| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 381 | Positive for chlamydia- the audacityThe audacity is ridiculous. But as someone who works in the healthcare field, this shit happens more and more and a lot of the time nothing is done about it. There was a time I went to do my rounds and went into this male patients room and I swore he was rubbing my leg but he looked dead asleep so I just brushed it off. At the end of my shift is when I found out that TWO females had to go into this patients room at the same time because he was known for doing inappropriate things to the female s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 03:04 AM |
| 8 | Love bombing/narcissist?Females empower other females 🤍 I’ve been in your shoes before. As Miranda Bailey from Grey’s Anatomy says “Yeah it’s hard. But that’s because you already know what you need to do. If you didn’t, it wouldn’t be this difficult” take the big step and take a step to better yourself. You’re better than this. Way better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:05 AM |
| 20 | Love bombing/narcissist?For the third time; block and delete. Best thing you’ll ever do. Don’t let looks/career take over your brain. They’ll be someone who is still attractive, may or may not be making bank but he will treat you a HELL of a lot better than this piece of trash is. Past behavior is a good indication of future behavior. So if he’s doing this shit now, he WILL do it in the future. Probably way worse too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 01:55 AM |
| 78 | Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.All I can say to this is what the fuck? Like, what are men turning to these days?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 09:34 AM |
| 11 | Men can be fucking psychoticHoly shit. Well I just did a google search on this dude and turns out he has a major criminal history. And the cop friend I talked to says I can’t get a protective order because no bodily harm has been threatened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 61 | Men can be fucking psychoticThank you! I’m glad I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:43 AM |
| 40 | Men can be fucking psychoticRight?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:39 AM |
| 185 | Men can be fucking psychoticHe knows the city but he doesn’t know which apartment complex I moved in to. He doesn’t know my state well either. (We we’re only like 40 mins away from each other initially) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:35 AM |
| 96 | Men can be fucking psychoticOh it gets better. He got charged for simple assault as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:33 AM |
| 167 | Men can be fucking psychoticOmg I just did a google search of him and he came up as violating a domestic violence order | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:21 AM |
| 471 | Men can be fucking psychoticHoly shit you guys. I just decided to do a google search on this guy (which I should’ve done was before) but HE VIOLATED A DOMESTIC PROTECTION ORDER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:21 AM |
| 48 | Men can be fucking psychoticOmg. I’ve been there. There have been different guys I’ve dated in the past that wanted me on as their “business partner” and promised me this and that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:01 AM |
| 69 | Men can be fucking psychoticNow you’ve got me curious about the worst part. But that’s freaking crazy. A background check?! On you and your family?! One of my ex’s ex girlfriend did that to me. I said Bye Felicia real quick. I’m not getting in that drama | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:42 AM |
| 31 | Women leaving the dating appsOf course! 🤍 when you finish the article you should share your reasons on here and what else your article contains :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 03:48 AM |
| 70 | Women leaving the dating appsFeel free to go look at my most recent post on here and you can add that to your list 😂😂😂😂 men can be psychotic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 03:41 AM |
| 156 | Men can be fucking psychoticAs I see so much here on FDS, BLOCK AND DELETE. Mission complete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Hey look FDS, I made it, I made it! 🎶Ahhh that makes me so excited for you to say “I’ll never live with a man again with this peace” I’m so excited for this new chapter of my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Hey look FDS, I made it, I made it! 🎶Thank you ladies for the congrats! 🥳🥳🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 14 | Hey look FDS, I made it, I made it! 🎶Oh it totally is a panic at the disco reference 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 12:26 PM |
| 59 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”It’s letting them know “they’re in control” when I’m reality it’s huge disrespect among other awful things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:25 PM |
| 146 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”For some reason, to me “face fucking” is somewhat disrespectful/disgusting. I dunno that’s just me, it seemed like she was a bit upset about that because she said he played with her nipples a bit and that it felt really nice but that’s it. When men are face fucking all they care about are themselves. And like she said they normally ALL love the sloppiness which I detest. What’s attractive about a woman choking on a man’s dick, mascara running down her face and her hardly being able to control hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, take care of yourself because no man ever will!Oh I completely I agree. I never felt entitled to be taken care of. It was more of, as you said, them wanting to do something for me because they WANTED to. Because they cared. In my pickme days I definitely would’ve done something for him even if we weren’t officially dating but now I don’t. I wait a good while before doing things for them, not saying I don’t do absolutely anything but more so more serious things, I still have basic respect. But you’re completely right, he waited so long becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, take care of yourself because no man ever will!Omg. Y’all I had to share. 😂😂😂 A scrote saw my post and told me that “high value men don’t commit. They are desirable. Why would they commit when they can have all the women they want?” 🤮🤮 having all the women is not something “desirable” I did tell him to go fuck himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, take care of yourself because no man ever will!Hi ladies. I’ve SO enjoyed reading your comments and stories. But thank you from the bottom of my heart for the well wishes. Thankfully I live with my mom (moved back in two years ago after I got dumped and kicked out) so she’s been here helping the best she can. It’s been an incredibly rough past two days so I’ve been in bed trying to get comfortable, waiting for the pain meds to kick in. As far as my female friends, one lives two and a half hours away and then the other lives on the other side… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 03:22 PM |
| 146 | Ladies, take care of yourself because no man ever will!Oh I did. I was stupid tho. When he texted me my former pickme ways was like “well what if he got busy?” Then I remembered the thingy in the FDS handbook about how guys can work 70-80 hours a week and do NUMEROUS extra curricular activities (not sex/dating related obviously) and STILL text the woman they’re interested in back. So I was like fuck you dude. And stopped responding. Lawd. Your story. Men are such babies. I bet if you were sick while he was sick, his sickness would be “worse” than yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 47 | A guy brought up porn half a minute after matchingNot to take away from OP at all but long story short, it was my first Father’s Day without my dad, he had passed a few months earlier, told the dude I was talking to that id be unavailable for a while. Got to where I had cell service and told him I was back, he was all like “I’m gonna go in the back office and masturbate, can you call me?” Call him as in he wanted me to talk dirty to him. While he masturbated. AT WORK. Fucking. Disgusting. He was blocked immediately after that. But OP’s story an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Uhm, what the fuck?! Can we put this person on blast please?!Oh I’m going to. But “oh well, it’s not my sex getting murdered” like who the fuck says that. This Gabby case just goes to show you can vet and vet and vet and STILL not truly know someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:53 PM |
| 38 | You never really know someone…I wish I could upvote this comment a thousand times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 61 | You never really know someone…Couldn’t have said that better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:40 PM |
| 100 | You never really know someone…I should also mention he almost killed me wrecking his car. We had been broken up and were going out to talk and somehow got on the subject of how I had slept with someone while we were broken up. He hit his fists on the steering wheel and lost control of the car, it was headed for the median and it took him a few seconds to actually gain control of the car again “because he was so mad” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:06 PM |
| 159 | You never really know someone…I’ve had that happen to me before. It was my then off and on boyfriend in high school. He scared me a lot because he would always come close to hitting me (balling his fists up when he would get mad) there was one night I went to the police because I was afraid he was gonna show up at a Halloween party I was going to and their legit response was “well don’t you think you shouldn’t go to the party?” Like yes, I should have to give up my entire social life and be afraid of this dude for the rest o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 93 | Why? Just why?They were both blocked immediately. Like that’s just so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:59 AM |
| 32 | Is this why old men in current government dont care about women’s rights today? Because their dad’s wrote & believed bs like this?This shit literally made me laugh out loud especially the talking to him in a soft calming voice. Like do men think that women don’t have demanding jobs either?! Ever think the woman wants to come home to a cooked dinner and a relaxed atmosphere? No? Okay, that’s fine I’ll just create the relaxed atmosphere myself and enjoy my own company. This shit is a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 4 | I can’t even.Ugh. Thank you. For real. I felt drained the last couple of times I was there and I couldn’t figure out why and you just helped me realize why. That was a mentally draining (still reeling from it) relationship. I’m trying to work on myself and do things I like and want and figure out who I am now. I’m legit tired of dating. Tireddddd. It’s bullshit and it shouldn’t be. Dating shouldn’t be this hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 04:23 AM |
| 98 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳So another crazy thing about bdsm and these “fantasies” is the Daddy/little girl thing. Guys literally want these girls to act like their 5 years old or whatever and they want them to act little while they’re sexual together. Basically it’s the “daddy” molesting the little girl but because it’s two consenting adults it’s deemed as okay and if you don’t like it then you’re “kink shaming” it’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:02 PM |
| 3 | I have no words“He said he wanted to marry me” IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:48 PM |
| 122 | How do you end a date early?There was this one time I went out with a guy. He wasn’t what I expected and he took me to this really trashy bar. I asked to go outside and then told him I had to leave. It was a less than 10 minute date. I didn’t feel guilty at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 12:54 PM |
| 3 | LVM has no emotion or respect.A HVM would’ve given me all of those things on a day like yesterday. But a LVM thinks only of themselves and what we can do for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 11 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Thank you 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 6 | LVM has no emotion or respect.1,000% agree with yoi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 14 | LVM has no emotion or respect.We really aren’t and you’re right, it is disgusting. But thank you for your sympathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:39 AM |
| 9 | LVM has no emotion or respect.It was online. I should’ve known better from past use of dating apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:37 AM |
| 8 | LVM has no emotion or respect.No. A girl I’m friends with in a Facebook group introduced us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:33 AM |
| 23 | LVM has no emotion or respect.I like to think he’s at peace too. But you’re right. The world is so messed up now. The fact that he wanted to jerk off while at work is so disgusting to me. Like that was over the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:20 AM |
| 9 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Also thank you for your sympathy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:04 AM |
| 24 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Today is full of scrotes. This guy that I haven’t talked to in a few days messaged me and I told him today was a hard day for me and he’s trying to compete with me about who has it worse today. He said his dad died during this week, not today. Which I give sympathy because I understand but today is not a day to compete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:04 AM |
| 30 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Me and my mom are spending time together with no scrote interference. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:44 PM |
| 19 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 31 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Thank you so much. And you’re right. This was beyond disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 104 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Most men’s penis needs come before women’s needs anyway. I was initially surprised at him doing that but then I got over the shock and realized this is what the world is coming to with men and dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:24 PM |
| 42 | LVM has no emotion or respect.It is. And thank you. One day I’ll find a HVM that knows how to comfort me on days like today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 125 | LVM has no emotion or respect.Literally so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 101 | LVM has no emotion or respect.It was gross. I even told him I was spending time with my mom (obvi a hard day for her too) and he was like “can you go downstairs” when he was talking about me calling him. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 5 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MI love how I came across this post today because my bf literally said the other night “It would be so hot to watch porn together” and I said “absolutely not. That’s disgusting” then he tried normalizing it. He knows I’m bisexual as well and also said in the same night “It’d be hot for us to be out in public and you be like ‘Babe look at that girls ass’ so we could look at it together”. Like how the FUCK did I not see that this is CLEARLY LVM things?! Thank God I’m recognizing my pick me ways and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | So my dad died a month ago today. I sent this LVM a FB news article I found funny. This is what I get hit with. He was immediately blocked after this.It was an article about a woman who had several animals in her house stored away. It wasn’t funny about the animals but the woman’s makeup was absolutely hilarious because it was so awful so I shared it with him because I found it funny and I thought he might too. All he said was “Jesus” and then I got hit with that meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:17 PM |
| 6 | So my dad died a month ago today. I sent this LVM a FB news article I found funny. This is what I get hit with. He was immediately blocked after this.Thank you so much. I’m repressing a lot of feelings but working through them with the right help. 🤍🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 16 | So my dad died a month ago today. I sent this LVM a FB news article I found funny. This is what I get hit with. He was immediately blocked after this.Oh. My. Gosh. So this JUST hit me. This asshole knows what it’s like to lose a parent because he lost his mom a few years ago (this dude and I went to high school together is how I know him and he told me this fact a while ago) so it’s baffling, well, no, it’s not baffling. It’s still not surprising at all. I was going somewhere with this because my pickmeisha ways still come out every now and then but no. He knows what it’s like to lose a parent. So no he gets no free passes. And thank you so m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:57 AM |
| 13 | So my dad died a month ago today. I sent this LVM a FB news article I found funny. This is what I get hit with. He was immediately blocked after this.It isssssssssss. He was referencing Joe Biden. I live in a very conservative and republican town so everyone is pro Trump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:10 AM |
| 22 | So my dad died a month ago today. I sent this LVM a FB news article I found funny. This is what I get hit with. He was immediately blocked after this.What?! Well. Ok. I should take that back. I really shouldn’t be surprised that one tried to have sex with you while he was at your dads viewing. I’m just new to the world of not being a pickmeisha so that just like came out and then I’m like “oh, yeah, that does sound like something a guy would do” so I’m very sorry that happened to you. Men have no limits anymore. And you’re completely right. My therapist told me today I’m doing emotional detachment and I had NO idea so I’ve got a lot to work t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 78 | So my dad died a month ago today. I sent this LVM a FB news article I found funny. This is what I get hit with. He was immediately blocked after this.Men are like predatory leeches right now to me. Like I was trying to focus on myself and then of course my dad passed away and now it’s like LEECHES EVERYWHERE because they think I’m vulnerable. I saw a tik tok video where someone asked the girl to give advice on how to get a guy and she says “focus on yourself and then some boy will show up and say ‘oh she looks so happy, let me ruin her life” and it’s never been truer right now given the fact that I am focusing on myself still AND that they th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:33 AM |
| 99 | So my dad died a month ago today. I sent this LVM a FB news article I found funny. This is what I get hit with. He was immediately blocked after this.Ya know, after I blocked him I literally thought that to myself. That I shouldn’t have said “not to be a bitch” like that’s saying it’s okay for him to say that to me. Like I’m just saying it matter of factly when it’s not ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:21 AM |
| 10 | For real?Ahhh thank you! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:31 PM |
| 11 | For real?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 3 | And they say romance is dead 🤢DEAD 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:25 PM |
| 12 | And they say romance is dead 🤢If I knew that adding a disclaimer such as “do not send dick pics or talk about sex with me” would work I would. But I keep running into these damn LVM who want nudes, beg for me to look at their dick, send unsolicited dick pics, tell me how they’re stroking their cock to me etc. it’s fucking disgusting. Like what do guys not get about us not wanting to see their penis? Like is their brain really that small? I’m talking to one guy that’s older, late 30’s and thankfully he hasn’t even hinted at t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.That’s what I meant! I thought he was initially HV but I later found out he wasn’t. I didn’t do my homework on him and I honestly jumped too quickly into it which is a huge lesson learned on my end. He was good at masking his LV self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.Thank you! I’ve been on dating sites off and on and have used funny bios that slightly mention nakedness. Nothing about wanting sex with it. Like one of them was reasons to date me and one of the reasons was “we can stay naked in bed eating pizza and watching Disney plus”. Men found it funny. Granted it was like 50/50 on some of them making sexual jokes and some of them actually finding it humorous. In fact, my ex saw my bio with the reasons to date me and we waited at least three weeks before w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.Yesss. And he kept going. He was like “I can get you naked. That’s the easy part” 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:21 AM |
| 6 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.I’ll definitely go check her out and I definitely think I will be deleting tinder and not getting back on it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.That’s very true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 8 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.YES AGAIN. LIKE OMG. I’ve seen soooooo many profiles wanting a third person. It’s ridiculous. I never understood open marriages or relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:02 AM |
| 5 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.Yassss! I sent him a message saying I screenshot the convo and was roasting him with the internet and then immediately unmatched with him. I deleted the bio too. Tinder is definitely a hookup site from what I’ve learned. Bumble seems to be better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 4 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.So I’m on tinder and bumble and I have to say the dudes on bumble seem so much more...normal I guess. Like their profiles aren’t about sex. It’s actually genuine and you can see if they want a relationship or just something causal with that app. I did a cute little bio with some “reasons to date me” and added that I’m a full time dog mom and CNA and looking for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:58 AM |
| 10 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.Touché. I totally didn’t think of that. I was honestly just trying to be funny with it. Instead of the normal dating profile bios | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:52 AM |
| 8 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.Ugh you’re so right. Men cannot handle a bit light sexual humor without thinking we want it immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:50 AM |
| 13 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.I probably will now that this has happened. Tinder seems to be a shitty place anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:49 AM |
| 1 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.I get that completely. Added a disclaimer with it. I honestly found the bio on Pinterest in the humor section. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:49 AM |
| -8 | My tinder bio is meant to be funny. It says “don’t ask me to send nudes. Take me on a date, buy me flowers and food, and try to get me naked at the end”. I get I kinda asked for it with the bio but I didn’t mention wanting sex.I totally get that. I added a disclaimer that it was meant to be funny and that I’m not asking for sex with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | I had to find out from his Pinterest account that he’s moved on. He gave me the silent treatment for three weeks and when I asked if he wanted to break up he said “I’m not in the right mindset to make that decision. I’m too stressed out right now. I need a clear mind” so today he got this message.Oh he totally is. He messaged me and apologized and said I never deserved to get hurt and that he was just extremely hurt by everything. (Currently going through a divorce which I thought was already in process but later found out had barely started once he moved me up there. Papers hadn’t even been served until like my second week of living with him) so he said he was gonna continue to be hurt for a while. I told him he should’ve never gotten into a relationship because it was obvious that he s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 7 | I had to find out from his Pinterest account that he’s moved on. He gave me the silent treatment for three weeks and when I asked if he wanted to break up he said “I’m not in the right mindset to make that decision. I’m too stressed out right now. I need a clear mind” so today he got this message.I thought about doing the whole writing it down and not sending it thing after I had already sent the message. Trust me I feel stupid AF right now but it’s already done with. He claims he’s not seeing anyone, just working a lot and that he made the board to piss off his ex so that was obviously a red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 03:02 PM |
| 6 | I had to find out from his Pinterest account that he’s moved on. He gave me the silent treatment for three weeks and when I asked if he wanted to break up he said “I’m not in the right mindset to make that decision. I’m too stressed out right now. I need a clear mind” so today he got this message.He made a board called “this is the one” and started pinning love quotes on it. He messaged me back and said he hadn’t found someone else, that he just made thag board to piss his ex off. So that was a huge red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:59 PM |
| 6 | I had to find out from his Pinterest account that he’s moved on. He gave me the silent treatment for three weeks and when I asked if he wanted to break up he said “I’m not in the right mindset to make that decision. I’m too stressed out right now. I need a clear mind” so today he got this message.Thank you. I was doing well with not communicating with him but then I saw the new Pinterest board and lost it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:16 PM |
| 9 | I had to find out from his Pinterest account that he’s moved on. He gave me the silent treatment for three weeks and when I asked if he wanted to break up he said “I’m not in the right mindset to make that decision. I’m too stressed out right now. I need a clear mind” so today he got this message.You’re right. I should’ve asked you guys. He responded surprisingly. I still told him off again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.One is a manager in training position. 8 weeks of training then I’ll become an official manager. The other one is simply taking temperatures of employees at a production place. It pays extremely well too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 4 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.You are awesome! I’m trying to go through the steps of erasing from my life but it’s not as easy as people make it out to be, especially when you cared so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:37 PM |
| 2 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.I’m on the self care mend right now. I start two new jobs next week that pay hella good and that’s where my focus is gonna be at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.He always blamed it on “stress” and going through a messy divorce. On my defense, he made it seem like the divorce was already in process but yet when I moved in with him, papers hadn’t even been served!! They had just barely begun separation so I looked like a complete fool. He kicked me out shortly after I moved in, blaming it on his dad moving back in the house (the house was apparently in his dads name) but I call bullshit. I think it was a ruse to get me out of the picture. I’ve deleted the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:34 PM |
| 0 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.Oh I totally considered laughing at it. But I liked it to be spiteful. He knows he fucked up. He just doesn’t care because he’s a narcissist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:31 PM |
| 3 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.That’s very true which are my next steps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 06:55 PM |
| 4 | LVM trying to play victim. This is the same MF who ghosted me for four days, without dumping me and then has the audacity to post shit like this. So glad I’m not a pickmeisha anymore and that I dumped his ass.I took the silence as a breakup. I also texted him one last time saying if I didn’t hear from him in 24 hours that I considered us broken up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 06:53 PM |
| 107 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouThis is the strength I needed sis. Tired of being a pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:06 AM |
| 3 | My bf ghosted me for 4 days because he was “stressed”Oof. Y’all are so right. I know I need the tough love. I know I’m a pickmeisha and I’m trying to get out of that habit. I’ve been one for 9 years accepting nothing but crap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.This literally happened to me last year. I was raped by one of my friends and his fiancé in 2017. I kept the secret from my boyfriend whom I had been dating since 2016 for a year and a half. I was so depressed and traumatized over what happened. My bf constantly asked me what was wrong and I never would tell him until one night. The night I did tell him, he said I had basically cheated on him. He was so mad at me. We ate dinner at a restaurant not looking at each other or even speaking. When we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:14 PM |
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