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31

I've experienced this and I have no idea what it means either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:35 PM
227

The (exclusively male) bus drivers in my country don't allow men to sit next to women. They either sit next to other men, stand, or exit the bus. The bus drivers have no qualms about yelling at a man to switch seats lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:05 PM
59

I'm so happy for you! Posts like this give me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:05 PM
10

I literally laughed so hard I woke my family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:30 AM
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STDs have entered the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:43 PM
307

You should see the Middle-Eastern men salivating over the possibility of Ukrainian refugees 🤡 The amount of memes and jokes about this is huge and disgusting. As if our countries are close enough geographically or ready enough to host refugees. Like the local women don't even want your broke ass so what makes you think a strong and brave Ukrainian woman will?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 03:17 PM
11

Yes! I can't have a roster of men because I have a horrible social battery. The amount of mental preparation I have to go through just to hang out with friends is huge, so imagine if it's a date. Vetting will be more efficient if I focus on one man at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:45 PM
400

So concerning point three, LVA is obsessed with a woman but doesn't like her that way? Lmao what 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:30 PM
-4

I love promise rings though. They're only tacky if the guys are cheap. But there's nothing wrong with having a promise ring, followed up with an engagement ring, then a wedding ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:36 PM
470

I saw this post and one of the users looked through his post history then commented, "Seriously, would YOU want to date you?" 💀 But he has abs /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:10 PM
8

Well... didn't expect to be called out like this at 2 am on a Wednesday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:28 PM
35

We don't hate all men; we're just sharing effective strategies on how to quickly sift through the garbage and finding the right man for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:39 PM
56

He's employed, but given he works overseas two weeks on and two weeks off, it makes too much sense that he has someone waiting for him at home. Plus, I rechecked his profile and he doesn't have his marital status listed. I should have been more alert. You live and you learn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:13 AM
162

That's a whole coma not a nap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:47 AM
94

I needed a sign to block this guy I'm talking to. He's been in quarantine for 2 weeks starting Monday, yet he disappears and dips from our conversation every night from 6pm to 8am the next day. What's he doing in those 14 hours? Probably stuff a HVM wouldn't do. He never explains the next morning why he dipped or apologizes. He just picks up where we left off. Never says goodnight or that he's off to sleep either. No one is busy for 14 hours straight when they're not working. Thank you for the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:33 AM
5

I'm Muslim, so I'm keeping my maiden name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:34 AM
318

I did so too! I thought he would be a fresh college graduate just starting out, but 40???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:39 PM
71

This is exactly it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:03 PM
337

We used to have a women-only taxi company (with ofc the drivers being only women) in my country, but they closed down a long time ago and I miss having that security. I think women-only taxis should be a thing because it's a necessity with all the things male taxi drivers do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:09 PM
73

Ikr, like you're a grown ass man and still using snapchat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:27 PM
5

They probably went 50/50 on that ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:50 AM
23

But with women and men, I’m still hesitant unless they are bidet or shatafa owners. My culture emphasises genital hygiene and so I can’t imagine going anywhere near someone who only uses tissue paper. With my mouth or any other body part. This! My culture also emphasizes cleansing with water every time we use the bathroom. I can't imagine giving oral to or having sex with someone who just uses toilet paper 🤮 Imagine the smell 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:47 PM
11

As a Lebanese woman, I can vouch for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:34 PM
5

I'm 21 and I agree. I'm waiting for them to mature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:19 PM
11

Are you me? It's way too much effort to prepare for a date, vet a man, and stay on guard. It's exhausting. If a HVM man wants me, then he'll have to do all the work first, show consistent and unfaltering effort IRL and via text, and literally fall into my lap because I'm not going to waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:43 PM
14

There's this application called Spyic that gets you to tap a cellphone so you can check calls, messages, and social apps but I have no idea how legitimate it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:19 AM
140

Or better yet, "What's your name?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:07 PM
38

What is FDS's opinion on a man with no friends and doesn't go out much? Basically my male counterpart lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:48 AM
8

Reading your comment, I think I have undiagnosed ADHD. My sister gets so upset when we plan on watching a movie we both decided on and I end up zoning out after 5 minutes or being on my phone. Now she just watches without me lol. If I have to keep my hands and/or eyes busy when watching something be it laundry, doing the dishes, scrolling through Pinterest (because it's just pictures with no text so it's easier to focus on whatever I'm watching). I just hope it's actually ADHD because this isn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:01 PM
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We need a Self Aware Wolves flair. This guy thinks he's done some original observational work like pls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:44 PM
53

As a 21-year old in 2021, I feel so disconnected from the dating world. Like intimacy and sex are expected from us so early into the dating phase. Calm down people 😭 I have to really get to know someone before I feel any sort of way and other people are out here having sex with strangers. I never got how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:11 PM
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I'm just going to put this out there. The verse in the Quran, the Islamic holy book, literally says that you can only get 2+ wives if you treat them all equally (same car, house, time spent, etc...), which you won't be able to do, which basically means you CAN'T get a more than one wife because you CAN'T and WON'T treat them equally. What did the male interpreters do 🤡? They disregarded the other half of the verse and said that all men can get a second, third, and fourth wife 🤡 There's a movemen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:35 AM
71

"Maybe you'll prove it to me." Who does he think he is lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:35 PM
73

What are some wifey things that I should not do other than cooking and cleaning?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:30 PM
81

He doesn't want to give her more? More of what? He has given her nothing but probably debt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:14 AM
237

I'm still trying to come to terms with the fact that I deserve this kind of treatment. It's hard, but I'm working on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 10:08 PM
184

then the replies on Tumblr were "Lie to HIS face, play with HIS feelings" LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:19 PM
51

I woke up from my nap to this 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:09 PM
6

I second this. They have resources now more than ever to learn about women's issues, that is if they care about us at all. A man is not a project I'll work on for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:49 PM
15

I want to know too because all I know is that Australian men are the worst dressed men, so I assumed New Zealander men are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:18 PM
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I have a persian cat with the longest hair and no matter how often I brush her, fur still ends up everywhere. I do make sure to keep the couches clean and the floor vacuumed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:16 AM
6

Okay, but why is this spot on? I'm so sad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:49 PM
184

This is brilliant! Could you give us more examples? I will probably have a hard time creating a blood drop that won't feel fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:42 PM
6

Me too. Both my father and grandfather.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:34 PM
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Their moms set them up with a virgin woman because these guys are all about virginity and "purity", but then complain that she's inexperienced in bed. Like, make up your mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:13 AM
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You're correct - if an animal is killed according to the way described by Islam, then it's halal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:11 AM
41

I made a comment a couple days ago similar to this - how I used to tailor my personality and looks to the men I'm pursuing. I had no concept of who I am or a fixed personality. My sense of self was lost and dependent on those I liked. Thanks to FDS, I'm trying to find out who I really am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:32 PM
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At least cats clean their asses 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:17 PM
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"men don't like -" I literally do not care. Do they care about what I like? I used to tailor my personality and looks based on the men I'm interested in - I did not know what I liked and disliked because I tried to mirror the men I'm trying to pursue. FDS helped me establish some concrete-ness to my personality. Having a fixed personality is an ongoing project for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:42 PM
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My father is like that too. Even when I knew money was tight, he would lie and tell me that we have money so that I can be comfortable telling him what I need be it notebooks or pens or earphones. He does all of things mentioned in the picture, which makes me wonder if people like that still exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:09 AM
44

I think I heard Steve Harvey say this on his show. I disagree with a lot of his ideas, but this is completely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:03 PM
17

This was my exact same thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:49 AM
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Concerning point 5, I usually act normal around men so neither cold nor extremely warm just in case I need their help later on. Thank you for this post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:37 PM
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My Arab uncles and male relatives always fight over the bill - it's considered the norm (plus it's entertaining). I never have to pay for anything and it makes me feel taken care of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:18 PM
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Where I'm from, both men and women use bidets. So I'm over here learning that people just use toilet paper and some men just pee and zip up their pants??? Imagine the smell! Hygiene is a huge deal-breaker for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:13 PM
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Or when they tell you that you are judging men because of a few bad apples. No hun, the whole tree is rotten. I WISH it were a few apples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:56 PM
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Beware of fake woke men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:00 AM
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I remember the first dating advice my dad gave me when I was 14, "If a boy asks you to meet somewhere and he's not there before you, LEAVE. Don't wait for no man!" Now my dad tells me not to date because if he even THINKS the guy is hurting me, he's gonna send people to beat him up 💀😂 I mean he's right - any guy I date has to be better than my dad and better than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:35 PM
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I'll probably be moving to a new country sometime next year! I'm nervous, but at least my mom-induced stress will decrease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:34 PM
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I wish, but I don't live in the US and our currency sucks so ordering anything online is out of the question. I'll see what I can do though! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:32 PM
40

My dad wears a mouth guard because my mom and his job stress him out. I'm on the road of getting a mouth guard because of my mom as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:18 PM
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My mom is a narcissist and I'm pretty sure she's the source of my anxiety. She traveled for 15 days and I felt so free, like a weight lifted off my shoulders. When she came back, it felt like a boulder was on top of my chest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:16 PM
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You really can't prevent a teen from owning a smart phone / phone with internet. They will find a way to get to the internet without your supervision either through a friend's phone or buying a phone themselves and finding WiFi somewhere. Plenty of my friends with strict parents did that. Plus, they would be considered an outcast by their friends. How would they stay up-to-date with all that's going on that's relevant to their age i.e. memes, videos, etc? I just find it unnecessarily strict. You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:25 PM
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Save the evidence! Screenshot it! Gather all the evidence to use it against him in court!!! The dates you were in the hospital, the bank accounts, any receipts, emails, texts, and messages you find. I'm so sorry you had to find all of this out about him this late. I can't imagine how you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:37 PM
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Why is he even going out with her if her dogs are such deal-breakers? And he expects her to cook for him? My man, cook for yourself. I don't like dogs, but even I know these dogs treat her better than he ever could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:23 PM
10

Isn't this an attempt at murder or am I watching too many crime shows?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:56 AM
81

Spray acetone on the walls and you're good to go 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:57 AM
9

I use LRP Anthelios Anti-shine (the one with the green line across it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:14 PM
6

She is controlling in the same way. Like gets mad at me for folding my clothes in a certain way and how I organize my books and files. She also expects me to mop the floor every single day even though it's just me and her. There are other examples that I can't remember right now. Edit: She doesn't listen to advice and has fucked several things in the house and then blamed me. I don't think this or the previous actions are common behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:30 AM
9

This isn't relevant but your ex sounds a lot like my mom and she is a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:52 AM
18

I've always wanted a home proposal because I'm a private person, but FDS has opened my eyes that it just screams low effort. What are some FDS-friendly proposal ideas?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:47 PM
5

Trust me, I've had men court me for YEARS without having sex with them. What if they're getting sex somewhere else? Or is this my anxiety acting up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:18 PM
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My parents used to say the same thing! "You'll end up lonely if you keep dropping people who don't meet your standards." So? I had more peace of mind being alone than with LV friends. I've also been called a lesbian just because I have never dated and didn't latch onto the first guy to show interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:39 AM
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My parents used to (and still do) shame me for my high standards for both friends and partners. I never lowered my standards, though. Why would I want to be with people who don't make me happy? You want me? Then come up and meet me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:19 AM
16

Yeah... He should be with a Lego woman rather than a real woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:20 PM
29

I don't have any advice because I have no friends either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:19 PM
145

It's even worse when it's an ugly man 🙂. You give an ugly man a chance, he starts to think he's a literal God, and then he'll try to make you jealous by flirting with anything that moves. You're still ugly, man. Never giving ugly men any second of my time again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:51 PM
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I stopped reading when I got to "Maybe it's my sarcastic and dark sense of humor" Ladies, get ready for negs and insults from this guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:07 PM
6

Congratulations! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:05 PM
38

So basically I should reciprocate rather than initiate? Yeah, that's doable. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:04 PM
33

Question that doesn't deserve its own thread I have a habit of being "helpful" (thanks mom), so I always go overboard with helping the men I like and doing stuff for them. What are friend duties, girlfriend duties, and wife duties and how do I differentiate between them? Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:55 AM
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I'm going to go do that right now 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:24 PM
27

I was about to screenshot and post this on here as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:22 PM
26

In the Arab World, he is known as "Mohannad", the name of his character in the Arabic-dubbed version of "Gümüs". We label every attractive man on a scale from 0 to Mohannad lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:02 PM
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"Fuck you bitch drop dead" is your friend married to a 12-year old? This is a grown-ass adult man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:01 PM
9

I've read a romance novel once in my lifetime and I was maybe 15? When it comes to romance movies, I've always found them... bad? They're not realistic. I haven't watched a romance movie in years. Keeps my judgment clear and sound when it comes to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:42 PM
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Nope - if he doesn't pick a place in the city I live in then he's dropped. I'm not driving more than 45 mins for a date. It's not your responsibility to teach a man your standards - your job is to find your standards in the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:35 PM
34

The dean of the school of arts and sciences and the chair of the department of natural sciences are both women. 14/24 of the full-time science faculty and 31/49 of the part-time science faculty are women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:53 PM
53

Do their brains work in reverse omfg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:01 PM
103

Natural science fields like physics and chemistry are becoming female-dominated as well. We're like 13 chemistry students and only 2 are male. The same goes for physics - I believe they were 4 girls to one boy. And we work our asses off on our research!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:54 PM
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I now think they hide their misogyny so as not to be called out on it, right? Because Sweden is all about equality and stuff? Kind of like how other Europeans hide their racism? I'm pretty sure it's in Scandinavia that people have sex first and based on that they may or may not pursue a relationship? At least here in the Middle-East, no one hides their racism or misogyny or whatever, so vetting is easy lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:13 PM
5

I have two cats and recently adopted a stray mom cat and her two kittens and the cleaning is HELL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:49 PM
257

adds Scandinavian men to my ever growing list of men NOT to date Imagine not getting married just because a lot of marriages end in divorce. Most relationships end in breakups so with that logic = don't date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:13 AM
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I've been called the above words by friends and family to my face my whole damn life ever since I was 13 and my friends started dating. Men most probably think that too. I've also been called: Lesbian (by my supervisor) Complicated (by my mom) Prude Stuck-up Prude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:53 AM
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😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:59 PM
31

Look at how dirty and dry his elbow is. Put on some lotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:46 PM
84

You had 10 years to propose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:42 PM
25

Or "I think I love you". You think you love me? So when will your 2 brain cells come to a solid conclusion? wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:19 PM
12

The gunk under men's nails makes me 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:32 PM
21

Deal-breakers: Bald or Balding. Get a hair transplant. Dirty nails and bad teeth. Lizard skin because "lotion" doesn't exist to them. Generally unhygienic and dirty like I just picked up a guy from God's human dumpster. Washes his face with shampoo. No. If he knows nothing about skincare, then it's a no. There are these things called cleaners, moisturizers, and sunscreens. Look them up. Bad fashion sense. If he's in a graphic tee and silly ass shorts and flip flops, NO. I can't be seen with such…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:25 PM
173

I was an "ugly duckling" growing up and I was always treated badly by males of all ages. I used to get approached for my friends or ignored when my friends were around. It was only when I glowed up that I started receiving male attention and they started being nicer and helpful. Too late boys because I'm like 5% attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:01 PM
139

I actually lost my attraction to men a few months after discovering this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:09 AM
52

I don't want a wedding - I just find it as an invasion of privacy lmao. But if my engagement ring costs less than $1500 and is not made specifically to my liking, he can keep it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:25 PM
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run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:42 PM
20

i choked on my coffee LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:35 AM
16

I didn't expect a jumpscare at the end. Scared the shit out of me. He wants a perfect woman looking like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:28 AM
2

What is he even trying to accomplish? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:31 PM
48

I'm planning on staying single forever and a HVM will have to fall onto my lap because I'm not looking for a relationship with men anymore. Call me stoic, cold, a prude, whatever. Whoever wants me will have to chase me. My only friend is a LVW and if I go no contact with her I'll end up friendless. So I don't even have HV friends smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:34 PM
375

Is it bad that I'm not surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:45 PM
61

He's a special type of Angry and Stupid ™
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:33 AM
30

Me too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:15 PM
256

I stopped kneecapping my sentences and I started getting called aggressive and bossy. I honestly don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:37 PM
12

I'm generalizing when it comes to my culture - I'd never date a man from my culture or anything similar to it. I've seen some shit. I'm not saying there's this perfect culture that raises perfect men - there isn't. But the proportion of HVM varies with the culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:37 PM
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These cultures raise men to be dependent on their mothers and then their wives. They look at women as a set of services rather than actual people. HV qualities are definitely culture-dependent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:31 PM
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I mean, coming from a Middle-Eastern/Mediterranean country, we live with our parents until we get married. So having a 30-year old still living with their parents is pretty much the norm. Rent is crazy expensive here, so parents advise their kids to stay with them until they get married. It's very rare to see a single person living in an apartment by themselves. When it comes to intimacy, we rent chalets or go to hotels and stuff like that. I'm sure Italy is the same way, BUT men from such cultu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:29 PM
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The girls should reject all the boys and then not attend the prom. It becomes an only-male prom. The guys can then ask other guys to go to prom with them. What kind of rule is this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:20 PM
18

Same here! I thought women-only gyms were the norm. Apparently they aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:29 AM
55

As a 21 year-old who hasn't dated yet, degrees before Ds! The only D I'm going to get is on physics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:51 PM
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As a WOC living in a Middle Eastern country and going to university AND being the eldest child AND being pressured to move abroad, I'm looked at as the future provider of the family. I had no rest. I can't just decide to get D's and a barely passing GPA. I can't. I have scholarships to uphold and grades to get and I have to work my ass off to get to where I want to be. Whereas white men can just half-ass everything and then end up as my future boss? Nice. My professor (WOC) met her husband (whit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:22 PM
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Not me taking the ring to a jeweler to find out if the ring has a real diamond or not lmao. Idiots. Always take the ring and get it checked. You don't like the ring he gave you? You tell him you don't like it, you keep the shitty ring ON your finger, and go shop for another one. Or you can just throw him and the shitty ring into the sea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:22 PM
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I've never been hurt by straight men directly, but I have SEEN it happen to other women. I have learned that straight men are dangerous by just observing straight men and straight women around me. They don't care about you as a person - you're just a robot that offers free therapy, cleaning services, and sex. They just do the minimum requirements to keep you around. They're addicted to porn of all kinds, violent, overly emotional (they get angry over their favorite team losing ffs), lazy, opport…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:18 PM
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Yeah, because I'm an Arab woman and I hear it all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:01 PM
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Is this an Arab man? lmao. I've heard this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:47 PM
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As a girl in STEM in a 3rd world country, I'm trying to secure a scholarship to pursue my PhD abroad and stay there no matter what it takes. I'm not coming back to this hellhole if I manage to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:49 PM
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I started getting stretch marks and cellulite after hitting puberty at 9 (my growth spurt was kind of crazy) so I have no idea what he's talking about. I'm 21 now and weigh under a 100 lbs and still have them so they're not related to age or weight. Men are disgusting. This post discusses women as pieces of meat. As if an 18-year old will be attracted to a moldy raisin man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:33 AM
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That they only get into relationships and eventually get married in order to have a reliable source of sex, food, and emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:48 PM
36

"I get used for sex all the time, it's no biggie." Their self-esteem 📉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:19 PM
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Female Don't Bother with Dating Strategy. We're single and not ready to mingle, you scrotes. All my female family members complain about their kids and husbands and then they get angry when I tell them I'm not planning on getting married lmao. I want freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:43 AM
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I literally thought of this today! I'm spooked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:50 PM
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omfg 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:44 PM
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All the guys I attracted were pseudo-intellectuals and it's exhausting because they try to mansplain everything. There was this guy that told me, "I'm a scientist so I think I am more intelligent than the rest of the population." Well, I am a scientist too and you don't find me looking down on others wtf. Plus, that sentence alone proved that he was in fact a dumbass. Another guy was trying to explain to me that he knows for a fact that we can make petroleum out of peanut oil. Like dude. You can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:47 AM
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2.1 He tells you that his mom is his number one priority and you come next? RED FLAG 6.1 What are his thoughts on women who dress modestly? Does he refer to them as "prudes"? Does he say that women should cover their bodies because only their husbands should see them? BOTH ARE RED FLAGS RUN SIS The "RARF FLARF" sent me 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:36 AM
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I totally agree. If he doesn't put in any effort on Valentine's day, he's LV and he's getting dumped. If he's been putting effort all year but also put extra effort on Valentine's Day, he's HV and he's getting a gift from me next Valentine's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:35 PM
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Touch me and you're getting kicked in the nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:17 AM
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I love it when a man admits he's a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:03 AM
36

We have women-only gyms in my country. You don't? I'm actually curious. Men and women go to the same gym??? Like the same one???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:48 AM
20

A HVM reciprocates the energy I give into the relationship. He's not a user and sees me as a human being instead of a set of holes that he thinks he's entitled to. A HVM is generous with his time and money and doesn't have a fragile ego or a fragile masculinity. Being a HVM is literally the easiest thing to do, but men are too lazy to do anything. They can't even wipe their asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:49 PM
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I'm 21 and honestly it is the best decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:59 AM
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25+. Finish your studies, observe people's relationships and learn from their mistakes (you'll save yourself a lot of trouble), THEN date. Your studies come first please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:24 AM
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What did my eyes just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:36 PM
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Arab/Middle Eastern men are known for this! Do you know how many times I've heard, "I'm going to marry a European/American woman so that I can show her off to my friends and so that my kids look good?" It's so common it's disgusting. White women are worshipped in our culture. So watch out. The post is solid advice. @ WOC: please be careful. @ White women: don't let them treat you as an object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:19 PM
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His face after she said, "That's sad." LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:57 PM
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I got nauseous just reading this wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:36 PM
30

His socks as well lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:06 PM
47

"Princesses are kept in castles and are indulged in riches and graces." My culture in a nutshell! I've become so comfortable in that castle/tower that I just don't want to leave. If I plan on becoming a housewife, why would I leave? But I don't want to get married or be confined to the castle anymore. I want to be free even if it means letting go of the "princess privileges".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:29 PM
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They're not stupid. They're conceited and just don't give a fuck about anyone but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:01 PM
57

They are wanking themselves out of existence omfg 💀 Hopefully that happens soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:58 AM
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The more misinformed they are, the easier to vet them out lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:03 PM
40

I've never been in a relationship either (neither romantic nor sexual). I don't think I want one anymore after finding FDS and getting smacked by reality and realization. It's probably for the best. I get this tingly feeling when it comes to women - the good kind of tingly that I never got with men. Maybe because I feel safer around women. I really don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:03 PM
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How on Earth did he get married in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:09 PM
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I was on my balcony taking selfies and my 60-something year old male neighbor stared at me for at least 5 mins before I noticed and I bolted back inside. Can't a young woman take selfies without getting stared at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:40 AM
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Yes! I think the suicide hotline in my country is still up and running. Thank you ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:07 PM
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That could work, but I also don't want my parents to know. I'll definitely look into it. Thank you~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:03 PM
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I mean I suffer from a couple mental illnesses, but I keep them under tight lock and key until I can move out of my parents' home and have the money to go to therapy to become better. I don't go around bothering people with my problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:49 PM
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I used to be every single guy's therapist without the pay - basically an emotional slave. And when I tell them about something that's been bothering me, they just ignore me. Never again. Now, guys tell me their problems and I just pretend I never read their texts lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:05 PM
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I've been told for so long that my standards are too high and no man was like that. However, I know men like that exist and I refuse to settle for less. But right now, for me to enter a relationship, a HVM will have to literally fall onto my lap because I'm done searching for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:03 AM
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He's going to be drowning in women now lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:34 PM
150

You are 100% correct. Men have been taught for some reason that sex is something you do TO a partner not WITH a partner. They don't even look at women as partners or equals in bed - just someone to relieve their sexual urges. Kinks are in a direct relationship with your unconscious. So whatever is there in your unconscious is going to be brought out in some people during sexual intercourse. Observation: I've noticed that men who are into BDSM or are just generally degrading and calling you names…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:58 PM
21

"the Y chromosome has degenerated rapidly, leaving females with two perfectly normal X chromosomes, but males with an X and a shrivelled Y. If the same rate of degeneration continues, the Y chromosome has just 4.6m years left before it disappears completely." Hopefully, it won't take 4.6 million years for men to disappear. The remaining men will die because they can't cook or clean to save their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:56 PM
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It IS expensive, but we do have a saying in my country that goes, "It's better to humiliate your money than to humiliate yourself."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:35 PM
49

We need this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:24 PM
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That is actually a good idea. Not only when it comes to sex, but just provoke him in general. Make him super angry and see how he reacts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:02 PM
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Ah, you're right! I apologize. I guess because I'm surrounded by women who raise their boys to look at girls as inferior that I totally forgot about other factors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:59 PM
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I'm on the asexual spectrum (I don't feel the need to have sex with someone and was never attracted sexually to anyone). But if I ever decide to date or enter a relationship, it's going to be with an asexual man. They're rare, though :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:55 PM
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Imagine marrying someone and loving them with your whole being and then you end up with a terminal illness and that "human" man ends up cheating on you or divorcing you because he can't fuck you no more and is now stressed and overwhelmed because he's now doing all the caregiving and housework and childcare. Raise your sons better, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:33 PM
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As 👏 long 👏 as 👏 I 👏 am 👏 getting 👏 paid 👏 less 👏 I'm 👏 not 👏 paying 👏 for 👏 shit If I'm going to pay for my engagement ring, I'd rather be engaged to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:36 PM
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I wish you a very fruitful and fulfilling healing process 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:26 PM
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I totally agree - there's nothing wrong about giving up in this context. It just means you're tired of experiencing grief, neglect, and abuse. Let's raise our standards today so that the next generation of women will have high quality men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:37 PM
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I feel the same way. I used to say that there HAS to be good men out there because my dad exists. Now that I look at the guys my age, it feels like my dad is a unicorn. I've never met a guy that was sincere and loving. They all have some ulterior motive and I'm just sick of it. It's a good thing that I've never experienced anything romantic or sexual - so what I don't know, I won't miss. I can honestly say I can survive without a partner. I hope everyone on here finds their partner within themse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:24 PM
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When men say, "Women talk too much," they're projecting. When men say, "Women are lousy drivers," they're projecting. When men say, "Women are too emotional and don't use logic," they're projecting. Pay attention to what men say - they're usually projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:28 PM
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I wish there was a way we can classify some kinks as literal mental illnesses. That'd be an insult to actual mental illnesses, though. I can never understand how some people's kinks involve hurting the person they are supposed to love and cherish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:25 PM
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I'm avoidant as well and I absolutely love it. It saves me a lot of trouble when it comes to relationships, whether it's with men or women. Men absolutely HATE self-reliant women, and my avoidant personality acts as a filter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:55 PM
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Okay, but what if he says he's looking for an actual relationship? 😭 "You passed the test."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:49 PM
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Why and when did we make it acceptable for men to message us like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:36 PM
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I was talking to a guy through email and he ended his email with "let's wrap this up" because he wants to play online chess 🤡 He's going to get wrapped in bandages if I ever see him in real life 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:38 PM
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I'd have to keep that in mind 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:43 PM
15

Any guy who has a picture of him posing with a car or showing off his material possessions in any form is an immediate turn off for me. I'm NOT impressed because that's a direct link to the "need to be seen". So yes, I love humble men. Humility doesn't mean having money and never purchasing finer things - it means neither boasting nor gloating about what you possess because these things could easily be taken away from you. Humility + Generosity = Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:09 PM
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The banana lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:08 PM
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Okay, but serious question. Should I believe it when a man says he has no social media? No Facebook, no Instagram, just nothing. It just seems fishy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:41 AM
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Therefore, we can conclude that mental health isn't the problem - it's men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:39 AM
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I have ADHD and you described me. I was an infectious positive energy, understanding, validating, and loving. I used to get interested in whatever they say because I hate it when people ridicule others for their interests or are cold in a conversation. However, they got tired of me pretty quickly and barely kept the conversation going. I dropped them after that. That cycle happened 4 times until I realized that they never deserved my energy. Now, I'm detached when talking to men. You want my ene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:59 PM
77

Instead of "ratemyprofessor" we need "ratemyman".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:02 PM
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I'm an Arab woman from the MENA region living in the MENA region, and trust me when I tell you this is how ALL these MENA men act. They try to get into the pants of every woman they see, but demand a "pure" woman who hasn't even seen a man when he decides he wants to marry. MENA men ditch their girlfriends when they bring up marriage because, "Why would I marry a girl who talked to me outside of marriage? Who knows how many men you've been with doing the same thing." If his wife gets sick and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:47 PM
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I'm telling you - men didn't bring any attention to men's mental health until we brought attention to that of women's. Kind of like they do with rape victims. Also: Men are usually the cause of women's decline in mental health. Women bear the brunt of the wars men wage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:36 PM
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I once bought myself a rose for Valentine's. Maybe this year I'll buy a bouquet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:33 PM
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