notahappygirl211 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
96	Dealing with Hitting the Wall	SELF IMPROVEMENT	notahappygirl211	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 03:50 PM
0	The Issue with Dating Manlets	DISCUSSION	notahappygirl211	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 04:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	The Issue with Dating Manlets Yes I’m a woman. Yes I have a grown daughter, yes I’ve been married 20 years and yes I have a vast vocabulary, red pill and otherwise, that you don’t approve of. Doesn’t mean the basis of my argument still doesn’t stand.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 06:45 PM
0	The Issue with Dating Manlets Are you a man or a woman? I have people here accusing me of being a basement dweller incel for using the term “manlet” so you must be one too since you use chad, hypergamous, etc.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 06:42 PM
0	The Issue with Dating Manlets They do. Everyone has their preferences lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 06:40 PM
0	How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet? Bahahaha easy sex. Yeah we all know you’ve utterly failed to get it the hard way no doubt. Bagging the low hanging fruit isn’t an accomplishment. But I suppose to you it is because well, what other options do you have?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 06:37 PM
-4	The Issue with Dating Manlets Haha so it’s like feminism. The red pill is now whatever women want it to be right?	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 06:34 PM
-2	How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet? Why would you even bother to pump and dump a post wall woman? If you’re allegedly now above all that why are you still dumpster diving? Oh right, because you still in the dumpster with the rest of the trash. You might want to consider the fact that you even considering pumping and dumping an old woman makes you still as undesirable then as you are now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 06:33 PM
-2	The Issue with Dating Manlets Fair enough assessment. I wasn’t aware that a forum that titled itself “red pill” would be offended by red pill terms that red pill people themselves invented and use interchangeably everywhere else? And you level criticism towards me saying I’m “tearing down men” when you just said men who use these red pill terms aren’t “attractive or likeable”? This subreddit is said to support men. Which men exactly do they support because it doesn’t seem like they support red pill men or the language they t…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 06:22 PM
0	The Issue with Dating Manlets Sound like you two have great genes. Hopefully you’ve had 6 kids by now or will soon.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 06:05 PM
1	The Issue with Dating Manlets And you’ve likely never had a tall man treat you like you were unique and special aka fetishize you for your height I’m guessing?	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 05:54 PM
0	The Issue with Dating Manlets It’s a red pill term coined by red pill men and refers to men who are short.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 05:50 PM
1	The Issue with Dating Manlets It wasn’t my intention to be disrespectful to men or humblebrag. I’m simply addressing issues I’ve encountered in dating men below 6’ and trying to determine if this is commonplace, which I suspect it is. And it’s highly relevant to today’s sexual marketplace (especially in red pill circles where the term “manlet” came from lol) in which men’s height tends to reign supreme according to a majority of women.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 05:49 PM
1	The Issue with Dating Manlets Precisely. I had no problem dating short men in the past. But the more time I spent time around them inevitably these unattractive traits revealed themselves, which turned me off from short men altogether. 🤷‍♀️	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 05:39 PM
1	The Issue with Dating Manlets As a taller girl do you notice that shorter men tend to glamorize your height?	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 05:25 PM
-4	The Issue with Dating Manlets lol why when men call each other that? They’re the ones who invented it and ran with it.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/20 05:05 PM
1	How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet? Well it still doesn’t mean she’s attracted to you, then or now. By your own definition she’s looking for “beta bucks,” a dead bedroom and the aloof alpha she cheats on you with on the side. Why would you even delude yourself thinking she’s attracted to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 03:32 PM
-2	How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet? Yes, I am in fact. And no, those aren’t my fellow queens. They’re discarded rabbit losers just like the rest of these dudes who have yet to find any success with the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 03:07 PM
4	How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet? Absolutely. Men “sowing their oats” was a rite of passage for men and men of the past had no issues or problems doing that. Now we have perpetual perv virgins and socially awkward simps making up the vast majority of men today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 02:58 PM
3	How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet? Just own the fact that your whole line of reasoning is you enjoy the schadenfreude of saying no to women whose social value has dropped relative to yours. Try saying no to women whose social value is equal or above yours, then you might actually know what it means to be powerful and desirable. Right now you’re still just turning down everyone else’s table scraps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 02:55 PM
25	How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet? Well too bad. “We can’t help what we’re attracted to” right? Isn’t that what red pill men spew verbatim when they say they’re not attracted to older post-wall women or girls who aren’t 18-23? If cute teen girls don’t find you attractive and find other other men attractive how is that unfair? I thought sexual selection is the name of the game here lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 02:36 PM
3	Turning 30 soon.. what should I do to enter it in grace? Haha I’d probably kill to be 30 again. My 30s were by far the best time of my life. Still looked very youthful and got carded for everything. It was great being 30 trapped in a 20-something body with no more 20-something hangups or insecurities. My 30th birthday was a blast. Enjoy it to the fullest. The next decade of your life will be your healthiest and brightest.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 08:15 PM
1	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Wow I bet you’re a lot of fun at parties. Thanks for being irate, unhelpful and frankly, embarrassingly stupid.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 04:23 PM
2	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Oh absolutely. I’m 20 pounds over, 5’2” 135 pounds, size 7-8. I watch my portions mostly and take a more “realistic” approach towards my weight for my current mindset and tolerance level. Sure I could kill myself in the gym and whittle myself down to 110 pounds but I feel like what’s the use? I’m not doing any beauty pageants anytime soon. Stems from getting old and not giving enough of a fk lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 03:54 AM
1	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Haha I follow Dr. Karam. Truly amazing work he does. He emphasizes a natural look and his results are fantastic. Dr. Jacono in NY is another I follow and his work too is outstanding. The surgeon who did my lift purports natural results as well. Didn’t have a deep plane but a lower lift and necklift. Still very happy with the results. The deep plane is really something l, reestablishes the upside down triangle shape of a youthful face. Looks very feminine and so natural. As soon as mine drops aga…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 03:47 AM
2	Dealing with Hitting the Wall It’s not just invisible to men, but invisible to society in general. My sister-in-law has told me that people run right into her at malls and such because they don’t even see her standing there or passing. People don’t wait on her and she is ignored and overlooked everywhere she goes. We went shopping at the boutiques in Las Vegas on the strip and she complained to me for a half hour how she got “run over” by pedestrians on the walkways who didn’t even notice she was there. I’ve read about this …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 02:14 AM
6	Dealing with Hitting the Wall I believed the same when I was your age. I had an older aunt who just recently passed away who told me after she became a widow in her late 50s it was impossible to find a man. She was very feminine, played golf, stayed svelte, went to Curves gym for women, the whole gamut. She never dated anyone ever again. I didn’t believe her either but now I’m beginning to fully understand. There’s a period in a woman’s life in which she becomes “invisible” to the world. It’s a real phenomenon and you can go…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 01:54 AM
3	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Think I’ll try the oil base under my bb cream. Thanks a lot for the tip! Skin has been super dry lately so I’m definitely going to try it. As far as makeup I’ve had to wear as little as possible otherwise I just look old af. A full face will easily age me 10 years lol. Had to really stop using it when I got into my 30s. Now that I’m in my 40s I literally cannot wear it without looking really old. Brings out every imperfection. I don’t wear a lot regardless and have no patience for it but it’s ev…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/20 01:04 AM
8	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Same. There’s some kind of primal yet sinister, animal-like desire men have towards very young women and they literally can’t control themselves around us. Their minds go haywire and they only see sex (probably going to make a post about this sometime in the future). And it often manifests itself in crude remarks, abuse and exploitation. Not much fun at all to receive such copious amounts of negative attention. At least now if I get on the city bus I don’t have to worry about being groped or fol…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 11:58 PM
5	Dealing with Hitting the Wall The great thing about really nice clothes is they don’t look age inappropriate. They look classy. And as I’ve gotten older it’s become even more vitally important for me to buy nicer things. It’s the cheap crap that really ages you.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 09:09 PM
3	Dealing with Hitting the Wall This is an excellent idea. I love dry saunas and spas and such. Sweating def does bring out a glow as it’s detoxifying. I’ll try that.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 08:52 PM
8	Dealing with Hitting the Wall I have. To my own dismay I’m a plastic surgery “junkie” who reads a lot of plastic surgery forums/follows Insta PS accts. And Instagram face terrifies me. Every woman looks the same and it’s not attractive, it’s kind of horrifying. I did a lot of research and learned that once you start using fillers you have to stay on them because when they dissolve your skin is loose and baggy from being stretched and you have to keep using more and more filler to achieve the same result. Hence why so many in…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 07:46 PM
2	Dealing with Hitting the Wall It all hits each and every one of us eventually. I’m so sorry to hear about the traumatic experience with your surgery. Puts my experience in perspective considering I’m very fortunate to be enjoying reasonably good health (I’m an ass here I admit 😞)	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 07:17 PM
1	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Haha I’ll give it a shot.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 05:36 PM
4	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Yes. Last year I went to one of those “designer” physician’s offices that offer IV cocktails and zero carb eating programs and hormone replacement therapy. Dropped $2,000 on Vitamin B shots, magnesium supplements and injections and my stomach was in knots. Their solution was to prescribe me a $1,000 prescription drug for IBS. I became hopeless at that point lol. Yeah I’ve got the money but this was clearly going to cost me exorbitant amounts. Just to lose a few pounds?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 05:36 PM
7	Dealing with Hitting the Wall You have my deepest sympathies. It’s so difficult. At the same time I think our minds develop and grow from this experience. It’s humbling to say the least. And I’m certain as women we all go through it but there’s no real avenue to take to help us deal with it—nothing but blue pill tropes and cliches to assuage the ego instead of confronting the truth on what aging does to women psychologically in Western society.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 05:29 PM
2	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Definitely. I have some exercise bands and I use them periodically but have been too lazy and unmotivated to stick to it. That’s all on me. But the primary reason I don’t stick to a program is because my face falls apart every time. Wish there was a way to keep my face intact and it just gets worse every year.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 05:22 PM
5	Dealing with Hitting the Wall I wish. Done zero carb in the past and it completely blew my face apart. I was only 31 when I went on it for a year and I looked really terrible. Plus I have IBS and this will kill me lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 05:18 PM
12	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Haha you’re right. I just dropped stacks on a new fall wardrobe at Saks and yes, it’s wonderful to update my look and stay well-groomed. At the same time I put on my designer clothes and I often think “Man I would rock this like no other if I was 27 again.” Except when I was 27 I was broke af and could never afford these luscious designer clothes lmao. The trade off is a bit ironic to say the least. Now I’m thinking, “Does this look frumpy? Do I look like I’m trying to dress too youthful for my …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 05:03 PM
23	Dealing with Hitting the Wall I read a few articles and watched some videos on becoming “the crone” aka a gracious old woman who imparts wisdom and guidance towards the people in her family and her surrounding community. I have to say the idea of it intrigues me and I’ve already begun to take on that role for my daughter and future son-in-law. I FaceTime with them for hours on end and they hang on my every word lol. They love my outlook on life and always look to me for advice on finances, running a household and various oth…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 04:46 PM
19	Dealing with Hitting the Wall I agree. I’m no gym rat and could stand to lose a few pounds. But as I think Courtney Cox once said when you reach a certain age, “You can only choose one, your face or your body because you can’t have both.” I’ve found that to be so true. I notice when I get gung ho on a diet and exercise program my face completely falls apart. Looks so haggard. :(	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 04:33 PM
8	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Haha thanks for the comment. “Hitting the wall” is the point in a woman’s life where she becomes completely sexually undesirable to men, taking on a middle-aged Karen sort of existence. I caution you on reading about it in men’s red pill circles because it’s extraordinarily depressing upon which they describe it.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 04:27 PM
3	Divorce Your marriage doesn’t appear to mean anything to him as he has walked out on you and has refused to even meet you halfway on anything. You need to talk to a divorce lawyer and find out what your options are at this point. And make sure you keep an eye on your money.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 03:22 PM
3	Divorce Not to be harsh but he sounds like a real loser. He doesn’t even work. I guess I’m not real clear on why him leaving is such a bad thing when I would have given him the boot years ago.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 09:21 AM
3	How do you experience PMS? Thankfully as I’ve gotten older I don’t get PMS symptoms much anymore if at all. I suspect the emotional aspect of PMS has to do with being fertile which I’m not as I’m perimenopausal. There’s a lot to be said for getting older as a woman despite red pill circles frowning on it like it’s some kind of terrible disease lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 09:11 AM
8	Boundaries or Control? Seems to be making a lot of unreasonable demands towards someone who isn’t even his wife. He sounds super insecure. Don’t see it lasting much longer if he continues being this emotionally rattled and insecure over your past.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 11:23 PM
3	Afraid of aging because of TRP and lack of experience Haha you’re 19, dear. The world is your oyster at this point and you have a LONG, LONG time before your looks are going to fade. Enjoy your youth and be happy being beautiful.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 11:01 PM
4	What advice do you have for women in their early or mid twenties in terms of vetting and finding the right man for them ? What are common mistakes you see? A guy who is lazy and has no drive to succeed is a no go. No exceptions.A strong, hardworking, ambitious man is usually one from an early age. If he doesn’t take his career and ability to earn money at least somewhat seriously, he’s going to be a lazy bum the rest of his life. Men who are responsible as it pertains to work and earning a living are demonstrating an intact protector/provider instinct. That’s virtually priceless when it comes to a man imo.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 10:54 PM