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| 6 | Comprehensive guide for Indian guys trying to survive in America | omark12 | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 09:54 AM | |
| 5 | Critique my approach to approaching and help me plan my next steps. 2nd year Uni student. | omark12 | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 11:08 PM | |
| 5 | One does not simply stop being needy. | omark12 | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 09:52 AM | |
| 4 | So I've got the girlfriend. What now? How do I keep it this way? How do I have an awesome relationship? | omark12 | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 06:27 PM | |
| 1 | Using cheesy pick-up lines | omark12 | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 08:49 AM | |
| 0 | Question about watching anime... | omark12 | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 11:22 PM | |
| 0 | The next time she says... | omark12 | /r/seduction | 01/03/15 12:33 PM |
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| 10 | What can everyone start doing right now to improve themselves instantly?Meditation. | /r/seduction | 16/03/16 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Amazing Infield On Building AttractionThis is stupid. They weren't really even into him. | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 07:04 AM |
| 1 | "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and others?Read Models, you won't need to read anything else. | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Meeting up with the EX again. Need adviceThis is about you man. I'm not what advice we can give. You know the situation better than any of us. Can you can truly forgive her for leaving you for another girl? Is she still the kind of girl you're attracted to? If you answered yes to these questions. Go for it, issue your ultimatum and don't compromise. You're better than that. If you just have you ex around to mess around it's gonna suck, she's gonna find a way into your head. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 10:51 PM |
| 12 | When you are the ONE more invested in the relationshipYes, this is good. I think we should be real instead, of trying to feign disinterest and disappointment. That being said, it's always great to be more invested in ourselves, our goals, and our activities. Just so the awesome girl that we're invested in isn't the ONLY thing we're invested in. It starts to fuck with you when she's all you think about. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Girls at parties are a little too "open" for me...all I'm saying is OP shouldn't shrug off these girls or parties right away. If he wants a stable relationship he could take it slow, and just not get past getting a number at parties. Then arrange a date with the number later on | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Girls at parties are a little too "open" for me...Try not to be so judge mental. People just want to have fun, in a different environment these same girls could be awesome people. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 10:21 AM |
| 0 | How to feign interest convincingly.We don't feign. If that's more your style, go check out TRP | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 07:42 AM |
| 9 | How to ask girl for sex (hear me out)Literally just invite her over for netflix and chill. Get physical. And its all down hill from there | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 05:38 AM |
| 1 | The Author of the Game Says It Is NonsensePersonally I think the Game is an over-rated and antiquated piece of literature in the community. I think a better place to start is by reading Models. I know its recommended a lot but I really think it's the proper way to follow through with "pick up". | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Critique my approach to approaching and help me plan my next steps. 2nd year Uni student.Good places to meet girls: - Campus Food Court - Campus Dining Halls and markets - In line for something. (like if you're in line for a burrito, just ask them what their favorite is) - Clubs (for me Dance and Ski club) - Before class outside a lecture hall (like when you're waiting for the current class to come out) - Before the lecturer starts talking in the lecture hall (Ask for their name and comment on something about the course, at the end of class ask for her number to study together) When… | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Critique my approach to approaching and help me plan my next steps. 2nd year Uni student.At least one. But often nothing comes of it. If they seem uninterested I just say the comment I have to say about them and then tell them to have a nice day and I leave. | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys. I've been pussing out of approaches for a few months now, and tonight I did not.Text her anyway. Maybe she's a fun girl. On the Binary scale she's a 1 so go for it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 10:45 PM |
| 8 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!Solid advice. I've always been a whole fan of the speak unfiltered technique. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 01:28 AM |
| 0 | What's up with all those youtube links? It's not Seddit, its marketing..I disagree. Filthy casual. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Question about watching anime...After finishing my first one I'd space out at random times for a week and just think about the characters. I still think about it sometimes, but I'm mostly over it. Well considering classes haven't started for me yet I and I just got into anime. I've finished 2 shows. One of them was 25x 20 mins in two days. The other was 12x 20 mins in a night. When classes start it's probably not gonna be an everyday thing. Maybe 2-4 episodes on a Sunday or something like that. | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 11:45 PM |
| 1 | I don't know if i can continue going to school. My heart hurts every time a girl walks past me.Hey man, you should see the therapist at your school. No shame in it! You'll figure this shit out man. You got a lot of things going for you, dont lose hope. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 07:12 AM |
| 9 | Starting college next week. Any general tips?Bad mindset. Don't focus on this alpha/beta bullshit. Focus on doing things that will improve your quality of life and things that are important to you. Hygiene, fitness, fashion, reading your hobbies. You need to become a man that has his life more or less in order. You need to be in a position where "girl problems" aren't really girl problems. Where you don't feel like you need a girlfriend. You should get started by reading Models by Mark Manson. Read that book and then go out on campus and t… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Im too shy to get a girlfriend or get laid.How do YOU meditate? | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 12:13 PM |
| -1 | Guys what are your views on The Red Pill?In short, stay away from that shit man. It is not welcome here. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 08:45 PM |
| 3 | tips on how to pickup girls in a foreign country? is it possible?I've had success with just assuming everyone spoke english. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 06:54 PM |
| 2 | What are your dorm room essentials in college?Speakers would be nice. TV is not needed if you have a laptop with Netflix. Remember to stay fucking clean. Stand out like that. Make your bed every morning, take out the trash, fold your damn clothes. Have your shit in order. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Post the best habits a man can take to become more attractive.Speak unfiltered. Don't hold anything about yourself or intentions back. Vulnerability yo. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Post the best habits a man can take to become more attractive.Elaborate. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Post the best habits a man can take to become more attractive.Any resources on how to be witty? | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Seeking women for validation = What's even the point? Am I just mentally deranged?I mean, treating woman as people and not objects is a good place to start. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 09:47 PM |
| 4 | I'm a fucking joke. And I want to change.Hang in there. Read Models. Go to the gym. Work on yourself and stop giving a fuck about what people think of you. You're still a kid. Don't worry man, it takes time to grow up. We have 28ish year olds here who are just starting to figure shit out. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Looking for criticism on my understanding of the book "Models"A lot of inner game stuff like confidence is built out in the real world when talking to people. To me, inner-game is primarily just building good habits. Eating healthy, exercise, reading, talking to lots of people, positive thinking, self-esteem and confidence building. A lot of inner game stuff like confidence is built out in the real world when talking to people. So if you mean work on yourself before approaching girls, I don't recommend it. Why? Because the stuff I mentioned you should alwa… | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Looking for criticism on my understanding of the book "Models"You don't need to keep track of anything really. You get the gist of it. The most important thing to remember is to be vulnerable, let your true self show and dont be afraid of that. Read it once, then go out into the real world and talk to girls for at least 3 months before reading anything else. Re-read Models as needed, but don't try to cram everything in your brain and make your internal database perfect before you approach. Just approach already. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Looking for criticism on my understanding of the book "Models"I'd say you have a pretty good understanding of it. Good work. I love Models, its a great book. Let me know if you have any further questions | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 11:46 PM |
| 2 | A simple piece of approach adviceTheres a caveat to this however. Don't hit on/approach a girl who you don't think is attractive just to practice game. DO talk to them for whatever other reason just cuz you feel like it. | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 09:32 AM |
| 1 | 2 Frist Approaches were awful....My advice is stop reading here and stop asking for advice. Go out and practice, learn something from every approach. All you need to focus on right now is your execution. Don't read any more material till you're about 50 approaches in. | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Books to ReadModels is all you're going to need for a while. Try not to overload on information. Just finish models and go out into the real world for at least 3 months and practice your skills before you read anything else. | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 11:30 AM |
| -1 | What to do if you can't set up a date?And are you sure she's flirting with you? What is she saying? | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 01:56 PM |
| -1 | What to do if you can't set up a date?What do you mean setting up a date is impossible until September? Why? Also, you can do a lot of things with a girl that strictly speaking isn't considered a date. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Most unhappy person on earth I know is me.I would suggest to start by reading Models by Mark Manson. Then go out into the real world for 2 months and apply what you've learned, approach, fail, improve, and don't read a single piece of seduction theory material during these two months. See where it puts you, you'll be surprised. Then and only then come back here for follow up discussion/questions. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 09:13 AM |
| 2 | [Video] OFFLINE DATING - This got me pretty motivatedGood stuff, see the polarity? Most girls were like "no thank you" and thought he was weird but then the others were like "whoa that's really cool", "I think you'll have more success like this", "why are you single". That's fucking awesome. So really let's just delete our Tinders, OkCupids, eharmonys, and all that shit and go into the real world. It's worth it! | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Rapid Eye Movement: Attraction?They're dreaming about you. | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Severe onitis, have been getting with plenty other girls and its not going away, don’t think there are ‘plenty more fish in the sea’There are plenty of fish. Don't be dense. How much more than 3.5 billion do you want you greedy fuck haha. If she's 1/million there are 38 of her in California. She may be special but she's not that special. Don't be afraid to have things with other girls, show her that you can do just fine with out her. Man, just make a move on her. KISS HER! WHAT'S THE WORST THAT COULD HAPPEN. If it becomes weird talk to her about it and tell her whats on your mind. You want her, no more bullshit. If she can't… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:42 AM |
| 5 | Help with Asian FoBs?I'm going to try not to make too many generalizations but in my experience with Chinese girls who were born in China, they seem to stick to other Chinese FOB guys. It's an entirely different culture than American and Chinese-American girls have, different interestsm expectations, and goals. Some tend to be a bit racist toward brown/middle-eastern people. Compatibility will be hard. That's not to say you don't have a chance though, show your charm, what makes you different, what she's missing out… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:30 AM |
| 2 | What is "fun"?Dude. Don't change yourself to make women like you. You're fine, if that's what you like to do and she looks bored, she's not the right one. That being said, make things interesting, don't be afraid to crack jokes, and show your sexuality. Also, try some other activities too and see if you like them. Good luck! I know you'll do great, just don't settle for a girl that can't handle your way of life. | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 07:21 AM |
| 0 | The Short, Bald Man That Turned Me OnHe's one of us. Or he read Models. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about LoveDo what feels good and right. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 05:31 AM |
| 9 | How To Get Laid From Plenty Of FishThis isn't seduction. | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 06:50 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone have any tips, pointers, or do's and don'ts about how to tell a girl that you like her as more than a friend?How old are you? You sound like you're in high school. If that is the case... anything flys in high school. You could literally be like, "I like you." Well anyway. Do: ask her out express to her why you like her be ready for a rejection continue to be her friend if/when she says no (if you want). Don't: Issue her an ultimatum Ask her why not if she says no Be emotional about rejection try again too quickly after she rejects you the first time. | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 06:48 AM |
| 5 | What are some of the best practical pick-up posts ever? (off of Reddit)be a good listener Statements are better than questions. Ex: "You look like you're from California." vs "Where are you from?" speak unfiltered, say whatever pops into your head (you'll learn how to calibrate with more experience) relax. you're not going to do for approaching a girl. even if it goes terribly wrong, you won't die Know your values. Value your time and energy and when something/someone is wasting your resources, don't be afraid to walk away. If a girl is giving you a hard time, just… | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | International summer camp workerTalk to people. Everyone. Make friends with random people everywhere, you need to really get comfortable talking to people out of the blue for no other reason than that you just felt like it. Say whatever is on your mind, speak unfiltered, let your quirks and true personality show. The truth is you're just as unique and awesome as every other guy out there, you just need to not be afraid of letting that show. Not every person will be attracted to you but that's ok. It's nothing wrong with you, i… | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 04:55 AM |
| 3 | How to maintain a hot girlfriend?Don't be insecure about it like you are right now. If she's worth having and she likes you for who you are then you have nothing to worry about. If she's likely to cheat because some guy at some random place hit on her then she's not worth having. The best thing you can do to keep her attracted to you is to keep doing you. Keep being yourself, the awesome man that you are. The man that has ambitions and works hard to pursue what he wants. Don't fall into bad and lazy habits now that you've got t… | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I feel awkward about the thought of sex...You need to give yourself permission to be a sexual being. you deserve sex no matter what you're like right now. Everyone is having sex, it's such a normal thing. Smart people, dumb people, fat poeple, skinny people, young people, old people, rich people, poor people, hot people, ugly people... everyone is doing it. You can too! | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Struggle at expressing my sexualityGive yourself permission to be sexual. | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 12:27 AM |
| 6 | The realization that i could easily cliff jump into the ocean but was terrified of approaching a girl got me over my initial fear.So for good conversation there are two rules. Be a good listener. Really try to understand and listen to what the other party has to say. Then you'll know what to say next without even trying. Ask relevant questions, people love to talk about themselves. Speak unfiltered. Say whatever pops into your head. Don't worry if it's nerdy or weird, let your quirks show. When you speak unfiltered, the other party will see what makes you special and different from others. This is the quickest way to find … | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Help me to qualify this interactionI think you're fine. Don't over think it, keep it simple. Try not to convey emotions in text. Keep it simple, blunt, and monotonous. Save the sparkle for in person. You got a date man, be happy don't think about "qualifying" or anything. If you're using terms from the sidebar (which I think is outdated/antiquated) then just forget them. In the past couple of months this sub has started to use less terms like that. The seduction/pickup philosophy and school of though is headed more towards self-i… | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Low self esteemRead Models. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Feedback from date I went on with girl I met through OkC. Need tips to improve confidenceI'm gonna admit I'm curious to know what her "personality" ok OkC was. But really, if she doesn't find you attractive or confident enough then she's not your type of girl. If you were being yourself (conveying yourself honestly and vulnerably), then you don't need to do a damn thing differently. You're an awesome unique dude, you're you and if you believe you're confident then that's it. It's not your fault she doesn't like you she's just really looking for something else that you aren't. And sh… | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Need Suggestions, found this sub a week ago and I've come a long way.Call her and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:36 PM |
| 2 | [Question]To approach a girl you think you can't get or would be harder to get, you have to first change your mindset. You have to believe that nothing is holding you back and that she's any other girl. So whatever you think about older women being harder to get, cut that out of your head. You are allowed to go for any woman you want. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:36 PM |
| 12 | The realization that i could easily cliff jump into the ocean but was terrified of approaching a girl got me over my initial fear.Dude, try some daygame. I was scared at first but when I got into it it felt so great doing it. It helped shatter the fear of talking to random girls out of the blue. I'll admit that I've been out of practice lately since I'm home from Uni and didn't approach during finals week. Read Models by Mark Manson if you haven't already. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Knowledge is not the power. You can seduce only by doing. Stop reading now.Haha story of my life. Pick-up theory genius, pick-up practice novice. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:17 PM |
| 3 | I think i screwed upBefore I get into answering your question, I'm just gonna say: Forgive yourself man! The fact that you overthink this and feel the need to post about it reflects a bigger issue with your inner game. Don't dwell on a messed up interaction and just one girl like that. It's just one girl! Who cares if you messed up, you may never see her again and if you do.. WHATEVER. Don't think to much about going back and fixing your mistakes. There are 3.6 Billion women in the world and your time and mental fa… | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 11:16 PM |
| 22 | Date and cancer...Man, you're in a tough situation. I'm not entirely sure what to tell you but I will suggest that you don't lie about anything. If it comes up just tell the truth. I feel like you will run into some girls who will be ignorant and pushed away by the fact that you have cancer because they think they'll contract or for whatever reason. That being said, those girls aren't worth it anyway so it's fine. You do deserve to get laid and do deserve to get dates. Be confident about it, this cancer shit does… | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 06:18 AM |
| 0 | Approach AnxietyRelax. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Have I waited too long?I don't understand what the issue is? You went two days without texting a girl you met? That's really not a big deal. Just text her be like I'm Fallingbe from Friday, and ask if she wants to get coffee with you in the week. What have you got to lose? She'll either remember or she won't. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Not in the side bar so I thought I'd just ask- Best books about pickup?Read Models. It's the only book you'll ever need. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I don't get what's wrong with meRead Models and come back with your thoughts. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Summer plan?Day game everywhere. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 10:37 AM |
| 4 | Day 1 of the Rejection Therapy ChallengeThat's a good start to get you talking to people. If you want hard rejections, hit on girls. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 10:36 AM |
| 15 | ELI5: How to keep a conversation flowing with anybody you meet.Be a good listener first and you'll know what to say next That doesn't mean to sit there thinking of what to say while they talk. No just listen, be genuinely intersted. Speak unfiltered. Talk about whatever pops into your head. Show your weird quirks. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 10:28 AM |
| 6 | The most important thing I've learned over the last couple months.Head down, don't you mean head up lol? | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 09:40 AM |
| 19 | The most important thing I've learned over the last couple months.Long story short: Well I'm 19 and a freshman in college and for me it was a lot of shit I dealt with this year. I read Mark Manson's Models and decided to live my life vulnerably and honestly. In college that gets a little weird, not everyone is into the whole vulnerability and honesty thing. A great number of people here will put up facades and lie to try to make themselves look cool so that people like them. I made great first impressions on everyone and they loved me initially but then they (… | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 05:47 AM |
| 2 | The most important thing I've learned over the last couple months.Lift, work on yourself, pick up activities that interest you (if you don't know what that is try a bunch of shit), surround yourself with people that you like being around and that have similar goals, don't be afraid to stop talking to people who bring you down. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Strategy for balding 30s yo?Get buff. Shave head. Grow beard. DONE | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 01:19 AM |
| 52 | The most important thing I've learned over the last couple months.The most import things I've learned: Love yourself and forgive yourself. Meaning: Know your values and stand by them. Your time is valuable so make sure you don't waste it on anyone not worth it. And not to be too hard on yourself for making mistakes or when things don't go your way. I used to always get upset with myself. A lot of that shit is actually out of your control and has nothing to do with you. Just carry on and try again. But I'd like to hear your story more in detail. What happened t… | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Good books like Models by Mark MansonModels is probably the only book you'll need to read for a while. Drop the literature for at least a month and go out and apply what you've learned. Refer back to Models like a bible. Also, there's a further reading list in Models. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 07:32 AM |
| 2 | 18 y/o. How do I get over the initial fear of walking up to a random girl and striking up a conversation?Do it a bunch of times. You will fail, and fail badly. But then you'll get good at it. You still feel that anxious feeling in the pit of your stomach, and your heart still races, but you'll feel fucking great during and after you do an approach. It's the best high. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 07:28 AM |
| 1 | If you could write (or rewrite) a book/manual on seduction and Pick Up...Models. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:32 AM |
| 1 | The Insider Guide Of How To Attract Girls In CollegeSome good points. I just think the article is organized pretty annoyingly. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Basic tips?Read Models by Mark Manson and watch Sasha Daygame on youtube. That's all you need to get started, then go out into the real world and practice what you've learned. Who knows you may not need anything after Models, many don't. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:16 AM |
| 4 | Cold approach / day game for bald guysStop giving a shit about being bald and brown. Don't act like it holds you back. You're doing well with your exercise, keep that up. Continue to work on yourself more before you focus too much on going out and approaching. I mean, you can keep doing that too, but I think you should try to work towards being comfortable with yourself in your own skin. Read books, learn a new language, or another skill. Keep it up and learn to love yourself, before anything else. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:13 AM |
| 1 | I'm reading Models by Mark Manson. What do I tell girls I'm reading when they ask?Models is an awesome book about vulnerability and honesty. There is no shame in it. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 08:56 AM |
| 1 | I live too much in my fucking mindRead models | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Non white, non black - Bald guysDon't give a shit. Don't let it matter to you. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 08:48 AM |
| 1 | You’re NOT Russell Brand: How to Be a Natural with WomenYou know I didn't mean we don't need to change or improve ourselves. I mentioned improving and becoming the best version of oneself in my comment. What I mean by "be yourself" is not to be someone you're not, i.e lying, alpha complex, not being vulnerable, putting up a front. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 11:14 PM |
| 1 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?I think you need to realize that you're not a special snowflake just because you have Aspergers Syndrome. Read the goddamn book, I swear to you if Models doesn't work, nothing will. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Where to daygame for high schoolers?The mall lmao | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 06:07 AM |
| 16 | You’re NOT Russell Brand: How to Be a Natural with WomenI agree and I really like the way this sub is headed. I feel like we're all starting to realized that self-impoving, becoming your best self, and conveying yourself is the only to sustain attraction. From what I'm seeing this sub is moving away from tricks and techniques like DHV, negging, and that shit. "Be yourself" is some of the best advice. And it's great that people like Mark Manson, Sasha Daygame, and Simple Pick up are demonstrating that really anything flys as long you're being genuine. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?I think you need to change your mindset before worrying about "DHV" and "negging". You shouldn't feel like you need to DHV. Just be honest. Be yourself. If you can't do that, pickup and seduction is not for you. Never "push" anything, let things flow. If the conversation takes a turn where it relates to something about yourself, then its appropriate to bring it up. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 08:32 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion on hitting on girls even if you're not sexually attracted to them?Don't do it if it's not genuine. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 09:42 PM |
| 5 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?Fuck negging and fuck DHV. Why are you trying to hide be behind of a facade of someone you're not. Go read Models. Watch Sasha Daygame and Simple Pickup. Fuck everything else. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What Seddit has done FOR me and TO me.You should read Models. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Smiling Changed my LifeBut my smile is super fucked up. My upper lip hangs down and covers my top teeth unless i tuck it in. And I can't get the tuck right in case I'm in front of a mirror. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Senior in high school, last prom this Saturday! Help me out here!Take MDMA. Both of you. Plan shit. Try to get on a party bus and go have dinner with other couples Don't forget the fuckin corsage HAVE FUN! Don't get to caught up in try TOO hard. Dance with her Dress well. Make sure your outfit matches her dress and fits properly Make sure you have something to do afterwards. Afterparty, or one of your places to have sex. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to tell a quick story about last nightKeep it up, but remember numbers aren't everything. In fact many times they mean nothing at all. Next time, try asking her out then and there. Instead of simply getting her number, make an arrangement as well. Say something like, "Hey I really I enjoyed this, how about coffee on Wednesday at 6?" And then get her number. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls give mixed messages? How are you supposed to know what they are thinking?Well, tell her then! "I'd love to just be your friend, but frankly I'm too busy to really maintain a friendship with so much going on right now." | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:34 AM |
| 2 | How can I accomplish my goals without becoming a prick?Don't believe that you'd be a prick? That's simply it. If there's a certain way you want to do things then you've got to be firm and clear about it. It doesn't make you prick if your honest and you know what you want. BUT, know that you can't please everyone. Not everyone will like you. Don't expect to leave every woman you encounter better than when you found her. Some people may actually dislike you. But that's ok because you're two different types of people looking for two different things. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:29 AM |
| 5 | Tips on being more vulnerable and honest?I believe it is the most important thing. Being vulnerable, open and honest will get you laid more than any routine you try or facade you put on. I want to say there's really not much to it and it is exactly what it sounds like but I know this doesn't come easy for some people. To be vulnerable you really have to be willing to remove your shell, lower your guard, and abandon your ego. You have to be able to say what you are thinking, whatever is on your mind and be willing to be different and re… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:24 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/14/15Models is the only book you ever need to read. Models will prep you for field work. It's not like "The Game" it's not a story book. It has practical advice. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Question From Models by Mark MansonShort answer: No. Long answer: Well according to Mark Manson's school of thought, the content of the conversation doesn't matter so long as it is genuine and evokes vulnerability. She could be talking about her fathers fishing trip last week and that doesn't mean you should write her off then and there just because sex isn't on the foreground of the conversation. What's more important is that you really listen to to her, be interested, as her questions. Seduction is an emotional process; it's al… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 09:38 AM |
| 7 | The next time she says...I WAS ON ACID SORRY GUYS | /r/seduction | 03/03/15 02:09 AM |
| 0 | How to Pick Up Girls (A Guide by Girls for Boys - from VICE): "Most of our very first PUA experiences were smuggling our way into a club with a fake ID just so some Julian Assange-looking weasel-in-a-waistcoat could tell us he can read palms."I kind of agreed with the whole diss on PUA. I don't really buy it. I prefer to follow the Mark Manson school of thought. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 10:04 AM |
| 4 | Yik Yak Pickup advice (I actually want to try this)Naa... this is a joke. But more importantly it sounds like you want to use tricks, short cuts and indirect approaches. Think about what you're trying to do. Lets suppose this was serious: You are trying to get a girl to think good by texting something that would suggest you're a good person and then you would use that as an opening to hangout or go on a date with her. That's just dishonest, needy. Instead I think you're better off with a direct and honest approach. If you're going to text her ju… | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 09:35 AM |
| 53 | Is it bad to admit to a girl you haven't had sex in a long time?Although there's nothing wrong with being honest I don't think you should use your infrequent sex life to prove you're not a player. You shouldn't have to prove anything to her actually. If she's callin you a player and you're not then just do what ya gotta do. Behave like she doesn't know what she's talking about, and she doesn't. Agree and amplify. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 08:46 AM |
| 21 | In one short sentence, sum up the most important tip you've learned to succeed in the art of seduction.Be ready to make yourself vulnerable on any level, at any time, with anyone. | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 08:31 AM |
| 2 | What are the PUA or coaches you follow?RSD Tyler got me to get out. Mark Manson got me to work. | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!UCSD | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!San Diego | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so damn hard?You need to realize we all get rejected a lot. Keep going, you have to weed out a lot of incompatible girls. Mark Manson says that 90% of all women we are interested in will reject us and the only difference between a guy who has no game and a guy who has game is 1/100 vs 8/100. So the guy with game gets 8 times more women but at the end of the day its still a 90%+ failure rate | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Date ideas?Check up on Groupon and see what you have got going on in your area. I did dance lessons on my last date and thought that was really cool. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 05:06 PM |
| 8 | What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't?6'3" and buff? Let me guess, white too? I'm done, nothing else matters. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How would you approach a girl at a festival?You realize how easy it is to be friendly with people, to talk to people, to come together in unity. At EDC your confidence is at an all time high. You experience a complete dissolution of fear. You're no longer afraid of people or anything for that matter. You can act on your thoughts and desires. If I had to summarize it in song Lyrics: "I'm not afraid to take a stand, everybody come take my hand" -Eminem | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 04:23 AM |
| 3 | How would you approach a girl at a festival?Amazing. It changed my life and the way I look at things. | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 01:53 AM |
| 8 | How would you approach a girl at a festival?There's really nothing to it. I went to EDC this year and realized that approaching girls at a music festival or anywhere really isn't a big deal. Just do it and you'll know what I mean. Anything goes, just make the approach. If you really can't think of what to say ask them what music they like, who they're going to see next, their plans for the night/day, where they're from, how they decided who to come with, etc. Ask anything. If she's in a group with guys or girls, still make the approach. T… | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 03:06 PM |
| 2 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsI've pretty much been following the fake it, till you make it school of thought. I'm still unsure about how to go about faking it the right way. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 05:10 PM |
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