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| 2 | Cold approaches, day game, advice. | mmaguy7 | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:16 PM | |
| 1 | Where to cold / warm approach | mmaguy7 | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 10:55 PM |
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| 3 | Help with Approach anxiety and fear?Bro are u kidding me? you are pos for telling him this, it's true most women prefer taller men, keyword PREFER, you can easily change a girls preference by acting confident, if it came down to a tall shy guy, or a short confident guy 9.9/10 women will go with the short and confident, vast majority will completely look past someone's short stature, and the asian part is completely bullshit, I'm guessing you are still in highschool with those mindsets the fact of the matter is what women want most… | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 02:16 AM |
| 12 | Have tinder and bumble gone to shit or is my game off?I used tinder when I was bored, swiped right to the good looking females, got matches and generally had no follow up, don't ask me why. But yes as of late I haven't even been getting any matches so it seems like it's dying down, at least from my perspective | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed on wings, going out solo, drugs and AA...I was in a very similar situation, I'm also 26 who has a lot of friends who tend to like to do drugs, like cocaine, mdma, weed, and alcohol. Difference for me is I had to take a step back once I started doing coke multiple times in a week and as a result was getting anxiety attacks, which scared me off doing it with that frequency, however once a month I'll still ball up and have a good time. I noticed as well, while doing it I would never approach, it most definitely does not help, infact most … | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Gaming at almost 40? Possible?My man there is no age limit for game, you can game as long as you are able to walk, and talk. There is no shortage of young women who like older men, no shortage of older women who like younger men. All women of all ages are waiting to be approached period, taken or not, young or old. Start gaming, my friend. Oh and 40 years old is still very young, I know some in the game that are late 50's. And I wouldn't be surprised to see some gaming in their 60's or even 70's if their healthy. | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:56 AM |
| 1 | My experiences of 2 years into Seduction/PickupVery well said, agreed with everything, enjoy continued success, and your long journey bro. | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:29 AM |
| 1 | My experiences of 2 years into Seduction/PickupYes you guys are right, but I think he was trying to make a different point, or at least I saw it as a different point. The behavior of what you present is what makes us attractive, much more so then our appearance, and rightfully so, we all can change our behavior but not our appearance (eyes, nose, height, ethnicity, etc.) We can however change our physical fitness, get fitted in nice clothing, and have nice teeth, (primarily talking fitness though) all of that stuff is in our power and also i… | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Need help going out alone.It really is man, I struggled so hard with this aspect, what finally did it was the built in frustration of not having sex 2 years after my break up, all that built in frustration made me do it, and I've been so happy ever since. What changed my mindset at first is that I always put girls on a pedestal, then I got a recorder to record myself approach and it changed my mindset to think that i'm out here practicing, not out here hoping that these women will be the one, made it easier for me to go … | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Cold approached a HB10Best advice I can give to you is to keep practicing man, abundance is key to getting better and that goes for everything in all walks of life, ofcourse you will crash and fail upon being successful, thus is the routine for everyone who becomes successful at something. We must fail, in order to succeed, so each failure you will learn from, sounds cliche but you learn much more from your failures then your success, so continue to fail, try your best to enjoy the process, as hard as that may be at … | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 05:56 AM |
| 2 | I ONLY APPROACH GIRLS WHO ARE ALSO INTERESTED IN MEHate to break it to you man, but this is flat out wrong, you are missing out on numerous opportunities if you are to do this. Now maybe this is your idea of not being able to get out of your comfort zone and approach someone who isn't showing interest, because clearly approaching someone who isn't showing interest is more difficult. I don't blame you for doing this, as no one ever likes the feeling of rejection, but to say that is how it should be done is silly, and just outright not true. Many … | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Need help going out alone.Married at 26? psh be thankful your not them, your still very young, go out and enjoy life, honestly I would suggest to go to a local beach or mall and practice approaching women, it takes a lot of guts to initially get out of your comfort zone and start, but once you do, and you start meeting new people, it becomes much easier, you will learn the game, gain confidence, and attract plenty of women. This all can be achieved alone. | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 05:43 AM |
| 1 | To guys who are intermediate and beyond, how did your first month or 2 in pick up go, and how did you stop sucking?Just long as you touch her with conviction, but yeah it's pretty much trial and error, just don't shy away, honestly if you do it with confidence you can get away with just about anything, you could talk about tree's and get away with it, but it takes a lot to get to that level, your on the right track tho, doing that many approaches a weekend, the more you do the better you get, that's with anything in life, including game. | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | To guys who are intermediate and beyond, how did your first month or 2 in pick up go, and how did you stop sucking?And touch, any opportunity you have to touch her go for it, shows confidence, and increases the sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | To guys who are intermediate and beyond, how did your first month or 2 in pick up go, and how did you stop sucking?Just keep going at it, read the book models, there's really nothing anyone can say to you that you probably haven't read or heard. I would first say congrats because getting off 25 approaches in a weekend sounds like a very good number, and is also where most guys struggle is that aspect of it. Everyone never fully has complete security when going in for an approach, just do your best to look and sound confident, make your intentions known, talk to her about things you have genuine interest abou… | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How did you get over your approach anxiety?Where are you going to day game? It's my day off and I was thinking about going downtown to day game, I always find excuses to bitch out and end up doing something with more comfort. | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 01:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first F-Close on a solid HB9Same here man, I was in a 5 year relationship, she was my first and only love. Thing's got kind of dull towards the end and I started to lose interest in the relationship, as did she I assume. I guess it's human nature to get bored of things, maybe something I need to work on. She left me because she wanted to 'find herself' only to find her in a relationship with another guy a month later, the heart break was devastating. Though I figured this would eventually happen, the reality of it actually… | /r/seduction | 07/03/16 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Field Report - Went out last night, talked to 20+ women - huge question I'm hoping some of you can answer.Do not listen to that debbie downer, from the sounds of it you are at a point where I want to get. Seriously, I would be very proud of myself if I approached 30+ women in an evening. The more you go out and practice the better you will get, abundance is key to improving anything in life. Don't let a look or rejection discourage you as difficult as it may sound, you are making progress, also you must remember this is more a numbers game then anything else, even the best pick up artists deal with … | /r/seduction | 07/03/16 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Does it work?Can you explain how you committed to it, and how fast it took you to succeed, I want to dedicate myself to this, but I don't really know how to go about that. I have been going out with very low success as of late, I usually go out on a Friday, or Saturday, only once a week, and I am usually drunk. I want to stop drinking before I go out, because I've been told I become an arrogant person, which is obviously unappealing to women. I want to know how to fully dedicate myself to this. Should I go t… | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Who else feels like they miss the 'game' after they get into a committed relationship?Honestly if your happy in your relationship you shouldn't miss it imo, once I felt I missed it, I moved on and became single, I was with my ex girlfriend for 4 years and things were becoming dull and boring, I remember going to eat dinner with her one night and thinking to myself.. man I've discussed all this with her before, from that point I knew I had to make a change, it was really tough because she was my first love, but better to live happily then to let someone tie you down. I still do th… | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Looking for opportunties (Not nightgame)The first approach is always the hardest, and knowing there will be a learning curb i.e (getting rejected most of the time, especially during your beginning phase) makes me hesitant to start, but take it from me man, years are flying by, and we want to enjoy our youth while it lasts, I was in a relationship with a girl for 4 years because I didn't have this part of my life figured out, she was someone I didn't really connect with the way I wanted, more of just a sexual attraction, but I stayed w… | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Looking for opportunties (Not nightgame)dude I'm in the same situation as you, my daily life provides little to no opportunities for me to meet women, besides going to the gym, there I see many opportunities, but I never approach, mainly on my fear of running into them time and time again if things don't go as planned, maybe just an excuse but either way. Anyways I am in this because I want to meet someone that I connect with, that I can see more then once, not just for hook ups, for the potential to meet a great girl, we seem to be i… | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Where to cold / warm approachBut u talk to any PUA coach and they constantly refer to the same advice to beginners, and that's abundance, abundance, abundance, how can you approach as much as possible w/o going out of your way to approach, wouldn't my efficiency get better with practice? | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Where to cold / warm approachPeople do this all the time though, you realize? perhaps its not your cup of tea, but many people do this, I was more asking for places where you would day game. Do you have any examples of hobbies or events you could list, that would have a vast amount of opportunities. I'm struggling here. | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Is this common when approaching random women?I have been struggling with getting started, I have been to malls with the sole purpose of meeting women, but I would go home with 0 attempts. I constantly make excuses to myself to not go anymore, 'It's too cold out' I use that a lot as I live in Toronto, "I would rather do some work, or go to the gym' 'I'll start as soon as it gets warmer out' but the reality is what's killing me right now is having someone who was with me for so long and now having no one, it's been a really hard transition b… | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Is this common when approaching random women?beautiful comment, great insight, if you don't mind I am curious what was the motivating push to that got you started? My ex gf of 4 years left me, a month later she was in a relationship, being in a relationship for so long I'm not as comfortable to approaching strangers as I once was when I was younger. I'm 25 now, and I've only been in one real relationship, we have been apart for already a year, and since then I haven't been with another women, to my down fall I don't really put myself out t… | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Is this common when approaching random women?First of all, he explained that there could be 100s of reasons they wouldn't be interested, so you can't take it as a personal shot at you if they do. Like he said, they don't even know you so it's impossible to shut down your character as a person, for whatever reason they weren't interested, you can't take it personally. I also struggle with this part, as it is only human to feel bad after getting rejected. And most "PUA's" will also tell you that their ratio is much lower then 25/30 so whoeve… | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 08:27 AM |
| 0 | Gaming should be supplemental, not coreVery naive for you to say this, though it may not be your cup of tea, it certainly is for others, take the saying "to each their own" it would fit perfectly here. I guarrantee if your PUA friend didn't enjoy making it a core part of his routine he wouldn't do it, he gets enjoyment from it therefore you shouldn't judge, saying that we all should do it a certain way, sounds very ignorant. | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with the frustration of failure and rejection?I would likely try to bring up something you guys talked about during the date, preferrably something you teased her about, or you could playfully tease her about knowing she's been waiting for you to text her, "Listen I know you've been sitting by your phone waiting for a text from me, so I thought I shouldn't keep you waiting too long :P" then following that you can easily make the second date, keep things light, and teasing her is a must, try your best to avoid interview like questions like "… | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with the frustration of failure and rejection?I don't know what happened, could have been a lot of things, generally you feel if you guys had that 'connection' so seeing as you felt it but she didn't seems odd, my only advice would be to not thank her for the date, seems like that would fall under the category of seeking validation, remember always think of yourself as the catch, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Need tips to seduce ex-SO's sister over text/message/phone (dos and don'ts?)I am very curious to know what happened with your relationship? I still think about my ex gf from time to time, its almost been a full year since we've been broken up. She left me and a month later she was already dating another guy! the heartbreak is real, never would i thought it would effect me the way it did, keep your head up. I would suggest to talk to a girl who is outside the blood line of your ex, there is plenty of women out there man, even if you do like her sister, don't think it wou… | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Just starting out doing solo day game in the city...am I doing this right?very interesting post, for me I have been in a rut as of late. my ex girlfriend of 4 years left me for another man about 6 months ago, I've taken it a lot harder then I expected I would. Not to bore you with the details of that, but I have been soul searching from that point in what I really want in life, I have a decent job, a decent amount of money saved, but none of that makes me the happy person I want to be. when I took a long look at myself, i told myself that I want to be that person that… | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaches, day game, advice.What does Alma matter mean? Do you ever have a set plan like ok on Thursday I'm going to the mall and going to cold approach for a couple hours or is your day game just on your way from one place to another? | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm feeling like I'm not even a man anymore..I get what your saying, everyone has different taste and different things we find attractive, however generally speaking, we can tell if an individual is good looking or not. George clooney > good looking Brad Pitt > good looking Jessica Alba > good looking etc... | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaches, day game, advice.Yea I don't have anything that comes to my mind. Being attracted to them would have to come first, after that being genuine, funny, outgoing, active, adventurous, would be some of the things I would look for. Like I said i'm not the most experienced when it comes to women,that's also part of the reason I want to make this a priority for me, so I can figure that out. But given the options you laid out, I would go with outdoorsy, athletic, and extroverted but not a party / club girl. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaches, day game, advice.Give an example? I go to the gym, are you suggesting that I take classes and things of that nature? What do you do that broadened your opportunities to meet women? I actually have high standards of the women I want, speaking from an appearance stand point. As far as what I want in a women, the things majority of us want I guess, I just want to feel a good connection when I'm with her. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Using the honest and straightforward approach?well spoken, good points.. but out of curiosity how often do you practice your game a week? when you go out how many approaches do you usually do? do you have a general scheme or is it usually always different and spur of the moment? where would you go to practice your daygame? I personally think malls would the best place for me, but seeing as I'm 25 now I don't want to hit on 17-18 yr olds which might cause complications. | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 03:33 PM |
| 2 | 24 year old firefighter. Lost.I have been thinking about this too man, all I have been doing is work, hang out with friends occasionally but I feel like something is missing, after a while after thinking about shit I realized that I want to become good with women, ie (able to walk up to any attractive stranger and get her number, go out on dates, encounter new things) right now I am living such a routine lifestyle and my idea of happiness involves encountering new things, which would come if I were to be getting dates with d… | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 09:21 PM |
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