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Bad, sorry about that part. The ironic thing is that some cities have the "Reddit community effect" where decent places don't have enough people and bigger, more popular cities end up becoming more isolating because people gravitate to the top 1%
/r/seduction22/07/26 08:09 AM
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Unless you live there, why? Why do dudes want to try game in Dubai, Miami and all those other places where your only chance at something involves being extraordinarily rich? There are beautiful people all around the world. And while I'm not saying to go to Toledo for the women, maybe not set your sights at a place that is basically a glorified shopping mall. Sucks you are in UAE, but why not try Sharjah or Abu Dhabi? Any place that doesn't portray itself like a city-sized amusement park is of co…
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:11 AM
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Masturbation was more of an ehh for me. Sure I have more libido and energy compared to my compulsive gooner mode, but I became overly desperate in a way where my behavior was unappealing. Something like "I'll drive 2 hours across state lines for a handjob." Porn? Absolutely. That is a definite nix in my book. The hyper stylization that porn does on both men and women is literally impossible in the real world. The moves are impossible, uncomfortable and I feel like the stuff before and after the …
/r/seduction09/04/26 04:20 AM
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Disagree with 6. I think that if I could reframe it, it's better to just say "live a little." Take the beaten path, go to a party and stay out late, maybe even take up that fling your friends told you not to go for. Women will notice you as a risk taker, and that's a good thing
/r/seduction02/04/26 11:06 AM
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Get a hobby that gets you laid. Meaning the important thing is that the hobby is something that makes you social and requires practice/discipline. The usual suspects are gym/guitar/sports but some of my faves are learning languages and gardening
/r/seduction05/02/26 12:17 PM
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One other example (albeit fictional) is Patrick Bateman. Dude looksmaxxed to the extreme, with his body, his fashion sense, career, basically everything. While the movie it's only mildly evident but in the book he is actually a whiny, insecure narcissist who has to resort to murder and cannibalism to feel in control.
/r/seduction06/10/25 03:34 AM
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Context is what makes or breaks this. Women love vulnerable men in a way that shows honesty and empathy. At the same time, women hate whiny ass bitchy men who cry out of angst. Also, timing and location is a big thing. Crying about losing a friend, feeling melancholic about a plight/cause or a genuine struggle in a private place? Cool. This man is real, genuine and authentic. Now, crying because Sydney Sweeney won't run to have a threesome with him or because his favorite movie was a turkey and …
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:04 AM
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Never more than 2. Even if I could, I don't think I could juggle that many partners at once without pissing off one of them.
/r/seduction17/08/25 04:59 PM
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Have you had breakfast yet? You're not you when you're hungry.
/r/seduction19/05/25 09:37 AM
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10 doesn't have to be just on looks. Yes it's a good amount but like maybe 40 percent at most. Think of it like this: if a dude looked like a 10 but had a woman-hating podcast and said words only a douche-canoe would utter, do you think even a 5 or a 6 would be okay with him? Hell, even if we factor in money and power, look at Elon Musk. Maybe it's a hot take, but I think Nazi salutes are kind of a turnoff for everyone except Nazis.
/r/seduction10/05/25 05:54 AM
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It may sound like a joke but this saying might help. "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." 70kg is obviously difficult and may seem impossible. But what about 3kg? Cutting sweets out of your life entirely is impossible. But how about 7 days? These small things add up and as you make a habit of them every day they compound into something big.
/r/seduction03/02/25 02:58 PM
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This isn't weird. Weird is a guy who pees his pants in a crowded bus.
/r/seduction04/01/25 02:05 PM
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Peacefully let them go and live a more interesting narrative. The only real way to have people coming back for more is to do cool things that YOU like. Go to cool restaurants and interesting concerts. Think of it this way. You can make them jealous by being seen with a more attractive, more interesting, and more adventurous girl. Who is this girl And where can I find her? Easy. The girl is you. You're simply dating yourself in front of her.
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:35 AM
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Here's how I view it: let's pretend you had a fun date planned (kayaking, dinner at a fun restaurant, whatever) and she cancels last minute. I feel like a 7-energy would assume that she wasn't interested (we don't know the answer in this example), cancel the plans, then had home and do something they like on their own. Not a bad plan, and actually something I would do. A 10-energy wouldn't care if she cancelled or not. He would thoroughly enjoy himself on the date, maybe meet cool people along t…
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:31 AM
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Yeah it used to be my cheat code buuuuut... As someone who had success using alcohol, don't fucking do it, please. It's a great way to gain weight and lose self esteem in yourself in the long run. I didn't turn into an alcoholic but I felt a level of personal shame in social situations where I couldn't drink. To me, it was like without alcohol, I wasn't allowed to have success with women or even with other people. Practice on getting that God mode energy without alcohol, future you will thank yo…
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:12 AM
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True. But am argument I like to make for large cities like Toronto is that you are "rallying with the best" so while being exceptional is almost a necessity in bigger cities (I'm from DC), you are almost always given an opportunity to improve yourself and your game.
/r/seduction02/09/24 05:43 AM
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Doing cool or interesting things without the obligation of other people around. Think a concert you like, a restaurant you've always wanted to try, a vacation where you just want to explore. Bonus points if it's something creative and you're not doing it for monetary value like music, a YouTube channel, a book etc.
/r/seduction20/08/24 05:09 AM
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"Clothes are the mark of sanity"
/r/seduction18/08/24 11:35 AM
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In my experience, a little thinning can be solved with a good haircut, but if you're in a Friar Tuck / George Costanza situation you should just buzz cut it and rock it. I know there will be a time when a military cut won't hide my male pattern baldness, but I'll cross that road when I get there.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:23 AM
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Well think it this way. Sex workers are taking a phone scammer approach. Clearly this isn't an all-winning strategy. They are preying on the one chump who is afraid to solicit escorts on escort websites. It's an easy lick on some chumps that are down bad on the dating app scene.
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:29 AM
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Clarooo!!! De quién piensas está más cómodo en su idioma normal?
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:34 PM
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Here are some of my suggestions that extend beyond the typical gym / clothes / tattoo suggestions (which I think are only skin deep and can fail without any inward confidence): A second language: whether you are paying for a subscription or lessons/classes, any second language is going to bump up your value by an exponential rate. Something to mentally stabilize yourself. Some suggestions include yoga or meditation lessons, therapy sessions or just a quiet space. Therapy helped me out in my inne…
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:47 PM
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oh man, I used to. But the flash drive I kept it 10 years ago is absolutely lost at my old place :( sorry, man
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:32 PM
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To elaborate on this topic. Allow me to follow some basic logic steps. People get married because they love each other. Getting married is a big deal. It is long, financially significant and one of the most legally powerful things you can do aside from dying or getting divorced. It only took 3 days for this lady to get a third of the way to marriage (love/relationship, engaged, marriage). Seems crazy now, don't it?
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:54 PM
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That sounds incredible. Robin Wright is an excellent actress and I'm not surprised she can pull off being a seductress. Care to explain the cool girl monologue? I've seen the movie but how does it relate to pickup?
/r/seduction28/08/20 07:44 PM
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Ha! Next thing you'll be telling me that I can't learn how to sex using porn.
/r/seduction28/08/20 02:20 AM
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No knock on the coaches. Mad respect for the expertise they provide. I figured it's just kind of fun to see the rare moments when you see TV portray healthy behavior.
/r/seduction27/08/20 10:51 PM
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LOL, how could I forget Bond? I criticize movies and TV because a lot of stories tend to create the ending we want. It's what keep us motivated in the protagonist and why we feel good when they succeed. Many people enjoy Scott Pilgrim without realizing he was a horrible boyfriend. Or how in 500 Days of Summer, zooey deschanel was totally justified in breaking up with Joseph Gordon-Levitt. Not only are these characters clingy, self-centered pieces of shit, but if you emulated their actions you'd …
/r/seduction27/08/20 08:27 PM
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I'll start it off. Rick and Morty is a ridiculous show and the scene shouldn't be taken too seriously. But if you only consider the first 10 seconds of this clip, Morty's mentality is exactly what helped me bounce off many first-date rejections I've dealt with. I think the way he says "Life is a highway we're going to ride it all night loooooong!" is hilarious but also a decent pep talk. EDIT: just want to reiterate. This is a TV show. The way he picks up a girl afterwards is probably not the be…
/r/seduction27/08/20 07:59 PM
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The crazy thing is, you can actually become more attractive than a super hot guy. If you do interesting things (hobbies for yourself) and have ambition in what you do (I love cycling and what I'm studying in grad school) you can be the most attractive person in the room.
/r/seduction11/07/20 06:42 PM
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You and me both. It's been less than a month but we felt the connection. We both realized that my lack of maturity meant that our timing to be compatible was off. it was even confirmed by my therapist and it hurts a lot to know that if I just spoke with him sooner maybe things would be different.
/r/seduction11/07/20 05:42 PM
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Scott Pilgrim Vs. the World has an excellent comparison of this. Here's what begging for someone looks like. (check out the first 2 and a half minutes) And here's what fighting for someone looks like.
/r/seduction25/05/20 06:28 PM
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Simplepickup is a bit on the showy side, but when it comes to approaches, they show how they can make approaches normal. Especially day game.
/r/seduction09/06/13 02:10 PM
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Done and done.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:12 PM
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Yeah that's essentially what all video game achieements are. but hey, it gets you out the door and gaining experience.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:06 PM
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Yeah. When I was making some I figured not only were some of my ideas too specific, but beginners would be heavily left out. Thus why I eventually added levels so different ranges of experience can feel accomplishment.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:05 PM
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Thanks! When I decided to add difficulties I decided to make it start like a baby steps method.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:04 PM
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Yeah, I've gotten a couple of comments in regards to that. Gonna put that in intermediate.
/r/seduction04/03/13 02:40 PM
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RETURN SOME TAPES: F-Close in a threesome with a girl and an escort you orderedandthenkillthemboth.
/r/seduction04/03/13 02:25 PM
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Holy shit I love these.
/r/seduction04/03/13 02:17 PM
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Haha, god no that would be indeed awful. I'm referring to just in the "dating stage" of a relationship with 3 women.
/r/seduction04/03/13 02:16 PM
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I've never dealt with such an issue but one thing's for certain: If the guy owns a gun, she's off limits.
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:03 AM
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You deranged bastard :D
/r/seduction04/03/13 04:20 AM
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I was drinking Dr. Pepper, like it was in my mouth... but now it's on my keyboard. Congratulations.
/r/seduction04/03/13 04:19 AM
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Obviously. This was literally a brainfart, but it's just something to do as approaching every single week can get monotonous at times.
/r/seduction04/03/13 02:44 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction25/01/13 07:20 AM
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Wait... so porn isn't real?
/r/seduction25/01/13 07:19 AM
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I get that same feeling too. It's like that focus-mode in Wanted. I can only get into that DGAF alpha mode after a harsh friendzone or rejection. That's what starter sets are for. It's trying to will that drive and emotion on the start of an evening that's hard.
/r/seduction25/01/13 07:18 AM
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I never said I was. There's just no young people for me to approach.
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:35 PM
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There's no real need to give him a backhanded compliment. The goal is to get her to see that the other guy is flipping his shit over some 'new guy' she saw. I once said something along the lines of "HB, your friend looks like he's gonna blow a fuse." or "Wanna get outta here? I don't want to see him pop a blood vessel." Just point out his flaws to her (but not to his face)
/r/seduction06/01/13 04:06 AM
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You. Me. In you. Cool?
/r/seduction09/12/12 03:57 AM
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Old one or new one?
/r/seduction23/09/12 12:24 PM
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First of all, it's okay. Anything that ANYBODY will try for the first time will be scary. I'll be honest, I was afraid when going onto Space Mountain for the first time. Now it's a cakewalk for me on my 7th run (Heads up, this isn't a metaphor for sex, I was legitimately scared of the Disneyland ride Space Mountain.) So you're dropping her off, you're at her place or you're both at your pad. Now what? Are you comfortable with making out? Tonsil hockey shit? Good. If not, THIS IS NECESSARY. You n…
/r/seduction01/09/12 12:45 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction30/07/12 05:37 PM
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Sounds good. One thing I like to do is to bring up those missed connections. The girls I never had the balls to approach or got friendzoned by. Then I think to myself, "Are you that man?" All of a sudden I get more confidence than a thousand suns.
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:55 AM
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Hate to break it to ya, but there is no such thing as a "Play" persay. Sure there are interesting openers and some subtle body language you can use, but or the most part there is no magic sha-la-la into a woman's vagina. All that matters is eye contact, vocal projection, posture, and confidence. If you want, I suggest you check out the field reports and get an idea on where to get inspiration. That's probably the closest thing you can get to a playbook.
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:51 AM
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A major thank you in advance. Would you say it's like something of the apocalypse opener.
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:46 AM
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Awesome work man. I have a cardinal rule about eye contact: Look for their eye color. If someone were to ask you what her eye color was and you can't answer, you need to look her in the eyes more.
/r/seduction28/06/12 12:49 PM
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Read up. Wingin' my boys tonight. It's game time. Also thanks.
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:27 PM
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That is an amazing quote that summarizes outer game in a nutshell.
/r/seduction26/04/12 03:15 PM
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Really? I thought it was to F-close, LOL.
/r/seduction26/04/12 03:01 PM
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It feels like the scene in SpiderMan 3, but without being a douche. I love this new face, it's a happy medium between being myself and being confident. I still feel like I have a lot to learn (like how to f-close) but it's that moment when you've outgrown intermediate level that feels good :)
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:59 PM
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I did the NoFap challenge a while back in like February. While I totally endorse it, I don't think it did anything significant with my game. The thing for me was going out and just straight up approaching. In order to kill your AA you have to deal with the first A: Approach. It's all about being able to talk to people and not worry about sticking out. Sure some people will think you're weird and some will just block you out, but it's all trial and error. You'll figure it out, as it took me a lon…
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:57 PM
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It's all good man. I would say this was a very rare incident myself. And since she was rather young I would say that she wasn't very uptight.
/r/seduction18/04/12 12:14 AM
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I couldn't agree more, lol.
/r/seduction17/04/12 09:52 PM
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Aside from ironic red suspenders, I got nothing. I think red RB Wayfarers may be the most universal red thing I can think of.
/r/seduction09/04/12 04:05 PM
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I know, who knew they'd tri up so perfectly?
/r/seduction08/04/12 04:01 PM
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Well this seems to be the pickup fails episode. I get what you mean though
/r/seduction28/03/12 04:08 AM
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Bad news for seddit : tofu is back Good news for seddit : tofu is back
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:17 AM
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Would you say this is the same case for bus ride/metro? I feel like I see so many ioi on the metro but when she has those earbuds it just crushes me.
/r/seduction18/03/12 02:34 PM
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Exactly. I'll admit I'm one of the newbies who got swayed by simplepickup. I think it was the free content and videos in the field that did it for me. I think I'll give RSD a shot.
/r/seduction17/03/12 01:09 PM
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Exactly. The more I delve into seddit, the more I realize Mystery has been circulating bad game. All he does is flash conversation starters and wait for some HB to roll in. David Wygant focus more on inner game and making a conversational connection. Kind of like simplepickup vids, they dress normal, even dressing in ways that may be unflattering, but they say/do/act with confidence.
/r/seduction23/02/12 05:27 AM
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who the hell takes a girl to a museum on valentines day? Bueller?
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:19 AM
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Agreed. One cardinal rule novices make is asking for their facebook. That's like asking to be FZ'd
/r/seduction01/02/12 06:36 PM
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Also I found this article to be pretty important in pickup foundations.
/r/seduction15/01/12 04:44 AM
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if ($d=="Big bag of money") { echo "Let's have sex!<br />"; echo "Hello!"; echo "I have a boyfriend"; }
/r/seduction13/11/11 04:11 PM
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if ($d=="Big bag of money") { echo "Hello! <br />"; echo "Let's have sex!"; echo "I have a boyfriend"; }
/r/seduction13/11/11 04:09 PM
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You see that? YOU SEE THAT? THAT'S THE SEDDIT DREAM RIGHT THERE. THE SEDDIT DREAM!!
/r/seduction25/10/11 07:24 PM
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I see. Sorry about that. As you can see I'm new to the community and read the sidebar material. I'll be more aware next time
/r/seduction25/10/11 04:58 PM
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Thanks. I'm probably going to check out his 7 step program. But not until I gain a little experience with PUAs. I always felt that PUA stuff worked, but pickup strategies felt very canned/artificial. I'm probably gonna have to "de-learn" what I know, but this guy feels like the final boss. Thanks.
/r/seduction04/10/10 06:58 PM
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Herndon/Reston
/r/seduction24/09/10 08:29 PM
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