Need help going out alone.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-07-20T05:33:55+00:00

M 26. All my friends are dating/married.

Look, you need a new social circle to supplement these current friends. Because like it or not, it'll be entirely too easy to find yourself being measured up (by yourself or them) according to the standard that married is normal and healthy, and something is wrong with you.

One good go-to is trying out a social partner dance. Gives you something to do. You're meeting people, socializing, learning social skills that help game, and gaining confidence as you learn a dance that will mystify other people among your non-dancers friends.

mmaguy7 · 2016-07-20T05:43:22+00:00

Married at 26? psh be thankful your not them, your still very young, go out and enjoy life, honestly I would suggest to go to a local beach or mall and practice approaching women, it takes a lot of guts to initially get out of your comfort zone and start, but once you do, and you start meeting new people, it becomes much easier, you will learn the game, gain confidence, and attract plenty of women. This all can be achieved alone.

MikeHaines · 2016-07-20T13:42:42+00:00

Love going out solo, I get better results on my own. Most of my pulls with the hottest girls were from when I went out alone.

2 keys to making this work:

When you get to the club, FORCE yourself to open a girl immediately after getting in there. This is so, so important. It sets your brain in the right mould.
Force yourself to approach at least 3 girls before getting your first drink. It's really critical when you're alone to get in the habit of being social IMMEDIATELY, otherwise you'll end up not talking to anyone for hours and it becomes a pure death spiral.

These two rules are absolutely critical for solo game. When you're with friends you can wait around and not approach and things will still go well. But if you're on your own you've got to FORCEFULLY kill your inner chode the moment you get in the venue, otherwise a death spiral of not approaching is imminent.

"What if girls think I'm weird for being at a club on my own?" This used to fuck with my head and stop me from going out solo. However, when I did it a couple times I realised girls rarely even ask. If they do give me shit about it and say, "Where are your friends?" I'll usually hit em back with something cocky like, "I don't have any. I'm here on my own trying to find true love."

It's scary going out alone the first few times but the rewards are tremendous if you stick at it. As I said, most of the fastest pulls, and also the hottest girls I pulled, came from nights where I said FUCK IT and went out alone.

Best of luck!

Title	Need help going out alone.
Author	rickraus
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	July 19, 2016 11:35 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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