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At first I thought this could be a coincidence because ChatGPT introduces noise into its answers. But then I noticed both questions were asked within the same session, which is ridiculous. The model favours women's rights over men's rights.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 10:30 PM
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Not true. Feminists say "cis white old men" all the time.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 12:33 AM
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Sounds fake af
/r/MensRights12/10/23 12:30 AM
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The problem with the "ick", as much as I hate it, is that it perfectly describes how women operate. If you do one thing wrong as a man you instantly repel a woman and she will never talk to you again. You even disgust her. Women are so sensitive and unpredictable it's very hard to maintain a relationship with them.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 12:20 AM
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If you ask me using women and children is the best way to spread propaganda because people emphasize the most with them. It doesn't matter if it's good or bad propaganda. It's propaganda.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 12:10 AM
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A person from the west wrote this article for your information. This comes directly from his/her head.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 10:20 PM
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You think a man can defend himself from a blast of bombs coming from the sky? Do you think an unarmed man can defend himself from another armed man? Also can you shut the fuck up?
/r/MensRights11/10/23 03:12 PM
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But it's a German article
/r/MensRights11/10/23 12:44 PM
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I wouldn't care as much if this was some arbitrary article but this is an article about war. And it clearly shows that in war, men are put below women when it comes to their right to be safe.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 09:29 PM
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Sadly I have to agree and that's just stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:30 PM
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Personally I have quite a bit of experience flirting with women but I'm just so fucking lazy to put in so much energy. Sometimes I'm just a normal decent human and if they don't reciprocate that normal attention I give them then they are not worth my time. Just came to my mind that the energy you must put in at day 1 will be the same energy you must put in at day 30. If it feels right from day 1 then it's probable that it will feel more or less right after (disregarding the admire and dump sort …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:03 AM
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AI or any hard coded algorithm can find similarities in hobbies and just in general. You describe your preferences and BOOM, the algorithm spits out some best-fits. Technically this has been possible since day 0. In practice, this is not profitable for companies and so they rather make it toxic but profitable. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:59 AM
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Studies have shown that children raised with only a father are more successful and balanced than children raised with just a mother.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 01:33 AM
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What are you talking about? That tweet is about a boy killing a girl and how misogyny is responsible. OP refers to more boys being killed in general but no mention of how many women are the killers.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 11:23 AM
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I also just recently saw a post like that on Facebook about Leonardo DiCaprio. If the roles were reversed it would have been a shitstorm.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 02:55 PM
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Buzzfeed used to fight for women's rights but now it's just bashing and attacking personally everybody they disagree with. The "half-bald" statement is just plain mean and discriminative.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 02:18 PM
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I really like the work you put into researching and your posts are quality-wise top-notch. But man.. (1) you gotta really ignore these little trolls, (2) blocking and arguing with that person? that's just childish, (3) the troll obviously talked about inter-sexual murderers and not intra-sexual murderers, so the data you present is valid but it's not a counterargument. I very much support men's rights but if we want to be taken seriously we have to stop picking some individual feminist trolls be…
/r/MensRights03/10/23 02:16 PM
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If you're in a feminist bubble, reading about feminist propaganda all the time, you will always get your actions be interpreted as harassment. Why even be surprised that you got that reaction? It was predictable.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 07:17 PM
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I noticed this trend that whenever women sing about love songs it's "I'm here with another guy trying to fill the void" or "I don't need you anymore". Always giving me emancipation vibes, self-centrism in disguise. Guys always sing about her and about how they are sorry. (this doesn't apply to hip hop btw.)
/r/MensRights25/09/23 12:55 PM
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I've been happier than ever being single. I just need sex once in a while but I by no means need somebody who tells me how to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:53 PM
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I 100% support this but I also know that things won't turn out well because immature women are high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:51 PM
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This is the no. 1 argument against the entirety of feminism. Men are the product of female selection.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:45 PM
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They don't actually think they are virgins. In my opinion they only weaponize the word "incel" to insult people (who even aren't incels).
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:42 PM
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Yeah, friends with benefits is excellent but it usually doesn't work. There's always jealousy or somebody wanting more.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 09:44 PM
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Yeah I totally agree. I can just tell you my perspective. I do agree that humans, male of female, are equally malevous. But what really feels discriminative as a man is not getting any attention at all. You really have no idea what it feels like. I guess "disrespected" is not the proper term that affects only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:00 PM
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Okay but what the fuck does the next thing he speaks about, people claiming Stone Hedge was built by black people, have to do with anything at all? I agree that woman was diluded but on a serious note, that guy is just looking for a fight. What a cheap video. If we want to fight for men's rights we should stop promoting this kind of crap.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 04:56 PM
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Being single I've been happier than ever. I always thought I need a girlfriend but after 3 years-long relationships I realized I really just need sex and that the girlfriends all have kept me from growing on a personal level. I've been shamed for my hobbies and things that make me unique by all three of them. Honestly, I just prefer being authentic than having somebody tell me what to do.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 04:48 PM
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Initiating conversation and then just ghosting, being plain mean, being sarcastic, generalizing, being sexist. These are all disrespectful. You just have to swipe through women's profiles and every 4th or so will have some disrespectful statement such as "you better be funny" or on the extreme case "fuck you" or similar. This is standard. You just have to ask every guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:39 PM
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Because, only speaking about online-dating, their standards make them arrogant as fuck. I'm being disrespected all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:33 PM
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At least you get more respect and aren't shit tested as much. Recently got a new girlfriend from Thailand and she's much more respectful than my previous three European girlfriends. She values my time and hobbies.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 11:50 PM
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The world is full of psychological bias. If it wasn't then we would be living in the heat death period of the universe. There's no way around it.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 04:09 PM
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"83% as much" is misleading. You would phrase it like that if men were harassed more than women. E.g. if you're 20 years old and somebody says "he's 50% older than you" then he would be 30 years old.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 11:22 AM
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Hillary: "Women are the main victims of war. They lose their husbands in war"
/r/MensRights15/09/23 11:19 AM
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I think that the only reason feminism is popular is that women are more emotional and child-like. They express their pain much more than men. And who do you have more sympathy for? Emotional and child-like (or rather "children") people. Those who seem weaker of course, but don't necessarily have to be. We also often falsely attribute physical weakness with weakness overall.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 11:16 AM
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From a rhethorical and linguistical perspective. What exactly is bad about saying "female"? Is it because you usually connotate this word with animals and when it's about humans you would say "women"?
/r/MensRights15/09/23 11:11 AM
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The fact it's still called "feminism" and it claims it strives for equality is sexist by itself.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 10:47 AM
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My now fourth girlfriend is from Thailand and let me tell you. She's a whole lot different from my previous girlfriends and casual relationships. She respects my hobbies and pretty much everything that makes me unique. She's such a sweet person and she even respects me for being low-energy due to work and stress. Every single of my past relationships made fun of my hobbies or anything that wasn't the typical drinking pina coladas (or Aperol Spritz) at the beach. Instead of taking my energy she a…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 10:46 AM
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Oh shit. He has some valid points tho.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 04:57 PM
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I work in biotech and we have more women than men. Our statistics professor favoured women over men when sending them to another country for an Erasmus semester. Yet, there have been plenty of articles about how "we need more women in biotech". I see countless of colleagues on LinkedIn post about female empowerment in the biotech industry.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 03:22 PM
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Men with Dark Triad personality traits are more desirable by women. Which makes them morally evil men. Science.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:09 PM
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They're also not my cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:36 PM
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Well, I mean, I tried being pickier in my choices but it led to drastically less success. So no. Not unless we get a cultural revolution but that's wishful thinking at this stage where feminism is the dominant culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:40 PM
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I seriously believe that all the 90s shows with the main characters being absolute losers shaped the men of today. And people were raised with this illusion that being a nice simp will always get you the lady and not the bad boy. I think that's why there are so many "good guys" these days who value morals over their success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:37 PM
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My ex-girlfriend reading this ridiculous romance really showed a lot about her personality. It annoyed me the moment I found out what she reads but I tried to swallow it because it's not my business. But every aspect of hers I predicted came reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:35 PM
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I think it comes down to "you want what you don't/can't have"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:31 PM
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Not just in America but also in Germany. The amount of disrespect in online dating is really beyond belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:29 PM
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If by "they can biologically sit still just fine" you mean doing so while at the same time getting mental health problems and aggressions then sure, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:33 AM
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They're fine with it because they were trimmed to do it. That's the reason. Our society revolves around sitting still. If you want to be financially successful you have to sit still.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:24 AM
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Uhhhh. The only reason it's not as popular is because people are obese and/or lazy. And people are obese and/or lazy because today's society is a shit hole that doesn't give men (and women) enough opportunities to move. But especially men, because biologically they cannot sit still long enough compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:11 AM
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Okay. I just noticed that you might be from the black community. In that case i'd say you're right. Black people usually love dancing, more than white people. If you've ever been to Germany, the classical male guy really dislikes dancing and the classical female girl likes or loves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:56 AM
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Aren't as popular? Sport is universal. Men thrive for sports. We love it. Have you ever done sports in school with boys? Did you ever throw a ball into a hallway and see all the boys throw themselves at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:48 AM
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Now can you put that into relation? How many guys love dancing and how many girls? That was my only point. I don't care if you know a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:23 AM
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Doing sports is also universal. Why does dating not revolve around playing football together? It's the exact. Literal. Opposite. A guy loving to get admired for his skills and the woman observing him. It's especially appealing for obvious reasons. I'm just saying that the ritual of dancing was just set at some point and then never questioned. It's female-centered. There's no doubt. More women than men enjoy dancing. And it's one of the main rituals for mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:22 AM
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Man, I also dislike the communities in these games and that's why I don't play them. I was just mentioning it because it's the most classic example to choose. Yes, you live in a gamer environment but you aren't the norm. And you hang around with other gamers. Therefore you disagree. But you know what? In overall I agree with you. Women like you are out there and I just have to find them. But what I do think: they are quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:17 AM
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I have a few exes and she was special in that regard. She is the minority. You can't deny. Also as I said that statistic is distorted. There is no way 86% of girls my age play league of legends or any game that is as big as that one. It's a lifestyle. "I play videogames" and then playing candy crush is not a lifestyle and it does not equal "playing videogames". According to that analogy I'm also a dentist because I brush my teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:59 AM
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I guess you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:57 AM
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Fair point. I seem to live in the wrong generation then. My ex girlfriend played a lot with me and I loved her strongly. Best relationship. But she was also the dancer one. But also: this statistic is certainly skewed because it surely involves smaller mobile games like candy crush. I cannot believe so many girls actively play bigger games. Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:48 AM
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Getting a girlfriend isn't the hard part. It's maintaining her. They are so high maintenance. Especially the attractive ones. And the attractive ones almost always want to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:45 AM
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In tendence, statistically, I'm not wrong. In tendence more women are like that compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:38 AM
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I think we live in neither but that there is discrimination both against men and women. But I do think that discrimination against men is underreported by far.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 11:25 AM
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"We look forward to clearing Justin’s name and helping him move forward as swiftly as possible.” I read "shwifty"
/r/MensRights20/08/23 10:38 AM
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Your best chance to seem not boring is to go out with your friends and have a good time. Just like the cheerleader effect this will 100% make you more attractive. If a woman likes you she will want to take part in that group and be as cool as you. Most women groups are boring as hell and male friends groups are always the main thing. They only look down on you when you're alone, except if you actively engage in social situations by for example talking to a whole friends group and asking if you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:26 AM
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Emotionally (and financially) supported my ex for several months because she was depressed. I then had panic attacks and intense stress for a couple of weeks and she left me because "she doesn't want to feel like my mom or therapist". The other got angry with me being sad for my health problems that doctors have no cure for. "You're old enough to take this into your own hands". And also called me a child for not bringing suncream on vacations and asking her if she could borrow me.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:24 PM
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Sorry to say but it sounds fake.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:21 PM
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Bro, absolutely. Perfect woman. I'm actually turned off by what most consider "attractive". The model-type woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:57 PM
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I noticed female friends giving me lots of emotional support actually. I can't confirm this and would say the opposite actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:56 PM
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I really wanted to end our phone call the moment she started talking about this but she seemed really excited to talk to me about her personal life and didn't want to make it seem like something like this bothered me. So I endured listening to her the whole time and pretended like what she was talking about had no effect on me. This is where you shot yourself in the knee. Have some self-dignity. You should have told her and just hung up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:47 PM
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I dislike saying I'm "above average" that's why I said I'm at least average. And if you do the math "up to 50 percent of men" can include 1% of most attractive men. It depends on what direction of the distribution you come from. I was referring to the upper 50%. Also I'm certainly not the only one who thinks "meh" sounds arrogant. I wouldn't say "meh" to anybody because it's demeaning. You can't deny that. Saying "meh" to a situation is okay, but you can't just consider somebody "meh" without ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:50 AM
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Yeah, I'm aware of the quasi-random shuffling. In fact I almost implemented it into an algorithm myself :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:47 AM
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Technically it would be easy to implement a such algorithm. Machine Learning or just hardcoding similarities make this possible by your average Indian data science enthusiast. But you're right. It's not profitable. Did you know that in order to recommend similar songs Spotify just searches for the next close playlist from some other random person?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:18 AM
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According to this website where people vote on somebodies attractiveness I got a solid 8/10 for looks but only 6/10 for trustworthiness and intelligence. I get it, I don't like smiling to the camera because I'm not photogenic. And I'm only 5.68 feet. My intelligence is average so nothing to say here. But my photos were well-planned, with friends, even me smiling nicely and just being friendly like I mostly am. My profile text is friendly, funny and rich in information. I have lots of hobbies, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:07 AM
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Another problem is as soon as a perfect dating app comes into place the attractive/serious persons are all gone and this shifts the attention to those McDonalds dating apps. It's an equilibrium where good dating apps occupy no place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:51 AM
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The problem with industries is jargon and numbers turn real-world problems in nothing but a game. You sit in your office and talk about statistics, highly abstract terms and return of investment, but you simply forget what it's all about. I think industries purposely work this way because they wouldn't work otherwise. The bigger the industry, the more intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:46 AM
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On the other hand this might be due to women simply going to the toilet more often. The queues for women's toilet are usually way longer.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:36 AM
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Watched a video yesterday: "The Hiroshima bomb killed primarily women and children" Children, okay, but do you ever hear: "The Blitzkrieg primarily killed young men"?
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:35 AM
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Duh, she was crazy af. Lots of other things I could tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:43 PM
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While I appreciate these posts I think you should definitely get rid of these sarcastic remarks in the last slide: "Yass Queen", etc. It makes it from being totally understandable to cynical. It's a reason to instantly not take this serious anymore. Not by me, I do, but by people outside of this community. It's a serious issue and should be stated as such. It seems like the next Buzzword or VICE because it's way too polarizing and achieves the exact opposite of what it should. Kind of disappoint…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 02:11 PM
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Astrology and superstition woman wanted me to insert it blank and when I refused to she said "you're the first from my former 5 who refused to insert it blank".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:52 PM
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Who are you to say they are not high quality? It's all the beautiful girls. Men look for beautiful girls more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:51 PM
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Men are the process, women are the device.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:35 AM
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Why? Because it doesn't work anymore. It provides no benefits like it did 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:18 AM
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I observed this too. There are people who think they are funnier and cooler than others because they hang around with funnier and cooler friends or even worse, because they have parasocial relationships with funny celebrities. Even if they are not. I noticed women work this exact way more than guys. They project everything positive they sucked up in their lifespans onto themselves and essentially overestimate their capabilities. And then demand this exact thing or better from men who want to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:09 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:03 AM
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This is where the funny concept of "ogremaxxing" comes into place. Sometimes it benefits you as a man to not be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:02 AM
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I highly disagree. Even your girlfriends constantly shit test you. It's always about stimulus. If you settle there is no more stimulus. I think OP recognized this very well. In todays era of instant gratification you always have to microplan your next move because otherwise you won't be able to keep it up. And the bar is always rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:00 AM
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I think there is a big confounding Problem with "nice" and "bad" guys. Being physically attractive correlates with being "bad" because you can. Being physically unattractive correlates with being "nice" because only that way you gain empathy. It's really not about how you act but about what's behind - your attractiveness. Women will of course call nice guys more misogynistic because they fall into the "creep" category just by being uglier and thus being deemed "misogynistic". Even if he behaves …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:53 AM
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I found myself being more successful with women the more psychopathic (dark triad) traits I adapted. I just naturally became this way because I've been dumped and "hurt" my last three relationships. The less I care the more they care. Relationship dynamics are a bitch and they are deemed to be toxic for this exact reason. It makes no fucking sense and that's why I just don't care anymore. I just get the sex that my body demands from me and maybe occasionally have a good time with that so. It's h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:46 AM
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It's always about balance for women. Not being too selfless but also being selfless. The difficulty with women is they are so picky that this "golden spot" is very narrow and it's easy to miss. You just have to slightly behave oddly, just once out of mistake, and she gets the "ick".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:34 AM
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I think that the dynamics evolved around sex have their own evolutionary "intelligence" and are the core essentials of what makes us evolve. Sounds weird but I think men's sex drive and women's pickiness is what assures progress. No matter the circumstances and technologies such as online dating, the accessibility to sex for men will always stay the same, because only this way it is assured that those men who don't easily get access to sex (which is a reward) will need to work hard to counteract…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:27 AM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:40 AM
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That seems logical but it's just not true. Women without the premium subscription just ignore men under a certain height. They have a shit ton of men to choose from, so why would they not do that? If I had 1000 women to choose from I would be picky as fuck. Apart from that, although anecdotal, friends of mine who are as attractive or less attractive than me but who are 10 cm bigger get tons of more attractive matches even without trying too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:50 PM
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Men are possessed about emotional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:46 PM
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Body count in women is a stronger predictor for infidelty than for men. There are countless studies about this. See: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/15hv2aa/body_count_is_a_strong_predictor_of_infidelity/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:39 PM
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The 1% still accounts for a representative sample of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:37 PM
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Leaving aside the intention of your post, filtering by height is much more discriminative than filting by weight because the latter is influenceable. But you can't filter by weight. Dating apps fucking suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:36 PM
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Liberal women seem to be significantly less satisfied than conservative women: https://ifstudies.org/blog/why-are-liberals-less-happy-than-conservatives Also kind of proves your point although this is a multifactorial problem where other covariates distort the results.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 04:52 PM
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Oh, thanks man. At least a digit.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 03:40 PM
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I just read Jordans Peterson's 10 Rules for Life but wasn't really blown away by it. Why does that matter?
/r/MensRights06/08/23 01:56 PM
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I mean I know that older generations always like to complain about modern times but you have to distinguish here. I'd also recall that people weren't that toxic before 2008 or so, especially with the rise of Facebook, Tinder and TikTok.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 01:53 PM
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I definitely agree with you here. I'm just talking about the extremist/rather radical movements that blame entire populations for their misery. Third wave feminism, etc.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 01:51 PM
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Okay, so that's what you meant. Got it. And yeah, that makes sense.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 12:21 PM
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"Don't blame the rich" "Blame the top" I was asking because the top is usually rich. That's a paradoxical statement.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 12:16 PM
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But isn't the top (usually) the rich? By top I assume you mean the persons in charge, in our governments? Kind of contradictory statement.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 12:04 PM
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Highly disagree. Germany is a dating shithole.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 11:04 AM
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Well, one study among these sugguests it only correlates about half as much with infidelity as for women.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 10:41 AM
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These sorts of answers all come from Quora. You should look up studies and not personal opinions.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 10:28 AM
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There was this study showing that women are in fact happier outside a marriage than inside a marriage compared to men, but paradoxically they wish to get married more often than men.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 12:29 PM
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It's no coincidence. The likelihood of a woman to be liked increases drastically with her sexuality. Women can use their sexuality to manipulate others, no matter their true intentions.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 12:20 PM
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There was this young woman Redditor, 21 years old, who had generated an AI picture of a cute little girl. Nothing bad. But in the background there was a totally normally looking friendly boy, only that he was covered by a shadow inside some house. He looked super normal. But the title of her post was "why is there a creepy boy in the back of my picture"? That little boy was literally working on a farm. I may be wrong but I suspect some subconscious misandry.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 12:15 PM
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The threshold at which a man is considered childish is just ridiculous. I think calling a man a child is one of the most insulting things. One of my exes accused me of being a man child for not bringing suncream on holidays and asking her if she could give me some. "I don't want to treat you like I was your mom". I'm just a lazy fuck in that regard but how does that make me any younger? I have a well respected job in one of the most popular companies of the world and I already achieved so much. …
/r/MensRights29/07/23 12:09 PM
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What a shame, I actually liked her for her incredible authentic vibes but that sounds like a bummer to me. Everything has to be politicized these days.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 12:05 PM
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Same
/r/MensRights29/07/23 12:01 PM
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The way I see it is that sexuality is always an act of discrimination. Loving somebody is discriminative against all other persons. Rejecting somebody is discriminative against that person in particular. Women are as much perpetrators as men, only that the passive act of waiting for sexual partners is not easily measurable. You can't accuse somebody for not doing anything. The men on the other hand who have to actively, "aggressively", search for what they want are always accused for being offen…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:58 AM
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Here in Germany you would never see a poster like that
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:53 AM
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Agree. There are some solid articles but there are so many personal opinions even from psychologists and it feels not any different from a Facebook post with a morality undertone.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:29 AM
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I love my mom, and my dad. But my mom alienated me from my dad for a long period where both had a lot of soul-draining fights. I can't stand my dad talking with me most times, I get annoyed by noises he makes and I'm generally very sensitive towards anything he does. We still have a good relationship. He does a lot for us and is very caring. But I feel very distanced from him and no matter how much I try, his emotions and happiness never fully came back. He's always a bit more serious than he wa…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:24 AM
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In a sense, Malcolm in the Middle and Rick & Morty. Both in a humorous way but not too far from the truth of what some dads have to go through in an abusive relationship.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:01 AM
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Let me guess: it was the other way around with Asians? Because they are not represented here.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 10:55 AM
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Near to 100% of women have a vagina. Am I now being sexist? The female gender is traditionally a biological trait that is measurable both in hormones, organs, matter in the brain and behavior. There is nothing sexist about drawing such conclusions and it would be only ignorant not to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:04 PM
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Because such generalizations prepare you for the worst. Many men are totally blind towards these characteristics. Why in the world do you think there are so many unsuccessful traditionally good guys? Because they use their intuition. Also I believe the biggest argument to back my claim: as you gain experience you will generally (!) have better relationships when it comes to being desired/attractive. Which is not too different from acquiring experience elsewhere, from other people. Successfully d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:01 PM
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Data always has noise. Noise can be stronger or weaker. I agree that the population of all women is noisy simply due to too many dependent variables, but if you would compare both populations of men and women you could still despite of that noise see a difference. The variance between is significantly bigger than the variance within when it comes to the traits that I mentioned in my post. Which is a hypothesis that is in my opinion probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:53 PM
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Valid argument that is generally true. But what about comedians? There are comedians that actively taught themselves to be funny and they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:48 PM
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When people say "CEOs mostly consist of white old men" they usually don't read papers or use statistical evidence to backen these claims. This is knowledge that people are all simply aware of because everywhere around you, all signals, give you such hints. Science is not always the answer to everything. It can definitely backen your claims, but sometimes common sense and experience is enough. People often use science to invalidate somebodies argument because it puts pressure on them to provide e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:43 PM
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Power imbalances can always be problematic. Just because we never explicitly had a war of genders that doesn't mean it cannot happen. Seriously. If society is torn strongly enough everything is possible. It may be a new form of civil war or just some immense hatred that can escalate into smaller revolts. Sounds crazy but why not? How are groups like radical feminists any different from other radical groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:34 PM
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What do you even mean by happy rogue-dom? Do you mean being an asshole in general compared to being an asshole just towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:57 AM
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I'm not here to be a happy rogue but to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:56 AM
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Well unfortunately I agree with every point. I would also like to add that I don't think women are complex in a superior way but in a random and unpredictable way. Especially because they say things they don't mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:55 AM
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Well good for you but what makes you assume everybody will easily attract as many women as easily as you do? I'm not bad and fairly successful with ladies but I certainly don't want to live as toxic as you do. At least you give me that impression from your profile and writing style. There are certain boundaries where I rather not get enough ladies but be in harmony with my morals. I like to treat people the way I want to be treated too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:40 PM
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Well, that's a bit optimistic isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:52 PM
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Good luck being the selector on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:26 PM
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Well, unfortunately we get rejected by hundreds of women. And how do you increase your chances to find one? Right, using statistics. Why do you think statistics exist in the first place? If you think statistics is voodoo or deniable then you shouldn't be taking any medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:39 PM
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Not abuse, but be discriminative. That was the wrong term. If you get rejected by all women you encounter that will be hell of discriminative. It will seriously hurt you. By womanizer I mean a man who knows how women want to be treated and using that knowledge to attract the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:33 PM
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I don't deny men work like that too. But when you focus on dating an opposite gender you will likely only focus on that genders psychology. This isn't a debate about who has it worse. This is a debate about what tools we have to live better lives, and why there are people who actively want to destroy these tools (dating advice).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:31 PM
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Why are womanizers abusing women? How about women abuse men whenever they reject men? Most men do the active part, most women do the passive part. This is a generalization that has however be found to be true. It's just a matter of perspective and both approaches are discriminative. If we use the analogy of a gatherer. A gatherer (of food) will die if he doesn't gather. If you don't teach a kid of a gatherer how to gather it will not have a good time. The only reason why men among both genders a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:27 PM
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I clearly stated I see this pattern in a majority of women. And many other men do too. What I wrote emphazises the extent at which some women express certain things. Women wanting to know about my friends is absolutely necessary for them to know. It's not just a small preference but a major selector. And yes, making assumptions about a population doesn't include the individual but there is no way around making generalizations if you're talking about a whole population. Sexism on the other hand i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:22 PM
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Yes? And could you elaborate? What's wrong about being a womanizer? If you use short sentences you at least have to give me some reasons to be convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:18 PM
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Relationships rely on dynamics between two persons, ergo you have to know another person. If you fully work on yourself it will not be enough. Simply as that. Why do you think all the charming womanizers get all the women? Because they understand women. It's easy. They often even follow the same patterns to attract a woman and catch them like fish. This does in fact sound quite sexist but it shows that it works. And lonely men need this advice. Men have to perform. Women don't simply come. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:11 PM
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But that's absolute nonsense. You also analyze entire populations in medicine or democracies. So why is analyzing one gender sexist just because it makes assumptions? If you want to attain knowledge about a population you have to make assumptions and generate data. It can both come from statistics or from personal anecdotes but neither is wrong. See? This is what I mean by "no matter what you say about women, it's considered sexist per se". Sexism is when an agenda is actively followed to harm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:03 PM
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Definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:32 PM
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Definitely. Sadly I agree because this has been my experience too. Women are more on demand in the sexual market and that's why they can behave like they want, generally speaking. If they don't have selective pressure they will not put in effort into their personalities. Also because women's personalities don't matter as much as men's personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:19 PM
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Well, I am exactly that, open about myself from the start. My open side is being friendly and focussed on the other - but it seems like this trait is easily being abused. Being upfront negative or just doing only, without exceptions, what I want is actually very hard for me because I enjoy pleasing others. I know that this won't get me far but I just tell how it is. I try to be a little bit selfish forcedly and it works, but it's not my modus operandi and I need to actively work on that instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:15 PM
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What do you mean? My ex-girlfriends being exactly like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:53 PM
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It's ridiculous and hurtful.. because I don't like being upset and it hurts to know many women are into manly angriness. My second ex-girlfriend at some point told me "I miss how everything was so chill during the first period of our relationship". I wasn't much different except I sometimes got annoyed over things and even made her cry because she was sensitive towards the slightest critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:47 PM
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Yes I think so too. Unfortunately I'm into shy and cute girls, and well, shyness often (not always) results out of low levels of self-esteem. And the longer the relationship, the bigger self-esteem due to all my positive attention, and the more I get hated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:44 PM
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Thanks for your comment. Well, in my 30 years I was only able to very slightly improve my self-esteem. In fact a recent study has shown that self-esteem remains rather constant throughout your life and I believe so too. No matter how many gurus, experiences, perspective-shifts or self-help I went through, my subjective worth will always be the same even though I already achieved a lot in life. I have to say that my currently biggest trigger to improve was to decide to actively take my own decisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:41 PM
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Shit tests and insults are not too different. Just because shit tests are common that doesn't make them any tolerable imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:47 PM
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100% my opinion! Glad to hear you are happy with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:45 PM
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I'd also say it was simultaneous with losing attraction. But I think that disrespecting me came first and that it was a vicious cycle that could only turn out badly. Disrespecting me -> feeling unworthy -> not being attractive -> disrespecting me even more -> etc. I assume it started with shit tests that turned out to be quite rude. I was well aware of shittesting but sometimes you need a really strong character to withstand those and as I mentioned below another comment, my energy levels come i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:37 PM
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I also agree that "treating like a king/queen" is rubbish but I was talking about it metaphorically.. to treat your so with high value or at least make him/her feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:36 PM
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Definitely, I agree. Just to clarify, all three were really cute but every now and then they used little insults, often with a cynical and sarcastic undertone. Whenever I showed my weak side or whenever I was tired due to several factors they would do that. I quickly lose my energy levels that come in spikes and it's not my fault, but instead of pushing me up they pushed me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:44 AM
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Because I don't have a problem with 10 years older women than me? I do have a problem with women who lie to me and who turn out to be 20 years older. Basic human red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:50 PM
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You seem not to know that there is a significant percentage of women who get turned on by older men, even if they aren't attractive. Especially married men. There are even studies about this. Men aren't that specific when it comes to dating older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:50 PM
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More than the other way around. Ever heard of sugar daddies? It's a kink and it's quite common.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:55 AM
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No, I thought she would be 40 as stated on her profile. Edited the first sentence of the post to make it more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:44 AM
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Of course they have. Because men usually seek younger women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:43 AM
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I didn't. I don't care about that person in particular. Of course I blocked her. I'm annoyed by this being the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:41 AM
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Do you have a link? No results on Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:41 AM
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No, I don't equate apples with bananas but both are fruits. What I'm trying to say is that this is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:29 AM
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Have you read my post? She had a picture that was 10-20 years old. Also would you like to rethink your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:29 AM
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Nope. Women have a very narrow line, men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:24 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:51 PM
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"On a regular basis" is a quantitative statement of yours with implication "frequent" and I gave you a counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:51 PM
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This isn't news. Why do you think men are so pushy? It's a strategy and it works. Men don't care about the individual woman. They only care about her as soon as she reciprocates the love and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:43 PM
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Uh, no. It's not as easy as that. As always woman have this very narrow sweet spot that is pleasurable to them. If you're too affectionate, you repel them. If you're not affectionate, you repel them (even though in a toxic way it will provide more benefits for you). And I'm talking out of experience from my relationships and casual hookups. Pleasuring women is a highly sensitive act in the sense that the smallest imbalances might lead to denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:38 PM
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Well I agree that there is an imbalance here.. but men also get resentful and hateful because hatred and toxicity is quite contagious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:49 AM
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Women and men hate and love each other.. nothing new. It's complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:41 AM
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Women have this skill set to justify whatever bad happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:38 PM
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Since I don't like showing off with my money and achievements, not really. I rather stay true to my values and prefer attracting women with the same values. It's also way cooler when people get to know your true self by chance. Showing off is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:17 PM
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Maybe work on phrasing a little bit better. That sentence was a bit confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:04 PM
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Women raised these "rapist men"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:00 PM
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My opinion: both sexes are equally guilty for behaviors of both women and men, because they have selected each other for millions of years. We are the product of mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:52 PM
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This post seems highly specific and it makes you think Thad is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:34 PM
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I blame many things but especially the rise of Netflix shows and how the ideal man is portrayed as some rich snobbed highschool/college player with both intellect and social skills, and of course a dark and malevolent side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:04 PM
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If you've only had bad experiences, you are inexperienced. Ehh, what? Since when is the definition of inexperienced having bad experiences? I've had lots of experiences but subjectively more bad ones. That still makes me somewhat experienced compared to the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:11 PM
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I wouldn't call all of the users in here inexperienced. Many joined this sub especially because of their negative and vast experiences including myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:36 PM
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First comment was literally two guys saying they are average including myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:55 AM
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Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:54 AM
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So many women were interested in me in the past but then got "the ick" due to me doing something they didn't like. It's always the same and it's always the smallest things. Women are just so incredibly sensitive to the smallest aspects they dislike. Finally I found the word for this. Quality post, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:34 PM
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Self-improvement not only helps with getting a woman but also with getting a better job. My profile picture of me was pretty bad, but as soon as I hit the gym hard companies were much more frequently considering me. Landed a job in one of the most known companies. Oh yeah and the headhunters reaching out were mostly female. Who knows, maybe they go for attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:28 PM
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BS. You can even inherit the tendency to take risks. Our personalities have so much biology in them. Yes, we learn behaviors through life experiences but that only makes a part of it. Just like twin studies show that even though twins never met each other they share behavioral characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:16 PM
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What a load of BS. I've been muscular many times in my life and whenever I was women were much more attracted to me. Women love muscles if they aren't too pronounced. But especially a wide back, sixpack and biceps is a big plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:11 PM
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She didn't call herself that way but she said so many incredibly narcissistic things. I was okay with her being a boss in her profession and taking the lead but she was so bragging and annoying on a personal level that I threw her out of my apartment and never talked to her again. I didn't find it attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:23 AM
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If my kids were to be transgender or homosexual I would do my best to accept that but teach them to not be absolute cringe. You don't have to wear rainbow colors, be provocatively sexual or on purpose make out with somebody in public. The way both of these things are portrayed in media is just ridiculous. Just be a normal person with good manners. I'm tired of this politicisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:28 AM
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Funny he has the same writing style lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:16 AM
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It's a mixture of "you should" and "you shouldn't". Women on dating platforms consider it an unspoken right to demand services from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:04 AM
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I would consider myself average to above-average in terms of what I achieved. I'm fairly attractive, I have many hobbies, I have a good job many dream of, I'm athletic, I'm social.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:00 AM
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No. Over the years I've probably contacted 20 women on Tinder/Lovoo and none of them would settle with "only" casual sex. They all want a relationship or more. It's hard for average guys to find something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:33 AM
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I see it the same way.. the gut feeling is very powerful at recognizing if your s.o. wants to commit or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:35 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:27 PM
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Sometimes the line for distinguishing between these two is very thin..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:21 PM
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There are some women who like to say no to test men if he has the balls to keep going on. They also enjoy being chased. In my opinion not worth the effort but just as an information.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:20 PM
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Oh lol, okay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:17 PM
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"LittleDickGame" on Twitter Uhhh.. whut?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:49 PM
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How do you know you wouldn't be an insecure mess if there were 100 women chasing your partner? Don't talk for others if you can't even put yourself into their skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:32 PM
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Well it does for most people but not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:26 PM
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Uhh, dunno? Maybe because physical fitness contributes to good sex? Personally I'm not into big vulvas.. I want them to be fit like a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:13 PM
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Yeah I fully agree with this and I've had similar experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:12 PM
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Sexy I guess? I had a very good shape and often still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:09 PM
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"lol" implies some kind of sarcasm or irony tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:07 PM
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Well, a little bit less of fat and a little bit more of muscle, then yes. Also funnily I look quite similar to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:06 PM
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Honestly if I have to communicate it to her it isn't as exciting. I wish she would do it by herself because she wants to. That's what it's all about for me. Personally I find 0 excitement in women don't wanting something. It's all about being desired to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:05 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. In terms of arousal that was never a problem. I'm a long foreplay type of guy if she's into it and it reeeally turned them on. So it had nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:02 PM
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How is a well trained body "generic"? I was probably in the upper 95% percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:35 PM
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Anything wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:23 PM
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You can redirect them to me if you want 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:23 PM
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Yeah well in that case you probably just drew the DNA lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:00 PM
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Yes, and social. But biology makes up the biggest part I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:36 PM
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If you want to turn men into women and make them less violent you have to treat their genome and make them not produce testosterone and grow a vagina. That's not ethical. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:26 PM
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Problem is you will find almost no woman who just wants sex. And getting into a LTR way too big of a commitment if all you want is sex. And so if your hormones really kill you inside out and make you desperate you're inclined to also (slightly) take advantage. It's not men's fault they need sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:23 PM
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It's just conflicts of interest. There is no good nor wrong but women like to shame men for only wanting sex. It's what we have to deal with on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:21 PM
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Personally I love when when women dress casually. I hate too much makeup, high heels and all of this stuff. It turns me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:20 PM
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Yes, but not far from now people will generate their own models without any social justice filters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:47 PM
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Yeah probably.. there could be all sorts of scenarios like advertising for fake AI-detectors that don't work well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:54 AM
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Well, that's nice to see it that way but that won't prevent people from using AI nevertheless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:50 AM
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What I meant was the likelihood they respond to boring stuff is higher when the conversation is already ongoing as when openers are boring. That's what AI could help with.. finding good openers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:31 AM
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Problem is this AI detection software will not be 100% accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:16 AM
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Very true though. On the other side openers and at least initiating conversations is what makes up 50% of the story. I noticed women would answer to even stupid messages as soon as they initiated. But stupid messages as openers usually don't work. So at least that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:07 AM
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Hmm you're right that it would set an end to text convos and maybe make video and voice calls much more important. Although voice can also be indistinguishable from AI very soon (give it 1-5 years.. but then it would also need to perform better because computation is quite slow).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:55 AM
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Banger opener
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:53 AM
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Yeah I tried that but ChatGPT is really bad at flirting imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:53 AM
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Looooool, that link is gold. Omfg thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:40 AM
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I think the worst part is guys are more after looks and women more after personality and humor.. the latter is very hard to show over chat. And well, women respond to how they feel and watching at some boring chat window will most likely make them feel bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:16 PM
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Who said I don't get laid? And why would I get laid when I was 8 years old? I just said I was really attractive when I was younger than 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:31 PM
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The internet basically destroyed me too. Used to be the perfect little kid. Very attractive, so funny and open, very athletic and intelligent. Then I got my first computer at 11 and it all went downhill. Started gaming early in the morning and it made me awkward. Just when I was 16 I started exercising a lot again but I was deeply depressed and it still lasts to this day being 30. Achieved quite a lot but still, the internet has really changed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:13 AM
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Tbh I perceive zoomers as much different than always stated. I think that zoomers are much less awkward than millennials back from my era. They are much nicer, have much better humor and are way better at socializing, at least here in Germany. German millennials are awkward as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:10 AM
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Personally I can get dates and I would get more attractive women if I tried hard. But the amount of effort you have to invest makes me honestly not want it. I see no point in investing so much and getting so little in return apart from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:09 PM
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Well, it's a collaboration but unspoken truth is men have to plan most of it or else they seem boring quickly. Women want to go through emotional rollercoasters and just doing things that aren't somehow special won't satisfy them. You have to be very creative which drains a lot of energy and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:06 PM
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Shuttle more like a metaphor. A medium to be used for activities. An entertainer and somebody who provides new ideas. I'm a pretty physical guy and I enjoy relationships for the warmth and closeness because I can't get it elsewhere and it's kind of the essence of relationships between men and women. Apparently this isn't enough for women. Yes, so far I payed more but she is willing to share the bills. But the things I pay more aren't even discussed such as one time paying 100€ for an event and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:15 PM
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I'm in a few months into a relationship and the phase has started where she wants to go on trips with me and basically use me as a shuttle to experience the world. Almost every weekend. And I'm sick of being her entertainer. Now people (cough women) telling me "but don't we all want to experience the world and have fun? What a bummer", I have my own hobbies and I live them. I don't need to make them dependent on others nor use one person as a shuttle to get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:08 PM
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This also sums up very well how women veeeery frequently try hard to justify their actions no matter if they are right or wrong. I see this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:06 PM
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This post is very trigger-inducing to some but I think it's very based.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:03 PM
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I feel the same and only got over it for short periods of time. And in those life can be so beautiful. For example after a breakup and noticing that life is about more than just sex. My friends were literally fucking attractive girls in the same tent I was in and I didn't care. Wasn't jealous, nothing. It lasts for a couple of months until my body makes me crave for sex/love/affection. And so I search but it's very hard, and I would consider myself average to slightly attractive. And I get into …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:21 PM
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Marketing 3.0
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:50 PM
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My three ex-girlfriends started disrespecting me after the honeymoon-phase was over. I had always respected them especially for their weaknesses because I'm here to support them. I guess it was because they got to know my weak side and that's a major reason to disrespect men. Constant shit-tests, being called a kid, ignoring me, talking badly about me in front of others, making fun of me for not knowing things they have more interest for, disrespecting my taste in music and generally my authenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:25 PM
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What an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:55 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:26 PM
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Honestly I just want healthy amounts of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:22 PM
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Yeah and am also 30. Cheers mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:15 PM
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Same here Fairly attractive, fit. Usually fit and fairly attractive girls wouldn't go after me. Plus I have a job in one of the most successful companies and many hobbies that make me unique and aren't standard but nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:12 PM
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What the
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:01 PM
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"I am overweight but you better not be. One of us is enough." I have literally read this line many times and you can guess from which gender it comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:15 PM
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Maybe that's just a difference in understanding/definition/cultural aspects. To me that sounds negative but each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:10 PM
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Uh, okay. Personally I wouldn't say my girlfriend has almost boring levels of estrogen if they are average. That would sugguest some kind of negativity towards her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:13 PM
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I'm just a bit annoyed by the wording here. If you have a FWB relationship why call it boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:56 PM
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Well I mean if you go to a party or event, guys will probably do the active part and you the passive. So yes, you have it easier. Just go out and socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:43 PM
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What is "boring" levels of testosterone supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:36 PM
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"I am already overweight, so don't you be overweight because we don't need two of us"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:48 AM
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The problem is flirting by men who are not attractive is considered bothersome and they are negatively judged by most women. And the strategy to flirt with as many women as possible is sadly the only male strategy to hit a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:59 PM
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Telling men they are insecure about a reaction that is totally natural is one of the highest and most effective levels of gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:00 PM
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No matter what some girl likes about you, it will 100% be a characteristic that assures life quality. You are constantly tested for your evolutionary fitness. It's just disguised in terminology you think has no meaning. As a human you are constantly being tested if you're worth the interaction. People on these manosphere and this PPD forum are just more aware of this fact and therefore have low levels of self-esteem and confidence because the truth is hard to swallow. Just like scientists who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:56 AM
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Post-nut clarity is the most intense form of clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:16 AM
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Sometimes I feel like all women do is test men if they have enough durability for "delayed gratification".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:05 PM
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I've never had this happen to me. In contrast, there are 100x men who do this with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:46 AM
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I would love if my girlfriends were actually interested in me as a person. I've had 4 relationships and they never asked me about my past. I lived for a majority of my life on another continent so it's not just a small thing to me. I feel like most women are so receptive they mostly just respond to what you communicate or they talk about themselves. I also really enjoyed one girlfriend playing videogames with me. The others always refused to. Playing videogames with a man feels like the absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:40 PM
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Makes you less attractive but you decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:33 PM
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The things you stated in the first paragraph is the bare minimum a man must do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:10 PM
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I'm just responding to you calling my argument "meaningless". That's not a basis for discussion and at that point I don't care anymore. I was arguing on a higher level while you're trying to discuss on a lower level naming individual occurrences such as "opening up a door for women". If we want to address the root cause we have to see the bigger picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:07 AM
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Seems like you're just not capable of understanding and/or accepting it because no more arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:04 AM
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It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:57 AM
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It's not perpetrated on purpose. But the cause lies in men as much as it lies in women because both take part in a bigger system optimized throughout millions of years to maximize human success as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:56 AM
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Yes, precisely. You consider it a minor annoyance and that's the problem. Women being more and more valued as more divine on the social scale and things like holding up a door is just a minor symptom next to very critical symptoms that nobody talks about because there is no measurable discrimination. Men being single, sexual outcasts, hikikomoris, homeless, subjectively and objectively not worthy of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:53 AM
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I think your argument of men needing to go to therapy is from an ignorant perspective of equal value as telling women not to dress "slutty". You are addressing the symptoms and not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:42 AM
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Thanks, just corrected it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:37 AM
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I wasn't trying to stay neutral but stay close to it, which is a very subjective limit. That we don't agree was expected and that's okay with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:32 AM
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There are lonely men (unreported numbers, e.g. incels, hikikomoris, single dads and homeless, and many many more) commiting suicide and even going as far as killing and raping because they can't stand the burden of being considered the outcasts of society, not to mention being single. I by no means defend them but am describing the most probable root cause of their violence. I think you underestimate the impact of success, beauty, freedom of choice and thus power. You cannot give one person powe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:26 AM
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But you meant it. I'm just building a step stone to the counter weight against feminist media. Which must be stated critically towards feminists. I've already tried to stay as neutral as possible by mentioning both sides of the coin/almost-equaled-out-balance. But I'm still trying to mainly remain critical towards women-defending feminists because they are trying to put a fat weight on their side. I don't see how I could have stated my opinions otherwise without in your eyes "only targeting men"…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:22 AM
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No, the fact that I want to defend men does not mean I only want to target men. Don't see how you drew that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:12 AM
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Well, just like women aren't just seen as more wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:08 AM
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What good it does? I'm posting this in defense of men because in my opinion they haven't been treated very well in media lately. That's my point. And I'm criticizing biased feminism for not reporting enough, hence the title "underreported". I want equality just like everybody else does but I'm strictly against political agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:05 AM
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I think that's the wisest and most productive way to see it. We can't change our biologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:02 AM
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Agree that many are driven by mere feelings. And also I agree that "benevolent sexism" isn't a strong enough concept. But it describes the problematic very well. I think it's important to name lots of examples of discrimination towards men supported by scientific evidence. Edit: also I really wanted to point out that the positive connections made with women are being easily abused by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:59 PM
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Fair point. But men fall to physical violence more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:57 PM
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Agree. But I wouldn't call it men-are-wonderful but rather men-are-more-competent or the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:55 PM
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Can you elaborate on that? Yes, in a sense our differences are intrinsically sexist because they give both genders some sort of advantage over the other in these specific aspects. If they didn't they wouldn't exist. Evolution goes upwards and not downwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:46 PM
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What about all the men that died in war? I'm talking about all the discriminations in total. The benevolent sexism being the tip of the iceberg and equaling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:43 PM
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That's why I called it "food for thought". I know that it's hard to convince biased feminists. I might be biased too and I probably am, hence a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:40 PM
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I'm not saying this is a new concept. I'm just trying to convince traditional feminists that sexism comes equally from both sides but in different forms. And I'm trying to convince them that "benevolent sexism" is an expression that should be introduced into the mainstream media because it's not and that "sexism" by itself shouldn't only be restricted to negative attributes that are directly measurable and that are apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:13 PM
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The women-are-wonderful perception also comes from women themselves. If you hear a woman screaming and a man screaming even if she is abusing him both genders will probably tend to instinctively defend the woman first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:59 PM
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Somehow didn't pass the "shitpost filter" and has to be reviewed.. lol. Well, it doesn't always have to harm the other gender but it can harm. I just think that women have a strong tendency to use their positivity to benevolently dominate others. For example women using their seductive sexuality or simply innocence to control a man. And women seeing it as a good act while it can harm a man. It's just hard to quantify because there are no apparent victims. But it should be still seen as a sexist …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:35 PM
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Maybe I have the terminology wrong. I'm talking about preferring one gender above the other due to positive affirmations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:25 PM
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Definitely. I used extreme analogies based on stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:19 PM
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You underestimate your own gender. Women are more clever at picking their partners than you think you believe. This is what you are being told by the feminist agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:09 PM
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Forums are finally making this topic public. You are right when it comes to short-term, you are wrong when it comes to long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:16 AM
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In South America I got matches and chats from really hot women while in Germany I get a few from local unattractive women every two days while actively swiping. I get lots of matches from Asian and African women though. These women outside of Germany also start chats with a simple "Hi" (what conversations are supposed to start like) and not exaggerate with all these ridiculous standards of "Don't you dare just writing a "Hi"". These standards are just so fucking pathetic it makes me want to leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:42 PM
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Do you think Instagram is any different? Problem is things are just more obvious over tinder but it's a perfect reflection of the real dynamics of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:42 PM
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Truth pill to set an end to the men vs. women debate: Women are the ones who drive evolution because they get to pick who they reproduce with. It's all your fault because you are the gatekeepers to the future of humanity. Your gender made us men who we are. And not just that. Your gender also educated us into the wrong direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:02 PM
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I'm tired of feminists saying men had it easy in the era before the sexual revolution. Our female and male ancestors had the same levels of struggle just coming from different sources. The only real discrimination comes from differences in beauty and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:51 PM
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Tinder just mirrors any other chatting platform. Women have always been picky and hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:28 PM
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Listen to whoever you want. Women will always discredit generalizations about women because they don't even understand themselves. Pickup artists, dating experts, manosphere guys like Rollo Tomassi, people like Jordan Peterson, they all give solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:58 AM
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Yes and this lack of interest and insensitivity towards others peoples feelings is what makes us so toxic. It's like humans are throwaway objects. Maybe in the future people will be conditioned to not care anymore but we were raised with pretty monogamous standards (just look at 95% of all older romantic and just common movies) so online dating is hitting us harder than it will to the future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:02 AM
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Sorry but I'm sure this is wrong on many levels. The more you date the more you casually date and the more other people who were interested in something more get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:50 PM
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Problem with multi-dating is one person will always get hurt. And massive dating increases the odds of getting hurt. What if your now-girlfriend finds somebody better because of social Media? The one you thought would be a perfect fit. Constant optimization is good until you overdo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:44 PM
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MMORPGs, online dating, McDonalds, social media, sitcoms, pop music, it all has the same roots and comes from the same box full of diarrhea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:41 PM
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There is a difference between dating preferences and just insulting men and telling those precise men to not contact them. It's not everybody's fault and nobody wants to hear this. The right thing to do is to just state your hobbies and interests. If somebody isn't appealing simply don't like him. If somebody seems appealing contact him. If you have negative experiences keep it for yourself. Easy as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:37 PM
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Wdym? That's just facts. 30% is a slight exaggeration but the percentage is way too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:26 PM
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Same. Used to be a (good looking) innocent romantic guy with only good intentions. Now I can be toxic as fuck but I only do it for self-protection. It used to take me about a year to get over a relationship and it made me devastated. Not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:57 PM
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Please, make an average-looking male tinder account and then comment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:54 PM
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This is what happened with my ex and no matter how toxic this sounds, I won't fully commit never again for the sake of the girls and myself. Keeps it fresh and good in the bedroom. Sometimes I feel like lots of girls only want the commitment initiated by men to get validation and feel desired, just to then get bored and dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:52 PM
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Personally I've developed quite a good sense of when a woman is into me and I can say it's very obvious almost always.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:51 PM
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Most
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:49 PM
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30% of women tinder profiles bragging about things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:38 PM
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Had been chatting with a girl for 10 years casually. Finally we met for the first time. Turns out she is spiritual as hell and believes the world will end in two years. Thinks only the spirits of spiritual people will leave this galaxy to a galaxy where we all originate from. She also thought we were destined to each other because the escalator stopped working and so she felt like she has to stay with me. She says my ego is too big before telling me that she feels 20 years wiser than all people …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:59 PM
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Personally I'm rather annoyed by somebody making the chores of my room and house. I want things to have it my way and if somebody thinks he has to clean up parts every day then I'll get annoyed. Often there are just different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:56 PM
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One of both will always be same or more attractive than the other and so one of both will at least give it a thought.. and that makes it tempting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:28 PM
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Because the temptation is there and the tension will at the right circumstances lead to a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:58 PM
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Personally I don't believe in friendship between opposite sex. There will almost always be a point where one approaches the other or at least thinks about it. So personally I have a problem with that unless you do something altogether including the partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:55 PM
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Guys complain girls have it easier cause it's unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:51 PM
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Well, just like feminists only brag about how hard it is for women in society men in forums like this sub brag about how hard it is for men in dating. Both problems are based on discrimination and both genders do it for a valid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:59 PM
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I feel sorry for unattractive women, but so do I for men. But men have it worse in dating and there is a definite imbalance here which has to be fixed first. You can't deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:15 PM
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Main character syndrome is a very female characteristic. Just have a look at Instagram and how ordinary girls Name their profiles "blogger", "model", etc., or just plain act like they are some sort of celebrity. Guys would usually post stupid pictures with friends and just not care too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:13 PM
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This is so false. Funny and emotionally strong, and financially stable, and have lots of hobbies and be independent. Also it's hard to stay funny if you have lots of struggles in life. In my opinion it's easy to stay thin unless you can't because of illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:09 PM
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Feeling constantly bored Not rejecting others who initiate a flirt Consistently taking forever to respond to text messages Sounds illogical, but being overly sexual and aroused can be a sign Almost never showing the phone and flipping it backwards on the table Being online a lot but not texting you Being emotionally unavailable Not asking any questions about you and your past or hobbies Being annoyed a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:43 PM
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Yes, I agree with how women prefer attractive nerds. And you're right in a sense that "looks" are mainly objective. But they aren't 100% objective. There are variances in how people rate "looks" because of personal preferences and biology. Personally I'm more into women with less optimal "looks" because from experience most women with optimal "looks" are arrogant, demanding and demeaning. And I say most (!), not all. So to me looks is highly associated with behavior and I simply like the cuter a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:16 AM
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Yes, very true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:03 AM
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Nope. I'm attracted to people others call "ugly". For example nerds. Highly attracted towards them especially for their non-perfections. That doesn't take away their "looks" for me. I agree that there is a consensus on looks but it's not 100%. So it's subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:02 AM
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I think most guys do this because it works. But often there are just zero hints. The typical model pose with a "✌️", maybe the tongue out or the Billie Eilish look. It's also what bores me about lots of women so much. They just have nothing to offer except their beauty and yet are highly demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:00 AM
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Looks aren't objective just like music isn't objective. Nothing more to say about it. Looking "healthy" isn't objective. But by "looks" you probably meant "attractiveness".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 09:50 AM
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Problem is lots of women (on Tinder) don't give any other hints as to what their hobbies are, what they do in their spare times, what they work as. So sometimes all you can think of is her looks. And then they complain that all you do is write "Hey".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 09:44 AM
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Perfect example. Or Dr. house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 09:42 AM
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"looks are objective" What
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 09:39 AM
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Do you know why males sit in silence? Because they get rejected so often that they get demotivated. If you're a woman you are always the center of attention and people won't even bother, because you are beautiful and have a soothing voice. Guys are by standard annoying and they have to gain their respect with higher standards. Tell standard jokes or laugh about stupid things like women do? No chance people will like you. Laugh or smile too much? No chance. Have too much energy? No chance. Show e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:17 AM
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Is there an equivalent for men? Something like a "men-are-horrible effect"? Children are loved, women are a bit like children and so they never have to gain their love because they don't change in the first place. Men on the other hand have to deserve their love by changing their personality and attitude by 180°. So before changing that attitude and growing up, are they considered horrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:10 AM
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I wish I was a kid for life. Adulthood fucking sucks. Up to when I was 15 everybody saw huge potential in me and a few years before that found me cute. After puberty nobody gave a damn about me and I was just left there all alone, without knowing what to do with my life. Women don't really experience this as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:08 AM
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Well I have no clue. I'm attracted to shy, cute, childish, friendly and smaller women. Don't care for money or education. I do care for a general interest in things and deeper conversations and a need for sex. But that's it and I'd say that's what I would look for in men if I was a woman. A big plus would be if the man was smaller and had a pussy instead of a dick. So once again: this is impossible to answer for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:39 PM
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Honestly this is impossible to answer because women just think differently. We will never be able to comprehend what women are looking for in guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:30 PM
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My question is: is there a RIGHT approach towards shy women? There are women who give ZERO signals and eventually you find out they are into you. Imagine you approach a woman also giving you ZERO signs and it turns out you've been "creepy" all along and they haven't been interested. For instance, women not making eye contact / being slightly mean could either be too shy or seriously disinterested. Sometimes I feel like there is no way around making a "creepy" impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:45 PM
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But so many women are too shy to maintain eye contact. How does the aggressor (the man) know this and not be creepy while approaching a shy woman? I feel like it's a dead-end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:43 PM
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I'm dating an Eritrean girl and she is the kindest ever. Also very submissive but in a very caring and loving way. She has her own opinions but she states them respectfully. I don't see this in Germany very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:19 PM
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Men would be shamed for using these, 100%. Just imagine a guy buying a flashlight. Women would get jealous af and they would demand justice (for no reason). And the shaming would be intense. I mean what power does a woman have over a man if the man can get sex from other sources? Would be a catastrophe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:43 PM
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Just out of curiosity.. how old was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:35 PM
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If he had a tinder profile and you didn't know him before, how are the odds you would have swiped him left? Pretty high I assume? It was probably pure coincidence you got to like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:18 PM
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What are you even talking about? Media is full of feminists focussing on women's issues but there's not a single one focussing on men's rights and problems. The fact that it's still called "feminism" is a bias itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:29 AM
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What a load of BS. Of course men want to make their girlfriends/wife's happy but as soon as this doesn't get reciprocated and the woman turns all bitchy and demeaning there's no point in doing that. Men have a very high instinct to protect their s.o. and they make it out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:24 AM
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Well, I'm living evidence. I currently have something like a relationship but I wouldn't consider it as such but she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:12 PM
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Woops. Sorry. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:56 PM
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Has been discussed here before. One strong argument being that men often have casual hookups they wouldn't call relationships while when women have casual hookups they do call it relationships. I think this statistic is not enough controlled for these factors because it simply relies on a questionnaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:37 PM
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Oh, sorry for misunderstanding this. Really. I get your point and I agree to an extent. But we are also social beings and being alone doesn't make us happy. Anybody telling we are responsible for our own happiness shouldn't neglect that yes, but in the context that we are responsible for finding a partner that makes us happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:33 PM
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Relationships make people happy. Women are more happy people than men. Women make men happy. You can't deny that. Stop calling men infants for their basic needs. That's pathetic and demeaning. Very typical for women to do that and it's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:24 PM
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Uhhh no, I'm not a criminologist and I can't read minds. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:52 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:45 PM
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Men who rape usually have raping fantasies. Men who are horny will not rape just because they are horny. You have to distinguish between these two. I don't think that the "lack of self control" among "healthy" men is worrisome. With lack of self-control I was mainly referring to acting stupidly, making improper sexual jokes or being too pushy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:43 PM
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I wouldn't rely so hard on this "80%" statistic. It applies to tinder but probably not real life. You can get sex if you want, you just have to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:34 PM
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It depends. Some men will lie to you to get sex because they wouldn't get it otherwise without commiting to a long term relationship that they aren't willing to provide. While having to pay money and being the "man"/provider. Some women on the other hand also fishbait you with sex and then not provide it anymore. It goes both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:31 PM
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Men either think with their dick or with their brain, but not with both. Men are more rational but not when they are horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:24 PM
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My thrive for women is probably the reason for why I have achieved many things in life. Women are the gatekeepers to men's happiness but they are also the judges. They judge you by your value (measured by your talents, money, etc.). So while this might sound evil they are the reason for many men's strength. So yeah, libido makes us strong. Personally I don't want less of it although everytime my libido is low I feel more at peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:23 PM
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I love my mom. My brother and I just recently noticed she's the kindest person we've ever met. She would never do anything against us or other people and fills us with safety and love. But she hasn't impacted my view of women now because I separate my mom from other women. But she's also a feminist and there are minor things I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:43 PM
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I think you didn't read what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:45 AM
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Just recently there was a German article about how worrisome it is that people exchange ideas on manosphere forums lol. To me mainstream media is a much bigger threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:44 AM
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I can confirm the 10x (at least 10x). Went to south America and got matches from reeeeally hot women. Here in Europe an attractive woman wouldn't bat an eye for me except for very few. Also men are getting infinite matches from Asian women. I wonder if this can SIMPLY be explained by money and power. South America is poor as hell and so are these Asian countries. And this would be an argument for women just looking for partners with money and power (I'm average to slightly above attractive so I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:39 AM
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Sorry but this agenda is still being pushed in German Media. Racism, misogyny, you name it. It's always them. I don't see any trend if this vanishing. On the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:36 AM
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Yes now that I think of it the manosphere and the alpha videos with ☕ comments on Instagram are nothing more than a fantasy. Just like people watch action movies. I think people just want to express their frustrations but would actually be nice to each other in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:24 AM
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Are we really torning society into these small groups and are we just at the beginning of it? If we think about it weren't Nazis basically the same? I know this sounds crazy but extremism always starts with these at first harmless groups but then they radicalize. How many of such potential radicalized groups do we have? And who says that "women vs men" can not be a very serious kind of "war"? Not joking. I seriously wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:22 AM
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Omfg I agree. Very good observation. I also noticed this thing that people complain about hypothetical communities who bash other communities while they don't even exist. They just make them up because they want to feel superior or express their frustrations. For example the anti flat earthers making such a drama out of it. There is probably a hand full of flat earthers and even so, many of them take it as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:19 AM
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Yes I noticed it too and it not only shows there but also on Tinder etc. You just see and feel an increasing frustration and hatred from both genders towards each other. Personally I'm also quite frustrated because I get treated like dirt by some women. 50 years ago nobody would have ever thought about treating strangers like that. No mutual respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:16 AM
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Men wouldn't wash their dishes before a certain period even if they lived alone. It's not like they leave it up to the wife because they are mean. It's the standards that are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:05 AM
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I'm a bit sceptical. Sure this isn't a troll post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:23 AM
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This sub is making me sick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:22 PM
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Who he is -> his hobbies, things that make him happy, his family, his past. NOT his finances, self-confidence, skill to provide, etc. Just like what makes up women's true self. There is nothing to not understand here. To sum up: men love women for their weaknesses and love but women love men for their strengths and love. Acquiring strength is a hard one. Personally, there is nothing more sexy for me than seeing a woman cry in front of me and wanting my help. But if I cry in front of a woman that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:23 AM
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Wtff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:11 PM
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The problem is, and that's a serious issue, the intensity of how hard you have to work on yourself can't be sustained very long. You might hit the gym for months and maybe a couple of years but eventually it drains you to death and you end up where you were before. Sure, it's an ego boost and helps you like some sort of activation energy, but you also need long-term goals. Being ripped is certainly not a long-term goal. You can instead exercise moderately and work on your career, social persona,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:42 PM
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Reddit is full of radical leftists and it's pathetic. As soon as you make any, no matter which, statement about a population, especially women or muslims, you are instantly downvoted or even banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:39 PM
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I can so agree here. Last crazy woman I had a "breakup" with told me she feels 20 years older than men her age and that men are slower in getting spiritual. She also told me the world would end in 2 years and how if you're spiritual enough your inner spirit will be saved and travel to another galaxy. Then she told me my ego was too big. She wanted to have sex with me and in the middle of the act she told me "there is no love" and stopped while right before telling me I shouldn't have any expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:37 PM
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Whut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:38 PM
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Yeah I guess you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:12 PM
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Agree. Currently I'm dating an African woman and she is very lovely, cute and respectful. To be honest I wouldn't apply anything of what I said to her. But then I could also be wrong as always during the beginning of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:09 PM
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And German women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:45 PM
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Closeness, love, affection.. it's all the same thing. Just feeling appreciated and loved. Personally I could just lie in bed with my girlfriend all day and be happy. But from experience women always want so much variety. They want mystery, emotional variety (you have to go through an emotional rollercoaster to get everything right), travel through the world, cook weird things, etc. Men settle for much simpler things. Women also hate if a man is predictable. You always have to do effort to surpri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:32 PM
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Don't know about you but I fall in love precisely with the imperfections. The girl I most fell in love with and had the longest relationship was molly, not too attractive and had lots of problems. I definitely saw her how she really was. But yes, I would agree with you that some people start relationships with unrealistic expectations and then get disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:29 PM
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Yes, things come and go and usually you have no influence. Personally I follow this mindset.. I just let things flow and I do I. Am also a strong believer in determinism and that we have no power over anything. We can make use of the illusion of power though, but it only restricts to smaller things around you. You can't influence a whole country for example, that's why I don't even vote cause it's pure nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:21 PM
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Call it what you want but for every effect there is a cause/factor. And in case of rapists they are usually unhappy because of other factors that led to injustices. People who are lonely and don't get love get shat on. Society doesn't give a shit and so people surpass limits and get violent. This is a core injustice in our world. If there wasn't injustice nobody would harm anybody in the first place. This is undebatable and easy to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:17 PM
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Sorry, I meant they don't want much else other than sex and closeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:15 PM
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I would correct my statement to "nature injustice". It's not societies fault men need sex so much. And I don't justify any rape. I just describe how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:49 AM
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We are all animals, just to make it clear. And sex is a very anomalous act because it disables your rational brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:26 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:25 AM
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Lol right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:25 AM
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Sorry bro. Relationships can be beautiful but they can be same as devastating when they come to an end. It's worth trying out but for the long run you need a strategy to make it worth it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:04 AM
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You do you. That's just my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:03 AM
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Yes but when compared to women the need of sex is on another level. Some men would rape to get it. Women usually wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:02 AM
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If it could be controlled there weren't so many rapes. Women don't rape as frequentl as men do. I condemn rape but it's also a symptom of social injustice towards men when it comes to finding a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:59 AM
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What? Incapable of love? How do you explain that men take much longer to get over a woman after a breakup then? Saying that is ridiculous. Men are more often than not way too much in love simply because they have nobody else who is so close. I do agree that they might fake it to get sex but eventually fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:57 AM
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The average man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:37 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:16 AM
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Calling your man a kid and expressing to feel like a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:15 AM
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Sex and affection* You don't get affection from a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:10 AM
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True, that also contributes to the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:09 AM
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Good point. But men basically don't want much else other than sex. Women on the other hand have lists of demands. And that's what makes it a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:08 AM
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Sometimes men don't get to chose what women they get because women are so picky. And so they settle with what they can get because men depend on women more than women depend on men. Men need sex and affection because it's rare, women need socioeconomic stability, but these days women can provide for their own. Harsh but true. So in my opinion your point would have been valid 100 years ago but now it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:27 AM
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I don't want to sound mean but you using all this Rational Male jargon is just sad. Do we really want to overanalyze this to death? And also always hate her a bit? Wtf? Actually I did this for a while since it made me work on myself and "show her", but I was at one of the saddest moments in my life and I really don't want to get back to playing these games. I rather stay single than being in a toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:46 PM
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Uhh, no. Wrong. By "opening up" men mean the same as women mean by "opening up" when talking about themselves. Making themselves vulnerable, expressing their fears and anxieties, you name it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:41 PM
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I did all I could but it was never enough.. that's what I can say. And the blame was on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:34 PM
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Well, it was obviously over without doing all of these things. These are just conclusions I drew from my experiences. Maybe the truth is somewhere in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:24 PM
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We openly talked about everything and precisely that was the problem. Sometimes it's better to shut your mouth, at least as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:23 PM
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99% of men on this sub and r/askmen complain about how opening up backfires and leads to their girlfriends immediately losing respect. They (and so do I) claim that women often say this without meaning it or changing their mind afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:01 PM
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Well my exes and me were deeply in love but it always ended this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:59 PM
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Being annoyed/shit testing nonstop is like the immediate thing my exes did after the honeymoon phase was over. Is there a way to avoid this? I think being more distant towards her and not opening up is what extends this honeymoon phase. It's toxic as fuck but it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:57 PM
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My experience (n=3) can confirm that opening up will 100% backfire and make you be less desired
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:02 PM
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BS. Man will always be doomed to be horny because that's their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:57 PM
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Everything is going towards instant gratification and this includes dating apps. This is a much bigger problem than just dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:44 PM
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Considering women don't settle for men less intelligent than themselves that's plausible..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:37 PM
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Women are attracted to men's desires and if a man is secure in wanting something really hard she will love to give it to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:17 PM
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If you ask me this goes both sides. Women get more avoidant and men get more frustrated, thus they join these anti women communities like MGTOW and the vicious cycle just repeats. I'm seeing some very worrisome tendencies that both genders are hating each other more and more while mostly needing an opposite sex partner. Makes dating much more toxic and overall society too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:39 PM
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