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By getting better at NGAF
/r/askMRP15/06/25 11:00 AM
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Simply don't be upset about it... Get spinning then you won't give a fuck if she even allows another dick inside of her, cos you'll have options.
/r/askMRP13/11/20 09:37 AM
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You forgot one other scenario... OP isn't actually ready for divorce and turns into a wrecked ball of emotional faggotory
/r/askMRP03/01/20 07:01 AM
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Whooosh
/r/askMRP30/12/19 10:00 AM
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Holy fuck. Took me too long to realise wtf was going on here
/r/askMRP28/12/19 04:55 PM
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I get you. I'd always do mon tues, wed off, Thurs Fri sat, Sun off. Still, I prefer a 4 day week program myself.
/r/askMRP20/12/19 07:47 PM
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PHAT is a 5 day a week template. How have you squashed it into 4 days? Loved PHAT while I was on it. Some really good str gains on it and an enjoyable program. Lots of flexibility to mix up the exercises too. PHUL is probably better for a beginner. Slightly less volume and 4 days a week with a slightly simpler and less time consuming template.
/r/askMRP20/12/19 07:06 PM
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As a beginner... Work on strength first. This is why stronglifts is a good starting point. Get your lifts up, then you can focus more on hypertrophy. You can only build so much muscle lifting light weights at the end of the day. You will build muscle as you increase str anyway, especially as a noob. Focus on a str program and stick to it whilst making progression. Try this for 6 months and see where your lifts are.
/r/askMRP20/12/19 07:01 PM
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Are you talking about the boring but big program though? Seems to focus more on mass gain than str.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 03:42 PM
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I'd guess that he'd grind up some dirt and turn it into coffee
/r/askMRP18/12/19 10:22 PM
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Dude... Why don't you take the coffee up the mountain with you?
/r/askMRP18/12/19 07:27 PM
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Maybe OP wants to be the oak only so it fills that desire inside of him to be needed by others. Validation that he is actually a useful human being.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 04:16 PM
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I doubt there is "one book" that will tell you how to become the oak. Read all of the recommended books. Put in the work and put the theory into action. Fail, realise where you failed, fix it, repeat, time... Only then can you build frame and become the Oak that you are referring to.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 02:47 PM
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I need to re-evaluate my shit. I'll do the reading and assement plan over Christmas and see where I can focus my energy to improve. I hear what you're saying. Maybe I STILL haven't internalised the idea of actually making myself number 1. I care too much about others still. I'm not so much lying to myself, but fooling myself at the moment thinking that I'm in a really good place, but really I'm just having an easy ride and not getting challenged enough to really drive myself to commit to burning…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 10:15 PM
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I'm not following you man. Could you elaborate so I can see where I'm going wrong and understand where to focus my energy for improvments?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 08:53 PM
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OYS #7 35y, 5'9", 174lbs, 13% BF, married for 8 years, kids: 2 boys (4.5yrs & 2yrs) Back Squat: 340 lb 3x5 | Deadlift: 374lb 3x5 | Bench Press: 245lb 3x5 | Dips: 132lb 3x5 | Overhead Press: 135lb 3x5 | Pullups: 100 lb added 3x5 | Rows: 235 lb 3x5 Reading Summary MMSLP, NMMNG, the Book of Pook, WISNIFG, MAP, Day Bang, Game, 16 Commandments of poon, TWOTSM (x3) In Progress: Rational Male (70%), Sex god method (90%), 48 Powers of Law 25% Lifting I’ve started a new program (5/3/1 BBB) to try and mix…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 10:11 AM
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Man, I've got little time to spare every day... But I MAKE time to read posts like this. Well done HoA. Well written bro.
/r/askMRP09/12/19 12:44 PM
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You decide. You should never reach the end goal though. Always strive for more!
/r/askMRP06/12/19 10:31 PM
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Interesting read. Still, no harm in consuming around 1g per lb. Gotta fill those macro nutrients up somehow and protein helps you feel less hungry.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 07:45 PM
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Aim for 1 to 1.5g protein per lb of body weight... I'd aim for 180g tbh. 100 seems too low. Eat more. Eat clean as much as possible.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 04:59 PM
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Listened to the audio book almost 3 times now. Only the second time round did I really understand what he was getting at. Third time is really sinking in. Get that shit in repeat.
/r/askMRP01/12/19 09:28 PM
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OptimusRP - Taking a break from the gym to lift some spirits instead.
/r/askMRP29/11/19 03:49 PM
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He's done it to me. I've witnessed it first hand!
/r/askMRP28/11/19 05:46 PM
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What kind of black magic is this!
/r/askMRP28/11/19 03:25 PM
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If you've read the sidebar material, why are you so clueless? You need to understand that this girl isn't any more special than the next one. You shouldn't be thinking about the last 4 months of connecting to this girl. Instead think about the next 4 vaginas your cock is going to penetrate. Maybe that will help you give less of a fuck about the one dry vagina you're trying to force your dick into.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 02:19 PM
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Have you done any reading of the sidebar materials? Cos it sounds like you are at the very beginning here without any RP knowledge. I might be wrong, but it sounds like that. You have a serious case of oneitis and some very weak insecurities. Instead of worrying about her and getting cheated on, you should be having a good time without her. She should be worrying about YOU cheating... Not the other way round. The ironic thing is that your neediness is probably driving her to actually do what you…
/r/askMRP28/11/19 02:04 PM
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Cardio will help with your lifts. If you have more stamina your workouts will be easier to get through and you will have more steam. For example, I find if I havent been running in a while I'm less fit and my deadlifts take a hit. I'm much more burnt out after DL than if I was regularly running. If you're building then eat back the calories burnt from cardio. If you're cutting, use the extra burn as a bonus to reach your goal faster.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 02:43 PM
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Think of it as calories over a week, not per day. Same days you could have less, some days more. Personally I keep it all as simple as possible, that way I can be consistent which is the most important thing. You can try keto, intermittent fasting, etc... But I find simply eating 300-500 above or below your TDEE to work without any trouble at all. Just eat enough protein every day and throw in some cardio when youre cutting for that bonus burn (speeds up the cut). Keep lifting and keep everythin…
/r/askMRP27/11/19 07:41 AM
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Tbf I agree with you to a degree... But shit posts like this one are just as tiresome. OP could have researched more himself, told us what he'd learnt so far, given some feedback and asked a thought provoking question or a question with more detail requesting help. Instead he's asking us to be his personal librarian. I'll always give more detailed and constructive comments where I feel they are deserved. This post I felt the need to give as good as I got.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 09:52 PM
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End of the day, this is a lazy question. There's a sticky at the top of this forum telling users how to post good questions. It's pretty simple. He could always just message the mods for questions like this, or use the search bar, or I dunno... Look around a bit. Lazy. My response was lazy. His post is lazy. Enough said. Why are you trying to be OP's White Knight is an interesting question? You know that won't get you laid right?
/r/askMRP26/11/19 05:13 PM
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So, the sidebar has an actual list of recommended readings for everyone to read through. This guy wants to skip that and just get recommended books based on his brief description here... It's laziness. So was my reaction to it, but I haven't got time to write an articulated response to a lazy post quite frankly.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 03:55 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. I need to change my perception of this and see how I grow from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 02:43 PM
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Start by looking in the mother fucking sidebar. Fuck. How fucking lazy are some faggots!?
/r/askMRP26/11/19 01:45 PM
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I appreciate the positive feedback man. Good to know I'm where I should be. This is exactly why I post here, to get called out on any bullshit I'm feeding myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 12:57 PM
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Not trying to twist shit, just trying to establish my thought process. Thanks for calling me out on it though. I'll more thoroughly read through all this feedback and assess what the hell I'm doing. Obviously I think I'm in a certain place and I guess I'm not really in that place. I'll always take on board the feedback offered to me, so I'll give the rational hamster a rest for now and just listen. Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 12:07 PM
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Staying on top is the game. Maybe the analogy is a bad one. Are we not all playing a game really... Especially as we progress out of our beta selves. A game of her tests vs your frame. Doesn't mean a score has to be kept, just an aim of winning. Vs her tests, vs yourself and your own progression. Are you progressing vs are you just being lazy and not progressing. It's all a game at the end of the day. Right?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 12:00 PM
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Maybe I am still playing the game against myself. Like I say, I still have work to do. I'm in the best place I've ever been in my life and still know I have room to grow, that's an incredible feeling. I've conquered many fears, yes, there's still some to conquer. I've conquered many insecurities and emotions too. Still room to grow, of course. I don't feel like I'm keeping score between me and my wife, only myself maybe. Like you saying, playing against myself. My old self vs my new self. That's…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 10:38 AM
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Dude, I always appreciate your feedback. Could you elaborate as to why you think I'm not working to bring her into my frame? Why do you think I'm bluffing? I know I have a strong hand. I'm confident in what I'm doing and where I'm going. Definitly interested in hearing more of your opinion and why you see it differently from your perspective. I'm missing something and always willing to accept more guidance and feedback. Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 10:01 AM
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OYS #6 35y, 5'9", 174lbs, 13% BF, married for 8 years, kids: 2 boys (4yrs & 2yrs) Back Squat: 340 lb 3x5 | Deadlift: 374lb 3x5 | Bench Press: 245lb 3x5 | Dips: 132lb 3x5 | Overhead Press: 135lb 3x5 | Pullups: 100 lb added 3x5 | Rows: 235 lb 3x5 Reading Summary MMSLP, NMMNG, the Book of Pook, WISNIFG, MAP, Day Bang, Game, 16 Commandments of poon, TWOTSM (x2) In Progress: Rational Male (60%), Sex god method (50%) TWOTSM 50% (round 3) Mission update My aim is to become the most muscular I can, natu…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 09:03 AM
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Yeah well you're right. Revenge shouldn't even be a thing. It's a trait you see in the femanine. It's a beta man's ice cream.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 06:04 AM
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The best revenge IS massive success, however OP, be careful not to let revenge be your fuel. Your fuel is now yourself and yourself only. Become the man you should've been all along. Seeing your ex sweat when she sees how awesome you become in a while from now is just a bonus.
/r/askMRP25/11/19 07:33 PM
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Mate, you have been set FREE! You are your own man. Your child is grown and responsibilities as a father are now minimal. Create some goals. Get a mission. Read the sidebar and become a man again. Congratulations, you are now playing on easy mode.
/r/askMRP25/11/19 07:21 PM
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Trust me. You would NOT say that about my wife's sister.
/r/askMRP23/11/19 12:41 PM
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There's also positive encouragement. Like if she does actually do something physical, make sure you praise that shit. TWOTSM has a good section on this, although I can't remember exactly what he said about it. Something like telling her you love it when she wears her gym pants and you find her sexy when she sweats.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 03:43 PM
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Yup, still too early.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 12:46 PM
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She thinks you're an asshole... GREAT! Agree. You are an asshole!
/r/askMRP22/11/19 10:23 AM
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It seemed like a good idea at 5am... Better have my coffee and wake up a bit before thinking from now on.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 08:46 AM
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I have 2 and I wouldn't want another one. As you say, 2 more years of bringing up a baby until they can actually do things on their own properly. It's a lot of work and you know this. Having said this, GET WITH IT NOW. ITS HAPPENING. Look at the positives NOT the negatives. You've had your little cry about it, now sort out your shit and get planning. Do things better than you did before. Learn from past mistakes with your other children and make sure you have a slightly easier ride this time. Yo…
/r/askMRP22/11/19 06:19 AM
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Now I see you, now I don't.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 06:11 AM
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Good call. She wants to feel like she's contributing towards a highly sort after man. If you can request things of her, you must be a higher SMV.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 05:44 AM
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We ain't carrying that shit. If I wanted to carry a purse I'd fucking buy myself one.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 10:31 PM
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My wife used to give me compliance tests all the time. One memorable one was to always hand me her finished tea cup when we were both on the sofa watching TV. She couldn't be bothered to move, so id put it down for her. Now she doesn't even look my way for this kind of shit. When you feel like you're being used like a fucking slave, it's a compliance test. She handed me her handbag a few weeks ago... Without thinking I put out my hand to grab it (reactional)... Brain kicks in, "wtf am I doing" a…
/r/askMRP20/11/19 09:52 PM
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Or Sync Pro
/r/askMRP20/11/19 07:44 PM
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WTF!?
/r/askMRP20/11/19 09:18 AM
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I can tell you've come straight from r/relationships... What you describe is typical and you shouldnt expect anything else. All women are like that. AWALT. READ THE SIDEBAR. RP will do you a lot of good, but not to save your marriage (although that can be a result of your work here) but to improve yourself. You probably don't even think you need improving or "fixing", but believe me, YOU DO! Read the sidebar (read the books suggested in the sidebar) and do some work on this. You will dramaticall…
/r/askMRP20/11/19 07:28 AM
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There's no problem using a Smith machine to aid recovery, but that's all it should be used for when squatting IMO You won't develop the proper squat form using a Smith machine as it takes all stabilisation out of the equation for your body. I'd recommend trying box squats to increase your squat when your injuries don't debilitate you anymore. This is a good way to practice lower depth with good form and increase the weight you can lift. Slowly work towards not actually sitting in the box though,…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 10:08 PM
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What kind of routine do you do for lifting? How many days a week? You mention you feel you should be further along and you have been too easy on yourself, so how do you plan on pushing harder and making more progress?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 12:23 PM
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Fuck, I'm using that
/r/askMRP19/11/19 06:21 AM
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OK, this is killing me now. What is part 2 gonna be about?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/19 07:22 PM
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Fill it back up with muscle dawg! Otherwise I guess you could go the surgery route, depending on how bad the situation it. Also, maybe the skin just takes time to reduce back to its original elasticity.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 12:44 PM
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Stats aren't bad. You're in shape to be fair. Good work. How about frame and game?
/r/askMRP17/11/19 06:13 PM
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Sounds like she's up for it. Just keep it up and show how much you enjoy it. I know others here might mention that you shouldn't give a shit if she's enjoying it or not, but I get it. Seeing her enjoy it gives you more pleasure too... Which is the whole point. Don't do anything just for her sake... Do it for you. Anyway... You build up her trust by her not being dead at the end of the session, right?
/r/askMRP17/11/19 05:19 PM
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I had to look didn't I... Jeez.
/r/askMRP15/11/19 10:36 AM
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Just remember to have Amused Mastery. Her questions are trivial, they amuse you. Have fun with them and don't let her moods affect you
/r/askMRP15/11/19 09:41 AM
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Solid enough reason. Any bitch arguing with this isn't worth your time.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 10:23 PM
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Could be an amputee
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:31 PM
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One thing I haven't done yet (or had to do I guess) is broken record the fuck out of a situation. I figure it could be kinda fun... How many "nos" does she have in her...
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:25 PM
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"I lost it in one of the girls vaginas I was fingering"
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:16 PM
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"Why arnt you wearing your ring?" "I flogged it in ibiza to pay for that hooker" Let her hamster run wild.... Put the ring back on the next day if it means that much to you.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:07 PM
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Yeah, I get cha.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 07:55 PM
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I find it's critical for me. I want foreplay. Rarely do I enjoy just diving straight into the pussy, unless it's a quickie
/r/askMRP14/11/19 04:12 PM
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What kinda foreplay do you do, if any? Do you get her proper ready for the cock first or do you just dive straight in?
/r/askMRP14/11/19 01:50 PM
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I'm fucking with you man. I've seen one of your pics. saved it as my desktop tbh.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 06:01 AM
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Not your penis... your build.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 10:26 PM
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Look. Dude. If you want to cheat. CHEAT FFS. Goddamn it, I'm not even 4 months in and I get that much at least.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 10:19 PM
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Which category are you bro?
/r/askMRP13/11/19 10:18 PM
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4 months lifting and he's suddenly Hercules?
/r/askMRP13/11/19 07:22 PM
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Wow, I've gotta try this later instead of fucking my wife. Thanks Horns
/r/askMRP13/11/19 03:18 PM
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Your problem... My glory
/r/askMRP13/11/19 02:40 PM
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Send nudes
/r/askMRP13/11/19 02:38 PM
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She is kind of a woman that most fat men wants to fuck.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 01:07 PM
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This is great to read man. Some of it I can closely relate to, especially having to guide her hamster out of the maze with a few words. I've done this probably too often, but it always results in a wife that's sweet, affectionate and wants to ravish my cock. I guess for now it works, but the idea is to become alpha enough jot to even need words to get what we want here. From my experience so far it just cushions the blow of changes as we put to bed our beta bitch selves. Becoming alpha isn't som…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 12:33 PM
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I think the problem here is that you are male. Try being female instead.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 12:17 PM
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On my MAP, I started getting up earlier. I hit a 5:15 this week and hit a few 6ams. My energy levels were so high from the 5:15 one. I acted more assertive and I could feel my power in personal and professional interactions arc upwards. I found that being up at that time meant I felt more confident, I turned off my phone earlier, meditated before sleep, worked out more efficiently in the gym and did not beat myself up if I didn't achieve all my daily goals. My daily goals had become a way to fee…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 09:38 AM
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This one's on my to read list. Probably pick it up next. Sounds interesting
/r/askMRP13/11/19 07:43 AM
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Yeah man, totally seeing this. I appreciate your feedback, that clears things up quite nicely. I'll make some adjustments.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 05:09 PM
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Makes a lot of sense. Should have thought of this as my option tbh. But hey, this is why I post!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 05:08 PM
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I'll pursue other avenues to improve them in. Otherwise I'll concentrate on my other areas of mission and probably add more to it. Mission can evolve right?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 04:00 PM
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Nice. Okay you've woken me up here and it makes perfect sense, it's exactly how I'll proceed. Thanks. Needed this kick up the ass!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 02:50 PM
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Yeah, I guess I still put my children right up there on my priority list. Honestly, I've been taking care of myself as number 1 priority for the past few months. But my kids are definitly on my mind a lot of the time. I work my time around the kids, not my wife though.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 02:37 PM
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I'm not interested in starfish sex. I want passion, desire, excitement... She's perfectly capable of providing me this, so figured I'd show my disinterest in starfish sex by withdrawing my interest in sex with her this week. It's probably a shit move.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 02:12 PM
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I see where you're coming from. The main reason I want to do it is because I don't want starfish sex, I want a woman whos passionate and desires me. She normally reacts well when we're on a high point and does have passion for me, there's a big difference between her starfishing and giving me what I want. This isn't really about how she reacts to me withdrawing my initiations as opposed to the fact that I don't want sex if it's gonna be shit. I don't really care how she reacts to it as il go bac…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 01:52 PM
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I'm sure I am. Its not an easy habit to break. Years of it... Years. However I am making progress. I can see it and feel it. I always respect what you write man. Could you give me any more feedback and ways to improve here that will help me progress? Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 01:15 PM
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There's been plenty of passionate sex in the past few months, so a week of starfish is kinda unusual. Not trying to slap her in the face with it, juet want to experiment to see what happens mostly. If she initiates ill bang her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 12:17 PM
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I can see how that part of my mission is a contradiction of my purpose. Outcome independence. Maybe I need to reword my mission a bit more, as I don't think there is a limit to being a good role model to my kids or helping them succeed, so it can go on forever. If I add in that while I can influence their lives in a positive way, I will do so, therefore I'm not depending on it as an outcome for my mission, it's just one area that I want to influence in a good way. I hear you about the burning sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 11:09 AM
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OYS #5 35y, 5'9", 177lbs, 14% BF, married for 8 years, kids: 2 boys (4yrs & 2yrs) Back Squat: 340 lb 3x5 | Deadlift: 374lb 3x5 | Bench Press: 242lb 3x5 | Dips: 132lb 3x5 | Overhead Press: 135lb 3x5 | Pullups: 100 lb added 3x5 | Rows: 235 lb 3x5 Reading Summary MMSLP, NMMNG, the Book of Pook, WISNIFG, MAP, Day Bang, Game, 16 Commandments of poon, TWOTSM (x2) In Progress: Rational Male (30%), Sex god method (50%) Mission update My mission is to be a proper role model for my kids and grow them into…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 09:10 AM
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or*
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:03 AM
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Ha, yeah, well exactly... A shit test. A covert one at that. You killed her shit test by actually doing it. So win.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:45 PM
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While she's choking on his cock. We could see our first amputation!
/r/askMRP09/11/19 08:11 AM
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Makes a lot of sense. Nicely explained, thanks
/r/askMRP09/11/19 08:08 AM
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Don't take sides. Learn from their mistakes and make sure you be the best man you can be. If your dad isn't beta, why did your mum go out and find Chad? Don't live your life by your dad's example, make your own path and don't get into a relationship unless you are in the driving seat. Use this as fuel to make yourself better.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 10:06 PM
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Fuck it. Sounds like a laugh. Just don't talk to me about it the next day alright.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 09:25 PM
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Fair point. I think in the case of OP it could be as you say. It at least is something that needs squashing if he's gonna continue down this route, otherwise pack up your shit and get the lawyers in.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 08:02 PM
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I'll always listen to adcive from any vet on here. However, plan A is to try and get her to submit. I owe her a chance. I'll be strongly listening to vets on here who have succeeded in this path. But of course, you know this bro.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 06:31 PM
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Too* but fuck grammar, it's Friday MUTHER FUCKAZZZ!!!
/r/askMRP08/11/19 06:08 PM
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Fuck yes. Will you be my wingman?
/r/askMRP08/11/19 06:06 PM
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Yeah, fair play. He should be prepared for either outcome anyway. Plan A is the same as Plan B
/r/askMRP08/11/19 05:13 PM
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Fair play. I wasn't saying THIS was a main event though...
/r/askMRP08/11/19 05:10 PM
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Yep. Thanks.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 05:05 PM
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It would be a fuck ton easier, that's for sure. But if he's never been alpha, of course she hasn't been submissive to him. I would have said to give it a fucking shot. Poor woman hasnt ever had a real alpha to be lead by, she needs time to get used to it... No?
/r/askMRP08/11/19 05:00 PM
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So you're saying that you're NOT supposed to give your wife time to adjust. I thought it was 1 month of time to adjust per year of marriage. Am I taking that too literally or should one just nuke everything as soon as one is shown disrespect, or should you try to lead her onto a path of respect by setting boundaries. Either I'm fucking retarded (likely) or there's a lot of contradictory advice on here...
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:52 PM
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I guess from your experience, you're right. I imagine everyone has different circumstances though. My bird didn't so much use it as a threat, more of a question "should be divorce"... However, I'm fully expecting a fucking full on emotional hissy fit as I approach the main event. The main event either goes one of two ways and usually involves the divorce word right? So what you're saying is as soon as anyone hits the main event they should straight up sack that shit off?
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:35 PM
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Don't nuke shit mate! Carry on exactly as you are. I'd say you're on track.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:27 PM
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Surely that's not true. Women use this kind of thing as a threat right? I've had it thrown at me a few times and I don't feel it's inevitable unless I want it to be.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:21 PM
2

I used to have road rage. Not quite as extreme as you describe, but I'd get pissed at all the shitty drivers who didn't follow the road rules properly and cut me up or tail gated me. Now I tjust laugh at them. They can do what they want. Hopefully some cops will catch them in the act at some point before they actually kill anyone. Once you put your ego aside, just let jerks be jerks and get on with your own driving. 1) don't think of them as people driving cars, think of it as a video game where…
/r/askMRP08/11/19 08:58 AM
1

It's a mother fucking shit test. Jeezus. No girl who is attached to you as much as you think she is would ask this of you. She either wants out of the relationship and is finding a way of doing it where you are the bad guy, or its a shitty comfort test where you have to completely decline the offer so she knows you are committed.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 09:56 PM
5

Just avoid the "dirty" part. I fall short here all the time so end up going through many more cut cycles then I really need to. Sugar is OK in small doses, the problem with sugar is its one of the most addictive substances on earth. A little bit leads to a little bit more... Before you know it 3 slices of cake a day just ain't enough.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 06:04 PM
5

This is a garunteed way of putting on muscle, as long as all other factors are in check and you haven't already reached your natural limit (unlikely). Sleep and rest well, 8 hours a day is optimal. Don't over train muscle groups. Eat well, you are allowed to eat more than 1lb of protein per lb of body weight OP... So go for it. Protein fills you up more than any other macro source and there's nothing wrong with eating more of it. Cut out sugar as much as possible. It is the DEVIL! Mix up the rou…
/r/askMRP06/11/19 04:52 PM
2

Own your shit man... Why are you crying about having chores to do. There is no "rest". You think any man that actually steps up to improve gets "rest"? Work hard! Get shit done! Don't be a pussy! Do it because it needs doing and you're the captain. Not for her. Assume you're doing it all, until you deligate her the job you want her to do that evening.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 10:04 PM
1

This is true I judged myself by this event, I knew I failed. I felt shit the next day, even though my wife was sweet, because I felt I traded some of my alpha for beta in order to get through the test easier. I failed. Im the judge of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 09:10 PM
1

Nice insight, thanks.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 08:03 PM
2

When are you gonna decide what the next step is? Congrats on the new flair btw!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 07:28 PM
1

There's something to be said for just taking your time before reacting to something. Luckily, although I deered and felt like I'd failed, it turned out alright and she ended up being fucking sweet for the next few days. However I've been making up ground on being more alpha this past week to make up for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 05:15 PM
3

I bet that wouldn't satisfy you as much as you think it would.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 05:01 PM
1

Now, I’m just looking for clarity. I want to be more stoic. I want to be the master of my mind. I want my body to be my slave. I want to be accountable to myself and responsible for my own life. This is a good mission. I can see how these things would be your purpose, as they are unmovable and don't rely on other things to exist.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 04:47 PM
2

Thanks for your insight. Might have to watch that 5hr lecture.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 04:45 PM
1

I totally fell into the DEERing trap before I even realised I was caught there. Started off with fogging, but yeah next time I'm gonna make sure I'm more aware of the trap. She's fucking clever and knows how to lead me into these places.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 03:49 PM
4

I see what you're saying... Maybe THAT would be my deepest purpose, as I kind of feel anything I do would be to fuel that happiness. I could definitly add "looking at everything from an optimistic standpoint, being full of love and always giving my greatest gifts, indepenant from any outcome that might occur" to my mission list. My deepest purpose would then to be ultimately happy no matter what happens.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 03:02 PM
12

I asked on there and the only answer I got was "gay".
/r/askMRP05/11/19 02:17 PM
8

What keeps you with your wife? A lot of the time it sounds like you're not really sure you want to be with her. You find it hard to give comfort... do you think that's comfort in general to people (are your kids included in this) or is it just comfort to her? Declining sex shows that you're not interested in her. Maybe your SMV has risen so much higher than hers that you know you can do better now. Do you want out? If so, why string her along like a plate you don't want to fuck?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 01:08 PM
1

• fix something in the house • plan a date night • do weekly budget checkups These are day to day items to do, not a plan for the next OYS...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 01:03 PM
1

And if I'm really being honest, I'm just worried about looking like a twat at the gym. Everyone starts somewhere. Don't go in there clueless. Watch videos on youtube of form and how to perform lifts properly, then you're not going in there with no idea what you're doing. Have a set routine that you stick to for a while and LEARN EVERYTHING PROPERLY. Who gives a fuck if you look like a newb for the first few sessions. If you can't get over that how the fuck are you going to develop a solid frame …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 01:00 PM
2

OYS #4 3 months into my MRP journey. 35y, 5'9", 175lbs, 14% BF, married for 8 years, kids: 2 boys (4yrs & 2yrs) Back Squat: 340 lb 3x5 Deadlift: 374lb 3x5 Bench Press: 242lb 3x5 Dips: 132lb 3x5 Overhead Press: 135lb 3x5 Pullups: 100 lb added 3x5 Rows: 235 lb 3x5 Reading Summary MMSLP, NMMNG, the Book of Pook, WISNIFG, MAP, Day Bang, Game, 16 Commandments of poon, TWOTSM, Daily readings of MRP/ASKMRP posts. In Progress: Rational Male (20%), TWOTSM again (25%), Sex god method (50%) Physical & Fram…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 09:20 AM
-1

Tell her that you don't mind her cleaning as long as she cleans the cum off the end of your cock too!
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:24 AM
1

Brilliant.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 06:23 AM
1

Hmmm, maybe I have his wrong then. I thought AM was where you treat/react to them as if they were a child. Normally I just kinda let her babble and stand there looking at her with a smirk on my face like I would look at my 4 year old who talks absolute shit... Cos basically what she says and what he says means the same bollocks anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/19 07:15 PM
1

Worth a try. At least he'll get his dick wet
/r/askMRP30/10/19 01:01 PM
3

I'm into this.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 12:26 PM
3

How did you have it done? Clamping or snipping? Also what was the recovery like? Any complications?
/r/askMRP30/10/19 10:13 AM
6

I always wanted 6. After the first 2 i was done. A few reasons, which might not affect you ... 1) Money. Childcare here was costing me £1000 a month PER CHILD. Minus a few benefits such as tax free childcare where the government puts in 20% towards the cost if you jump through a bunch of hoops each month. Also the nursery would reduce one child's cost by 10% for sibling bonus. I'm now literally floating at the bottom of my bank account each month until my second one is out of nursery. Not good. …
/r/askMRP30/10/19 08:39 AM
1

I find myself using AM more than AA. Just seems to come more naturally. I can AA when it seems fit, but most of the time she gets the idea from how I look at her.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 03:12 PM
5

But... isn't that... a bit gay?
/r/askMRP29/10/19 01:37 PM
1

My example sucks tbf. Probably more likely to be trying to hit a form failing 9 reps instead of a solid 8 reps. Hitting that 9 at bad form but to failure will mean your next set will likely fail a lot sooner then 8. Hitting the final set to 9 with as good form as possible would be much more beneficial
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:26 PM
8

But, Mr. hack3ge, how do I get this without putting any work in? How, please tell me how?
/r/askMRP29/10/19 01:23 PM
1

You won't catch me disagreeing with you there. However your statement of generally train to failure is incorrect and will likely cause more injury then success.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:12 PM
5

Hypnotism
/r/askMRP29/10/19 11:04 AM
5

Mission: I honestly don’t know yet. I want to say “be happier” or some shit but that’s really vague. I’ll have to reflect more on this. For now it’s to own my shit. Your mission can be a number of things. It doesn't have to be one statement that encompass everything you want to achieve in life... Your mission can be to become the CEO of a company, to become a Black belt at a martial art, to be a great role model to your kids and actually see them take on your teachings, to develop your own under…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 09:08 AM
6

No matter how shit life gets for any man, its never worth putting a gun to your head. Try and look at this low point in your life as a starting block for getting your shit together. If you're at rock bottom and still here, searching for a way up, you are in a good place because there is only one direction you can go now and everything will become incredible for you as you progress. Take step one, complete step one and internalise your result. Move onto step two only once step one is complete. Ma…
/r/askMRP29/10/19 08:42 AM
1

That's a pretty generalised statement... Train until failure.... I mean, if you do hat for every set of an exercise, you won't hit your goals at all and infact will burn out quickly. 3x10 of barbell bench presses for instance... You want to aim for sets of 10 each time. If set 1 and 2 you hit 10, then sure aim for 11 or 12 on the last set if you can do it, then next week increase the weight. However, if you hit 13 on set one coz you went to complete failure, I expect set two might be 8, then set…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:02 AM
2

Tbf, there's much easier ways to earn Internet points.
/r/askMRP26/10/19 12:08 PM
10

Start doing as much reading as you can on frame. Read about it, learn it, internalise it. It's something thats difficult to develop but it's VITAL that you do. Get your own understanding of what frame is and live by it. At the moment, you're in your wife's frame. Shit she says, shit she does, it all affects you. You've apologised. Good, now move on. Don't move out, don't comply to this test. She'll make her own space if she needs it Don't apologise any more either. If it comes up again, either s…
/r/askMRP25/10/19 07:32 PM
7

You're angry. You're butt hurt. You're not in control. You're in her frame. Her emotions are controlling you. Get into your frame. Tell her it's unacceptable that these suprises are coming out of nowhere and you need to know all potential financial "suprises" that might occur so you can remain in control of your finances. You should cover the cost because you are the captain of your ship and should be able to look after your family. If a member of your crew fucks up do you throw them overboard s…
/r/askMRP24/10/19 08:18 AM
1

I've found it hard to put on lean muscle over the past couple of years. I've put it down to a total lack of sleep due to my kids being terrible during the nights. Usually eat plenty, usually workout hard, have also made decent strength progression over this time, but I'd say I'm only a couple of lbs heavier. This is why I feel 5lb might be realistic. If I hit above this ill be more than happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 12:48 PM
1

Thanks for your feedback bro
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 03:29 PM
2

I have the same Plan A. My main plan is to have a united family under one roof. I don't want my kids to not live with me and I want to make it work with my wife. Why though... I've thought about this. Its not oneitis, its not fear, its because I think she has potential to add great value to my life. She's good with the kids, she's a hard worker and brings in good money to the family as well as keeping a good home. She has the ability to please me how I want her to. I don't particularly want to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 03:26 PM
1

Good advice. I realised this was possibility a month back and made sure to focus my efforts on pulling myself out of her frame and give up the acting Alpha role I was playing at. I feel I'm pulling my legs out of that quicksand now. Hopefully I wont let it envolope me again.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 02:32 PM
1

Well, I'm working hard to be a masculine, solid oak for my family, so I hope she feels that. I can tell be a lot of the changes in her actions over the past 2 months that this IS the case. I won't try and get in her head and understand what she's thinking, nor does that matter. I'm feeling that things are generally heading in the right direction, even with the odd fuck up here and there. I'm feeling good about myself and even if I dip back into the old beta me once in a while, I'm fucking loving…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 02:02 PM
3

OYS #3 2.5 months into my MRP journey. 35y, 5'9", 170lbs, 12% BF, married for 8 years, kids: 2 boys (4yrs & 2yrs) Back Squat: 340 lb 3x5 Deadlift: 374lb 3x5 Bench Press: 242lb 3x5 Dips: 132lb 3x5 Overhead Press: 132lb 3x5 Pullups: 100 lb added 3x5 Rows: 220 lb 3x5 Reading Summary MMSLP, NMMNG, the Book of Pook, WISNIFG, MAP, Day Bang, Game, 16 Commandments of poon, Daily readings of MRP/ASKMRP posts. In Progress: Sex god method (need to pick this up again), TWOTSM Physical I have a weight goal o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 12:33 PM
1

Great, thanks for the suggestion.
/r/askMRP16/10/19 01:29 PM
3

Have you read Day Bang by Roosh V?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:41 AM
1

Sounds like you need to read "Day Bang" by Roosh V. This will give you all the tips you need to make successful approaches. Just make sure you impliment his teachings and don't half ass it. It's all about not scaring away the cat. If you go in too personal too soon, it's likely you'll scare her off as youre still a "stranger". You need to get her to the point of asking YOU a personal question before you go for the number. Sure, you can get a few numbers by being more direct, sometimes, but it's …
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:42 AM
1

Yep, when I begun RP I DEERed
/r/askMRP15/10/19 11:40 AM
2

Sounds like you need to do a hell of a lot more reading. You sound like a complete beta boy in this relationship. Showing signs of neediness, requiring validation and butt hurt thay she's not all over you, but at the end of the day she finds you unattractive which is why she isnt giving you what you desire. Read the sidebar (book by book), keep improving yourself and FFS initiate. Who gives a fuck if she initiates or not, your the man, do your job and initiate sex. If she rejects you, then go do…
/r/askMRP15/10/19 09:14 AM
2

Thanks for your analysis of my intellect. I'll make sure to remember that next time I'm trying to be clever.
/r/askMRP15/10/19 04:56 AM
2

Depends if she'll actually engage in this kind of material. She needs something that won't go over her head, she's smart enough, but I wouldn't call her interlectual.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 09:17 PM
1

Well, I'd say I've got a bit to go first before introducing that book to her then. She's definitly following my lead, but she's not 100% submissive. Yet. I'll look into some self improvement books for her for now. Maybe something that will also get some ideas rolling around her head for sex and trying new things. I've been guiding her well there recently, trying some dominating techniques like tying her up and restraining. (never really done that before).
/r/askMRP14/10/19 09:14 PM
1

Well, if you put it that way, maybe it's worth consideration. I've trashed it because the film was dire, but women love it so maybe it's worth it in that aspect.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:57 PM
1

I'll have a look and see if it's one for "later". Cheers.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:36 PM
1

Thanks for your input.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:35 PM
-1

Fifty shades of shit
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:33 PM
1

Took some hunting (and interesting reading of some of the posts on there), but here is their official reading list. https://www.reddit.com/r/redpillwomen/comments/5bp1p9/_/ Some of the books mentioned in this post are on there. Has anyone read or given their wife any of the books on this list not yet mentioned in this post?
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:32 PM
0

I'll make sure to look into that one. Thanks for the suggestion. Laura Doyle seems to be pretty popular for this kind of thing.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:23 PM
1

I'll be sure to read your OYS. Haha, I can imagine the broken record loop now! Could be fun.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:22 PM
3

Yeah, I'm not too bothered if she reads something that helps, or doesn't read anything. Either way I'm progressing. If there's something out there for her to read that makes her all that more submissive and helps her understand the changes to the boundaries in our relationship then fair play. I'll give any suggestions a read first if they're available online and see what the book has to say, so thanks for the ideas.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 08:20 PM
2

2AM MOTHER FUCKER!!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/19 12:09 PM
3

Chad 🤣
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:43 AM
3

But, but... He doesn't want to upset her...
/r/askMRP04/10/19 12:18 PM
4

Exactly, what custody agreement is in place? Is there one? If she's going against that you can get legal involved. If she isn't then you have to stick by the deal until you improve enough as a man that she will be OK to let your daughter near you more often.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 11:55 AM
1

Good call. Gotta make sure I stay on track with my goals and mission and not fall back at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 06:41 AM
1

I'm getting ready to be away from the house some more. More activities like the Mauy Thai and probably some indoor basketball. I was at a kids birthday party the other day with my family and made sure I was social with everyone there, especially the hot mums. My wife definitly noticed, she was super sweet after that. I'll keep doing that kind of thing, not just for dread, but because it's actually really enjoyable. In the old days, as social as I've always been, I might have been content with ju…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 06:41 AM
3

That's a shame. I guess in true RP fashion, you have to want to do it yourself, not be told to do it. Then you have to do all of the work yourself too. Some people just aren't up for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 06:37 AM
2

Nice write up man, sounds like you're on track and doing well. I think that is a perfect reason to break rule 1 right there. Your friend is the exact kind of guy who needs this if hes gonna retain any kind of happiness out of his life. So in my opinion, great work!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 09:40 PM
5

To the sidebar
/r/askMRP01/10/19 08:38 PM
1

I'm kinda looking forward to it... Strangely. Old me would have been shitting myself at the prospect and trying everything to keep her happy. Now I want the test to see how well I hold up this time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 08:35 PM
1

Probably right, yeah. I expect it too. Like I say, shit can't run this smoothly this quickly. I doubt my frame is "rock solid" yet. I've still got loads of work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 07:35 PM
9

Bro! I was exactly like this for years! Years!! I always wanted to smash other women, wasn't even that attracted to my wife anymore and didn't really care if I stayed with her or not, but I didn't wanna crush her emotionally. I almost left a number of times, but my kids kept me there... Do you know what I realised by finding red pill... I wasn't unattracted to her, not at all... I was unattracted to myself and the beta faggot I had become. The day I found red pill, and this is no word of a lie, …
/r/askMRP01/10/19 06:38 PM
5

Should he crush her or not?
/r/askMRP01/10/19 06:30 PM
2

Yeah, exactly. Thanks bro
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 03:48 PM
1

Man, I had that same neck problem for years. Bugged the hell out of me. Tried so many different pillows I should have had stock in them. Ended up changing my mattress and neck problems disappeared... Worth a try maybe? I can see how those old habbits could creep back in, especially if things are going well for a time and you get complacent. Gotta keep an eye out for that. I've been getting comfortable myself recently, might get busy on some home projects this week and make myself less available.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 03:43 PM
1

Maybe we're just lucky then. It helps that I've never become too out of shape and maintained a good amount of muscle over the years. The incredible thing to me is that I've still got so much to learn and impliment... If she's like this now, give me 1 year more and I should have her drooling at my feet... That's the plan anyway. Either that or I'll be hit with that massive shit test that really shows my short comings for this short period of time I've been RP for. Either way, I'm looking forward …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 01:34 PM
2

I was thinking this the other day. Figure hell always push to the 3 warning limit at minimum, plus its more ball ache for me. I'll give 1 warning a go.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 11:06 AM
4

Yeah, this is what I don't get. I'm fully expecting a relapse of some kind. Preparing myself to hold frame over some monumental shit test coming up.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 11:05 AM
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OYS #2 Almost 2 months into my MRP journey. 35y, 5'9", 170lbs, 12% BF, married for 8 years, kids: 2 boys (4yrs & 2yrs) Back Squat: 340 lb 3x5 Deadlift: 374lb 3x5 Bench Press: 242lb 3x5 Dips: 132lb 3x5 Overhead Press: 132lb 3x5 Pullups: 100 lb added 3x5 Pendlay rows: 220 lb 3x5 Readings MMSLP, NMMNG, the Book of Pook, WISNIFG, Daily readings of MRP/ASKMRP posts. Currently Reading: MAP, Sex god method. First OYS post for reference: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/cw1gx9/own_your_s…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 08:36 AM
1

Thanks for the responce. I've come along quite a bit in the last few weeks and seem to be doing well, so I expect something to go badly soon and be tested. I feel my frame is becoming much stronger and things don't bother me any where near as much as they were. Will post an updated OYS this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/19 08:28 PM
3

Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does. Looks like she's proper butt hurt thay she's losing her little blue boy beta baby and can't order you to do what she wants anymore. Stay on track, if she falls in line then great, if not, fuck it. Sounds like you're doing a good job bro. Keep it up
/r/askMRP27/09/19 05:21 AM
3

I see cheesecake. I eat it.
/r/askMRP25/09/19 08:30 PM
2

Isn't this married Red pill? Also, why not just fuck her until you find someone better? Or even better, fuck more then one plate at a time!?
/r/askMRP24/09/19 08:38 PM
2

Maybe you haven't given her adequate comfort. Too much alpha would make her feel insecure with you and not comfortable taking it to that next level.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 03:24 PM
3

Sounds like she wants to move on bud.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 02:24 PM
2

What's the black nobbly bit on top?
/r/askMRP23/09/19 08:25 PM
2

Don't forget to give her three back rubs a day. That way you might get lucky at the weekend.
/r/askMRP23/09/19 04:39 PM
2

That's exactly what I need to focus on at times. So will try this out. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 10:22 AM
1

And drink coffee through a straw
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:27 AM
6

I've gotta try meditation. The analogy you used with the gum stuck to the bottom of your shoe is spot on and exactly how I feel sometimes. I find it difficult to ignore those emotions and meditation might just be the answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:35 AM
7

Once. A. Year. Dude...
/r/askMRP23/09/19 05:22 AM
14

Mate... What are you doing leaving her side!!?
/r/askMRP23/09/19 05:21 AM
9

I need this. My OHP is the weakest of all my lifts for some reason. Reading some of your pointers here I can see why. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/19 09:39 AM
3

Sounds like we're at the same stage in our journeys man. What you wrote is so similar to what's happening with me right now. Just keep your head up and carry on bro. Like you say, this is a long journey, not a sprint. Work on that frame and maintaining yourself within it. Don't let anyone else affect it with emotions or frustrations... Just know you have your own strength and don't need anyone else to make yourself strong. Sounds like your heading in the right direction bud. Carry on.
/r/askMRP21/09/19 10:13 PM
1

Worth trying something different here and see if that helps. I know I've experienced a change in labido whilst cutting ona few occasions, especially hard cutting.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:49 PM
1

So I think weve discovered the problem. Have you tried cutting without keto or IF? Just have your usual meals a day (5/6 a day including snacks). What's your TDEE? Just eat 300-500 calories under that every day and you're game on. If you exercise (cardio) and you're desperate, eat back the calories you burned (only if desperate, otherwise enjoy the extra burn and quicker to get to your goal). I'd also suggested going back to maintainance calories for 1-2 weeks to level out again.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:36 PM
2

Hey, I feature in this multiple times! I'm famous!!
/r/askMRP21/09/19 11:03 AM
3

You kinda fogged just there... So you can do it quite easily. Just agree with her statement and summarise what she just said. "You're always too busy to pay me any attention!" "You're right, i do have a busy lifestyle."
/r/askMRP21/09/19 09:42 AM
1

That's probably the cause then. What do you mean "fix it"?
/r/askTRP21/09/19 06:56 AM
2

Are you on a cut? That can lower your sex drive a bit. That and fucking cold weather.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:22 PM
6

It's a bo...... rted!
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:17 PM
3

Yeah, well exactly! That's part of the reason I'm in this mess in the first place. I've got a lot to fix brother! A lot to fix. I'm working on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 01:01 PM
4

Yes, I was being pedantic. You're right, i can be salty at times too and probably a bit retarded. When you explain the "fucking for hours" like that, it actually makes much more sense. I appreciate you putting time into reading my post history. Thanks for the answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 12:57 PM
2

Yeah, what is "fucking"?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 10:52 AM
2

Fucked for a few hours?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 05:35 AM
5

Cool. Good lifts.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:50 PM
3

Would like to know stats and lift numbers mate.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:18 PM
3

Exactly. Even 1/1000 men ain't this jacked. Maybe 1/10,000 is more realistic
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:17 PM
8

Dude. Her actions are telling me that you need to get the fuck out of this and withdraw from her frame completely by not having anything more to do with her. This way you can work on yourself without distraction. Get to work
/r/askMRP17/09/19 07:59 AM
4

Ironically, it probably would have been good for your wife's friend to see you chatting up other chick's. You don't have to fuck her there and then you tit... Play some dread ffs.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 05:16 AM
5

Let me rephrase for him... "I saw a hot chick today, but instead of growing a set of balls and approach her, I decided I should lock my balls securely away back in my wife's frame. Why am I such a massive faggot Mr Thundercock?"
/r/askMRP17/09/19 05:14 AM
1

God damn. That's painful. But how it goes for all beta boys. I've been there. Fuck I'm still kinda there, but changing and fucking GLAD I've found RP. without it my marriage would be fucked in 5 years with my wife taking everything and leaving me with nothing but emptiness and pain. Not her fault, mine, and I'd never know why. Shit, RP is literally life saving.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:20 AM
1

Saved.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:10 AM
3

England. Nuke away, just give me 24 hours notice
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:18 PM
8

Played a game with my wife last night like this. Told her she was not allowed to touch my cock and I was not allowed to touch her pussy, but anywhere around it was OK. Made out for about 15 minutes and I was teasing her all around her thighs, belly, nipples, butt, above and below the pussy.... Eventually I cheated as she was so turned on it didn't matter anymore and I went down on her. She was fucking BEGGING for me to fuck her after this.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:03 PM
33

Embarrassed about it. If you are a high SMV then she won't want to reveal anything embarrassing because you might reject her for her disgusting pussy mess.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:59 PM
41

They could just be on the blob and worried about bloodying your bell end.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:42 PM
3

Nope. Better to use it as a suppository in your case.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 09:30 AM
1

Make sure to rub said soap all over your entire body. Thus eradicating said stink.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 08:38 AM
2

Until death do us part.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 08:36 AM
3

This post stinks
/r/askMRP14/09/19 06:29 AM
3

Just. Don't. Drop her. Especially mid deep throat.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/19 08:22 PM
3

She's a mirror of you. If you don't like her behaviour then it's because you are not being a good leader and showing her how to behave. Better to do it with action and not words.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 08:07 PM
9

AWALT. Sounds like you want to remain blue pill tbh
/r/askMRP13/09/19 08:05 PM
2

I feel ya. Obviously there's plenty of work to do. Let's not get complacent just because were getting laid a few more time then when we were 100% BP. We need to put this faggotory shit behind us and advance brother.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 04:58 AM
16

I dunno about his wife, but this made me wet
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/19 11:16 AM
1

Feels like my four year old is asking me one of his unanswerable, made up, dreamt up some ridiculous shit, what the fuck are you talking about kinda questions...
/r/askMRP12/09/19 05:37 AM
3

Well said, I'll definitely take this on board man
/r/askMRP11/09/19 07:08 PM
1

Since yesterday I've done quite a bit of reading on frame and I get the concept more clearly now and what I really need to do to develop my frame and NGAF attitude. Started gaming other women recently and generally being more social. It's funny, I used to be fucking good at this... I'm still pretty good at it, outside of my relationship so I know I can do it. I have studied the dread levels, but need to re-read a few times again. I'm confident I'll make strides going forward. I think just coming…
/r/askMRP11/09/19 03:20 PM
2

These are my one max reps according to syymetric strength. Pull ups I've been lifting 88lb for 3x8, so I'm also a bit unsure of the one max rep here... Probably should test and adjust accordingly, just trusted the website tbh. My OHP is weak. Something I wanna concentrate on coming up. Had an AC joint injury a while ago and have found it tough to progress since. DL I'm on 385lb at 3x4 Squat I'm on 360lb at 3x3 Bench is 245lb at 3x4 Dips is 110lb at 3x8 So yeah, most of these seem right to me, bu…
/r/askMRP11/09/19 11:36 AM
1

Great explanation, cheers for this.
/r/askMRP11/09/19 07:15 AM
1

You're definitely right that I'm needy still. I'm no gap, so that's not an option. Find I have more fire without it and don't watch porn anymore. I've always had a lot of hobbies. I'll put more focus on them and reduce my focus from sex so much. Fuck how I feel, it's fucking pathetic and I know it. I will change!
/r/askMRP11/09/19 05:06 AM
2

I'll keep working towards my goal then and hopefully it'll develop over time. In the mean time I've really gotta practice at least faking it.
/r/askMRP11/09/19 05:03 AM
2

Never said I wasn't, but thanks for clarifying
/r/askMRP11/09/19 05:02 AM
2

Yes. Yes exactly. I've been thinking this for the past week now. I've got to get my head round it. Thanks.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 11:37 PM
2

Thanks, good tips.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:39 PM
3

This actually makes a lot of sense.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:23 PM
5

So, when you've been blue pill for so long and have given too many fucks about shit you shouldn't have, how do you change your mindset? Should it be instant?
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:21 PM
7

Yep, attention is your currency, don't forget that.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:02 AM
32

Might as well pack up his balls and leave
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:58 AM
4

"I'm sorry for making you feel that way"
/r/askMRP09/09/19 08:13 PM
6

"some beers".... "binge drinking"....
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:39 PM
2

Look for sex God method pdf. I found a bunch of them.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 07:28 PM
21

That's it really. Same thing with drinking. It's alright to go out and have some beers with the lads once in a while, but if you're down the pub every night getting legless then you need to sort your shit out.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:10 PM
1

Fuck it, I'll look into it
/r/askMRP08/09/19 05:27 AM
2

Amazing image. Gonna try this just for shits and giggles.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 05:27 AM
2

Thank you. Its fucking refreshing to hear this and gives me even more hope then I already had.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 12:58 PM
1

A martial art like bjj is a great idea. That will also teach them discipline and respect. Plan to get my two into something coming up. Maybe kick boxing as I used to do that and always enjoyed it.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 07:28 AM
9

Do you discipline them at all for the fighting or just shout "No" and "Stop" at them? By discipline I mean, remove them from the situation, physically if you need to, and take them somewhere seperate and boring to sit for 5 minutes. Get an apology and then apologise to each other and carry on. If it continues, do it again. Theyll get bored of having this happen to them and after enough repetitions it should die down. There's other methods of discipline of course, but I think you stepping up and …
/r/askMRP07/09/19 06:34 AM
1

Younger, 1 year
/r/askMRP07/09/19 06:26 AM
1

Yep, I think you're right. And appreciate the feedback. I'll take note of all this advice today
/r/askMRP07/09/19 06:25 AM
2

Exactly. Give me 5 more months and I'll have my shit in gear
/r/askMRP06/09/19 08:48 PM
2

Haha. K bro. Hit me up when you wanna buy me dinner and I'll show you my lifts xxx
/r/askMRP06/09/19 07:33 PM
4

How about balls deep. Do I actually put the balls IN?
/r/askMRP06/09/19 07:26 PM
2

Absolutely mate. I've gone in guns fucking blazing with no backup. I definitely didn't expect her to change, but even with that knowledge I still went for the holy grail of change. I think it doesn't help that I lefted before this and get regular IOIs. My ego probably has taken control and I need to shut that shit down. Like you say, it's gonna take time for her to come around to my way of things. I'm gonna talk less. A lot less.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 06:47 PM
2

I guess having been out the pussy game for so long it feels like I need to dive in head first and get as much pussy as I can. I mean, I want the pussy, I'm not having sex with her just for the hell of it, but it probably comes across as needy cos I initiate so often whereas before I didn't really care much. I'm gonna try and focus on myself and my goals to better myself. Need to think of some more hobbies and get out more. Gonna try and not worry about the sex so much.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 06:44 PM
1

It's on. New day, new start. Fuck being a beta boy
/r/askMRP06/09/19 05:15 PM
4

Time to kick ass and chew bubblegum.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 05:14 PM
3

Yep. Agreed, and that's my mission for sure. Beta bitch boy me keeps getting in my way... For now. I'll kill him eventually. I definitely need sex though. To be happy. I'm not going abstainant
/r/askMRP06/09/19 05:13 PM
3

Fucking A man. Fucking A. I know for sure there's only one way to go now. I know if I don't do this then it's game over anyway. Maybe not now, maybe not for a year, but in 5 years... Divorce and I'd still be blue pill. FUCK THAT! That's why I'm taking this seriously! As serious as it fucking gets. I'm not letting it get to that stage. If my wife doesn't want any part of it, I need to be ok with that and move the fuck on. I'll achieve this, on my own or with her. I know I will. It's early days an…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 04:54 PM
2

I think I'm starting to understand. I mean, I think I knew anyway, just hard to break bad habits and step out of that mentality. Takes time I guess, but I'll try and stop over thinking and explaining shit.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 04:48 PM
5

Needed to hear this. Thanks bro
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:49 PM
2

Thanks for this. I've definitely fallen short in areas here and i know it. With time will come an improved me. Gotta get out of this pussy phase.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:48 PM
3

On point! She has initiated, but reluctantly... which kinda told me everything i needed to know right then... Exactly as you outlined. We'll see where this heads. I've gotta try and get round the idea of NGAF basically. I thought i was getting there with it, but last night taught me a few things about myself... I'm not there yet, not at all.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:45 PM
3

I'll lay off the talk so much from now. I've said everything now anyway, she shouldn't have to hear anything again about it, just witness the change over time and either hop on board or i ride solo.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:44 PM
1

Yep, definitely. I know it as well, but for some reason i just want it all now. Fucking greedy for a little bitch who doesn't yet deserve it.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:42 PM
3

I'll get stronger and get to this point. Right now, i'm working on it. Thanks for the feedback
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:41 PM
2

Great call. Apart from last night i was actively trying to do this. Got my first BJ in 4 years the other night and i re-enforced afterwards how awesome that was and how much i liked what she did. Last night was just a fuck up. I should probably lay off initiating so often as well. I've said my piece anyway, so she knows that i WANT more. I also mentioned that She shouldn't be concerned if i want MORE sex, she should be concerned when i DON'T want it. I'll have to get my shit together. I apprecia…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 03:41 PM
6

Yup. I agree. I'm having a fucking mind fuck today for sure. Need to sort my shit out
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:23 PM
2

At first I thought probably validation. But I'm genuinely just a horny mother fucker and giving up fapping has made me wanna put my dick somewhere else, I. E. My wife. If I'm honest though, there may still be some validation sex in there... Hard to see it from the inside, its like I need to get off, but I'm sure I still want to see if she's into me too. I need to get over this shit, fuck damn it. I know it too
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:12 PM
3

100% spot on. I want shit too fast, it's something I just have to learn to control. I speak far too much, but I've forced myself into these situations by going too fast. I don't have the frame to deal with this. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:09 PM
3

It's tough man. So many years of being a pussy has kicked my ass. It's hard to suddenly stop giving a shit about someone else when you've lived like this for so long. You're right. I'm just finding it hard to impliment this mentality. I know I can do it. I'm not scared of losing her, I'm confident I can find happiness in any other woman, but I am scared of losing my kids and not being a part of their lives every day. That shit DOES scare me tbh.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:06 PM
6

I've started organising some lads nights now. Not often enough, but it's a start. I play basketball once a week. Could do with some more hobbies to get involved with. Might look into a martial art I guess. What if she wants to tag along? Is that a good thing?
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:02 PM
3

When it comes to the relationship with my woman, I want to have a woman that shows me passion and desire. More sex, sure, but I mostly just don't want bordem, which is the way it had become. For myself, I want to be the best I can be. I've had this attitude towards certain things in life for a while. Been lifting before MRP for a number of years and never had a problem pushing myself in the gym because I wanted to see how far I could take my body. I've got ambitions in my working life, but need …
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:01 PM
2

I'm definitely talking too much and I knew this and was thinking this exact thing whilst talking! I just wasn't sure how to answer her tbh. I couldn't just STFU cos it would have seemed autistic. I always start with STFU and listen for a while, then it's a barrage of "what do you think about this" etc. Basically, if feel reasonably confident letting her know where I stand now that at least going forward I shouldn't have to repeat myself. I can just say that I've let her know what's going on and …
/r/askMRP06/09/19 12:56 PM
3

Agreed. Judging by the way she's reacting, I am going too fast. For me the change feels natural and Im happy with how I am, but for her she must be thinking "WTF is going on!" Thing is, what do I slow down on? Do I not persist so much with sex? Do I try and be less in charge? I'm not really sure.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 12:52 PM
6

Had this problem with the wife last night. I was ridiculously horny at about 2am and basically couldn't resist the urge anymore and woke her up to fuck. She gave me a no, so I'm laying there with the dire need to bust a nut. I ignored it and pledged to have my wicked way with her tonight instead with extra jizz in my sack to spray her with. I've been horny all day just thinking about it, but it'll be worth it. Double nut!
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:51 PM
0

If it pleases you to hurt the girl youre with (which it would if she found out) then do it, because you are what matters and if that kinda shit makes you happy, then so be it. Otherwise if you actually are happy in the LTR, more so than if you were single and spinning plates, then don't, as its a sure fire way of ending the LTR. That's my 2 cents anyway.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:50 PM
3

My four year old gets out by himself, but my 2 year old is in a car seat my Mrs seems unable to operate. Either way, if my wife tells me to go get the trolley, quite frankly she can go and do that while I get my youngest out of his seat. Mostly, just a way of being too busy to follow her orders.
/r/askMRP05/09/19 12:16 PM
-1

Be a sarcastic cunt back to her. She'll get the message
/r/askMRP05/09/19 09:58 AM
5

Tell her to get the trolley while you're busy getting the kids out.
/r/askMRP05/09/19 09:52 AM
1

Next her. Fuck this shit and stop being a pussy! There's many more women out there, she is not a special little snowflake. Find one that desires you, not one that you have to beg for desire from... Build your frame, lift, go out and enjoy YOUR life and fuck everyone else.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:11 AM
1

Question: “I can tell you’re picky, What does it take to appeal to you?” Answer: "I haven't decided yet. Why don't you try a few moves on me and we'll see if it works."
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:56 AM
15

Question: "What sort of girls are you into?" Answer: "What sort of girls are YOU into?"
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:51 AM
2

Fuck. I'm using this! Nice
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:40 AM
3

Um, one question... Why didn't you fuck her?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:56 PM
5

Plenty more pussy in the sea. You're now far too busy fighting through the jungle of pussy to be giving this one any of your time. Think like you're above her and you shall be. Don't have time for her on anything other than work matters. If she's into you at all, she'll come chasing, but act disinterested. Maybe if she begs for your cock, you'll allow her a taste, but otherwise shut this shit down now, go out and start gaming some other women. Break free from your chains of insecurity and follow…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:29 PM
5

You may as well try studying and understanding why electrons can phase between realities.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:30 AM
28

I feel sorry for them. It must be so fucking confusing having such different emotions running through you all the time. I'm amazed they can actually live a relatively normal life at all!
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:29 AM
0

Wow, so true. Maybe that's why nature's a bitch sometimes.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:26 AM
12

Private. If it continued I'd just let it play out and see how she reacts to him. If he's forceful and she clearly isn't liking it, then you cut in and tell him to have some respect. Then slap her ass and walk away with her. If she likes it then maybe she isn't worth all the effort of a LTR, either that or just let her see it doesn't bother you. Youre higher SMV than her so fuckit, you've got plenty of bitches lined up
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:06 PM
1

Exactly. That's your point
/r/askTRP31/08/19 04:40 PM
1

Haha. Kill Bill pill mate. Kill it
/r/askTRP31/08/19 03:47 PM
1

Read "no more mister nice guy" and "the book of pook". That should give you a good start to understanding the problems.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:40 AM
1

"Cute" translated from female means "friend"
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:37 AM
1

Allowing your woman to fuck other guys is about as beta as it gets.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:28 AM
1

You shouldn't need that girls validation to know if youre alpha or not. The problem here is you're so bill pill about this that she doesn't find you attractive. She can probably just sense that you need her attention and validation. Doesn't matter if you're telling us you don't need it, fact is you've posted specifically about this, so you must feel like you need it. Stand above this, act higher SMV than her and don't even acknowledge her, don't even look her way. Talk to the people AROUND her. …
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:15 AM
5

OYS #1 3 weeks into my MRP journey and a long way to go... 35y, 5'9", 178lbs, 15% BF, married for 8 years, kids: 2 boys (4yrs & 2yrs) https://symmetricstrength.com/ (87.1) Proficient Back Squat: 375 lbs [Proficient] Deadlift: 410 lbs [Proficient] Bench Press: 275 lbs [Proficient] Dips: 175 lbs added [Advanced] Overhead Press: 155 lbs [Intermediate] Pullups: 155 lbs added [Exceptional] Pendlay rows: 255 lbs [Advanced] Readings MMSLP, NMMNG, Daily readings of MRP/ASKMRP posts. Currently Reading: W…
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