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How did that last girl react?
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:16 PM
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Isn't that fucked up tho? Why cant we easily generate that head in the clouds feeling without getting it from someone else..
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:32 PM
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Micheal Scott
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:17 PM
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How else you gonna get validation cookies?
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:06 AM
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Making the "bang" as some kind of ultimate goal is missing the point and make it seem like work tbh. Cold approach and dating should be fun and enjoyable per se. The social skills, mental duress and courage you develop are way more worthy as an ultimate prize. I've got my most recent job in large part because of vastly improved persuasion and negotiations skills. I still want to date and sleep with the hottest and most amazing chicks I meet, but I'm patient and trying to enjoy the process and th…
/r/seduction10/06/21 06:59 PM
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With that value system of yours, you sound pretty low value to me tbh.
/r/seduction16/02/21 10:36 AM
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120 unopened messages? Dude the max I had in my life were probably 10 and I felt almost overwhelmed to handle. I'm a pretty social guy but that seems like some type of instagram model reality I can never, nor really want to relate to.
/r/seduction22/12/20 06:27 PM
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I think its okay as long as you know your limits, your sweet spots and use the stuff wisely and moderately. When I'm out on a long clubbing night, some amphetamine and a couple of beers make me feel socially invincible. Ecstacy makes me social but not genuine. Weed has an opposite effect on me and makes me withdrawn and go inwards, so I rather prefer it with friends while in a cozy place. When I want to daygame in the afternoon, a cup of coffee is all I need to get in a social mood. So yeah, I s…
/r/seduction22/12/20 06:22 PM
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Depends. Where I live it's perfectly normal to go clubbing by yourself. After a couple of awkward times I learned to enjoy being on my own. Most of the times I end up with many new contacts, some of which are cute girls I would be interested in dating. I think one's attitude and openness is what matters most.
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:19 PM
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Nah, I hate that because a) I don't want to be perceived as a narcissist or a selfish asshole and b) It just won't work because my analytical mind will always regress to the actually accurate idea that I'm, in most aspects, pretty average. The way I regained my confidence is actually by internalizing that life is short, death is certain, free will doesn't exist, the self is an illusion, and women are just as insecure and inadequate as we are. But of course, do your thing.
/r/seduction31/08/20 08:00 PM
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You're serious?
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:33 PM
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There are types and so on. More so they are universally attractive and unattractive people. Some people simply either never get a break or have to work extremely hard to get any attention
/r/seduction10/04/20 09:56 AM
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You might have regretted the other way too. You never know if you could have found better.
/r/seduction23/12/19 11:22 PM
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Do you have an unlimited supply of girls "you want"? Intimacy and connection are not easy to find for most people. Remember he's asking about LTRs and not casual sex.
/r/seduction23/12/19 11:21 PM
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Yeah I do and I do regret it. The last three girls I've been with wanted a relationship but I kept as a casual friends of benefits sort of thing. The girls had many qualities but because I thought they were not very beautiful that I would eventually find better. It sucks because it's not easy to be intimate with the hot girls (8+) because my personality changes and becomes more supplicating and nice. It's one of the main reasons how and why I discovered pickup last year.
/r/seduction23/12/19 11:16 PM
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If I had this wisdom at 19 my life would have been completely different now.. I'm chasing chicks at 31 and I don't even have my career or physical and mental health in control.
/r/seduction01/12/19 06:07 PM
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How do you expect to plate if you don't date?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 09:12 PM
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Remarkable how smooth everything seems when the girl likes you
/r/seduction01/10/19 01:41 PM
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It's really better to go with a wing if you're beginner. I wish i have a wing because it's too stressful for me to go alone
/r/seduction18/08/19 09:44 AM
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Mindset is not a button you press one way or another. If you keep trying and still don't get results, the neediness will always leak òut at some point. It's a vicious cycle..
/r/seduction28/07/19 09:14 PM
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Thanks for the only reasonable reply here. My question is then, do you feel like you might be using a fake persona of yourself when you date a woman that has low or no intellectual depth? I mean of course she can have a lot of other qualities, but if she has absolutely no interest in what I'm interested in, I find it very difficult to stay long around her
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:00 PM
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That has nothing to do with what I said tho
/r/seduction17/06/19 11:29 AM
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Ok since you seem mathematically-minded, how do you measure your improvement? Do you make new evaluation after 10 approaches? A week? How to account for all the factors? do you troubleshoot every interaction? How can you be sure if what you did was right or wrong, or if it's just all on external uncontrollable factors?
/r/seduction14/06/19 03:27 PM
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I'm not sure about the math here. Wouldn't a success is having intimate experience with the girl? What does a number even mean? Also, I still can't imagine how one can do 20 approaches a day. That's just too extreme to think about
/r/seduction14/06/19 02:28 PM
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Thank you. I've read Models. It's not confidence that's my problem, I'm the only person in my whole circle who would ever approach a stranger. I think it's mostly that I'm depending on the girls early reaction on how to proceed. If she was cold or uninterested early on, I lose hope fast. Also I feel like German women are pretty loyal for the boyfriend thing and they don't just jump to cheat with a stranger. I might be wrong tho.
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:31 PM
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I'm 30 years old but look a bit younger. I dont know how to rate myself but i would say average aeound 5-6. Middle eastern but can easily be mistaken for Italian or Greek. I don't focus on a particular age group but it happens that most are under 24 (because these are the majority of students). The AFC friend is taller than me and he's good looking but until recently I've seen him fail a lot because of super nice guy persona. But something changed last month that started to get him laid but I'm …
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:26 PM
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Thanks for the comment. Don't you feel a bit drained if you do like 20 approaches a day? It would feel also a bit dehumanizing for me. Plus, if I do 20 per day I will probably have talked to everyone in the city in few weeks lol. There are no tourists here. I'm trying to reframe the whole thing in a way to find more positive things even without getting laid. If I will think that "oh on my 100th approach I'll find a woman who wants to fuck me", I'll give up now. That feels like just too much work…
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:10 PM
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I show intent but not sure if it's sexual intent. I don't know if that's appropriate early on in an interaction with a stranger. Regarding night game, I'm just not good at screaming over loud music or getting in good mood in chaotic environments. It's against my nature. I want to believe that daygame can work but I only have hearsay that it works, nothing I can verify.
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:28 PM
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I'm 30 and most girl I approach are much younger than me. Exactly the opposite problem lol
/r/seduction14/06/19 11:47 AM
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Man I fucking wasted so many opportunities like this. The girl would be sitting few meters away but I would day to myself "I'll wait a few minutes to think what I'll say or to not look like I'm just there to talk to girls", then the few minutes pass and she either leaves or be joined by a bunch of people. Fuck this shit
/r/seduction22/05/19 01:06 PM
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What if one has the confidence without lifting? Is this like unimaginable in this sub
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:45 PM
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The problem is even if I change my behaviour to not seem needy (Which I can), I can't really change the fact that I'm really in need of something. I can't live with denial that I lack physical affection and validation from the other sex at the moment. It's always an uphill battle..
/r/seduction06/04/19 03:13 PM
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Inception..?
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:19 AM
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Can women really smell that you haven't had sex in a long time? Fuck
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:21 AM
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Thanks for this bro :)
/r/seduction22/03/19 10:34 AM
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I can't get over the fact that these are total strangers and I don't want to bother them. What do you say to yourself at the moment before approaching?
/r/seduction20/03/19 06:28 PM
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But how do you get enough courage to talk with a stranger when your esteem is already at the bottom (I mean during a depressed episode). I can approach when I'm in an okay mood but depression is quite crippling, even if you know intellectually that no big harm can happen.
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:37 AM
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Fellas should one approach when he's depressed?
/r/seduction24/02/19 04:27 PM
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Is it likely that a woman would approach a man, in a party or a bar, without actually being attracted but just out of curiosity or being friendly?
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:45 PM
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Around 6 months I was experiencing unbelievable neediness that I bought a friend girl (not a gf or an ex) a ticket from Greece to Germany in the hope of getting late. She didn't even take the plane (even though she said she would) I'm still on my dry spell but man the change in thinking and attitude I experienced in the last three months.. I was a complete joke
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:39 PM
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