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Ask seddit please.
/r/seduction26/02/15 01:19 PM
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Sometimes, after presenting myself to a group, I learn them an easy memory trick. "So, most people recognise faces, but few are good with names. A little trick is to make a vivid and bright picture in your mind of the first thing you think when you hear a name. Then you try to connect a that person to that picture (put her in the picture). " "Now, you're Jenny the blond faire(looks), John the walker(scotch "johny walker"), Isabell the ice cream(product label) and lastly Peter Pan(looks)". "So th…
/r/seduction24/08/14 05:09 PM
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The rules: YOU pay for people YOU INVITE for drinks or to come with you on a date. DON'T pay if you ASK if people wants to JOIN you for drinks or coffee.
/r/seduction04/06/14 09:07 PM
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"You know imaginary ones doesn't count"
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:46 AM
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Eyecontact and KINO Club game: "If it wasn't for your personality, I would take you home right now" "You've never been to the Alps? Next time you're invited, and we can share a pelt infront of the fireplace" (for the storyteller) "That dress, showcase two of your good attributes" "You have a really kissable face, hopefully there is more to you"
/r/seduction03/04/14 10:58 PM
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HB 1-10 scale were originally used to evaluate social value (what a girl brings to the group, humor, intelligence and so on). Not just physical attributes, as it has sadly evolved into.
/r/seduction14/03/14 10:36 PM
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Norway
/r/seduction09/03/14 01:41 AM
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I have this thing where I call girls liars, when they tell me a story or something about themselves. With a smile. Her: "That's so weird". You:"You're weird" Negging can work. Being a douchbag, but with a smile and humor, also works as teasing.
/r/seduction09/03/14 01:31 AM
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I allways keep my state high by careing about my own fun firstly and secondly, and I try not to only making the night about getting laid. Allways escalate sexually. Don't get fooled by sexual dancing, for many women it's a big IOI, but nothing more. Try cavemanning when party gaming. It's something I do when my state isn't spot on, and it's really fun.
/r/seduction09/03/14 01:24 AM
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I live in a country where women and men are viewed as equal. Therefore, outside of the norms, I only pay when in the mood for it. The social rules are: When you ask for participation ("I were thinking about going out for drinks after work, you're welcome to join"). Everyone pays for themselves. Inviting for dinner or drinks means you will pay for that specifically, within a reasonable limit.
/r/seduction09/03/14 12:33 AM
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A little late to the show, but here are my thoughts. Sounds like she is having some feelings for you, and are trying to make you invest more by doing these social tests/games, which usually works. When people starts to do this shit with me, I usually ignore it or point it out as not acceptable behavior. But this is the game I've developed over the years. An honest and assertive game. I tell girls that I'm not look for a commited relationship, only for good times and that I see other girls. But I…
/r/seduction08/03/14 10:57 PM
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Let loose the animal within bite her, grab her hair, make her moan. Give out your caveman groan. And do it like they do on the discovery channel
/r/seduction15/02/14 01:43 AM
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You are allowed to disagree, now try to read my comment again, only with a better and more fun tone. If a girl points out something unsual about you, it doesn't really matter what her intentions are. It is rude and bad social conduct. Thats the reason you simply point out that it's not okey to say shit like that, and then you play it off smooth with a tease or a joke. If she escalate the testing or rudeness, you escalate with your statement. I do this every day and it works great. But the import…
/r/seduction22/01/14 03:12 PM
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I hear KINO problems, learn correct KINO and you'll get laid. Stop being picky with women, I see so many guys being to picky. If all you are saying about yourself is true, you should be going out, recognize when a girl is into you, KINO the shit out of her, and get laid. Do not focus on her being super attractive, focus on her being into you.
/r/seduction22/01/14 12:36 PM
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If girls point this out, call them out on how fcking rude that is. And tell them that it's not how you behave in social settings. But the trick is to do this in the correct tone. "Hey, hey. That's not okey/cool. Do you hear me point out how square formed your head is. Or how freakishly big hands you have."
/r/seduction22/01/14 12:31 PM
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Usually, your interests doesn't decide the gender you're attracted to. But some people will judge you. The trick to appear more manly, lies in how you treat people around you. Girls you're interested can be treated as a little sister, mother, pornstar, your boss, girlfriend, best friend, wife. Simply pick the one that fits the situation. Usually if people get a metrovibe from you, it's because you treat girls like your girlfriend. Maybe try to treat them as your little sister in some situations,…
/r/seduction21/01/14 01:43 AM
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Great question. The girl who asks you out might want to set you up with a friend, or want you for herself or simply bring you because how fun you are. Personally I love playing big number girl sets. This is the time where you use them against each other, by asking interesting questions and simply create a little fun drama. "How did you get to know each other?" "Which one of you is the strict one and who is the crazy one?" "If you had to to have a threesome with to of other girl friends here, who…
/r/seduction19/01/14 05:15 PM
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Set the tone by kissing her elegantly on the cheek, when you meet, or give her a nice hug. Usually I don't hold a lot of hands with a girl, unless I'm leading her trough crowded areas or have been dating for a while(couple). But what I do is placing a hand on her middle back. Lead her to the chair at the resturant table, with a hand on her middle back. Pull the chair out for her, when she sits down, brush her shoulder or hair, with your arm. There is a KINO-move that works wonders, having your f…
/r/seduction11/01/14 03:13 PM
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Different ways to approach this. The neutral way is to say thanks for the compliment and continue the conversation. Humorous way would be to amplify or super devalue. "You are allowed to touch" in certain situations, funny or sexually playfull. "Just think how good looking kids we'll have"
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:54 AM
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Beginners kissing and makeup tips There are two different aspects of kissing. Firstly, the basics of how you should operate your mouth. And secondly, the creation of feeling and setting the mood. Technic, how to use your mouth Lips should be your lower, her lower, your upper, her upper. Your head should be tilted to the opposit side of hers. Carefully bitingor sucking her lower lip is fine, while slightly pulling it a little. Use tongue with caution, learn how to do the other stuff first. Creati…
/r/seduction09/01/14 02:18 PM
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"I've allways felt it's unfair for girls to feel judged after a one-night-stand, while the guys get recognition. Let's make a stand and have a big orgy, right here and now." Good post, this is something I think alot needs to learn, allthough a long read.
/r/seduction06/12/13 10:58 PM
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I have created this system where I "give out stars"(not physically of course), like a reward system for behaving normal in sosial situations. Rememering my name gives you a star. Being interested in return, gives you a star. Giving me a compliment, gives you a star. Add your own... And after 3,6,9... stars you get a reward. So in this situation I would call her out and tell her that it's not appropiate, unless she have recived at least 3 stars. This is one of the games I like to play. But rememb…
/r/seduction26/11/13 10:06 PM
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Example 1 "Excuse me, do you know where the engineering building is?" In-direct "no, I'm sorry. I study literatur not engineering." "Oh, you look more like a shy, hot, bookworm kinda girl. So what's your favorite subject in literatur studies?" Example 2 "Hi, you're cute, do you study here?" Direct "Thank you, yes I study law" "So are the 'protect bad guys'-lawyer or 'put behind bars'-lawyer?" Allways be interested. Don't focus to much on the opener, and more on opening.
/r/seduction04/10/13 12:07 PM
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In my opinion there are to many cheeky/pick-up lines among your openers. Don't focus to much on the opener, and more on having fun and being interested in what she says. "Hi, you seem like fun, what's your name" (my standard club/party opener) For daygame I almost only use situational openers. "You're such a lier", "You're ....." these are great lines to make things fun. "You're so cute, I just want to take you home right now", "I could never take you home, we are to much alike/different "to sho…
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:26 PM
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Testing the water is something I do all the time. This is where you get really close (about 5 cm from your mouth to hers). There are three possible outcomes: She pulls away. You should also pull away andjust wait a little bit longer and test again. She doesn't move. You can go in for the kiss, or tease her a little. She comes to you. Go for the kiss. I allso do this hug, linger and move to kiss neck, then move to kiss mouth move. This is really romantic an sensual. You can take her head with bot…
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:35 AM
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Maybe try a little cave maning? I allways try a little of this every night out on town. Simply because it's so fun and effective. My quick game rules (5-15 min): Hug/kiss on the cheek within 5 sec DHV and lift her up Claw move (put you arm around her and keep it there, at shoulder height) Legs touching eachother over the knees Isolate Go for kiss If this doesn't work. Move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction19/08/13 09:01 PM
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When someone do this, it's basically a DLV. And when it comes from a friend, you can tell him/her that's non of his/her business, specially regarding your marriage/"arangement".
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:54 PM
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The idea behind this is good, but in realty it will not work that well, because hot girls will just see this as heavy powerplay, and simply move on. They have more than enough guys interested in them. Here is what I do when she behave this way: "That is really unpolite of you, I'm afraid that you'll be going home with a notice for you parents (for college/school girls). I'm afraid that just cost you a written warning(work girls). I'm afraid I'm going to have to give you up for adaption. " I alls…
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:44 PM
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Check out /r/seduction
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:12 AM
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Honesty is something I allways play on. A year ago I had three fwb, all at the same time, and all knew that I was seeing other people. I simply told them from the moment I met them, "I'm just looking for some fun, nothing complicated". And I kept repeating that line every time it came up. Casual flirtation is what I call it. After 5 months, two of them started to get feelings for me. And started to ask me about where things was going. So I simply told them, "I've been honest from the start about…
/r/seduction10/08/13 06:27 PM
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Holding a conversation like a man, TL DR: Be interested, setting the framework, setting the stage, id-ing the stage, provide validation. The women should be the center of attention After you have asked a few questions, sometime there will be a low/pause in conversation (because of bad response). Don't jump the gun and fill in the pause. This is when you teach her how to have a conversation, remember the women should be doing most of the talking. Look her right in the eyes and give an asking expr…
/r/seduction07/08/13 11:42 PM
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Really really great with something else here on /r/seduction. Big props for the stones to write this. I have been doing this some times over the last few years. And it works, specially with certain types of women. (The brats, and the cocky ones who think they are the center of everything). But this is not for the beginners, it's hard to pull of, and hard to switch of. Take my upvote
/r/seduction31/07/13 02:46 PM
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Nice going. Next time mark your title as an FR please.
/r/seduction31/07/13 02:24 PM
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Here is what I look for in women: A day job, that pays for her part of living Likes to travel Good looking Good in bed Straight shooter Have hobbies and friends of her own Drama free The economy/job part is really important. I hate girls that expect me to pay for her at all times. (Here in Norway girls usually pay for themselves).
/r/seduction31/07/13 02:22 PM
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Think you might be correct, but this is an old trick in the book. And it works for me every time. Talked to some friends about it to, and they agree.
/r/seduction31/07/13 07:59 AM
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For the beginners: There are usually only use for 3 positions in bed. Missionary, cowgirl and doggystyle. Learn these three. If you feel your about to cum and want to last longer. Pull out and please her with something else then your D. Let your D rest a little. Flexing your arms while doing the deed, will redirect your bloodflow to your arms. Use positions, where you don't have to flex your ass muscles. Use your hands to help please her. Watch her reactions. Feel the energy. If there is high en…
/r/seduction30/07/13 08:47 PM
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As everything else in life. Rewards and correction are given when deserved. I use negging as a part of showing playfullness. In other words, only very little.
/r/seduction29/07/13 10:28 PM
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Better man seduction related right? To help make a conversation feel more natural and not forced. Talk about what ever your thinking about. If your wondering what to do later on in the evening. Say it out loud. If you think that guy has a weird hairstyle. Say he had an interesting hairstyle. Thinking how hot she is. Talk about exercising/sports/modern view on sexuality(nudity). Try to twist it towards the situation.
/r/seduction28/07/13 04:25 PM
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/u/-all-that-glitters you are on fire lately fine madam. Take my upvotes, well deserved.
/r/seduction24/07/13 09:14 PM
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"As long as I'm not breaking any laws, it doesn't matter" (relax and a little funny answer) "As long as you can keep up, age is not important" (Much older or much younger.) "You look like just came out of kindergarden and I'm not ready to go to jail" (funny) These are some that I use. All are dependind on situations, settings and level off energy.
/r/seduction24/07/13 10:39 AM
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When talking about age with a girl, usually the underlying conversation is about social value. So by making her guess your age, either you are trying to make your social value higher by being older than her or by looking older than what you actually are. This is something most women know and therefore this is generally viewed as a lower value move. When women ask me about my age, I allways give them one chance. "You're not breaking any laws when talking to me"(playfull) or "Age isn't that import…
/r/seduction23/07/13 09:19 PM
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SFV? If you need help for closing. Go to /r/askseddit and ask more specifically.
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:57 PM
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"Hi, you seem cute so I had to talk to you" "Hi, you seem cute, but do you have anything else going for you" Read up on situational openers, but basically you can say anything as long as you apply the correct body language.
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:50 PM
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Congrats man. Really liked the "you know pretty girls are allowed to have two", it have now been added to my seduction repertoire. For the people wondering about the Big Boy line; "I have a boyfriend" gets thrown out very often to test the guy's confidence and social skills. So when delivered with a smile, innocence and confident posture. The honest girls will hold fast, while the testing girls will be caught lying. One of mine is "an imaginary doesn't count". Next challenge should be to approac…
/r/seduction23/07/13 08:39 PM
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Don't know if you will take my advice since I'm 6'1 and hight is nothing I think about. But here it is anyways. If girls are interested, they don't care much about hight or looks. So try to not to focus on it. And if it get mentioned, make a little joke about it and move to the next subject. If she brings it up again, don't allow such social conduct (call her out on it). Ask her if she's allways so superficial with people. When you think this is an issue, it becomes one and that messes up your c…
/r/seduction23/07/13 07:46 PM
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"I to prefer girls that can keep up" "You're no fun", then turn away. Ignore it, and try to fit something about dating an older(than you) girl, but you had to break it off because she was so much maintance. Do not try to qualify yourself.
/r/seduction23/07/13 07:21 PM
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I give you one bigg tip and the rest will sort it self out. (Your only 19) People are harmless as long as you are kind, smile and laugh easly of yourself. So don't be afraid to talk to strangers (allow no social barriers). Follow that rule, and with time you will become more confident and relaxed in social situations. This is usually an age thing. (Why are girls more attracted to older guys? Because they are more relaxed when meeting new people and more confident in themselves).
/r/seduction23/07/13 07:12 PM
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No lies. Straight forward about your intentions. Have fun together. Take her on an adventure.
/r/seduction23/07/13 06:59 PM
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I allways welcome a diffrent view on a subject, and this was a great read. Don't know why, but with you girls lurking here it feels a little bit frightening and exciting at the same time. Will you use our "fishing tricks" for the greater good or evil? So far I'll settle for neutral good :)
/r/seduction23/07/13 06:53 PM
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In norwegian that phrase is more correct than in english. Thanks
/r/seduction11/07/13 09:43 PM
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For beginners, Make a rule to talk to at least one "stranger girl" every day. Even if you only ask her how much the clock is, it's a win. After a while it gets easier.
/r/seduction11/07/13 02:45 PM
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Challenge excepted. Will try on Saturday
/r/seduction11/07/13 02:37 PM
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This was a little bit weird to read, but good for Approach Anxiaty beginners. Great rule to get used to open. I bet after 100-200 openings some of the anxiaty will wear off. Don't focus so much on the opener. Keep it simple. My biggest realzation to help the conversation feel natural and not forced was to talk about what ever I where thinking about, or what was happening around me. This helps me keep calm, and be myself. If I were thinking she have great ass, I would say "I bet you are into hors…
/r/seduction11/07/13 02:35 PM
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Feel I must say that eyes only says a little, facial expressions and body language is what counts. I've picked up girls by being rude, downtalking women, and insulting her. But because I was on point with body language and facial expression, what words came out of my mouth didn't matter.
/r/seduction07/07/13 12:48 PM
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Holding a conversation like a man, TL DR: Be interested, setting the framework, setting the stage, id-ing the stage, provide validation. The women should be the center of attention After you have asked a few questions, sometime there will be a low/pause in conversation (because of bad response). Don't jump the gun and fill in the pause. This is when you teach her how to have a conversation, remember the women should be doing most of the talking. Look her right in the eyes and give an asking expr…
/r/seduction29/06/13 12:49 PM
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Assertivness is really attractive to girls, and competition is attractive. Or brush it off with a joke. What I say in these situations if she asks. The assertive "I'm looking to have fun, so I gave her my number" The joke "Oh my sweet darling, but we are not married yet" For the mall thing, do some searching on seddit for daygame.
/r/seduction13/06/13 11:54 AM
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By experience, looks is not the most important part. There are three point that I allways try to remember. Being a leader of sorts. Suggestions, planning, follow through. Leading by example NEVER accept disrespect from your partner. Hold your partner to the same standard as what you expect of yourself. Flirting, keeping plans and such. Assertiveness. When your partner asks your opinion of something. Say it no matter what. The answer "what ever you want" is not acceptable. Tell your partner what …
/r/seduction13/06/13 11:37 AM
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I've done this one for years, allways use it with the talkative girls or in places with high energy
/r/seduction29/05/13 12:46 PM
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When you get to a certain point, talking is just easy and you need to controll when not to talk and focus on other things, like bodylanguage posture and reading people.
/r/seduction27/05/13 01:05 PM
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Greatly done. Anytime are gametime. Have an upvote
/r/seduction27/05/13 01:03 PM
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HB8 = Hot babe with 8(out of 10) in social value. (very often missued here at seddit) KINO = Kinesthetics, physical contact. How to touch a girl/guy the right way. PUSH/PULL = A physical technic used to reinforce a reaction. Example, going in for the kiss, push her away in the last second, then pull her close again. To reinforce the building of sexual tension.
/r/seduction26/05/13 09:37 PM
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Have an upvote
/r/seduction26/05/13 09:24 PM
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Try to create an situational opener. If you're at a cafee drinking coffee/tea. Open with something about that. "Hi, I've never been here before, how is the coffee?" In a clothing store, use it to your advantage. "Hi, was told by a couple a friends of mine to buy some new shirts, tell me what you think of these" Never heard about 5 second rule for these encounters. But if you get positive eye contact, get of your chair and apporach.
/r/seduction25/05/13 03:05 PM
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You need to learn how to build rapport. Talk about romantic places you would take her. If she says or does something wrong, tell her. And most importantly KINO. I allways try to weave in that I want to take her skiing to the alpes and just lay infront of the fireplace.
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:13 AM
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"Women are godesses to me" playfully Have an upvote
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:08 AM
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It shouldn't be to hard for an american to get a one-nighter, your culture are pretty close to ours, but still exotic in a way. They are mostly like girls from other countries, maybe a little more slutty. But it's more about meeting the right girl, couse when they have decided that you interesting and look good, you can't do much wrong. I've traveled alot, and the average girl here are hotter, than in most other countries. Except Finland, Sweden, Denmark, Australia, New Zealand. Must be the Viki…
/r/seduction22/05/13 01:58 PM
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Most women here are above average in looks. And norwegians are not as open to meeting new people as you americans. Beeing the typical alpha male, won't necessarily get you a lay. But there are things that work. Romance works well, you have to give at least a couple of comliments. And isolating is very important. If your in Trondheim, lets meet up and go out
/r/seduction21/05/13 09:29 PM
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Great question One hand on the neck, the other around her(you elbo at her side and bent up her back). Eyes open untill right before the lips touch. Angle your head slightly, usually left. In the beginning your mouth should be open about 2-3 cms, and you lips should be a little tight. Try to open and close your mouth about the same time as her. NO TOUNGE unless she does it first. After maybe 20-30s, change things up a little. Suck a little on her bottom lip, perhape nibble it a little, start usin…
/r/seduction21/05/13 06:50 AM
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Hehe, do not force it. Thats punishable by law
/r/seduction21/05/13 03:32 AM
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What I used to watch was Keys to the VIP with Cajun, or some in field from RSD. Nowadays it's more like turning on a switch. I go out after work, solo, sober and I don't need anything to get me in the right state of mind. Cause my mind is usually in that state. Was playing vollyball after 7 hours of work, and I was only interested in a little exercise and calming my mind. Ended up with 2 numbers from HB6 and HB7, so much of it is natural.
/r/seduction21/05/13 03:16 AM
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Hey, feeling for you. Tough choice. Here is a fourth option. For the honest, straight forward, romantic kinda guy. Ask her for a coffee and a talk. Sit down be calm. "Sandy, there is something I need to get of my chest. When we first met, I had just gotten out of a long relationship, and I wasn't really interested in something serious. But some how you've lured your way into the back of my mind. There is just something about you which has me intrigued and I would like to find out more about you.…
/r/seduction21/05/13 03:05 AM
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Put the kevlar on. Here are my options for you in this situation: Option 1. Start dateing, win her over by charm, don't mention the other guy, after a while, make it exclusive. Option 2. Ask to meet, be totally upfront about your feeling and toughts, maybe she'll likes what she hears and goes with the flow, or maybe not. Option 3. Find someone else. Put the whole thing down. Send her a txt, telling not to sms you again, remove her number. Good luck
/r/seduction21/05/13 12:58 AM
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Try watching pick up videos on youtube before going out. Be hyper social, talk to everyone you meet and just make it fun. Some times 2-4 beers helps, just to loosen up. Surround yourself with high energy people. When you have an "up"-day, captalize on it. This will bring more "up"-days
/r/seduction21/05/13 12:47 AM
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I am allways clear about my motives and clear about rules/boundaries. When I start to care and think about her beeing with other guys I bring it up. "I want to set some rules, since we have been dating for a while now. Lets agree to make it exclusive. And for you to understand where my boundaries goes, if you kiss someone else I'm done, if you sexually touch someone else I'm done. But do remember, these rules also apply to me. And I have a no tolerance approach to these things." When I'm not loo…
/r/seduction20/05/13 11:39 PM
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When your in a relationship, keeping things fresh and exciting is a big part to make it succesfull. Pull her away from her friends and be a romantic. Stop the car in the middle of the road and demand a kiss before you continue driving. Sneak away and come back with a flower. Do not act needy, if your at a bar leave her to herself and have fun on your own. She will return. BTW, important topic
/r/seduction20/05/13 11:12 PM
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My rule is, Sunday-Wednesday are my days. I simply make no plans for those days. But come Tuesday and I'm in the mood for activities, call around to make evening plans. And my time is for self preservation, relaxation and working out.
/r/seduction20/05/13 08:10 PM
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"Hi, you looked so cute, so I just had to talk to you" "Oh, thanks" "So, where are you heading? Wait, let me guess, on the way home from work, or on the way to meet some friends" "Into town to meet some of my friends, and you?" (girls in Norway are usually really passive) "Meeting up with a friend I haven't seen since he traveled to Afghanistan with the army 6 months ago, I'm both exited and a little worried" "Oh, have a friend which is going through some rough times after he came home, hope he …
/r/seduction20/05/13 07:55 PM
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I never ask women to dance, I either ask their friend if I can borrow the target, or I spin her, pull close and lead her to the dance floor. Most girls thinks random grinding is creepy, don't do it. But if you lock eyes with a girl on the dance floor, it is ok to simply walk up to her and dance with her. Start approaching, what I used to do when going out solo was to pump up my mind set. I talked to 10-30 random people before I walked into the club, just to get in the rambeling state of mind. My…
/r/seduction20/05/13 07:29 PM
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If her hair is set up in a way, don't touch it. If it is down and infront of the ear, you can lightly place it behind the ear using the hand on the side you want to put back. Right hand for left ear. Use the tip of your fingers with your hand slightly curled (these are not the droids your looking for). It's also ok to use both your hands and the same time and move her hair from infront of the shoulders, to the her back. Here, you should use the top of your fingers with your hand a little closed.…
/r/seduction20/05/13 11:36 AM
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Me, Hi, haven't heard much from you lately, giving you a F on answering skills. Girl, Been really sick last 4 days, so not been in the mood for socialzation. Me, No worries mademoiselle, my heart is not broken. So whats you schedule for tonight? I'm going out with my little brother and his gf. You are welcome to join on some family fun time :P Girl, Still trying to shake this thing off, so I think I'm staying home tonight, even though family fun time sounds like a blast Me, Then it's decided, I'…
/r/seduction20/05/13 12:33 AM
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"Hey, I'm trying to play matchmaker for my friend Luke, and you look like the kind of girl who he'd be interested in, so let me describe Luke and tell me what you think?" The routine just got a touch of cream on it Have an upvote
/r/seduction20/05/13 12:11 AM
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When you get to the confidence level where you go out solo. With no alcohol to help. Approach girls. Big sets and just have fun, no matter the outcome. That feeling is just so great. Went out with guy friends on Thursday, and were told to show some of my skills. Opened a 2-set and kissclosed in 15 min. She was a cutie girl, 6 maybe. But showed them how easy it is. Their jaw dropped because it all happened in 15 min
/r/seduction19/05/13 04:10 PM
4

Me like the old school shit from the fame. Bitch shield, have an upvote
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:51 PM
1

Like it, have an upvote "Hihi, no no we were just frustrated" "no worries, I was just thinking to make this evening a little more interesting, but if you girls are not up for a funny game"
/r/seduction19/05/13 11:09 AM
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Til next time.
/r/seduction19/05/13 11:01 AM
2

I assume that the attraction is allready there and act acordingly. If a girl is in a relationship she usually stops me at one point without makeing to much drama out it. "Is he imaginary? because that doesn't count " "No he is real. I'm sorry" "No worries, you were just such a cutie" Caveman-mode works in groups as well, just pull her away from the group and spin.
/r/seduction19/05/13 10:58 AM
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Into that shit as well. "You're a cutie. Are you any interesting?" "Hi, like your dress style so I had to talk to you". I'm norwegian so some of these sounds a bit better in native tounge. Still, you opener doesn't feel spot on, if you understand me. Simplify it, "you're a cutie, hi my name is " or "like your drink of choice, hi my name is" Either way, like it, have an upvote
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:30 AM
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Sometimes tension mess with conversation. Don't be afraid to be the weird who says everything that pops into you head. I was on a BBQ date with a shy girl the other day, conversation was a bit slow. So I read what was on the label on a juice box and started to talk about my juice prefrences, which got the conversation going again. We talked about all sorts of shit, but though it all, my eyes were on her. Isolated later, got close and kissed. After the kissing, conversation was flowing much bette…
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:12 AM
3

Like the game/tactic, opener not so much. "Hi, I'm doing a study on cute girls favourite drinks, tell me you are not a mojito girl." Or "Hi, you're supposed to order mojito, thats what all the cute girls do"
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:03 AM
1

Wait untill about Wednesday if you are interested to make plans for the weekend.
/r/seduction19/05/13 01:55 AM
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Usually when I get lots of IOIs from a girl before first interaction, I go into Caveman mode; No opener, just grab her hand and spin her. 2a. Happily "spinned", pull close and kiss on the cheek. 2b. Reluctant "spinned", smile and open "Hi, you seem cute. Are you any interesting?" (or something similar). Move my hand from her hand to her middle back. Caveman-mode requires some confidence, you should try my 3s-rule. A physical escalation within 3s. Like a hug, touch on the cheek, brush her hair ba…
/r/seduction19/05/13 01:47 AM
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"I was thinking about robbing a 7eleven, but I need someone to be the gettaway driver, whats you schedule this weekend?"
/r/seduction19/05/13 01:26 AM
6

"Both of you are hot and sexy girls, if you weren't so CUTE I would propose a threesome." EDIT: Plants the idea, but in a funny manner. It's all in the delivery
/r/seduction19/05/13 01:22 AM
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My prefered opener is, "Hi, you (girls) seem cute, but are you any interesting/adventures/exciting?" or "Hi, you seem cute, let's see if you are any interesting" Sometimes I change it up a little for sets, "Hi, you look like a group of good girls, but who's the badass one?"
/r/seduction19/05/13 01:12 AM
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Indirect appoach: I allways talk about travel. Leading that to my trips to the Alpes. And finish the story by saying "next time, you're invited to join. And we'll find an apartment with a fireplace to cozy up to in the evenings". This brings romance to the date/meetup. Sometimes, I'm more direct if the vibe is good(positive response to KINO). And just say, with a jokingly tone: "Before I take you home, do you have any fetishes I need to know about, say like foot-fetish or tingle-fetish?"
/r/seduction25/04/13 03:56 AM
2

I tell that I just got out of a serious relationship and I'm looking for a autumflirt
/r/seduction10/10/12 11:33 PM
1

Hm. You went for the easier target. Next time go big. But anyways. Good FR
/r/seduction09/10/12 05:10 PM
1

I take only a couple of beers for that sweet taste. And it makes me loosen up a little. But generally, to much alcohol is a bad thing. So learn to balance it Why not target the HB9?
/r/seduction09/10/12 01:52 PM
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Rule 1. Make her jump after you. Women like to chase and work for it. Rule 2. When I get to the bed and are kissing. Move very slow. Get her so turned on, she's the one trying to open your pants. And usually, if your touching, women will join hands with you and take them where they want them. Rule 3. Be a little more alpha. Take command and take lead.
/r/seduction09/10/12 01:41 PM
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To explain this line; This is some of the things I say. But note that I don't open with it. The boyfriend question I do after we have been talking for a little while. Usually she or me have allready said something that can be taken out of context and turned to sound sexuall. I've allready made her think a little about sex, and established that I speak about it. Here is an example of something I say to make her think about sex: Girl: So what do you do? Me: Oh, I study Mechanical Engeering. I've a…
/r/seduction09/10/12 01:15 PM
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Example of one thing I do: Me: You got a boyfriend? Girl: no Me: why not? exept for the bad hair day, you must have plenty of guys Girl: Nah, not really. Me: ah, long time since last then. It's a pitty with such a pleasurefull thing. Nothing better than a night with fun ending with multiple orgasms. I've allways been envious of girls for that treat. Now you've threaded in sex in the talk, got her thinking about it. Here you can talk more about sex, mostly to test her. This I do to accomplish thr…
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:13 AM
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I also get this alot. My answers: 1. thanks, I think it's important to dress properly. Or; thanks, if it weren't for you pink shoes I would say dress pretty well yourself (of course she dosn't have pink shoes, but you make her look). Or; eyes up here lady 2. I usually just put on the first thing i get my hands on in the wardrobe 3. The occasion is nothing special, only meeting you. Or; just wanted to look incrediably dashing
/r/seduction04/10/12 07:13 AM
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A specific compliment is a good opening line. But remember to not give to many compliments, or DO NOT give compliments when the girl don't deserve it (said something not cool!). I use compliments to initate KINO, so if she has a necklace you like, touch it, go in for inspection, and then deliver the compliment. Do it with hair, pants, blouse, nose, generally everything. And if you have given 2 or more compliments by touching. Say, "and your eyes", then move in close to inspect and pretend to sta…
/r/seduction03/10/12 09:26 PM
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Great to read about someone actually grading correctly. All I read about here are HB7s and higher. Propz for the balls
/r/seduction03/10/12 09:16 PM
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Firstly, to answer your question about how to say you're OK with no sex. Say something like this, "no worries darling/sweetie, then this is how we are going to do this. I'm going to give you a massage, so take take your blouse off and lay down on you stomach." I have done the freeze out, wich sometimes goes both ways. What I usually tell her if she's a little bit unsertain, "I am here, in this bed, just to have fun, let's just relax and see where it takes us. We'll stop if one of us feels uncomf…
/r/seduction03/10/12 08:58 PM
1

Would like to hear if anyone else tries it, with failure/success report.
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:55 PM
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If I'm in a group setting I say something like "ah, thats nice"(like if she is my little sister, or a foreginer who have non social boundries), or "did you just try to touch me in the naughty place?", or play it cool and whisper her something "you gotto be a little more obviouse than that to catch my attention"
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:42 AM
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Was not hard. But the baldness of what I did, might have given me a couple of inches, seen through her eyes.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:10 AM
1

Okey, sound you gotto work on your inner game. Try pumping up your mindset, example; People like me because I am a guy who allways tell the truth when asked for it. I will not hide or doubt my actions, because I'm honest about myself, and what my intentions are. This girl asked me to her place, so she is allready into me, just be like you are with everyone else and things will work them selfs out. You got this.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:31 AM
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I would much rather like to hear if you have some constructive to say. Or helpfull for the OP
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:30 PM
2

Give me your number, I might need a good security guard in the future nice, so hard to remember putting in all thouse small tricks to make that extra impression. Tanks
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:26 PM
1

Sometimes it's hard to catch the signs. Girls usually use bodylanguage more intentional then we guys, and we are shitty spotters. Most experts say that in social interaction the body speaks more than what verbally comes out of our moth.
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:16 PM
1

For spots to day game, read wb11's comment. I don't go out simply just for day game. Usually I try to do it whenever there is a 5-15 min window opening in my daily routine, either while while under/waiting for transportation, in school, at gym, while at work. Example, talked to a girl while waiting for the buss, got her numbers, met up later that evening ended up with intense kissing and made plans to meet later. I usually do it while alone, don't have much experience with a wingman.
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:00 PM
1

Day game, try it and get hooked
/r/seduction30/09/12 08:25 PM
3

And of course the best sex is usually not with some one-night-stand sloppy. Oh and been doing the "game" for 6-7 years
/r/seduction30/09/12 08:20 PM
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Read the last line. And to answer more fullfilling. Do as what usually game tells you only more like a direct aproach. And you have to be more visuall; show playfullness (read above comment for example). Ask her what music she likes. She says electronica, you say; "that is really hot dancing to", blues "there is just something sexual about swing a sexy girl around", most music "nah, your boring, everyone has some genra they like more then others" KINO, touche hands, her back (not her ass or tits…
/r/seduction30/09/12 08:13 PM
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Eye contact is really important, but for most of us social interaction is 70% body language. Lean over, whisper in her ear and say "I am moving to the bar/down stairs. Join me." Go a little alpha, touch his shoulder, shake his hand. Do what he does, only a with a sarcastic touch so the girl can see it. 4a. Interrupt and tell him not to intrude in the family party. 4b. Interrupt and say: "I see you have met my sister, she is wasted tonight so everything she says is pure bullshit" Good luck
/r/seduction30/09/12 07:58 PM
1

It's great that you have personal insight. Allways asses and evaluate. When I talk about haveing a plan it's more a generall plan. Like; show playfullness, do KINO if it's right, get numbers. You can't plan for every social interaction. MOST importantly you can't plan for every outcome when talking to human beeings.
/r/seduction30/09/12 07:50 PM
8

Giving a straight answer. Stopped counting after 20 girls. The number isn't what matter, it's what makes you happy. I'm 23 and just got out of a 3 year relationship whit a 8.5, I have a 1.5 year old babygirl. And am happy. The "Game", works, but in my opinon you have to read between the lines. Inner game first, then outer game.
/r/seduction30/09/12 07:41 PM
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If you don't have anything interesting to talk about, you got 3 options: 1. Learn to lie, everyone delivers a small lie , just learn to do it well. 2. Ask the right questions 3. Work on getting something interesting to talk about. And read about topic threading, that is what I naturally did before reading here on seddit, but sometimes I staggered, now I never do. Good luck, and get practical
/r/seduction30/09/12 07:34 PM
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Usually I don't dance, but when I do I look fcking great >< Standard club dancing is for monkeys. I just do what feels right, some think it's cool some think it's weird. And when girls says I dance weird, i say "you are the one dancing like fcking everyone else, you just don't inner rythm (inner beast who just want to let go)" I allways comment on how other people dance. I copy nearby peoples dancemoves, and over do them.
/r/seduction30/09/12 07:25 PM
0

What size do you use in bowling shooes? Follow me I'll take you to safty I'm getting to old for this shit
/r/seduction30/09/12 07:18 PM
1

This is how I feel and try to look like when I've gotten the girl to the bedroom. Giving her something to look like and whilst takeing the lead. Show her that you are comfortable with your own body, a little playfullness, and leaving the ball in her court.
/r/seduction30/09/12 05:26 AM
1

Superdeedapper, what you are talking about is actually not wrong, but more situational. But gotto keep the attraction up. BIG TIP: when you are playing the game like this (slowdans, and lifetalk), you have to step very carefull when turning it into sex. But what I do when in your situation, lots and lots of of foreplay, like kissing and touching (keep away from the special area). Most importantly PLAYFULLNESS. And what your first move should be like is either take your own shirt of, kiss, then h…
/r/seduction30/09/12 05:19 AM
2

She is into you. Make plans to meet at a bar near where you live. What I would: 1. Check temperatur. Gotto watch for thouse IOIs. 2. KINO + get her to think about sex. 3. Try to move the set a couple of times, and then say "lets move this to my place, (pause) for drinks." No worries m8, she's into you so you got this in the box
/r/seduction29/09/12 12:57 AM
2

You didn't do THAT bad. But there are a couple of tips I can come up with. The order is how I would have done it. 1. Have a plan aka who you are going for. 2. KINO with the subject. 3. When you think things were going bad. Seperate her and take the temperature (how things are acctually going, her reaction to you testing her comfort zones, and how she reacts to KINO). 4. IF you are makeing a change of plans, go for it wholeheartly. In other words, if you were haveing fun with the two 9s, why go b…
/r/seduction29/09/12 12:42 AM
2

Thanks, and will be posting more FRs. Need some critic on my game to improve aswell
/r/seduction28/09/12 11:01 AM
4

English is my second language, I know...
/r/seduction27/09/12 11:16 AM
1

It really is all about how you present it ;)
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:08 AM
1

This play is something I have done many times, and it works really well In me your trust your must put
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:07 AM
3

Learn to kino. Get talking about either sex, or lead her to think about sex. Get physical, do a trust/spontanious test, where you get really up in hear comfort zone, and kiss her. Most important is to recognise that she is into you. And if she is, you can't fck up. Sometimes I just find an excuse to hug her, and what I then do is lean out of the hug with my uperbody while holding around her, and just kiss.
/r/seduction24/09/12 08:39 PM
1

Challenge accepted!
/r/seduction24/09/12 06:08 AM
1

My philosophy is to allways talk to someone when I am outside of my apartment, like when I am taking the buss to school (8-12 min sparetime doing daygame), walking from school too work (5-0 min). Getting some new clothes at the mall, why not take a break and aproach some girls? when leaving the gym (5 min). I don't usually go out during the day with the purpose of daygameing, but I do it when there is nothing else to do, why not get better?
/r/seduction24/09/12 06:07 AM
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I made a mistake similar like this, believing it was mutual love, when it actually was only shot time affecetion. Get a couple a years dating experience before you settle down. If she was really into you, she would dump his ass. And you are 19 and she is 17, big difference in thought prosess. Find a girl in your college who is more on your level.
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:19 AM
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Productive criticism accepted >< When you send her a text mentioning energy, it's triggers her to think of something positiv and she'll be more interested in saying yes. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oC9J6O6soHA
/r/seduction24/09/12 12:56 AM
2

I usually go out 2-4 days a week, but only drink heavly one of the days. Best days with night life in Norway is Thursday, Friday and Saturday. Sometimes i add a fourth day on a Tuesday or Wednesday. But this works best if you are comfy going out on your own, hard to find someone joining you all those days. I allso do daygame every day.
/r/seduction24/09/12 12:39 AM
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In Norway, usually it dosn't work beeing overly cocky. I just say: "Great talking to you, let's exchange numbers and meet up later tonight/tomorrow for a coffee" "I would like to meet you again, here is my numbers and give me a call. The ball is in your court" "I know you think it is scary, but here is my number, don't be afraid to give me a call"
/r/seduction23/09/12 11:44 PM
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