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One it is.. But seriously, stop being to fixed on one person. You're still young work on social circles and school.
/r/seduction06/09/13 01:35 PM
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Sidebar. Also have fun.
/r/seduction17/08/13 11:28 PM
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Short answer, no. But in theory it could perhaps give you more confidence around women. But that's just because you now see how little having sex mattered for who you where. I know it made me less anxious about the whole getting laid thing. Don't rush it, the only one who cares is you.
/r/seduction06/07/13 12:29 AM
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Some women change or have to act more outwards or interesting in social settinga to gain interest from the type of men they want. Just because you're not seeing them putting in effort doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Take my girlfriend at the moment, she does what she can too stay relevant in my life because I do what I can too stay relevant in her life. Remember there are a lot of insecure women who want value giving men in their life but don't know how. Though. In general there are a easier mar…
/r/seduction03/06/13 10:03 PM
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Probably plays ad carry
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:03 PM
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On my phone so I won't make this long. -Get one of the girls with you on the threesome. -Be sexual with them both. Make them like eachother and join in after some time. -Be direct, be honest. -Make it obvious you really enjoy yourself. Even if you're mostly helping them out in the start. -Set the frame early. -Drinking helps.
/r/seduction02/05/13 02:47 PM
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Getting em often? Btw when was this?
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:37 PM
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Classic AA.
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:23 PM
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Blender blender blender!
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:21 PM
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Give your target your phone, with the contact list open and tell her to put her number in. Ask them both if you wish. But usually friends like that want you to go for one off them. But hey I didn't get enough information to tell if you should go for 1 number or both.
/r/seduction12/04/13 02:14 PM
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Confirmed and can show results doesn't mean it is actually proven to be correct. If someone tried a drug on 1000 mice and non died. Does that mean the drug could still not kill a mice? I'm sorry to break it to you but there is a lot off people claiming there stuff is proved through science, while it still is bullshit. I believe what you're telling me and that what you read you read. But I have not myself seen the facts behind this study and therefor it's hard for me to believe in it. Thank you a…
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:37 PM
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The problem with science is; there is just as much bullshit laying around in it. Unless something actually is comfirmed and one can show results it's hard to believe something like this has not gotten to my mind yet. (probably something like it but not a most people will do this if they don't know about it ratio)
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:11 PM
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If you're not 100% sure don't bring it up only confuses people and makes for stupid mistakes. As for native location? Any clue if this works all over the world? Also I fail to see how this is not created by ether your brain aka it is bound to left/right. Or is then bound by the fact everyone does it and the kids adapt the movement. Edit: Sorry misread your first sentence. Didn't see the norm part. Okay so this is bound to the brain. Does that mean people who are defined leftys will act different…
/r/seduction08/04/13 09:57 PM
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Since you're a cashier. Please not talk about what we buy usually at best people would love talking about it, but at worst people might be ashamed off what they're buying. Keep the conversion light when you're working after all it's work. For the question part. Try to make your questions sound like statements, or lead the conversion into something the one you're talking with wants to talk about and ask about their feelings around this. Opens up for you to share your experience aswell /things tha…
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:31 PM
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Numbers behind this? Many was tested? % off people following this norm? anyone not doing it? How come? different between leftys and rightys? Age this was tested with? Born with / influenced by society? How much does knowing about it influence the outcome? Which things triggere it most often? Patterns between this and eyecontact in general? Different between alpha and beta people tested? Gender?
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:05 PM
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Know I'm late. But the thing is, even if you're overdoing it this just shows the girl you introdused him to that you want him to do well = you're being a good friend for him. Why are you a good friend for him? Probably because he is a good friend to you = hes good to women. DHV
/r/seduction08/04/13 07:50 PM
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I will never stop caring about what others think of me. I will always have it in the back off my head. But I have learned to live with it. I won't show it on me. I will keep my fear, and instead focus on what I do well. I have heard people saying true confidence is to forget about the rest off the world and live in your own bubble: to not give a fuck. Well true confidence to me is to fight your fear without showing it. Even if it might feel wrong at that moment, keep it inside yourself and show …
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:58 PM
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Probably, France or Italy. But honestly nobody cares where you're living; in a " I have to find this person way". Only for information purposes. Like I could tell people i'm from Norway. Would they care? Hell no. Most likely will no one I know IRL ever see this. And if they do, and if they actually call me out on it? What so? I don't judge other people by what they choose to do on the webs. And what so if I use that time to better my social skills. I believe that is a possitive thing something o…
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:44 PM
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Deppends on their age :)
/r/seduction02/04/13 06:32 PM
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Just tell them in English that you don't understand what they are talking about. Smile and nod and just be yourself. Honestly if they want you to have a good time they will try to interact with you in a way you understand. Try to use their language when you can, also say you're willing/ want to learn. Be open minded.
/r/seduction21/03/13 03:04 PM
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So the art of conversation is to use a bunch of canned lines?
/r/seduction21/03/13 02:59 PM
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Up your standars man! Who said you can't have both good looking and interesting women? Take my girlfriend at the moment. She is probably not the hottest you have seen(7-8/10) but shes the smartest most interesting girl I have met in a very long time!
/r/seduction21/03/13 02:50 PM
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But then you don't read that type off posts. You won't get more related posts by making a new subreddit, you will just give yourself less off everything.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:41 PM
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Exactly the same thing you do after you've had sex. Just cuddle up, if there is something you wish to say say it. Give her a couple kisses. See if shes up to bang again (when making out see if she starts grinding on you).
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:53 PM
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Yes they get things for free. What so? Doesn't mean you should try any less. Focus on how well you do with women and not on those around you.
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:14 PM
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Have you gotten invites that you turned down? Did you know a party where comming but didn't research or ask because you where scared? Did you ask someone to come with you when you actually attended a party (bonding is important, if you ask them, they will ask you)? But remember it's nothing to be ashamed off, some people honestly doesn't like the setting and feel very unconfortable in a party setting. But I'm saying if you really wished to get a kiss this is the easiest way.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:42 AM
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Then you need to question yourself. How hard have you really tried? Have you put yourself out there? Have you made smale mistakes gone to fare and got talked off? How many parties have you attended from 16 to now? Less then 50? Well then you're not trying hard enough How many girls have to talked to 1 on 1 the last 5 years? Less then 50? Well why? How many mixed sets where you know no one have you opened in the last 5 years? Less then 50? Guys this are pretty simple maths, if you put yourself ou…
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:32 AM
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I think many people does it this way just because it's easier to analyze their mistakes when they already have them written. Guys more often come for advice on sertain conversations when they have them in text. Because honestly you won't remember everything in person.
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:52 PM
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Good points. But remember some guys are better at being social when they can be spontaneous which is easier in person. Some guys/girls over analyzes the texts, making them very time consuming. Also you might come off wrong to the girl when shes "reading" between your lines. You can't kino at all. Your face and voice tone is very important when connecting with someone. I do use texting exactly how you describe it. But I don't overuse it, because it's not a field I excel at. And I prefer using tex…
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:33 PM
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Yes exactly what i mean. But it's okay he seems to have deleted his comment now.
/r/seduction27/02/13 11:54 PM
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Hey. I have a girlfriend yet I still stick around.. learning seduction is more then just fucking girls you know. Just learing about social interactions and reading about other people and their techniques are interesting.
/r/seduction27/02/13 11:32 PM
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Hey whats your nationality? Sorry if it's 2 personal.
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:34 PM
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Escalate escalate escalate..
/r/seduction19/02/13 03:18 PM
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Is it weird that i read everything in my black voice?
/r/seduction12/02/13 11:51 PM
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I got about halfway down your post before I lost it. Dude I hope you'll never become an english writer, ever. Anyway: Assume attraction, just go for it.
/r/seduction11/02/13 08:37 AM
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Depends on where you set the location of the date. Your and her experience in dating. What you two are comfortable with. Will there be alkohol in the picture. How fare you got in the first date, both in words and by kino. If you can answer all this I could probably give you a 50/50 answer about how fare you could go. Best bet? Just fucking escalate until she stops you. As long as you're not pushing it to often she won't think you're comming off to strong. The usuall escalating with dates are, ki…
/r/seduction07/02/13 09:57 AM
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The fact she wrote a thread just to point out that weird gives you attention? Be weird. It essentially means being yourself, being different, unique, eye-catching, etc. Not creepy weird but hopefully you get what I mean. It works. It works <- ya it works in giving you attention. Being weird doesn't build attraction. It can help you find mutual interests in which case it will help build attraction. But the initial weird phase can be a huge turnoff. Of course she will say she did it because thats …
/r/seduction28/01/13 07:14 PM
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Yes and no. She did it for attention. You shouldn't be weird because people notice you when you're weird. You should be weird because you chose to live a livestyle that doesn't necessarily follow the norms. Same as bein alpha just to be alpha. The thing is. She presents this in a very bad way. With a prime example on why pickup is different between boys and girls. She had 10 boys around her that kept qualifying her to eachother.
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:09 PM
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Okay the general idea is. You can't change the women you ask out but you can change who you ask out and how you do it. If the women you ask out isn't into you she won't come (unless it's off respect or boredom). Well flaking is one of their ways to reject you. Try to build more rapport during your first meeting. Or ask women that would be more likely to show up (you know, or can guess they don't get much attention. Makes the job easier for you).
/r/seduction28/01/13 01:29 PM
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And this is why you don't listen to girls advice.
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:46 AM
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Bascially try saying their name 3 times loud. 1st time when they tell you their name: "My name is Joey." "Hello Joey!" 2nd time when you comment on something that has to do with them. Or when complimenting them. "Having fun Joey?" 3rd time when you want something from them, or they want something from you. "Hey lets go out and take a smoke Joey"
/r/seduction28/01/13 12:14 AM
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Could this be because you're lost? And not comfortable in a social setting? Dunno just a thought..
/r/seduction26/01/13 10:35 AM
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Okay man! Have your tried going up to 1 man on hte street and ask for directions? If you have? Was it that hard? Now ask 1 more man the next day, or just repeat it until you feel you're ready. And keep doing this until you can go up and talk to 5 different guys in 1 day. Now you start with women. You ask 1 women where ..... is. Next day you do the same. Untill you can ask two women on the same day! Then keep expanding these conversations.
/r/seduction26/01/13 10:33 AM
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Put yourself in her shooes. If a hot girl came up to you while you where buying groceries would you be disgusted or would you like it? If the girls sitting infront of you on the bus turned around and started talking to you would you find them creepy and strange?
/r/seduction18/01/13 11:40 AM
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These works well because: They have to be adapted to the situation. 1st line (you explained it yourself, doesn't work in all bars, can it be changed to wine, mixed drinks etc) 2nd line (might come off wrong if they are old, or if you look younger or much older then them, but can absolutely work) And they relate to the place/situation you're both a part of atm. You're both at a bar, so talking about said bar is much better then talking about the rare bird you saw a week ago. Though starting a con…
/r/seduction18/01/13 11:34 AM
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Hey let me introduce you to the words. Great, fantastic, awesome, whatever you get my point. Stop using cool (I don't say you did use it to much but hey it's cool.) 2nd Don't talk about your disabled mother before you know this girls lastname. You probably talked to her for less then 5 mins... Anyway try to lead the conversation by asking what she is. Before you start talking about yourself. One question would be: Hey you look like a Junior here, are you? her answer Okay so you're not from aroun…
/r/seduction18/01/13 12:44 AM
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Nope social media is pretty much only a tool. You can chose to use this tool thats right intfront of you, or you don't. There are many tools in pickup, it's one off many. But hey! At my age facebook is starting to be "the place" to keep in contact with people. You see they're on? send a message. Thats how it works now.
/r/seduction18/01/13 12:06 AM
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Honestly? If you want to get better at pickup get out there and practise at every second you have open. If you don't want to? Maybe there is a reason behind it (you're most likely scared as fuck). Well working around this fear, work out, eat health, do activites get hobbies. Thats what i enccurage. If you're going out and your only goal is to practise meeting women it gets boring. So please don't burn yourself out on this.
/r/seduction17/01/13 11:23 PM
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About point 1. This is a make or break point. If I don't like someone, like really wouldn't like to see you with me at all what so ever. I would probably do this to (whatever reason: looks, just stupid remarks, really bad reputation et cetera). So honestly I wouldn't really put this point in. It can swing hard both ways.
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:29 PM
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It's when you make a mistake and notice it you learn. If you don't notice your mistakes you wont learn.
/r/seduction13/12/12 10:23 AM
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If you really wish to go for the movie do it at your place. Something like, "hey I just rent/bought/want to see (xmovie) come to my place y time and I will cook z thing for us / and i will cook something speciall for us (secret)" But ya as a 2nd date this can come off as a bit early specially if there was little kino on the first date. Do an activity would be my guess, anything in common? Sport? climbing? dancing lessons? Improv? Anything you two could do together that doesn't need to be a date(…
/r/seduction10/12/12 06:50 AM
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It really deppends on the what you classify as a "success" Okay let's say we go by your numbers. A AFC will get to sleep with 1% of the girls he talks to. Where as a PUA has 8% ratio. Well first of all the PUA will be talking up about 50-100 times as many women, raising his percentage by let's say 50 which means he will pick up 400 times as many women as a AFC. Well? Ain't numbers fun.
/r/seduction10/12/12 06:34 AM
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Yes and no. Really deppends on the age, location and earlyer experiences with texting etc by both him and her. If he has been keeping up the conversations and not starting more then about 60% off them he shouldn't really be comming off as needy. Also really deppends on the kind of texts. If you start conversations with the likes of "What's up?" would be the same as saying you're a boring person. Texting should usually only be used for logistics but honestly it is much more used for pickup then w…
/r/seduction10/12/12 06:21 AM
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Sounds expensive
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:24 PM
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Yes ofc know your audience. Also don't use this to much, but when you get into the conversation having a pre thought storie from abroad can help you. As an example when I used this last weekend she ended up trying to qualify to me. By going for a storie(happening in another country) of her own trying to top mine.
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:59 PM
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Tell a stories that takes place in one of the countrys you have been to. Example: I was in france this last summer, me and a friend got real drunk, insert rest of storie here. I met this crazy man in spain last winter, he was talking about: insert storie here. Reminds me of the time I was, were, did etc.
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:53 AM
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Thanks for even more input on this matter! Yes, I guess the thing I have noticed is more a matter of the people being good at socalising and therefor they could use this during poker. As I have yet to talk with someone who plays poker on a international or on a high national level.
/r/seduction07/11/12 04:40 PM
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Hey, isn't this what we would call a brag post? How does this post help fellow PUAs and/or AFCs?
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:46 PM
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Sing. But I guess you have allready tried many different ways to cure your stutter? If you haven't tried singing you should. Singing is probably one of the best ways to do it. Start off with singing in the shower or whatever. Don't be afraid to suck at it. Also going to a singing coach etc. as they know much more about this then I do. Also does wounders for your voice.
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:30 PM
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I'd imagine the guys you've met were already pretty experienced in other areas, which happened to be applicable to poker -- not the other way around Yeah, might be this. Since I am not in the poker scene myself. So those I know who play poker, are those that tell me. But I would imagine playing poker could have a positive effect on your game.
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:22 PM
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Though poker players was great at knowing people. Every poker player i met this fare have been very well aware of what was happening around them and how to take advantage of this.
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:16 PM
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Not necessary club songs, but during pre drinking or just for workout but here are couple songs that gets me pumped. Radioactive- Imagine Dragons Heatwave - Wiley Change the way you kiss me- Future hitmakers Hungry hearts- Nause And we danced- Macklemore Pursuit of Happiness- MGTM, Ratata, Kid Cudi Good time- Owl City Midnight city- M83
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:01 PM
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Men likes it when you take initative. Men likes compliments just as much as women does. Be polite. Add to the conversation, and by that i pretty much mean talk a crap ton. It is exhausting to hold a conversation on yourself so unless you want the man to leave you alone keep coming up with topics. Kino (touch him, anywhere anytime. If you're going somewhere reach out your arm for him to hold). Hold eyecontact, show affection, don't look around at the crowd when he is talking to you.
/r/seduction04/11/12 10:12 PM
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Never is a strong word my friend. And I can honestly tell you without even knowing aything about you that you broke eyecontact first with atleast 3 persons this week. Not because you were intimidated but because you was not aware of the contact in the first place.
/r/seduction04/11/12 10:01 PM
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May very well be so. But these words gets thrown around a lot (Because they are easy to use in a sentence without sounding like you're to into the person). Well atleast from where i'm from.
/r/seduction04/11/12 07:47 PM
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Did she say lekker or deilig. Because both of those words can be used without much intent behind it.
/r/seduction04/11/12 07:27 PM
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Was probably one of these guys dressed as a hotdog. Saw a few of them yesterday
/r/seduction04/11/12 05:58 PM
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Yes of course I would share stuff I know if it can help my friends. Being a good friend is also being a good wingman. Also learning to teach others is often the best way to teach yourself.
/r/seduction30/10/12 10:25 PM
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Right.. I think the system should be based on each person. With 10 being unpossible aka a supermodel tv star etc. 9 being possible but really hard, good looks and shes used to being approached a lot. 8 is still "hard" but requires less work, ether good looking or used to being approached a lot or something inbetween. 7/6 is about smae as your looks and what you would get with no aa = you get these girls if you stay calm and just talk them up. 5 or less. These girls are easy, you get these with n…
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:34 PM
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/r/seduction23/10/12 09:06 PM
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This is a very specific case(give more info if you want better info back) But generally: Be fun, have fun. When interacting with a girl get her alone with you. If you're at a loud place take her for a walk. Share stories make jokes and kino. Girls don't want to come off as slutty. If you don't sit/stand in the middel of the room, and less people see you makeout it won't be that big of a deal to her.
/r/seduction23/10/12 10:18 AM
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Deppends on your age and where you're from also.. if you're 16 texting with a girl for longer periods of time is more "normal" because there will be less fumbling and it's easier to don't screw up and keep the conversation going. However if you're both experienced, having a phone call into meeting is usually the best way to push a relationship furthere.
/r/seduction18/10/12 07:56 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction18/10/12 06:30 PM
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np he thinks you're gay because he can't get laid. Wp m8.
/r/seduction18/10/12 05:54 PM
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Well me too, except you can drop the low self-esteem part. I am usually a happy guy, this just made me even more happy!
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:53 PM
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I bet your dog.
/r/seduction01/10/12 03:14 PM
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