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Fuck I just took the red pill. I didn't know about this and noticed my life going down with my wife. Been focusing on myself and both our life has improved. I'm also done being her bitch lol. I just see everything so clearly just now. All those time she just be lazy while i go get her chipotle while she lay at home. Me feeding her and she has me living in trash. I always had to worry about myself and her. Now I focus on making money and I go out to eat if I'm hungry. She is making me food right …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 11:17 PM
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Please take a deep breathe and let it go. When I was younger I thought that I could control everything. Lucky for you, the one thing of have control over is yourself. You have much to learn and dont be afraid to fail. To answer your question. No you dont have to try to sleep with a girl as early as possible. There is no guide to your life, do what you want.
/r/seduction10/09/11 02:29 AM
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You can answer them whatever you want. "Buying some books for classes, you?" Perfect.
/r/seduction18/08/11 12:49 PM
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same here :) I love JB!
/r/seduction14/03/11 04:46 AM
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You are completely right. When I was new to PUA, I would want someonething and plan everything in an interaction. Things would never turn out how I wanted. I was so frustrated I really though that there is a law in the universe that if you plan something it will not turn out that way. The current me is carefree now. I want something, I will do what I want and I will take my chances. There are so many variables in play that even with a super computer you cannot depict the result. Okay no more met…
/r/seduction13/03/11 02:37 PM
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I have been actually thinking to stop this experiment. Today I asked her to take the driving school class for me and she spent 4 hours on it. She called me this morning and we talked. We laughed a lot and she told me she miss me. I told her I will hangout with her tonight. Her: Hey i just got to the final exam. I dont want do it bause if i fail then you're fucked lol Me: okay leave it. ill do it. thank u so much HB!. Me: Were u working on my driving school the whole time? Her: You're welcome ngo…
/r/seduction13/03/11 05:23 AM
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Your game was probably not solid if she says that. If your game is solid though she might be one of the rare girl and definitely worth catching. You need an excuse to get her home with you. Girls need to tell themself that there are a reason to go to your house. "Lets go to my place, i want to show you this really incredible book" the girl will say to herself okay I am going to his house because i want to see the book. but she knows she will fuck and want to.
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:29 PM
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I will agree that this is unethical for me. I want to experience a different side of living and be a villain for a bit.
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:20 PM
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I will not be popular for saying this but most of Seddist are AFC still learning the skills. I want to have a discussion where we could teach and learn from each other. Do you think your comment was necessary and contribute to the thread? I know you are more experience than me. You could have teach me how to handle escalation resistance and give me advices. Thank you.
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:14 PM
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Thank you for your input. To tell you the truth, one of the reason I decided to choose this girl was because she is the hardest for me to get out of friendzone. She has a boyfriend and I am way deep in friendzone. However I will follow my set plans, and what other seddists suggestions. I learned somewhere that if you tell a girl how perfect her relationship is, she will not accept it and start seeing there are flaws.
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:06 PM
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if you just want to fuck her then go ahead. However you are probably not experience in life enough to know about love and get in a relationship. I will write a guide in a bit.
/r/seduction12/03/11 07:44 AM
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I was you once. First of I want you to at least learn the basic principles before I can give you more advices. Remember you will fail again and again. You will learn so much from failure that you want to fail as fast as you can! I want your goal for the next 10 interaction with girl is to turn your chance with her to zero. Remember your goal is failure. Are they older than you? I think the best thing for you to learn right now is getting comfortable with touching and talking. When they get back,…
/r/seduction12/03/11 07:41 AM
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I just got home from a great night. Feeling good so I will give you some advices. The key about getting good at kino is being comfortable while doing it. It should be second nature to you, you dont have to think about it. How do you get better at kinoing? How do you get better at basketball? Practice, practice. You want to kino all the guys and girls you know. Kino with many people as possible whenever possible. Kinoing is basically making her feel comfortable with your touch as you escalating. …
/r/seduction12/03/11 07:18 AM
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yes my guitar improved but I didnt noticed my singing improved at all. The voice I sound in my head and the voice I actually project are different. I think if you want to improve on your singing you need to learn the basic from a coach first.
/r/seduction12/03/11 01:22 AM
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The thing for me is that singing is very hard for me. I was playing guitar and singing by myself everyday for 5 months. I did not improved at all.. I think you need a singing coach to teach you the basic first.
/r/seduction11/03/11 04:13 PM
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I would say being tall is better than being short. However being secure with your self image is all that matters.
/r/seduction11/03/11 04:05 PM
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I tried MDMA and it cured my depression. Let me tell you a short story. I know this girl and every time I see her she has a huge smile on her face. Every imagine of her in my head is her smiling. She is happy, successful and fulfilled in life. How do I know this? because all the evidents support it. All the evidents I know is she always smiles and that is enough for my stupid brain to believe. The moral of the story? Be that girl.
/r/seduction09/03/11 04:59 AM
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I will make a video for you tomorrow. I tried making the video but it was really hard to explain myself. Be happy with yourself, stop caring so much about important things, dont have an alternative motive, love everyone.
/r/seduction07/03/11 08:39 PM
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If you ask anyone that knows me they would say I am the nicest guy they have ever met. Being nice and caring for other are beautiful qualities that I hope you will never try to change yourself. Let me ask you a question, are you happy with yourself? People often being "nice" as a disguised but inside maybe without even realized it they want something in return. Did you spend your night listening to that girl's problems because you really truly care about her and want to help her or was there any…
/r/seduction07/03/11 07:44 PM
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I am really sorry if the video was too long. At first I was having problem telling the story but if you watch the whole video you will noticed I get better after a bit. I hope you could at least got some tips and watch it until the end. When I watched the video, i felt like I was reliving the night again but I guess my storytelling skill is not good enough to capture you guys. If you dont want to watch my field report please skip to the frame setting part. I wish I could show you guys how I feel…
/r/seduction07/03/11 07:19 PM
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Hello everyone, thank you for watching my video. I hope I did not wasted your time while you could spend it enjoying this beautiful world lol :D I was sober when I was sarging. I only took MDMA at my friend party. Please get a test kit and test your pills. I am in no way suggesting anyone doing drugs, but if you do please be responsible. Take multivitamins, vitamin C and 5 HTP before and after. Test your pills PLEASE!! I feel that I will not take MDMA for a while because it did it job and I am r…
/r/seduction07/03/11 01:21 PM
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I was going to say there are stupid people in this world. However I think it should be "there are uneducated, mislead, unhappy people in this world." but im pretty stoned, good night.
/r/seduction06/03/11 05:30 AM
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Thank you for the suggestions. This is a great idea. I'm going to a party tomorrow with a high chance end up with a threesome. I will bring my laptop and make a FR there if it does.
/r/seduction06/03/11 04:10 AM
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Here is my first video of sarging in college. After springbreak i will do many more like my other thread. I need to buy a microphone too. yes 3 seconds rule is so important! :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUYcR9Fwz34&feature=channel_video_title
/r/seduction05/03/11 05:24 PM
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I have ever found that as long as you stand up and act like you are confident and know what you doing, its all that matter. I would be a party and one of my friend would start doing the dougie. I dont know shit about dancing but other guys were too pussy to go in the middle. So I just go in the middle and start doing the wheelchair lol. Its where you bend your knees and move your hand like you are pushing a wheelchair. I think its not important how good you are at dancing. My friend can dance am…
/r/seduction05/03/11 04:57 PM
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no drugs were involved in this video :)
/r/seduction05/03/11 04:33 PM
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Thank you for this post. I was an oneitis problem this week. You made my logical brain working again after reading this.
/r/seduction05/03/11 10:01 AM
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Hello sorry for the late reply, I have been doing the mission but havnt had a chance to post it because I had to work, school all today and yesterday. This is on thursday. I actually woke up late and didnt take a shower and went straight to work. I worked and then went straight to class. At school I talked to one of my classmate and found out he is interested in PUA too. We went around the school and he recorded me went up and talk to this girl sitting by herself. I can tell you guys how importa…
/r/seduction05/03/11 09:38 AM
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If you think weed is that important in what she thinks of you then tell her. Why would you even put so much analyze in should you tell her you smoke or not. Do whatever you feel like and stop caring about the consequences. I would tell her that I like to smoke before eating. Smoke some weed, pop 4 lobster tails in the microwave for 1:10 minutes, heat the butter, bamn you got yourself 4 stars dinner.
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:58 AM
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The reason I started learning PUA is to try and seduce my oneitis. I spent 1.5 years improving myself. In the end I didnt get my oneitis but felt in love with myself instead. I think oneitis is a lesson, the faster you learn about it, the more you will learn about life. Please dont waste years on an oneitis, the only true love you have is yourself, other feeling will come and go.
/r/seduction02/03/11 08:04 PM
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Mission 1: Set Your Goals 1 What three accomplishments would you like to achieve to make you happier? Finished with my degree and get a good job. Make more friends. Be in better physical condition. 2 What are the reasons these accomplishments will make you happier? I want money and have a balanced, happy life. Right now my life is in a schedule of school and work. I want to be more free and live my life doing whatever I want. 3 What is your personal mission? - I will become successful, sexy, sma…
/r/seduction02/03/11 07:54 PM
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Day 1: I talked to the clerk at Walgreen. She showed me some good massaging oils. I asked an old lady if she needed help pushing her cart to the car. It seems like people love when a stranger talk to them. I talked to the guy that fixed my windshield, offering him water and shake his hand. I will continue the mission later on today. I will try something weird "Dont you have a feeling that someone is thinking about you right now? I think that person would love seeing you"
/r/seduction02/03/11 07:50 PM
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From what you are describing. I would pull her into me and start kinoing like crazy to her. Push her away and then pull her in. Repeat until she is comfortable with me kissing her and touching her sensual part on her body, waist, back of next, face, ear. Im 99% sure she is into you and want you to take action. And what if youre wrong? at least you tried lol
/r/seduction02/03/11 03:41 AM
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I really never focus on a girl IOI or IOD. It usually really easy to tell though after you tried to talk to 30+ girls. What I think is more important is your IOI and IOD. If you have to think about her IOI and IOD then you are not setting the frame. You want to be the one setting the frame and her changing her actions to win you over. This is classic flirting aka push-pull technique. You can learn more about it in Swinggcat's real world seduction e-book or audio book. Push-pull is actually reall…
/r/seduction02/03/11 03:38 AM
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Okay tomorrow will be our first challenge? I will do it and we post our FR. Mission one. Evaluate yourself. 1. Write one or two sentences describing how you believe other people currently perceive you. People see me as a happy and carefree guy. I am fun to hangout with, good at socializing, funny, attractive, and smart. I think everyone would love to be friend with me. 2.Write one or two sentences describing how you'd like to be per-ceived by others. I think I am exactly how I want other to see …
/r/seduction02/03/11 02:47 AM
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I have tried many different openers before but I found I like this the most. I am being true to myself and Im setting the frame. If you not caring about the respond then she wouldn't analyze your opener too much either. I remember before I used the opinions on shoes, quick question, ect. they all really work the same. Cheers
/r/seduction01/03/11 11:21 PM
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I am a introverts. I have less then 10 good friends that I only talk to daily and it takes a while for me to put someone in my circle. However if you put me in a room next to 5 HB9-10, I will be the center of attention and have them all over me. You can change yourself. In high school I didnt speak english so I was an AFC. After high school I got a job where I would meet 100+ people a day, earn their trust and get their information. Imagine you just walking to stranger house, knock on their door…
/r/seduction01/03/11 05:29 PM
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One-itis is a horrible disease. I tried a tip I read on seddist that if you ever find yourself cant stop thinking about a girl, then imagine her naked and masturbating while moaning your name. That way you are not make a perfect imagine of her in your mind, but set the frame she wants you.
/r/seduction01/03/11 05:19 PM
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Yes I understand and could have do better. However as mentioned above I just want to swing it and see. Maybe she is a horny girl and will just have fun with it. Can you give me some tips on handle her rejecting though?
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:44 PM
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Damn I already sent her a text, I guess the reply going to be know. I was going to do the sex first then schedule another session but she lives 30 minutes from me and I only see her whenever Im seeing my other friends. I read somewhere where if you ask 10 girls to fuck probably one would say yes that is why I decided to just ask and see. Any tips on handle her rejecting? edit. She didnt reject me. her reply, "we can see what happens" "what you doing" I guess I will work her more.
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:41 PM
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We took MDMA with friends and just spent whole night massaging each other and other sensor stuff.
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:39 PM
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