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| 5 | Ladies, any tips on how to identify if you’re ready to date, especially coming out of a long term toxic relationship?Since you mentioned rotation, how do you turn a guy down when he’s developing big feelings just a month or so into meeting? I met someone who seemed great on paper but we had no spark. He started catching feels a month into us meeting and hanging out. It was weird and I said it won’t work for me but I hoped we could stay friends but he’s now ghosted me 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, any tips on how to identify if you’re ready to date, especially coming out of a long term toxic relationship?It’s been a good learning experience to meet men from a practical space instead of an emotional one. It’s very helpful to know what works for me and what doesn’t, coming from a long term relationship. I do also think we learn a lot from relationships/dating/having a rotation. But it’s kinda sad for me to not “feel” anything for these men who seem wonderful for starters. There’s the guilt of letting someone down, when you know they see some kind of future with you. That’s been the toughest for me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, any tips on how to identify if you’re ready to date, especially coming out of a long term toxic relationship?Agree. I do feel like this with most of the men I’m talking to right now. In fact I almost get irritated/frustrated when there’s any talk of future dates/meeting/hangout 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, any tips on how to identify if you’re ready to date, especially coming out of a long term toxic relationship?I know what you mean. I go through these phases of highs and lows too. I guess it’s just part of the healing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:06 AM |
| 7 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.How do you get to that place of leaving and being done, especially with a manipulative person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 114 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨Lol. The height thing really pisses off guys. All of them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:45 PM |
| 5 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.Which sub is this on OP? Can you share the link pls? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 12:16 PM |
| 24 | Your anger is a divine blessingYour anger is an indicator of your boundaries being crossed. 🎤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:44 AM |
| 28 | To those who were cheated on and took back their exes for a “second chance” how did it change you emotionally/mentally? What gave you the strength to leave?I couldn’t do it at first. I finally had the courage to but did it over text message because I knew if I’d speak to him, he’d manipulate me back into the relationship. The cheating was not a one time thing. He had a whole relationship for a few months behind my back. We were in a relationship for a very long time so leaving was very hard in spite of the constant push and pull, as most narcissistic relationships are. Although it’s been a few months now, even his name kicks up so much anxiety for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:06 PM |
| 2 | If You're Single, Don't Be Sad During The Holidays.First single Christmas in 10 years. And i’ve been good. Other than a holiday hoover by the ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 83 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”This just makes me want to throw up. He does not deserve her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 02:20 PM |
| 33 | Did you ever get this gut feeling?Agree 💯. I have felt this feeling when we I see my LV ex. It’s literal fright of not being in control of the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 04:57 PM |
| 13 | Never beg a man to marry youI can bet my money he is cheating/has cheated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:06 AM |
| 15 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyHAHAHAHAAH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:25 AM |
| 52 | If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no!So important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:53 AM |
| 20 | I think being intimidating is a good thing.I’ve got this a lot too. And I’m fine with it ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:12 AM |
| 30 | You should have a “hoe phase!”I thought this is what I needed after getting out of a long term relationship, as told to me by a guy friend who has been in a hoe “phase” for 5 years. Lies men tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:53 PM |
| 13 | Is this Instagram activity acceptable in a relationship?This behaviour does not change to be honest. My NV ex had this same issue but justified it till the very end of the relationship. In my opinion, this is just disrespectful and should not be tolerated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 26 | "You will end up 40, alone and desperate, because you so stuck up". A teardown of one of the most common negs out there.My mother recently threatened me with this line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Why are Jordan Peterson’s views problematic to FDS?Hey now, aren’t we all learning here? 😐 Fds, yes. JP, not so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 50 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Lock him up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 01:25 PM |
| 25 | I don’t even know where to start.I hope she leaves and never looks back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:59 PM |
| 18 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.I feel you! I’m definitely a big people pleaser still trying to get out of my old ways. I’ve been doing some inner work recently and it’s become so obvious to me that my people pleasing is making me question who I really am! I’ve also always wanted to be part of a big circle of friends who are always up to hangout, go on vacations, help with groceries, you know… but never really found my tribe. And lately this has become a big insecurity of mine. Can you share how you broke out of your old ways … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:11 PM |
| 11 | Explaining having few friends to a partnerthank you! absolutely agree with this and hopefully I get to a place of being unbothered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 13 | Don't Stroke His Ego, especially in the early stages!Very good post. I’m so quick to dole our compliments to anyone, girl or guy, I needed to hear this. Got to keep them to the minimal, especially with the men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:59 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inI’m just curious to know what you said after he told you how he felt about you? It’s so hard to turn nice guys, who you don’t see yourself with, down sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inI needed to hear this. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:50 AM |
| 25 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inGirl, you’ve got the rotational dating going strong. That’s adorable though. I’m talking to a few guys as well. Some take forever to plan dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:21 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inBrilliant suggestion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inI’m definitely falling for a guy I’m talking to currently. Seems HV but he’s based in another city. I need to snap out of it right ladies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Times I should have left my fianceGood on you OP. I know this takes a lot of guts and courage and I’m so proud of you for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:37 AM |
| 7 | Times I should have left my fianceThis! You’re a 👸OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:34 AM |
| 23 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Omg never thought of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:00 PM |
| 48 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Whom do even date and marry then?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:31 PM |
| 155 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?I don’t get how is that supposed to turn someone on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:30 PM |
| 43 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?This guy could not reload after he had to use the bathroom to pee! 🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:30 PM |
| 87 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?I think I know that look. 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:29 PM |
| 145 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?That bad eh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Man is upset that wife bought him jewelry. Come to find out, he’s never bought her jewelry besides her ring. 🧐And why is he ranting on social when he can have the conversation with his wife who I assume lives with him?! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 09:59 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-InCan’t get myself to block-delete my ex. Help? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 20 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?Waking up early to work on personal goals Learning about investing in stocks Keeping a regular meditation schedule Shopping for clothes to suit my new style Manifesting my dream man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Let’s suppose this is true, this type of “encouragement” harms so many women around the world. This is a dangerous pickmeYuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | They settle down when they get old. #geriatricHolding onto her like she's going to run away 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Planning to end things with LVM tomorrowYou know what doesn't feel right. Trust your gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 05:59 PM |
| 8 | Making HVW friendsGosh covid makes all this so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Woman absolutely destroys her husband after finding out he posts in the deadbedrooms subreddit. Gold.I was mentally slow clapping, mic dropping, chef kissing 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 06:34 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InThinking of getting off social again. Tell me to do it ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | 2 days ago our haters said we would never get Gail Dines on the Podcast and we all laughed because the episode was already recorded and scheduled to be released today. Haters gonna hate while FDS just keeps winning! 📈🚀🧗♀️Yup would love to hear her speak more candidly on the podcast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:51 AM |
| 14 | Jimmy Kimmel segment where men struggle to answer the most basic questions about their girlfriends. Ladies, never settle for someone who doesn't take an active interest in your life.Please tell me they were paid to do this and this is not real. I need some hope right now 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:47 AM |
| 102 | 2 days ago our haters said we would never get Gail Dines on the Podcast and we all laughed because the episode was already recorded and scheduled to be released today. Haters gonna hate while FDS just keeps winning! 📈🚀🧗♀️Yaass! Pls get Dr Ramini too 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:23 PM |
| 15 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexThis is the standard women need to set! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:20 PM |
| 5 | What FDS has taught me over the space of nearly 2 years.Great post. Thank you for your insights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 57 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?What the fuck?! This is so scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 9 | Am I surprised ?Total 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 08:46 AM |
| 21 | Am I surprised ?I want to break NC with an ex just to share pie chart with him. He would keep defending how housewives are useless, lack ambition, live off their husbands' money. His mother is a housewife and half the women in his family too. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:53 AM |
| 10 | I can't even anymoreAww poor baby can't go to strip clubs anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 2 | How manipulative men leverage guilt against their partners.Thank you for sharing this OP. I commend your strength for leaving. Most women find this very thing so hard. Hell I couldn't leave for years. I came to the sub to search for some content on guilt after my ex reached out to me again trying to portray himself as the victim. He's manipulation me for years through this constant cycle of heartless discard and rejection, after which he could come back and love bomb me. I finally mustered the courage to end things on my own terms and now he can't accep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:17 AM |
| 24 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY MAY 29 2021I need to be shameless with snooping. An ex would always have his phone on his person and rarely leave it unattended. I trusted him of course although it did seem shady to me. Turned out he was cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:19 PM |
| 31 | Sis follows her nose & uncovers a whole treasure trove of cheating stemming back years. Now imagine she’d ReSpEcTeD hIs PrIvAcY 🤡 cheaters don’t have any respect for you. And that’s why we’re pro SNOOP. If you think he’s cheating- you’re probably right & just smelling the TIP of the iceberg.What is soft cheating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:50 AM |
| 6 | You owe it not just to yourself but also to your future children to only be with a HVMThis is so beautiful and so rare to experience. It's true when they say the relationship with your parents, for women especially the one with her father, can make or break her future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 04:45 AM |
| 3 | When a man says “If you don’t lower your standards you’ll die alone” he is admitting he is not good enough for you.Fine with dying alone, just FYI 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:58 PM |
| 35 | How is being bothered by micro-cheating connected to having low self-confidence?I did this with my ex, he seemed unbothererd by me following other men. His justification was that I need to be more open to it just like he is. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!He rarely complimented me, got me flowers once in 10 years after I asked it it, didn't believe in engagements. He definitely dislikes me. He couldn't even say he loves me when I asked him the last time we spoke but wanted to know about our future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!You're right. I can't block and delete just yet. It's too hard for me. I don't know if we can coexist without the blocking. I'm already in therapy so I hope I am able to work through this soon. Thanks for your advice 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!It's still lockdown where I'm from so anything outdoors is difficult. But I have made an effort to talk to more men as a distraction but I'm always conscious to not take it too far because I'm too scared to get attached to anything too soon. Also trying to follow some FDS principles so avoid anymore scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!The problem is I don't think he's guilty. He keeps blaming this on LDR. But he has been meeting her behind my back for years. Just as I got to know this he fed me bullshit like he's going to start therapy. He doubt he has because he still has no remorse. Thanks for your kind words ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!It's unbelievable. All these years he's been telling her that we have been "working on things" when we were in a serious relationship, clearly only in my mind. He's been lying to both of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 20 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!I agree I am and I can't seem to break from it. 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 79 | 5 years, 1 child, no marriage. The top comments give me lifeDo not move in with a man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 59 | "My ex is crazy" is still a red flag, even if he's telling the truth💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:07 AM |
| 43 | Interesting TitleMen literally anytime to try to get them to become better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:23 AM |
| 16 | Why you should avoid moving abroad for a guyUntil last year, I was going to be moving countries for my ex to be with him with zero help from his side. He didn't even help with my visa application. I'm so glad we ended things before I could move "for him". I will mostly likely still be moving but this time it will be on my own accord and definitely not for him but for myself and a better future for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 27 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.I hope the cops did something with this footage because these boys need to be in jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 43 | The men are projecting again!! Why does it bother them that women are 30 and single?Almost 30, newly single and loving every minute. 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieThis episode was hilarious. Lilith girl 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!Rebellious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 36 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?I got banned from the sub too. For presenting a really common sense response. I guess the mods don't appreciate that on there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:53 PM |
| 8 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellMy ex would say he didn't have the money for a ring but would shamlessly spend 100s of dollars on video game consoles, and the latest phones and TV. What I'm saying is, if he wanted to buy you the ring, he would. If he doesn't, he will go to his grave conjuring up the shittiest excuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:03 AM |
| 9 | My female neighbor gave me this ring! She’s moving to another country and gifted several women on our block beautiful pieces of vintage jewelry. Female friends will always care and appreciate one another!Gorgeous! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 44 | Preach it 👏🏻Horribly scary. But nothing surprises me anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 28 | Be ruthless now, or you may be stuck with the NVMJust when I was having thoughts about the "good times" with my LV ex. You ladies on here Always save the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:10 PM |
| 54 | Every day the bar descends deeper into hell...What a condescending prick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 17 | Sick and tired of hearing i "look good for my age"😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:48 AM |
| 46 | I don't think I've come across a single HVM on dating websitesWhere do we even meet men?!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Woman feels compelled to take care of ex who left her after 15 years of no marriage for younger woman.Agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Just finished FLEABAG, it made me depressedI loved the show. But since FDS I'm beginning to question it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:07 PM |
| 48 | Woman feels compelled to take care of ex who left her after 15 years of no marriage for younger woman.Reminded me of my aunt who is now divorced for 10 years after her husband had multiple affairs and a whole different family outside of their marriage. She told me recently that she has never been with another man after her husband and still worries for him because of the vows they took together. I don't know why are our hearts so big. 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 19 | Making fun of "daddy issues" as if it was the girl's fault that her father failed herCan someone explain what daddy issues translates to for women? I do have a very absent father and I've spent most of my adolescent years being neglected in every way possible by him, but I'm not quite sure what's this escalates to in relationships with men... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Needing some support. I am fuming. Boy moms are fucking worst.Boy mom always making excuses for their sons' crappy behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:07 AM |
| 20 | gIvE nIcE gUyS a ChAnCe waaaaaaahToo funny haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:29 PM |
| 8 | Blocking feels GOOD?...you will feel so much better...trust me.One of the reasons I've given up social temporarily is because I can't bear to delete by lv ex from it. It just breaks my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 24 | Intuition vs fearYou're absolutely right. As someone just out of a traumatic relationship, I consistently ignored my intuition. My brain always resorted to cognitive dissonance inspite of the what my ex was showing me about his character. It's a vicious cycle to break out of. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Derrick Jaxn Caught CheatingThis is true. My ex did this to justify his cheating to his friends. He also told the woman he cheated on me with that he wasn't in a relationship. So this behaviour is very possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:46 AM |
| 14 | What advice would you give to your 20 year old (or generally younger) self?All day everyday: TRUST YOUR DAMN GUT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 6 | Why do so many LVM ask you to plan the date? Laziness is a given but are they looking for a mother figure?I've been talking to a guy over the last few weeks. Nothing serious but I've been enjoying talking to him, and I've been hoping he asks me out. He finally did and said something like "want to grab a beer?" He meant literally the very same day! In my head I'm like, do you think I have nothing else to do than say yes to a meeting 3 hours prior?! I just told him "not today, maybe another day". If he doesn't ask me out properly the next time I'm going to cut ties. Such low effort at the start itself… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI met a girlfriend yday and she happened to mention Jordan Peterson. In my head, all the sirens went off and I thought: pickmeisha 😂😂😂 thanks FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:03 AM |
| 19 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.What a self-righteous prude! What women are expected to do as some kind of birth right is such a perogative for men. I feel bad for his son. He's going to grow up with an absolute loser for a father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:51 AM |
| 78 | Liberal feminism mind fucked meFormer lib fem here. If it wasn't for FDS I'd out doing some pick me shit. So happy to be here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:43 AM |
| 39 | Mind of a LVM - Ex Goes Off About Gifts 🙄He spent all that time writing this thesis when he could have just run down to the store and got you some damn flowers! What's wrong with him?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 36 | Julia Gillard misogyny speech voted most unforgettable Australian TV moment: watch in fullWhat a royal decimation 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | “Flowers are impractical and expensive”, my ex said. He was not a flower guy and I thought I could accept itThank you🌹The type is lazy low effort men. Guess what else my ex didn't believe in? Engagements. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:59 AM |
| 16 | “Flowers are impractical and expensive”, my ex said. He was not a flower guy and I thought I could accept itThis could have been me writing it. An ex said he didn't believe in flowers (wut?!). I gave up on expecting any. Decided to buy myself some every few weeks. here's one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 8 | The FDS podcast is now LIVE!!! Weekly Discussion Thread: Episode 1Die mad 😂 Gonna use this more often. Great chat ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 13 | When an ex tries to ruin your reputationThis is great strategy. I've made a back up of all of my ex's cheating. I've got screenshots, pictures, timelines. Waiting to let the cat out the bag the minute shit hits the fan. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 27 | When an ex tries to ruin your reputationBest strategy 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:06 PM |
| 5 | TV shows with strong woman energy?Omg yes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHe said he kinda expected that I'd say no but that it felt good to say it to me after all these years. He is not a very close friend of mine and neither do we stay in touch alot so I guess it goes back to square 1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:34 AM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inLadies, a friend I've known for a while asked me out this morning saying, "I would love you take you out on a date and just pamper you but I've been too afraid to ask you all this while." 🥺 I thought that was really sweet but I turned him down very politely and I'm so proud of myself. I was not attracted to him and didn't want to string him along, and importanty I really did not want a guy to come in the way of my inner work/healing after a traumatic relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 29 | A porn star telling people to quit porn🤡. Straight from the horse's mouth.Haha the only reason he could give is how it impacts sex drive etc. What about how the porn industry treats women? Men 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:23 PM |
| 12 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Anxiety leading to loss of appetite, loss of hair, stomach aches, lack of sleep, inability to concentrate, depressive spells - all caused while I was in a relationship. Oh there's more. He somehow convinced me I had anger issues, was insecure, jealous, crazy, so much so that I had to see a therapist. Turns out it was just his gaslightling that turned me into the person I didn't recognise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with the feeling of loneliness?This is great advice. I broke up close to a month ago and if anything I feel absolutely fine. I do have days where I grieve but it doesn't last long. I'm not sure if this is because I switched out of the relationship much before the break up or I'm holding onto hope or I've just moved on. I'm trying to get into therapy to unpack my feelings because I feel it might catch up on me in the long run. What I'm also doing everytime I get lonely and think about my ex is refer to a list I've been making … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:40 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with the feeling of loneliness?Where can I find these groups? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the feeling of loneliness?This is fantastic girl! I'm definitely borrowing from your list. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Friendly reminder, ladies. You can't fix him.So bloody true. It's crazy how you do EVERYTHING you possibly can to please a narcissist but still end up being the one who has "issues" 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inLadies, any tips for not giving in to make attention during a lonely and difficult time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 10 | Any Feminist Theory books you recommend for my term paper?I absolutely loved Gloria Steinem's Revolution from Within. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Man tries to demand wife to return boots because "they make him feel uncomfortable" yet felt free to post a video of her wearing them for reddit to judge.Reminded me of a friend's boyfriend, now husband, who refused to go out with her because she wore a pair of heels he didn't like. He didn't like her wearing heels in general because he was shorter than she was. Poor girl had a closet full of flats. Imagine that 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:13 PM |
| 39 | Don’t let men leech off of you to meet their needs & feed their egoNo matter what a man does, it's blamed on bIOloGy. Fuck biology. Women have moved passed having to only care for kids and cook and clean - we're getting degrees, starting businesses, going to fucking space ffs. We do more than procreate! I mean, we are NOT cave people anymore. We do not hunt anymore. So why should men get a free pass to use We ArE ViSuAl CrEaTuReS everytime they fuck up. Whatever happened to evolution? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:19 AM |
| 9 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.Is it weird that my mother has never once said a good thing about me, complimented me, encouraged me? I guess it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:56 AM |
| 14 | This is the type of energy we need today. Happy International Women's Day!Awww 🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 13 | Just when I gave myself time to cry about my narc ex, my phone popped with this notification. A sign from the universe 💫 and a gentle reminder for all of us ladies.It's called 'I am' on the App Store 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 7 | Just when I gave myself time to cry about my narc ex, my phone popped with this notification. A sign from the universe 💫 and a gentle reminder for all of us ladies.🤗🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:18 PM |
| 17 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!This mentality of women having to fit into this mould of being good mothers and wives and daughters is so detrimental. If that's what they aspire to be good, if they don't, then good too. Women have a big role to play in empowering other women around them in this and I think we often fail each other. Unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 86 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!I love this quote by Lady Gaga; "Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.” 🎤🎤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 31 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!Absolutely! Women need to empower other women - whatever it is they choose to do with their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 149 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!Oh she got trolled. Women were coming to her with facts and all she could say was YoUr SoUrCeS aRe WrOnG. Imagine saying something so polarizing on LinkedIn among your professional connections. What a bad bad example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on being married to a man who works seasonally and is away several months a year?NEVER. RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 09:18 AM |
| 40 | “Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean whileIn some cases no education even. That comes with its own set of challenges. Also, divorce and separation are still taboo in villages and to some extent even in cities in India. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:52 AM |
| 79 | “Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean whileYes. The patriarchy is thriving and well in India. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Thought I'd share this for those of us on a self-love, growth, spiritual journey. 💎❤️You're welcome ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:50 AM |
| 289 | “Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean whileThis concept is called an arranged marriage in India and is very very very common. In this context, for men, it's an easy way to get a fuck maid to not only care for him but his whole family without even trying, and for women it's the promise of a better life in a first world country. It's pretty much a give and take equation. A lot of men do this after they are done "having fun" and want to "settle down" and if you're from India preferably with a virgin bride. Triggered from just typing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:46 AM |
| 21 | I’m waiting until someone tells her that if a man is willing to rape a woman he wouldn’t care what her underwear says....and that rapists know exactly what they’re doing. Also yes that is a woman victim blaming in the comments.What the fuck?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Thought I'd share this for those of us on a self-love, growth, spiritual journey. 💎❤️Been loving her content over the last year, as I've been working on myself. And she also practices some FDS principles - definitely a bonus. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Guys, you're safe now!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:48 AM |
| 24 | Seen this a few hours ago and couldn’t resist sharing with you ladiesThe double standards 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 07:15 AM |
| 20 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.Men are so morally depraved. This has traumatized me from just reading it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:46 AM |
| 25 | What were some pivotal things your friends said that made you reconsider your relationship?My friend said something similar. "If a man did this to your daughter would you be okay." Girllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:32 AM |
| 11 | Reminder to vet vet vet.That show was tragic! But maybe worse or a close second was Two and Half Men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Male egoI just don't get it 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:53 AM |
| 30 | Male egoThis is very true. My ex would never compliment me. I'm an attractive woman and so I'd get alot of nice things said to me very often from everyone but my ex! I would have to literally ask him to say something nice to me. And even if he did, it would be a back handed compliment. He'd almost never laugh at any joke I cracked. Another thing that my best friend noticed about my ex's behaviour was that he was very selfish and always looking out for himself first no matter what. In hindsight, I think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:23 AM |
| 15 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.It's crazy that you pointed out that number. In school, neater handwriting would often be attributed to it being a girl's. It's insane to think about how even handwriting has been so gendered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 35 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 77 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI recently came across not one but 2 women 'voluntarily' wearing rings on their ring fingers - no proposal, no marriage - as a way to show the world that they are committed to their partners. One even went on to say that in her mind she was already married to her partner. These are women who are living in with their boyfriends, have pets with them - I guess that's why there's no marriage no engagement in sight. Is this supposed to be a thing? I mean...how much are pickmes going to be bending ove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:56 PM |
| 44 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.Lmao why is his writing this way?! I could easily confuse it for a toddler's | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:10 AM |
| 14 | Marriage is overrated as a woman, but society desperately tries to convince us otherwiseYes pls! This would be a great post u/jerryriggedusername | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 16 | I know we don’t waste time writing paragraphs to NVM - especially ones who send d*ck pics - but this is hilarious! Make them squirm!Lmao 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | I just ordered The Rules!Can you tell me the whole name of this book pls? Would really like to read it and I'm not able to find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:23 AM |
| 22 | Having boundaries does not make you controlling or insecure, and cut anyone out of your life who tells you otherwise.Thanks for this. My ex always made me believe that ogling other women, following naked girls on Instagram, etc. was "okay". He would even send me pictures of half naked women saying, "how hot is she?" expecting me to enable this behaviour. And the minute I told him I'm not okay with this, he would call me insecure, crazy, unreasonable and the best: that he couldn't have an honest conversation with me 😂. I'm sorry, honest conversation about what? Butts and boobs? This post has really made me real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:05 AM |
| 29 | You’ve heard it here, ladies. Women who are rightfully critical of men ruined feminism 🙄Safe to say all the awards are from scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Low value man - cause of anxiety?I can legit tell you this is a real thing. Infact I'm pretty sure my ex's behaviour led to develop anxiety and some low grade depression too. His constant lying, gaslightling, manipulation, low effort, etc etc. was definitely the cause. Before I met him I didn't know what anxiety was, what it felt like, nothing. And yes, since we've not been together I've been much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:57 AM |
| 7 | I have my flair and I couldn't be happier!How do you get upgraded? Does it have something to do with how much you post etc? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:05 AM |
| 11 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:49 AM |
| 11 | Protect her from what? 🙃😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:25 PM |
| 37 | Let’s talk about Instagram‘s affect on hook-up culture.Validation. Period. I've gone cold turkey on all my social media (except Reddit and Pinterest 😬) and I've never felt better. I know it's just been a week but going to ride this wave till it lasts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:20 PM |
| 87 | Protect her from what? 🙃Do they realise how much better they could be as people, as humans, if they just used their heads for once? Why wait for a wife, gf, daughter to become better? Why not be better for YOURSELF first? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:53 AM |
| 38 | Protect her from what? 🙃AOC is the coolest ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:51 AM |
| 338 | Protect her from what? 🙃I tRy To Be a bETtEr MaN nOw ThAt I HaVe A dAuGhTeR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inExactly. It's a major red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | The road to self-love is sometimes painful and arduous but today I'm celebrating myself with a birthstone ring!! We are worth it 👑Gosh their stuff is beautiful! I'm so tempted. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:22 PM |
| -2 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirlI can appreciate the self-deprecating humour but nothing more. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:41 AM |
| 9 | Indeed, how dares she to think of not going nun after break-up with a man?https://youtu.be/K9wYo2fJMZM This was while with another woman! A bit questionable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 48 | Indeed, how dares she to think of not going nun after break-up with a man?So glad she left Bradley. What he pulled off with Gaga was extremely LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHello ladies, have you ever had a partner compare you to an ex, another girl in your friend circle? If this has happened to you, how did you react? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:21 AM |
| 37 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️😂😂😂😂 fragile egos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 68 | Why are men so disrespectful when it comes to women that don’t “meet their standards”?I also think it's often the media that plays a part in enabling this. LVM see women who look a certain way, dress a certain way - glorified. To them this is the only type of women they know exist. Anything other than this "norm" is unacceptable to them; hence the lynching on social media, comparing their partners to pornstars, models, the works. Of course, most men are also very low on their ability to question these gendered, misogynistic narratives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 8 | “Where’s the 8pack baby?!”Watched this so many times. Hilarious 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on being friends/hanging out with men who see you as more than a friend?I did have a guy friend who told me he had feelings for me while I was in a relationship (very LVM) and he was just out of one. I turned him down. But we continued to stay friends, platonically. He never mentioned any of it ever again and now even has a gf, who I've met. But I keep wondering if she knows and if she is okay with me being around him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on being friends/hanging out with men who see you as more than a friend?That's just trying too hard. Such a downer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 07:29 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on being friends/hanging out with men who see you as more than a friend?Oh my god! That's horrible! You're right, somehow they always develop feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYesssssss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Funny how similar most men are. Thanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:45 AM |
| 12 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Everything you said! I've realised that every fight we have had was because he failed to live upto my standards of respect (not ogling at other women, not communicating, not listening, forgetting anything I said, choosing his friends, yadayadaya). And instead gaslit me into thinking I'm asking for "too much". And it's funny because every break was initiated by him and he came back to me wanting to work on things, but did nothing. Even before we took this break he tells me we get back on a condit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 10:43 AM |
| 13 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).I know. Experienced everything you said - many times over, with the same guy. We're mutually on a break right now so I'm using this time to recalibrate and see if the relationship is worth saving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 10:18 AM |
| 8 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Not sure how can I be helped! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:51 AM |
| 16 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Am I? It's so much harder do action on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:50 AM |
| 107 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).I've been in a relationship like this for a similar duration and I'm also 29. The similarities are glaring. Only difference is that I haven't mustered the courage to let go completely. Huge respect to her for standing up for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 108 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Haha same! I couldn't believe he looked the way he did. And what a clumsy proposal. Girl dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 55 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)From someone who had the honour of meeting a HVM (once in my life), I can say this is true. He asked all the right questions. Wanted to know about my dreams. On the first date. 💎 What did I do? I let him go, to be with a guy who ultimately cheated on me. Alot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:25 PM |
| 59 | Found this on Instagram 🤢🤢I am an Indian woman and I can say this is 99.9% true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:24 AM |
| 9 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:23 AM |
| 13 | Something feels off? Follow your instincts!If there's anything we need to trust it's our intuition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Damn right sis 👸🏽💅🏿💅🏽💅🏻This hit home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | We need more masculinity in society, not less.To refute most claims that you absolutely need a male influence in your life, pls watch 21st Century Women. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 04:34 AM |
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