TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

minty-coral Archive

View 0 posts and 207 comments by minty-coral on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

He’s also a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:12 AM
16

They fear women’s power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:37 AM
22

The "funniest" thing about all this (read: totally unfunny) is the depraved porn sick limp dicks who defend their crack by going "but we know it's not real / just a fantasy" but are so shit and abusive in bed because they try to emulate what they watch and they get their ideas of what women want from porn. It's fucking pathetic and very far removed from reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:22 PM
2

He's a huge turnoff, grown ass child. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:58 AM
4

I never though about it this way, gosh you are so right. The amount of contradiction is too much for me, I really don't know how they live like this and think they're not ruled by their feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:14 PM
23

You’re amazing. They can fuck off. Seriously, this inspires me to keep going. I took steps to living my dream last year and it can be so hard some days, such as yesterday. But seeing another woman rise and face obstacles gives me strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:12 PM
40

Men are the true shape shifters. They pretend to like you just so they can fuck you. They change their personality based on what will get them more sex. They’re gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:46 PM
2

Oh nobody here is begging, we are literally choosing. Bye scrotes. I just deleted that sub from my bookmarks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:49 PM
15

Men hate it. It reminds them of their redundancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:11 AM
3

He’s ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:09 AM
4

I cringed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:04 AM
2

I kinda stopped caring about it tbh. I'm no longer looking for friendship, I just do my own thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:27 PM
19

He's a manipulative narc who is rushing "intimacy". Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:10 PM
15

Field dude started something unstoppable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:37 PM
2

Yeah, I don’t know about this one. It reads unhealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:51 AM
4

Narcissistic personality disorder and sociopathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:40 PM
3

Same! He's clearly not in touch with reality, brain is malfunctioning. Complete idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:39 PM
11

Pretty sure FDS rejects a lot more than mere fuckboys, we’ve got women breaking up with boyfriends who gave them a shitty gift for their first year anniversary and women full-on divorcing their husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:49 PM
8

This is absolutely sickening. Bless you for putting it together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:37 PM
5

Same. He’s actually so cute but represents something awful. Grown ass emotionally immature men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:36 PM
9

LMAOooooo this is so on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:27 PM
22

Because they know no girl wants them and they self sabotage the chances they never had with them before the girl can do the rejecting. In other words, they're fucking losers. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:58 AM
11

This kinda made my day, not gonna lie. Makes me want to pet a dog or hold a baby or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:52 PM
37

I can see that flag even with the lights off. your boyfriend is garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:04 AM
2

I hate these kinds of people/dudes the most. These nice and charming acts I can see right through now and they are sooooo obviously fake with darkness lurking underneath. I just hope one day enough women will wake up to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:52 PM
10

Ugh, honestly I can see that. Tons of pickmes out there as well. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:19 PM
22

Remember that men lie a lot, especially when it comes to "scoring".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:46 AM
29

He's literally saying "I don't like you, but I'd love to masturbate in your body."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:45 AM
5

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:35 AM
33

Lmao! Simple and sraight to the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:32 AM
31

Wow, can they get even more pathetic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:52 AM
24

Boys, It's feminism or inceldom. The choice is yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:34 AM
2

It’s been years in the making. But the pivotal moment where I realized I had to change everything about how I interacted with men was years ago when this NVM who was totally into me (supposedly) stood me up on a date that I asked him out on (🥴🤪🤡) and texted me 15 minutes after the meeting time that he fell asleep. Which was a complete lie. And then ghosted me. Looking back, he was so below my standards and league, I’m actually in shock when I think about it. Honestly, he knew it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:24 PM
2

Right? They actually think it's a good excuse but it only makes them out to be inferior, uncontrollable, and more perverted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:10 PM
3

Because tHeY cAn’T hElP iT 🥴🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:38 PM
29

This should be a punishable crime tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:29 PM
24

My pickme moment and level up. I recently moved to a new place. The first few weeks were a bit rough, I knew nobody in the new city, was sad, and felt a little homesick and lonely. One male neighbor who was obviously attracted to me helped me with some stuff in my apartment that I couldn't do by myself (carrying heavy furniture). He then started to avoid me like crazy: literally hiding from me, pretending he didn't see me, closing the building door on me while I was a few feet behind, etc. It wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:24 PM
3

I've had a similar experience. Men flock to me when I'm out and about and radiate true happiness with myself. There was this one day in padticular when I met a friend at a coffee shop and I was being stared at so much by dudes (dudes in line 50 feet away, dudes walkijg by, dudes sitting, old, young, etc.) when there was nothing particularly different about me that day in terms of outward appearance. It was the vibe I was putting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:51 AM
3

Ew, what a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:26 PM
5

And also "yep, and I'm talking about the ones who are exactly like that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:14 PM
2

This is scary....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:37 PM
3

It's sooooo true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:18 AM
9

Gosh, you said it so well in your second paragraph. That's exactly it! Guys are raised to believe their reality, or the way they perceive things, is the reality. Their experiences are everyone else's experiences. Which is why they can't empathize with others. The world is an object which they act upon, and so are women. We are not individual entities with our own minds. When the veil drops and they realize there is a mismatch between what they've believed their whole lives and actual reality, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:00 AM
6

Geart work! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:55 PM
8

He's so fucking ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:02 AM
2

Exactly! LVM know exactly what they're doing. And they are incredibly cruel. That's most men, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:41 PM
3

Yikes. Aw sis, we're glad you're here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:29 PM
3

The title alone was enough for me to answer: yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:13 PM
2

The majority of men are socialized to view women as a sort of frustrating hybrid I disagree. This is men's mating strategy, it is biological. They have nothing to risk or lose when they want access to sex, so it follows that sex and respect/trust/a relationship do not need to overlap for them. The frustrating hybrid is a thing that exists outside of socialization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:05 PM
3

I don't think the majority of men are evil or cruel, but I do think that their goals are ultimately hostile to a woman's health and happiness. There is little to no difference between these two things. If someone's goal is hostile to another person's well being and they repeatedly (attempt to) achieve it, they are evil/cruel. It doesn't get any simpler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:01 PM
16

And the thing is, we're not even extreme. Men's hatred of us is and we're pointing it out. Reality is extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:23 AM
3

I have no issues with any of the porn she's describing. Ummm.... Do I want to watch a women in pain when I can't know they want to be? It's a problem whether they want to be or not. What's with this comment? 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:11 PM
36

Lmao @ his way of assessing compatibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:13 PM
3

Is he wearing his hat backwards? Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:15 PM
4

"your" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:05 PM
3

Receding hairline years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:26 AM
3

He sounds unhinged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:19 AM
3

He’s deeply NVM. Parasitic in all ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:12 AM
1

He needs help. Someone get him into rehab for sex/porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:06 AM
3

Why’d he put up a picture of a garbage bin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:05 AM
3

Spark exists, but there’s a difference between healthy and unhealthy spark. I’d say the vast majority of the time it’s unhealthy. The instant intense kind. The healthy kind is like a slow burning fire that gets bigger. It’s not based on fear or fluttery anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:54 AM
1

Yeah I feel that. It’s one of the reasons I like FDS so much. At the same time, I actually hoped that OP didn’t think I was too harsh because I mean to support her by saying that she dodged a bullet, I want her to feel a bit better since she is hurt right now. It’s true that she did crush on him too early though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:17 PM
24

$5 says he's ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:59 PM
6

It's alright, we're all learning. I feel for OP tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:56 PM
80

Omg your last line 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:54 PM
7

I'm gonna have to go against the grain here and say he was LVM despite seeming "great" on paper, so it's not that he rejected you because you did something wrong. You have to understand, always, there is a dynamic at play and the way someone responds to you, whether you made a mistake on being invested too soon or not, shows their emotional maturity and availability. I don't think for a second he was "following FDS rules". In fact, he was dodgy and full of shit. You lost a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:44 PM
2

I see he didn't graduate elementary school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:13 PM
9

Life is a game and I intend to be one of the best players.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:00 PM
8

I hate knowing that I breathe the same oxygen as this utter imbecile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:35 PM
9

Bobs or vagene 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:24 PM
39

Lmao this! I’m a pretty expressive person in general and so many LVM have mistaken that as interest, and then they either want more or start acting super awkward and avoidant. It was always so bizarre to me until I realized that most (or all) LVM are emotionally unavailable and have the emotional range of a goldfish so their window of tolerance for ANY sort of emotion from a woman is almost zero, even if platonic or just... normal, or even basic authentic friendliness, which is seen as something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:16 PM
6

Keep licking your wounds and being nice to yourself. And look forward to the day you will no longer feel hurt over it. Just knowing that it’s temporary helps a little. It’s okay to feel sorry for yourself and be down in the dumps for experiencing this. Sit with those feelings. Cry if you have to. That’s how you fast forward to better days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:54 AM
9

Jordie is a pseudo intellectual whiny fuck with deep mommy/emotional issues. Anyone who stans him fits that same profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:46 AM
26

Take note ladies. This is what bottom of the barrel looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:37 AM
5

He can’t even use capital letters. Very unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:36 AM
7

Sis, you did the right thing and you’ll get over him eventually. Not all HVM are good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:00 AM
12

I’m so happy you shared this and you’re most definitely not alone! I’ve only recently begun to not sexualize myself and moving through the world as a human being rather than an object, and it feels kinda weird because I’m not used to it. Non sexual male attention is different and feels very nice in a wholesome way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:50 AM
20

They look so obnoxious, I can hear them from the other side of my screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:42 AM
1

This is the kind of plot twist I like to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:51 PM
4

"Also my love language is physical touch"-NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:58 AM
1

"Software developer" is the first red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:52 AM
3

I'd be bitter too if I had a receding hairline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:31 AM
10

It's noncommittal BS. These idiots have no business dating at all. They're unavailable, terrified of intimacy or incapable of it altogether, and obvious porn addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:11 AM
10

lol haha just kidding haha My vagina couldn't get any drier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:02 AM
9

This is now my new goal too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:56 AM
10

This is a loser everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:55 AM
10

I wish I could make this my ringtone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:47 AM
5

Ahhh the Shadow Realm 🤍🤎🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:46 AM
7

Ahh but you see, paying someone is no fun. It means the woman wouldn’t do it for free, which means she doesn’t want you. And where’s the ego boost in that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:16 PM
8

It’s only fun for him. And he thinks that’s all women exist for, to serve men and meet their needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:15 PM
2

Thanks. This makes a lot of sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:06 PM
2

Saved this for later. You’re amazing, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:06 AM
1

I’m unaware. Why’s this a dealbreaker? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:13 AM
2

Not sure where guilt fits into this (bad) picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:08 PM
24

Yes, it's a red flag. They're trying to manipulate you into doing something you don't want to do. They don't care about your feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:59 PM
7

Omg help 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:55 PM
43

This must be how men feel on the Internet. Wow, light bulb moment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:51 PM
21

Oh, friends? Okay sure. I can do that. Just like I did it to this guy I met at a friends birthday party who couldn’t keep his hands off of me that night. I told him I wasn’t interested. He asked if I wanted to go with him at a massive BBQ the next weekend “as friends”. I went, thoroughly enjoyed myself, met all his friends, ate great food, then called it a night. He tried to make out with me in his car after, I went home. Good night friend! He eventually stopped contacting me, weird how we barel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:20 AM
12

So deep. Lol. This sounds like a whiny journal entry of a 10 year old boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:27 AM
11

Ew his pic... that stupidly positioned hand... his attempt to wear you down, just all around gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:14 AM
13

Ugh, I think you’re right. It’s so odd that they want to remain “masculine” as you can see from their self-centeredness and entitlement and yet they try to reverse the roles at the same time and put the onus on the woman to ‘chase’ him. I think it’s also a huge ego boost for them to have women chasing them and do all the work, so they can feel sought after. It’s so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:01 PM
18

I don’t get why they do this. Is it fear of rejection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:02 PM
613

Not only do we not hate men the same way they hate us, but we also hate them for legitimate reasons. They hate us because they cannot get what they feel entitled to, but are actually not entitled to. We hate men for hating us. Men simply hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:28 AM
1

You’ve inspired me to add martial art classes on my to do list. It sounds so fun and purposeful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:10 AM
11

I think a lot of the same men will hold these contradicting views. Because at the end of the day it’s all about having control over a woman’s body... that’s the unifying theme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:14 AM
1

I’m taking mental notes here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:00 AM
2

Queen, thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:59 AM
5

I'm 100% that bitch who intimidates men without a problem Do you mind describing how you do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:28 PM
14

How could I forget? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:43 PM
13

Thank you, I needed to hear this exactly today. Wasn’t feeling very good since yesterday and thinking I’m “too much” was a part of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:27 PM
30

Wait what? How could he have sex with you if you have a sewn up vagina? Even his psychopathy makes no sense, I'm 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:28 PM
10

One thing I want to correct her on: a lot of men are intimidated by certain types of women (e.g. accomplished, beautiful, intelligent, and knows what she wants all-in-1) and that fact alone makes them not desire the woman because he feels small in comparison. In other words, being intimidated and not wanting her aren't mutually exclusive. Also, this dude's an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:03 AM
13

Ew why, like what? No. This looks so off in every possible way. It's unnatural, incredibly degrading, and just outright gross. Don't do it sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:52 AM
48

OMG lol! This reminds me of 2 instances from my past: Back in high school I had a guy friend who I liked as more than a friend. One day he confessed and it went something like this: "I'm into you and would like you to be my girlfriend. I like both you and [other girl] but [other girl] has been friends with me longer and I don't want to ruin it with her or make it weird. So I pick you." 🥴 ohmygod ladies, did you hear that? He picked me. I WAS PICKED!!!! Yeah, I rejected his ass and stopped having…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:22 AM
16

It’s actually C) men should fix their own shit and leave women alone until they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:37 PM
16

Who the fuck just assumes anyone would like to be roughly and violently treated during intimacy, especially if its not even mentioned at all! Sociopathic porn addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:59 PM
3

Because they’re shooting out of their league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:48 PM
2

He’s coping so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:34 PM
19

Lol, the “not interested” act makes him even more desperate. Also, I always let these types of dudes fade into non existence and they’re always so surprised that I didn’t chase after them. Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:27 PM
22

Holy fuck, post of the month (year?). I admire you right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:16 PM
8

I actually laughed out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:28 AM
2

Right? Sometimes I'm weirded out by how common our behavior and experiences are. This sub really be out here calling it all out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:09 AM
3

I feel it too,there's a lot of bright energy here and it wants to express itself beyond the dating scene. Let's keep spreading the message. I love watching the sub grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:53 AM
18

He was so threatened by you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:48 AM
3

Are we siblings or something? This is exactly my dad, it's scary how similar he is to yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:01 AM
51

Sex and degradation means the same thing to men regarding women. They need therapy ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:40 AM
104

Idk, I like salt. No lies were detected in your comment tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:43 PM
17

Lmaooo, sorry I know it’s a serious matter but just imagining doing these things is funny. They’d create a scene that the dude would not have anticipated. I don’t doubt that they work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:47 PM
6

i think the worst part of the research was that women don't even exhibit this tendency nor get less attracted to men that aren't Chads... It's because we see men as human and our attraction to them isn't normally compartmentalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:25 AM
3

Damn, she went in. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:42 AM
16

I think it scares the women who don’t have standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:25 AM
5

Not gonna lie, this is what I was thinking too. Like... why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:00 AM
15

Low key agree, but high key see OP’s point. Men and women are different. FDS wouldn’t be FDS without acknowledging that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:55 AM
1

Wow, good point. I've never thought about it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:49 PM
6

This is honestly an amazing post. You did such a great job analyzing this addiction. I'm inclined to believe gaming for men is a placeholder for leveling up in real life. They've given up for one reason or another. I'm convinced a huge part of it is their entitlement and arrogance coming into conflict with having to actually work for things in the real world to make them happen. So they do the very bare minimum and dedicate the rest of their waking hours to gaming. It's a huge issue. Both video …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:46 PM
4

women seeing their partners as equal human beings rather than compartmentalized, replaceable sexual objects to exchange at will I love the way you worded this. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:25 PM
26

What a total loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:45 PM
23

Yuck, it's so true. They're turned on by a woman's pain. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:39 AM
6

Oh sweet lord. They're so obvious about it too, I remember a guy cold approaching me at a mall once, and I straight up asked him if he was doing a challenge because my gut feeling was screaming at me saying this was all planned. I could tell because of the vibe I was getting: I was just a number to him, an "obstacle" to get through. He denied it, but I never believed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:31 AM
34

Yes. Men are parasitic and rely on women to lift them up in every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:11 AM
7

I'm curious to know too. I don't really get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:02 AM
2

I’m glad you see it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:41 AM
3

CBT is a symptom reliever and doesn't get to the root of the issue so I guess that parallels stoicism (even the legit kind) pretty well. he encouraged deep introspection so the emotions won't cloud your judgment/make you bitter I sort of get that, but at the same time I think in many cases emotion makes judgment better. Yeah, I don't really like philosophy. Sometimes being a better person and a good member of society requires a lot of emotion. Anger, for example, can be used to motivate and make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:10 PM
4

lol they are so salty when they get made fun for it, but spend an inordinate amount of time judging women's looks I'm enjoying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:26 AM
-2

They define themselves by it and a lot of their actions are motivated by their penis. Not that they are objectively defined by a body part. arent that shallow I completely disagree. And I'll leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:22 AM
-7

Well, they largely do and there is truth to that stereotype. FDS and all LVM are proof of that. So I'll agree to disagree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:15 AM
5

Respond with a therapist's and escort service's phone numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:13 AM
0

I know FDS doesn't normally condone this, but I fully believe there's a way to respond without giving your power away. I would let this scrotum know "strong cope thinking it's 'painful' for me to talk to you Kyle, when in reality I'm showing this message to all my girlfriends and laughing at how pathetic and desperate you sound lol". And then block. Or better yet, do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:10 AM
6

"4/4* 😘, stay mad"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:04 AM
-10

It's not really the same thing. Men define themselves by their penis, women don't define themselves by their cup size.... but men have made sure to project that onto us and make us care about our "assets" as if we are pieces of meat. Turning it around on them is not double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:01 AM
5

Hmmm, his acting wasn’t very good. He revealed himself by always telling you “I’m like this and I’m like that”... men who proclaim they’ll wait for you to have sex with them are not HV, HV men don’t say it at all. It goes without saying. And complaining about men objectifying women is suspicious at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:34 AM
12

Stoicism is male cope. It’s a way to avoid problems by making it appear as if they’re actually dealing with them. Philosophy in general is male cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:21 AM
3

Oohhh, I would’ve made a folder with big dicks, abs, and gay porn galore. 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:45 AM
1

Even if we pretend it was work, what makes work beyond criticism? Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:39 AM
2

They’ve groomed women into doing that for them and they’re still drinking breast milk at the age of 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:31 AM
4

lol sis he looks 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:19 AM
2

Yes! You get it. Everything you said 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:01 AM
2

I imagine him waving the biggest red flag as he said this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:12 PM
8

The fucked up thing is, they actually are hurt by it. They actually believe you shouldn't call them out on it, they believe you shouldn't tell them that they're hurting you, they think you should just take everything they dish out. That's the twisted mentality of an abusive piece of garbage. Their egos are so fucking big that the moment you call them out on something, they are torn to shreds, suddenly they're the victims and you're the abusive one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:51 PM
15

Lmao, his whole vibe screams LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:27 PM
3

Outwardly successful guys can be JUST as LVM as the rest. It's almost like all the "good on paper" things (career, fitness, house, etc.) are ego-driven status symbols, not 'genuine' accomplishments coming from a growth-oriented and self-aware individual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:16 PM
11

u/divdec please write a book. This was amazing. Every day I'm grateful for FDS and all the wisdom here. When I google something like "he thinks he's not good enough for me" I'm always met with articles upon articles, by men and women alike, who give male-centric or pickme interpretations and advice. The men especially will never admit the insecure core of the LVM, they'll just give the surface explanation of "he just doesn't love you as much as you love him" and that's it. But you hit the nail o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:05 PM
2

hopefully they're madly in love and everything is great for them. I doubt this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:05 AM
2

Yuck, the desperation emanating from him in those texts. So glad he’s your ex now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:30 AM
3

No need to apologize. I'm glad my eyes have been opened even further even if I find their motivations to be gross. It sucks how their insecurity ruins any attraction I'd feel towards them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:04 PM
3

they really get off on molding and shaping young minds, particularly young women’s minds, and take credit for it when these young women succeed I don't know why but this is making me want to barf. I just feel so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:44 PM
5

he was glad I was an independent type who didn’t constantly unload my problems onto him He told on himself. He said "I hate being supportive towards women, so I'm glad you don't come to me with stuff." He wants you to be helpless in a way that boosts his ego and makes him superior to you, but he doesn't want you to need his real help on anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:36 PM
9

Very true in my experience. I've come to believe they want someone who "reflects" their own so called "intelligence". That is, you should be smart, but come to the same conclusions as them. Which exposes how they really see you: as an extension of themselves. These men are so common. I've hurt way too many egos in my life just by pointing things out neutrally. They take it as an attack and get really weird, or just downright aggressive. It's extremely off-putting how much of their identity is ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:47 PM
99

Why we never tell them the extent of our pasts and traumas we carry. Men cannot even handle it. They start acting really weird at best, and at worst they take advantage of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:27 PM
32

It's so pathetic, I cringed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:26 PM
118

he didn’t want to invest more time into the relationship because he was wanted to work on his career instead Then why tf is he on online dating sites? Ohhhh that's right, he wants free sex. Weirdly enough, he has enough time to invest into manipulating women and pretend to want a relationship. These assholes tell on themselves. What a loser. You did very well. I have Natalie's book, it's gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:31 AM
9

3 in one I can’t. 😂 This is a recurring theme on FDS and I’m here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:06 PM
21

Porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:02 PM
16

We have standards, incels do not. They’d fuck a cheeseburger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:36 PM
19

Wow.... your comment is my life right now. As always men are projecting and think our life's goal is chasing after the opposite sex and trying to have as many sexual encounters as we possibly can. And since so many of them have pedophilic tastes, they think saying we age will be such a stinger that devastates us. So true. It's all projection, that's all men ever do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:20 PM
84

For him too. What the shit is his point? lol fail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:25 AM
17

What in the blue fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:11 AM
10

And men created the family system with stressed and unhappy mothers. Louder for the people in the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:07 AM
13

LOL he's so salty and obviously desperate. Imagine how "dry" his life has been in terms of sex that he has to text someone from almost a year ago to see if he has a shot at getting his dick wet. I don't know whether to laugh or to cringe when I think about the fact that these idiots both 1) act like they have so many options by the way they treat women and 2) actually have no options. The cockacity is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:01 AM
33

Yeah what the fucking hell? Like does he even know how ridiculous and stupid that sounds? LMAO "can I have 1 sex now please?" Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:53 AM
3

🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:46 PM
2

Lol this is a prime example of men creating their own demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:13 PM
37

"I have to manipulate women into giving me a chance because they can obviously do better than me" he said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:57 PM
23

It's almost like they expect you to be there for them waiting, always. Or like they've got you hooked and you won't be able to help yourself and text them. There was a shortcel I know IRL who was such a coward and so low effort that the few times we hung out in a group he'd ask me why I don't text him. And I told him why don't you text me if you want to so bad? He couldn't answer. He continued playing these weird flirting games with me until I cut him off. Another dude would wait a whole day (ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:50 PM
6

(this is supposed to be a trash can) I laughed so hard. Thank you for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:44 PM
18

Men will lie through their teeth to fuck you. Omg yes. Another FDS member mentioned this somewhere else, but men invented propaganda too (count romance movies in there). The lies go really deep. Like they will fake entire personalities for a crumb of p*ssy. Edit: movies not novels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:47 PM
17

"Could you be my free prostitute?" is what he's actually asking for. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:44 PM
16

Also wouldn't be surprised if he's been down TRP at some point....look at that shoddy 'frame' he tries to hold puffing his arms up lololol. Wow, good call. I can feel that he's putting on an act somehow but you really called him out here. 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 12:40 PM
14

This is a literal porn site then. I wonder about the Reddit sponsors...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:36 PM
2

I love you guys so much. Thank you for everything. Let’s keep it going!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:49 PM
27

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:39 AM
10

Old gramp 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:04 AM
2

Not gonna lie, this comment made my day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:41 PM
5

All this tells me is that women succeed even with the patriarchy weighing down on them. That’s how amazing we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:35 PM
11

What a tool! You've done so well for yourself, you're amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:15 AM
14

Just another scrote who can’t deal with the consequences of busting a nut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:22 PM
12

A literal nobody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:21 PM
1

I think men should donate some audacity and entitlement to women. They have too much of it and women too little. Time to even out the playing field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:31 PM
2

If this was turned into a video game where you have to fight the patriarchy, I’d totally play it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:12 PM
1

Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:23 PM
2

Aw, it got removed. 😞 How can I get an invitation to dark triad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:18 AM
16

At least she doesn’t have a cheese dick, receding hairline, beer gut, ED, and a missing toenail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:00 PM
18

Didn't this scrotum learn anything about Gaston? He was a dickbag and got rejected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:50 AM
1

Lol? Porn is what's abusive. I'm almost embarrassed for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:45 AM
7

Exactly. He's obviously sexually violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:41 AM
18

Wow, based police. I hope they didn't get in trouble after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:23 PM
4

Bruh most sex isn't had for reproduction. If God made you replaceable outside of reproduction purposes, what makes you think I'll choose you to casually fuck when Chad is way better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:50 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter