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| 1 | Scientific study: Being honest actually increases attractiveness. It's also attractive to be intelligent and independent (both together).Be attractive Don't be unattractive | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 03:02 AM |
| -1 | I feel like this sub has taught me how to attract women, but now I want to move on to women I find attractive but I'm a bit stuck.Well, you could accept it and date less attractive women. That's what most people do. Or you could take the PUA route and fool yourself into thinking that appearance doesn't matter and come up with all sorts of loony rationalizations for why the attractive girls won't sleep with you. ("My frame slipped, bro, she could tell!") Don't worry, there will be plenty of people who will be happy to sell you magic beans. Or you could just get really bitter and angry about the whole thing like the MGTOWs. … | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I go about dating a girl that has good paying profession while I'm still in school and broke as a joke?Do you want it to be an issue? Then don't make it an issue. You should literally never think about that. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:39 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Finally asked her nameThree second rule doesn't really come into play when you've been checking her out for weeks. Just getting her name and then leaving was a poor move also. If it was a big hurdle for you in terms of anxiety then congratulations on getting over that, but I would accelerate your timetable in future. She's already decided if she thinks you're attractive or not, all you can do from here is blow it by being weird about asking her out. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Should I be concerned if the only girls to reciprocate my interest each suffered from a fairly serious mental illness?BPD is extremely common. So is anorexia. You have a tiny sample size, it would be silly to draw any conclusions based on it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Value and vulnerabilityBe assertive. That's all it means. Don't worry about why it's important, just do it. The cause doesn't matter. You're not trying to achieve psychological enlightenment and fix all of your issues, you're trying to get results. Nobody can read your mind. If you aren't doing anything that comes across as needy then nobody thinks you're needy. Too many guys try to rationalize their failures by assuming that they did or said something that betrayed their inner blah blah blah. It isn't true. She didn'… | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:32 AM |
| 2 | HELP: Witty response to OKCUPID messageLiterally nothing matters on OkC but your pictures. If she thinks you're hot, saying "Hey what's up?"...."Yeah I'm just hanging out downtown"...."Wanna get a drink tomorrow" will get you laid. If she doesn't think you're hot, nothing you can say will change that. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How to be interestingYeah, girls go around saying "you're too old" directly to people's faces all the time. Let's prepare for that scenario. More silly PUA bullshit. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Whyd she do it?Your question isn't worth asking. Either she's not interested or she's playing fucked up games. Either way she doesn't merit time or energy. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:21 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to a girl when outnumbered by her guy friends?Engage with the group. Don't focus on the girl, that reads as needy/creepy. Adopt the mentality that you're being sociable and talking to people you find interesting. If she's attracted to you, separating her from her friends will be easy. If she's not, it will be impossible. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:18 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You're not attractive. You break the cycle by becoming more attractive or getting used to the fact that you aren't attractive. There is no magic trick that will make women want to sleep with you. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Leave friendzoneNext time you hang out together, pick a moment when your rapport is good, conversation is flowing, laughter, etc. Kiss her. See what happens. Worst case scenario you get the "I just want to be friends" talk. There's nothing to be afraid of. Only way to know where you stand. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:14 AM |
| 4 | HighschoolYou said a lot about how you're afraid. You said nothing about what you're actually afraid of. Take some time to think through what actually scares you. Then evaluate how realistic that is. I strongly suspect you will realize that this fear is irrational. So then you have a decision about what kind of person you are and what kind of person you're going to be. Are you going to be the kind of person who lets themselves be controlled and limited by irrational fear? Yes or no? That simple. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I can't have good looking female friends without crushing on them.You didn't ruin the friendship, because the friendship started out ruined. You were attracted to her, she wasn't attracted to you. That's not a basis for a good friendship. Advice? Keep trying to sleep with women you find attractive, get over the fact that the consequences are occasionally painful. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:05 AM |
| 4 | I can't have good looking female friends without crushing on them.Don't fall into the trap of believing that because a person says something it's true. Most of them aren't as oblivious as you think. | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 02:03 AM |
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