Gaming at almost 40? Possible?

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-07-25T18:23:39+00:00

Lots of women are attracted to older guys. A few are not, so when you meet someone younger who brutally rejects you for your age, it tends to make you believe that none of them are interested. Don't be discouraged. I've seen research that indicates that only 15 to 20% of women are totally disinterested in dating someone more than a few years older. That leaves the other 80% who are either open to older guys, or are actively seeking older guys.

And I personally know it's true, when I was 48, I was dating a 35 year old ex-stripper milf.

aswjacob · 2016-07-25T22:47:28+00:00

Yes. I have two wingman who are 50 plus and they kill it at game. My original mentor is 46 and going hard!

OriginalPhee · 2016-07-25T17:39:58+00:00

Women in your age range typically like a guy who has his shit figured out. After that they'll basically come to you, because as unfortunate as it is, women in their 30s start to become more and more active in their search for a mate because older age and fertility do not got hand in hand.

As for seduction? I'm just getting into seddit and learning, so I have no idea what to tell you. I can tell you that you're experienced, and women will like that, so use it to your advantage. Really, once you've done the approach and 'pick up', it should be no different than any ex girlfriend or wife. Except that you probably won't be calling them back after they leave your house in the morning

DaygameCoach · 2016-07-25T21:22:20+00:00

yes, it works. i started in my mid 30's, 10 years ago.

StewedJesus · 2016-07-25T19:38:36+00:00

Yes... I am one. I have never done it properly... I was on and off it for years, but I can tell you my game only got better every time I stepped back in. Sure some women will not be into me any more (I am lucky as, tough I am almost 40, I look way younger... around 10 years... even more if I had enough sleep) as soon as they find out my age, but really the percentage is not a big deal... One less phone number. Sure I try to keep fit, I never pretend to be young, I don't care and I think acting younger would be creepy.

G_Refined · 2016-07-26T03:38:30+00:00

It is definitely possible, I would say the biggest difference I see (I'm in my late 20's) is the venue. You want to go to places that tend to attract women in your age range, which for someone almost 40, would be in the 29+ age range, which isn't even old. Depending on your location there should be spots that have an older crowd, they tend to be the fancier venues. If there are no clubs/bar that have an old crowd at night, happy hour is a great social setting that usually attracts a wide range of ages. All the usually technique and social awareness still apply, it's just a matter of finding a venue where you can practice/execute them.

glassuser · 2016-07-26T03:45:34+00:00

Hell yes. I'm pushing 40 and doing just fine. Also, you're right about the dad bod craze being over - but you'll feel a lot better if you trim up and lift some weights so it's worth it for that alone.

Sovereign_Curtis · 2016-07-26T04:59:58+00:00

Either way, can these skills work with women in their 30's?

lol, yes

Big_TX · 2016-07-26T05:07:55+00:00

RSD Jeffy

Due has been 39 he may finally be 40. When he was 38 he'd lie up and say 40 cuz he thought it was funny.

Women in their 30s would prefer a man in their 40s women like older men. Go on OK Cupid and look at the prefered age ranges for women in the 30s

If women in their 30s is what you want, go for it. That's your easiest democratic.

You absolutely don't have to limit yourself to that. Jeffy regularly sleeps with 18-19 year older.

RSD Tyler is another, instructor. Dates your girls all the time. I think he is 36. But He looks older than Jeffry.

Woujo · 2016-07-26T13:25:42+00:00

Women are naturally hypergamous which means they prefer a man that is "better" than them: more confident, taller, richer, has their life together. For this reason they generally prefer older men because men are more likely to be "better" than them.

rmbarnes · 2016-07-26T15:31:43+00:00

Take a look at: krauserpua he started out mid thirties and is 40 or above now. He mainly lays girls in the 18 - 25 age range, gets somewhere between one to two dozen lays per year I think. I'd actually aim for girls in their mid 20s if I were you. Women in their 30s are passed it, their looks have gone.

RandoDouche · 2016-07-26T18:26:40+00:00

There are way many younger chicks into older guys--enough that I am literally shocked in my 30s. There are places in America with HS age chicks dating 40 year old guys.

One guy here said 80% of women are open to older--who cares if its 5%, if those are the 5% you have a way of regularly meeting.

If you're going for todays 22 and under crowd, try getting teched up into the latest app fads: Learn to use modern phone apps, get your text game up and running. Under 22yo chicks can often be more comfortable texting/snapping then she is calling you. Snapchat is useful and easily leveraged to keep up with a bunch of chicks for little effort.

And as ever, find a way to hang out where the girls you want to get with hang out. Like 20-40 year old total nerds? Join gaming orgs. Like tattooed, drinking chicks? bars/clubs are for you. Religious organizations are an underrated place to meet women, though perhaps less useful for you as that crowd is a bit more relationship conscious (though not all, not nearly all)--they often run alot of singles events.

If you're down for bar/club scenes and their denizens, the classic PUA approach, replete with significant canned material is an optimal approach.

mmaguy7 · 2016-07-27T06:56:25+00:00

My man there is no age limit for game, you can game as long as you are able to walk, and talk. There is no shortage of young women who like older men, no shortage of older women who like younger men. All women of all ages are waiting to be approached period, taken or not, young or old. Start gaming, my friend.

Oh and 40 years old is still very young, I know some in the game that are late 50's. And I wouldn't be surprised to see some gaming in their 60's or even 70's if their healthy.

Title	Gaming at almost 40? Possible?
Author	seductionthrow_away
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Date	July 25, 2016 5:34 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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