Leaving Expensive Tips with your number

Joseph1na · 2019-05-11T10:43:33+00:00

Yes it's a shit test and that's a good way to attract gold diggers if that's what you're looking for

doudou21 · 2019-05-11T10:45:34+00:00

Pls don’t

getyourlifeplease · 2019-05-11T11:34:35+00:00

How you get her is how you lose her....so if you lead with your money, she MAY come to expect 'money' regularly, which devalues you as a person (because she won't be into you, she'll be into your money). And then of course the next guy with more money can scoop her up too - because thats what she is after.

AligatorTears · 2019-05-11T11:16:36+00:00

It isn't game if you pay for it.

I'm not saying you shouldn't tip well, but when somebody is surviving on tips there is a lot riding on keeping the customer happy while keeping the customer coming back. Flirting with you and stringing you along is good for business. Actually hooking up with you is bad for business. Telling you to build muscle is an invitation to bulk up and come back to show off your guns and leave another big tip. Absolutely nothing against her for doing this. Girl's gotta earn a living and flirting is all part of the job. You've set a bar now. To hookup with this girl she's got to think a night with you is better than the income that not hooking up with you is bringing in. Unless you are offering a LTR with your wallet you probably aren't worth it.

My advice: service staff are great for practicing your flirting with and building confidence. Being nice to you is literally their job. Have fun and work on your game. Tip a fair amount but don't get flashy with it. The hospitality industry is pretty sex positive so if a girl likes you she'll let you know and she won't be shit testing you for a casual fling (if you've made it clear you are down for it).

SpinPlates · 2019-05-11T10:58:01+00:00

If you have money and a $200 tip isn't a big deal to you I don't see a problem with it.

Just be smart with your money after you reel them in. Don't let them "borrow" thousands of dollars until they fuck you.

Here is food for thought, I think $100 tip will get you the same call back percentages as a $200 tip. Also, I don't know how much money you make but imagine all of the hobbies you could dabble in. Go buy a used dirtbike and learn how to ride, or skydiving, scuba, mountain biking, fishing, bow hunting. Hobbies can get expensive if you go down the rabbit hole. And learning new skills and improving those skills is the best way to build true confidence.

I don't know anything about you but if I had to make a general guess I'd say the guy tipping $200 on a $50 tab has more money than confidence.

I was a bartender for 7 years. I've seen my hot female coworkers walk out with patrons that had money. But I also fucked a lot of my hot coworkers because I was confident, cocky and funny.

finlandpua · 2019-05-11T11:01:31+00:00

Please sit down and think what you are doing with your life.
If you want to pay women for sex, go look for women standing at street corners; I'm sure you can get full service for the $200.

Women aren't attracted to men whose pocketbook is the only thing they can offer. She is likely to spend that $200 with the guy who did not try to impress her with his bank account, but instead tried a playful and manly approach.

You are at a very wrong place when it comes to success with women, it's not that difficult but you have managed to make it so.

What would James Bond do? What would Brad Pitt do? Ask yourself these questions.

Would James Bond pay a woman $200 in order to get her number? No way! Would Brad Pitt beg for a waitress's attention and affections using his wealth?

Be the James Bond of your life. Not the George Costanza. Women are repulsed by the kind of guys who do things like this.

Reading list for you:
All About Women, Encyclopedia of Seduction by Giuseppe Notte
Attraction Isn't a Choice by David DeAngelo

Searching an ebook's title with the keyword filetype:pdf in google search can go a long way.

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Title	Leaving Expensive Tips with your number
Author	nylostandfound
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	May 11, 2019 10:31 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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