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thanks bro this is a great uplifting comment
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 09:00 PM
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Wow, man, your life seems pretty similar to my life. Hopefully, we can solve our problems. If it makes you happier, i'm sure that social progress is possible. At 17, I barely could speak with a stranger without getting too anxious, right now, i can make friends relatively easily. I don't see why it shouldn't get better when it comes to flirtation and stuff. It's probably the next step up for us, despite it can take years, with constant exposure we can come close to being a neurotypical person.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 05:42 PM
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how did blackpill help you? i think your face is genetically determined, u cannot change it dramatically without surgery.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/25 10:16 AM
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Thanks for the advices bro but I'm aware of most of the things that you mentioned and after 3 years, if there is not much change what time do you think that I will have success?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 11:06 PM
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I am 21 years old. Despite a lot of people saying, 'Oh, you're still too young,' I feel like deep down, they know it's creepy not to have a girlfriend by now
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 04:30 PM
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But what if my drive gets considerably affected by my lack of success with women? I was very successful academically at first but then, I was like "what's the point anymore?" and that was when I started to skip my classes, right now my grades are average. I'd rather rot in my mother's house if the alternative is me working my ass off just to come back to an empty room everyday.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 04:01 PM
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I honestly don't have very high standards, I just cannot even pull below average looking women at the moment. I will keep hitting the gym but the motivation decreases day by day.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 03:57 PM
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yeah, facts dude. nothing that i disagree here but i also want to say that sometimes, even in right circumstances, i couldn't pull. maybe some people are just not cut out for this game.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 03:20 PM
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haha thank u so much bro
/r/TheRedPill20/12/24 08:39 PM
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I think that asking for a number when i'm a stranger is very intimidating. I live in a conservative country, so, maybe it's a factor as well. I don't know how things happen in US. Here, even if she likes you, she probably won't give you her number and you'll miss a chance. You can always ask her to date with you through insta and if she likes you, she'll accept it anyway, so i don't see why Instagram is inferior to getting number. I try to take care myself and stuff but you shouldn't forget that…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/24 03:03 PM
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you should try to find something in common to start the convo. the fact.that we watched the same movie with case b and d made the process easier. if you dont have something in common, i just say that i want to know her, hence, I need her insta. this is not a very good strategy and that's why i failed case a and c. i think even starting a conversation about some random stuff like straight up saying that how good her coffee choice is much better than asking her insta directly. think about the plac…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/24 02:51 PM
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maybe its not over but it has never been this much over in the history. other than chads and social butterflies, it's absurd how over it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:25 PM
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i appreciate your effort. its always okay to try to be better socially etc. since even in the worst case, you won’t have a gf but you will probably have good friends and it’s a massive difference anyway. being alone all day and not investing yourself would slowly destroy your life. i think you are in the right path but remember that it will be a brutal road.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/24 10:54 PM
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as an 6ft autistic, my dating life hasn't been good so far. i didn't know how to talk to girls until i'm 18 or something. between the ages of 18-20, i went to date 6 times. i made it to second date once and got my first kiss. she cried afterwards when i couldn't kiss her properly even tho she was an autistic too. my use of language is pretty normal and i have no problems with being friends with males atm. i have problems with mostly memory and motor functions. if you're like me, i think you will…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/24 05:51 PM
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There are lots of edgelords on subreddits such as r/misanthrophy and other depressive stuff too but the difference is that one is just a teenage angst but the other one is an effort to scentifically explain why life became a living hell for you. The latter is more unpleasent of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:22 AM
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Even redpill content is allowed on reddit but blackpilled content will always get you banned because the system needs your effort. It's not because you're misogynistic, you're getting banned. It's because you harm the system in a destructive way. You killed the most important thing for the system: Hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:06 AM
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elliot rodgers killed 4 men and three of them were sub5s. bro really? what kind of revenge is this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:48 PM
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i gave some objective information about ted too but didn’t necessarily challenge her since i do not totally disagree. you cannot understand, neither can i. i just can talk a subject non-stop for hours but it’s not my decision, my brain is kinda wired like this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:18 PM
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even neurodivergent women likes and wants the neurotypical social butterfly man and this fact hits hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:00 PM
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This. I just cannot focus on the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:57 PM
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i dont know a guy who is good at social interaction while having weird interests
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:56 PM
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I kinda believe that it’s over for neurodivergent males. very niche interests and socially awkward topics kinda ends you. most of the males who have niche interests do not even go outside. i dont even see someone like me. i’ve tried to socialize with people in college for a year but no progression. i don’t talk to people when we meet since typical topics do not interest me and in return, i slightly become a weirdo. whereas girls do not struggle much. i watched a cinema with a college club last w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:33 PM
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he’s 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:58 PM
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how blackpilled guys explain kurt cobain never had a gf until he's 20 even tho he's 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:12 PM
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bro looks like a male model but some blackpilled guys cannot accept it because it’s against the narrative. it’s not just about looks and being neurodivergent lowers sexual market value a lot
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 08:38 PM
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I totally agree, thank you for your explanation
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 07:23 PM
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These are some fair points but considering that in the history most people spent their decades as virgins, I think a lot of despair comes from overly sexualized universe of today. You can find something else to concentrate on and you don’t have to call it copium because men thrive by being into things rather than human
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 07:21 PM
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You sound like a wokeist academician with this comment here. Very little can be proved empirically in the world. I don’t have to start with anything related to scientific research to make a valid point considering the academy itself is a shit hole. Also, there are lots of things that you cannot control in the world even if you try to make an objective analysis based on data. Most of the time, with an eye-test and introspection, you are better off.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 06:27 PM
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Maybe by definiton it is about women but people here talk like their life has ended
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 06:08 PM
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i live in a conservative country. the only asexual community i’ve found was a discord server here. there was just one girl from my area and she did not respond back. i dont want online gf or something so my best chance is dating normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:03 AM
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i was insecure as fuck and she was my first gf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:30 PM
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alienation is exactly what i feel. you use some good words to describe my situation bro thanks. i kinda question whether this being romantic thing is just because society expects that way or it’s my instincts since being romantic is something abstract anyway. but i feel definitely alienated from society without partner and that’s why i date even though i dont feel the need naturally. even if you’re asexual, dating with someone definitely feels better than playing league of legends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:28 PM
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yes, man. she was an asshole but tbh it makes sense after reading some rp shit. i was the most beta person you could ever see that night. no girls like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:22 PM
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i think there are some advantages to have this one dude, so maybe that’s why evolutionarily it has survived. for example, because of my asexuality, i can focus on other stuff more easily. as a reward, the chicks in the forest will pick me and i can still have sex with them even though i have no desire to do it. it sounds weird but i do not have any other logical explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:18 PM
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it doesnt exist in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:09 PM
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i actually cuddled with a chick before. it kinda felt good until the girl has cursed me because i dont know how to kiss lol. i guess i’m slightly autistic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:08 PM
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yes, i’ve never had sexual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:05 PM
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i dont know dude but i never even masturbated for years now, just wet dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:03 PM
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as an asexual who is not aromantic, i feel doomed. it seems inevitable that i will get friendzoned lmao. i hoped it’s a health issue but my t level seems normal and i’ve played soccer and gone to gym etc since 2021 or something and i’m fit af. sad stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:59 PM
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Yes but the bar is definitely lower than a lot of people think here I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:24 PM
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I absolutely agree with everything you said tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:20 PM
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I'm generally a person who is open to new ideas considering I've read very different ideological perspective throughout my entire lifetime but I just cannot understand some people are aggressively supporting the idea that looks are everything. Yes, it could be a part of it but it's far from the reality from my experiences. I've seen ugly dudes who are getting laid with 9/10s consistently whereas I've seen some 6.3 feet absolute units who barely touched women in their entire life. Maybe, it's bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:12 PM
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I had a similar phase a year ago. I ended my friendships with all the women I know because of this. Whenever I get closer to a woman, I feel like misogyny comes back for me. Right now I'm pretty rational but the price is being lonely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 07:14 AM
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But will it be sustainable though? Even though I have a very low libido, I sometimes still seek romantic connections with someone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/23 09:31 AM
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i mainly agree with your arguments. i also want to add that since women are more agreeable than men in general, they're more prone to accept presented things instead of questioning them when you combine it with the fact that they're more inclined to accept the dominant side ( that's called war-bride phenomenon or something like that) there's no mechanism to stop them from indulging in the hedonistic lifestyle that powerful western world promotes. whenever I talk with a girl, it seems like they a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/23 09:23 AM
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The same thing applies to men as well but everyone is an advocator of spinning plates. I don’t get it. I can understand having sex is considered a valuable asset for men but in terms of longevity of marriage, it is a negative indicator too. Maybe we should talk about that as well
/r/TheRedPill05/08/23 11:04 PM
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I know this fact. But he believes that what he wrote is universally right, so, my point stands.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/23 08:54 AM
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Fair enough. I agree with your points here, it would've been better if society adapted to reward intelligent healthy "beta" males. But, at least, even in today's world, women's selection strategy is better than randomness. For example, in my opinion, women are pretty good at interpreting social cues and they can easily understand whether a man is insecure or not. It could've been dreadful consequences if they didn't have this ability and proliferate with insecure men randomly.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 07:40 PM
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On a macro level, you're right. If you think that the sole goal of society is progress. But as someone who is raised by an intelligent beta person, I think evolutionary markers are pretty relevant. On a micro level, it's psychologically devastating to live in a family where the dynamics are skewed. There are lots of primitive situations that you should fix as a male figure in the house and when you don't, then you have chaos and instability, dominant women and loser men.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 12:02 PM
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I think the book is excessively focused on society and it's a bit blue-pilled in that aspect. Most of the time, Aurelius tells us that what we should do is, even if we do not gain anything from it, do what is best for society. However, I think we should actively look for something to gain for ourselves if we are to commit something. If we live for society then we'll forget to live for ourselves, and in the long term, we will face the consequences because other people will exploit us. I'm more in…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 11:54 AM
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I think the RP gives you the harsh truth about the dating world in 21th century but most of the people in the manosphere are not talking enough about coming the terms with the reality. Maybe, learning how to be stoic can help you to overcome the bitter taste of redpill. Reading the well-known stoic, Marcus Aurelius, helped me, even though I disagree with most of things in the book. Reality is that women are inherently worthy and men are inherently worthless if we're talking on sexual market and …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 12:49 AM
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