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I don't think I'm in the league for the hottest girls no matter what I do. I don't have the lower part of my face for that. I have very nice eyes and high cheekbones. The makeup girl told me that. I have a jawline that is visible but slopes down. That is never attractive. I'm not into getting broken up at this point, I accept that. My standards are pretty low, just don't want a girl that will crush me. I'm 155lbs.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 02:21 AM
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Why do men have to do these extra ordinary things to get a woman? Are they compensating for some shortcoming like a small dick? Every guy with a gf is a jacked gymbro? :lol: Plenty of jacked guys on the incel forums. Only thing they jack is their dick. I have a body with some muscle tone that models have. I will never be big, I don't have the genetics for it, I'm not going die of a heart attack from roids.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 02:13 AM
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I got hard last time, I moved back, she came closer. She would have to be brain dead not to know. Too busy putting some $90 moisturizer on me :lol:
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 01:32 AM
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Guys my age are done with approaching. I buy skincare products in Sephora and this girl there puts on a show everytime I come, stands two inches away from me and puts stuff on my face, smiles, to drive me crazy. I am a good spender there :lol:. I think of asking her out, maybe if I was 20 years younger. She tells me bullshit that I have better skin than her. She wears more makeup than a clown. I'm obsessed with looksmaxxing.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 01:18 AM
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And how is money going to help me? Should I tape $100 bills to myself and women will be magically attracted to the ink?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 01:11 AM
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I'm 48 and see nothing wrong with this. I'm in great shape and have the energy of a 20yo. ​ I posted something a while back about how I asked a girl for skin care advice in that section of the store. I gave her a compliment about her skin and asked for product selections. I actually thought she was closer in age to me, she looks like a fashion model but I thought late 20s. We talked for hours after and she really liked me. I ended up having to ghost her (she wasn't my type). A 20yo chick. She wa…
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:40 PM
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Yeah, maybe if you marry a virgin. Licking where 100 dicks were before, I don't know bro. It also has a proven link to throat cancer.
/r/seduction05/07/19 11:18 PM
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I don't know - I saw a vid of a talkshow with him working on Jessica Alba. She was giving him every IOI in the book.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:24 PM
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There is a video where he gets Jessica Alba very interested. I think that is a worth watch. Easy to find.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:23 PM
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I think you have to offer something to her. Whether it be looks, $$, personality, good time for her, confidence, etc.No different than buying something in a store.
/r/seduction04/07/19 12:23 PM
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Tell her you are starting a business, come on. Homeless guys have gfs.If you really have nothing then even a 1 may not be right for you.
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:24 AM
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I watched tons of game vids- This is what I found -Women like to be complimented, but not always sexualized ( well, let me explain - not good if you complimenting them with the direct reason to get sex. Not hard to tell. That could be creepy. It could work in some cases, could get you mettoed today). This approach compliments them, strokes their ego, and drops you into their world. -Women Love to talk, you have to spark something. -Women have interests, now you have something in common -Women sp…
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:55 AM
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Yeah, you have to think outside the box. You can't just walk up to a woman in 2019 and say you have a nice ass (well you could if you want to get slapped or MeTooed). Now, she has to do all the talking. ​ The only downside is she may see you as one of her girlfriends :lol:, but you can work on attraction once you hooked her in. Seriously though, I did get a very hot chick but she is obsessed with her beauty products. I was on the phone for an hour with her. She also told me she is fed up with on…
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:38 AM
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Flies get attracted with honey. It is very hard today to give any compliment and not come off as creepy or a harasser.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:19 AM
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Two things have to happen: 1) When you talk to her, you really have to look her in the eye. You are going for the gold here, show full confidence. Don't break eye contact. Deliver your message with sincerity. 2) And what I think is important, and what I took out of the 10 commandments of game....Don't be desperate. I tell the girl I'm extremely busy and indirectly it will be a special event when I come for a date. They will be texting you if they are interested. ​ I think this comes off as very …
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:18 AM
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I don't think you have to mention your job. I thought about the reverse. What if some woman came up to me while I was doing software dev in Starbucks. She says, you don't look like a guy who would use so and so language or whatever. I would have tons of things to say.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:16 AM
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Yeah, it is plutonium grade internet marketing. Nothing more. There is some good advice here and there, but deep down it is complicated. It is like if you google how to make money online. You land on a blog, there is some advice that sounds plausible. You put in your email and they send you a free booklet with enough to get you interested. Meanwhile You end up on some marketers mailing lists. They wear you down with hopeful emails. They say they can teach you how to make six figures. Either: The…
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:18 AM
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True, they have serious money ($3000/sucker or something?) and they travel, dress ok, and are constantly practicing communication. Their social media is thru the roof and proves women are interested (even if just hugging in pics). I remember when I started internet marketing, and the six figure bullshit. They were making it off newbs buying their useless product. They tell you to build a list and get more newbs to shell out $50 bucks :lol:. ​ 90% of what they say is common sense. 12 yo guys know…
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:50 PM
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Could game work though with the hyper'gamy ' (no pun intended) that exists today? Modern society breaks the frame of millions of years of evolution. You can even pick your own sex today, and many places will recognize it.!
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:39 PM
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So many women end up alone too. Everyone loses out.
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:37 PM
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Dating apps are ridiculous, especially for men. They remind me of sites like Freelancer. Even with good skills you compete with guys from India who will work for $5/hr.
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:26 PM
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95% Men in the 50s and 60s, even 70s were married before 30. There was no such thing as game. Why is there so much trouble to attract a woman today?
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:15 PM
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Maybe his words and style he used to deliver it. I can see why he gets chicks, no matter what he looks like. I would almost want to date someone like that :lol:. Just funny and interesting.
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:29 PM
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I saw 10 commandments of game, this guy is god in my book.
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:58 PM
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Hot men could be intimidating too. Many women may pass. Remember that women by nature have a high fear of rejection. They are, in essence, beta males.
/r/seduction14/06/19 02:53 PM
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I read an article that Brad Pitt had trouble getting girls before he got famous. There was no Social Media back then so game played a very big role.
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:39 PM
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I was rejected outright for being 5'10". She was my height in heels. I say 6'
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:38 PM
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Maybe take improv classes. If you have nothing to say to a woman, can't make small talk, banter, etc. it is worse than looking like Papa Smurf.
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:36 PM
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Most girls wont escalate to sex with a guy, unless they are a prostitute or drunk. They may even approach a guy but the guy has to take the controls. A girl at work kept coming to me asking her to come to her house to teach her programming :lol:. She would play with her hair talking to me, point her feet to me, etc.That is about as far as they can go.
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:33 PM
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You play games with her name. ​ Oh, nojitsu, I would guess you are the type who don't like jujitsu :lol:
/r/seduction11/06/19 10:14 PM
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Imagine if she accuses every guy of harassment. Would it matter what she looked like?
/r/seduction11/06/19 08:04 PM
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Name puns.
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:18 PM
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Tell her on your recent trip to Nunavut you learned how to Eskimo kiss. You need someone to try it out on. Even if she says no you get a laugh. Women need dumb shit like that said to them. My problem is I was always too serious. Look up Improv Comedy (join a class or online).
/r/seduction10/06/19 05:56 PM
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I'm older than you but this describes me. Women are driven by emotion. Ask them to tell you what the best thing that happened to them today. Then say well that is boring, now tell me the shittiest thing of your day. Now she is on a rollercoaster. See where this is going?
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:17 PM
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I met many chicks who were infertile. I'm looking more for a partner than hookups, so that is a deal breaker. Not many of them are thrilled about never having kids, one cried in front of me. ​ Probably STDs, Birth Control, lifestyle, etc. Not conducive for reproducing. Women get lots of wear and tear if they aren't careful.
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:12 PM
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Because of feminism unfortunately some women hate men. They will do anything to destroy a mans life.
/r/seduction08/06/19 01:30 PM
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I'm 48 with the dating experience of a 16yo. Even though I make tons of money I have no friends or women. Guess it is over for me. I'm also on the thin side, I can't build muscle. I dropped 150lbs on my mouth and broke two teeth :lol:. I skate, in shape, but not the body women want.
/r/seduction08/06/19 01:27 PM
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Women could call the cops on you for talking to them today. It is a risky game. This isn't 10 years ago.
/r/seduction08/06/19 01:19 PM
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Some women like attention more than you like sex :lol:
/r/seduction07/06/19 02:31 PM
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So, at least I'm still trying.
/r/seduction06/06/19 03:12 PM
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48 and I'm from NY.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:09 PM
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I make 2k /day and I'm an older virgin.
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:54 PM
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Women could actually be arrested for pickup even to this day. NY wants to get rid of that law. Even simply waving at a guy in car. Not in every situation, but it is assumed they could be prostitutes. Women traditionally NEVER approached men. Only prostitutes. ​ There are very big differences with men and women. Same way women get jobs, careers, money and cry no men wants them. Those are big attractive things for men but carry little weight for a woman. A major career can even work against a woma…
/r/seduction05/06/19 07:50 PM
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Its good for a 13-14 yo :lol:.
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:03 PM
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Better to be fat than a skinny skater boi like myself.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:24 PM
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I dropped a 200$ tip to a waitress with my phone number (also played with puns and her name). So I have a BPD single mom 26yo blowing up my phone. At least she is very hot. She looks like the actress in Requiem for a dream. Now I can be a betabux.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:21 PM
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I don't think looks matter. It is presentation.
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:24 PM
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Things could always be worse - you could be in Amsterdam and Rotterdam NEW YORK (we were fully founded by the Dutch, We even have a Guilderland)...then you would really be in trouble with women. There is no one here :lol:. I did actually pick up women there as a Rollerblader..saying I want an activity partner. I got some numbers. Could work over there too. Rollerblades also make you taller.
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:01 PM
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I am 155 at 5'10". I bet you are mistaken for a train rail!
/r/seduction30/05/19 06:19 PM
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Ahh so the key is seeing the woman often, establishing some sort of rapport.
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:16 AM
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I did get the confidence thing though. Would you suggest, say if you are online at the supermarket, to approach a woman?
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:14 PM
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Yep, I think the single mom epidemic and fathers like I had are the reason why so many men are twisting in the wind today. It is like young women getting obese.
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:48 PM
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Still you had a very strong male figure. I think that is the flour in the cake recipe. I was raised by crazy women and my dad (ok, nice guy, he was my dad) but a textbook underachieving gamma male. One piece of advice to me was never ask for a raise because you will get fired. Never quit a job either, even if taken advantage of. No wonder why my mom said to think of him as your older retarded brother :lol:.
/r/seduction18/05/19 11:48 AM
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Online dating is loaded with fakes, especially for men. Was that way 20 years ago, is that way today. I worked as a dev long ago for a dating site, I have stories 🤣. You may get lucky but the odds are really stacked against you. Just the sheer responses ANY woman gets is staggering.
/r/seduction18/05/19 11:43 AM
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I'm a blank notebook waiting to hear more!
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:21 PM
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Height? Seems you are quite physically attractive to pull that off. ​ Most guys are invisible. What can I do to act like a "man" at the grocery store to get a cashiers or a female customer attention?
/r/seduction17/05/19 08:40 PM
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Oh, she picked a very expensive place. Very good, but expensive. I'm rich, I don't care, but I think women like to be led with things like that. Guess it all depends. Probably on a first date, like that was, the guy should be in control.
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:43 PM
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I always ask women that before a massage, especially the first time. But I wonder if it is bad thing to do. I do try to respect women but avoid being a doormat. One woman actually said "thank you very much for being such a gentleman, first times are always awkward." ​ I know a bad thing is letting a woman pick all the date places. Recently I took a woman on date, she was in the car, I turned her and said you pick where we should eat. She gave me a funny look. Will never do that again.
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:03 PM
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I don't know looks are everything. Women respond to different things on a subconscious level. That is why men armchair quarterbacking things don't make sense to me.
/r/seduction17/05/19 04:54 PM
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Where did you meet these women? They just approached you on the street?
/r/seduction17/05/19 04:50 PM
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Do you think asking a girl if she is uncomfortable with anything to tell you before you get physical bad?
/r/seduction17/05/19 04:43 PM
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Maybe #MeeToo in 2019? Toxic Masculinity?
/r/seduction16/05/19 06:31 PM
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I would look into meetup.com and find something that interests you. Once you are in a venue like that you have a reason to talk to women. Any online dating is going to be stacked against you. Many women are on there just to stroke their ego.
/r/seduction16/05/19 05:56 PM
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Sounds familiar, I'm an older version of you. No excuse today with all the self help shit around. Even I managed to break free and get #s.
/r/seduction16/05/19 05:53 PM
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Except for looking a bit older (which is a plus for women, maybe the beard), I don't see why this 6' guy should have trouble approaching women? Honestly online isn't always the answer.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:43 PM
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Go for it, I used to tutor and became a professor later on. Don't have regrets for what you didn't do. This is an excuse to start things off very slow.
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:44 PM
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Never really wanted recreational sex but a partner. Now I have nothing.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 04:18 PM
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I know, not that simple though for me.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 04:18 PM
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I think most women know it is a P and D in most cases, so why not go for the physically best guy.
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:04 PM
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My neighbors 11 or 12 yo son asked a girl to be friends and he got a sexual harassment charge. Not arrested but the PC school gave the poor kid hell. Nothing sexual even said. The girl just didn't like him.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 03:07 PM
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As a 48 yo virgin, I should be thinking about the best caliber bullet to eat.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 02:46 PM
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Oh, fuck yeah. If you are employed now you should be talking. In one job an accountant was learning to code and we built a system that ended up saving the company millions. He wrote most of the front end code, validations, business rules, etc. and it was great because he knew exactly what the end users wanted and needed. The guy is a senior IT manager now making high compensation. He hires coders and manages the project. Maybe he does 15% coding, when there is something very complex to complete.…
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 02:28 PM
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I'm 48 and I sometimes approach women. I think they are in their 30s, and some even agree. Many turn out to be 18-25. Every woman dyes her hair so you can't tell.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 02:06 PM
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My mom told me to call my dad by his first name. She said he is your retarded older brother, don't listen to him. I was raised fully by women.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 02:01 PM
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I tried on GRINDER and I was Chad for a day. Proof I AM NOT UGLY. Just a bit feminine looking. Some girls may be into that look.
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:56 PM
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I would never want to attract those kind of women. Setting yourself up for a boatload of hurt.
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:53 PM
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If you don't have a preferred social media "look" today, you are fucked. Women preselect and many don't care about anything else. I'm starting to believe it.
/r/seduction12/05/19 11:49 AM
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Women are so superficial today due to social media that game means shit.
/r/seduction12/05/19 11:48 AM
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Everyone and his brother is offering 2500$ bootcamps now.
/r/seduction12/05/19 11:46 AM
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Yeah, if women wanted real men they would be on Eharmony.
/r/seduction12/05/19 11:44 AM
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For every one mention of Eharmony there are 10K mentions of Tinder. Why wouldn't women flock to something like that? Seems women just want to fuck the hottest guys, and don't really care about settling down until they are much older.
/r/seduction12/05/19 11:42 AM
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I thought about that with your major. Yes, it is certainly important to know how to code. But I'll say this, you become replaceable. This is something beyond what the bootcamps tell you. The bootcamps are a business. Some are making very good money. I used to teach cs and I though of starting one. Now, there are exceptions. If you are a top software guy at google, you are going to have many options. But if you are doing "Bootcamp" type work, things are not so good. With all my experience (if wen…
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 11:14 AM
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body of a 70yo grandma.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 10:16 PM
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That is true, because ultimately women are attractive for different things vs. men. They have different functions despite what feminism wants us to believe.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 10:10 PM
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I think the strategy is the same. Like leasing or buying a car :lol:
/r/seduction11/05/19 10:09 PM
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People have developed that alone into six figure businesses. Learn about SEO, reputation management, etc. Offer services. You could also hire. Just being a cog in the machine (coder, accountant, wage slave, etc) isn't always the best idea.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 09:40 PM
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Yes, if two adults consent that changes the game.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 07:10 PM
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A hag on tinder could do better than a decent looking guy. I did my own experiments and was shocked.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:35 PM
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Unless you count involuntary MGTOW :lol:. No shortage of that today.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:34 PM
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I'm actually hoping to get a wife. I think there could be useful techniques here. :lol:
/r/seduction11/05/19 06:29 PM
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You could be charged with that too.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:26 PM
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Now you see why there were sort of enforecable laws on the books about premarital sex? People really thought thrice before doing it. Now we have a fucking clown world. ​ Women are the cops. Whatever they say carries a TON of weight, even though they misrepresent all the time.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:25 PM
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Tinder is P and D.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:23 PM
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I agree. If it is that bad of an urge there is always pornhub. You risk so much with casual sex today. STD, false allegations, boyfriend revenge, 18 years of support, etc. FUCKING NOT WORTH IT.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:22 PM
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I totally agree. Women set this boat in motion. BUT I also say this: 1) Men will have sex with anything. Women generally aren't going to rape men. 2) Women need law and order and direction from men. Men allow women to call all the shots. One extreme is Islam. The other is the Clown world we have now.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:20 PM
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80/20 rule isn't mathematically or economically sustainable. There were other human races in the last 10 million years that went extinct.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:18 PM
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Maybe Georgia has the right idea. The new abortion bill has women scared.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 06:17 PM
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I agree, it is difficult to break in because places expect a level of competency and if you are below that you may even be a burden. Even with education it is difficult. Some people do learn better in a class setting. You may want to call small businesses and ask to create some basic websites for very low cost or even free. Like a new restaurant or band. Then add a sign up page using code. See where I am going. Hopefully to have a good grasp of basics even before you take the first course.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 05:14 PM
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Not saying it is or isn't, but MGTOW is the vehicle to make it happen!
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 05:10 PM
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Just watch for STDs. Every headline about Coachella has STDs in the title :lol:.
/r/seduction11/05/19 05:06 PM
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I don't think women ever lose SMV today.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 03:29 PM
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I would do that site over the summer whether you go to school in CS or not. When I went college, I was already being paid as a dev. And this was LONG before you could learn anything off the internet. I used to hang out in Waldenbooks and read, take notes :lol:
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 02:01 PM
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Maybe try to learn coding on your own and develop a great portfolio. Freecodecamp.org. College may be a waste if you already have a degree. I am a developer, doing it since a teen in the 80s, make 2K a day now as an industry consultant. I do have an EE/CS degree but in many cases it is NOT NECESSARY. When I worked I had colleagues with ENGLISH degrees doing programming.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 01:59 PM
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NY allows abortion up till the baby cries :lol:. I bet they would allow it until 50 if women made a big stink.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 01:48 PM
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You must look like a male model.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 01:44 PM
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I got on a list (I don't know how) some YT dude is asking 5K!!!!!!
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 01:43 PM
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Expecting not to get STDs from a woman today is like expecting to buy a used car and not spend anything on it. :lol:.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 01:33 PM
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I had no idea what she does. She called me (not text) and we talked. Then she said you are thin and can use some muscle...Told me she works at a ladies gym.
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:32 PM
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I happen to live with my mom right now, to help her out, I observe the same phenomena. She did it to my dad too.
/r/MGTOW11/05/19 01:23 PM
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I actually did learn programming on my own (I do also have an EE/CS degree, but was paid at 17). I make more than that number in tech. Not sure how much the degree helped. Only for the prof job that I worked as an adjunct, and it was low pay. ​ This can actually work against you for dating stuff. I'm figuring out stuff now that is common knowledge to most 17yos. ​ I agree with learning though. Some guys may have a dad or older brother teach them(I had neither). Some figure it out on their own. I…
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:05 PM
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Once you "Think" you aren't attracted to her it is game over. I know deformed, burn victims get women.
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:01 PM
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It is a real clusterfuck. The end game of all this is to have a family and reproduce. The modern world is moving away from that. ​ If women are just going to use their body for causal sex (I don't agree with that, I'm old fashioned), if they do take that path though why not go for the gold with the best guys they can get and the most money they can make. Women depreciate very quickly. They are like an expensive Luxury car lease.
/r/seduction11/05/19 11:57 AM
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Am I crazier than the guys putting down 5K for some bro to teach them how to "hold frame?" When most of that shit is free on YT?
/r/seduction11/05/19 11:29 AM
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Am I crazier than the guys putting down 5K for some bro to teach them how to "hold frame?" When most of that shit is free on YT?
/r/seduction11/05/19 11:28 AM
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This girl has a perfect body(my heart stopped looking at her legs) and works as a physical trainer too. So it was actually constructive advice. She said she don't deal too much with men's fitness but she said thinks I have amazing potential to have a fashion model body because I have a smaller frame. She don't think I should get really big and maybe lift lighter weights like women. She said she could send me a plan. ​ I do have a date with her though. ​ Am I crazier than the guys putting down 5K…
/r/seduction11/05/19 11:28 AM
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Make sure to get this taken care of. Time goes by fast and you just let things go. I'm 40s and had lots of interest from women in the past but never knew how to take action. Recently I did...
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:02 AM
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I don't know. I'm 48, I likely have Aspergers. I worked hard to improve myself. I wish I could build more muscle but I'm thin, maybe built like a HS guy. I guess in 2019 I'm a manlet at 5' 9.5" Still look kinda young. I make $2k/day, STEM related, so maybe I'm not in the same category. I have no friends. ​ I have severe anxiety that is probably genetic looking at my family. With everything put together I managed to approach a girl that looked at me. Now I'm scared she is going to find out I'm a …
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:37 PM
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One I took a date home and gave her a programming lesson. Yeah, she wanted more, but more like her favorite teacher :lol:.
/r/seduction10/05/19 10:47 PM
1

I got flat out rejected for being 5'10", don't know at your height what women think today. The woman actually said she is the asshole and will regret it for passing up such amazing cute guys under 6'. She said not to take it personal, it is her preference. ​ I am a $2k/day software/tech consultant, like you I'm a late bloomer. I'm 48. ​ I didn't cold approach ANYWHERE near as much as you do. But I believe one thing. Fashion and how you dress matters to women. Maybe even more than looks. I wear o…
/r/seduction04/05/19 10:28 PM
1

Not into donor cycles. Every day another guy gets creamed on one here.
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:24 PM
1

Did before STEM was popular. Anything associated with that classified you as a "Geek/Nerd/etc"
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:51 AM
2

It may be an extreme example but there was an article the other week where a Princeton Prof married a student after she graduated. She was your age and he is 71. I went back to my college to get a transcript. I'm 47. I struck up a conversation with senior(maybe 22-25?) Thought she was a prof, looked a bit older. (of course after an education in game, working out, fashion, etc). Didn't ask for her number but I found out she is single and said the guys there are too immature for her. ​ Honestly, n…
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:44 AM
3

Don't let the rejection affect you. Your experience is what kills it for many guys. There is so much information online, free and paid. This isn't 20-25yrs ago where you would twist in the wind trying to figure this shit out.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:38 AM
1

Same story here. I went to a strictly STEM school in NY, many years ago. Maybe a handful of women, none you would really want to date. Many of the guys were pretty redpilled too and some weren't into sex (religious or just aspie). An experience like that could set you on a path to lifetime celibacy. Women also hate guys in computer science/Engineering. We all knew that back then as well. Now may be a little different but the stigma still stands. Even if you are attractive that can knock off a fe…
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:29 AM
1

No I'm not Donald Trump rich. Maybe in 5-10 years :lol:
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:21 AM
1

I'm not gigachad :lol:
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:18 AM
1

Bingo, this was a big problem for me. I've been told it to my face and asked out by men! That + Shyness = inceldom.
/r/seduction02/05/19 10:56 PM
5

My common sense agrees, but it seems you could attract some hot women with that!
/r/seduction02/05/19 10:51 PM
1

Don't buy a Lexus. A woman hated my new Lexus! She said it is an overpriced Toyota!
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:46 AM
1

You are not alone bro as a 40 something V
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:12 PM
4

I had a job where a woman consistently SAT ON MY KNEE like a horse. I was a programmer and she was the bookkeeper. ​ And other crazy stuff too. If that wasn't an IOI, I don't know what is. Granted, this was in the 90s, but if I didn't see that imagine all the subtle ones I missed out on.
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:34 PM
2

Yeah, and overnight you aren't going to have women stopping you in the supermarket. Once you fix that I'm sure you can find 10 other things too.
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:29 PM
2

So, get on an infinite self improvement treadmill. Look around you, does every guy with a girl look like an instagram male model? There are some basics but there is a point of diminishing return. Nice to be toned but women couldn't give the least fuck about your deadlift numbers.
/r/seduction15/04/19 06:40 PM
1

Very insecure about travel, was brought up that it is a terrible thing.
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:25 PM
2

Many women have friends, sisters too, and you may get to know them as well. "Meeting thru friends" is powerful. They already know you aren't some serial killer trying to pick them up. I don't think you have have sex with every unrelated female you know but many will differ.
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:23 PM
1

Well, I don't want to get into too much debate BUT Far from every guy with a gf has a 6 pack or even in shape. Beyond getting nice and toned, women don't want the incredible hulk. Does it help, sure. There are plenty of "incels" with great bodies who can't a get a women to look at them and there are fat neckbeards with gfs. YMMV. It is a good thing to do though.
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:20 PM
1

Is it legal there?
/r/seduction15/04/19 02:36 PM
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Indirectly. It will increase your confidence. Women don't really care about massive muscles, only bros do. Well, unless you are into bodybuilder type women. Being toned and in shape is important, irregardless of girls.
/r/seduction15/04/19 02:31 PM
1

I'm 47 with aspergers, I'm a virgin but a tech millionaire. Actually been told I'm not bad looking by women. I am reading many of the books mentioned in this thread. I still feel there is some hope, despite terrible odds.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:54 PM
1

You must be very attractive then.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:50 PM
3

I worked on a dating site well before they were popular (it got acquired). I'll just say it couldn't exist without female fakes. The owners very well know about it and it was a given. This is common knowledge now. Even Tinder was seeded with fakes. At the time we loaded up the 12345 zip with tons of Eastern Euro hotties, because many would just key that in to search. It is actually the zip of the GE factory in Schenectady. :lol:. Only women within 10 miles are crackheads or hoes. ​ Women don't n…
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:47 PM
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I dress like a model, I have good posture, alpha eye contact (from the videos I watched) I'm 5'10", I don't have women approaching me in supermarkets.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:42 PM
1

If 12 hrs a day behind 3 32" monitors is time well spent, I guess you are right.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:38 PM
1

I have little contact with people. I make money working 10-12/day hrs on the computer. Women don't even know I'm alive in Walmart.
/r/seduction14/04/19 11:03 PM
1

I think being a virgin at my age is ropeworthy, no matter what the reason.
/r/seduction14/04/19 09:59 PM
1

Hoping he gets off his ass. At 26 you have everything ahead of you. At my age, you rope. I was him then and now. Only difference is now I'm worth millions but it means shit if you don't reach certain milestones.
/r/seduction14/04/19 09:45 PM
0

Don't do anything about it and 20 years will pass like me and you will be even more pathetic then.
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:40 PM
1

I make 2 grand a day, does nothing for me. I started dressing nicer.
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:39 PM
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The whole blackpill is based on the premise that women and men are attracted to the same thing. Obviously that isn't always true. Even that Meeks guy is bald. There is no fucking chance on the planet for a bald woman to be a model. Unless she models cancer drugs :lol:.
/r/seduction14/04/19 02:12 PM
1

I guess it is the same argument as the incels who cry their looks hold them back.
/r/seduction13/04/19 02:07 AM
1

Thanks for this insight. Interesting. So looks help, but don't guarantee anything. Can you tell me exactly what "confidence" is. Body language? What I say? How I look at you, etc?
/r/seduction13/04/19 01:56 AM
1

Do you really mean this? I still believe looks are everything, especially today.
/r/seduction12/04/19 11:51 PM
3

So true. Men are feeding this dumpster fire on social media. Any average or even below chick gets extreme praise from men. Then they search for gigachad in dating apps.
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:47 PM
1

Men who aren't attractive shouldn't think in sexual terms.
/r/seduction12/04/19 01:43 PM
1

100%. A girl I went out with showed me how many guys are interested. She wasn't bragging, but I would say a below average girl has the dating experience online of a male model with a decent Instagram. The guys may just be interested in a smash but there is no lack of interest.
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:38 PM
1

There are a few issues at bay: Modern women in 2019 may not be worth dating. Women jumping from cock to cock isn't civilized, is causing high divorce rates, cheating, STDs, and even hurting women in the end. When looks in men become a very big deal(usually the girl was supposed to be youthful and beautiful) there is a problem right there. So we have the Chads, who aren't "dating" women but just smashing them for a night or two. Men are supposed to be strong providers. Why are beauty products (ev…
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:19 PM
2

I agree. When I was younger I also got lots of compliments. Women called me cute, handsome, studmuffin, IOIs that I was blind to see. Etc. I got asked out by men. I still doubt my looks though, not the point. But I truly lack confidence and I'm older and single. I see lots of men who aren't that attractive and I can't figure out why they have no problem getting women. People even pointed it out to me. I suffer from low self confidence, low self esteem, etc. Looks are like having shiny new tools …
/r/seduction11/04/19 01:54 AM
2

100%. All the attention and praise they get from men is a friggn turnon. That is why they bother with clothes and makeup.
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:29 PM
1

Cold approach pretty much or a circle of friends. Also women dropped hints. If you were shy (like me) and blind to hints you are pretty much a forever alone.
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:26 PM
1

Apps have fake women too. Anyone who don't believe that is delusional. That Ashley Madison hack a few years back really proved it.
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:23 PM
0

Don't agree. With the sexual revolution divorce is thru the roof. There is hard core statistics with a strong correlation about the number of partners women have and divorce. I'm not trying to judge right and wrong, just telling you what studies say.
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:14 PM
5

I think a creep in 2019 is someone who isn't extremely attractive.
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:51 PM
3

As for approaching in person in 2019, I'm really scared of MeToo and getting labeled as a creep. You don't even have to be sexual with a woman for that to happen. Women have a ton of power in that regard. ​ I worked on a dating app many, many years ago (which got acquired). I'm sure it applies today. Very few women used it at first. It needed tons of fake women and bots to get things going. One thing it would never need, are male bots. Women can just dress up nice and walk out, guys will make of…
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:32 PM
16

Women can write their ticket with online dating, when it comes to getting laid. Just what the OP wrote proves it. A dead average woman and a male supermodel probably get equal results.
/r/seduction10/04/19 12:20 PM
3

Success drops exponentially as your looks drop. Might as well use a db scale for SMV. Down 3db = 1/2.
/r/seduction10/04/19 12:02 PM
1

I think girls will just walk up to you in the street. I saw YT vids.
/r/seduction10/04/19 12:55 AM
1

I don't even blame women. They have so many options and just pick the best. We would all do the same. Online dating is a sausage fest to start. Dating sites have to be seeded with with fake women or they would never take off. I was part of one that got bought out many years ago.
/r/seduction10/04/19 12:54 AM
1

I'm not sure. I'm thinking of buying a Lambo though. That should impress them!
/r/seduction10/04/19 12:46 AM
2

I'm that height and 158, I fit into medium clothes, look skinny, you must look like a rail sculpture! 5'10" is short bro. I got rejected by a girl for being that height, and I have money.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:38 PM
1

I would say that should attract. How tall are you? I hear that makes a difference today. Are you too serious? Aspergers?
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:08 PM
1

You could be intimidating if that is really the case. Maybe try online dating. Supposed to do miracles for hot guys.
/r/seduction08/04/19 05:46 PM
0

I would say "Ho Ho Ho" Merry Christmas! :lol:
/r/seduction08/04/19 05:04 PM
1

Are you instantly judged when you walk up to a woman? Halo effect much?
/r/seduction08/04/19 12:33 AM
4

In 1995(not an exact date) and prior, looks mattered less because a woman's social circle was much more bandlimited than it is today. Women also felt they NEEDED a partner by a certain date, 25, 30 for certain, or they were invisible, so that changed the dynamic. When you need car insurance, you don't have to love your company. Then shows like sex and the city came around, and it became a game changer. ​ I am probably saying something I shouldn't on Reddit, but women have NO SHAME today. Now wom…
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:03 PM
1

In 2019, yes 100%. Anyone who says otherwise is lying. If not you have to learn parlor tricks at a 10K bootcamp that probably won't work. You are basically learning how to manipulate women. Like getting your spammy site to rank in google. ​ Women judge a guy in microseconds if he is a creep or fuckboy. ​ I can't believe how people deny that when there is experiment after experiment on online dating. Why not debate that F=ma physics law is not really true. Yeah, it could look very different if yo…
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:32 PM
3

Girls have so many guys on those apps. It is like putting a perfect car in an ad for 1/2 the price. Your phone will be ringing off the hook. You really have to stick out in some way to hear back.
/r/seduction04/04/19 11:10 PM
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Once you ask questions like this it shows your confidence is shaky. Men used to forge into strange lands with savages hiding in trees waiting to eat them. Confident, masculine men just take action and don't give a fuck what anonymous strangers on the internet think. I know those are harsh words, but it is what it is. ​ Once you worry about what others think of you, you aren't confident. There is nothing against the law to talk to a woman. You could open and ask a workout question. ​
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:35 PM
1

I respond with, yeah, I do too 😊.
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:20 PM
1

I talk to girls about programming and they get extremely bored :lol:. Some women take to it.
/r/seduction03/04/19 02:39 PM
2

Social media is like a supercharger and turbocharger for hypergamy. Sad part is women bring NOTHING to the table. Can't cook, clean, even look pretty and feminine anymore. Many are addled with huge debt from worthless degrees. Just a diseased vagina. ​ Maybe environmental factors like the pill and processed foods are fucking with women. They are becoming more like men.
/r/seduction31/03/19 01:29 AM
4

Look up the movie Idiocracy. I thought the movie was a total joke then, but it is fucking reality now. Even a president that had business with the WWF :lol:. In the movie they had some braindead wrestler as president.
/r/seduction31/03/19 01:20 AM
1

My dad said once you hear a guy bragging they are probably a virgin :lol:
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:28 AM
1

Yes, men have to be the confident ones. Otherwise there really can't be attraction. If men and women are exactly equal, then it is like dating another guy!
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:16 AM
8

Women are beta males. So when you act beta they aren't attracted to themselves.
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:13 PM
1

There is a cartoon video with the Joker seducing Harley Quinn :lol:. It is a classic. I can't find it right now. ​
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:11 PM
1

They prey on desperate guys to get money from them. They aren't doing it for their health :lol:.
/r/seduction22/03/19 05:43 PM
2

Just chatting using skype. The answers were very believable. "She" repeated her city again with a spelling mistake (that was a giveaway). If you ask what HS did you goto, it will give you a HS in that place. Even a teachers name. Also "she" didn't seem correct in her responses. They didn't have the tone of an American woman.
/r/seduction22/03/19 04:55 PM
1

I've talked to some pretty realistic AI bots. What gave them away is no American woman would talk to a guy like that. :lol:
/r/seduction22/03/19 04:28 PM
3

Sounds like Tinder is turning into the new CL. An infinite market of extremely desperate guys.
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:37 PM
1

I think approach is very powerful because you are showing a woman you are willing to take a risk. That alone gets some attractiveness kudos with women. That shows confidence, and you believe in yourself and ready to sell your product. She can reject you, but if she is nasty or mean you should be lucky it is over with that woman.
/r/seduction20/03/19 08:56 PM
1

Forgiven :)
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:16 PM
1

I think this guy is a Chad too.
/r/seduction19/03/19 05:20 PM
2

Seems online dating only focuses on looks.
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:42 PM
1

Thank you very much Trish. I strive for self improvement and hope to incorporate this. I feel I have much to offer a woman, but missing a "special sauce" to make the first connection. ​ I have many hobbies and talents, able to fix things, cook, etc. Maybe I have to work on my sense of humor more. ​ How do you communicate all this on a cold approach!
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:41 PM
1

I'm not a millionaire but I pull about 2 grand a day. I don't live in an expensive area like Seattle. Seattle is a very difficult place to meet women from what I hear. ​ Also, as much money you have I'm sure there are guys with much more. You are competing with Bezos there :lol:. You are homeless next to him. :). I owe my money to Seattle brands like Microsoft and Amazon.
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:38 PM
1

I'm pretty autistic. I just learned about flirting on YT. ​ I do make almost 2k a day. Not bragging, it is in the computer field and I don't leave my house. I'm trying to dress better, following some YT channels. In the past I had job though, even taught in college and got some interesting positive feedback about my looks on rate my professor. Meanwhile I could never get a gf. ​ In the past I had IOIs from women, but had zero idea what to do next. I didn't even understand that until recently. I'…
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:33 PM
2

Yep, I agree 100%. It is going to very difficult. I have no friends or connections now, and I'm older.
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:28 PM
1

Look at me, making almost 2K a day and I struggle with being alone. Do I have to have the income of the Google founders :lol:? Plenty of guys in McDonalds jobs with a wife and kids. I have aspergers, social anxiety, etc, I can blame that. Also socially retarded b/c I found out about flirting recently thru YT vids.
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:26 PM
1

I wouldn't care about looks obviously. Would want someone that is a good cook and conversationalist. :lol:
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:24 PM
1

Yes, men are extremely rational and logical. They certainly think differently.
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:23 PM
1

Great answer. The dating environment is toxic today. Nothing like Tinder every existed. Free/casual sex was once a niche thing and not mainstream. Women up to the 70s generally got married in their very early 20s. There was no 20year dating window to sample 100s of men. ​ I'm sure women have issues too. ​ Being a friend with a woman today seems very toxic. Many PUAs just push quick lays. But yet many men desire "old fashioned women," even virgins. Many coaches say a woman makes a decision to fuc…
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:22 PM
0

True, I've never see PUA for women :lol:. That would never fly.
/r/seduction18/03/19 11:48 PM
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I'm too chicken :(
/r/seduction18/03/19 11:47 PM
1

Good women aren't on the market long.
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:42 PM
1

Why do they say women are obsessed with youth and looks then?
/r/seduction12/03/19 08:00 PM
1

No doubt I could have gotten a woman in the past. I would be lying if I said no. No supermodels or even close though :lol:
/r/seduction12/03/19 06:39 PM
1

How do you meet women? Cold approach? Online?
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:21 PM
1

I tried online, each girl makes we want to be single more and more.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:20 PM
2

Good advice
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:19 PM
1

You must look like Brad Pitt.
/r/seduction12/03/19 12:52 PM
1

I don't have a good taste about PUA.
/r/seduction12/03/19 12:38 PM
1

Very hard to bootstrap in my situation.
/r/seduction12/03/19 12:38 PM
1

Not interested in Escorts. I know I could get one tonight if I wanted (minus the legal and disease risk). Obviously if I didn't have sex this long it has some meaning to me.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:02 AM
1

Thanks, but aside from that, how are women going to know I have money? I have a nice car already (new Lexus) and 4 others but I'm thinking maybe something like a Lambo? I need to do this to get women :*(
/r/seduction12/03/19 12:27 AM
2

I actually went out with a 6'8" girl. I'm only 5'10". I also believe in waiting until marriage.
/r/seduction12/03/19 12:09 AM
1

I watched some guys on YT, and copied them. It isn't rocket science. But I never cared about my appearance. Some Channels, AlphaM TeachingMensFashion ​ ​ ​ A few others too
/r/seduction18/11/18 02:00 PM
1

I hear ya bro,I'm also aspie. Know NOTHING about fashion. But I'm learning :lol:.
/r/seduction17/11/18 06:33 PM
1

I am no expert but I read much on PUA, dating, videos etc. I see from observation that looks help, but there are many other ways to get women. People can buy a BMW with cash from their account or somehow get credit for it when they are barely squeaking by. Another may have some YT channel and BMW may give them the car free or at a big discount. See where I'm going? All are driving the same new car. I read Brad Pitt had trouble getting dates when he came to LA. I know women gravitate to older, an…
/r/seduction17/11/18 06:28 PM
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