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/r/seduction14/07/20 08:54 AM
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I feel like this rejection has hurt me a bit and I feel like depression and anxiety is coming back to put me back in my place. You're good man. You're doing excellently. It's a numbers game and you have to get more numbers to calibrate. Next dates you have take any and all expectation off them, helps a lot with 2 things: 1) your behaviour becomes a lot more natural/attractive and 2) you don't get that rejection sting. Of course prepare for all possible outcomes but have no expectations for them.…
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:51 AM
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You're very welcome! =]
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:01 PM
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Your ma loved it ;)
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:03 PM
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Who cares?? The point is you're moving on kiddo, don't overthink it.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:50 PM
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"I'm butthurt and my reaction is to be whiney-formal". He doesn't need to respond to the request for friendshzone, she'll get the picture, no need to barrel in there with all of the passive aggressive Asperger's frustration. A simple; "coola boola well take it handy with yourself missus! ;)"
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:42 AM
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The corny line was just fine, tongue in cheek cocky funny. Don't mind him, keep trying it out and only drop it if the statistics are not working for you.. It might turn some off but you're supposed to be polarizing people early... some will love it and some will hate it. But it's miles better than being safe (boring) where every body just finds you meh. edit spelling
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:36 AM
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"No worries! Take it handy mandy (=" Doesn't matter the words you pick, just be nice and silly and don't waste your time. Keep it simple. You're basically just showing that you're cool and not affected and didn't waste your time and if ya ever meet her again under different circumstances she'll remember you were a cool one that didn't attach like a slug. Main thing is to move your mind on to the next one.
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:33 AM
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Depends what you want. Worked a treat for me. The rules are set, you can choose to play or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:55 AM
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As soon as you see the word "busy" with no counter-offer to hangout. It's code for either pushing you back because you're coming on too strong (in which case you gotta immediately calibrate your text game to match hers in frequency, length and investment at the very least). Or more likely it's code for brushing you off. Saying it directly to other people before has probably gotten her some nasty responses, so she's trained against it. Try option 1, disinvest, and see how it goes. Otherwise it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:25 PM
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Many pua artists recommend pushing hard and blowing past resistance as successful strategies. There are manf risks to this but it does often work. Persistance and testing limits and drive are traits that many women find atractive, and are often carried by successful men. Men pushing against a woman's resistance and showing determination to win the prize are a normal part of the courting process. Its a staple of romance fiction. Its best summed up by how Elon Musk first dated his wife. She blew h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:13 PM
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It's going to change the dynamic either way, embrace it. The best thing you can do if one is not interested in your advances, be like "haha no worries" and immediately start thinking and getting excited for the next girl you're gonna try it on with. As for how, look at the side bar, normal escalation, alcohol helps, as does a wingman. OK story time: Once I'd been backpacking and got very pally pally with one girl, no physical escalation but going to see temples and stuff together (which if you s…
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:56 PM
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It's natural (and even addictive) to wallow with excuses that are out of your control, rather than accepting responsibility for your own lot. Fact is looks are a factor, no shit. Math aptitude helps one become an engineer, but with an average talent can you still be successful in the field? Heck yes.
/r/seduction19/07/17 09:15 AM
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As someone else pointed out, it's deliberate sure, she's just unlikely to be aware what she's doing or why. If you've ever seen secret eaters you'd know we're often not in the driving seat of our own actions. It would take a callous mind and a lot of effort (a lot more than it's worth) to consciously cock-block him. Framing it as a test, an opportunity to shine and show your confidence is definitely the best for you... rather than sinking into the depths of bitter misogyny... which does you or y…
/r/seduction07/07/16 07:31 AM
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Just remember she's not doing it consciously so no hate, just learn from it and see how you can spin it your way next time :) There's also a difference between bag holding and bag minding. i.e. say you're on a date and your date needs to nip to the bathroom and asks you to mind her bag (which she's left on the chair). She's demonstrating trust in you in this case, which is important as you can imagine.
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:35 PM
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Just remember she's not doing it consciously so no hate, just learn from it and see how you can spin it your way next time :) There's also a difference between bag holding and bag minding. i.e. say you're on a date and your date needs to nip to the bathroom and asks you to mind her bag (which she's left on the chair). She's demonstrating trust in you in this case, which is important as you can imagine.
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:35 PM
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"No. you are a big girl you can carry it yourself" The extra information required here is that is that you HAVE to say it with a big cheeky/wry smile. The immediate reaction of an unconfident lad is to say it defensively, which is just gonna cause an awkward scene.
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:28 PM
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I think the point is that it is unexpectedly childish and playful/fun.
/r/seduction12/04/16 10:42 PM
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how does he get into the situation in the first place is what I'm missing.
/r/seduction30/01/16 01:29 PM
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I've been using Tinder for almost two years now and gotten quite a lot of sex from it. But now that I've started doing day game I feel that I've wasted my time. Waste of time :D how is that a waste of time?
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:23 PM
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Your argument is that sitting across from each-other is better for eye contact. I would argue, from personal experience, that sitting next to each-other doesn't inhibit eye-contact at all. Initiating touch is... difficult sitting across from each-other. Incidental touch is natural sitting next to eachother.
/r/seduction16/12/15 11:24 PM
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It's exclusively for a date (or maybe club/bar) scenario, with adults. Don't try to seduce people during school hours, that's a (hopefully pretty obvious) no-no. Read the sidebar here, focus on becoming a better person.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:04 AM
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Hmm, surprised I couldn't find it through the side FAQs, search for escalation ladder. Example
/r/seduction16/12/15 03:38 AM
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If you're playing interviewer then you may not be engaging well enough playfully and rather be just rattling off boring questions. Having prepared things to show & tell is not really going to work so well if they are things you just (or must!) lay out there rather than have her dig out from you, which is far better. It has to be a parley. Obviously having a few stories on hand that you can segway into is always good. For getting out of the interview type situation AOC guys recommend bantering. A…
/r/seduction15/12/15 07:01 PM
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In that case, bullet dodged!
/r/seduction12/10/15 11:22 PM
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You've completely missed the point lad.
/r/seduction09/09/15 02:24 PM
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Nothing you've said suggests you lying is the answer to this =] it's not even the other side of the coin! Whatever your history, someone you've just met hasn't earned the right (nor does she likely care) to know your detailed history or deepest insecurities. That kind of TMI demonstrates heaps of negativity and zero grasp of social nuance. If someone said that to you, you would likely quickly extricate yourself from their company, it's just human nature to find TMI awkward. On the other hand, sa…
/r/seduction09/09/15 11:07 AM
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That's not meant to be taken seriously
/r/seduction08/09/15 04:51 PM
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I think you're missing the idea... or are arguing for the sake of arguing. It has a lot to do with confidence. Lying to attract is born out of insecurity that she won't like you for who you are. Insecurity is unattractive. Are you new to this? If so have a look here man: Seddit above the game part 2: fundamentals of attraction Edit: Also believing your authentic self to be boring is bad inner game, bad framing, shows insecurity and is a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction08/09/15 04:41 PM
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There's just no need to lie, except to be graceful in the example you give. Once you're caught your value is gone. Most of PU is about being authenthic. That's confidence, and that's attractive.
/r/seduction08/09/15 03:39 PM
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So the way Tinder works is that you both have to say yes when seeing their picture before you can chat. If you have a different cover photo, maybe someone who said no to you before will say yes this time, and vice versa (and you get fresh chance for them to see you again). A photo of you out drinking vs. a photo of you rock-climbing vs. a black & white selfie of you pulling a duckface in a tank top at the gym with very good pump on. They'll attract different people based on the arbitrary assumpt…
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:53 AM
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True, but that doesn't apply in Taiwan. They have a very similar culture to Japan and Korea... The difference is that they're a lot less conservative and they are very westward looking... There's an admiration of the west which brings inherent value to you as a foreigner there.... and not for your cash flow, there are PLENTY of well-to-do local men.
/r/seduction30/08/15 09:44 PM
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Mate, Taiwan is a dream. Next to Vietnam and Bali/Jakarta you will have no problems. I've been there about 4 or 5 times and am trying to get a long work assignment there (1-2 years), well jealous of you :D First thing: get Tinder, you'll forget entirely about day-game. And almost everyone on it will automatically have decent English (or they wouldn't be on it). Once you'e gone through the deck after a couple of weeks and gotten all your matches' Line contacts (you have Line right? If not, downlo…
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:56 PM
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What on earth gave you the idea that they're more prone to not disclosing their STD status? HIV is simply far more transmissible through unprotected anal sex. And adding to that, (at least 30 years ago) pregnancy being the primary "std" gay men thus had very little reason to have safe sex.
/r/seduction28/05/15 07:25 AM
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Let's be clear, women have the same likely hood as the "bottom" gay man has of contracting HIV from sex. Have to correct that slightly, that's only true (and even then only kinda*) in the case of anal sex. Receptive vaginal sex, while a higher risk than for insertive, is still much much lower... 18 times is the estimate of a 2009 meta analysis. 1. 2. 3. Facts aside it's a personal choice, if any woman ever even hints that you should wear one, you put that sucker on... and if you proceed to bitch…
/r/seduction28/05/15 07:15 AM
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Yeah for PIV the likelihood of transmission of HIV is ridiculously low. Add to that if you and your partner aren't injecting drug users or having sex with men who have sex with men... then your odds are infinitesimal. Statistically speaking, under these circumstances if it was a genuine worry, then one should also wear a helmet any time one is near stairs.
/r/seduction27/05/15 02:45 PM
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I've introduced my bi friend to it after picking her up. Being pretty submissive she had no success with women until I started giving her a few basic tips. Like assume attraction, and if you hit a yield sign don't just sit and pout, reset and reescalate. Now the ladies love her.
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:57 AM
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No love for Archer? Deal-breaker mate.
/r/seduction22/03/13 02:33 PM
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Ill have to try it, there is a girl I've had my eye on around campus. Try on someone else first.
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:16 PM
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Masterful...
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:38 PM
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While I agree to an extent on its own it's almost crass, but in the context it's in can be quite acceptable. I mean, IMHO it's quite tasteless to ask someone to buy you a drink, so the precedent has been set and it would be easy enough to pull that reply off as nothing more than cheeky banter.
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:35 PM
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That and the bit about it stinking he didn't get to see her much. I'm guessing she's really busy... Come on the kid reeks of unnattractive clingy insecurity. Yes I know what it's like, I was him (maybe not quite as bad) about a decade ago. Just because you're going out doesn't mean you can't drive her away with your frothing dependence... goes for both genders too. I was smothered (figuratively speaking) by a much too keen ex who "couldn't live without" me... such one-sidedness and denial does n…
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:15 AM
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At least this is genuine. He's not being genuine though, not at all. The subtext is that he's clearly unhappy that she's avoiding spending time with him, but he's too much of a pussy to be honest about it. He's so fearful of her leaving him that he clings and attempts to placate desperately... and so in denial about his own lack of happiness he overcompensates in his expression. EDIT: Reply if you disagree... don't just downvote. ffs
/r/seduction09/01/12 02:45 PM
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You make a fair point, edited out.
/r/seduction12/11/11 09:56 PM
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That was very good; knowledgeable, informative and useful tips, cheers. People underestimate the importance of body language. Some excellent tips to help you be composed and radiate an attractive aura... something that's very difficult to consciously control. Heels, shoulders, musical beat... gotcha.
/r/seduction12/11/11 09:34 PM
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This is awful advice: Text her after meeting her. Call her the next day. Chat her up in one call, ask her out in the next. Writer does not strike me as a PUA at all. All of the above actions portray eagerness and meekness. You are not presenting yourself as a challenge to the girl (something she wants), nor are you showing yourself as a confident man who gets what he wants. By all means, calling > texting. However the call should definitely wait a few days (you're a busy man...) and asking her i…
/r/seduction12/11/11 09:11 PM
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Good man!!! I've was there in your shoes a few years ago, it all gets better from now on. Keep going, "fail faster", was one of the most useful things that was ever told to me. Others include (though perhaps badly paraphrased): don't ever stick with someone who doesn't want to be with you, there are more sexy/smart/interesting/low-maintenance women out there than you can ever hope to meet in your lifetime. Never apologise unless you did something wrong. When physically escalating you may get reb…
/r/seduction23/09/11 07:21 PM
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What an awful sentiment. Throwing out the rape card in this is like comparing anything with hitler or nazis... stupid and not worthy of my attention. I consider myself a gender egalitarian (or feminist, depending on the definition) and PUA apprentice... how the two are mutually exclusive I fail to see. Here's one of the journal articles: Sexism and Assertive Courtship Strategies http://www.mediafire.com/?hwpevvx5fy9brs8 What's the other one? Give me a link to it and I will probably have access.
/r/seduction25/08/11 06:08 PM
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So say you've insisted... and they're adamant not to (it happens). What's the backup plan, assuming it's a slut defense there's a large likelihood of her sleeping with you at some stage, and she's worth the extra time. Take it on the chin, reset and keep escalating? Kind of a pain in the arse to keep beating a dead horse... how does one favourably extricate oneself from the situation?
/r/seduction15/08/11 09:21 PM
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Women are likely to reply outta pity too.
/r/seduction03/08/11 11:33 AM
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You and me both bro (though make it 3 years)... can't believe how naive I once was. Everything's so simple in hindsight, it's hard to believe I would have taken something like this as gospel... but I really would have. 5 year dry spell came to an end and HOW. I don't even have to make booty calls anymore, I get them.
/r/seduction30/06/11 07:50 PM
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There're only two there that I wouldn't do the exact opposite of: 5 Tolerate your crying over love stories. I totally tolerate that, doesn't mean I won't offer some light teasing though. 6 Don't flare up when you give car directions. "Flaring up" over minutiae is neither masculine nor a DHV.
/r/seduction30/06/11 07:44 PM
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Cheers for that clarification. :)
/r/seduction30/06/11 05:41 PM
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A reasonable driver need not exercise special care for avoiding them. You are suggesting that there should be no provision to prevent potentially needless death... and a motorist has the absolute right to plow through a pedestrian who happens to be on a highway?
/r/seduction30/06/11 05:40 PM
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Talked about jaywalkers and how it's sometimes possible for a driver to be sued for manslaughter after running over one (irritating). Apologies for off-topic but this was a bit WTF! You kill someone with your car... unless you made a reasonable attempt to slow-down/stop/avoid you should be charged for manslaughter. Just because you're on a highway is no excuse for lapsed attention or gross negligence. Can you imagine the alternative? Where it would be possible to deliberately mow-over someone ja…
/r/seduction30/06/11 02:39 PM
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Love it, very creative and it passes the thought simulator... only problem I see is getting to the point of saying that. You imply you're the one saying something like "Oh I would totally pin you down, you have no chance darling"... I'm not a small guy so they'd probably just agree with me (in a flattering way if they liked me: yeah you seem very strong etc.) It seems for this to work they'd have to be disagreeing with you :/ I'm shite at thumb-wrestling which could work, but that does not seem …
/r/seduction17/06/11 10:58 PM
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I don't tan. It's part of my charm. Actually I'd look kind of ridiculous with a tan. Sure tan away to whatever your natural tone is, do NOT go overboard. Most of what you get from it is more confidence. More is not always better. I work out, it makes me feel strong and look good... I imagine a bit of a tan would have a similar effect. When I walk up to women I'm thinking "I look good, she wants me". Because I put in the effort I believe myself and it spills over in my confidence. I don't say it …
/r/seduction26/04/11 12:25 AM
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Indeed, turned 28 there... it's way easier to get tail now than when I was 18-24... actually I got practically none then but now I'm positively in demand. Part of it definitely has to do with the range of people who'll date you. When I was 20 there was possibly a 2 year range... now it's a 10 year range. Though I tend to stick to girls <26 There's a catch though, you gotta take care of yourself. Eat well, take your fishoils, exercise... I'm in good shape but it takes a LOT more work now. I also …
/r/seduction12/04/11 04:24 PM
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Hmm... Well said.
/r/seduction23/03/11 11:14 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bunny_boiler
/r/seduction23/03/11 09:48 PM
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That can be done in such a playful context... such that she's not threatened and you come off confident, playful and not giving a shit. When the OP elaborated "If she visibly is still uncomfortable"... after her pulled on her hair "too hard" it's clear that the context is not playful.
/r/seduction23/03/11 07:30 PM
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Maybe it does, but it's a matter of where you draw the line. Negs work, I've used them successfully on ostensibly confident women... they lap it up. Does slapping a girl you just met across the face work? Maybe for a minority it does, and yes maybe it's only those with very low self-esteem who are somehow able to rationalise away the fact that you just fucking assaulted them. I'm not interested in those people.
/r/seduction23/03/11 07:24 PM
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Agreed, I read that and I was like "uhhh.... wut?" and couldn't read any more. It's all gravy doing that during sex but when you're just chatting someone up? That's kinda stupid, fucked up and counter productive... any women it did happen to attract would be the bunny-boiling type I'd not touch with a barge pole.
/r/seduction23/03/11 04:28 PM
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make-out girl didn't return my text/call and I'm pissed This is the reason I think this method is to some level BS. Sure it gives you a bit of gettup'n'go to get a number and be a bit more aggressive... but in the long game (calling/texting) it can make you be a bit pushy, needy, leaning and desperate when you really need to step back (push and pull doesn't just apply to kino). When i get a girls number I wait at least 5 days before calling her (I'm gonna wank in the meantime thank you very much…
/r/seduction22/03/11 02:04 PM
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Why are you here? I pride myself on not chasing pussy Is there something inherently wrong with someone who does? I pride myself in not lying to you or manipulating you. That's quite a misconception. I'd suggest reading up a little objectively before making criticisms like this. Also a "nice guy" friend, for the purposes of this discussion, is someone who really wants a girl but settles on being her "friend" (something quite disingenuous in my opinion). There is a quid pro quo... his is the addic…
/r/seduction27/02/11 08:28 PM
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a man could make sure a woman wasn't cheating It's not really an effective way to rule out cheating... that's kind of missing the point. I'd be much more concerned about the utterly fraudulent, financially and emotionally burdensome position of having to raise a (possibly unwanted) child that wasn't your own, AND at the whim of the mother, suddenly have your already paltry rights stripped.
/r/MensRights17/02/11 10:57 AM
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My friend sent me this article... this was my response: I've read often that if a man is raising a child (personally or financially) that is not his without being aware of the fact, well... "so what?". These are articles invariably written by a certain type of pseudo-liberal female hypocrite who can't marry logic with her gut reaction. Yes sure adoptive parents etc... it's not all about genetic code. I'd agree with that, it's about consent. Personally I don't think I'd have a problem raising ano…
/r/MensRights16/02/11 08:49 PM
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it isn't sexist. But it also isn't romantic. So what's the problem? You could even interpret it as suggesting males have the power... a lot of men don't want monogamy or long term commitment. You could almost say it illustrates how men are choosing not follow the traditional path, settle down, marry, divorce, become poor. Why would you if you can still pick up young women as you get older.
/r/MensRights15/02/11 01:52 PM
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I don't understand the problem? It's not gender specific, and it allows for the possibility of poly relationships and serial monogamy... the latter of which describes pretty accurately a pattern of human behaviour.
/r/MensRights14/02/11 03:27 PM
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saved, to communicate better than I ever could to a friend at some future date, or perhaps to read myself. I'm genuinely heartened to see it written by a highly qualified woman who's previously worked in a women’s domestic violence crisis center and shelter. It suggests she sees these as battles equally worth fighting for.
/r/MensRights11/02/11 12:14 PM
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belongs in r/conspiracy
/r/MensRights17/01/11 04:37 PM
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I was with him until all the mystical and religious nonsense... could be a good message buried among it but it was too painful to read. As was the objectification/deification "misunderstanding". Less mature heterosexual men might adore women to the point of idolisation, but most don't as it's not exactly healthy nor conducive to pairing with one. It is not an attractive disposition.
/r/MensRights17/01/11 03:42 PM
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Yes, and sometimes rightly so. e.g. boys are stupid, throw rocks at them.
/r/MensRights12/01/11 08:34 AM
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Indeed, I was shocked reading the title and relieved upon skimming the article. and that of feminists I don't understand, what would feminists have against lowering the age of consent?
/r/MensRights11/01/11 06:04 PM
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Oh my god lighten the fuck up... Some people need the stick taken out of their arse.
/r/MensRights11/01/11 05:34 PM
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No you can't, if you stand up for youself in this goddamn feminist society you are called either a loser or a misogynist. When you want to crack open an egg to eat, neither looking at it nor throwing it against a wall as hard as possible will accomplish the desired goal. There are however a variety (depending on your skill) of means in the middle which will. Overblowing the subject won't diminish the insanity of modern western women. uh-huh... Not if you are a normal male addicted to pussy. Ther…
/r/MensRights19/12/10 02:20 PM
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