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[–]mogonk 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You said a lot about how you're afraid. You said nothing about what you're actually afraid of. Take some time to think through what actually scares you. Then evaluate how realistic that is. I strongly suspect you will realize that this fear is irrational.
So then you have a decision about what kind of person you are and what kind of person you're going to be. Are you going to be the kind of person who lets themselves be controlled and limited by irrational fear? Yes or no?
That simple.
[–]chillinfu1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
My fear is that i hang with a girl one on one and she thinks i'm just some boring dude with nothing to say. really suck at conversation w girls. And since i don't hang one on one with girls, they think i'm mysterious and i feel like hanging out with one will remove that mystery
[–]ADP_God 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just start saying whatever you want as you think it. No more filter. If you're really attractive you shouldn't have to worry about girls getting offended because they'll be likely to forgive any slips you make. Don't worry about whether or not what is coming out of your mouth is any "good." Just make sure you're talking and responding and not going around in a shitty circle of question and answer.
[–]bittersweetCetacean 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One thing that's worth remembering, especially with younger girls; f they're already attracted to you then they don't care too much about what you say, mostly how you say it.
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