Basically I struggle with girls. I often talk to girls online and it's definitely garnered me great results from time to time. I know you're supposed to be this witty and funny guy, but god damnit, every time I try to think of something hillarious and flirty, my mind just draws blanks. It takes me a ridiculous amount of time to come up with a message I feel is suitable. Not only that, it makes texting a chore. I don't want to talk if it's this much a struggle to have a simple conversation. I'll admit it does seem to work quite a bit though. But even then, it kind of turns girls off when I do it sometimes. On the other hand, when I text and just do what comes naturally it's incredibly flowing and enjoyable. I feel like I can just be myself and not have to worry about being someone who has to make some kind of impression on her. The problem is, I think I'm a bit boring. I don't convey that sexual tone or fun, flirty vibe. Girls enjoy talking to me but don't really feel attraction. What's your take on this? Is seduction supposed to be difficult and unnatural or is it really just being your dorky self in all it's glory and being proud of that?