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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | How to escalate for a kissOk and what are her signs that she’s not open for kissing? | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How true abundance feels like?So you think guys with high libido are mostly not into relationships? You still can have a lot of sex with your girlfriend | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 05:23 PM |
| 38 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?Cool story dude | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)Or just ask her what she’s into? Your entire account seems pretty obsessed with sex | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 08:49 PM |
| 11 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyYou sound like an incel | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Gym Approach During the Day, Not What I ExpectedWhat’s wrong with all these guys here thinking he did something wrong. She just wasn’t interested or had a boyfriend. His approach was fine. Just try it next time OP. And don’t listen to those “don’t approach in the gym” type of comments. I’ve done it lots of times and there was no issue with it. All these girls liked it, got some numbers and dates from it. We’re all grown up people so there’s no reason for any consequences other than some occasional awkwardness. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is this sh*t so hard?Don’t kiss before the 3rd date | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 10:56 AM |
| 2 | How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approachHaha sounds great. True hero! | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 08:41 PM |
| 3 | How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approachCongrats man! How long have you’ve been married? Where did you approach her? | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 09:27 AM |
| 0 | Text/online game is an amazing tool to get you laidIf she flakes, she’s just not interested and it doesn’t have anything to do with you. Most of the time you can’t do anything about it and texting game won’t make it better | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?What are you talking about? Are you alright? | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Not my experience | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?You must be really upset by those women. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 10:32 AM |
| 6 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Must be a pretty sad life, when being married and still lurking around and commenting on a Reddit seduction subreddit | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Instagram women and modelsBecause your attitude doesn’t sound very healthy | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Instagram women and modelsYou sound pretty bitter. Although it might be hard, this mindset won’t get you very far. Have you tried therapy yet? | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Women in Their 20s vs. 40s — Is There a Difference in Seduction?Im a nice guy | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 02:13 PM |
| -4 | What’s the one piece of advice that changed everything for you? We’re all drowning in seduction content, most of it we’ll never use. Share only what truly made a difference.Works for me | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 01:54 PM |
| -13 | What’s the one piece of advice that changed everything for you? We’re all drowning in seduction content, most of it we’ll never use. Share only what truly made a difference.Just be yourself and a nice guy | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Still scared of approaching girlsTaking antidepressants helped a lot for me | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 10:25 AM |
| 0 | High rejection ratio on daygameI usually get around 7/10 phone numbers and they also respond most of the time. I maybe get 5/10 dates | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 06:34 PM |
| -1 | Rate my night out at a clubToo long to read | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Did you ever get seduced by a women? And ls there a male personality type that gets more seduced than others?You must be looking like a model | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?That sounds good. You sure it has a lot to do with your tactics, or more just about being comfortable with yourself? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Thanks for your profound answer. So instead of talking about dating „experts“, let’s talk about your dating life? Do you wear nice clothes and do you have success with women thanks to your game? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Did you read my post? I am scheduling and getting dates | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?First of all, he doesn’t wear nice clothes. Secondly, girls don’t care about “game”. Apart from that, these dating coaches don’t take home girls with them, they are all paid. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?This guy is so cringe and seems like a total scammer | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?That’s true | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Thank you. I wasn’t complaining nor did I create a problem. I was just wondering if it’s the right way to talk to women | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:53 AM |
| 0 | Am I doing it right?Of course I know you as dating “expert” and coach are not used to this situation with your clients or yourself. They probably are just happy to get a decently attractive girl’s number and then they learn tricks to get into her pants. I don’t know how about yourself? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?You still don’t get it right? I’m asking out women I’m physically attracted to. But you also have to get to know them on a date and see if their personality matches. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Haha thanks man that’s true. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Just try to be yourself | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?No but there’s more than just looks you know? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?I’m just myself and talk to them kindly and respectfully | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Am I doing it right?I think you don’t get my situation. I want to date and have sex with women I’m attracted to. I’ve got pretty high standards. I’m not like most of those needy and sexual guys and pua in this sub | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Am I doing it right?Why should I make the moves when I don’t feel a connection and am not attracted to her? | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Am I doing it right?I usually rejected the women when um dating someone, not vice versa, yes. No, I don’t just want sex, when I don’t feel a connection | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"But can I still find love? Am I loveable? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Ok so what can I improve? That’s why I’m here for advice | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Ok but autism isn’t something reprehensible | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"No I’ve got lots of friends. My mom and they all say I’ve got a high EQ | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"I don’t | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:33 PM |
| -1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Why are you making fun of me? It’s true | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:00 PM |
| -9 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"I've got a PhD | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"I can show you a pic of mysefl | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"But people on reddit told me I am not confident enough | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"I can send you a pic | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Damn. But I'm also model tier looking | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"You think so? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"You think so? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Ok so I should go back to being a nice, respectful guy? Because last time I have been criticized for that on my posts | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"But I am funny, intelligent, handsome, charming 6’ 4”. I am dark haired though and hold a PhD in Physics and play the guitar | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"but how do I know whcih type of girl she is? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Maybe she meant it was awkward because I was too insecure. My hands were shaking due to anxiety and I was sweating all over my face | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Ok but how do you know which kind of test it is? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"But she often stressed how she likes confident men on the date. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:25 PM |
| -7 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"But how can I improve then? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:22 PM |
| -7 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"I think it could have been a test by her. Next time I should be mroe confident. I was reading that a lot in seduction books in my library | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:21 PM |
| -5 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Maybe it was some sort of test by her? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Ok so I still need to study a lot. I'm trying my best and I could use all the books and do some late night sessions | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:18 PM |
| -15 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Ok but I thougt it was just some sort of test by her to see wether I stay confident? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:16 PM |
| -61 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Ok so touching more women will give me more experience and improve things? Maybe I could try recording it with a hidden camera. Then I'll could show it to a dating coach and he could give me some advice | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:13 PM |
| -21 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"I was touching her and trying to kiss her and thought she liked it. But then she said that's very awkward. Afterwards I've tried to make it less awkward, be more dominant and masculine and kissed her more aggressive. I touch her ass and tits. Then she stood up and said that's not ok, sexual harrassment and so on. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to Keep Up with All the Seduction Masters Here - How Can I Become a Real Man?I actually go on dates pretty often—about 1-2 a month, which I think is decent. The problem is, I’m not getting any further than that. I’ve had around 8-10 dates in a row where it just feels like I’m being seen as a friend rather than a romantic interest. Women tell me, I'm a really nice guy but more as a friend So, it’s not just about the numbers for me; it’s about figuring out why I keep landing in the “friend zone” instead of moving forward. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Ok I can be frustrated but still be genuinely nice to women. So you mean I shouldn’t act nice anymore and show my real facade? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to Keep Up with All the Seduction Masters Here - How Can I Become a Real Man?Got it, makes sense. So how can I find out why I'm getting rejected? On this sub I've always been told I'm too nice and lack masculinity and leadership. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to Keep Up with All the Seduction Masters Here - How Can I Become a Real Man?I’m just over here struggling with real-world rejections and not getting results on dates or sex. I mean, I don’t think women are giving me the “you didn’t pass the masculine test” line, but the results speak for themselves. So I need some advice from real dating experts and nerds like you are. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Ok who said I’m overly nice? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?So would you consider yourself an expert seducer? Or only semi professional? Maybe you guys have a point. I need to learn from you guys | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Ah so you’re a real seducer right? I need to learn from experts like you. Btw why did you do it then although it is so gross? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 08:09 AM |
| 0 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Men don’t seduce women. Either they are attracted to you or not. Period. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Damn ok. So I need to improve my game | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?So when was the last time you slept with a girl on the first date? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 07:38 AM |
| 0 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?So you don’t? And you’re trying to give me advice on dating and how to find a gf? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Ok so do you currently have a gf? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?So when I’m not a nice guy, why do they still not sleep with me? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?OK, cool so showing no emotions is considered masculine nowadays? I think I still have to learn a lot | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?So you think it’s better not being nice and kind while still expecting sex? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?I guess you’re being too nice because you’re trying to help me. That’s not really masculine. I’ve been told. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Many guys who couldn’t cheat have a gf. Btw if you have such a great wife, why are you on this sub then? Don’t have better things to do in your life or with your wife? Sounds pretty boring and pathetic commenting on losers like me together with your wife | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Who filled your head with such nonsense? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Pressuring someone into sex through actions feels really off to me. That sounds dangerously close to rape, doesn’t it? Consent should always be clear and mutual, not something that’s pressured. I believe in being open about intentions while respecting boundaries | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?So, it's good to show that I want to have sex, but it’s not good to be nice just to get there? That’s an interesting balance to strike. I totally get that expressing my desires is important, and I can definitely do that while still being kind. But I also believe that kindness shouldn't be a strategy to get what I want. It should come from a genuine place! So, I guess I’m just trying to figure out how to blend being open about my intentions without losing my authenticity. Thanks for the insight! | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:21 PM |
| -5 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Thanks for the helpful comment! Always appreciate some candid feedback. Thanks for pointing it out—I’ll keep the dickface in check... maybe | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Maybe my biggest issue is that I care too much about being respectful. If that makes me the villain in your story, then I’ll gladly take the role! Just here trying to figure things out one kind gesture at a time! But hey, at least my issues make for great conversation, right? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:18 PM |
| -2 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Wow, such a harsh fate. I’ll live my lonely, nice guy life. I’ll just be over here, thriving in my self-imposed solitude while everyone else is out there playing the dating game. Thanks for the motivation, though | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?So, let me get this straight: I should flip the script and make her jump through hoops for my affection? “Hey, babe, thanks for existing! Now, tell me how you’re going to earn my approval!” Sounds like a fun game! Desexualized? Really? So, if I start wearing leather and growl like a wolf, will that help? I mean, who knew kindness could be such a turn-off! Thanks for the enlightenment, oh wise one! I’ll be sure to consult you next time I need to desexualize myself. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:16 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?let’s be real, if treating someone with respect is desperate, then sign me up for the pathetic club! But hey, thanks for the “life advice.” I’ll keep it in mind as I navigate this wild dating jungle! Good luck with your celebrity treatment philosophy; I hope you find someone who loves it! | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Being respectful and patient doesn’t mean I’m pretending to be nice for ulterior motives. It’s about valuing the person I’m interested in! I believe in being upfront, but that doesn’t mean I need to ditch my kindness along the way. So, I’m all about finding someone who appreciates both the connection and the chemistry without playing games! Thanks for your input, though! | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?I see what you’re saying—women do have a complex way of categorizing guys. It’s like they have a mental filing cabinet for us! But here’s the thing: just because some girls might play the game that way doesn’t mean we all have to! Sure, there are those who test boundaries, but I still believe in genuine connections. And hey, if I’m being nice and supportive while also being attractive and independent, isn’t that a win-win? So, maybe the key is to find someone who appreciates both the nice and th… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Who knew kindness was such a controversial topic? But hey, if being nice is seen as trolling, maybe I should add “professional nice guy” to my resume! Seriously, though, I’m just here trying to find that sweet spot between being genuine and navigating this wild dating world! | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?I get what you're saying, but I believe you can be both nice and independent. Being kind doesn’t mean I’m compliant or just a friend—it's about treating others with respect while still having my own life and interests. Independence and kindness aren’t mutually exclusive! I can stand my ground, pursue my passions, and still be a supportive and caring person. It’s all about finding that balance that works for me! | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:09 PM |
| -4 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?I get that it can be frustrating to see someone sticking to their values in a world that often seems to favor the opposite. But hey, we all have our own paths to navigate! I believe kindness and respect can still thrive, even if it seems “pathetic” to some. Thanks for the reality check, though! It’s always good to hear different perspectives, even if they come with a side of tough love! | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:08 PM |
| -2 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Wow, thanks for the heartfelt advice, wise one! I can practically hear the echoes of your “tough love” from here! I totally get it; it’s a brutal world out there. Who knew kindness was out of style? I’ll have to trade in my “nice guy” card for a “bad boy” badge! I appreciate your support, and I’ll keep working on my journey of improvement. Just know that while I’m navigating this wild world, I’ll also hold the door open for old ladies—because why not keep some niceness in the mix? I appreciate y… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?ll just sprinkle in some unique compliments like, “Your smile is so radiant, I might need sunglasses!” 😎 And don’t worry, I’ll master the art of tease and banter! But seriously, if I show interest at the last minute, I might just have to invest in some seriously convincing pickup lines | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Ah, so it’s all about the pressure? Just imagine the conversations: “Hey, how’s your day? Now let’s talk about that very important topic of sex!” But really, if I have to pressure them, I might as well just open a negotiation table! “I’ll give you a compliment for every date you deny me! Deal?” | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:03 PM |
| -5 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Ah, got it! So it’s not just insulting, it’s playful banter! Thanks for the clarification! I’ll just add “Master of Teasing” to my resume. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Cooked? Nah, I’m just marinating in my nice guy sauce! But hey, if being nice gets me cooked, at least I’ll have a great story | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:00 PM |
| -4 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Haha, right? If being a nice guy means finishing alone in the bathroom, I might just start taking really long breaks! At this rate, I’ll need a trophy for “Most Dedicated Bathroom dweller.” | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:59 PM |
| -2 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Oh, so being nice is boring now? I guess I’ll just ditch my polite persona and start practicing my “mysteriously intense” stare. Guess I need to get my “bad boy” costume ready! Thanks for the tips | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:58 PM |
| -8 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Ah, I see! So the key to romance is to act like a cold-hearted cactus instead of a friendly human being! Who needs genuine connection when you can just play hard to get, right? Teasing? Check! Indifference? Double check! Next time she asks me to help with something, I’ll just say, “Why do you need my help? Can’t you just Google it?” And about those “shit tests”—is that like a pop quiz for my dating skills? I can’t wait to flunk it spectacularly! “Oh, you want me to change that light bulb? Sorry,… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:41 PM |
| -4 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?Wow, thanks for the masterclass in “Nice Guy 101”! Who knew that being nice could be manipulative? Next, you’ll tell me that holding the door open is just a sneaky tactic to get a date! And waiting three days? That’s so old school! I thought we were supposed to play hard to get. Guess I need to add “stand up straight” to my list of life hacks too! But hey, if being a doormat is a turn-off, maybe I’ll start charging rent for all the nice things I do! Who knew kindness could be so complicated? Tha… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:39 PM |
| -6 | What has your experience been in Miami?Got lots of success there when I was on holidays. Probably approached women everyday and hooked up with them on parties or day game. In the end I’d say I’ve talked to 2 women a day and had sex with one per day | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?No it’s not like that. Of course I am concerned about myself because I’m looking for a relationship. Or what is your goal of approaching women? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Ah ok so finding a girlfriend is some sort of science now? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok how and when did you meet your gf? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok so how many women have you approached last month? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 05:37 PM |
| 0 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok but why? Why do you want to practice it? What’s your goal? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:54 PM |
| 2 | How many women do I need to approach?I agree. I’ve been in a couple of relationships before, yes | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?I agree but that’s totally insane approaching that amount of women just for „practice“. My goal is not to practice something but to find a relationship | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok so you just randomly approach women to „practice“ it | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?But then the approaches aren’t really genuine anymore. This is not some kind of challenge or sport. Apart from that I don’t see women worth approaching every day. Why should I approach women just for the sake of approaching? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?But I don’t see pretty girls I want to approach every day. And who the fuck is doing that anyway? I want to occasionally approach a women that think is really attractive maybe once or twice a month. Otherwise it doesn’t feel genuine | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok and you’re a real seduction expert? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok you seem like a real expert | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok but why don’t you just answer my question? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?I met a lot of women through dating apps. For me that’s basically the same as approaching women in public. You still have the intend to meet women so I see no difference | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?I agree, that’s true of course. I’m just a bit discouraged because some people say you have to approach thousands and thousands of women or 10 approaches each day which is crazy in my eyes | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?Yes but why approach 5 women a day? That’s not a bit of work | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?But most guys that I know don’t approach women at all and still have gfs | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?But most guys that I know don’t approach women at all and still have gfs | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?But most guys that I know don’t approach women at all and still have gfs | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How many women do I need to approach?How can I create that lifestyle? I’d still have to approach women in the end in order to talk to them | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How many women do I need to approach?Ok so when I see a pretty woman in public, how can I become her friend then? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Why girls like being ignoredThis is so generalizing, it’s awful. Most women are not like that. Just be yourself and don’t listen to this advice | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)You don’t get walked all over when you’re being nice. You don’t have to become masculine to attract women. I don’t know preaches that shit | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)I don’t think trying to be fake masculine and toxic will get them very far. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)This is very odd and misleading advice. Just be yourself | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Date game: Always match her energyCause I want to convince people that seduction is bs | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ?Dming a few hundred girls a week is insanse and sounds really desperate. Maybe I would focus on other things in life first | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRLMaybe don’t harass women, and just don’t get banned from dating apps? Apart from that just approach women in a genuine and nice way and ask for their number. Will lead to better results than through old | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Date game: Always match her energyWhy can’t people just be theirselves? All this advice is so cringe | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Ok so it’s over? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Ah ok damn. Then I’ll have to think about it | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 05:08 PM |
| -7 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?And what are you? A dominant jerk? Then I’ll think I’ll have to stay a virgin | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 05:08 PM |
| -2 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Yes she at least says she likes to hang out with me sometime | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?I don’t think I’ll need to make a move. I think I could make a move, but I could also just chill and wait a bit | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:56 PM |
| -4 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Because I’m just curious of all this stupid advice from those so called “experts” on this sub | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:55 PM |
| -2 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Because Trump supporters are utterly stupid and you shouldn’t take life advice from them | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:43 PM |
| -4 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Cool Bro! And now you’re feeling better about yourself because you told me you’ve hit a home run? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Well I think there are some cultural differences between the US and Germany, where I come from. Attractive girls usually sleep with you on the 3rd date at earliest, many even not as soon as on the 6th or 7th date | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:21 PM |
| 0 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?I’ve had a couple of relationships and sex with around 30 women. I don’t wait that long, only when I’m dating seriously | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?I’ve had all of this. Currently I’ve got 4 fwbs and one girl I’m dating | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Cause I wanted to hear your thoughts | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:40 PM |
| -8 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Says the guy supporting trump | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:38 PM |
| -9 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Why? It’s good being nice. Better than some dominant jerk | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Why? Because it’s bad being nice? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:31 PM |
| -8 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?In the past I’ve actually made the opposite experience. Girls like it if you wait and I’ve gotten into relationships with them | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?And you do? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Girls don’t usually do that | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:29 PM |
| 0 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Haha well I actually meet a lot of attractive girls. I’ve kissed some of them on the 4th date or later | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:28 PM |
| -19 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Yes I think girls like that more than some dominant guy | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:27 PM |
| -5 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?My environment says that most women like that. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?I’ve heard totally different things. Female friends told me girls like shy guys and that some kissed her on like the 8th date or whatever | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 01:23 PM |
| 0 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Is it bad that I haven’t given out that vibe? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 01:14 PM |
| -1 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?What if I’m anxious and nervous? I haven’t done any kino because I think that’s cringe | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 12:50 PM |
| -6 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Who says that? | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 12:48 PM |
| 0 | How do I overcome seeking validationThat was a long time ago | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 05:21 PM |
| 0 | How do I overcome seeking validationI didn’t say a woman left me. I’ve got all of those things | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 01:25 PM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.I’ve actually just wanted to back your friend up and talk in favor of women. Because most women aren’t bitches and I don’t want guys to talk like that | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:17 PM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.You’ve clearly got valid arguments | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)Ok good for you… | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:10 PM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.I just said „maybe … he was an asshole…“ Well then the interaction didn’t went bad. That’s fine. I also don’t get why you are so upset about your friend getting rejected? It’s not your life, it’s his? | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)It just doesn’t make sense. Why should a normal, respectful, nice guy get targeted by security guards? | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:07 PM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.I didn’t say your friends an asshole. I just said he might be. I didn’t say I was there. I didn’t say the interaction went bad. It was just assumptions and you feel offended by them. Interactions can also go well and you still get rejected for various other reasons that don’t have anything to do with you | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:05 PM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.Why are you getting so upset about it? Maybe he is no asshole, I believe. Still there can be reasons to reject him. I’ve also rejected girls who had great looks and personality but still there was no spark | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)Why should they report you? | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How do I overcome seeking validationWell that’s not true, then you have no clue. There are a lot of celebrities who have all of this and still have no self esteem | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome seeking validationYou can also feel inferior if you have all those things. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)That’s ridiculous. How creepy do you have to be to be scoped by campus security? | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 08:50 PM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.You don’t know. Maybe the guy was to pushy, he was an asshole, she didn’t feel good around him? Just because he has a good job, is handsome and confident, doesn’t mean they are compatible. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Losing confidence after a bad night outTrue. This guy should be banned. He’s just shit talking and not giving any constructive feedback. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 12:45 AM |
| 8 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathDude this is so true! | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 10:12 PM |
| -1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingIt’s ok to have insecurities. The best is to accept yourself as you are. And stop this masculine frame thing | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 10:39 AM |
| 5 | Video games are holding you backNo I’m honestly not getting an idea from your post history. It’s too many posts | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Video games are holding you backHow many girls are you getting? | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?Indeed. It’s an important trait in people. Of course not the only one. And of course not all people are the same similar to not all guys being attracted to blonde, tall, short girls, latinas etc | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 11:24 AM |
| 0 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?yeah I also talk to them apart from having sex with them | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 10:55 AM |
| 0 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?Ok if you think so… I mean not all women are the same | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 10:47 AM |
| -10 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?My experience is definitely different. Girls prefer the introverted intelligent guy way more than the extroverted gym dude | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 10:16 AM |
| -10 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?Where do you know that from? Ever talked to girls? | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | No attractionYes maybe that’s what you should change too. Being funny and nice to women is what makes them feel attracted to you | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:13 AM |
| -8 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?Not true. Many women value intelligence more than looks | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:12 AM |
| -10 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?No women are also equally attracted to intellectual intelligence | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:11 AM |
| 1 | No attractionI get a lot of sex without doing this | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:24 PM |
| -9 | No attractionThat’s so cringe. Guys doing these physical touch things on a first date | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Running out of optionsOP, this guy seems to know everything… | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 2 | women who say no response is a responseYou seem truly offended and triggered by that | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 06:29 AM |
| 5 | Self EsteemI can relate quite well to what you’ve described. Although I’ve built self confidence and had lot of success with women over the years on the outside, I still don’t feel more worthy on the inside. That’s why I’ve been going to therapy for quite some time. I think this would also be the most lasting solution for you. You can make this! | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymThanks. That’s so kind of you. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymSome guys in the comments say otherwise haha | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymOf course I don’t get every girls number. As long as you look decently groomed and talk to them in a respectful way, they will react positively though | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymYou shouldn’t go to the gym for the sole purpose of approaching women in the gym. You shouldn’t hit on them there all the time. However nothing speaks against approaching someone there once in a while. | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymI feel you. I had the same thoughts a while ago. But it’s not a big deal actually. You will greet each other and just move on in life. She will remember you as the guy who made her day back than and that’s it. Nothing to worry about. I think it could be even more uncomfortable for her, because she might be feeling bad for rejecting you or she’s afraid you might be hitting on her again | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymI don’t know what gym you are going to but I see most girls are there on their own | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymThank you! | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Approached girl in the gymTrue. If the woman is attracted to you, she will give you her number in most settings unless you are at a funeral or whatever | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymI was just walking up to hear and looked at her. She noticed me, already smiling at me and took out her head phones. | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymNo I’m not begging because I get enough compliments from women. But you have the need to put other people down on Reddit | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely nothing to get choosing signals from women. What must I do to get women?I don’t need game | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 09:24 PM |
| 0 | Approached girl in the gymI think you did | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely nothing to get choosing signals from women. What must I do to get women?Sounds pretty rude to me. In my eyes this is just manipulating and putting the other person down | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Approached girl in the gymAbove average haha | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely nothing to get choosing signals from women. What must I do to get women?What are you taking about? What is push pull and why do you wanna do that? Giving a compliment is always kind. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymYeah I see. I’m sorry to hear that you’re experience this issue. I think most of the time it actually hasn’t got something to do with yourself. I can imagine women are more afraid to say no nowadays and will give you their number out of fear? | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymYeah she was wearing headphones. Texting is going well, just some small talk. Just met her today, so I’ll ask her out the next couple of days | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Approached girl in the gymNo I’ve never seen her before. I was asking for her number and then talked about some casual stuff. Where she’s from, what she’s training today, what she’s studying. Not for long, 2 minutes. Wished her a nice day and went away | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymOf course you get a reputation if you sleep around. But I don’t intend to sleep around. I want to date | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymI’m glad. Thank you so much | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gym8-9 at least | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Approached girl in the gymWell then I think you’re doing something wrong. Women usually give me their number or ig because they are actually interested in me. Apart from that I don’t actually don’t do game, I just talk to them like a normal human being | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Approached girl in the gymI waited for a moment were it was less crowded and more quiet | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Approached girl in the gymText her and set up a date | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Approached girl in the gymSo true. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Approached girl in the gymOk but it’s not the end of the world, is it? Did she reject you harshly? Otherwise you can just move on and try it with the next girl. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 04:40 PM |
| 11 | Approached girl in the gymI understand. I had that thinking as well. But I’ve talked to lots of girls about it and most we’re totally fine about and said they would have liked it if I had approached them in the gym | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 04:18 PM |
| 17 | Approached girl in the gymThanks man! I just don’t focus on this seduction stuff. I’m living my life, working on myself and am myself and don’t try to act like someone. And it works! | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:48 PM |
| 63 | Approached girl in the gymYeah same. I was always overthinking it. But it was not a big deal. So either we will start dating or we just keep on living our lifes and greet each other in the gym. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.But what is game? | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 05:07 PM |
| 2 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.What is game? | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I have a theory about why Blue Pill wont work.Yes you have better access to more women. But still, 250 men can’t get one woman. What is with all the rest of the women. Your calculation doesn’t make sense | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 08:16 AM |
| 1 | I have a theory about why Blue Pill wont work.Why would more men compete for the same woman than in the earlier days? It’s simple math. Assuming the ratio of men and women is still roughly the same. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 07:39 AM |
| 0 | When did you start learning and practicing the gameNever. You don’t need to learn game. Just act like a normal human being | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Why no success in clubs?That’s hilarious. They don’t always do that. They often do the exact opposite and don’t show any interest because they think they don’t have a chance anyway | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:49 AM |
| 5 | Gamefather vs Furry Hat Man Debate is now liveNever heard of them. They look and talk like some pretty weird guys | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why no success in clubs?Ok I believe you. So you watch at all the 9s and 10s in nightclubs and evaluate how women are attracted to them? | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Why no success in clubs?I’m also at the nightclub occasionally and it doesn’t appear to me | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 01:24 PM |
| -2 | Why no success in clubs?How do you know? Are you a 9? | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 01:20 PM |
| -2 | Why no success in clubs?Maybe I am rare. I can show you a pic | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Why no success in clubs?How do you know? | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 12:40 PM |
| 7 | Why no success in clubs?No that’s not true. I’m a 9 look wise and also struggled with women in clubs when I was younger although I had a lot of success online. It all comes down to approaching and talking to women. Similar to OP, I also always think girls are not interested or anything but friends or my current gf always tell me that all the girls are looking at me. But I just don’t notice it or my head is playing it down. I’m sure it the same for you OP. So just go and talk to them. They will like you! | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 10:41 AM |
| 8 | Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before datesWell if he has anxiety you can’t blame him. It’s a mental health condition. I sometimes feel the same | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?Well I often cry in front of my gf and she’s a 10/10 and likes me even more for it | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?I don’t think they do. They actually search for being loved, being treated well and affection | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 08:15 AM |
| -7 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?I disagree. Women really like it when a man can show honest emotions without hiding them behind some masculine facade. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 08:14 AM |
| -1 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?Crying is allowed. Women really like it when a man can show honest emotions without hiding them behind some masculine facade. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?No means no. You need to learn to accept what women say and that they mean it | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 09:43 AM |
| -3 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?No if they say it’s a boundary, then it’s a boundary. You have to learn that women mean what they say. | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 08:55 AM |
| -17 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?Just because a woman is having sex with you at some point despite saying no before, it doesn’t mean she actually wants it | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 09:54 PM |
| -18 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?That’s utterly unethical. You’re taking advantage of her and basically not respecting boundaries. If she says no, that’s a no and you should stop it. Why do you want to lead her into sex in the first place if she doesn’t want it? Having a strategy for this is just not right | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Virgins: Why haven’t you had sex yet? what’s taking so long? how old are u?I guess you’ll have much harder time trying to find a gf if you rule out all women who are not a virgin | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Virgins: Why haven’t you had sex yet? what’s taking so long? how old are u?Ok. So every girl that has had sex, has stds? Do you know there are also women that have partners and don’t get stds and get regularly checked? | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Virgins: Why haven’t you had sex yet? what’s taking so long? how old are u?Why does she have to be a virgin too? If you both have good emotional connection and you find her attractive why care about virginity? | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 12:29 PM |
| 17 | Girl shaking at first kiss, rainchecks second dateThis. Thankfully someone with common sense | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 01:36 PM |
| 16 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?That's somehow true. I think a lot of advice overcomplicates things and makes you even more insecure. I've improved a lot in the last year though. However number 1 that's helped is to take action, don't be afraid to be rejected (or at least don't take it personally) and move on and try again. Nevertheless a lot of this mindset change came more from both good male and female friends rather than Reddit. So please don't overthink things and just take action and be optimistic! | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:09 PM |
| 7 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.You could be right. But in the end it doesn't really matter, because you don't wanna be with such girls anyway imo | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What do i do after?Just ask her for a date. Be specific about it, like do you wanna go for some drinks tomorrow at place xy or whatever. Then you know if she's really interested. She probably is, but there's no sense in just keeping the chatting going without any meetup Edit: girls/women most of the time wait for you to set up the date so you gotta ask here if she's got time on this particular day | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I become more confident?Average looking guy, height 6’6 21Totally right. I actually never talk sexually, just normal conversation, talk about your passions, be interested in her life etc. (not just small talk ofc). This eventually will build attraction. From there on you can start escalating non verbally. Just something simple like putting your arm around her back or even going for the kiss will do the work. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 10:19 AM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]Some advice is good, some advice on here is bad imo. What has helped me the most is knowing that I should be bold and not afraid of approaching girls and be bold in escalation when the woman doesn't seem averse. Best is to just try things out irl | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with flakes am I the problem?I don't think the problem is that you're boring or whatever. Did you ever meet up with these girls? Might be the case that you texting them for too long and they loose interest. Try to meet up rather sooner than late. I think at least some of those girls waited for you asking them out, but when you didn't do it, they lost interest, because they thought it might be going nowhere. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!Cool! It's like you see more of the opportunity you have than what you could loose :) | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!That's true! Feeling the same oftentimes from OLD | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 9 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!Thanks man for this great post!!! I'm in the same position, never cold approach yet, because I'm so scared of it. Only had decent results with OLD. Maybe I should just say fuck it and do it haha | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?Yeah I'm at university | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?I'm 23 | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:51 PM |
| -2 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?The only thing is getting a larger social circle, but I'm working on that already | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?Thank you :) | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?That sounds good! Btw good news. I've got a date secured with a pretty cute and nice girl from tinder right now. I already did what you said before haha | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:32 PM |
| -3 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?True fact! But I don't think I can improve my work, hobbies, lifestyle noticeably anymore | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?I see. Most of the time I'm starting by complimenting them (not always on their looks, also about their nice profile or so) and asking them something about their profile, there hobbies whatever. What would you do instead? | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:25 PM |
| -1 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?It's not meant to be derogatory. I don't have a problem with average girls, but I rather feel attracted to other types of girls. I've been called extremely good looking by a lot of girls and also by some guys, I've got a well trained physique and I'm also modeling as a hobby. And I wouldn't say I only attract average girls. The thing is, I don't approach girls IRL so I don't see, who would be attracted to me. Only through OLD, and there, also quite attractive girls swipe right on me. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?I try to compliment them in some way (not always about looks) and ask something about their profile | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?I've got a pretty high score already. Most profiles are pretty attractife. So I guess I've got a high ELO | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?I've got pretty good pics. Hot girls also swipe on me, but mostly don't reply | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?Best comment so far! | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes Tinder, etc. That's online dating | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?Yeah I know. I already only swipe on hot girls only. But online is still hard, because many girls are just there for validation. That's why I think approaching IRL is the only solution as I want to increase my abundance of hot girls | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]And then hope for some matches. Don't spend to much time on texting, just some 4-5 matches to get to know the other person a little and then arrange a date | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 03:43 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You mean me? Well basically what I've described above. Get well dressed, get some good photos taken with good poses. Maybe one or two photos with hobbies (not necessary). | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?That's sounds so true. Was hoping to hear sth like that | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Online Dating | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Can relate to that! I feel the same. I'm not as far as I want to be yet, but I made some decent progress through OLD. Get some good/professional photos taken and you will get a fair amount of matches from good looking girls. Went on a lot of dates and interacting with girls one on one definitely improved my confidence. It took away the initial fear of being creepy. However my next step is still approaching girls IRL, where I want to improve | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?You're right man. I think one problem are still inner issues. Any tips on that? My mindset is often, the girl won't like me anyway and she'll think it's weird when I approach her. Actually I've never approached a girl in that manner before in my life | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 09:23 AM |
| -30 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?Thanks for the advixe. I already maximized my looks I'd say. I've got sort of male model looks. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 08:54 AM |
| 6 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?I mean one problem is, I also don't meet that many hot girls | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 08:21 AM |
| 71 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?So I should change my mindset and don't think in leagues? | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | I am generaly confident and comfortable and having fun ONCE I am actually on a date with a girl but I am at a loss about where to meet women...I am looking into daygame but I think it is still a bit out of my comfort zone🤣Where do you generaly meet women and whatvadvice would you give me in order?I feel you man, same for me. Online dating was actually what got the ball rolling for me. I'm still relying on it and trying to build confidence by going on more and more dates until I get more comfortable approaching irl. But ofc depends on what quality pics you have and how good looking you are | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 06:16 PM |
| 8 | Just do it!Sounds great man!! Well done!! Best thing is to just practice IRL and just do it! I'm struggling like you did. Never done a cold approach, but I think I just have to do it like you do | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Any difference when cold approaching hot girls compared to average ones?Interesting. So basically start with approaching more attractive ones I guess. Because I've never cold approached anyone :) | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to be approached by good looking guys?Sounds good! Thank you! | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to be approached by good looking guys?What if I'm not really confident at the beginning stages? Is it ok to act confident and build real confidence over time? | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to be approached by good looking guys?Ok thanks man! That's a really good advice! | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to be approached by good looking guys?Ok cool. So you mean when I see someone I like, I just should walk up and compliment them on something? Would probably be easier, because it reduces to pressure for me to actually have a convo. And when it feels right I can still start it | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to be approached by good looking guys?So you mean it's more about confidence and not about what you say? | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Stick to online dating or start cold approaching?Thank you for you kind words! That really helped me, I think that's a really good advice you've given me. I will go on those tinder dates but I will try to gradually include more of RL approaches in my life as soon as I have some success | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Stick to online dating or start cold approaching?Ok thanks man! That gives hope. At the moment, it feels so unnatural and forced to do it, but I hope it's gonna get better :) | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Stick to online dating or start cold approaching?I would like to. But somehow I think that no one would be interested in me. When I plan to cold approach, even when it's just right before, I always get these bad feelings that I will mess up, she will think I'm weird or she knows much cooler guys than me | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Stick to online dating or start cold approaching?I know. Well going on a Tinder date is already out of my comfort zone I think. Had my first tinder date last week and before going there I felt like "how the fuck can this even work out? I'm way to scared doing this". Conversation and everything actually went all quite well, but I was just not able to escalate. I just felt too awkward doing it and feared rejection and doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to work on my inner gamer or just approach?Seems reasonable. One thing is, as soon as I'm talking to a attractive girl the feelings kind of go away to most extent, since I recognize she's just a normal human being as everyone else. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Do I need to work on my inner gamer or just approach?Ok, I'll take that as a compliment. But what can I do about it or improve? | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Do I need to work on my inner gamer or just approach?Haha thanks! What should I practice to work on inner game? Yeah, I sometimes feel a little shy or uncomfortable in front of the camera, that's why. But I'm working on it. Thanks for the tip! | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 06:54 AM |
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