I haven't been on a 2nd date in over 5 years...every 1st date I go on either I end up disliking the girl, or we just don't connect. Just had a date tonight and definitely felt a connection, and she just texted me saying she wants to see me again, so that obviously is an indication of at least a 2nd date ahead.

I have two main inquiries... what is an ideal plan for a 2nd date? We went out to eat and a brief walk for our first one, it was over 2.5 hours of pure talking.

I was thinking a movie for the 2nd date, however, because while it's not good for getting to know someone, it's a good way to be used to their presence, and it's a more natural setting to hold their hand or put your arm around them or something.

Thoughts?