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Read quality (nonfiction) books and start lifting if you don't already. Sharpen your mind and body and don't worry about girls for now
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:29 AM
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I really don't like attacking people personally on reddit, but you are one stupid motherfucker. You're posting on amiugly and rateme for 90% of your posts and begging for validation from internet strangers instead of actually improving yourself. Beyond pathetic. How am I supposed to believe that somebody who has never lifted and whose self confidence is rock bottom picked up 9s and 10s at a bar. You're lying through your teeth kid. The mods should take this down before some anti-RPer uses this c…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 09:03 PM
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Maybe you should open your mind a little bit. It might make you less of an angry, bitter, sarcastic person and help your communicate with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:19 AM
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[https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/553gwd/the_psychology_of_approaching_groups_of_very_hot/](Look here). This isn't even my original idea. I just put it into practice. And it worked. You're a world class dipshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:07 AM
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Explain how what I said is incoherent and maybe I won't point out the fact that your demeanor screams "salty incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:47 AM
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I'm kind of disappointed that you have no reply other than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:33 AM
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Women compete for the attention of top-tier men by instinct. For example, suppose you are at a bar and you see a group of girls. Pick 2 of them. Ask the less attractive one, "what's the name of your friend everybody keeps looking at?" After her reply, the following conversation is more likely to lead to sex. Why? Because you engaged her natural instinct to compete for top-tier male attention. She is more likely to seek your attention. This has worked for me twice. So how does this relate to your…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:28 AM
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/r/bulkorcut
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:41 AM
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She's not pursuing them out of sexual interest...she wants to reject them and watch them squirm. Do you think the alpha archetype would become "friends" with a girl and ask her "would you ever consider dating me?" You're kidding yourself.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:10 PM
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Dude she's obviously into you. You know what to do. Don't overthink this.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:40 PM
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No, this is not and will never be the case. This sounds like the case of the cunt feminist telling everyone guys reject her because "she's intimidating" with the genders reversed. Girls will not reject you for being "too alpha" -- this is ridiculous. I think you should try to increase your level of self awareness.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:34 PM
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absolutely it has
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:23 PM
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You seem a little blind-sided. Most people knowledgeable of TRP know that this is a pretty typical scenario that happens often (it's so common it has a name: branch-swinging). My advice would be to read up on the sidebar (/r/theredpill), especially 'women in love' and 'Briffault's law.' I honestly would dedicate a few hours a weak to reading and thinking about all of it. That will provide you with some clarity as to what happened and how to better avoid a similar scenario in the future. Also, yo…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:54 PM
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Even if there is no place for women to have a rational discourse about dating, it's not men's job to create or facilitate that discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:52 AM
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Because dating isn't charity. Women seem to understand this concept very well. They don't date incels/neckbeards/feminist allies to help reform them. So, if anything, hard nexting girls like this is just leveling the playing field. I can't speak for the entire manosphere, but I do have a great deal of sympathy for girls like this. She's obviously a product of how she was raised and her ignorance and hatred definitely do not come from within. But the scope of what we, as men, can do about this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:33 AM
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Dude did you forget its Monday and forget to go to work?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:26 PM
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I think TRP would say: do what you want to do. Whether or not YOU want to do something is the most important factor that goes into whether or not you do it. So just ask yourself if you want to do it and then you have your answer.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:23 PM
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You know exactly what to do bro...you need to get rid of her. Did she cheat? It doesn't matter, because she proved herself to be unreliable and irresponsible. Trust me (I've been here myself), you NEVER WANT TO CONFRONT A WOMAN WHEN YOU SUSPECT HER OF WRONGDOING. She's going to deny it and gaslight the fuck out of you. If you start an argument with her, you've already forfeit your frame and your authority and you've already lost the argument. So just fucking don't. You're better than that and yo…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:50 AM
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Definitely the attractive one, especially if I plan on having kids with her. A lot of guys fetishize high IQ girls because they think they're capable of understanding our plight, communicating with us logically, and leaving their emotions aside in arguments. All of us here should know that that is a load of horse shit. High intelligence or not, awalt.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:53 AM
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Honestly it sounds like she has a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:39 AM
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Maybe the dumbest response I've gotten...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:37 PM
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I'm not trying to insult you or anything. I'm just saying that I would rather spend my time actually improving myself than proving to somebody that I'm good enough and I think that is the right mindset. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:23 AM
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Well if you're interested in that aspect of things, I think the "right" mindset would be: if she doesn't think I'm good enough to sleep with on the first date (as good as the guys she has slept with on the first date), she's wrong and wasting my time is just insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:31 AM
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If I were asked out 10 times a week by fat girls I would definitely want a way to make them stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:48 AM
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I never claimed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:43 AM
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You and I both know that RP preaches that women have sex drives just as high as ours. That being said, the key difference between men and women is that men would be willing to fuck 80% of women (provided there are no strings attached), whereas woman would be willing to fuck only 20% of men. So why would a woman make a man wait if she wants it just as bad as he does? Following this logic, the only reason she would make him wait is to insure that he is in the top 20%. So the "monkey dance" commenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:42 AM
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I wouldn't go as far as to say that sexual strategy is the intended reason for feminism. I'm also not really looking for a debate on the philosophy at large. What I am saying is that young women tend to use it predominately as a sexual strategy because it works. It weeds out men too scared of offending the "feminist" label and being branded as an asshole/fuckboy/whatever else by society. I'm sure some "feminists" must be conscious of that fact. What's your perspective on this issue? Are you a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:12 AM
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You can't really prove intent unless the entire feminist community acknowledges intent. I'm merely saying that, given the results, it's hard to believe that the intent is not there in some form.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:01 AM
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This might seem like a stupid question, but are you taking hormonal birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:59 AM
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You have to actively seek them out and pursue them with confidence. But if I may ask, why would you want a feminine man? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:32 AM
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I know this is an old post but: I think you're bullshitting when you say "I'm complicated" turns you off. Sounds to me like you just didn't know what to say. You probably could have sealed the deal at this point because her throwing out "I'm complicated" is basically a test to see if you start acting like a circus ape to impress her or not. It's a test of your self respect and frame. I would have thrown something out there like "don't worry, I speak girl" and continued flirting and just fucked h…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 11:28 PM
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Nice post. I'm coming from basically the same place as you (college kid, relatively new to trp) and I recently had a hard time maintaining frame and abundance mentality with the first hot girl I picked up using trp. Anyways long story short don't be like me and remember that its important to keep getting experience. Shes your first plate of many Also just act like u have the biggest dick in the world, never self deprecate and pass all the shit tests just like you did the other day
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 02:19 AM
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Sounds like she wanted you to come out with her
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:20 PM
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"That's up to you"
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:23 PM
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No. TRP works for 99% of the population. The only people TRP won't apply to are people who literally cannot talk to anybody and lack the social skills of the average 10 year old. They need specialized attention.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:03 PM
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I feel like NoFap is for people who fap excessively and/or would rather fap than go out and socialize. For most of us, fapping is a part of a normal, functional life and it shouldn't be discouraged if it's not causing a problem. I personally moderate the amount I jerk off to a couple times a week and I doubt I would see any benefit in stopping entirely.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:55 PM
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Prioritize whatever will lead to gainful employment. You should know what this is by now better than most of us.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:54 PM
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bad idea
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:12 PM
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Dude that depends on what you know about this person and what this person knows about you. I personally wouldn't waste time thinking about it and just say whatever comes to mind with confidence and assertiveness. If it doesn't work, who cares? After all, overthinking it is like shooting yourself in both feet. You waste time & and it's more likely to lead to rejection.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:11 AM
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Stop being a little bitch and worrying about what people think. Go for it and be graceful in rejection if necessary.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:00 AM
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The fact that you're even asking this question is problematic in my opinion. You threw away a plate and now you're obsessing over it and asking for advice on the internet. Why do you care so much about a random girl who should (but clearly does not) mean nothing to you? You're obviously attached to somebody who's trash and that is symptomatic of low self-worth on your part. Next time, spend 1 hour improving yourself instead of 1 hour thinking about and writing posts like this.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:57 AM
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My suggestion is delete Tinder, put yourself in real social scenarios, and stop worrying about stupid shit like Valentine's Day.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:54 AM
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"You need to prove that you're not a beta loser before I fuck you"
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:22 AM
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You're right. But I personally strive to never fuck up, even if the girl is far below my SMV. It's a mindset that will take you far in life and keep you humble. But, in my personal opinion, if a girl's SMV changes significantly, she might having lingering insecurity, but she will still know her SMV based on the kind of guys who approach her.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:20 AM
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Why does it matter? Just don't fuck up period.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 02:37 AM
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Insightful. Thank you!
/r/askTRP21/12/17 05:44 PM
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Who can men trust if not their best friends? Of course im going to say something. Im asking how
/r/askTRP21/12/17 04:57 AM
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Go to the gym and get 20 inch biceps and tell me if you still want me to answer the question below.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 04:02 AM
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No you look fine. Just never take a mirror selfie again and your smv will triple.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:51 AM
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Make an advance. If rejected, soft next.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 10:43 PM
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Didn't even read the post. Hard no. Hard next. Come on.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:02 AM
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Sounds like she's trying to get you to commit to plans with her even though she may not be available. Don't do this, as this would put you in a position of weakness and diminished importance. Just move on with your life and wait to see if she starts asking to make plans.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 08:39 PM
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You shouldn't need TRP to tell you what I did. It's common sense.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:21 AM
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Drop this bitch ASAP. Seriously, dude? It's not a test, she's just trying to get you to crawl back into the friendzone. You definitely fucked up and took the bait. Her opinion of you could not be lower than it is now. Block her from your life.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:11 AM
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You should ask yourself if being with somebody emotionally needy is something you really want in the long term. It might be endearing at first, but, TRUST ME, it will be a pain in the ass longer down the road. I'd definitely back out if I were you. If you still want to proceed, then you need to make your boundaries clear. I'm not saying that you should sit her down and talk to her about being emotionally needy (never do this). Just deflect her emotional neediness if you don't want to put up with…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:07 AM
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Then this is a good time to put up boundaries or end it depending on what you want with this girl.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 06:51 AM
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Could be harmless, could be an indicator that she's emotionally needy. Need more info, ya know?
/r/askTRP19/12/17 06:48 AM
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I can think of a million different ways to express how pathetic her bf is. Sounds like a case of dual mating strategy. The girl is with a guy who is obviously insecure (probably for good reasons). She has no respect for his wishes and is probably keeping him around as a bank/emotional doormat. She's obviously attracted to you and craves attention (physical and emotional) from somebody who has more alpha characteristics. Based on the dual mating strategy paradigm, I would say you definitely have …
/r/askTRP19/12/17 06:41 AM
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Don't do a LDR in college, especially with a freshman. Its not worth it. You're going to throw away a whole year of dating and sex. If you make it through the year, then what? You're not going to get married to your HS sweetheart. Also, I don't know your girlfriend, but I know how long distance goes in college (I'm a junior now). People cheat. My roommate picked up a girl whose boyfriend took a semester off to work. I'm pretty sure the girl has been with others, too. My girlfriend's best friend …
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:50 AM
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Got yourself a keeper, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 09:52 PM
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lmao don't get mad feminazi
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 08:56 PM
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I agree that we both have a lot of work to do on communication skills. I tried to give one of the examples where it was most questionable whether or not I was in the wrong. Other examples of when she's gotten mad boil down to her simply having a bad day or it being that time of the month. Anger isn't common on her part, but there are instances where she checks out and loses her shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 10:05 PM
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Any advice/thoughts since you're so much older?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 09:48 PM
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Well he seems to kind of be on the same page. He gets the difference between a rant and a problem that needs to be fixed. And yeah, during "that time of the month" some insight and patience is definitely going to be required on his part, and that's not a bad thing IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 09:43 PM
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Maybe I didn't express myself correctly. I don't exactly believe that the only reality is the male point of view. On the contrary, I'm saying that I and other inexperienced men sometimes have a tendency to let their temper and emotions obstruct their line of sight to reality. I'm saying that learning to clear this line of sight of anger/other emotions is the guy's responsibility, since he will generally find it easier to do so (in my experience). Hope that clears things up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 09:01 PM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:52 PM
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Well I'm going to apply my own strategy here and find the root cause of your anger. Also, I'm asking you to sum it up to prove that there's even a point being made here, because there isn't. I asked you guys to CHANGE MY VIEW, not call me "wrong" and tell me I'm "obtuse" for not accepting that without questioning it first. To be blunt, I've tried taking advice from the people frequenting /r/thebluepill and /r/relationships on relationships. It was my manifesto before realizing that it makes both…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:49 PM
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Don't go full /r/relationships on me. Sometimes people get angry and make mistakes. As long as it's not happening often, I'm willing to forgive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:24 PM
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Can you sum up for me what this person has said to refute my argument? I'm missing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:16 PM
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You're the one "stroking your chin" over your innate ability to win an argument because of your age. Tell me why you disagree and why you're claiming that my outlook and strategy are wrong. I'm more than willing to listen to a man who has had 30 years of a successful marriage and I value your opinion. The problem is that you're unwilling to explain it, opting for insults instead. So prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:07 PM
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We're both 20. Relatively young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:55 PM
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lol that's not an issue trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:55 PM
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I hope that by the time I am your age I am not as dismissive, closed-minded, and arrogant as you are. At least explain your point of view and engage me in an argument if you want to change my mind. Insulting me and saying "wrong" are something a child would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:53 PM
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Sounds like this is coming from somebody who's never had a relationship last longer than a year. Get some life experience and come talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:30 PM
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Nobody is saying this, least of all I. But it is important for the man to judge whether or not she is mad for a legitimate reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:09 PM
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See my scenario above. How did I patronize anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:07 PM
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Well I agree, which is why I promised to be cleaner my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:49 PM
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Sure. Last Friday night she got mad at me because I left some uneaten food on her table (the trigger). Other than throwing it in the trash, I ignored it because it was pretty trivial in my opinion. She eventually got irritated enough to confront me about it and I told her I would try to be more tidy (which was a genuine promise). Then she started ranting about me not respecting her space, started crying, throwing things at me, and yelling. This was a pretty atypical outburst; she wouldn't normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:41 AM
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In general. I wouldn't classify her as frequently angry. I have definitely made mistakes in the past when she did get angry, though. I am just posting here what I think I've learned to see if I've formed the right opinion or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:21 AM
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lol more like add constructively to my view
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:13 AM
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Thanks for the intelligent response! Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:54 PM
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I think society would be a better place if more people were "the bigger man."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 03:15 AM
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Have you seen the stuff they say at TRP? I understand that it's all evidence based and well-thought-out, but I personally believe that a lot of guys get rejected and go read the headline "women are children," and then subscribe to that philosophy for however long.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 01:08 AM
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Being strong and independent-minded. If certain women want to be hypocrites and seek validation from certain men who are a bunch of lackey SJW sellouts, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 01:05 AM
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