Daily Community Chat Megathread

mr_nihilus · 2023-12-09T19:48:04+00:00

elliot rodgers killed 4 men and three of them were sub5s. bro really? what kind of revenge is this

itzReborn · 2023-12-09T15:35:50+00:00

FOMO is probably one of the biggest issues I’m having. Not just dating wise but just life in general, I’m lacking life experiences I think I should have. And even though I’m going through life at my own pace it still doesn’t erase that feeling

AFuzzyMuffin · 2023-12-09T15:00:31+00:00

u/White_Queen1994 what’s ur issue with sb term

i didn’t wanna go in dms and the thread got locked

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T14:42:48+00:00

Going to put up a tree today with mommy

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-09T14:37:46+00:00

Who is the Gen Z Barney Stinson? Something I notice is the idea of becoming ~~a womanizer~~ someone who is good with women doesn't exist anymore. People seem to believe everything is deterministic and that it either happens or it doesn't and you have no control over the outcomes of your life.

saulbasedman · 2023-12-09T14:37:01+00:00

Wtf happened to Sam from iCarly? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/RdPb1QqZvyw

Meanwhile the guys look like:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CuAeelxSURf/?hl=nl&img_index=1

https://www.instagram.com/p/CGLlFSyB54x/

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-12-09T14:24:32+00:00

For the sex Haversian here. How often has a girl asked you to wear a condom, conversely how many guys have the women asked to wear a condom

Maybe this speaks volumes of the people I’ve dated but I only wore one once, my first time, of my own accord, and have never been asked since.

Related to a Twox post, they ask “why guys no condom” and I just haven’t had a girl really gaf irl. Am I just “lucky” or do women not care as much about it as that post (no link just scroll nerds) suggests

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T14:22:57+00:00

Anyone else wish their dad wasnt toxically masculine

That__EST · 2023-12-09T14:09:38+00:00

In some thread recently I got a nice chuckle when some man's dating advice for women was to strike up a friendship with a man who is in a healthy heterosexual relationship, and then have him help you find a good man and have him help you figure out the red flags in the relationship.

Lol no healthy heterosexual man has time to be doing that for a woman who he isn't ultimately trying to bang himself.

Dusttyy · 2023-12-09T14:06:21+00:00

I recently moved back to my hometown, which is an outer suburb of a major Midwest city. There's this prevalent subculture that I guess could be called hick. Basically people embracing rural lifestyle--lifted trucks, camo clothes, country music, hunting/fishing, etc. Most of these people live in cookie-cutter suburban homes in a neighborhood and work in retail. It feels like cosplay. Especially the ones who change their voice to have a southern draw.

Whatever, I don't really care that much about how they live their life. It does start to bother me how they're quick to judge others. Both the men and women seem to define masculinity with this sort of lifestyle. Some even question my sexuality over trivial things that deviate from their "culture". A few real life examples include wearing joggers, the fact I have a graduate degree (in law), being moderately well-groomed, and driving a Lexus. What's ironic is that I'm probably more rugged and outdoorsy than most of them. I served in the Army, specifically in an infantry unit and fought in war. I'm also a very skilled fisherman and use a fly rod to make it more challenging.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-09T13:36:42+00:00

CMV: the elite flirty text greeting is “hey you”

Gladboys · 2023-12-09T13:07:22+00:00

what is your favorite cocktail

Dusttyy · 2023-12-09T13:01:23+00:00

Randomly stumbled upon a news story involving my ex. She was apparently choking people at a concert and tried to rip another lady’s shirt off. Police arrested her, and then her boyfriend when he threatened the officers. They both look drunk after in their mug shots lol.

3PointTakedown · 2023-12-09T12:52:54+00:00

Also, I am very good at sex. Not to brag or anything but, definitely to brag 😎. The key to being good at sex is 3 things

Empathy. You should be able to figure out what she wants by how she moves or moves you even if she doesn't say it.
She comes first, obviously. Some women don't like oral if they don't like oral then they probably like being fingered if they don't like being fingered they just like their tits played with. Everyone I've had sex with has said "fuck me" and sometimes "now" or "please" and that was after they finished already.
Have a nice dick. If there's one good feature about me apparently...

Also just a good general overriding principal is: IF you're a dude you're probably going to cum. It's not that hard, it's so fucking easy. You're going to enjoy yourself no matter what happens. So just make sure she comes and you'll have a much better time.

3PointTakedown · 2023-12-09T12:43:25+00:00

That super hot MILF just left that was coming over tonight 😭😭😭😭

She had to go to work at 5:30 and it's an hour long drive! 😭😭

But tonight also was like the best night ever because she said she wants to come back "any night I want her here and someone else isn't" is literally how she phrased it.

Gladboys · 2023-12-09T12:34:23+00:00

https://therealdeal.com/national/2023/12/07/dems-introduce-bills-to-ban-hedge-funds-from-housing-market/

if god is real he will let this bill pass

Katatonicsnake · 2023-12-09T12:19:05+00:00

Q4W: do you like to be called “wife material”? Is it a compliment in your opinion?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-09T11:57:40+00:00

Translated with Deepl, a bit of blackpill from a french normie sub (top comment in a post titled: Men considered beautiful, do you have beauty privilege?)

I have a very good friend who has this.

He's super handsome and well built. He's tall, blond and has beautiful medium-length hair.

In fact, it doesn't make much difference to your professional life or your friendships. Unless of course you work in modelling, music or film, that sort of thing.

With girls, on the other hand, it makes a big difference. And when I say girls, I don't mean in a long-term relationship, but for seduction, one-night stands, dating sites.

I'm not super handsome, but I'm not ugly either, I think. Rather average, not very tall, blond, neither fat nor skinny nor muscular. When it comes to face-to-face encounters, in bars and the like, I don't have too much trouble seducing people either. I can be funny, interesting, not too shy etc. As for dating sites, when I was on them I had to have at least 3 matches a week. Which hardly ever led to anything. Nice photos, funny description etc etc.

On the other hand, him.... That drove me crazy, even though I was happy for him. He had two photos of himself, one shirtless and climbing. His description was: 1m88. That was all. He gave his height. He had matches aplenty. Dozens of them. Each profile had a big chance of being a match. He had dozens of them and that famous 99+ likes that all girls who aren't absolute ugly have, and which is a myth for men.

The young, the not-so-young, the average, the pretty and the not-so-pretty, the intelligent and the not-so-intelligent, and so on. In the space of a few very simple messages, they had planned a date that very often ended in sex.

So of course he was funny, intelligent and interesting. But in messages he didn't give a damn and got straight to the point and it worked.

He had periods when he had to sleep with 3-4 girls a week without putting effort. It was impossible to introduce him to a girl who was still in the dating phase because she would start drooling when she saw him (it happened to me twice before I understood).

Honestly, it's made me lose a bit of respect for the female sex, which often wants to be above all that, looks aren't the most important thing, I'm a feminist, I don't have sex on the first night, I want a guy who respects me and treats me well, etc . I've known a few like that (at language college, so girls in the arts and humanities), and they'd see him at a party, he wouldn't give a damn and if he was drunk and offered them a quick shag, all their principles would suddenly collapse. It could even be embarrassing to see them go from being principled girls to hoes who'd rub their arses against his leg if it meant they could have him for a night. In the sense that in conversations with him, they could go back very, very quickly on what they usually said, contradict themselves, and look almost grotesque because they were so horny.

Lucky bastard ah ah.

OneLobster31 · 2023-12-09T11:44:10+00:00

A more balanced view of how and how much height matters.

Being tall (6'+) is a mild positive to being average height. Being very tall is a mild positive to being tall and big positive to being average (6'3"+).
Being short (5'9">) is a big negative to being average. Being proper short (5'6">) is a huge negative to being average.

These things exist but they're not be all and end all. We all know short men in relationships, tall men who aren't in them. Loads of women can be forgiving of shortness if you have money, especially, and of course emotionally compatible. Why does the issue arise, then.

Although relationships aren't, dating, especially early stages, are very desire-based. Even if many women are happy to be in relationships with short men who are good people, women don't want to date them. There's no excitement to dolling-up only to go for a date with a 5'3" guy. That's not a man that you "brag" to friends about or someone you have to resist having your hands all over.

But in the long-term, mature, healthy relationships aren't based on being hot and being seen with the same, or wiggling your fingers and bragging to your friends, or leading the pack because of inpalpable sexual chemistry. They're wonderful in environments based on fun and lust, but not the bare necessity for LTRs.

This is why short men don't get a 1000 hits on OLD or places like clubs and bars. It's very heavily based on sexuality and exploring it or having a guy (or a person) that you exclaim and talk about, hence, tall men win 11 times out of 10. I don't want short men to think they're unlovable because of height (or thereof, its lack) but rather not necessarily the "men for a night" ie. hook-ups and casual flings. Women rejecting you are mainly looking for dick, not an entire man.

A marriage takes a lot of different things to make work, things that are not "biological" and things that can't be bought. You short kings can always let personality and effort shine through. Stay away from casual sex, do not be superficial about your partner's looks, and be a good man. You'll be fine :)

TigerRude4 · 2023-12-09T11:32:15+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/s/wDBNi9mofV

Fun thread

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-09T11:31:15+00:00

Looking at the bipolar subreddit is so fucking miserable.

"It's not that they don't believe us about the side effects, it's that they don't care"

Sums it up. Those asshole doctors just want you to be a fat zombie.

Legitimately no one gives a shit about bipolar people.

LikeMyNameIsElNino · 2023-12-09T11:29:17+00:00

Some of the posts and comments by women in the last 24h are the biggest nihilism fuel.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-12-09T10:11:07+00:00

I’m not a big rap guy, but BoB’s part in Am I A Psycho is fucking great

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-12-09T09:21:11+00:00

I'm sort of an agnostic deist. I believe that a higher power purposefully set the universe in motion, but we're probably incapable of understanding the nature of that higher power.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-12-09T09:04:48+00:00

Oh no I’m posting it again

dbz__f · 2023-12-09T08:45:25+00:00

Women, what do you think of a guy who doesn't really have any close male friends, at best acquaintances?

0DarkFlirty · 2023-12-09T08:11:05+00:00

You like him due to some ineffable trait by your unconscious mind that your conscious mind confabulates to tell other people. Anything you say about him that you like can ultimately be said about someone you don't like. Just roll with it not everything needs explanation and you aren't meant to actually know why you like your specific dude. That's just life.

"There's just something about him"

Yeah, we know, and you don't. That's called being a girl.

Jk.

But not really.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-12-09T08:06:40+00:00

What’s your guilty pleasure song/album/musical genre/whatever?

Mine is Baby, You Wouldn’t Last A Minute On The Creek by Chiodos

It’s not a phase, mom.

macone235 · 2023-12-09T07:07:26+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/18dgg8z/aitah_because_i_never_want_to_have_sex_with_my/

It's funny how women always manage to want less sex when they settle with a BB.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-09T07:00:10+00:00

Does this happen to anyone else?

After touching grass, you go to bed and check PPD and all the posts seem meaningless and dense?

keebydee · 2023-12-09T06:44:19+00:00

Does anyone else not like looking at the PPD profile pic? It just makes me feel uneasy with all the visual stimuli and details crammed in a small circle.

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-12-09T06:30:04+00:00

Dudes, out in public, you see a girl that you're attracted to and want to talk to her, but you're both complete strangers, how would you approach her?

I personally wouldn't even approach because we're strangers and idk if cold approaches ever work but want to know what would you do if you had to approach her

missionglowup · 2023-12-09T06:23:10+00:00

old guys on here love to go on and on about how much they dislike older women for whatever reason but when the younger women on this sub say we don’t like older men for xyz, they get all butthurt, passive aggressive, and in their feelings.

go take your meds grandpa🤒

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-12-09T06:15:06+00:00

The last two days I've been watching Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles cartoons on YouTube. These zoomers don't know about these cartoons or even the movies that came out in the 90s.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-09T06:13:52+00:00

https://abc7.com/calese-crowder-burbank-caught-on-video-stalking-arrest/13652252/

This dude was posted on TikTok for being creepy. It turns out he stalked multiple people including a famous athlete and a 14 year old girl. The woman who originally posted him had men accusing her of being over dramatic.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-09T06:01:03+00:00

did you guys know that there's like a thing in the boob like it's not pure jiggles

keebydee · 2023-12-09T05:42:21+00:00

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I love bodies that look like this. I wish I looked this CUT. Trunks looks like he's about to kill the fuck out of someone. 🤩

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-12-09T05:18:43+00:00

Paying for a women's meals and/or bills isn't going to increase your attractiveness... not enough to be worth the price, at least.

That's because women are attracted to frame first and foremost. A woman will almost always prefer to sleep with an arrogant somewhat sexist amateur musician who works at McDonald's over a mild-mannered shy accountant who makes $300k per year and takes his dates to expensive restaurants and buys them flowers and reads them feminist poetry. Money is just a small factor which isn't nearly as important as it used to be, since young women now earn just as much as young men do (they even outearn men in some metros).

Women are attracted to vibes, not numbers in a bank account. For 99% of our evolutionary history during the stone ages, shyness (and aversion to new experiences) would have been the kiss of death. If you weren't brave enough to go out and hunt potentially dangerous animals in dangerous environments, you might've starved. If you didn't have the charisma to convince rival tribes to join forces or trade with you, you'd have gotten conquered or eliminated. So women evolved a sort of "bravery detection system" in their brains which responds positively to self-assured men, and an innate disgust of inexperienced, insecure, or otherwise low-status men.

That's why you see so many women online complaining about their broke "bad boy" exes who cheated on them even when she paid for everything. Women are blinded by men's confidence, even if it's "stupid" confidence. Women can't outrun evolution.

huhwhatokok · 2023-12-09T05:08:09+00:00

I wish women would stop lying and telling unsuccessful guys “you’re probably not getting women because they can tell your misogynist”. My 2 friends are misogynist as they come and they run through women. They’re both good looking though so I assume women just assign them positive traits.

old_new_age · 2023-12-09T05:07:07+00:00

Q4A: do you think "I'm not photogenic" is just cope for "I'm ugly"? for me I've had several people say I look like shit in every picture I take, yet am pretty average/slightly above in person. I never really know what to believe

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-09T05:01:34+00:00

Short of unique and extreme circumstances, like my kid being an evil serial killer, I will never have a favorite child.

keebydee · 2023-12-09T04:58:43+00:00

I hate that social anxiety is downplayed by people and is used as a synonym for shyness/introversion. I remember getting pissed as a kid whenever mother would tell people that I was just shy. I think a lot of people don't even know that social anxiety (SAD) is something that you go and get diagnosed with from a doctor. It's not just feeling nervous about certain social situations here and there.

Also people claiming to have anxiety confuses me. It's so vague. Do you have generalized anxiety, selective mutism, agoraphobia, social anxiety, or panic disorder, etc? Like what is "having anxiety"?

VTHokie2020 · 2023-12-09T04:41:10+00:00

I googled 'invisible woman syndrome'

Then I googled 'invisible man syndrome'

~~Lmao~~ Well, actually to be fair, it's an interesting read for both.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-09T04:39:16+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0fBPJzuSeA/

A lot of men don’t measure up. This is what I want, what I look for, and what I idealize.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-09T04:35:54+00:00

Men here seem to enjoy using personal attacks when they have no other ideas to argue left.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-09T04:25:43+00:00

i say i don’t identify as a southerner and then i cry while listening to lana del rey’s cover of “take me home, county roads.” you can only deny who you are for so long

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-09T04:06:34+00:00

Friendly reminder that not wanting to be treated like shit or with a resentful angry man isn’t “feminist” or “liberal”. I’m fairly conservative and libertarian by Reddit standards, but I am not lining up for men who think that waiting for marriage or very serious commitment for sex is “manipulation”, who have an obsession with n counts and paternity tests, or who hate women their own age.

EulenWatcher · 2023-12-09T04:05:42+00:00

I am…exhausted. I might complain I’m feeling lonely but socializing during a large gathering of people just drains me off.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-09T04:02:16+00:00

my friend sent me this tiktok. she knows me so well 🥹

except i don’t hate men. i used to say i did when i was an edgy teenager

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-09T04:00:29+00:00

You know how some women get legitimately turned off by players? This is how it feels like to be a man. Every woman with basic personal hygiene (healthy 19-21 BMI, etc) has so many options, every woman is basically a player. It is so hard to date as a man when almost every woman isn't capable of "something meaningful" or "something serious" because of how many options and choices they have.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-12-09T03:30:30+00:00

When will we reach the breaking point of feminism? Historically having a bunch of angry young men is not ideal for those in power.

dbz__f · 2023-12-09T03:29:04+00:00

women, if you're hanging out with your female friends, would you prefer your bf/husband be around or not around? Like would you actively tell him you prefer him not to come?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-08T19:00:22+00:00

Its a sad day for all the degenerates who believe in open marriages

Spoiler alert: They never work

WhiteLotusGauntlet · 2023-12-08T22:48:59+00:00

Restaurants out here chadfishing women...

adelaidemonkie · 2023-12-08T15:06:30+00:00

It’s wild when a guy says a girl is fat, and then you see her and she’s like a size six.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-08T20:17:17+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/vsyaka3wp45c1.jpeg?width=540&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a43708267244ffbdaa2efed75ca68094d5933447

My feminist friends when I tell them they should get a trusted man’s opinion on their problem cause it could be valuable

JDWhiz96 · 2023-12-08T21:40:26+00:00

Q4W: Why do you invalidate our (men's) experiences? Especially as it pertains to women? Example (since I know y'all would as for one):

One of my good friends is an absolute jackass. Drove drunk on three different occasions, wrecked two of his vehicles, abused his parents' residence for a house party full of booze and drugs (he's in his late 20s and still lives with them btw), and feigns every relationship with every girl he's been with since middle school. Women, not exaggerating, literally fight just to hold his hand. I've personally seen it multiple times. He doesn't even need to talk to women in order to bed them, it's effortless.

its-probly-over · 2023-12-08T14:50:49+00:00

Goodbye guys today i am leaving to get fucked up for like 7 days straight. Enjoy.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-08T22:03:59+00:00

I don't know how men cope with how many options women have.

A regular girl who has simple personal hygiene (healthy 19-21 BMI, basic minimal makeup, basic feminine look) has so many men talking to her in her daily life even ignoring dating apps. Any kind of social event she goes to, work, her friend group, random men cold approaching or making friendly conversation, services workers, her mailman, the random barista, her real estate agent. Everywhere. And if you add dating apps, she can get attention and dates from hundreds of men better than you in every way possible in seconds with no effort. The competition is insane.

While as a man, you could basically not have any woman interested at all unless you go out of your way to hit on them, which you can't do in a relationship. There's a huge power imbalance in a relationship, even if she's your relationship market value match, where she constantly has many avenues to replace what you offer her in a relationship and probably uses some of them without putting in any effort. She can replace a lot of what you offer to her immediately if you breakup while you would have to work hard just to tread water.

The only way it could be fair and there wouldn't be a large power imbalance would be if she lets you hit on women and have backup options while you're in a relationship.

sine120 · 2023-12-08T22:04:44+00:00

At their income peak at age 47, married men earn an average of $86,502 per year, the report found. By comparison, single men who are 47 earn $49,288, not far off from the $45,672 earned by single women of the same age.

I don't know if it's a chicken/ egg problem, but guys who are in long term monogamous relationships tend to make a LOT more money than single guys. My theory is that it's probably both.

Because society has been busy patting women on the back for getting their incomes up, we've kind of forgotten about how much of a motivating factor a woman is in a man's career. Guys who aren't trying to lock down a girl with their stability will feel no real pressure to contribute. The economy will literally suffer as men cannot find someone to date.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/married-men-earn-far-more-than-any-other-american-group/

missionglowup · 2023-12-08T23:59:01+00:00

i know a man truly loves me when he feels comfortable enough to shed a tear in front of me. that’s my golden rule.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-08T15:37:21+00:00

If you swapped the genders, would this post still be wholesome?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18ddvzv/my_husband_came_home_from_work_while_i_was_eating/

itzReborn · 2023-12-08T16:49:55+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/8TjkoT7NIb

This thread so depressing but I can’t help but relate. Just in general I don’t see any fixes for this in the near future so it’ll just continue to get worse.

Gladboys · 2023-12-08T17:34:50+00:00

real

https://i.imgur.com/Btc6bWC.png

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-08T17:41:53+00:00

Bro dates hooks up with a bum and then blames all men

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18crjd9/i_am_losing_hope_in_men/

Accountability is kryptonite for these feminists

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-08T21:50:27+00:00

Women: men need to get hobbies

Also women: Goes fishing? ick. Likes hiking? ick. Works on cars? ick.

Sometimes I just really dislike the idea of women I've constructed in my head. Why is the internet so toxic? 😔

It's like, picture with a fish or dead deer, that gives women the ick, buttttt they still eat meat and eat fish? Seems weird. Dislike hiking? Why? Getting outdoors and seeing some impressive views is so great. Aren't women also always telling men to touch grass? Sounds wonderful to me. Works on cars? That is an incredible skill to have and could save lots of money.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-09T01:26:17+00:00

RP Man: “I look better at 30 than I did at 22”

Woman: “Me too! I look better at 30 than I did at 22”

RP Man: “NO YOU DONT 😡 I REFUSE TO BE WITH YOU!!!! I DESERVE A 21 YEAR OLD WOMAN!!!!!!”

Also RP Man: “why are women so hypergamous 😞”

purplish_possum · 2023-12-08T14:43:29+00:00

Why'd the obesity ruined dating thread get removed? It was getting a lot of traction.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-12-08T15:27:27+00:00

Matched with another interesting women on Bumble. She is slim and attractive as a 40+ year old woman. I go straight to her bio and literally the first lines are, verbatim+ punctuation "I am a VERY strong woman ! If you can not handle that, please move on! I have been through a lot, I don't need a man ... "

She happens to work in the local tv station in the city. She is physically attractive, and she has a photo of herself with two kids. Of course I couldn't help myself so I googled her, it took all of 25 seconds to find her facebook and insta, couldn't help myself so I wanted to see her ex husband. It's what one would expect. Tall but soft, looked like a large doofus. She was way too sexy for him, 15 years ago.

I almost feel bad because she was like an all natural kim kardashian but now? What a rotten attitude, with 2 kids in tow, and the way she expresses herself.

Q4W who are on OLD and create such off putting bios: Do you really think putting up how "strong" and "independent" and "ambitious" you are is going to make men think you're ... I don't know more attractive or interesting? Do you think that reading how you don't care about men is that suppose to get our dicks hard? Take me through your thought process when you draft these kinds of bios.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-12-08T16:39:46+00:00

A friend of mine told me that he has a crush on me. I asked him “why, it couldn’t even work out between us?”. He thinks it could work because the he doesn’t see the differences between us as too big. I don’t understand men like him. We would be so miserable together, there’s no reason to feel that way about me.

missionglowup · 2023-12-08T19:08:16+00:00

POV: You’re talking to a PPD man

https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/s/LoT4T4tZZS

keebydee · 2023-12-08T21:25:19+00:00

So unreal. Guys are very surface level and don't know how to have real personal conversations but if you're vulnerable she's suddenly playing therapist girl. Can never win with some of these women. Lol. I bet she's the type to say all this but still actively befriend men.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cz9IaLlpFFu/?igshid=ZWI2YzEzYmMxYg==

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-12-08T23:59:09+00:00

I’m ready to fight anyone who tries to tell me that the biological functions associated with pregnancy, birth, and motherhood are “beautiful” or “powerful.” Propaganda of the highest order, pushed forth by both sexes.

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T01:43:15+00:00

When i was a kid i used to think cats and dogs were the same animal but cats were the girls and dogs were the boys esp cuz someone told me that all cows were girls and male cows were bulls so i thought it applied to dogs and cats also for some reason

Steakman1 · 2023-12-08T15:26:41+00:00

Q4all:

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-08T15:51:34+00:00

Would you be offended if a teacher told your son “you shouldn’t hit anyone but you especially shouldn’t hit girls”

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-08T16:03:06+00:00

A woman who leaves blood stains on the toilet seat has an opinion.

saulbasedman · 2023-12-08T16:22:31+00:00

The girl is cute but she's like 5 feet and our children will be giga incels if they are born men. I have zero tall genes as well unless my great grandfather from my mum's side saves the day.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-12-08T16:29:08+00:00

For those in their 20's, how many of y'all are going out every weekend with a group? And those that are, how many of y'all have at least 3 chicks in that group?

JiifuhTV · 2023-12-08T16:33:23+00:00

nah no way this sub got took over by crazy women in the span of 6 months

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-08T19:34:50+00:00

A 22 year old guy encouraging other guys to be a bad boy (basically lying on dates) is so funny and lame lol

keebydee · 2023-12-08T19:36:08+00:00

Bro is the luckiest man to have ever lived. I don't I've ever been this jealous. 😭

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyHKka7o8tV/?igshid=ZWI2YzEzYmMxYg==

mr_nihilus · 2023-12-08T21:33:16+00:00

I kinda believe that it’s over for neurodivergent males. very niche interests and socially awkward topics kinda ends you. most of the males who have niche interests do not even go outside. i dont even see someone like me. i’ve tried to socialize with people in college for a year but no progression. i don’t talk to people when we meet since typical topics do not interest me and in return, i slightly become a weirdo. whereas girls do not struggle much. i watched a cinema with a college club last week. a girl supported ted kaczynski in her speech after the movie ended even though he’s a domestic terrorist. it wasn’t even that much related to the topic and considering i live in turkey, and very few people even know who tf kaczynski is, it’s even worse. after the movie, a chad approached her. she walked to the subway with him. I would get absolutely slaughtered with much less even though i’m 6ft and in good shape. headscarved muslims be friends with goth girls here whereas i’m labeled weird by my male friends because im into philosophy. these are some blackpilled insights from a relatively conservative country called turkey, thanks for reading

monster_lily · 2023-12-08T23:34:35+00:00

Ok Random but everytime keebyde says mother it reminds me of how on stan twitter you say a girl/woman is mother if she slays really hard

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-08T23:37:21+00:00

I want to have my husband’s babies without carrying, birthing, or raising them. How do I do this??

meteorness123 · 2023-12-08T23:37:36+00:00

I often put women into ons and wifey material.

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-09T00:40:34+00:00

So do you guys only care about looks then? Why do you feel anger towards women for being shallow if you don’t even care if your partner has anything in common with you? Strange stuff

anonymous375555 · 2023-12-08T14:12:26+00:00

Is it immoral to abuse simps?

So I visited this simmping subreddit and I must say , the things that some men do are unimaginable. So, should simps be treated as we treat the mentally retarded or should people be encouraged to use them.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T16:51:58+00:00

Is using sunscreen beta behavior? Would females lose attraction of they find out the guy uses sunscreen?

purplish_possum · 2023-12-08T18:02:16+00:00

Once again all the people booked into the local jail last night were female. You've come a long way baby.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-08T18:06:15+00:00

I read a news story involving a woman named… Trashelle. Her parents might as well have named her Traileigh Park.

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2023-12-08T19:18:59+00:00

Those social media posts where they ask people how much money they have in their bank account always confuse me. How tf do you have 100k in a checking account? Anyone with that much money should know that’s an absurd way to store money. Invest it in an ETF, bonds, HYD savings account? Do something only keep enough for like 2 months of expenses

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-12-08T20:08:20+00:00

I’m a decently attractive 5-6/10 guy in my early 30s. I am going through a similar experience that a lot of women here describe.

I have a good amount of undesirable options. 30-something women who are aging badly, single moms, fat women, and women looking for a betabuxx. I chase Stacies and periodically date attractive women in their 20s, but inbetween, despite being “single”, I don’t feel undesirable because my inbox is full of 30-something women. I can go months without having sex and just keep holding out for a hot young woman. When I was in my 20s, a similar dry spell would crush my self-esteem. The only difference between my experience and a typical 20-something woman is that I can’t get easy sex from an attractive person who doesn’t want to date me (the way Chad will pump-and-dump average women), but otherwise the dynamic is similar, I have an overflow of interest so I can be picky.

I have more sympathy for women the older I get, the Chad-chasing and pickiness is just a response to the flood of attention, I think many guys would behave the same if put in that position.

DeliveryBoy1821 · 2023-12-08T20:37:33+00:00

Talking to "sexless" guys online, and my own previous experience. It's so so common that they had some combination of abusive parents, grew up under extreme religion, or didn't grow up with a father.

Leads to some combination of repressed masculinity, shame about their own sexuality, and social anxiety.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-08T21:06:37+00:00

As simple and ridiculous the advice is but cleaning your room is actually solid advice. Anytime I do it, I feel intense relief and I'm ready to get shit done. Before that, I just massively procrastinate.

Gladboys · 2023-12-08T22:28:22+00:00

do you agree with the general idea that women choose winners/wait at the finish line?

if so, do you also agree with a hypothesis of "men who are single and also struggle, are single due to their struggling rather than struggling due to their singleness"

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-08T23:17:53+00:00

So I started watching this one feminist girls tiktok page to see if anything new has happened since I left leftist Twitter. (Like actual radical leftists, not liberals. Means of production enjoyers). Wanted to get caught up on what feminists are talking about rn.

Apparently "bimbo feminism", "(embracing the) divine feminine", and "choice feminism" are all a thing now, which promotes women to land a rich provider man and claim that its not anti feminist to be a stay at home mom.

Of course the intersectional feminists don't like it. I'm surprised these groups are able to call themselves feminist when they promote looksmaxing to take advantage of "pretty privilege" (appealing to the male gaze) and all that stuff. Then again everyone thought Nicki Minaj was an amazing feminist voice for "using her sexual power over men" 10 yrs ago so not really that different. (Sex isn't inherently empowering in my opinion.)

Also all the women on TikTok complaining about how they don't want to work. No one likes working. You don't get a choice. These people sound like babies.

But yeah looks like feminism is being used to promote capitalistic beliefs even more than it was 3 years ago. Consume consume consume so you can be attractive enough for some rich fucker.

keebydee · 2023-12-09T00:19:47+00:00

The rare moment where I find an Instagram meme reel funny. Man, that was a good laugh 🤣

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Czj1MHSRTro/?igshid=ZWI2YzEzYmMxYg==

missionglowup · 2023-12-09T00:35:24+00:00

stats say the average american couple has says once a week. how is that even possible?

meteorness123 · 2023-12-09T01:57:03+00:00

A man's education and/or socioeconomic status is highly indicative of what kind of women he will be able to marry. It's more important than his looks. Exceptions like well-earning but awkward tech guys don't disprove the rule, they rather prove it.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-09T02:22:33+00:00

Is 9:30am too early to drink hard liquor? I think it’s a little degenerate but eh whatever.

narex456 · 2023-12-09T02:39:09+00:00

CMV: Patriarchy patriarchy patriarchy, patriarchy patriarchy? Patriarchy patriarchy patriarchy patriarchy patriarchy patriarchy! Patriarchy, patriarchy patriarchy.

grillopie · 2023-12-08T14:01:42+00:00

first

mods_have_small_ween · 2023-12-08T14:05:13+00:00

Got pilled, got attention from le females, wat do?

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-12-08T15:59:46+00:00

Why is so much of the discussion in men's communities focused on physical traits that, at the end, you can never change, so what's the point? And I see so many average looking couples and even ones where the guy is below average in height/face/physique. I've personally always believed that you're personality, characteristics, charisma matter a lot, lot more not just with women but everyone

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-12-08T16:01:41+00:00

Thoughts on this thread and it's replies? Ignore the main post, it is vile

monster_lily · 2023-12-08T16:31:45+00:00

Never listen to people who say rap isnt misogynist cuz it 100% is

saulbasedman · 2023-12-08T16:58:36+00:00

Can someone recommend me Christmas films similiar to these classics:

Elf
Home Alone 1 and 2
The Nightmare before Christmas
The Santa Clause

JDWhiz96 · 2023-12-08T16:58:51+00:00

One of my biggest pet peeves when it comes to logos is not having a "print" variant (i.e. "2D"). It is much wiser to have a print version for things like easy marketing and repurposing. Having 3D variants/secondaries/tertiaries is fine, but very seldom should they be the primary logo.

What all am I getting at? The new Reddit logo fucking sucks. Don't fix what ain't broken.

anonymous375555 · 2023-12-08T17:57:45+00:00

Do women really have an in group bias?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-08T18:02:40+00:00

I stand with Joey Barton

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-08T19:09:55+00:00

I kinda got upset at my gf because she's lying to her manager.

My gf has started working a bit over one year ago and she was always working a lot, but the first few months she was still in college so she didn't have as much time for work so she was mostly working 45-50 hours per week. Then once she finished college she started to increase her work hours and have been mostly working 60-65 hours a week which is obviously way too much, but Idk it's her decision.

The past two weeks though her company is trying to secure a big client so she's been pushing almost 80 hours a week and her manager noticed this week and told my gf that she needs to stop working on the weekend (since that's illegal and all that). Then today her manager sent her a text asking how was the progress with the prototype and telling her "I sincerely hope you won't be working this weekend"

I asked my gf to be honest with her manager and tell her that she'd have to work all weekend because obviously there wasn't time to finish the prototype.

My gf refuses to do that and will basically lie by omission to her manager about having to work all weekend.

It pissed me off and I kinda got upset. I'm fine with my gf about working absolutely ridiculous hours, but I think she should at least be honest about it with her manager. Idk maybe I shouldn't care at all and treat it as "not my business" but at the same time it's obviously affecting her to work that much which in turn affects me so yeah...

keebydee · 2023-12-08T20:15:47+00:00

Ever wish you had a GF so you can dance with and destroy in DDR while listening to an absolute bop?

https://youtu.be/8_49QvBlqto?si=aI_k_GZtPT-EEkcQ

mechanical_fish_81 · 2023-12-08T20:17:03+00:00

The gym needs to sort it's TV out. Noone cares about some simp called Tom becoming a Chef. How about something more simulating for a gym. Like I dunno Rocky.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-12-08T20:46:33+00:00

2 thoughts:

Often, people here that say they're no pill because 'pills are stupid' will turn around and say the most blue pilled shit with every breath they take. Just because you're a special snowflake who thinks you're above being labelled by pill terminology doesn't mean you aren't aptly described by one of these terminologies to a tee.
You can't be red pilled while simultaneously being highly religious. You can't reject the Just World fallacy while simultaneously believing in the biggest Just World c0pe imaginable (religion). There is a significant faction of red pillers that fall into this, including Tate.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T20:55:25+00:00

Hot take: men behaving badly is good because it makes the rest of men stand out positively without them doing anything. They become better catch

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-08T21:39:04+00:00

Happy birthday Jonathan! Gotta love that guy.

keebydee · 2023-12-08T22:15:36+00:00

Sometimes I feel like a bad friend. Nearly everyone in the group can provide some kind of resource whether it would be money, jobs, a place to crash, etc while I can't.

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-08T22:26:53+00:00

Do men care if women they date have anything in common with them?

keebydee · 2023-12-08T22:59:19+00:00

I'm dying for a bacon Whooper right now 🤤🤤

okaybear2point0 · 2023-12-09T00:28:53+00:00

did the bots increase after elon took over ~~twitter~~X? swear 80% of my likes/follows are bots

Gladboys · 2023-12-09T00:33:27+00:00

lmfao

https://www.tiktok.com/@notorious_garr/video/7309623750025088302

meteorness123 · 2023-12-09T01:25:36+00:00

Prolonged periods of semen retention will grant you the ability to see through walls.

keebydee · 2023-12-09T01:34:08+00:00

Mother just told me that my female cousin that I last hung out with as a kid back when I was visiting father now sells her body for drugs. I did not expect to hear that at all. Pretty dark turn. I remember when we just kids, man. What the hell happened? 😭

Jesting_Kat · 2023-12-09T01:55:06+00:00

Dating in your 20s now a days just feels like waiting for your 30s when women start to lower their unrealistic standards

purplish_possum · 2023-12-09T02:56:05+00:00

Trying to get into the series I Might Destroy You but what passes for dialog is so bloody annoying.

Dizzirron · 2023-12-09T04:23:08+00:00

"is it just me, or is it getting crazier out there?"

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Rach1943 · 2023-12-08T15:03:11+00:00

I'm really starting to feel like my pictures I used in online dating paint me in TOO much of a good light to women.

I'm going on dates where there is a lot of interest from the women (lots of texting, we chat on the phone, vibe etc).

Then when I meet her the vibe changes, she doesn't appear as exicted, and then I always seem to get the 'I did not feel a connection" text after.

The thing is, I ask these women after to be brutaly honest and they all say "nah you look like your pics". I even asked friends and the said "nah you look like your pictures".

I do admit, my pictures were selected to make me look the best, but there is nothing misrepresentative - I'm just as fit/have my hair/dress well in accordance to my pics.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-08T15:18:04+00:00

agree or disagree: no one will love you until you love yourself

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-08T15:51:20+00:00

I think my gay coworker is into me because he shows too much interest in talking to me and keeps making creepy incidental physical contact.

Gay men keep creeping on me but women don't show interest.

Why can't women just be like gay men and show interest in men and have a diversity of tastes?

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T16:08:47+00:00

Chad shits and people build a line to take a peek at his shit and maybe take some of it and put it in their own ass.

You on the other hand...

monster_lily · 2023-12-08T16:19:12+00:00

Guys im not going home til 6:45 pm today

monster_lily · 2023-12-08T16:42:57+00:00

My shoulders HURT

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-08T17:13:34+00:00

Who’s the oldest Santa believer you’ve met?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-08T17:41:07+00:00

For some reason it’s sadder when men are disabled. Forrest Gump really got to me.

grillopie · 2023-12-08T17:59:14+00:00

to the people who dont like when women “keep their options open,” is refusing to wear any underwear thats not a thong a red flag?

anonymous375555 · 2023-12-08T18:09:08+00:00

Well, if women have a great in group bias, should they be banned from positions of power and jurisdiction, Since they are inherently unfair.

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-12-08T18:45:02+00:00

Hitched a ride with another guy and didn't have anything to talk about the whole time, occasionally I'd ask a question, get an answer then back to silence. Bruh why am I like this lol and how do i fix this problem

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T19:57:49+00:00

Would you take a drug that removed your feeling of loneliness? I think there is a Cacioppo named scientist who's working on such a drug

monster_lily · 2023-12-08T20:22:39+00:00

SO EMBARRASSED like i did a practice multiple choice in my spanish class and i got a 6/10 (it was practice) but i got paired with 2 ppl that got a 10/10 so they could tell me why i was wrong and they were BOTH NATIVE speakers like how is that fair. Like obv im open to help but omg i felt like a baby

Gladboys · 2023-12-08T20:32:39+00:00

lol its cheaper for me to hire a topless maid than a regular maid cuz of how small my apartment is wtf

happy_discus · 2023-12-08T20:36:08+00:00

Two things.

First I cant wait to find a GF next year or get 200£ donated to charity.

Secondly my best friend is suspecting she got ADHD and asked me for my opinion because I got autism and that apparently makes me knowledgeable. I got no idea. She shows some signs but I really don't know. I wish there was a good online test one could take. (If someone has a link to a reputable test I would love to have it.)

Maractop · 2023-12-08T20:49:34+00:00

How can I get rid of acne scars on my face and even out my skin tone? I have dry skin and I use moisturizer + sunscreen and a hydrating cleanser already.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-12-08T21:03:48+00:00

How to deal with her male friend. She definitely doesn't want him but the last thing i need is a political opponent trying to undermine me, and i also don't want to put her in an awkward spot by beefing with him. What is the play to make peace with him and neutralize this potential difficulty

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T21:18:49+00:00

Rollo Tomasi is a scientist with a third person view of sexual dynamics. He doesn't have experience himself. That's why his views are not reliable.

Myron Gaines is a better source

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T21:33:53+00:00

I wish arts had more men and especially more masculine and alpha men. I feel really out of place in the art world as a masculine and alpha man surrounded by females, disproportionately feminist, mostly gay men and the straight men being very beta.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-12-08T21:41:38+00:00

Who is the genius that decided you are legally an adult at 18, but you have to wait until 19 to drink?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-08T21:43:19+00:00

dbz__f · 2023-12-08T21:55:43+00:00

Women who would date/hook up with a guy 5+ years younger than you, why? It’s very uncommon isn’t it?

dbz__f · 2023-12-08T21:56:22+00:00

Holy fuck rainy weather really does fuck with my mood

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T22:01:26+00:00

What hobbies do females like a man to have?

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-12-08T22:16:09+00:00

Q4M: which one would you prefer: an open relationship with a regular looking female like the destiny guy, or a monogamous relationship with an actress who does explicit scenes in her movies

missionglowup · 2023-12-08T22:55:22+00:00

after i have sex with my bf (the only man i’ve truly ever loved) and i lay down with him, i can literally feel like energy transferring between me and him? like it feels warm and fuzzy and just… right. what is this? has anyone else felt this? and do men feel it too? or am i just delulu?

meteorness123 · 2023-12-08T23:25:23+00:00

Elvis was such a -----t. Imagine spending your whole career catering to women. No wonder he turned into a meme in music history and no wonder he ended up fat. This is what happens men make women their main focus : A broken spirit ensues.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-12-09T00:04:32+00:00

https://x.com/ask_aubry/status/1732535697280500112?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg if you want a traditional partner you have to take on the opposite traditional role (both genders)

(Starting a podcast)

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-12-09T00:08:01+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fzeha7h7qj45c1.jpg

(skinny women) They're taking our jerbs!

ratboi34 · 2023-12-09T00:36:41+00:00

Is any of you guys involved in crypto? My father wants to put some money into crypto and is trusting me to advise him what to invest in, but I don't know anything about it. What should I recommend to him?

meteorness123 · 2023-12-09T00:44:03+00:00

Anybody here read Dostojewski or tolstoi ?

keebydee · 2023-12-09T00:44:59+00:00

I don't know why but I fucking hate the UK, especially their accents. Funny sounding voices 😂

shrewzane · 2023-12-09T00:54:24+00:00

Does anyone have dull or boring head aches?

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T01:18:59+00:00

Not to sound spoiled but my friend is going to iceland over winter break which is cool but ngl im kinda jealous cuz my parents are such homebodies Smh, they only ever want to go back to their country or to another state but its like can we be adventurous for once and last time i checked if you can afford 3 cars an iphone 14 and a coach purse U can afford a plane ticket

stageib · 2023-12-09T01:28:25+00:00

My skinny jeans don't fit well I have a belly My face is bloated Over, time to fast

monster_lily · 2023-12-09T01:32:06+00:00

You did me dirt...cuz what did i do... like

https://preview.redd.it/gr8yx9c3a65c1.png?width=1674&format=png&auto=webp&s=f2257b83eb6c0ea5d35298215c971b43876292cb

0DarkFlirty · 2023-12-09T03:04:20+00:00

Idk why more big hairy guys don't start Gandolfinimaxxing. Not even for the mob boss bad boy aspect. Same with shrek. So many guys confused why some women like big "kinda ugly" guys.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-09T03:06:47+00:00

Do women feel bad when they deny a man who wants to sleep with her really badly? He desired you so much and you could've made him so happy but you didn't let him be happy.

old_new_age · 2023-12-09T04:49:30+00:00

having all the skills to maintain a relationship but none of the skills to enter one is so annoying. you just have all these amazing friendships but can't get your foot in the door for anything else. I really wish my personality was the problem

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