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Field Reportnewmood/r/seduction03/06/15 08:15 PM
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Field Reportnewmood/r/seduction03/06/15 11:30 AM
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Field Reportnewmood/r/seduction02/06/15 08:57 AM
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newmood/r/seduction20/08/15 05:24 PM
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Not sure if trolling but just in case not: Step one, forget about all these questions. Step two talk to a guy. Step three, if you hit it off -> number close him. Step four and final step: ask him to join you for whatever.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:39 AM
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OP said she stopped having sex with him for the past few months while he had fucked the other girl for two years.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:14 AM
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dg
/r/askTRP13/11/16 12:58 PM
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Be physical, be smooth af, assume attraction
/r/seduction20/08/15 09:07 PM
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Yea and having sex with them immediately is still the best way to girl-friend them anyway so.
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:29 AM
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To me it sounds like you don't want a girlfriend. So what's the problem? Go out, fuck multiple girls. Enjoy yourself instead of being poison dripped into becoming a fat lazy loser.
/r/seduction18/08/15 07:54 AM
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Well, what you do is what we all do: go out every day, all the time and talk to everyone. It's really not any harder or easier than that. There are no excuses. There are no silver bullets. There are no fucking magical pills that once you swallow you instantly start pulling. There is only elbows in the goddamn mud. Crawl like the rest of us. Tinder fucked up the dating scene? Deal with it. Game is a skill. You get better at a skill by practicing. Unfair? Then quit. The rest of us will thank you f…
/r/seduction18/08/15 07:50 AM
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Why are you trying to impress the girls? They should be trying to impress you. You are a man on your path. You are secure within yourself. You are okay with being bald. It does not bother you. You do not go out to chase girls, you go out to have fun and because your life is awesome and you're having so much fun the girls that you approach end up chasing your validation. You love your bald head. You can't believe why everyone is not bald. It's so awesome, why the fuck doesn't everyone shave their…
/r/seduction18/08/15 07:40 AM
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Being comfortable being himself in any situation with anyone.
/r/seduction13/08/15 10:59 AM
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YES! Way to go man, keep going!
/r/seduction13/08/15 09:30 AM
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It shows her that you don't have the balls to come talk to her thus sets up a wrong frame right from the start, you don't want that.
/r/seduction13/08/15 09:23 AM
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Give her a note? You're like 20 right? Just talk to her man. There's no need to overthink this shit.
/r/seduction13/08/15 09:04 AM
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we make out for a better part of an hour and a half What the actual fuck? Okay okay, goddamnit dude. Here's what went wrong: You paid for everything You didn't escalate further Let her chase you now, if she doesn't, fucking NEXT. If she does, FUCK HER the third time you see her.
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:57 AM
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"How old are you?" seems to work.
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:53 AM
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Just keep doing it and it will get easier. Do you go out sober? How much "research" have you done on this subject?
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:36 AM
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What do you mean burned?
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:51 AM
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Why would you want your ex back? I'm confused.
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:31 AM
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I mean going out and approaching women thus becoming better at it and becoming a better man.
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:27 AM
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It starts with treating it like a game, something you do. Then you start realizing that your interactions go better when you stop gaming and trying so hard. Then it becomes part of you, something you are. I honestly think that once you discover this shit, there ain't no going back for many guys. So then it's just a matter of accepting that and going at it (and everything else for that matter) full speed.
/r/seduction12/08/15 01:06 PM
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Namu. You can find wingmen from the RSD Inner Circle Helsinki Facebook group.
/r/seduction12/08/15 01:02 PM
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If you were to ask me: what should I do when someone attacks me on the street and I were to tell you to take him down, take his back and rear naked choke him, what good would this do? In much the same way I feel that you may be looking at your problem the wrong way. Am I correct in assuming that you don't approach on a daily basis?
/r/seduction12/08/15 11:55 AM
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Yea, no.
/r/seduction12/08/15 11:37 AM
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"Do you want to go out with me?"
/r/seduction12/08/15 09:12 AM
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Here's your problem: you're trying to be logical with a woman. In the end you will always have more value than some random bitch on Tinder man, or a bar for that matter. It just depends on how much action you take. She can never take that much action so she will, in the end, always be of lower value. Use that to your advantage and take action, build momentum and abundance. Once you're there, you will not only feel but actually be more entitled than her.
/r/seduction12/08/15 09:08 AM
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Awesome dude! Keep on it and you'll do great. Discovering this shit when you're young is like winning the genetic lottery.
/r/seduction12/08/15 06:49 AM
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So what you're basically saying is that you'd like for girls to present themselves to you without any effort whatsoever from you so that you can stick your dick into their wet meat-sock? If you don't go out, what tends to happen is: you don't get laid. It's funny how that works huh?
/r/seduction12/08/15 05:50 AM
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I never bring up family pukes. Shortly: If you go into deep topics you tend to take yourself too seriously and she starts treating you like a prospect for something serious. This is bad even if you want something serious, because it delays the sex and the more you delay the sex the less likely it is that you'll end up with anything serious (funny how that works).
/r/seduction12/08/15 05:45 AM
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Idk, maybe "getting in the zone" is just something that takes practice. This is exactly it. Being good with people is a skill. And the only way to get good at a skill is to practice (and maybe do some studying). And what's the easiest way to get good with people in general? Study and practice success with women i.e. pickup. But I cannot stress enough how much more important the practice part is.
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:38 AM
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Perhaps the fact that you're used to hassle-free sex will leave you so entitled that it will actually improve your game. Just a thought. In the end it's all about priorities. You have to ask yourself: is getting good at game something you actually want? If it is, you simply prioritize it as the second most important thing in your life, right after business. But like everything, it's a trade-off. If you let's say you do these over 12 hour work days and your business is rocking, then you go out af…
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:15 AM
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It's funny because the last I think three or four guys have had this exact same problem. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. You can be sexual about chili. "Oh you like spicy food" - "Do you like hot things in your mouth". Just an example that I said to a girl on Saturday on the street in the middle of the day. But it would not have worked if my all around tone of voice was not sexual, if it was not man to woman and if it was not breaking rapport i.e. going down instead of up. Here are s…
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:35 AM
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Excellent question. I think it's always the case that you can mix in a little bit of every one of these techniques that you mentioned. But don't ever use them as techniques, just say what you want without being a cunt about it. Can't win them all. That being said: negging the hotties will usually "work" better. But don't think "this is working" as some sort of a milestone, because when you do that, you tend to get attached to the outcome and then lose her because you start caring too much and en…
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:27 AM
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It's not what you say, it's how you say it. You can be sexual about chili. "Oh you like spicy food" - "Do you like hot things in your mouth". Just an example that I said to a girl on Saturday on the street in the middle of the day. But it would not have worked if my all around tone of voice was not sexual, if it was not man to woman and if it was not breaking rapport i.e. going down instead of up. Here are some examples: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5eqzHms6E0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:15 AM
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That is when you take the girl home and fuck her.
/r/seduction07/08/15 07:26 AM
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Setup the date close to your apartment. If you're comfortable in a bar or a coffee house then do that, otherwise you could e.g. go walking if you live in a nice area. What I do is I ask them to go for a walk and then just walk them to my apartment after like 30 minutes. If you live with your parents and or are not planning to pull then the lake late at night does sound a little creepy.
/r/seduction07/08/15 04:21 AM
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There should be an upwards pointing thumb icon in Reddit commenting :)
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:35 AM
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I did not come up with this style. Valentino Kohen did. If you have better game than he does, by all means keep doing what you're doing. I don't, so I mimic his style and it works perfectly for me. It's about the balance of comfort and value here (well, as it always is). The excuse is done in a very casual and low-key way without being permission seeking. Remember, it's not what you say, it's how you say it. Also, I did not say: "Can I sit down" I said "I need to sit down" and then I sit down.
/r/seduction06/08/15 08:04 AM
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You have two choices when you approach. You can either go direct or indirect (I guess you can also go full physical which is pretty direct or hand of god or shout from 30 meters away but let's stick with the basics). When you go direct e.g. during the day and approach someone by e.g. stopping them while they're walking and say something like "Hi, I'm newmood and I just had to come talk to you because you were so beautiful." you basically skip to the end of the movie for her and although you've n…
/r/seduction06/08/15 04:36 AM
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Yeah, don't overthink it. Trying to make your approach perfect will be creepy as fuck. Just do it.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:53 AM
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How about leave earlier than her.
/r/seduction05/08/15 08:36 AM
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Didn't even know that existed. Could use an invite as well.
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:53 AM
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Maybe you should ask r/relationship_advice then :D because this place is for pickup
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:51 AM
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Hey man if you can come up with something better than RSD's Jeffy, then by all means do it. But if you think one sentence is too long then I don't know what to tell you.
/r/seduction04/08/15 08:06 PM
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1) see 2) 2) Yes, and that's how I deal with it.
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:55 PM
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Here's one from the Master: "ohai there well i feel you appear attractive and consequently would like to explore the possibility of enhancing your life by means of exposure to my awesomeness k thxbai -Firstnameinitialhere"
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:53 PM
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So there you go. You already understand the concept. Now you just have to actually do it. It's okay to be afraid, you will fail many times in the beginning. Actually, you will fail throughout the whole journey, but sometimes you'll get success and the more you do it, magically the more success you'll have. It's called luck and for some reason practice increases your luck-roll, it's weird.
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:49 AM
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So stop comparing yourself to other men. Stop being jealous. Stop caring about what women think, and what men think about you. Start going out. During the day and during the night. Start approaching. Start sucking in the knowledge you can find here. There is no magic pill, there is no silver bullet. There is only way to success with women - practice. And it starts with putting your elbows to the mud, today.
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:38 AM
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Here you go Sir, free GOLD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RIpRT7RLIXQ
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:30 AM
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Time is indeed running out my friend. I'm 31. You wanna know what I do every single fucking day? I mass-approach. You think I care if one or ten of them flakes?
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:27 AM
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The one thing you have not done, however (and it is the most important part) is: you have not taken action. You have not done what RSD tells you to do in every. single. fucking. video: take action, go out, approach girls. So that's what you need to actually do. You probably have approach anxiety and you're most certainly too needy if you immediately develop oneitis for every single girl you meet. How do you fix that: You need to meet MORE girls so that you won't have TIME to care about every sin…
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:23 AM
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You're looking for what exactly? Seems like you've won the genetic lottery. Congratulations man. It's game in easy-mode for you :D What kind of advice exactly are you looking for? If I was you, I'd be fucking a lot of those girls that hit on you (provided they're up to your standard) and just enjoying life.
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:27 AM
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Looks are important if your game sucks.
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:43 AM
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Don't talk to her in a man to woman way. Don't act towards her in a man to woman way. Be neutral and disinterested but friendly and polite. Don't hang out with her too much, don't do boyfriend girlfriend type of stuff with her.
/r/seduction30/07/15 10:05 AM
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Well, you wanted to get over your AA :) That's how you get over AA. But if you actually want to talk to them and progress in some way in interacting with people, then something like 50 is pretty good.
/r/seduction29/07/15 05:15 PM
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Try 100
/r/seduction29/07/15 05:09 PM
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cringes
/r/seduction29/07/15 07:33 AM
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Day game my friend. Day game.
/r/seduction29/07/15 07:29 AM
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You may want to address the situation with a statement of empathy e.g. "I'm sorry I didn't mean to disturb you" and back off a step. Especially during the day the girls kinda freak out sometimes. So do this after your self-amusing opener which was of course delivered with intent, right?
/r/seduction28/07/15 05:09 PM
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Do it all the time everywhere. Eventually it will come to you naturally.
/r/seduction22/07/15 09:31 PM
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Yes you are but. I mean I don't really understand how you can all of a sudden start physically escalating on a friend. I don't know your situation of course but it just feels like in this case it would be more natural if you had some sort of a conversation first. OR you can plan some elaborate romantic setup and then kind of try to escalate and see where it goes but I do not recommend doing that either. Then again I do not recommend escalating on a friend either.. you know this is the pickup com…
/r/seduction22/07/15 06:03 PM
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I would... maybe ask them out for a date first? See how they'll react to that.
/r/seduction22/07/15 05:56 PM
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Yap. Just go over there and nature will take care of it :)
/r/seduction21/07/15 09:02 PM
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You should approach ten other girls first then go talk to her. But since you're not going to do that, it really doesn't matter. Just walk up and start talking. If she's available and interested, she'll give you the number when you ask for it. If you're looking for what exactly to say, here's a script for you: "Hi, how's it going?" - her answer - "I'm sedditseddit by the way, what's your name?" - plapla - "Ah cool, so how old are you?" - plapla "Okay, I'm 13 as well so that's cool." - "So listen,…
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:56 PM
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Number -> Date
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:54 PM
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More girls. Ya need to get more girls.
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:53 PM
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It's going to be okay. Don't worry.
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:51 PM
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That's, not bad.
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:48 PM
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Shit test means she likes you. So it's worth dealing with yes, it's also beneficial for improvement in the game. All in all you seem to be on the right path really. If I'd had to point out one thing it would be that fear of rejection. Here I'd try to utilize Tyler's and Valentino's concepts (or rather, as I've seen these explained by them): Valentino's daygame: go indirect but with intent, always be self amusing. Then you won't get rejected. If you'd like, I can expand on that. Tyler's basic pro…
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:25 AM
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I think it's all the dots you're using.
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:17 AM
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Yes, the saying goes: "The difference between day game and night game is that during the day the sun is up." Day game is game in easy-mode. You should go out night and day to really improve.
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:57 PM
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Okay I think I got it. What happened here was, you went inside of your head and started imagining what she is thinking and feeling based on zero evidence. So, hopefully you haven't texted her too much on Snapchat so you can now just suggest a good exact time and place where and when to meet on Wednesday and after that, silence :) However, there might still be a MILLION different reasons why she seems to be flaking. That's okay. It means you'll have time to go out and further improve your skills.…
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:46 PM
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This is just the beginning. Understanding the very core mindsets and concepts of game. And yes, it does work but it takes time, patience and a very open mind. Game is an art and a skill which is learned through: acquiring knowledge on it e.g. by watching videos but more importantly: actually going out and making the mistakes, hundreds and thousands of times and thus improving. After those I would recommend watching this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w65qBE-5fWg And then actually start going o…
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:39 PM
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Yea I've sorta been increasing my SMV as well, kind of a Red Pill thing to do and umm I've noticed a difference. Still, only do it for yourself, not for the girl.
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:28 PM
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The answer is always "Yes." So, yes, directly contact her via whatever and ask her out.
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:25 PM
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I think you need to start with some basic stuff e.g. Tyler's Blue Print: Looks, part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apEoEbyIEO8 Looks, part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEjIfjzKKP4 Money, part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_zG3GUV7_c Money, part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQ0Uz6xvWUU
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:21 PM
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Lack of either comfort or value. Hard to say which. Could you provide some sort of example of how the interaction went from approach to planning the date over whatever medium and then the actual final moments flake itself. Could be that the number was flaky to begin with e.g. not solid enough interaction. Remember "Girls will give out their number to anyone." So how are you going about setting up these dates? If you have something exact planned with a girl, there's no need for further texting wi…
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:16 PM
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Then go up and be weird and strange and awkward. Pee your pants. Cry. And run away. But still, approach. Then go home and change, go back. See if the next set is still as hard. I'm sure by then you'll be able to say "Hi" and leave. Then go to the next girl and say "Hi, I'm towerofpoop" and leave. Then to the next: smile and say "Hi, I'm towerofpoop, who are you?" and leave... oh wait. As Julien says, the great thing about pickup is that you have an unlimited amount of opens.
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:13 PM
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Day game is like 100 x easier than night game. Seriously. It honestly feels like cheating because there's NO COMPETITION and the girls are not expecting to be approached (at least where I live) so the value is huge right off the bat. Don't think about the numbers. Like, at all. By numbers I mean in terms of "How many". It does not matter. Just keep going out and focus on improving your game and the numbers will come. You should get your kicks off of the fact that you're taking action. But since …
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:09 PM
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Day game. Also, game outside the clubs at night.
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:01 PM
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By approaching. My point is that it's all in your head. If you think it'll be weird, it'll be weird. If you're afraid and nervous and you go up trying to act cool, it'll be weird. Just go and be nervous. Even tell her "Hi, I'm sorry I'm a bit nervous but I really liked your item X and I had to come say Hi" - She'll say "H h hii..?" - "Oh I'm Braedenn by the way what's your name." and so on and so forth. Or if you're super scared, go up and say "Hi I'm Braedenn", put out your hand and smile (look…
/r/seduction05/06/15 08:09 PM
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I would also recommend not doing relationshippy stuff with her and only seeing her e.g. once a week. Then your actions speak for themselves as they should.
/r/seduction19/05/15 04:32 PM
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It's your opener. It doesn't matter what you say.
/r/seduction11/05/15 03:26 PM
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