Ideas for the first few dates??

nickk415 · 2012-11-25T09:02:16+00:00

look up free shit todo around your city.

bythepowerofthor · 2012-11-25T15:17:38+00:00

I usually stick with drinks at bars I like for the first, maybe dinner and a walk for the second and cook for her the third. Boom.

bythepowerofthor · 2012-11-25T16:16:14+00:00

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heardaloon · 2012-11-25T14:51:12+00:00

I do a twist on a bar crawl. An Appetizer crawl. Works well if you're in a city with lots of good restaurants close to each other. Hop bar to bar getting a drink and an app or two and than change locations. Keeps the convos fresh and the change of locations makes her feel committed to you.

takatori · 2012-11-25T12:00:23+00:00

I like activities with plenty of one-on-one physical activity and kino opportunities with a little friendly competition thrown in.

Depending on her type/interests: darts bar, skating, amusement park/rides, pool, shooting range, hiking, swimming, riding, kayaking, rock climbing, etc.

Gets the endorphins pumping in her body, gives you shared activities to build rapport, and usually plenty of chance for kino.

Also, use the Ben Franklin principle: have her do you a favor. It opens people up to be more positive towards you in future. Select something she is good at, and have her teach you how.

bythepowerofthor · 2012-11-25T12:30:02+00:00

I always like going for drinks. You can go to different bars and try their specialities. Gives you plenty of chance to switch up the venue, plus getting a little drunk is always fun. Also, you're probably going to drop some cash. It will be way less than dinner.

LieBaron · 2012-11-25T12:39:21+00:00

Zoos are good, there's lots of awwwing, and always something to talk about to avoid awkward silences.

Depending on her interests, art galleries or music shopping/ library hopping can be fun.

Something with games.

Parks.

PLplotsOTS · 2012-11-25T17:36:15+00:00

mess around in a thrift shop
take a walk in a park or forest
shop or eat at a local food market
go salsa dancing

imstartingover · 2012-11-25T23:08:22+00:00

Go ice skating.

2012-11-25T14:35:59+00:00

if she's a cool chick, treat her to a good Tapas restaurant.

2012-11-27T18:46:41+00:00

Barcade (Arcade with Booze)
Bookstore then Coffee (Play a game where you open a book and randomly read a line. Need to make it sexual? Pick up the appropriate book. Want to make her laugh, pick up a book of jokes. So easy.)
If you both have dogs - Dog Park (Bring snacks/booze.)

The following is for if she's comfortable:

Cook dinner WITH her at your place or hers.
Get some colored driveway chalk, and make a masterpiece.
Don't have a driveway? Wine and Fingerpainting (I like to tell her to wear a white shirt, and then I clean my hands on her, and vice versa.)

Nuren · 2012-11-25T14:31:59+00:00

Furniture shopping. Play house with her, dates with a context are awesome and it gets her imagining what it'd be like to live with you. you can make fun of her taste and run around like 5year olds.

Title	Ideas for the first few dates??
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Date	November 25, 2012 8:50 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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