Hey everyone,

Two questions for the community.

  1. "Be a leader of men"- I hear this phrase often and it always comes down to providing value. What does this mean in the context of game? Provide value how? I might be doing this already but not aware of what is valuable to a girl and what isn't.

  2. Neediness- on this subreddit I see this topic covered frequently but most of the advice is geared towards curing the symptom not the cause. I am not a constant texter and typically avoid needy behavior but I still feel like I need the validation and affection from women. This is despite having a great career, being in shape, having a good social life and staying occupied at least a decent amount of the time. I guess my question is how do you get over the need for validation from women when other areas in your life are handled?

Thanks all!