Hello ladies, some guy from my past keeps on trying to contact me.

I met him on through this app. I was in my pickmeisha phase at the time. I was depressed. I went on apps craving for the love and affection that I didn’t get from my father. I didn’t know anything about the nature of men. And I ended giving him my number and sending him nudes.

(I know, I regret doing it so much but I didn’t know any better. I was only 15 and I thought that doing these things would keep a man.)

I eventually broke things off with him because he was stringing me along. He didn’t want a relationship with me.

I blocked him and moved on. All of a sudden a year later he messaged me telling me how “I’m the best girl he’s ever met.”

I blocked him. He contacts me again through a different number months later.

And today he contacted me again.

Why he can’t just leave me alone. I’m extremely worried. Now that I’m getting older, I don’t want guys from my past to keep on popping up. I don’t want them to ruin my reputation. It’s scary seeing ladies getting fired because of their past.

This is so stressful. Why do guys do this?