I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmao

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Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-02-06T23:30:36+00:00

Looool line up ladies 🙄

anononymous11 · 2021-02-07T00:17:37+00:00

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RiasXgremoryX · 2021-02-06T23:53:20+00:00

These guys are WAAAAY off the mark of what a HVM really is. Having a six figure income/no debt/no kids etc. does NOT make you "high value" or otherwise, all they do is project what they think a good/HV man is to women.

EveSerpent · 2021-02-07T00:31:36+00:00

"I have a 6 figure salary". Makes no difference when your idea of a date is a walk in the park and a 50/50 split on dinner.

dzgata · 2021-02-06T23:36:12+00:00

Why do they think HVM means a man with a 6 figure salary? These dudes are so lost. Dude already has hopeless written across his forehead based on this lovely post.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2021-02-07T00:35:37+00:00

I’m entering that six figure phase too - how do I protect myself from not only gold diggers but also those who want a personal chef & maid instead of life partner?

Averyhvw · 2021-02-06T23:32:19+00:00

Lmao why do they expect to get chased 🤣

Jinxhourglass · 2021-02-07T00:13:54+00:00

This is what happens when men just listen to just anyone on the internet lmao. I wouldn't be surprised if he's watching the “dating coach” that sounds like a hoarse preacher and tells men they're HVM if they have these traits.

6 figures, depending on how much it is, isn't enough to provide for a “gold digger” these days in any major city. Maybe 100k could make someone feel like a high roller if they live in Oklahoma/any low cost of living area.

The bar for what men think a gold digger is today is so low. If you want someone to buy you a 4 for 4 from Wendy’s during a parking lot date, if you want someone to buy you a $3 cake pop at a Starbucks date, or even if you want someone to have a bed frame you're a gold digger.

chateauduchat · 2021-02-07T01:24:02+00:00

Bruh 6 figure salary don’t matter shit to us women if you’re not generous. Less financially thriving men can be HVM and more generous then multimillionaire penny pinchers.

millennialpink2000 · 2021-02-06T23:33:41+00:00

Oh don't worry Kyle, the word HOPELESS certainly appears above your head...

DaughteroftheDawn · 2021-02-07T02:32:08+00:00

Gold diggers dig for gold. Not for men who make 5-figures after taxes.

OkConfusion3307 · 2021-02-07T00:53:49+00:00

And when this douchecanoe tricks some poor woman into being his bangmaid for the next 10 years, pops out a few kids, then repeatedly cheats on her, he is going to be back whining about how he TRIED to prevent this but now this GOLD DIGGING whore is taking half is money in a divorce 🙄😒🙄

helppleasekk · 2021-02-07T00:52:23+00:00

"They think we're clueless"

Yall are clueless, but not in the way you think.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2021-02-07T01:16:56+00:00

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FabledAngryVillager · 2021-02-06T23:52:33+00:00

So, stay single until you find someone with low self-esteem?

londochig · 2021-02-06T23:36:00+00:00

LMAO 🤣😆 Six figure income? Sir, where is the gold to dig?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Why are poor/ middle class men always worried about gold diggers???

level_up_always · 2021-02-07T00:12:29+00:00

lol @ six figures 😂

also this might work except for the fact that men love showing off at every chance they get

seraphinelysion · 2021-02-07T01:09:16+00:00

Co-opting a term they don't even know the definition of. The logical gender, everyone.

superbechidna · 2021-02-07T01:54:09+00:00

I bet he’s not going to change a thing. Guys like this can’t handle downplaying their salary because that’s literally all they have going for them. He’s giddily posting about gold diggers when he’s on the verge of crossing 100k, so you know he doesn’t have much in way of looks, personality, or assets because he’d brag about those too.

LevelTurbulent · 2021-02-07T00:53:12+00:00

Oh, he's so goddamn stupid. He thinks HVM is about income. Guaranteed he's a no value dirtbag no matter how much money he makes.

2021-02-07T00:12:20+00:00

So in theory LVM basically view HVM as a sort of barrier to assume every woman is a gold digger or wannabe prostitute? They view it as some kind of free pass

Platipus6 · 2021-02-07T01:44:21+00:00

"I made it, I got a JOB" 😂

wedonthavetobeishtar · 2021-02-07T01:20:54+00:00

Omg, I thought this was satire.

2021-02-07T00:33:31+00:00

This is so pathetic. Enjoy your gold coins, Scrooge. You really showed us!

Mimosa_usagi · 2021-02-07T01:25:02+00:00

The fact that he's this paranoid means that he's not as HV as he thinks. What a HVM would do is look for a woman who is on his level and whom he is really in love with.

devoushka · 2021-02-07T01:59:06+00:00

I wonder how they act when confronted with a woman who makes more than them. Do their brains explode?

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-02-07T05:07:02+00:00

It is comical that they always think being rich equals being a HVM 😂

Just from that concern he is clearly not one.

The only HVM I know who has talked about "gold-diggers" (we were talking about actual escorts) labelled them as "misguided ladies" and that the Johns knew what they were getting into. At best he thought that men who do shit like this were "stupid" for being swayed by their dick to that extent. At worst they were sleazy, rapey men.

Unless this guy is planning on visiting an escort website, he should have no concerns about "gold-diggers".

darkshadows2021 · 2021-02-07T00:05:04+00:00

No one that is high value actually plays games.

pikkpie · 2021-02-07T03:11:43+00:00

.... what? They don't realize do they? In fds, women are encouraged to look for hvm who is a good person, respects women, not a fuckboy ,is passionate about career and will know thier partner's worth and respect them as such. Men of these times don't do that. We like a stable guy who has his finances under control. Women have different standards for income because we advice high earning women to never settle but we never encourage women to go only after rich dudes. They can (and a lot of them are) be lvm as well. We don't like playing mind games or therapist. Wtf guys really are clueless.

Madholley · 2021-02-07T04:16:33+00:00

I think his question tells us the problem, though. He is clearly interested in trolling young women and flaunting his “wealth” to get sex. Which is why he needs to “protect” that asset from the women he will be baiting with it. He most definitely will not be taking the advice- which would net him an insecure pickme, but unlikely a supermodel (which he feels he deserves by his great virtues listed like....being single? Not having children?) Both of these dudes are clearly not interested in confident, successful, intelligent partners.

Jiou112 · 2021-02-07T06:20:32+00:00

Act broke and stupid... how is that any different than before?

Tequila_Fridaze · 2021-02-07T04:12:03+00:00

Sigh... you can’t turn a fuckboi into a husband.

Useful-Lion · 2021-02-07T06:57:45+00:00

Don’t worry dude I can tell by the four sentences that you’re insufferable.

thowawaywookie · 2021-02-07T09:54:42+00:00

I'm sure hoards of women are just randomly approaching them.

Dude doesn't realise the cashier saying hello, to him isn't hitting on him. 🤣🤡

favoritesound · 2021-02-07T06:11:14+00:00

Oh, good. If the idiocy is genetic, maybe this particular lineage of misfortune will end here.

2021-02-07T03:33:34+00:00

This is a gay man in their subreddit trying to stay in the closet by finding men to bond with through misogyny. The last thing a dude with that situation looks for is discouragement from chasing women.

ChocoBananza · 2021-02-07T07:41:36+00:00

Ladies, form an orderly line to the left. No cutsies!

EarthKveik · 2021-02-07T11:03:52+00:00

He wants to be chased so bad! Fucking hell, he's not even got the income yet and he's out there loudly worrying about the hordes of "gold diggers" who will surely be after him and his comfortable middle class income!

That's assuming he can actually manage his money, he could be earning 6 figures and still be getting himself into debt, especially if he's trying to pretend he's rich.

sugaredberry · 2021-02-07T06:17:11+00:00

“When a woman approaches” what ? The man speaks to the woman. Therefore, (Trump style) WRONG. Wrong. Wrong. These pieces of crap are such projectors, “information collecting” is what narcissistic abusers like them do.

perkypancakes · 2021-02-07T05:56:15+00:00

Lol. They always fail to see HVM refers to their moral character and sincerity in treating other humans all that other stuff is a plus. To save time they could condense faking all that into just saying they’re gay.

Villanelloh · 2021-02-07T10:53:44+00:00

A man with a 6 figure salary who makes women pay for dates so he can weed out gold diggers, what a catch /s

wonkyeyes8877 · 2021-02-07T09:10:04+00:00

Money, no debt, no kids, and being single doesn't make you HV. He is very much a LVM since he's so concerned about women using him.

The way they treat us is the most important factor in determining whether or not they're HV. Why don't they fucking get that???!!!!!

yeahhh22 · 2021-02-07T07:45:56+00:00

Also he will pursue the fuck out of a woman (women), she will finally agree to date him, then she will suddenly be a gold digger. Men forget that they pursued us half the time.

2021-02-07T11:04:30+00:00

A NVM calling himself a HVM is the same as a asshole calling himself he's a nice guy.

Spiritual_Face · 2021-02-07T03:28:44+00:00

“no food stamps”

ummmm what?

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-07T06:28:20+00:00

Oh yes it just takes money. That’s all you need guys. /s Fools all of them

flowers4u · 2021-02-07T09:24:51+00:00

A HVM would never call himself and HVM

TheSuspiciousChard · 2021-02-07T11:56:44+00:00

Sounds more PUA than HVM. I already make 6 figures Mr limpdick, and I am not interested in someone that “will soon” make that money calling women gold diggers and looking up PUA advice. Go fuck your self. Literally.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-02-07T12:43:42+00:00

holy fuck that is some moronic shit right there. How to get a woman: Step 1. make millions Step 2. pretend to be a hobo Step 3. ??? Is the top comment a joke? a genius prank?

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-02-07T17:32:20+00:00

🤡: Always dress down so she can’t figure out you’re living the sweet life with your perfectly average middle class salary! No fancy outfits from the Gap! Old Navy all the way! Nike?!? Dont even think of showboating like that! Avia from now on!

lollykpops · 2021-02-07T11:40:46+00:00

Money first is such a male centric world view lmao, I love how the definition of HVM here is what a MAN would look for, not us.

They keep calling us golddiggers but have the Gaul to pretend to be experts on FDS without even clicking on the about tab, never mind reading the handbook.

VanessaViews · 2021-02-07T16:53:54+00:00

Honestly he should just be himself. That alone will keep women away. Six figures is just middle class in the area I live.

_nylea · 2021-02-07T14:39:52+00:00

Well this advice will definitely protect him from getting any woman’s attention, period! I guess that would solve his “problem”. 😊

randomgirlimok · 2021-02-07T16:01:36+00:00

My ex husband had all this, but blew all of his money on stupid crap and a porn addiction. Money alone does not make you a HVM

IAteTheDragon · 2021-02-07T15:32:19+00:00

They don't know shit and that's even better.

terrn1981 · 2021-02-08T01:17:05+00:00

Nope. Not High value. I wish all that was expected of women in a relationship was to make money. Pretty easy when your only responsibility is going to work.

HeavyMetalLobster · 2021-02-08T13:43:38+00:00

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The blind leading the blind

Title	I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmao
Author	nebsemi
Upvotes	569
Comments	132
Date	February 6, 2021 11:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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