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lol ok no I don’t even know what TRP is, I’m here because this post was linked from somewhere else and I found it to be abhorrent.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:20 PM
0

Because I’m lazy and want someone to do it for me. You’re really creepily reading far too much into this. What’s most horrifying is you don’t realize how utterly appalling your thinking on this is.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:42 AM
1

They wanted you to put the food on the counter or table.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:35 AM
41

She's bored and wants to try the D she skipped over last time. Go for it, she wants to bang, guaranteed. If you're looking for a GF, though, don't get your hopes up. Source: the number of times I've done this.
/r/seduction02/02/15 12:00 AM
1

My assumption is they're scambait. Or needy and want the validation of having many followers. Either way, not interesting to me at all. It's like a "stay away" warning sign.
/r/seduction27/12/14 08:47 AM
2

What pressure?
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:00 AM
1

I wouldn't ask so directly since a lot of some don't want to admit to themselves what they want for fear of slut shaming. Just ask to meet up casually-- if that's what they want they'll take the opportunity and then it's regular in-person pickup.
/r/seduction31/08/14 04:34 AM
1

Tinder is great. I've laid about 6 girls from there in the past month. It has a bad rep with women as a hook-up site for guys. Therefore, women who participate are looking to be hooked up.
/r/seduction30/08/14 04:55 PM
-1

Too identifiable sorry.
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:20 PM
6

My main is a picture of me holding ~$30,000 and looking off to the side while smirking.
/r/seduction07/08/14 10:09 AM
3

WTF is wrong with you that women are walking off? Did you take the idea of "negging" too far to heart and spend your time insulting them? Telling stories about those times you were a complete asshole in an attempt to look alpha? Seriously man you're doing something seriously off base if this is even an issue to think about in the first place.
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:24 AM
2

I can't even count how many successes anymore.
/r/seduction06/07/14 04:31 PM
0

Having lame friends is DPV
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:57 AM
1

Best in thread.
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:35 AM
0

Lie. DLV
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:34 AM
1

I'm not new here but I like this place so I came out.
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:33 AM
2

I almost always go solo.
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:32 AM
1

Why do you have lame friends?
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:31 AM
1

How about telling the truth? Making up lies and lines is beta as fuck. Why do I need to have friends with me? I wanted to come here, so I did. ITT: people overthinking simple shit.
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:31 AM
5

Shows you have value. This is why when I go out to clubs or parties I bring along some female friends to hang out with. Best side-effect is that they'll break the ice with girls and introduce them to me :-)
/r/seduction18/06/14 12:20 AM
3

You dun goofed.
/r/seduction04/06/14 11:42 PM
2

Then for "call" read "text".
/r/seduction27/05/14 04:34 AM
7

Yes, yes you are. A few months ago I ran into a woman I hadn't seen in 4 years and turned it into a 2nd day lay by remembering that she'd studied archaeology in university even though she now works in fashion. It made her feel like I was really listening and interested in her. Which I was. Because whatever seduction is about, it's not about faking it.
/r/seduction27/05/14 02:19 AM
27

"Hi ___, how have you been?" And remember things about her.
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:09 PM
1

Buuuuuuut, he is Asian.
/r/MensRights26/05/14 10:48 PM
7

I do the same: build them up, get them hot for it and DTF, then back off and tell them I want to wait to get to know them better. Makes them want you so so bad.
/r/seduction15/05/14 09:15 AM
1

Why do they need to be alone for it to be OK to approach them? Makes no sense...
/r/seduction24/04/14 11:39 AM
2

That Asian girl is pretty plain. 5/10. Source: Asia.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:50 AM
1

"Sluts"? Really? GTFO.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:49 AM
4

I think the sidebar has something about "oneitis", another issue you should get over.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:38 AM
1

This is also amazing advice for learning foreign languages. So you make a grammar mistake or your accent isn't perfect? Who cares? You're communicating.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:37 AM
1

I almost exclusively go out alone. Works great.
/r/seduction02/03/14 02:56 AM
1

You let other dudes join you when you were trying to get with a girl? WTF? That was the moment she lost interest in you, Betamax.
/r/seduction05/02/14 09:30 AM
2

If you care that someone says no to you, you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction29/01/14 08:48 AM
2

Logistics, logistics, logistics.
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:01 PM
1

I'm sure I get rejected sometimes, but I can't recall any examples. Maybe that's the point: focus on the positive; on the successes not the failures. More often I intentionally disqualify myself after talking to the girl for a while and realizing I'm just not that into her. Gotta have standards.
/r/seduction01/01/14 11:13 AM
1

Pretty close! "I'm a great love machine"
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:13 AM
1

lol no, but maybe that would work better...
/r/seduction09/12/13 10:38 PM
1

Just try this: 我在很好作爱机器。你要不要试试吗？
/r/seduction09/12/13 01:27 AM
1

How many #closes?
/r/seduction05/12/13 04:54 AM
5

Actual translation: (Japanese) "Uh, um, you know, I was kinda thinking, uh, maybe we could go out sometime, maybe?" (Chinese) "What? Are you speaking Japanese to me? I'm Chinese, you racist! Go away before I call the cops!"
/r/seduction04/12/13 11:56 PM
10

You: おい、さ、あのさ、何かさ、元気なの？今はちょっとね、何かさ、ちょっと声を掛けたかったが、何か、チョット一緒に食べ飲みに行きたいと思うのさ、あなたはさ、どうなの? Her: 什么！？你说日语吗？我是中国人！你能不能分辨阿？别烦我！我叫警察！
/r/seduction04/12/13 01:48 PM
2

"How old are you" is a shit test? I just tell them and ask theirs. What is there to be embarrassed about?
/r/seduction10/11/13 01:46 PM
6

Lol. Good luck with all that.
/r/seduction08/11/13 12:50 AM
17

Are you that guy who shows up to business meetings and conferences and makes me give you my phone to type in your email address instead of just handing me a piece of paper with all your info on it so I can Google you later? Don't be that guy. And then I'm in the meeting with everyone else's business cards right in front of me to remind me who they are while you're the guy off in the corner who I vaguely remember is in IT but I didn't catch your title and only remember that your name starts with …
/r/seduction07/11/13 11:58 PM
17

"Nobody uses cards." lol What are you, a farmer?
/r/seduction07/11/13 10:49 PM
0

Lol
/r/seduction27/10/13 04:25 AM
2

No no no, there are different clubs for Korean girls with a black fetish.
/r/seduction26/10/13 11:42 PM
38

Creepy as fuck.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:50 PM
7

If she's really your girl, she'll shut them down. Chill.
/r/seduction22/09/13 08:19 AM
3

I once sent a mass "hey, how have you been? Wanna meet for a drink sometime?" to about 20 ancient, unknown numbers in my phone. About 8 responded, mostly "who is this?" My lines to the girls who didn't remember me "You gave me your number, right? That means you were interested. It didn't work out then, but here's a chance to try again" and "think of it as a blind date with someone you already know you like." Got three dates out of it, only one of whom remembered me. Laid her and one other. Like …
/r/seduction18/07/13 10:48 AM
0

Next!
/r/seduction15/07/13 01:15 AM
2

Say "Hi", ask anything.
/r/seduction11/07/13 07:09 AM
1

I'm there now lol
/r/seduction03/07/13 11:59 AM
1

It's a nice place.stop by when you're in Tokyo. ;-)
/r/seduction03/07/13 09:22 AM
1

No, no; he's a great guy! Actually I just noticed both 22, so not him. Maybe Leo? But he's 24, really. I notice you only said no to Laurent not Rigoletto. So it was there?
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:54 AM
1

I suspect you well know the place of which I speak.
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:52 AM
10

Oh. My. God. Please tell me it wasn't Laurent and you're not the girl we met at Rigoletto last weekend...
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:39 PM
0

Virgin. Uh-huh. Bought the story but suddenly what? Ages?
/r/seduction02/07/13 02:05 PM
3

I absolutely cannot recommend this enough. I did the same, in an 18-person share house that doubled as a hostel during the summer. I also heavily recommend working in a hostel.
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:47 AM
-3

Who the hell are you going to pick up in Dubai besides prostitutes? It's a freaking Islamic country.
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:27 PM
-3

lol
/r/seduction17/05/13 11:30 AM
32

Try coins.
/r/seduction17/05/13 01:32 AM
11

I once had a girl freak out, put her clothes back on and leave when I smoothly slipped her bra off with one hand. She said I was "obviously too experienced", that sex "meant something to her", and that she "didn't want to be just another one of my conquests." Didn't matter; had blowie.
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:04 AM
9

"Would you like coffee?" "Coffee" is never coffee.
/r/seduction08/04/13 11:58 PM
1

Annie, get yer gun.
/r/seduction31/03/13 12:54 PM
1

I don't know about that. It used to be over 25 was called "Christmas cake" because nobody wants it anymore. But now, there are huge numbers of women even in their late 30s who never married. That stereotype is just not true anymore, at all. And anyway, he beat out all the other foreigners there.
/r/seduction31/03/13 12:52 PM
1

Have you tried it on 50 girls? Come back and report.
/r/seduction28/02/13 01:49 AM
1

Always carry condoms, man.
/r/seduction30/01/13 11:33 PM
2

lol. Yeah, right. That is a pathetic, childish, and patently absurd excuse perpetuated by people who want license to behave like entitled, arrogant snobs.
/r/seduction20/01/13 05:50 AM
21

Maybe you should rethink your approach and style, if you're being that obvious and sticking out in a negative way. This should be a wake-up call to you that something about the way you act in that place gives out a bad vibe. I doubt this is the first time the floor manager noticed you; nobody jumps straight to kicking somebody out unless there's a fight going on. Sounds to me like you had been pushing buttons for a while and it finally was too much. For that matter, it might not have been the fl…
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:24 PM
24

The general manager knows the floor manager, not OP. I'm pretty sure I can guess whose side he will take.
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:23 PM
4

Tongue was implied Are you fucking insane? Maybe I'm setting my standards too high though. Ya think?? Also, you seem to completely misunderstand the advice about going for less attractive women in front of HQ women. The point is to hook up with the HQ woman, not the less attractive women.
/r/seduction06/01/13 11:13 PM
12

Thinking of yourself as an AFC is the failure.
/r/seduction06/01/13 05:06 PM
2

Get over your racial stereotypes, man; different women from different races are as different from each other as from other races. I'll tell you one thing though-- very slightly thick women sure know how to suck a cock. The skinnier they are, the less of an appetite they have-- for either food or sex. if you can see her ribs you can be guaranteed she won't swallow. Plus, there are no tits on a scarecrow. But to answer your racially-charged question, in my personal experience the most "giving" in …
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:54 PM
8

I asked if she wanted to 'hang out' at her place. "Can I come intrude on your personal space hoping to continue our groping where we left off so I can fuck you?" FTFY. That's how she heard it, and that's where you went wrong. She said she "isn't that kind of girl" because you basically treated her like a booty call when you're nowhere near that point in the process. You may have built attraction at the party, but you need to work on building comfort. She probably was the kind of girl to meet you…
/r/seduction26/12/12 11:20 PM
1

If you didn't built rapport and don't know who they are ... yeah this isn't seduction just randomly hitting on people.
/r/seduction24/12/12 11:41 PM
2

I mean, why would it matter if he got karma for it or not?
/r/seduction22/12/12 06:16 AM
-1

Off-topic, but why does it matter whether there's karma or not and how should that affect how I vote on the post?
/r/seduction22/12/12 05:50 AM
-2

They say you shouldn't have negative people in your life. Getting off this sub is a good first step. Why can't there be POSITIVE action on mens' rights issues instead of all this negativity?
/r/MensRights21/12/12 03:48 AM
1

"Defiantly" Haha, cute.
/r/MensRights21/12/12 12:41 AM
-8

OK, I'm done with MRS. A marriage is a partnership, and most of the comments in here are basically saying that they think it's OK for one partner to make a life-changing decision on their own without consultation. How can we expect to change the legitimate issues men face--in divorce and with false rape accusations--if we go off spouting crap like this that makes us look like selfish, self-centered assholes? [Unsubscribed]
/r/MensRights20/12/12 11:47 PM
1

Isn't that "balk"?
/r/MensRights20/12/12 11:45 PM
1

"bawked"? I never heard that word before, what does it mean?
/r/MensRights20/12/12 10:59 PM
1

Are you sure about that? I've heard the opposite.
/r/MensRights20/12/12 10:57 PM
-5

Would you want your wife to be able to get a hysterectomy without talking to you about it?
/r/MensRights20/12/12 10:55 PM
4

What the fuck, dude? Get that shit out of here. → → → → →
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:33 AM
31

She said, "I'm only going to be here for two more weeks. I'm leaving for Taiwan for the summer." "That's fine, we can have a brief and passionate affair and then disappear from each other's lives. It's romantic." I have done this many a time. It must actually be romantic, because it works like a charm.
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:25 AM
7

I get that, I really do. I don't cat-call at people because it's rude, crass, and intrusive. Plus, I can see how it would make you feel uncomfortable and unsafe. It's not a nice, respectful, or acceptable thing to do. But by calling it "rape", she lessens the impact of actual rape. Edit: I think you were downvoted for identifying yourself as a woman. There are a lot of bitter people in this subreddit who don't seem to think a woman has a legitimate point of view about anything. Sorry about that.
/r/MensRights11/12/12 12:03 PM
34

What the hell is she talking about? Yes, she's wrong, but that does she think she's trying to say?
/r/MensRights11/12/12 08:26 AM
22

Under existing state law, judges use several factors in determining whether a spouse should get alimony, including the length of the marriage, employment and finances. It looks like the judge forgot to take some of those factors into account.
/r/MensRights07/12/12 05:18 PM
7

Yep. Cold approach at lunch from work, told her she was cute and would she have coffee with me after work. Set the time & place right then instead of calling and trying to set something up later. So by the end of the day when she came over I had been on her mind all day and she was primed. Getting a number sucks. Getting a meet is what matters.
/r/seduction07/12/12 05:15 PM
0

I would put my dick in that crazy.
/r/MensRights06/12/12 01:56 PM
1

The Japan section applies to high school and university students only. Once you're an adult, just go meet up for godsakes.
/r/seduction06/12/12 04:00 AM
1

I've gotten a number on public transportation loads of times.
/r/seduction29/11/12 09:43 AM
8

"Oh, OK, I'll stop then." Said no rapist ever.
/r/MensRights28/11/12 09:49 AM
9

I like activities with plenty of one-on-one physical activity and kino opportunities with a little friendly competition thrown in. Depending on her type/interests: darts bar, skating, amusement park/rides, pool, shooting range, hiking, swimming, riding, kayaking, rock climbing, etc. Gets the endorphins pumping in her body, gives you shared activities to build rapport, and usually plenty of chance for kino. Also, use the Ben Franklin principle: have her do you a favor. It opens people up to be mo…
/r/seduction25/11/12 12:00 PM
5

Dude. Your "advanced game" is the NORMAL THING TO DO.
/r/seduction25/11/12 08:05 AM
7

THIS. This is exactly my point.
/r/MensRights12/11/12 12:01 PM
3

As a guy, I've been raped lots of times. Usually at the end of the night when I'm drunk and lonely and just let it happen.
/r/MensRights12/11/12 09:26 AM
-1

He does say "Imma beat your ass." Not knowing anything else about what's going on, bystanders are obviously going to think this is some Chris Brown shit about to go down.
/r/MensRights10/11/12 11:19 PM
1

This is the best advice in the thread.
/r/MensRights06/11/12 04:44 AM
1

I've seen a gay German guy walking around Tokyo with his --I kid you not-- tinted and curled pubes hanging out over his tight blue leather pants.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 03:00 AM
3

And that, ladies, is why you shouldn't read his text messages and emails. Do that, and he's going to get domestic on your ass.
/r/MensRights30/10/12 10:53 AM
1

If you're out at a club or bar frequented by other foreigners, it's no different than back home. Besides, the younger generations are as tall as anywhere. And anywhere else, you'll stand out for being a foreigner more than for your height anyway.
/r/seduction29/10/12 04:40 AM
-3

That changes things how? Women worldwide prefer taller men.
/r/seduction28/10/12 11:34 PM
3

/r/nofap Gotta have that desire driving you on.
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:47 AM
7

Just the tip?
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:21 AM
1

As I said in the story, yes--it was working, and would have worked had he been reading the room instead of just following his script. And that's the point: seduction techniques are not a 1, 2, 3 script to follow, but ways to improve your ability to build rappor with people. He misread Bella's desire, he misread Alice's interest, and he misread my attitude. You can't just throw game, you have to get to know the people you're talking with.
/r/seduction21/10/12 12:24 AM
0

Where he went wrong was not noticing the signals Bella was throwing at him all night, and thinking he had a better chance with the girl hanging all over me. Alice is about a 9, Bella is a solid 8. I think he got into a mindset of "I'm the alpha, so I should get the hotter one and the wingman should take the leftovers." He was thinking just about himself and what he wanted, and was acting out his mental image rather than actually being present in the situation.
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:17 PM
1

We're in Japan, but it's not really important to the story. Bella was crushed, kept saying how stupid she was and how this is why she never does this sort of things because guys are only after sex and you can never trust them. "Except you, Dave, you're nice." Then she got really drunk and was dancing alone freezing out every guy who approached until she passed out and I had to carry her to a cab and have Alice take her home around 5am. Yeah, that's right: asshole cockblocked me from my own GF fo…
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:51 PM
1

Seriously dickish. If he'd gone with the flow he would have had a great time. He was Canadian, I'm American.
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:34 PM
1

Yeah, it was bizarre when he switched from "worldly, cool dude" to "sleazy, crass asshole". I would have given Bella the thumbs up on him until that point. I gave him every chance, not calling him out on his messed-up foreign language, etc. Helping a bro out, you know? And then, even though he was macking on Bella all night, suddenly decides he has better luck with the girl who's been hanging on me? Whether he knew we were together or not, he should have noticed that. No idea what he was thinkin…
/r/seduction20/10/12 02:14 PM
1

Exactly. You make friends by getting to know people, not by braggadocio. ThIs guy was going through the motions, acting very alpha, finding a wingman to make sure nobody was left alone, plenty of cracking jokes, getting them to laugh and feel comfortable, etc. And it was working: she's no the sort for random hookups, but was down to go back to his place until he fucked it up. But he overplayed alpha, didn't engage the other people, and was clearly only thinking of himself. Also, he was clearly m…
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:25 AM
2

Yes, yes, this happens too. Women often say they want men to communicate better, but by contrast their partner is often the last to know what they're thinking.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 12:25 PM
1

Wow, you're not misogynistic at all. Some men actually enjoy the company of women.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 10:46 AM
2

Sorry guys, but I think she's right. She doesn't mention another factor: a man is more likely to stay in an unhappy marriage because it's cheaper than paying alimony and child support, and eliminates worries over custody or visitation. By comparison, a woman has no disincentives to divorce: she'll get the money and the kids anyway.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 10:28 AM
35

I can't believe you passed up the most obvious: Schrödinger's Pussy
/r/MensRights18/09/12 02:34 PM
1

What did she even think might possibly have been wrong or dangerous?
/r/MensRights08/09/12 01:39 PM
-1

The only guy to speak the truth is downvotes by people who can't handle the truth.
/r/MensRights02/09/12 05:39 AM
3

Women don't respect stay-at-home dads. Women don't respect people without their own social life. Don't make the same mistake next time. Also, your lack of work experience and a job will be a black mark against you in the custody battle, so go take care of that ASAP.
/r/MensRights02/09/12 05:32 AM
12

Yes: that's within the past 60 years. So was the Korean War.
/r/MensRights17/08/12 12:36 AM
3

I was afraid of that.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 11:54 PM
6

Is your friend a 70-year old lady, pregnant, or carrying an infant? Because she would kind of have a point in those cases, just as if she were an elderly man, disabled, etc.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 11:06 PM
0

In about 2 minutes I managed to find a picture of a Maura Green with a guy named Andrew, so I dunno about that.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 10:58 PM
2

Positive for circumcision? Disappointing.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 11:40 AM
1

She looks young for 27? Edit: or not... this an older arrest photo?
/r/MensRights11/07/12 05:28 AM
1

I don't disagree. But at least they banded together to get the laws written in their favor.
/r/MensRights01/07/12 12:37 PM
1

The onus is on MRM supporters to show a plan. What's your plan?
/r/MensRights30/06/12 09:08 AM
-10

This is why I'm sick of MRM. There are legitimate issues faced by men, but the MRM boards--not only here on reddit--are full of whiny little children who don't know how to be men in the first place. Many of the comments are just complaining for the sake of feeling victimized, and I don't see any movement towards organizing and actually addressing the issues to make things better. More like "Whingers Rights".
/r/MensRights30/06/12 12:31 AM
-8

What's outdated about standing up for yourself?
/r/MensRights24/06/12 03:26 PM
-9

I think I will get out, actually; all I see in here are people whining about the (legitimate) issues men face, but nobody actually doing anything about it.
/r/MensRights24/06/12 02:35 PM
-20

The Rules of being a Man: Groups are for pussies. Don't be a pussy. If you still want to make a group, don't model it after a womens' group.
/r/MensRights24/06/12 01:08 PM
1

I would have said "why should it?"
/r/MensRights08/06/12 12:56 PM
3

Cool story, bro. Got anything to back that up?
/r/MensRights08/06/12 12:00 AM
1

Jerking off stops rape?
/r/MensRights29/05/12 10:07 AM
1

Yep.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 03:19 AM
2

Because that would be unfair to the people forced to pay more even though they have a lower risk of accident.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 03:19 AM
1

I'm not ignoring the uses of demographic statistics, I'm saying they aren't relevant the definition of discrimination or necessary for the success of an insurance company. Hahahahahahaha That's how insurance WORKS!
/r/MensRights27/05/12 03:16 AM
1

Also, men tend to be more aggressive drivers. Especially young men.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 03:15 AM
0

This is statistics, not discrimination. Young men as a demographic have the highest risk of accident, and therefore pay the highest premiums. Nothing to see here, move along.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 03:12 AM
2

I've been naked with quite a few Japanese guys*, and though the stereotype exists for a reason, I've seen more than a few who could give me a run for my money. *Onsen, OK? Relaxing and non-sexual.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 02:32 PM
1

Why couldn't they hook up with Japanese guys?
/r/MensRights23/05/12 03:26 AM
1

who's agenda you would be parading. The same can be said about anybody. But in this case the agenda is my own experience.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 10:12 PM
2

Clearly yes, and I was playing along by presenting talking points. ;-)
/r/MensRights20/05/12 11:53 AM
2

And that is what my faux rebuttal expanded upon. ;-)
/r/MensRights20/05/12 11:52 AM
0

"What was wrong with her?" "Why couldn't you just stay and try to work it out with her?" "How many times did she pull a weapon on you?"
/r/MensRights20/05/12 06:08 AM
0

What? No they are not. Male children have higher infant mortality, men die more often in accidents, and at earlier ages from natural causes. Go take a look at any retirement community and you can see. Women are the majority, my friend.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 06:07 AM
1

Why are you surprised? The law reflects society: Female genital mutilation is a gross, disgusting practice of dirty foreigner. Male circumcision is normal.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 03:54 AM
3

Won't reducing pleasure just make them try harder?
/r/MensRights09/05/12 04:39 AM
2

The iced tea comment was in response to azureknightmare's comment about the weirdness of people trying to speak (bad) English to us, not custody. ;-)
/r/MensRights07/05/12 05:58 AM
1

Most countries have signed on to international treaties regarding child custody and parental abduction; Japan has not.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 11:41 PM
3

"Joint custody" doesn't exist, and if the Japanese mother takes the children back to Japan, good luck getting them back to the U.S., ever.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 04:30 PM
3

And Vietnamese...
/r/MensRights06/05/12 04:29 PM
4

Whats unfortunate is when my son thinks it's funny to confirm their stereotypes by saying he doesn't know who I am but I am taking him to buy ice cream.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 12:49 PM
13

My gook girlfriend might say otherwise.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 12:44 PM
2

I wouldn't go so far as to say MRA, but foreign fathers in Japan need to be very careful navigating the waters especially if custody becomes an issue. I was just in a combining where the clerk--in the middle of ringing up the customer in front of me--started saying "please" to me. "please." eh? "please?" Nani? "etto, please!" Nani shitai no? "please! Please!" Finally they reached out and pointed at my iced tea, so I have it to them and they rung me up before going back to the first guy. Could be…
/r/MensRights06/05/12 12:20 PM
22

Watch it with that racist epithet-- my own kid is a Nip.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 08:41 AM
4

My children are of mixed race and don't necessarily look like me. It has happened several times.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:24 AM
32

You need to enlist allies-- catch another adult's attention, and say "hey, that kid looks lost, let's help!" And talk to the kid together. Instant chaperone.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:22 AM
8

My kid has pulled this a few times, and what's worse is it's a foreign country, and he's mixed-race & looks like a local, so they immediately assume he is telling the truth.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:18 AM
9

Citation?
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:17 AM
1

Note to all pedophiles: Next time, bring the kid to the police. They won't suspect you at all.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:16 AM
5

Just imagine what it's like for people who adopted kids who are clearly of a different race.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:16 AM
8

Somebody else already has: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/t9361/til_men_should_avoid_doing_something_nice_when_it/c4kkhul
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:12 AM
16

Somebody else remembered it, and there is a link: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/t9361/til_men_should_avoid_doing_something_nice_when_it/c4kkhul
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:11 AM
12

Yeah, they won't misinterpret that as an admission of guilt at all.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:10 AM
56

On the other hand, I live in Japan, and my son is sometimes asked who this foreigner with him is and where is is mommy and is he ok? ...when I'm standing right there and understand every word though they assume I don't.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:09 AM
53

I'm pretty sure I read a story a year ago where exactly that happened.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 04:22 AM
1

Prisons go to a lot of trouble to make sure they have opportunity and motive, but no means.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 05:56 PM
1

Yes, yes other people do. Which is why it is used. It allows us to torture people to death slowly while denying that they are being tortured.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 02:40 PM
2

It should be. It leads to cheating and divorce, which is bad for the kids. So the next time you're thinking to refuse sex, think of the children, and have sex.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 06:39 AM
-2

One of my exes keyed the living fuck out of my brand new car. Not just a scratch here and there; tic-tac-toe and abstract art and shit. Edit: pre-Internet days or else I would have a photo. Also: in her defense, I was banging like three other chicks at the time, one of whom was staying over that night and broke up with me after seeing the keyed-up car because she didn't want to be part of any drama.
/r/MensRights18/04/12 12:14 AM
7

Ahh, HELL NAH.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 06:57 AM
9

Highly relevant
/r/MensRights10/04/12 06:56 AM
0

In the media's defense, he got his balls torn off, hahahaha!
/r/MensRights09/04/12 07:47 AM
-2

After the first 10 times, it's no longer rape. This kid a had a good deal going on.
/r/MensRights30/03/12 10:19 AM
0

Always be approaching. Coffee is for approachers. Oh, and "coffee" doesn't mean coffee. Last night's approaches: HB8: Oh, this is your boyfriend? Nice to meet you, man. Who's your other friend? HB6 (the other friend): IOI, IOI, IOI, buy me a drink? That was fast... HB9,HB6: 'Sup. IOI, kino (9, not 6). Gets a call. Reverse #-close, she and friend leave. HB8: Nice scarf. Thanks!! IOI, IOI, oh shit where's my friend? HB9 (aquaintance): So nice to see you! Didn't want to interrupt because you were t…
/r/seduction10/03/12 01:36 AM
5

She had already done it once; he might have been next had he said anything without clear proof beyond he-said, she-said.
/r/MensRights22/02/12 04:48 AM
23

I've only been fired once, and it was when the company was going through an ~80% downsizing from over 250 people to about 50 back in the Internet bubble (they since have grown back hugely!) A friend of mine who stayed there told me a few years later, after the IPO, that that they had intended to keep me on, but were concerned about rumours that I was sleeping with two of the 19- and 20-year-old interns who worked for me. Apparently the gossip started after I drove them home a few times when they…
/r/MensRights22/02/12 04:45 AM
1

This was mentioned just last week....
/r/seduction20/02/12 11:33 AM
1

He moved to Taiwan ...and now bangs all the Asian girls his heart desires. Well no shit. Try finding a white, black, or latina girl in Asia.
/r/seduction19/02/12 11:50 PM
3

Don't be a perv Don't ask what ethnicity she is or where she "comes from" Don't talk to her using Japanese you learned from anime Don't ask her to go out for sushi sometime Treat her like any other woman
/r/seduction19/02/12 11:48 PM
1

...which is why I'm dumbfounded by all the downvotes. Asian women go out looking for white men. Downvoters have probably been trying openers like "what country are you from? is it true you people eat dog? Ni hao ching chong sayonara hangeul, wanna hook up?" ...and wondering why they're failing.
/r/seduction19/02/12 11:42 PM
3

Female friends are a great way to build value and get introduced to her other hot friends. This is half my game, right there. The other half being random pickups.
/r/seduction19/02/12 01:44 PM
1

Replying again because in another subreddit I just read about interracial marriage in the US. 28% of Asian-Americans marry outside their race. That's a hell of a dating pool.
/r/seduction19/02/12 07:01 AM
1

Bingo.
/r/seduction19/02/12 06:01 AM
1

Wow, apparently I have some kind of Asian magnet or simply amazing luck, because ... well, for me this has been the experience. Then again, I'm from San Francisco where it seems about half the women are Asian.
/r/seduction19/02/12 05:11 AM
-5

Not such a big deal, Asian girls are the easiest to get in bed with as long as you don't come off as some sort of yellow-fever perv.
/r/seduction18/02/12 04:17 PM
-2

Completely serious. Can you imagine how bad things would be for men if there were no widespread birth control? Just look back to the 50's and before: Shotgun weddings all over the place, and no going out on weekends for random hookups because it's too dangerous; instead, you had to pay for a prostitute because you traded the STD risk for knowing that she couldn't go after you for supporting her child if she got pregnant. Every time a guy had sex he was facing a potential life change. Worse, divo…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 11:25 PM
-6

Like fuck it is-- the pill gives men soOOO many more sexual options it's not even funny. The pill completely devalued sex and took women's main power over men away. Men are the ones in control now that pregnancy can be controlled.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 06:24 PM
1

Japan and China are just too easy. I don't even bother posting FRs anymore because literally every time I go out I get a #- k- or f-close. (Yes, I know what "literally" means.) Protip: It's even better if you speak the language; you're not limited only to English speakers, and get to pick up women who are intruiged by foreign guys but to nervous to approach because they can't communicate.
/r/seduction29/01/12 11:54 PM
2

I don't even know what that means.
/r/MensRights27/01/12 11:12 PM
1

If a hot woman tries to rape me, I'm gonna consent. The fact that she is ugly is what makes it rape.
/r/MensRights19/01/12 11:35 PM
1

THIS ONE. USE THIS STORY.
/r/MensRights17/01/12 11:20 PM
4

Dare to do drugs!
/r/MensRights14/01/12 12:21 PM
1

FORGET THE PAST! If you think people can't change, why are you even bothering to post here? Putting yourself down like this is a big part of the problem.
/r/seduction14/01/12 05:45 AM
1

Ooh, "over 100". Amateur.
/r/seduction08/01/12 04:17 AM
5

Obtain a court order preventing it. Body-modifying surgery without consent of both parents? Precedent is on your side.
/r/MensRights28/12/11 11:43 PM
2

I've 40 and pulled a 21-year old 6 a few weeks ago. Was awesome.
/r/seduction26/12/11 11:06 AM
4

Like the fat girl said, "there's some good pussy under this shit!"
/r/seduction25/12/11 11:34 PM
1

I do a lot of 6's and 7's when I'm between relationships.
/r/seduction25/12/11 11:33 PM
3

Isn't the guy being cheated on the biggest loser?
/r/seduction25/12/11 09:08 AM
-7

I imagine he was thinking "hmm, this is strange and uncomfortable... but, tits!"
/r/MensRights20/12/11 11:14 AM
18

I'll buy her one if she's empty, convo is going well, and SHE DOESN'T ASK. Askers are takers; nothing to see here, move on.
/r/seduction18/12/11 12:19 PM
4

It is? Oh shit, I've been doing it wrong.
/r/seduction18/12/11 12:03 PM
2

What about our "safe space"?
/r/MensRights15/12/11 07:16 AM
1

In my desk drawer I currently have a necklace, two sets of earrings, hand lotion, two lipsticks, and a toothbrush. When the owner comes over, the items come out.
/r/seduction09/12/11 04:27 AM
1

Do this, but in Bizarro World fashion.
/r/seduction06/12/11 11:32 PM
24

Sounds downright fascist.
/r/MensRights08/11/11 12:06 AM
1

Just run with it. If she calls you out, move on to someone else. One concern might be that people over the drinking age getting caught drinking with people under the drinking age may be subject to criminal penalties.
/r/seduction07/11/11 06:33 AM
2

The easiest way to keep the lies straight is not to lie. This one might be a lost cause, but I don't see why not to give it a go and see what happens.
/r/seduction07/11/11 03:37 AM
3

I never, ever, ever fucking text except to set up the next date. Tone doesn't translate to text, and it's too easy to write something that will leave her wondering what you meant or coming across in the wrong light. There's also the risk of getting too cerebral and over-thinking everything you're writing, and coming across as trying too hard to be too clever. You can't build emotional or physical attraction over text.
/r/seduction03/11/11 10:29 AM
2

Anecdotal evidence only, but I have family who work as police officers, and this is the perception they have built up over years of experience. If you go through too many cycles of accusation and withdrawal by people who are obviously making the claims to get revenge on someone, it clouds your view and makes you skeptical of every claim. One doesn't become so cynical without these sort of cases coming up over and over. From what I've seen, there's no shortage of people willing to jump at these w…
/r/MensRights01/11/11 11:31 PM
2

I know what you're saying, but it is a trend. Unfortunately, in the majority of false rape charges, the man remains under a cloud of suspicion for years, and the woman is rarely charged. Feminists should be jumping at the throats of any women who make false rape accusations; it makes it more difficult for all women to report real rapes, because they get put under the microscope and get emotionally raped again, all because every false accusation makes all accusations more suspect. False rape alle…
/r/MensRights01/11/11 11:11 PM
2

The stories prove that it happens. Look at the former head of the World Bank Dominique Strauss-Kahn: he was accused of rape and immediately lost his position and political future (he was a likely candidate for the French Presidency), and lo and behold, it turned out that the accuser was a proven liar, associated with known felons, and was caught admitting her blackmail plan over the phone to a friend. But his entire life is gone, irreparably. And you're saying what, exactly? That false allegatio…
/r/MensRights01/11/11 10:45 PM
2

They look like me, they have every physical single feature of mine. People see what they expect to see. Be sure.
/r/MensRights30/10/11 09:36 AM
2

They pretty much are my ideal, yes. Too bad I live in Tokyo instead of St. Petersburg.
/r/seduction29/10/11 03:23 AM
2

I broke up with a 9 for the same reason just two months ago. We had a FWB thing going for about four months, and then she started moving towards the dating realm and next thing I knew texted that she missed me. No way I wanted to hurt her, so that was it. Ended it there.
/r/seduction29/10/11 12:14 AM
4

For me it's Russians. They get an immediate +1 for that accent, and another +1 if they don't laugh when I speak Russian to them but just continue the conversation in Russian.
/r/seduction29/10/11 12:09 AM
2

*eke
/r/MensRights22/10/11 09:24 AM
3

Here in Japan this is a daily occurrence. I usually tell her that bigger boobs would look strange on her, and they look perfect for her body type. It's usually true. Then I follow up with "I know what you mean; I'm often worried that my dick is too big."
/r/seduction20/10/11 11:36 PM
1

*whip :-)
/r/seduction20/10/11 11:18 PM
2

I would hope.
/r/seduction20/10/11 04:26 PM
-3

Minor point, but I didn't hear you mention condoms...
/r/seduction20/10/11 10:25 AM
0

Oh please. I mention one meaning, so you assume I don't know any others? Also, "immunization" is pretty low down on the list of things implied by "inject". And, what do you mean by "An active installment."? That is barely a fragment, let alone a sentence. An installment of what?
/r/MensRights20/10/11 05:08 AM
0

Yes, yes I did. But it's just more of the same, and I'm pretty sure it was the headline writer who wasn't taking it seriously to begin with. Why didn't he say "until college men and women participate in the public discourse"? There is no way that headline writer didn't choose that word on purpose. He could have just as easily said "Until college men and women forcibly insert themselves into the public discourse" but probably thought that was too obvious. And anywy, if you don't see the point jus…
/r/MensRights20/10/11 03:44 AM
136

Where the hell did she get her 99%/1% offender gender statistics? From wiping her ass?
/r/MensRights20/10/11 12:54 AM
0

"Inject" - penetration joke in rape headline lol
/r/MensRights20/10/11 12:40 AM
2

You've never watched Seinfeld? Just "taking it out" doesn't work.
/r/seduction20/10/11 12:34 AM
5

She still wants you, bro.
/r/seduction20/10/11 12:33 AM
2

Or, build comfort and move the coffee date to a second venue, and escalate from there. Example: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ezjx5/fr_fclose_hb8_afternoon_coffeeshop_to_drinks_to/
/r/seduction17/10/11 11:51 AM
2

Sounds like a commercial for Bad Ideatm Jeans. I'm in the same situation, and am waiting for her farewell party Wednesday because after Wednesday, she won't work here anymore.
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:08 AM
1

Roughly 75% is bar scene, 15% cafes/coffeeshops, the rest just walking around town or on transit.
/r/seduction16/10/11 09:45 PM
2

I've been doing this since long before I realized there was a community. I've always just had an easy time talking to women, and it was interesting to see that people have put so much thought into it, and it's fascinating to see why some things work and others don't. Also, this is a great place for people to build up their confidence, especially when they don't take naturally to being social, comfortable, and confident with women. Not to mention the occasional chance to brag, or to give and get …
/r/seduction16/10/11 10:32 AM
2

Around 40, I would guess. Got 6 dates out of that. So far 1 F-close, 2 k-closes. One more f-close likely this Friday (she chose a restaurant very close to my apartment.) Edit: 8 #-closes, in all. My problem isn't with the approaches, it's with juggling the ones who don't turn into a same-night sleepover. I have 4 dates already set up this week.
/r/seduction16/10/11 07:34 AM
3

They would have been able to mobile twice the manpowertroops.
/r/MensRights10/10/11 04:08 AM
0

But your username... If not a bear, then did you misspell Smokey Be Arse? I prefer the bear idea.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 11:33 PM
-4

TIL Smokey the Bear is a Gaybear.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 01:31 AM
0

In other news, sky still blue; snow still white; human nature unchanged.
/r/MensRights07/10/11 02:26 PM
2

You're not the bad guy. The 100lbs monkey on her back is the bad guy.
/r/MensRights30/09/11 05:01 AM
1

Tongue-in-cheek is just as hard on the Internet as sarcasm... Thought that was kind of Obvious.
/r/MensRights27/09/11 03:55 PM
-3

What this means is that 43% of men who thought their wives or GF's were sleeping around on them were wrong and owe them an apology. This statistic is probably going to be very high anywhere you were to look at it; the only reason to take a paternity test in the first place is that there was already suspicion. I wouldn't be surprised if it's higher in a lot of places. It's like claiming that 60% of people use drugs, when you are only testing people who have previously been arrested for using drug…
/r/MensRights27/09/11 05:11 AM
3

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/r/MensRights26/09/11 11:54 PM
1

He was thinking of the music commonly seen on BET, of course.
/r/MensRights26/09/11 11:44 PM
1

Woman pulling that shit on me? That's a cheatin'.
/r/MensRights26/09/11 11:43 PM
0

Lol, I haven't seen that one yet! Link?
/r/MensRights19/09/11 08:11 AM
3

I'm 40 and my hookup Friday was 25. I rarely date anybody over 30. Some women just love older, stable men instead of all the child-boys their own age.
/r/seduction19/09/11 04:16 AM
3

It's been a week for me. And today... THIS IS SPARTA!
/r/seduction12/09/11 10:45 AM
2

The fuck is wrong with the bartender?
/r/seduction11/09/11 04:30 AM
5

Do you park your van ... ... down by the river?
/r/seduction09/09/11 04:46 PM
1

Also, the first BJ from a new chick.
/r/seduction09/09/11 12:20 PM
0

Blood? Doesn't matter; had sex. Still counts!
/r/MensRights03/09/11 03:51 PM
8

People do this? After high school?
/r/seduction01/09/11 10:51 PM
1

I didn't say I support the argument. But I think it is valid from the standpoint of overall benefit to society. But yes; if the husband doesn't find out and gives the child the parenting it needs, society as a whole is better off in comparison to the alternative which is a single mother having to raise the child on her own and the child growing up without a father figure. Sucks for that guy, though.
/r/MensRights22/08/11 11:42 PM
1

How about just not allowing a man's name to be put on a birth certificate as the father without a test?
/r/MensRights20/08/11 11:41 AM
1

The divorce rate will increase, and children do better growing up in two-parent families.
/r/MensRights20/08/11 11:39 AM
3

You're totally getting laid if staying in and cooking is the plan. I had the same date on Thursday. ;-)
/r/seduction20/08/11 07:25 AM
1

lolwut?
/r/seduction18/08/11 02:43 AM
1

I had a guy throw a punch at me at a bar in Tokyo. Fortunately I'm a regular and the barstaff were on him in moments.
/r/seduction14/08/11 07:50 AM
1

Unfortunately, a lot of guys in here seem to think this is a place to learn how to fake it. But you have got it exactly right: you have to become alpha, not just act alpha. It can only take you so far.
/r/seduction12/08/11 07:37 AM
1

I posted exactly this sentiment in a thread not two days ago, and was downvoted all to hell by the false front, negging, peacocking, asshole-acting "seduction is about using tricks" amateur mafia. It's about actually becoming a high-status male, not acting like a pale imitation.
/r/seduction12/08/11 07:20 AM
2

We have very different views of seduction. Because the fuck you I don't care came is just fronting bullshit. You need to become the person whose opinion other people care about. You need to be a leader, you need to have other men look up to you, and you need to become the person whose approval people seek. That puts you on top, and the top dog is who women go for. If you only care about tonight, then go ahead and keep throwing around the fuck you image. But people often see through that facade. …
/r/seduction09/08/11 11:29 PM
1

Dude, I completely disagree. You are also completely missing my point: "trying to mold and fit your appearance into something that everyone else approves of" is in no way what I'm suggesting, and "being worried about judgement" is ridiculous. What I'm saying is that instead of putting up the front and acting a certain way to appear alpha, you need to BECOME the alpha. And that is all about the respect of others. Women are attracted to the man other men defer to.
/r/seduction09/08/11 11:27 PM
3

Well, I just got laid tonight by picking up someone after 2 hours at an outdoor summer bar, so I'm not sure "AMOG beta nice guy" applies. (Mini-FR: Turns out she is studying Spanish, and I already speak some Spanish. A few jokes about misunderstandings between Castilian and South American meanings, talking about the food, the Spanish wine, the Mexican tequila, Argentinian mate, and oh by the way I have this fantastic bottle of Herradura Anejo at home 2 blocks away, would you like to try it? ...)…
/r/seduction09/08/11 01:37 PM
3

The whole point of seduction is controlling what people think! "Alpha" doesn't mean being self-centered and saying "fuck you" to other people, it means being someone people look up to and want to be around. It means being a leader, and not not showing a fake self-confidence but rather being genuinely self-confident from knowing how people see you. We definitely care what other people think; it's the most important thing.
/r/seduction09/08/11 01:01 PM
1

Knowing Japanese is the difference between being stuck with girls with white fever, and getting to know some of the really cool people who are out there.
/r/seduction09/08/11 09:22 AM
2

Did she say something like "また遊ぼうね？"
/r/seduction09/08/11 06:14 AM
1

Did you know she was married before you fucked her? If so, you're not alpha, just an ass. She was probably looking for something anyway if it was that easy, so getting to bed was probably more about her needs than your skill. It's just what we need, to have people to come here and see posts bragging about seducing married women. That does wonders for the image of the seddit community.
/r/seduction09/08/11 05:57 AM
1

And how!
/r/MensRights29/07/11 07:21 AM
2

because everyone is overprotective?
/r/MensRights29/07/11 03:55 AM
0

"Fuck the system"? More like "Fuck the fact that 17 year old guys are statistically more likely to engage in unsafe driving practices and have a higher chance of being involved in worse accidents than 17 year old girls." It's all statistics, baby.
/r/MensRights28/07/11 06:16 AM
13

ಠ_ಠ Don't shit where you sleep. Don't piss in your rice bowl. Don't sleep with married women. Don't date co-workers.
/r/seduction21/07/11 06:01 AM
1

I have no idea where that term could have come from...
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:05 PM
1

Dude, you seriously don't use or carry condoms? Buy some, bring them with you next time, and get a damn STD test because you can be carrying without showing symptoms.
/r/seduction17/07/11 04:29 PM
2

The fuck is a "silk igloo"? I keep hearing that recently. I'm guessing boob but over the bra only? As in second-and-a-half base?
/r/seduction17/07/11 04:19 PM
9

I don't even know what that means. Kids and their slang...
/r/seduction11/07/11 11:20 PM
3

I never date religious people. I can’t end well.
/r/seduction10/07/11 05:32 AM
1

When I could see who it was I was even more shocked. Who was it?
/r/MensRights05/07/11 04:24 AM
3

So let's put the false accuser in jail to deter FALSE REPORTING of rape, so that ACTUAL rapes are more likely to be reported since they will be more likely to be believed!
/r/MensRights04/07/11 03:03 PM
1

I'm glad to hear it!
/r/MensRights03/07/11 11:16 PM
26

Feminists, upon hearing of a false rape accusation, SHOULD respond with "That fucking bitch! Now women who really ARE raped are going to be looked at with suspicion when they report it! LOCK HER UP!" The fact that they don't speaks volumes about their true agenda.
/r/MensRights03/07/11 03:18 AM
1

This has what to do with gender, exactly? Travesty, yes. But you think if his boss was a man, the same thing couldn't have happened?
/r/MensRights02/07/11 05:05 PM
1

ಠ_ಠ
/r/MensRights02/07/11 12:06 PM
-3

I can see the headline on the NAMBLA website now: Male pedophilia is fine, says Norwegian university
/r/MensRights29/06/11 07:44 AM
1

WHAT?!?? What jurisdiction are you referring to?
/r/MensRights27/06/11 01:43 PM
3

Sounds great, man. Getting in the zone feels great. I had similar luck Friday last; I'd set up to met for drinks after work with a woman I'd #-closed that Wednesday, and of course picked a venue right near my place. She didn't like her wine, so I invited her to my place to try a better one had there. Went down smooth as silk. She has work the next day, and leaves around 9. I walk her out to show her where the station is, and swing back to the bar. There's a party going on there, so I asked a ran…
/r/seduction20/06/11 11:47 PM
0

Crazy or not, I'm still betting that was his breaking point.
/r/MensRights14/06/11 11:09 PM
-6

investigators "may never ever know" what pushed Lake over the edge. Umm... I'm guessing being denied visitation.
/r/MensRights14/06/11 04:33 AM
1

Great suggestion. As I am in Japan, I will stipulate "asian" unless there is an exception.
/r/seduction13/06/11 11:20 AM
6

Does "HB" even apply to a 2?
/r/seduction12/06/11 11:49 PM
-1

Sometimes I wish nobody had ever told me.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 03:42 AM
3

I know what it is, but that doesn't make it less pathetic.
/r/MensRights10/06/11 04:04 PM
7

I bet he'll think twice next time, though.
/r/MensRights10/06/11 09:29 AM
8

She loses track of her little girl, and the other guy is the bad person. Right.
/r/MensRights10/06/11 09:29 AM
2

Has always worked great for me. Getting blown out how?
/r/seduction09/06/11 11:27 PM
3

Learn a bit of Chinese, just a few phrases even, and they'll eat you up. I got a hookup once by overhearing some cute girls speaking Mandarin, and opened with "Hey, do you girls have the time?" in the same.
/r/seduction09/06/11 09:56 AM
1

Hear, hear. I'm a similar situation to you and do great. Just have to get out there.
/r/seduction08/06/11 12:53 AM
29

You should realize this doesn't mean "25% of rape cases are lies", but rather only that for those which are referred to the FBI, the lead suspect is not the perpetrator. There is selection bias here of cases which fall into categories where the FBI becomes involved, most likely interstate and cases involving minors. Also, the fact that the primary suspect did not commit a crime does not mean that nobody committed a crime; it is possible either that it is fabricated, or that it was a case of mist…
/r/MensRights31/05/11 05:32 AM
3

"No, I don't speak [your native language], go ahead and talk to your friends about me right in front of me. It will be your secret and in no way help me target my approach."
/r/seduction30/05/11 10:46 PM
10

Pay to play? Sounds like a prostitute.
/r/MensRights30/05/11 02:42 PM
6

I asked for a reduction when I was unemployed, and the family court judge instead doubled the amount, saying my original payments had been too low for my income level, and that with my skills I should be able to find a job easily if I were really trying. Being unemployed, I wasn't able to pay for 6 months and am lucky my ex didn't get me hauled off to jail for non-payment.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 07:30 AM
3

You broke up with her and changed your locks immediately upon hearing that story, I hope?
/r/MensRights25/05/11 08:47 AM
92

Things already didn't work out.
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:01 PM
2

Every married man I know is in this exact position. I don't know a single married man who is happy and fulfilled with his wife. They may act like it and even say so in public, but in private EVERY SINGLE ONE has this exact complaint.
/r/MensRights21/05/11 04:56 AM
1

That's probably a short book.
/r/MensRights21/05/11 04:54 AM
2

Before getting pregnant: "Any time, anywhere, any position, anything you want--me so horny!" After getting pregnant: "We can't have sex, it might hurt the baby." After giving birth: "It takes a while to heal." After weaning: "I'm not your girlfriend anymore, I'm a mom now. That makes doing all those things just gross! Besides, you can just jerk off if you need to release it." After divorce: "What went wrong? I thought everything was going so well."
/r/MensRights21/05/11 04:51 AM
1

Wow, DNA lounge is still around? Was one of my favorite places before I moved overseas.
/r/seduction13/05/11 09:31 PM
1

Bill Murray in Groundhog Day.
/r/seduction09/05/11 12:29 AM
2

My Native American ex wouldn't have taken it well...
/r/seduction09/05/11 12:27 AM
1

I thought "hooking up" meant "having sex". At least it always has to me and everyone I know for the past 20 years. When did the meaning change, and how much/little contact does it imply??
/r/seduction06/05/11 11:58 AM
1

Today I got numbers from a 26-yr HB7 and a 31-yr HB8. So, yeah. ;-)
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:23 PM
3

I'm fast closing on 40 and dating mostly women in their late 20s. Because yes: they love older guys who have been around, know how the world works, and can show them a taste.
/r/seduction28/04/11 05:55 AM
1

The last thing I want is stalkers showing up at my office.
/r/seduction25/04/11 06:04 AM
0

Whatever you do, don't try to pull a Scott Peterson. It rarely works out.
/r/MensRights24/04/11 11:42 PM
4

Living overseas is a wonderful experience that I wholeheartedly recommend. You will have experiences and make friends that you will treasure for a lifetime. Many countries have working holiday visas available for short-term stays, and English teaching jobs are fairly easy to get into. Be sure to take condoms with you, as they are not always easy to find in developing countries, and you've learned your lesson about not using them, right?
/r/MensRights24/04/11 11:40 PM
4

The fuck is wrong with this guy?
/r/MensRights19/04/11 05:18 AM
1

I guess she really, really, really hates men.
/r/MensRights18/04/11 11:25 AM
3

It sounds like you're afraid of being rejected when you escalate. Don't worry so much. Rejection is part of the process. Not every woman you're into will be into you, so you move on until you find the one who is. Also, don't drink as much. In a place where you're expected to have a drink, I often go with a straight Tonic with lime. Looks & smells like a gin & tonic, but no alcohol. Keep more in control of yourself until you have your escalation anxiety under control.
/r/seduction17/04/11 11:42 PM
5

It's worked for me, here's the FR from 3 months ago: ​FR: f-close HB8, afternoon coffeeshop to drinks to bed
/r/seduction12/04/11 02:52 AM
7

I'm with Barney. Suit up.
/r/seduction10/04/11 11:41 PM
6

I'm seeing four women right now, and I think it's natural for someone to get attached when they've been seeing you a lot or for a long time. The problem comes from when they assume you're also becoming attached. It's going too far when you make them think the relationship is something different than it is. That should make you feel bad. Two of the women I've seeing are older, a career type and a divorcée explicitly just looking for fun, one's a club type who still goes out with her girls on the …
/r/seduction10/04/11 11:34 PM
1

Been to one in SF. Crazy place.
/r/seduction08/04/11 04:56 AM
17

About 8 years ago I was hanging out at the beach and met this really hot redhead and her Asian friend. After hanging out for a few hours they invite me back to her campsite for BBQ and drinks. Somehow we start talking sex, and it turns out they're total freaks--bondage, groups, all kinds--and we move the party into the RV and get to work. I'm in the middle of pounding the redhead when behind me I hear the door open! I turn and there's this guy standing there looking at me. I'm 6'1" 180lbs, and h…
/r/seduction08/04/11 03:40 AM
1

There was one logistics problem: you went to a bar, then got back in your car and drove around. Not cool, man.
/r/seduction24/03/11 11:25 PM
3

I almost always go out solo. Learn the bartenders' and regulars' names, get recognized & always have someone to talk to, and get seen to be known by people.
/r/seduction24/03/11 12:08 PM
1

That's OK, thanks. It's serious shit over here though. It's too soon man, too soon.
/r/seduction19/03/11 11:37 AM
0

Way to minimize the suffering here in Japan, Kumar. I was with you till there.
/r/seduction19/03/11 02:45 AM
3

39 here, last three have been 26, 33, and 28. Most women really don't care.
/r/seduction13/03/11 11:23 PM
2

Lol haha, I use this one all the time.
/r/seduction12/03/11 10:19 PM
5

17, dude. Best stay away from that.
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:36 AM
3

It's not a stereotype-- in Japan too, most white guys could do much better than the girls they're with. It's amazing how many good-looking white guys go out with homely Asian women.
/r/seduction02/03/11 04:59 AM
1

I'm 185cm tho... if I were 155 my ribs would be showing.
/r/seduction27/02/11 11:19 PM
2

I'm only 200 and get told I'm fat.
/r/seduction27/02/11 04:04 PM
2

There's nothing logical about it. It's basically "I'm just trying to have fun, are you trying to harsh my buzz?? WTF, bitch?"
/r/seduction24/02/11 03:48 PM
1

I disagree; you can easily flip it into a shit test on her. See my other comment to OP.
/r/seduction24/02/11 08:18 AM
1

I find it pretty common and easy to handle: See above: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/frgw1/fr_unsurmountable_shit_test_value_of_social_proof/c1i3ltk
/r/seduction24/02/11 08:17 AM
4

I find the "I hate guys who speak Japanese but open in English," to be pretty common, but it's completely easy to get past; turn it around on her. Something like: "I'm out to have fun and relax. I use Japanese all day at work, so when I'm just hanging out I want to speak English. Do you really want to make me switch back to Japanese when we were having so much fun?" Now she has two things to prove: that she's not a bitch trying to stop you enjoying yourself, and that she can speak English well. …
/r/seduction24/02/11 04:32 AM
2

I hope so!
/r/seduction07/02/11 01:23 AM
2

Visible herpes scabs, needle marks, or tattoos above the neck.
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:00 AM
1

Actually, I am a boss... But thanks!
/r/seduction02/02/11 09:58 AM
1

You mean iClothes?
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:16 AM
0

U r kidding rite? Y u think Chinese more hard than Japanese? U no speak Chinese good? It so easy! No seriously! Chinese much easier than Japanese. Grammar and writing much more simple!
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:22 AM
1

YES. Yokosuka and anywhere else near a US military base is also difficult. I've had a lot of fun on visits to Kyoto/Osaka, but haven't really gone out in too many other cities.
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:51 AM
1

Same here--most of the the "9s" and "10s" hanging out are just overdressed self-centered gold diggers. Completely unattractive.
/r/seduction31/01/11 11:33 PM
1

How about iClose?
/r/seduction31/01/11 11:30 PM
2

Actually, coffee was where my last FR started. Also just hanging out.
/r/seduction31/01/11 11:28 PM
1

Actually, I tend to agree: earlier FR's TL;DR: Stop posting field reports from Japan, it's too easy and turns it into a joke. The pua framework still describes how people interact, but two first-meeting f-closes in 3 weeks probably demonstrates the women's interest more than my mad skills. But you have to remember that EVERY white guy out in Tokyo is looking for the hookup, so you do need skills to qualify yourself above all the others. It's not like some smorgasbord where you can just walk up a…
/r/seduction31/01/11 11:16 PM
4

I have a friend who dated a girl off and on for years, and they only spoke English. She dropped him and stopped taking his calls when she came across him speaking Japanese on the phone while waiting for her to show up for a date. He had never once let on that he knew what she and her friends were talking about. So you have to let that ball drop at some point. Actually one technique that seems to work is to use it to help out a Japanese guy in the group who isn't quite following the English conve…
/r/seduction31/01/11 12:00 PM
2

Definitely stick with English, that's part of your charm to the girls who are open to foreigners. Show interest in learning a bit of the language, but don't focus too much on it, because being cute stumbling over a few words turns into childish. Make her qualify herself to you in your language.
/r/seduction31/01/11 11:56 AM
3

In retrospect, that was the hook-- that was when HB7 really came out of her shell to show interest, and was even when she initiated kino that I could escalate from there. It probably worked because I didn't try to show off and didn't even try to use it to start a convo, but just as an offhand remark to show disinterest.
/r/seduction31/01/11 11:53 AM
1

I speak and read it well enough to work for a Japanese firm, but not so well as to be a translator, and I really do spend a lot of time studying. Speaking the language doesn't really make it that much easier, but it does broaden my horizons so I'm not always stuck dating the girls who speak English. A lot of really amazing women can't speak any English, so it really piques their interest to be able to have a conversation with a foreigner and see what people from around the world are really like.…
/r/seduction11/01/11 08:27 AM
1

I wasn't out looking for anything that day, but since I got an IOI on my way in, decided to approach and see what she was like. So yeah, I actually wasn't so into her at first. Besides, you don't want her to know you think she's an 8. Treating her like a 6 is a pretty good neg.
/r/seduction11/01/11 05:32 AM
3

Yes, an FB8 by that list.
/r/seduction11/01/11 05:30 AM
2

I have a few Indian friends who do pretty well, but honestly yes, I think white guys have it easier.
/r/seduction11/01/11 05:27 AM
2

I have gotten laid after museums sooooooo many times. Modern art is best.
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:56 PM
1

Yeah, because they don't have sex with a lot of different guys for money like prostitutes do. Totally different kind of transaction. /s
/r/seduction10/01/11 04:11 AM
1

I like how you call them "escorts" instead of "prostitutes". Makes it sound less pathetic, somehow.
/r/seduction10/01/11 12:21 AM
1

I'm twice your age and have never paid for it. My advice: go out and talk to women who aren't being paid to listen. Oh, except if she's a psychiatrist. You might want to pay for one of those.
/r/seduction09/01/11 04:39 PM
2

Know thine enemy.
/r/seduction26/12/10 08:14 AM
1

Sex, and guys who are already married and need action fast.
/r/seduction11/11/10 12:20 PM
2

I'm pretty sure that would work, if she were cute.
/r/seduction21/10/10 10:56 PM
6

I usually hit that anyway. Then again I guess that makes me kind of a douche...
/r/seduction02/10/10 07:40 AM
1

DAMN GIRL, WHEN YOU GONNA GET WIT ME?
/r/seduction24/09/10 09:50 AM
1

| now that I'm not monogamous. ...but you still have a GF, right?
/r/seduction18/09/10 02:09 AM
2

Good luck finding other foreigners to pick up.
/r/seduction11/09/10 01:05 PM
1

Me too! I used to get a lot of pussy too, but now I brag about it.
/r/seduction09/09/10 02:02 PM
3

Salsa is far more erotic, and the women who go there are too.
/r/seduction07/09/10 11:22 PM
1

If you made it just for her, creepy.
/r/seduction05/09/10 11:39 AM
2

Leave it alone.
/r/seduction30/08/10 03:54 AM
0

Well, I'm that superficial. ;-)
/r/seduction23/08/10 12:16 AM
1

This proves only that "future doctor" trumps "ugly".
/r/seduction22/08/10 09:34 PM
1

No need.
/r/seduction17/08/10 09:13 PM
-1

Roppongi & Yokosuka
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:37 PM
23

Fucking yellow fever.
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:06 PM
-4

Haha, you're too late.
/r/seduction04/08/10 03:02 PM
-3

Hahahahahahahahahahaha. No game, eh?
/r/seduction04/08/10 02:46 PM
0

Oh, oops.
/r/seduction04/08/10 02:46 PM
9

Don't let my wife find out. See rule 1.
/r/seduction04/08/10 02:45 PM
9

It's a date if you make it one.
/r/seduction02/08/10 11:10 PM
0

You've got it exactly right. Beta plus?
/r/seduction23/07/10 05:00 PM
1

Roppongi has a lot of foreign guys. Girls, not so much. Except for pay-to-play.
/r/seduction18/07/10 06:08 PM
1

Foreigners are rare pretty much anywhere except near the military bases, and the women there are either gay or wives. I'd love to know where to find some foreign women if you can clue me in where they hang out.
/r/seduction18/07/10 12:31 PM
2

I thought this said "infidel videos", so came here to say "Liveleak".
/r/seduction16/07/10 01:44 PM
0

Hit the gym.
/r/seduction15/07/10 12:30 PM
1

"In a social setting," meaning "in front of other people who know both of you"? Good luck.
/r/seduction27/06/10 03:07 AM
7

It's funny that everyone here seems to think there's some magic set of techniques or skills that you should learn and train with and follow. It all comes down to getting to know how people think, in general not just in the pickup scene. How can you do that by following a set of rules and over-thinking every step along the way? People can see when you're throwing game, they can see when you are trying too hard, they can see when you're thinking step-by-step by the book. It doesn't work. What work…
/r/seduction14/06/10 09:03 AM
1

What's PUA? Not in the glossary.
/r/seduction10/06/10 02:22 PM
1

Thiswprks great in Japan. Just mention something about liking karaoke sometimes. A lot of girls will be up for going to karaoke if it's after last train and they're with a friend. Hit that first one right on, and you're in like Flynn.
/r/seduction10/06/10 06:20 AM
6

I'm a serial offender, I'm always doing this. My current company (1yr so far) is the only place I've ever not hooked up with a coworker, and that's only because there's nobody here worth it. The absolute hottest time I ever had was an office with 25 people, of whom I slept with three (sequentially, and one only after quitting). Good God. The sneaking around sex and keeping secrets in the office is hot as shit. No thing beats meeting up after work and banging away know that we would both be fired…
/r/seduction07/06/10 03:34 PM
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