londochig Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2066	Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over you	STRATEGY	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 04:53 PM
1583	The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.	MINDSET SHIFT	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 02:46 AM
1418	I can't get over how society shames women for expecting men to pay for dates but they never shame men for using women for sex.	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 05:48 PM
1231	Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheating	STAY WOKE	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 07:11 PM
1014	Women are always held to a morally higher standard than men. Men can coerce women into sex by paying for dates or even guilt trip them on 50/50 dates but God forbid women "use" men for a free meal	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 11:00 PM
875	FDS Works. It's best just to ghost men with no explanation when they do something shitty particularly in the early stages of dating. See link for why.		londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 10:24 PM
616	Globally, most cultures, books, movies, media, the internet etc portray attractive women or women in general as bitchy, manipulative etc. The whole mean girl trope is so false in reality. In fact in real it it men who are manipulative, liars backstabbing, bloodthirsty, murderous & many worse things	DISCUSSION	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 05:16 PM
611	Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men.	SHOWER THOUGHT	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 05:38 AM
549	HV Traits I've Observed in men I know - basically a few real life illustrations of why you shouldn't settle.	GREEN FLAG 🟢	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/22 03:16 AM
535	Most Pickmeishas will tolerate massive amounts of disrespect from NVM but won't tolerate that same disrespect from family and friends	DISCUSSION	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 02:50 AM
530	Flip the script	MINDSET SHIFT	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 01:49 AM
430	Was wondering if any FDS ladies on here have lost interest in dating after finding a job with a healthy environment and/ making more money?	LEVEL UP	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 05:48 AM
410	Always ask for a police escort or trusted male friends/relative to be present when collecting your belongings before/after a breakup	DISCUSSION	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 02:52 AM
403	Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?	DISCUSSION	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 05:09 PM
367	Here's some love and encouragement for women leaving or thinking about leaving their LVMs	LEVEL UP	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 07:03 AM
339	Be weary of calculated kindness in men and vet carefully even if he seems to have great social skills, particularly in Group settings	STRATEGY	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/22 06:02 AM
328	I don't know who needs to hear this today but I certainly did. Wasn't feeling very good when I woke up. But this has already made my day a little better. Posting this message with lots of love to all of my FDS sisters ❤️	WHOLESOME CONTENT	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 12:03 PM
288	Misogyny can be a powerful indicator of narcissism in men.	RED FLAG 🚨	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 01:35 PM
242	How have your female friends and family members reacted to FDS when you introduced it to them? What are the ones who rejected FDS doing with their lives now?	DISCUSSION	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 01:27 AM
236	Don't take him back this is your sign today. Kick him out 2021	#KickHimOut2020	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 05:56 PM
192	First dates, vetting tips, precautions, safety.	DISCUSSION	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 01:56 AM
126	"Act" being the operative word here. Anyone had this happen to them lately?	#JustLVMThings	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 01:40 PM
111	Need some support and encouragement. Just left an emotionally abusive and psychologically traumatizing relationship.	MALE DEPRAVITY	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 07:41 AM
84	How to stop writing paragraphs to men.		londochig	/r/askFDS	14/01/21 10:43 PM
81	Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?	SEEKING ADVICE	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 01:43 AM
78	LVM "friend" who I'm platonic with hmu for a quick bang after he broke things off with his perpetually on & off again gf. Needless to say, they're back together 🙄 thanks to this community, I've learnt that men are not your friends. You're just a sex toy that also gives them free therapy.	LESSON LEARNED	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 04:44 AM
35	Is it just me or do all your pickme libfem friends also just CHOOSE to have no ambition and low paying jobs?	RANT	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/22 03:12 PM
27	Leaving toxic relationships - Approved commenter https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ktdcm5/leaving_toxic_relationships/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share		londochig	/r/askFDS	09/01/21 04:52 AM
22	"Giving hope is manipulation." Men KNOW EXACTLY what they're doing. Women are socially conditioned and gaslit into enabling them instead of leaving. He knows sis. He knows. He's just manipulating you.	MALE DEPRAVITY	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 02:36 AM
1	Joining the FDS community helped me realise male "friends" are usually just emotional parasites that also just want a sex toy. A male friend that I was platonic with hmu for a quick bang after he was on a break/broke up with his perpetually on & off again gf. Needless to say, they're back together.	LESSON LEARNED	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 04:34 AM
1	Leaving toxic relationships	DISCUSSION	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 10:22 PM
1	Didn't explain myself to a scrote.	Story time ☕	londochig	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 01:49 PM