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23

I feel this too. I was raised in a strange, emotionally distant relationship with my mother and it really put me off to seeking relationships with women which I now regret because I see that women are so kind and considerate of others. She was misogynistic and she ended up having six children because she kept having girls and she really wanted boys. My strained relationship with my mother and her overbearing yet almost competitive ways made it difficult with me to feel connected to women through…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:58 AM
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Emotional reactivity and lack of self control/awareness. If people are always lying to you then what environment are you creating that leads to it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:41 PM
70

If you aren’t married then you’re single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:05 AM
86

Makes absolutely no sense how men claim they are visual creatures when most have the aesthetic of a swamp rat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:20 AM
59

Marvin’s room by Drake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:37 AM
223

Burn it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:35 AM
28

When a scrote lacks personality they rely on their default of “being a man”, which usually isn’t more developed than keeping women beneath them, to fill that void. The fact that you charmed an entire room with your humor highlighted his inadequacies(to him) and he lashed out like a no-value person would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:34 AM
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Yeah the whole collective brainwashing that women should settle for negative quality men has really brought our society down as a whole. I see so many men out there that have no ambition or drive to bring anything to benefit society or others. They just want to work go home and have everything else done for them. The amount of dude’s who can’t keep up their home, clean or cook for themselves is appalling and they all expect women to be delighted in doing it for them. We can’t expect a garden to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:37 PM
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A patriarchal based society doesn’t view women as individual humans but as accessories to cater to the male population. The overall subconscious belief is the default manufacturing of society is male and deviation from that is both abnormal, wrong, and a hassle not worth pursuing. Yes, we have more access to choose than ever before, but it is still common to shun and shame those who dare stray from doing what society expects. Women are not valued for being individuals but for their impact/benefi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:22 PM
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They romanticize and confuse sexual abuse for sexual passion. The sad part is that women shamed for having vanilla standards won’t suddenly be respected or liked more because they give in to any of these demands by men. In fact, they are likely to lose all respect and attraction for the woman, but guys dangling the respect carrots are all too common in the dating world of today. Keep your standards high and always make sure they fit your wants/needs first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:35 PM
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You are only seen as high maintenance to those who are low effort/value. Any decent man would attempt to move heaven and earth to please the woman he values/loves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:11 AM
12

Add to that a lack of sleep directly affects your immune system. Tired and sick is how predators can condition their victims to receive and accept this behavior. When I was with my lvm ex I was always tired, sick, depressed and developed social anxiety. As soon as I left him all those issues started to clear up as I was able to care for myself again. Looking back on the relationship I was spreading myself so thin and he never cared enough to help me. In fact, he piled on his own burdens being th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:43 PM
5

Those weren’t friends they were predatory opportunists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:14 PM
9

Exactly. Why keep up when you can easily pass him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:01 PM
46

This. I was going to say that they were likely to have similar views to the shooter on women being in the classroom because nobody is going to let someone harm their friends or people they care about willingly. Had one of the men fought back I’m sure the rest would have jumped in, but their cowardice traumatized them because they knew that they stood by when action was needed to save lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:02 PM
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They are raised to never grow up, and yet instead of taking that difficult journey on their own they attach themselves to women that they can blame for their shortcomings. Women are not given this benefit of the doubt in society and if they don’t grow up they are shamed for not taking care of... or blamed for putting themselves in that situation regardless of circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:56 PM
1

He was happy he didn’t have to pay for an expensive meal not because it looked like he paid. Delusional!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:08 PM
14

Very few men fit into the category that the #notallmen deflectors are describing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:05 PM
24

Yes, as someone who has worked multiple cleaning jobs. Humans all have the potential to be disgusting, but it definitely varies from sector to sector.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:44 PM
9

I’m so sorry. My reaction would probably be to bear spray the hell out of a dude if he started chasing me down. Not that you should have to do that just to enjoy nature. How out of control do you have to be with your emotions to have this reaction to geese? And a person telling you to stop/chill out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:30 AM
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If they’re offended by the behavior being called out most likely they know that they are guilty of thinking it or know friends that do it and say nothing to stop this type of behavior/thinking against women. It’s literally the biggest deflection of guilt and blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:16 AM
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If it bothers them to be categorized as potential predators to women they have the option to hold their male peers accountable and speak out against abusers and rapists, but they don’t want to call out their buddies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:10 PM
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I mean if she’s happy don’t think she would need this long list of convincing arguments. Personally, I don’t like when people post stuff like this about their relationship on social media to me it comes off as bragging or attention seeking, but I digress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:07 PM
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So many bloodlines have carried on simply because the forced patriarchal standards on women. Modern women now have the choice to be independent cut off those men who would have had a young bride locked down early. The women’s rights and feminist movements have given us the freedom to not seek out or settle for marriage with lowly scrotes. We still have a long way to go to achieve true equality and equity in society. The backlash against those movements makes sense as many men would be left behin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:57 AM
6

Women create and give life meaning. This is our super power: flex it when needed and guard it from those who try to leech off of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:24 AM
15

I also have started to do this. I use a calming scented body oil and sleep like a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:27 AM
48

Okay, crusty booty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:18 PM
12

Completely detached from their own humanity and using it as an excuse to treat everything in life as disposable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:12 PM
12

She’s trying to build a man from a boy who refuses to leave neverland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:00 AM
5

In my experience they are worse than physically attractive guys. It’s like they already feel miserable about their lack of good looks, personality, or morals, but since you an attractive female dated them their head inflates and they think they are God’s gift to women. Like what!? Fuck that!! I will never absolutely ever again go on a pity date or have pity sex with someone I am not attracted to in some way. Either I win or I learn and I already learned my worth and happiness rely on me to keep …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:50 AM
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He’s mad she bought herself flowers because he knows he should have bought them and since he didn’t he feels like an ass. Yet instead of doing better he chooses to degrade her actions to bring her down to his level of misery. So tragic that weak ass dude’s like this get married and ruin their relationship and wife’s self esteem. If he don’t build you up he will tear whatever you have down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:05 PM
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Motto for life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:53 PM
4

Geez! Not even a potted plant scrote McScrooge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:37 PM
1

Spoken like a true undatable loser trying to make himself feel better about never knowing how to love another human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:31 PM
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Yup! There is absolutely no reason to stay with an unsupportive spouse in any aspect of life. None.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:26 PM
4

Oedipus complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:25 PM
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My ex was the same way: a horse that wanted to be led to water and refused to drink unless someone walked him step by step or did all the work for him. I had to block him after the breakup because he would still try to get my assistance with computers or financial advice. Like dude you sound so dumb, grow up and leave me alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:22 PM
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I used to get so annoyed with my ex for forgetting any birthdays of family...his family! He still lived with them. Like how did you not buy your mom anything? He never forgot his ex gfs birthdays though always called them religiously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:14 PM
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🤦‍♀️ And we’re supposedly the codependent sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:07 PM
3

Vetting is important in all your relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:00 PM
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Thank you. I am definitely going to check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:03 PM
15

And guys still have the audacity to call us gold diggers, but do shit like this. Literal leeches on women’s successes because they never choose to develop their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:10 PM
21

Yes. I live on a busy street and accidents happen constantly just thinking about the sounds they make makes me cringe and my stomach drops to the floor. This guy is a straight up coward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:38 PM
18

“You just did, now goodbye”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:14 PM
11

Perfect analogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:17 PM
10

And they have the audacity to label women as gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:04 AM
6

I feel this so deeply, spent a decade letting my ex drain my time and I will never again let my time be wasted by low effort people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:55 AM
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Yep. These are dude that spent too much time glued to television and social media instead of reading, learning and experiencing about life. It warped their mind past the point of self introspection and growth so they got stuck with a false sense of value on money and fame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:09 AM
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No matter what they call themselves their insecurity shines bright like a beacon in the night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:03 AM
11

Lol. They always fail to see HVM refers to their moral character and sincerity in treating other humans all that other stuff is a plus. To save time they could condense faking all that into just saying they’re gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:56 AM
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Ugh! If this isn’t the truest truth. Sadly, it usually comes when the woman is so deep into the relationship she lost her identity and only focuses on us, our, ours to justify her sacrifices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:56 PM
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Her: It’s ugly trash, but it’s half mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:48 PM
16

Probably wants her to pay half so he can buy himself the PS5. The narrative of relationships really needs to shift to giving men absolutely nothing until they prove they are marriage material, but sis this is not it. Men cannot value what they do not have to fight tooth and nail for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:47 PM
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Welcome home. Glad you are here sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:39 PM
11

Exactly! I still occasionally cringe at my old self celebrating and doing all this extra stuff for the most unappreciative men in my past. One the bright side, I now do all that stuff for myself and I have never been happier! Life is way too short to be around people who don’t get excited at all your accomplishments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:26 PM
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Woke LVM = living like they just came out of mom’s vagina. I can’t with these grown ass men acting like they can’t do anything a responsible adult should do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:20 PM
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Moral of the story: If a man doesn’t love you more than life itself he will leave at the slightest bit of turmoil upsetting his comfortable existence and even then that’s if he has the good moral standards for humanity in general. So glad I finally found my peace being single and not rushing to settle with anyone. Keep your standards high ladies or it literally could be the death of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:14 PM
5

He was mad his house of lies started to fall apart when she told the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:25 AM
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Yeah this is basically entry level baiting young girls into sex prostitution rings. I personally never heard of that site, but now I know to tell my nieces and nephews to steer clear away from that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:01 AM
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Exactly they’ve already shown they have very low standards of character by not using full effort to either get to know you or end the communication. They really don’t care about your opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:47 AM
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My ex had the exact same mentality. It was so heavy for me to bear every single emotion he wanted to dump on me. They want the support systems women have to work tirelessly at building, but aren’t brave enough to be vulnerable with feelings. To them Feelings = women’s duty. Like okay robot I have my own shit to deal with, you have to emotionally mature like the rest of us by putting effort into caring about things outside yourself and your penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:36 PM
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You can totally believe all people are worthy of trust, forgiveness, and empathy, but still live a life with boundaries while practicing your religion. Being a doormat for abuse or mistreatment doesn’t help spread the word of God or the positive aspect of religion. I myself am not a religious person, but I am spiritual and I have looked into a few of the core aspects of many religions that I want to incorporate into my life in some way. IMO religion can be a beneficial way to view life, but too …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:46 AM
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Maybe she trying to downplay the seriousness of his addiction because he’s not willing to seek help or change. Either way it’s gross that she’s enabling her husband’s addiction and telling a person struggling with recovery it’s not really that bad. Having an addiction to something is never good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:21 AM
17

Maybe you just aren’t compatible with a turd for a human? Nope according to these articles you have to change into a toilet to gain his momentary attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:08 AM
10

Yuck! And they don’t wash their hands after touching their penis which is housed in the same area as this nasty poop stain trend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:04 AM
2

Reminds me of a break up song by Rilo Kiley “And I was your silver lining As the story goes I was your silver lining But now I’m gold”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:55 AM
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I saw her post on FB and while many support her. Some of the most awful comments on there from both men and women made me want to simultaneously cry and vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:41 AM
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So the gist is pretend to be someone you aren’t to trick women into dating you. So much effort that could be used to become a better person and instead they use it to build up this false persona. Is it really that difficult to be a real human being with empathy and an ability to care?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:38 PM
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For a second, I thought I was on a different sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:47 AM
2

From what I’ve seen it’s likely they had too many DUIs or wrecks. Irresponsible trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:18 AM
1

Good for you! It’s very easy to get caught up and start overthinking things, but try to look at your situation objectively. You dated for 9 months when you were a teen. It wasn’t that great of a relationship. It’s been 4 years & he reached out a few days before a major holiday to subtly gauge how quickly he can get you to open up. You’re feeling like crap about him because your instinct that he’s mindfucking you is spot on, but you still tried to be friendly enough. Like you said he doesn’t dese…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:14 PM
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People just love outing their pathetic selves on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:55 PM
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If someone’s presence in your life leaves you with more questions than answers it’s best to Cut them out and don’t stress over any of it. Sadly some people really do come back just because they want to see what they can get and have nothing to offer you. Don’t give them access to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:44 PM
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Wow. This kid’s parents really dropped the ball on demonstrating and talking to their son on personal responsibility in relationships. Sadly, he will probably end up being more abusive in relationships if he doesn’t learn self introspection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:31 PM
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When you are ready don’t announce your departure, just go. If you announce that you are leaving it will give him an opportunity to give you hope and try to convince you to stay. Do not fall for the bait. He’s shown you what you mean to him with his past actions. I wasted too many years on an ex who did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:48 AM
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This makes me so angry for her because I’ve been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:14 AM
2

I’m in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:11 AM
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I totally feel you on this. It’s very heartbreaking to see women in your life who can’t see their value and are jumping in to a relationship with someone who is a giant red flag. It’s like sis slow down if he’s the right one he will make sure to take his time and secure the future for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:09 AM
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Right! It’s like all of society generally coddles men and they get to have choices, but women should accept whatever crumbs are left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:01 AM
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I know it’s a terrible climate and I know that there are good partners out there, but I am certainly not holding my breath or sacrificing my happiness looking for one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:07 AM
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I legit have had male friends who think all they need to bring to the table is their ability to pay bills and they expect their partner to be responsible for everything else: be emotionally open, cook, clean, decorate, raise kids, plan and setup important accounts and such. I always explain that “earning money is the minimum amount of effort to survive and you think that’s going to attract a good women and convince her to do all the heavy parts of a relationship alone? No wonder you are single d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:09 PM
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I feel like the men who say this about their partner have no clue how to be in a healthy relationship and they expect the woman to deal with everything that relates to emotions while they check out. They also don’t care enough about their partner and her interests to even bother getting to know her beyond the face value of a relationship. Stay in enough relationships like this and women start to resent men for not emotionally giving what women do and it becomes a difficult cycle to break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:19 PM
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Exactly this is better than the rat nest caves I’ve seen some dudes live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:12 AM
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Sex talk?!? What! They barely met and he didn’t even take her on a date, but he’s ready to state what he wants sexually. Of course this grown ass woman noped out of there she isn’t wasting time on a 40 yr old who clearly defines “sex early in the relationship” as a 3hr chat in the park. So mature of him. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:51 PM
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Some of the guys on Reddit are delirious with their opinionated victimization of men. I read so many opinions of how men have it so hard in society. Can men be victims? Of course, but statistically it’s more likely that a woman will be victimized and by a man because of misogynistic male culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:37 PM
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I agree it’s icky, but hopefully the underlying message of leaving or stopping it before it gets to that point becomes more of a norm for woman in the future. The cycle of woman being abused is not something that needs to be passed down to the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:50 AM
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You are talented at this. It’s adorable and tasty looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:56 PM
72

Just keep swimming..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:08 PM
18

Wow! That’s embarrassing they really have no shame in leeching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:40 AM
19

“Not interested I have friends to take a walk or go to a drive in with”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:24 PM
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Ironically the men harassing and threatening women on this page are violent misogynists though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:29 PM
5

I like this idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:56 AM
38

That red pill mentality is just extreme insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:33 AM
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I was in your shoes 3 years ago and it only gets better from here. It takes time to reintroduce yourself to the goddess you’ve been all along. Happy healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:17 AM
2

They’ll never admit they do this because that will solidify they are the problem and they don’t want to change their behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:33 AM
5

I can feel the pain and insecurity of this dude’s ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:45 PM
48

So he believes going to work and doing a few weekly chores is equivalent to working and doing daily chores while being pregnant. Wow this is just bare minimum effort and I hope the comments tore into his false sense of duty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:15 PM
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I think I’m at a similar stage in my life and I’m just going to focus on being the best person I can be for myself. A relationship sounds awful and exhausting right now, but I’m hoping someday I will find joy in entertaining one again with the right type of person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:07 AM
2

Ah, the fake vulnerability pity ploy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:20 PM
12

“I said I’m not in the mood!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:16 PM
33

OMG! My ex did the exact same shit with his buddies. Funny thing when they actually met me they realized how full of it he was because they thought I was cooler than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:30 PM
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Ladies, we have to help each other raise the bar for men. I’m so glad I found this thread full of strong, capable women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:16 AM
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My ex used to say this kind of stuff all the time and at the time I didn’t realize he was baiting me for building his self esteem and his shitty behaviors. I’m so happy I’m single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:47 PM
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This makes so much sense of why there are so many LVMs around. They are not raised by the same standards as women and women are raised to accept this. We have to hold them by the same standards so they learn to take care of us also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:33 AM
2

Exactly, I am not leftovers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:20 PM
19

Sadly, I am laughing at this from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 09:43 PM
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This just speaks volumes about how men think of women and how lazy they are willing to be honest about their own behavior. “ I gave up on myself for 10 years and now I am wanting a quality woman with her life together to settle for wasting her good life on fixing mine”. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:05 PM
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