicists
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:26 PM
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Getting better plates is never going to be a bad thing. But you have to develop some awareness for when your catching oneitis. It should have been clear to you when you started thinking about your FwB in terms of "oh she's so pretty" "she's 2 points higher than my other plates" "urgh I don't even want to see them anymore" "she's the one I want to fuck" that you were heading for trouble.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:36 AM
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Your answer to why this happened is in the second sentence of the above reply
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:21 AM
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Make sure you buy and put on the condoms from now on. Flush them down the toilet when you're finished
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:31 AM
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What was your goal with this girl? Did you want a relationship with her? Or was she just a plate? It's hard to say without actually being there, but, the two most likely reasons to me are, (1) You were incongruent - this post reads like you have a bit of oneitis but were then acting aloof. Making you seem untrustworthy. (2)Or she's looking for LTR and she thought you weren't serious about her.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:41 AM
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Maybe too far the other way then. She needed more comfort. Were you aware of many comfort tests?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:22 AM
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The reason you are invisible is because of your mindset. Read your last paragraph. Why would any woman be interested in a guy who thinks that about himself?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:08 AM
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She wanted you for her BB. You've got to set the right tone early on, you were obviously sending some form of beta signal, for her to feel that's your role. If you really need the hoodie, then tell her that in the first text. Get your hoodie. Then no contact. It's over
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:03 AM
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Before you make any drastic decisions, speak to her again to today and get her to retell the story, just to check for inconsistencies or the start of trickle truth.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:57 AM
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Sex God Method. DEVI is a system used in the book
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:47 PM
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Would you bite if I skull fucked you?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 09:14 AM
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If you truly loved us... You'd hit return!!
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 06:39 PM
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Type oneitis in the search bar. I'm pretty sure in the askTRP subreddit there's some posts in the sidebar about getting over your oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:09 PM
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You've never had pleasure from sex with anyone or just him?
/r/askTRP09/12/17 05:50 PM
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The Way of Men by Jack Donavan
/r/askTRP22/08/17 03:41 PM
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use google scholar to search for scientific studies that contain the terms alpha male, wage gap, female attraction to dark triad etc etc etc
/r/askTRP20/08/17 12:16 AM
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So she implicitly told you she's never had them before. Why did she say computer? that's pretty specific. What made her think this computer would give her herpes? Was it slutty looking? Don't talk to her about it anymore. Let her think you couldn't care less. Take your time and decide what you want to do.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:32 PM
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And I would guess she's never had them before, otherwise, she wouldn't go to the doctor she'd just go to the chemist and pick up some cream. You need to find out, without making her suspicious, if she ever had them before you knew her
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:04 PM
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If you get a sore in your mouth it's a canker sore, not a cold sore. Canker sores are not herpes and can not be transmitted. On or around the lips is a cold sore and is a form of herpes.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 08:11 PM
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The fact she went to the doctor indicates she hasn't had them before. If she hasn't had them before? and you haven't got them? It looks like she caught them off someone else. They don't just appear, they need to be transmitted by an infected person.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 07:55 PM
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By making yourself adequate. Then carry on, making yourself more than adequate. It's hard work but the only way that works long term.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 08:07 PM
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I don't know, I thought I did? Were you not trying to say when you're on a stage your higher (As the stage is elevated) than everyone else (who is at floor level). Thus making your shortness a non-issue.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:45 PM
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I admitted it was pedantic. And stated I understood his point. What's with the white knighting? Looking for love from daddy?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:08 PM
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A bit pedantic I'll agree but I can't resist. 'You're taller than everybody else when you're standing on a stage.' Standing on a stage does not make you taller. If you are 5'6 at sea level you are 5'6 at the peak of Mt Everest. That being said I know what you mean. Maybe you should've said 'If you're standing on a stage you'll be looking down on everyone else.'
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:00 PM
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It's been awhile since I read Mastery so this is from memory. I would say, you have to build a foundation, playing the guitar to an exceptional standard for instance, from this process your knowledge will already begin expanding into other areas like musical theory and using recording software. Learning the guitar would have given you insight into the best way you learn and resilience to overcome frustrating plateaus. You then use these skills to master other areas with overlap. To answer your q…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:28 PM
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If you haven't?, then you have to read Mastery by Robert Green. As you could probably guess from the title it's a blue print for attaining mastery.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:50 PM
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I suffered with anxiety and depression for 15 years. I experienced some form of anxiety even on my best days, during this period. 2 years ago I started counselling/therapy. 8 Months ago I stopped self-medicating with drink and drugs. 7 months ago I started mindfulness meditation. 4 Months ago I started working out and massively improved my diet. 3 months ago I started learning and implementing Stoic philosophy. And I've never felt better. I can see from your post that you lift, and that's great,…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 03:29 PM
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Yeah I was a bit drunk by this point can't really follow my train thought myself either, now it's the next day.
/r/MGTOW04/06/16 09:36 AM
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Don't try and logic her into it, that would be illogical. Using logic doesn't mean you have to 'win' every interaction. If she's just generally a cunt she might not care about your sisters wedding. If she isn't doing her job ask to speak to her boss. otherwise the next guys going to have to deal with this cunt as well.
/r/MGTOW03/06/16 07:53 PM
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I think he means in the sense that we have taken the red pill, we see the truth. A new atheist can be said to have taken the red pill. Anyone who now see's the matrix for what it is.
/r/MGTOW02/06/16 02:32 PM
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I understand at first to some it may make life uninteresting but as the saying goes "only boring people are bored". If your life has revolved around the pursuit of the opposite sex then you will have a bit of a hole in your life. But this can be filled with wonders a thousand times more interesting and actually based in reality. Failing that you can use your new found knowledge of social dynamics to take over the world.
/r/MGTOW02/06/16 09:16 AM
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I don't know if you understood OP's point.
/r/MGTOW01/06/16 12:50 PM
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Thanks that's much easier
/r/MGTOW01/06/16 08:46 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/SnapshillBot/comments/4jb1ik/add_request_rmgtow/
/r/MGTOW31/05/16 11:42 PM
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Sadly I'd be charged with a crime if I told you, as I live in the uk. No joke. But I can point you towards this vid https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyIIDZGHuqQ
/r/MGTOW31/05/16 10:03 PM
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Yes I've had this happen, and they'll get their friends around them to back up the notion that they are attractive and irresistible and you must be gay to not be interested. Even in our modern and 'enlightened' times there was still an amount of shaming aimed at me, for in their minds me being gay. Although this is most likely a release for emotional pain caused by being attracted to man they couldn't have. I'm not proud of it but this part actually made me kind of happy.
/r/MGTOW31/05/16 09:43 PM
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Not boring at all, it's encouraging to see the spread of mgtow to all communities and cultures and enlightening to hear about it from different perspectives. Thanks for posting
/r/MGTOW22/05/16 12:35 PM
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I see the point you're trying to make but Yoko isn't Juilens Mother.
/r/MGTOW22/05/16 12:05 PM
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Yeah I did mean Demos Cratos. That's what I was implying by saying if only we could implement it.
/r/MGTOW03/04/16 11:08 AM
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It can be hard sometimes, especially with family. Stay strong brother
/r/MGTOW26/02/16 09:47 PM
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