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mindmonkey00/r/seduction18/10/16 07:04 PM
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mindmonkey00/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:59 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction16/11/17 05:09 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction04/03/17 01:24 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction07/12/17 06:59 PM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction26/07/19 06:15 PM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction23/05/17 01:27 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction22/06/17 05:23 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:25 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction12/12/17 03:10 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction18/07/19 03:56 AM
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mindmonkey00/r/seduction18/11/17 01:45 AM
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Keep it light and fun and text her every couple of days. You're not at the point in the relationship where you're attractive enough to wonder what she's doing yet. Yeah it's crazy to hear that, but that's how it is. Right now it's about creating value and showing her you're someone she needs to hang out with. Instead send her memes especially if it's related to something you talked about with her. Or you can also tell her something about your day that was hilarious or interesting.
/r/seduction09/08/19 06:27 AM
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Chadfishing only proves that good looking guys can get laid easily on tinder. It does not prove ALL girls will fuck good looking guys at the drop of a hat. There's no evidence to suggest that every girl who has seen and interacted with him is willing to fuck him. Only cases the experimenter wanted to show us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:24 PM
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Okay. So I should be interesting at all times and don't engage in random small talk untill she's really fucking interested I guess
/r/seduction26/07/19 07:29 PM
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Gotcha. Thanks for the tip
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:24 PM
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Okay and if she just wants to chat send her a few light hearted and fun texts but don't drag it on?
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:39 PM
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Also I wasn't texting between the two times she asked me out other than one soft confirmation on a date where she wanted to spend time at my house to drink and watch movies. I asked her what beer she liked
/r/seduction23/06/19 05:24 PM
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Ok, so don't respond to her last text and stop texting her until she initiates then?
/r/seduction23/06/19 05:18 PM
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I don't think it matters all that much if they already like me. I don't really see how asking a girl out is considered being overly interested. If she knows I'm interested in her, wouldn't she expect me to ask her out? It doesn't seem like something that would necessarily hurt my chances unless I were overly persistent about it. Your advice is reasonable and it doesn't hurt the scenario, but it also feels needlessly complicated and unnecessary. But we can have a discussion about it
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:56 PM
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I'll pm you
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:21 PM
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Alright so it sounds like I should just say "cool, have fun" and wait for her to make the next move then
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:09 PM
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I'm willing to listen. Lead me to a study supporting women only care about looks
/r/Chadfish22/06/19 07:17 AM
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You're not proving shit until we see proof that you're "just an average guy". You don't have to expose yourself to us, but you should put up your face on r/truerateme and send a screencap of what the users say. The people here are so discouraged and feel worthless. What you're saying is insulting and difficult to believe. We need full proof that you're truly an average looking bloke
/r/Chadfish19/06/19 11:02 PM
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Being a nice person and having an interesting personality are not the things. In fact, having an edge to you is infinitely more attractive than being a spineless niceguy
/r/Chadfish18/06/19 04:14 PM
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I'm a chadlite and I've been getting 3-4 matches daily on okcupid. Many times, the girl would message me first. I blindswipe so the appearances varied. but I get decent, 5-7/10 girls regularly. I even get some dates and hookups. It's not effortless mind you, and i do have to be somewhat interesting and funny, but I still find success. I don't think it's the dating market that's the issue. Tinder makes using it's platform very difficult if you're someone who's been on the app before and if you're…
/r/Chadfish13/06/19 10:23 PM
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What do you do if you don't have a motorcycle?
/r/BlackPillScience28/05/19 03:14 PM
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I'd call myself a chadlite as well. I can score dates pretty easily. Haven't really scored hookups though. Got any tips?
/r/BlackPillScience28/05/19 12:23 PM
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You're getting it completely confused. Personality has nothing to do with how nice and good natured you are. Sexual desire and being nice are mutually exclusive. In fact, often times being an arrogant prick can make you desirable, depending on how you project it. Women like dominance and power. As an extreme example, Nicolas Cruz, the parkland shooter, is not attractive in the slightest. He has many girls adoring him and sending him love letters despite all of that. Granted, girls don't typicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:52 AM
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See that's the thing you're making assumptions again and there's no indication anywhere on her profile that this is her second pregnancy. Why does it have to be her fault. All you know is that she's a pregnant mother looking for a loving father figure for her child. She could be a heinous bitch for all we know, but there's nothing that explicitly describes that here. At this point you're making an effort to make her look bad since these are all assumptions. Basically it means absolutely nothing,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 10:20 PM
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That's quite a mouthful from "It's a long story on what the dad did". You really know a lot about someone you know nothing about. Who's to say he wasn't actually doing something edgy and slept with other girls while she was pregnant?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 06:26 PM
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Yeah, let's forget about the fact that some men are incredibly manipulative and will turn heel when they're not getting what they want from the relationship. Who's to say he wasn't that nice, ideal father when she wasn't pregnant?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 12:46 PM
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There's absolutely no scientific studies presented here. This is just a blogger ranting about something that upsets him. While he may or may not be right, conjecture and hypothetical discussion without any proper testing isn't conducive to blackpill science. This sub was made to try and put a complete stop to commonly held beliefs about women and dating. When you boldly reject those conventions you have to seriously show for it. These are huge claims you're making after all, so there needs to be…
/r/BlackPillScience25/08/18 01:27 AM
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How do you feel about coffee dates?
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:43 PM
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It's odd because she called her mother before hand. Probably so we'll have the house to ourselves since I never saw her mom
/r/seduction12/12/17 05:26 AM
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This was a date I was on earlier today. It makes sense to focus on something that just happened. Furthermore, why am I fixated because I'm using an example where I would be confused about having a "natural flow"? I really am not worried that this particular scenario. It doesn't really bother me if things don't go further with this girl. However, I'm trying to improve my game. That's something I'm fixated on. I asked my dad for advice and he said it's a matter of chemistry. But I don't think chem…
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:51 AM
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And the award for never having been intimate with a female goes to...
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 10:42 PM
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Ok, but still make those texts interesting right?
/r/seduction07/12/17 08:09 PM
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Then I also simply can't easily think of funny texts to send. This happens pretty often and I feel it damages the relationship
/r/seduction07/12/17 07:49 PM
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That's a good way to go about it. What about through text? have the habit of writing a text and not sending it because I'm not sure if it's a good text to send or not. You're mind tends to over think things in those moments and even a harmless, well meaning text is suddenly seen as too boring. Then when you want to an interesting funny text you're worried it's too offensive somehow. Even though neither of these texts are in any way bad to send from an objective standpoint, that process of over t…
/r/seduction07/12/17 07:16 PM
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That was really detailed and informative. I learned a lot. Thank you.
/r/seduction27/11/17 06:11 AM
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I think you're being a little presumptuous. I'm not worried about what people think. I want sex because it's something human beings desire by nature. It's damaging to be starved of it and you can clearly tell I'm in turmoil.
/r/seduction27/11/17 04:16 AM
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I didn't mean to shoot down your advice. I just struggle with not getting sex and it makes me frustrated. Sorry if I sounded rude. Maybe I just need a new approach to meetup and I'm joining the wrong clubs. I'm sure you've made a lot of great friends there.
/r/seduction27/11/17 03:48 AM
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This has worked for you? I tried it and it was mostly middle age people. It wasn't really something that would work for me.
/r/seduction27/11/17 03:14 AM
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I'd love to develop my social. I don't have a lot of opportunity though since I'm almost out of college.
/r/seduction27/11/17 03:04 AM
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I get it. It's not helping my case. But let's take the focus off my mindset for one minute. If I feel I have an opportunity then that will give me enough of the confidence I need. The focus shouldn't simply be self improvement. It should also be combined with actively getting to know girls and practicing flirting. The most important thing is finding those opportunities.
/r/seduction27/11/17 01:27 AM
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I told you I understand being desperate makes me seem like a chump. I'll deal with that myself. My main concern is finding a girl to sleep with. I don't need to be told I'm acting like a pathetic loser. That's irrelevant. The bottom line is that I'm depressed and pathetic because of my virginity and nothing else is going to matter until that is taken care of. Of course, I don't know if sex will make a major difference but I know I'd be better off being disappointed than feeling tortured never ex…
/r/seduction27/11/17 01:10 AM
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Being okay with being alone or having the capability to find your own fun if one cancels, rather than trying to scramble to get a replacement if one cancels, is a better position to be in. Example: A girl cancels and you go out solo or to meet with friends, and you have a good time without them. Yeah, this only works when you know you could easily get other girls and have options. Some people here have never even had sex. It's impossible to feel this way without enough reasurrance. I'm guessing …
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:20 PM
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Knowing social improvement from experience?
/r/seduction18/11/17 03:57 AM
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Thank you. I really needed that confidence boost. You've been very helpful.
/r/seduction18/11/17 02:33 AM
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I know it feels right to put somebody down who's complaining about their situation, but it really isn't needed here. I didn't ask to be put down by people. I asked for simple advice. You can take that attitude somewhere else. Who cares if I'm upset? The point is I'm trying to better myself as much as I can. I'm in a tough situation. I can't simply push it to one side and forget about it. It's in my head sure but it's not getting out of there until it stops being a problem. I guess I could ignore…
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:42 PM
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You're chad. Girls are only going after you because you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:16 AM
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That was a perfect text conversation. I'm I the only one who feels like those witty messages are something that comes and goes? Like you can't always think of them on the spot so conveniently?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 04:26 AM
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He's asking why. He's looking for advice. Your assholeness is not needed here.
/r/seduction18/10/17 11:47 PM
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So you're saying almost all men are going to die a virgin or have very limited sex lives? At least, Compared to how things were before the advancements of social media and dating apps. Or are you saying this is more applicable to unattractive as well as generally average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 01:13 AM
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So be it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:28 PM
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Great. I'm sure you plenty tangible evidence back that up beyond simple assumptions and theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:22 PM
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Ok, now show me something that clearly shows that more and more men are struggling to get sex. Attractive men always win when it comes to online dating. That's true. As it happens though, a good chunk of relationships start in person. Usually through social circles. Most girls on tinder don't meet in person. They usually use to try it out because their friends suggested it. They don't need to rely on however because they have plenty of oppurtunities to meet guys already. Nothings really changed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:16 PM
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I said where's the proof
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:01 PM
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Where's the proof that more men are incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 07:50 PM
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6 feet. Nothing incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 01:55 PM
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You're probably incredibly facially attractive. It's not very hard to figure out. I don't think your gains play much of a role.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:11 PM
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I'm mostly average looking. I might get a few matches on tinder here and there but for a while I wasn't getting anywhere, even with these matches. In the course of maybe a year, 1 or 2 dates. I had terrible social skills and I'll admit I was suffering from low self esteem. I left my job and found another one I'm more passionate about. This allowed me to be around people I shared interests with. I greatly developed my social skills doing this in addition to finding fulfillment in my career. Combi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:13 AM
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Why is it only incels spouting this bullshit when they have zero experience with women. Your black pill truths are useless and based on nothing but are simply manifested from depression. You simply think the worst things possible and want to bring most people down with you. Zero basis on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 03:48 AM
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"Better" or to the point where it actually makes a significant difference?
/r/seduction03/07/17 04:03 AM
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Ok, I think I can handle that. Thank you for the feed back.
/r/seduction22/06/17 03:35 PM
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So I should attempt to get her into more conversations instead of just throwing banter at her? That's something I guess I've been neglected. Maybe it's because I feel like asking questions would dull the interaction.
/r/seduction22/06/17 02:27 PM
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I'm still trying to get the hang of this. What's a good way to call her out?
/r/seduction22/06/17 11:05 AM
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I guess I need more experience. Can you help me understand which questions are probing?
/r/seduction22/06/17 11:03 AM
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You sound like a huge asshole.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:04 PM
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I'm usually not negative. I'm more stiff and awkward. Sometimes I'm too in my head to let the conversation flow and I'm left forcing it along. Makes socializing difficult.
/r/seduction23/05/17 04:15 AM
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Shot in the dark, but did you go under "Iamhopeless" at one point?
/r/seduction01/05/17 04:32 AM
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Is it true you have to be incredibly good looking? I get a decent amount of attention IRL and there's always a couple of girls in every one of my classes that continuously glances back at me, but these days I've only gotten about 2 matches a week.
/r/seduction08/04/17 12:02 PM
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"Starting things off" texting is important though. Gotta get her engaged before you dip in deeper water. But even still, I can't really just tell me brain to stop overthinking and then come up with a response I would laugh at. If I force it and just say whatever comes out the top of my head, it comes out wrong and things start to die down. It's important for me to be in that good mood because it's so much easier to get thoughts flowing smoothly and consistently. I guess it's just a matter of con…
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:52 AM
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Your real problem is that you're trying too hard. You want it way too badly. The real approach is to stop being outcome dependant and just be yourself. Don't feel like every interaction is a challenge that needs to lead to something more. Just enjoy the time as it is and chemistry will begin developing in the natural way. Let yourself fail and let yourself fail hard. Learn to take it in stride and densensitise yourself from it. Once you learn all of this it's only going to keep getting better.
/r/seduction12/11/16 05:18 PM
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What's been working for me is to just allow any outcome to happen and not try to do anything to prevent them. This makes it so you're more comfortable which will make you come off more naturally. It's much easier to create a connection this way.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:18 PM
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The point in suceeding in a shit test not giving a flying fuck about failing one. Learn to do that first.
/r/seduction22/10/16 04:58 PM
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That would actually be a brilliant way to improve game for these guys. I really like the idea. We should try it.
/r/seduction19/10/16 01:22 AM
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Anytime man. Glad you appreciated it. That means a lot.
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:35 PM
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Yeah, nothing wrong with learning and experimenting. But the gist of great conversations and fulfilling interactions is to just act naturally. I guess it's both trying something new and seeing what works for you and also learning to be okay with and bad outcome. Ultimately experiment and do what works best but also goes in line with your personality. Finding out who I truly was and learning different ways to socialize that complimented me has worked wonders.
/r/seduction18/10/16 08:33 PM
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Or just meet people you share common interests with and forget about making this whole thing a giant game where you have to be strategic and careful to get something out of it. Would you really want to be in a relationship where you have to try to make it work to maintain the relationship?
/r/seduction17/08/16 08:18 PM
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It makes sense that you would understand what it means to have a lack of maturity.
/r/seduction14/08/16 06:29 PM
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This is manipulative garbage. You are not incharge of anyone. To make them upset inorder to change their minds is almost abusive. You don't deserve anyone with that kind of behavior. I hope a woman never has to experience the shit you put her through.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 01:47 PM
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Fuck.
/r/seduction17/06/16 12:22 PM
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Aw shit.
/r/seduction23/12/15 11:30 PM
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Getting lays is easy actually. Just go to the store and look in the chips aisle.
/r/seduction27/08/15 05:05 PM
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