If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no!

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-08T04:04:40+00:00

This is the aggressive positivity I needed in my life RN!

I've been thinking "Maybe...I'm just NOT worth it..." and sis is all "Work on yo'self!"

I'll do it for you Queen~

kaitybubbly · 2021-11-08T05:56:44+00:00

Love this so much. With my last relationship I definitely learned the hard way not to fall in love with potential. If they wanted to, they would, and if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no!

todaysthrowaway2307 · 2021-11-08T05:56:23+00:00

Agreed agreed agreed. There are so many ways people can phrase “no”, whether they think they’re being polite or just bad at communicating. Mixed messages are always a no!

Sage_Planter · 2021-11-08T03:51:22+00:00

Boys don't like other boys touching their things. They don't want others playing with their special toys.

If he was truly interested in you, he'd take you off the market, and he'd tell everyone you were his girlfriend.

End of story.

ctrlcutie · 2021-11-08T02:45:57+00:00

I'd like to add, if he says "let's just go with the flow" after asking him "what we are?" just drop him. Trust me, it's a recipe for heartache or anxiety whenever you spend time together

laurencetrishburn · 2021-11-08T03:53:53+00:00

So important.

Fiebre · 2021-11-08T10:26:01+00:00

Absolutely true.

When she said things like do you love yourself, do you think you're worthy of someone amazing, I had this thought that (at least in my culture) even if you're fucking stoked on yourself you're still only valued by whether you have a man or not, so by this logic you can't really believe you're awesome if you don't have a man. So you'll settle.

kolbin8r · 2021-11-08T16:12:32+00:00

It's like this even when you're in an otherwise stable relationship. You want kids and he's iffy? It's a no. You're ready to take the next step and he's meh? It's a no.

In many life decisions, anything other than an enthusiastic and unencumbered yes...is a no. Leave.

Background-Layer- · 2021-11-08T18:58:59+00:00

This is what I recently learned. If a guy wants you, you will know. They don’t hide it. Knowing this is such a time saver. I had a friend who used to like me and they made it known and went out of their way to do things for me.

The_Oracle_of_Delphi · 2021-11-10T03:44:37+00:00

Her facial expressions remind me of Dan Levy (David Rose from Schitt’s Creek)

Title	If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no!
Author	ndf250
Upvotes	824
Comments	17
Date	November 8, 2021 1:45 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qp370t/if_its_not_a_fuck_yes_its_a_no/
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