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I mean, you need to be proactive. If you don't make your intentions known she's going to assume you're not interested.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:56 AM
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I didnt flirt much though Well, there's your problem.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:41 AM
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Man... I comment here sometimes because I feel like I can offer some insight, but its insane how many posters clearly haven't read the sidebar or even made a token effort to search for an answer.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:40 AM
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Oh, my bad. I can't say I've experienced that situation enough to give a solid response, but I largely agree with your analysis. Another possibility is that either you or the girl live with other people and she wants to avoid judgement in the morning.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 10:03 PM
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Several, use the search bar.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 09:56 PM
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You're not giving them any plausible deniability. It's like asking to "Netflix and chill" - everyone knows you're just asking for sex. Find some less obvious excuses to get them to come round and work from there.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 09:54 PM
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As a general rule you should only be texting to sort out logistics.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 06:55 PM
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Fair enough man, hope things go well for you. If you ever need help with girls you know where to find us.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:45 PM
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Alright, so what are you going to do about it? The information you need to make a change is here if you want it, but you have to want it.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:38 PM
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Well, good news for you then because that's completely untrue, haha. I had a quick look through your post history (hope you don't mind) and I think that your main problem is that you've got fairly defeatist attitude about things. I can understand feeling behind the curve but you'll never improve without putting in the effort yourself. Even so, though, I'd argue that you're ahead of a lot of people - you've found a resource that can significantly help you if you allow it to, and you're taking the…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:26 PM
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Absolutely, TRP is age-independent. We have people here in their forties and fifties who are putting in the effort to improve themselves - why should you be the exception?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:53 PM
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No, you're assuming that you can control her, which is 1) impossible and 2) unfair on her. You need to seriously work on your abundance mentality, because she's a real person and like it or not she'll do what she wants to do. Beyond that, all you can do is work on your LTR game. There's a link in the sidebar that should tell you everything you need to know ("LTR Red Pill game in 8 parts").
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:21 PM
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if she branch swings it's all gone Not necessarily - if her father's sensible and you have a good relationship with him, he'll understand where you're coming from if she does choose to branch swing. That said you're playing a dangerous game here. If she's really head over heels in love with you, then treating her badly could put your job in jeopardy.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:48 PM
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reporting him to HR would be a pussy move Absolutely not true, swallow your pride. This is not something you have to put up with.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:37 PM
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haha no worries
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:32 PM
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Yeah, that's the best course of action. Could be worse I suppose. Maybe have a look at this and see if you can get some money back?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:27 PM
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Hello mate, you are clearly very new to this so I'd recommend that you read the sidebar and the top posts in the main sub. I can tell you with certainty that no one girl is going to sort out your deep-seated insecurity; that's something you need to work on yourself. The good news: you're actively trying to improve, so it's only uphill from here.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:24 PM
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ahh nightmare mate, could always refund the ticket?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:15 PM
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Alright, 1: idiot, 2: whereabouts are you going? There might be some interesting stuff to do there.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:07 PM
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Damn dude, that really sucks. I can see how it would fuck with your mentality. I'd lay low for a little while, partly for your own sanity and partly to work on increasing your SMV if that is indeed the problem. In all likelihood you just got spooked, but working on yourself for a little while will help you get in the right headspace for when you come back to the game. Bonus if you've markedly improved yourself.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:40 PM
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If it were me I'd look for management positions in similar companies to the one you're at at the moment. You've presumably got the knowledge to perform well enough in that role while you learn the ins and outs of management, then it's really just a question of climbing the ladder. Shout out to Vasiliy's corporateland posts, I'd post them here but automod won't let me.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:28 PM
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AWALT's more of a guideline to get you into a precautionary mindset. Humans are obviously way too complex to make such sweeping generalisations, but it'll give you a broadly accurate model of how to act around girls that will stop you from getting fucked over, or at least help you understand it when you do.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:21 PM
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I’m done chasing girls forever. Ok More for me
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:41 AM
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Discipline > motivation my dude. Nothing works better than just doing the work. Personally I find making plans helps a lot as well. They're really easy, barely count as work really, but they'll help you keep track of all the small tasks you need to do. Set yourself a deadline to do them; a week, a month or whatever, and make sure they're measurable goals. "Study for 5 hours" won't work, but "write notes on this week's lecture" will.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:05 AM
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Just something that'll keep her happy for a bit when she asks "what we are". It's come up a bunch of times and I've never had a good answer.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 12:34 AM
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why not try doing a masters for a year or two? get the college experience, learn about something you're interested in, make yourself even more employable?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:46 PM
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While Bruce and Tim are measuring cocks, you should be busy getting Melissa into a cab and out of that dress. I love this. You're right, I have other things I need to worry about. Thank you
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:20 PM
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I've tried variations on this and it doesn't work that well, since you're always aware that you're tricking yourself to an extent. good for a temporary pick-me-up though
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:16 PM
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