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| 19 | Let’s Talk About LVM Exes and When They Come Back After A BreakupI thought ex was too cocky and thought himself to be too good for me to reach out to me post breakup. This was Pre FDS and I was blaming myself for overreacting, being the nagging one and calling him out on his shit. I was so sure he would think “good riddance, this chick was exhausting”. Then, after a while, lord works in beautiful ways, I found FDS, it validated whatever I felt, fought for. Slowly overtime his name didn’t hurt. The shitty memories I had overpowered the good ones. I actively ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 31 | LVM has no emotion or respect.I am so sorry for your loss. World has not been a good place in a long while, I am sure your father is at peace. And ofc the guy has no respect or emotions. His brain is porn fried and he is led by his dick in most day to day circumstances. Jerking off at work shows he has no self control whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:18 AM |
| 19 | Queen Spitting Facts Once Again😂🤩I don’t trust someone with beard, when they shave it they suddenly become shrek looking man-babies like wtf crawl back and develop properly in the womb already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 94 | Blood in the water: a custom made tacticI have got junk in the trunk (46 inches) but I wasn’t insecure because of it. He obviously stared at girls with huge tits(not that mine are small, got C cups on me). Suddenly his “type” became women with overtly huge boobs and small bum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 12 | Let’s normalize walking awayI just block and delete if I start feeling anxious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 8 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️Tell me about it, my hormonal stress induced acne is also gone post breakup. I noticed I was piling weight around the midsection on my otherwise pear-shaped body and I think it was because of the raised cortisol levels in my blood. Lvm now get dropped like weights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:12 AM |
| 8 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️The only way from rock bottom is upwards. You are the Boss for realizing you will never return to that scrote even if it makes you sad sometimes. Warm hug to you, I know it’s very difficult to do what you and I have done yet they call us weak. pfftttt When I looked at the videos of me crying, I was trying to console that woman I was in the videos. I was glad that she actually shed tears instead of getting all numb and empty and shoveling up everything under a facade of calm pretense. I was thank… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 148 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️I deleted all the pics and video of ex and I together but I kept the ones where I was crying and feeling so alone during the relationship with him. SC memory resurfaced vids from last year around this time. Basically I documented my feelings in them. I looked so exhausted. That energy and light I once had was zapped.I knew I had to see myself in those vids to actually process the breakup and remind myself that I now love myself way too much to put myself in that situation ever again. It really h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:29 PM |
| 3 | ladies,how would you expect your father to react when you damage the car a little?Nope, not the first time. In fact over the years he has toned down his abusive nature. But yesterday he came out on me in full force, for damage so minimal. And, mind you he has also made an accident reversing, driving the same car and the damage was much much worse. The other day he parked the car on the sideway in such a way that it took alot more space on the main road. A car went by and hit the side mirror. He wasn’t so difficult on himself? So I am actually more hurt by his lack of understa… | /r/askFDS | 15/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | ladies,how would you expect your father to react when you damage the car a little?He told me to use public transportation from henceforth. I understand his anger, but I feel like he took it too far this time. Especially if you see the the actual damage, it’s very minimal. With mostly staying at home during the pandemic, my driving skills took a blow and I think he should cut me some slack because I think I could have (God forbid) been in a major accident as driving is really fast here. | /r/askFDS | 15/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, I’m a failureI want to share something with you. Today I went to pay condolences to the family of the deceased person. The said person’s daughter was really close to him(out of sll the children)and she really physically and mentally took the stress of his health crisis for 11 years. Her father was fighting cancer and she had to see him waste away before her eyes. Now, obviously because of this, and having family of her own, with the burden of work, she was always worked up and not in best of the moods. Today… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Share your “ex came back but I didn’t give him a second chance” storiesLol yeah he did send a classic I miss you text from another number to which I replied asking why he moved( countries) completely ignoring the “I miss you” that he shot my way. I guess his ego got bruised so he never ended up replying to me and the next day I blocked him due to my anxiety. Fast Forward 2 months later, dude texted me again apologizing on behalf of his best friend. Honestly After FDS they have all become so transparent. Like my bs radar is hypersensitive now. I can see their bs exc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 7 | I can’t focus on work after ex contacted me. How do you stay focus?They use the most stupid excuses to contact you. It’s so annoying because even after being blocked they figure out a way to reach out to you. A blast(in a bad way) from the past contacted me just 2 days ago apologizing on behalf of his best friend. Like wth dude you think Im that thick in the head that I wouldn’t know why you would text me that around 3 am?. Blocked him again✨✨👌. It took me good 9 months+ to get where I am right now(mentally) and I think it’s because I allowed myself to grief wi… | /r/askFDS | 08/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 16 | Beware of the non-apology apology!!! Anyone ever had a LVM say "I'm sorry you got hurt" rather than "I'm sorry that I was a piece of shit asshole who did not respect/consider your feelings?" One is not even attempting to accept blame!! BEWARE!!God this is timely, had an ex hit me up today apologizing on behalf of his best friend but cocky enough not even apologizing for what a LVM he is and was throughout the rs. Blocked that mofo again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 8 | How can a Blocked num text on watsapp?I did specifically blocked him from watsapp, then I blocked and deleted him from the contact list. I do not give him space in my head but when things like this you do wonder. Apparently I found out on google that if you delete your account on watsapp, delete the app, then reinstall it, making the account again, you can message numbers that have blocked u For refrence: https://brighterguide.com/text-someone-who-blocked-you/ | /r/askFDS | 05/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 10 | Pulled up behind this sassy plate todaymy dumbass read this as Aquamen4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:04 AM |
| 24 | If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.Also if he tells you that he has had lots of women in the past and now he is more “mature” and his messing around days are past him DUMP HIM RIGHT THERE AND THEN. Those tendencies never do really go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 10 | Don't be a weekday chick!Ooooooof now I Knw why I felt so shit when he used to spend weekends with his “bros”. We only used to see each other once a week for like 2-3 hours and I wondered If I was actually asking for too much to spend more time with him (preferably weekend or 2wice a week). Karma is beautiful because his best friend ended up confessing he had feelings for me to ex(after the Rs ended) and now they do not talk anymore 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:10 AM |
| 47 | SHIT LIST 💩 a "get the fuck over him" strategy for breakups.Also, block him right away and (everyone related to him), delete his number so you do not text him when you are feeling the feels. After few months your brain should already be filtering him out. I'm at this point right now, 9 months post-breakup, that I feel such indifference towards him. No hate. No Anger. Absolutely zero love. I was so surprised the other day my friend sent me a ss of a guy who, according to her looked like ex and I told her In all honesty, I can not even recall ex’s face now… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 15 | Possible red flags in guy im talking to, help!Drop him sis, he isn't relationship material or hubby material for that matter. Following scantily clad women on Insta is a huge no-no for me and I bet he watches porn too. He is being low effort from the beginning itself and the time he takes to text you back in the meanwhile he is texting other chicks so you aren't his priority and so, you remove yourself from being one of his options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:36 PM |
| 31 | This sub has been a huge comfort to me as I'm going through my breakup, thank you. ❤️I am so proud of you for fighting through this. The first few months after break up is intense but I promise it all gets better with time. Give yourself time to grief and also forgive yourself in the meantime. We are here, vent all you want. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Sendhil Ramamurthy didn’t age a day 🔥I was like oooooo he fine fine when I first saw him on New Amsterdam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:24 AM |
| 6 | How can I figure out what I'm truly physically attracted to, since we've all been coerced into having no standards?For me, he could be chiseled greek god and I would appreciate his beauty, but if he comes across thick as two planks,generally a bore with no interesting or redeeming qualities and little to no respect for people issa hard pass for me. I think with me the character is intwined with how I find myself attracted to a guy. My vagina shrivels up if he’s insanely good looking but spews some bs from his mouth. Like umm excuse me sir I wanted to kiss those lips but nvm they look like arsehole to me now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 23 | Don't take romantic relationships so seriouslyI wish I knew this when I got into relationship. funny now that I remember, It was thrown at me, this mindset by ex, when I use to tell him how some of his actions or lack thereof bothered me. I used to get classic snapback”why do you take this so seriously”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?Nopee none of those but Eric in troy (as hector) was 🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?My type is Eric Bana( when he was younger) so hot 🥵 why is it that all the males I find attractive have to be leos ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 6 | Do not message men first! Like complimenting them, it just inflates their ego so they try more girls.They keep reviving and revisiting that one compliment from years ago better not give them new ones just so their ego gets bigger than the red giant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | A question?does this apply to making them wait for oral sex too? Edit :nvm I saw you mentioned “as soon as they come” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Vidyut JamwalI like me some thigh meat too 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Vidyut JamwalI did not knw If I should be sad or happy knowing that such hotness exists out there and I do not have it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Vidyut JamwalYikes I did not see that, but I follow him on Ig he posts his martial arts videos quite often and I can confirm he surely does not skip leg day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Arjun RampalFactss 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Arjun RampalI hope you were not disappointed 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:15 PM |
| 26 | Arjun RampalEee he looks tad worn out now that he is 48 but his bone structure is gold. Back in his young days like you see here he was (for me still is) smokin’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Kıvanç Tatlıtuğyo where’s Borak Ozcivit😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Vetting for porn useAhh gotya. Well for a little mindset shift, I like to think it’s equally degrading if not more because they are literally getting off by having fecal matter on their dick. They are full of shit and they like to dunk their dick in shit too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄I just have a simple question for these “sex workers” and that is would they still be doing what they are if they were well off?And by well off I mean financially secure, able to afford what they want and need. Edit: Got a reply here from a woman who said she has been in the industry for 10 years and she is well off. Also, she doesn’t intend to quit. I understand why you would not want to. Pay is undeniably good and sex sells. I hope I can recall well because the wonderful mods deleted the comme… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 14 | Vetting for porn useI seriously do not understand men. They want to fuck an opening from where we excrete waste and yet they get so disgusted about periods or period sex. like wot even???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 7 | Stop calling acceptable men “HV”?So I have a little story to tell here. Yesterday for some odd reason, I was really fatigued and tired. There were couple of utensils left in the sink post iftar and I did not want to do them. So it was left there until around Suhoor time my dad washed them. Mom made such a big deal as to how he had to wash them and that I have no shame. Well next day he too made me notice that how he has washed dishes. I don’t understand why can’t we all just wash our own plates like why does one person have to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 35 | Flip the script!Man I tried that logic and the scrote said not all dicks are same. So I went like are you implying that your dick is so small it won’t “stretch” me out? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:23 AM |
| 12 | Stalker exMy account has always been private. Even after breakup when I was tempted to show him that I am living the good life w/o him, I never did make my account public because I had to forcefully convince my brain he is nobody to me. Infact he is dead to me. Scrote still follows my friends and my own COUSIN. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Stalker exAlso he has 80 followers and likes on the pics that he has on the account is >10 . He thinks I am dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Stalker exGlad you got away lightly, things could have taken much dangerous turn. Important lesson to change all locks post breakup and esp if you had an abusive ex ex. What a weirdo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 14 | Stalker exEw his dick always ended up giving me infection and I wondered how all of a sudden am I getting these infections whereas before I met him I never had those complications. He can go put his infected dick in whoever willingly wants to put it in🤮. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeThis shit happens to many people. You aren’t alone. Unfortunately low value people are abundant regardless of genders. Drop them like hot plates sis. Love you too❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeThank you so much for your kind words and FDS really made me enforce my boundaries. It’s because of FDS that I now see I have to drop people I have known all my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeI am not obligated I agree. We are but social beings and because of that I do want to interact with people, listen to their stories, learn from them while I also share my experiences and my knowledge. However it is but a want and not a need and so I might have to move forward alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeI have cut one friend off completely (the one who used me to pay for her and drive around). I just decided one day I won’t be interacting with her or tolerate her behavior anymore. She did try to get in contact with me calling me first from her mobile multiple times and when I didn’t respond she called me from her landline number which I didn’t knw about and so I answered. I kept the conversation short and curt and days later she tried to call me from landline again but this time I knew not to a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeSince my cousin doesn’t even bother replying and leaves me on seen, I shall do the exact same with any future messages I shall receive from her without any guilt. That’s why I said I will treat them exactly the way they treat me. Dropping them is excellent (and that is something which will happen naturally since I won’t be replying to her messages) but giving them taste of their own medicine does soothe the wound lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeYeah apparently I do especially in regards to the type I have dealt with till now. Ice queen through and through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:37 PM |
| 3 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeThank you so much. This warms me immensely. Likewise I would love to have you and people like you in my life treating people with respect they deserve. I would say you don’t ever change! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 2 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeOo I knw that kind. They irk me the most. Well not literally irk but I get slightly annoyed. like you have sent me request we follow each other, you watch my stories, I upload pics and you don’t even bother liking or commenting or replying? wtf is social media for if you aren’t even engaging on a platform in some way. why bother sending me request to begin with? I think with these kind of people they just want to knw what’s going on in your life without actually interacting with you. They are no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeSis these are some things I shouldn’t have to speak about to them. It is common sense. Would they leave a message seen If it was from a person they deem important and worth replying to? no, they would obviously get back to them. Probably in a heartbeat. likewise if my cousin is continuing to keep ex on her social media, I shouldn’t have to drill in her head to remove him as she is directly related to me and if she knew about ex it was through me and now that we have broken up what makes her keep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 6 | On a post about rare conditions encountered by doctors. Imagine being unable to feed yourself because your wife died or divorced youI don’t understand why cooking and cleaning are chores only restricted to women. Cooking is a skill and everyone, I mean everyone regardless of gender should be able to feed themselves according to their taste or preference etc. As for cleaning, men can operate fucking machines in the factory yet can’t figure out basic household chores and that too with wide variety of information available on internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 4 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeAgreed I just pointed out PMS because alot of men seems to take our emotions lightly and blame it on this fact or call PMS a whole reason for our emotions when in fact this issue has been existing for a long time and PMS is making me realize I can’t deal with it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:42 AM |
| 6 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeI only said that to lurking scrotes here because every time we are upset they invalidate our emotions and blame it on hormones. I don’t care what they think I just wanted to mention and give a warning that what I was feeling comes with a solid reason. I wish I could drop my cousin though and go completely no contact with her but it’s difficult. She is my first cousin (as in Dad’s sister’s daughter) and I am likely to meet her on many occasions. We have been close majority of my life idk what hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:38 AM |
| 5 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeOh boy went through the same thing 8 months ago. When I needed them the most after breakup, they would send a customary text, it seemed forced and asked me how I was doing and they would reply ages later. I got the cue that yes they probably don’t want to listen or talk to me anymore and I won’t ask them to talk to me either. I am so glad you have made peace with their absence in life, you can only go above and beyond without the dead useless weight from now onwards. Atleast that’s what I keep t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:33 AM |
| 4 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeI knw right, they take it so lightly probably thinking no answer is an answer but it is in reality glaringly rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:28 AM |
| 10 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeThese people are not necessarily pickmeishas, I have been more of a pickmeisha than them. However they do lack thinking or decency as to how to treat a person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:27 AM |
| 12 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeSame here🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:25 AM |
| 19 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeScrotes don’t even have decency to book a hotel to screw and she probably finds car sex hot. At this point, I don’t mean no offense, nor encourage it, prostitutes are having it better in a sense that they are actually get paid for their services. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:24 AM |
| 12 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeI am so sorry that happened to you. I have been that chick to abandon my girl friends when I was in a relationship, I won’t lie. However, they weren’t ride or die kind of women. In one way or another, they all used me for different things so I was glad I could finally distance myself. I have no regrets about that. The ones mentioned, I tried to stay in regular contact only for them to treat me like sack too. Oh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:20 AM |
| 30 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeI agree FDS applies every aspect of life. Since I have joined FDS I have dropped most low effort people and the ones not so close to me like hot plates and therefore my circle of socializing became really small. I guess I was hanging on to these 3 people in my life for that very reason. No more of that because I don’t want to confront them nor be upset and sad that they can’t treat u with minimum respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:15 AM |
| 17 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeRest assured they are dropped from here onwards. Im all about having high value being myself so that I can go out there and look for other high value women to interact with but the pandemic has made that difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | End of my Pickme EraYou Knw I don’t mean it as a disrespect it takes longer time for people to realize they are being treated like shit but I thank my lord every single day for instilling it in ex’s brain to breakup with me after year and a half. I see stories here everyday, of women being treated miserably for years and beyond and I am just thankful and proud of myself for dealing with such a tough time right after breakup but I came out stronger than ever. Ladies, even if it hurts the most to lose that person, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Is this the new norm ?Don’t even bother discussing with the said person about his activities online, he will only provide excuses such as “oh my Insta is always glitching, that’s why I appear online and not reply”. Yeah right. They just don’t want to text you. | /r/askFDS | 29/04/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | What love song do you dedicate to yourself?Elastic heart by Sia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Weird Red Flags?•If he worships ZAYN or is obsessed with him. •Likes the TV show lucifer and esp lucifer himself, can add breaking bad here too. •Obsessed with watches (this is more of a personal red flag). •Any mention of that he hasn’t cried in ages. RUN •Listens more than he talks, don’t be fooled he is literally making a folder of yours in his mind only for that to be used against you. •Has strong believes against vaccines or universities being a hoax nowadays. •Men in the field of computer science. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:00 PM |
| 31 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.Also Dick pics ≠ nudes. Nude is basically whole body sans clothes. Dick is just one body part. It’s not fair that he sends you a dick pic 🤮 and expects nudes from you.If you have been intimate already but your partner and yourself are in LDR and feeling the feels, only share nudes without your face in it or any easily identifiable piercing/tattoo/birthmark. Obv it is too much work to keep looking for what’s identifiable in the nude (esp in the heat of the moment)so just stay away from it all tog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Cringefest of alpha malesSheet you described ex right there( I don’t like to put “my” before ex idk it still feels like I have a link with him) but hotdamn this was accurate af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 4 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?I would be like yeah goodluck trying to throw dirt on my name you broke musician. Oh and also go sing to yourself some lullaby to soothe your wounded ego. He’s all talk no action. When they can’t even make an effort to be respectful and gentlemen on the dates what makes u think he will take the trouble of making you infamous. His name will get dragged too that is ofc if u have kept the evidence. Try not to be intimated by this asshole we all are with you. Be safe❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Pakistan’s Prime Minister Links Rape to ‘Vulgarity’ and How Women DressThey present you with bullshit reasons like men are men, they are biologically horny beings looking for any opportunity to fuck. Alot of men in Pakistan get a free pass because of their sex. Oh he cheated? well you knw he is a man and he was away from his wife what do u expect? his wife of 20+ years died and he married like after three months, I mean he has needs and a man cannot live without a woman etc etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 2 | How do I search who the phone number belongs to?You are right curiosity killed the cat anyways | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | How do I search who the phone number belongs to?I tried but it says access denied 🙅♀️. The only way is to call number anonymously but lol I will not do that. Thanks for the suggestion. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | How do I search who the phone number belongs to?Yeah nothing came up, I guess it’s for the best. I’ll have to put my mind elsewhere aside from thinking about who texted me. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 11:14 PM |
| 3 | How do I search who the phone number belongs to?You are spot on with this thank you 😊 | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 4 | How do I search who the phone number belongs to?I will never explain anyone why I have cut contact with them or completely cut them off from my life but I do get curious sometimes as to how they make an effort now texting after being blocked where they could have when they had the access. I think I am still in that external validation seeking mode where I get certain peace knowing now I have control and they are itching to get to me. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 32 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?Im a sucker for nice shapely calves on men and not toothpick legs. He should have good muscle tone but not a gym rat. Dick which is girthy, tall and nice veiny arms. Also I like men with nice eye shape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Starting NCThis reminds of the time when ex asked to take a break because we were having a lot of arguments and the workload on him and keeping the relationship going was too much work for him. Sheepishly I obliged, scared to the bones from the thoughts of losing him. Three days in my anxiety got the best of me and I hit up his best friend to ask what his plans regarding us are🤡 and he said that he thinks that we aren’t going to be back together. I was distraught and so pissed I blocked his best friend and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | DiscardingHe is trash and discarding is an apt word for getting rid of him. If you think the word is harsh for the situation, you aren’t giving yourself enough love to not think about how your actions affect him. He ghosted you for 10 days love, that’s beyond harsh. I am proud of you for readjusting your crown and dumping him. | /r/askFDS | 04/04/21 03:12 PM |
| 19 | How do you not feel sad about a ex toxic relationship?I would say that it takes time to finally be happy and have hope for something new and better for you in future. I think you are still going through withdrawals and that’s completely normal. Just give yourself time to feel all emotions, do not suppress them. Cry when you want to. It is important to focus on the person he really was and not the image you have in your head with this you will realize that the relationship wouldn’t be good for you in the long run. It’s been 7 months since my relatio… | /r/askFDS | 04/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.thats an amazing comeback I internally had fireworks thinking how he must have reacted. I want to use this line on so many men who also neg me but I can’t because I am 5ft 2 in lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 5 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡What the hell did I just read. My blood is boiling right now. He is such a douchébag I really hope she left him. Why is she even questioning herself when the lies and facts are in plain sight to see? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Ex texted meI getchu it’s so much fun playing with them like this when tables turn. Ultimate satisfaction 😂 | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Ex texted meThank you I am trying not to work myself up for this it’s not worth at the cost of my mental health. Their LV tactics have nothing to do with me and I keep reminding myself that | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Ex texted meThere are so many emotional unavailable men like them and I am so glad you and I got free. We got this💪 | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Ex texted meIf its any better, I completely ignored The I miss you text from him and didn’t even ask how he’s doing🥴 but yeah who am I fooling, Im kicking myself for even acknowledging his message after him being blocked for almost 5 months.🤡🤦🏾♀️ | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Ex texted meWhat irked me was the casual how you doing sans question mark and I miss you after 7 months like they think they can pop back into our lives like nothing happened. There itself I hatched the plan that If the convo starts, I would ghost, block his ass mid convo and bruise his ego but he ended up ghosting me which is rubbing me the wrong way lol. However, then I remembered last time that I texted him, 7 months ago was an apology for my actions which I now understand (thanks to FDS)were perfectly r… | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 12 | Ex texted meIf I am being extremely honest, I am a petty bitch, I had plans to block the guy mid convo anyways to begin with. It has been etched into the ground,I won’t ever give second chance to him and get back together. | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 39 | Ex texted medone ✅ the unnecessary anxiety was already gnawing at me. All of his other numbers are already blocked (I did it months ago), he is also blocked from all social media that’s why I was confused he would text me from out of country sim number only to disappear into thin air. | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 03:03 PM |
| 27 | Ex texted meAnnoying shit, I guess he expects me to double text him, not happening. I have him blocked everywhere else and he pulls this scrote move. | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 5 | FDS applied to friendshipsI had a friend, who would only hit me up when she needed help with certain hw questions or topics she didn’t understand. Also, she would ask me to go out with her last min, knowing full well my mom needs me telling her week in advance if I want to go somewhere out. Moreover, I would mostly have to pay for her meals because she wasn’t that financially well off and I felt bad. She never carried cash on her but magically had the resources to for driving classes and it is pricey where we live. I hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you go about vetting a guy's dick size?That’s my ultimate fear me finally having a guy who checks all the right boxes only to discover he has shriveled mushroom for a dick. A woman’s need is more complex than a man’s. Men can just thrust it in any hole and have an orgasm. We on the other hand need attentive care days before the intercourse to actually have a chance at orgasm and since most men with average to small dick would rather call that a-lot of effort we might as well just fuck on the whim a dick which is above average in both… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:00 PM |
| 3 | my abusive ex showed me this sub to make fun of itIt wasn’t him guiding you to this sub, The universe/God/any other higher power you believe in intervened for you to see the actual truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Is Charlie an FDS follower (not quite there but he is getting close)!!Me thinking most probably his PIED dick and unwanted stress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:21 AM |
| 176 | Is Charlie an FDS follower (not quite there but he is getting close)!!Okay I am going to be extra cynical , those are alot of words for saying “I am so decent, so high value that you will end up swiping right on me or we will be sexing on the floor by third date.” Nah Charlie, nice trap but you can’t bite me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 24 | Coming from a Muslim community, I’m so sad to see sisters saying things like this. This came from a Muslim meme page where a woman agrees with the man that we’re not equal.That’s right we women aren’t equal, we are far superior than any man out there. Patriarchy exists because early on itself men realized women are much much better than them and of course they had to reign us in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 4 | TV shows with strong woman energy?I recommend cable girls or Las chicas del cable. It’s there on netflix. Might be triggering for some because it does show domestic abuse in few episodes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 4 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Did we date the same guy lol. A week before the breakup, we stayed at a hotel and were intimate the whole time. The following week he started texting less and less and I reluctantly mirrored him. He told me he was busy with work etc and I kept thinking how busy can you get by not even calling your gf even once for 5 mins. All he did was text me in a span on several hours b/w each texts and I don’t fancy texting. By expecting him to call me instead of texting all the time was apparently too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 11:09 AM |
| 4 | If You’ve Forgiven Your Ex for Being Shit, but Not Yourself for Being “Stupid”. You’re Still Loving Him More Than You Love YourselfExactly like why should he get my forgiveness just like that without even sincerely asking for it. Then, it’s on me If I want to or not. Forgiving after I have been done wrong is just stupid. You give so much of your positive energy just to convince and expand your heart enough to forgive him like that. Forgiveness then just becomes invaluable. I remember the negative aspect of the relationship, process it, Improve myself and heed with caution next time. With time I become indifferent and at pea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Things My 86 Year Old Mother Says About Men and RelationshipsMy momma once told me that If you were to sleep with a man in a same room 95% of them will try inappropriate things with you. The rest 10%, the respectable ones will be at bay from you, respecting your boundaries treating you as actual Human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Deathly Scared of Him Leaving (even when he shows no sign of leaving), advice needed.It could be that your brain picked up on some behavior of his and is trying to hold you back by making you fear if he leaves. I guess making you prepared for his departure from your life. In all honesty, I have been in your place, maybe not as intense, but I also feared losing him. It’s just that now I realized how many subtle red flags I missed because I didn’t knw any better and I wasn’t viewing the relationship through FDS lenses. I think any secure relationship would not instill this fear. | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Blocking and deleting finally has really worked wondersI just hope you didn’t learn his Number by heart. I never wanted to maybe because I kinda knew intuitively it wouldn’t last and If I were to delete his number and block him, I wouldn’t be able to reach out to him at my weakest. Goodluck❤️ | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 09:33 AM |
| 17 | Blocking and deleting finally has really worked wondersPeople tell you to think of it them not reaching out is respecting your boundaries. I think this mindset really places them on a positive spectrum which makes you admire them even more in a long run. They are out of your life because they disrespected boundaries in one way or another what makes you think they are respecting it after things have ended. It boils down to this one phrase, If they wanted to, they would have and if they haven’t they aren’t for you. Good work girl! I knw blocking is so… | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Those poor women. Actually naw, they know the history.Y’all be knwing about your exes’ lives when I don’t even have a solid answer to if he is alive or dead as he’s blocked and hasn’t once reached out. His friend has tried but I don’t trust him. Oblivion is a bliss I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactyeh it’s probably that it didn’t work out b/w him and his ex. Good riddance! I mean these guys think that working on themselves after rs ends is having focus on their career success and looking like greek God. That way they think that women will fall at their feet(and they do) and that validates their existence and they get ego fill from that. They don’t even bother working on themselves emotionally to let go of the past and bring the same emotional baggage to the next relationship. They treat t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 12 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactThe cheek of this guy, contacting her after 6 months! If he truly cared he would not wait for half a year to talk to her. That letter is such a low effort bate, look at the font, If he really wanted to explain himself he would do so in the letter itself. He did not even ask how she is doing considering we are in a midst of a pandemic. It’s just that once the OP gives in and contacts him, he can deny it in the future that he ever sent a letter giving him an upper hand so he brag to his bros how h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!I have a question for you all, would genuinely love seeing opinions you all have. What If a man is actively trying to pursue a career and wants a woman who helps him in his struggle and vice versa. At this stage his success isn’t materialized. He believes the woman who has helped him through his journey deserves the queen treatment and the world as opposed to woman who only came into his life when life gave him plenty of lemons. He automatically places that woman not worthy of treating her well … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 17 | "Boyfriends are like, 'why don't you liposuction my girlfriend?' Why don't I liposuction you? Look at that big fat hairy belly of yours." LOL I love this plastic surgeon's tiktok!Oh my god I was having this same argument on some Insta page which posted a tiktok video of a woman calling out males for literally negging”remove your makeup then we will see how cute you are” and so in retaliation she said “shave your beard then, go ahead” and the WHOLE comment section was basically like Beard is natural and is Sunnah whereas makeup is artificial. I can’t even waste my energy Arguing with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:45 AM |
| 5 | Ex’s Ex best friend Called me todayI agree and he wasn’t even “best-friend” to B either. | /r/askFDS | 27/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?Ooo Mamacita the second phrase hits so close to home. Jeeeez | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you want to get to know the nuances of his culture? Look at meme pages targeted to their ethnic groupGod, since discovering FDS my attraction towards desi men is all time low. There was this video by lord desi on insta of a woman literally stating her preference in her tiktok video. There was a tad bit of posing and she was wearing right fit jumpsuit. Her preference was”when he is Muslim but follows alot of females and naked models” while literally walking away when latter part is emphasized.Most comments called her a hoe for wearing tight clothes or hoe for sticking her ass out and that she sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:50 PM |
| -7 | Examples of HVM or healthy relationships in media?Coco and Ice T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | In honor of Valentine's Day, I have deleted every trace of my exI deleted our pics together and everything related to him by the end of second month post breakup. I only mustered up courage to block him and his best friend by month 4. His best friend is pos kept reaching out to me through watsapp groups we three had together and eventually stopped talking on so I didn’t even remember those groups. I eventually exited and deleted the group. He kept saying how my ex misses me and sent me vids of us three together. It was a very confusing time because I kept wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm sick of askingOne of the reasons to never establish exclusivity from FWB is the fact that the man you are dating will be stuck on the same effort level that he gave during fwb phase and If you two get exclusive and you have certain expectations and bars when it comes to be treated by him, he will tell you that he’s been the same with his efforts throughout and that only you changed. He will tell you that you are exclusive with him only because you saw something good during the fwb phase. He will literally say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | FDS is making me a proper biatch and I think I am loving itBackground info I met this guy on NYE party and got intimate with him. He is friends with the people I am acquainted with. This guy kept telling me how he has sent me requests on insta before and I haven’t responded to it. Yeah well, that never happened he never did send and was just saying stuff to get into my pants. I was aware of his buttering, but chose to sleep with him regardless because I was horny. 🤡After the whole act he did say he will get in touch ie. send req again etc at this point … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | A MASSIVE Red Flag When TextingShit! sorry for the slur but oh my god. Flashbacks through and through with this post. When ex and I were in the texting phase he literally has this third party version of watsapp where if you would send a message to the person with the third party watsapp installed, it would always show as single tick, regardless of them connected to the wifi or not. It’s like God Finally showing me the truth & tactics of these men through you all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitJust yesterday I had some filthy asshole run towards me from behind as I was jogging and he grabbed my ass then started to run away. literally chased that mofo and threw my headphone case, it hit his head. I was so furious I cussed him out as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Its just one of the sad days today🤗🤗You are right. I am literally walking talking red flag detector lol. My tolerance level for any subtle bullshit is all time low and I am sooooo lenient with that block button. Sometimes I feel like I am building imaginary wall around me that only few can pass. This was my first serious relationship and I am glad it happened because I am learning such wisdom.❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:08 AM |
| 11 | Its just one of the sad days todayMuch love to you, Remember you aren’t needy, you aren’t clingy, you never asked for much. If these problems did exist with you, close friends around you would have pointed it out by now or distanced themselves due to lack of space you give to them. I have learned to be extremely self aware and knw the reasons for my emotions. It doesn’t matter if others call you controlling or helicopter gf because those are your boundaries being disrespected and nobody deserves that. Relationships thrive mainly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:04 AM |
| 12 | Its just one of the sad days todayThank you for the words 🙏I just realized while typing it all out that my relationship was just FWB disguised under the label of exclusivity. Definitely, I am being so patient with myself right now because healing isn’t linear but I have already made so much progress🤗🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Its just one of the sad days todayI have learnt my lesson, no matter how hard it was but I think I should make this clear because it isn’t stated in the actual post, I lost my virginity to him only after we became exclusive and during fwb we mostly kept it at oral sex and even at that he was bleh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Queens don't waste our energy on greasy ass napkins.Yesss the napkin I vomited on seeing his PIED minuscule dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of relationship coaches who are women completely excusing male depravity.One of the most twisted advice I heard from one of the relationship coaches on Insta was that if you love her enough then leave her. I saw that before I found FDS and even then I was like wth so you don’t step up, make an effort to make her feel important to you and cared for, just leave like that? Yeah that’s totally love leave her heartbroken and she has find someone else(If she wants) when all she wanted was you. Well actually a good thing to that advice is the woman will end up getting someo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 11 | I feel soooo much better after blocking himI am so proud of you for taking this huge step. Alot of Subs on reddit say that blocking shows how much you care about the other person that even if they aren’t reaching out but seeing their mere presence on the platform is bothering you hence, shows they still have control over you. That’s not the case, at this point you shouldn’t even want to give any fucks about how your ex thinks nor give any fucks about him. I can bet on my fingernail that he doesn’t care. Moreover, blocking will remove any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:49 AM |
| 31 | hOw dO i NoT eMbArRaSs mY HuSbAnD aBoUt hiS bUtT CrUmBsThrow the whole man away, along with his shit crumbs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget to head over to r/askFDS and help a fellow FDS lady today!Sure thing, Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget to head over to r/askFDS and help a fellow FDS lady today!I would like to help there too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 09:20 AM |
| 5 | Has the FDS-mindset ruined (some) music for anyone else?Good for you by Selena Gomez pickme vibe to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You LeftApparently I was such a pick me back then that even if there were signs and they put me off so much I didn’t voice them out because back then we were just friends with benefits. 🤡 My cousin came to visit us from US and I made her meet him(ex). Yo I kid you not he starting being whole lot friendly with her as in dancing around to songs in malls randomly or just generally showing more interest in her than me. Also I remember her telling me we were at bookstore and I was looking for some books In s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:39 AM |
| 26 | The audacity. (Found this on another sub)1)I will peg the shit out of you. 2) I so support your machismo and I will let the you take the lead when it comes to paying for dates,bills etc. 3)I will not cook but hey! that means you can loose that early onset of bear belly fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 11:56 PM |
| 0 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenWell it could be because most relationships have honeymoon phase where everything is fine and once that wears off,people’s mask begin to fall off and we see them for what they are. Unfortunately it is sometimes too late and the heart tells us not to leave the person who’s so disrespectful when we actually shouldn’t have to keep up w the crap. Even besides the honeymoon phase I feel people can drag their act for far too long esp if they really do hold some ulterior motives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:55 PM |
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